Rejected by One Narcissist Only to Find Another | Ivana Trump Case Analysis

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  • This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Ivana Trump?
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  • @valerie241
    @valerie241 Рік тому +364

    Being Eastern European myself I can kind of understand her. She left communism for a better life....and she did rather well for herself. Better than most.

    • @leonieromanes7265
      @leonieromanes7265 Рік тому

      And now she's buried in a golf course. 😒⛳️

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Рік тому +25

      Valeria, she was a smart mail order bride. its tons of eastern european that are trying the same thing to move to either canada, the US or germany those are the key nations they emigrate to ( besides the UK of course )

    • @mariamiliotis
      @mariamiliotis Рік тому +26

      I think she got lucky. She was at the right time at the right place the night she met Donald

    • @mariamiliotis
      @mariamiliotis Рік тому +22

      And Donald was at the age where he was looking for a wife to settle down and start a family.

    • @ninachkah13
      @ninachkah13 Рік тому +27

      Same here. My parents along with me, at 4 yrs old, defected from the USSR. The strength, preservence and courage that they had from the moment they made that choice to leave to this very day is something not many people possess. They continue to work towards success and happiness and quite literally live their best lives (not like an IG pic of a pretty cappuccino... I'm talking about the real thing) They are kind humble and don't take anything for granted even 32 years later. It's easy to judge others especially when they are in the spotlight, but imo when you experience a life with day to day oppression and are finally freed, there is no shame in aiming as high as you can.

  • @eddue12345
    @eddue12345 Рік тому +3

    I love Dr.Grande's sarcastic humor the he delivers with the most serious and no-nonsense face! 😂🤣

  • @Hiker2110
    @Hiker2110 Рік тому +68

    Those were tough times, but that pizza was great.
    🤣🤣🤣
    Your ability to deliver lines like that with a straight face is a gift to us all.

  • @tnekkc
    @tnekkc Рік тому +155

    I remember when 60 minutes showed up on Ivana and Donald's NYC apartment door for a hit piece. They invited the film crews in and Ivana took one film crew and Donald took the other. Ivana turned the negative interview positive. I would never have divorced such a good woman.

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому

      Donald Trump is not known for making good decisions

    • @tnekkc
      @tnekkc Рік тому

      @@tiffanyeyoung1800 He is a capitalist. All his decisions look bad to a communist.

    • @tiffanyeyoung1800
      @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому

      @@tnekkc Interesting coming from the fact that he's buddies with two dangerous Communist leaders

    • @tnekkc
      @tnekkc Рік тому +4

      @@tiffanyeyoung1800 I have been known to associate with a democrat...it's ok.... I am still a man.

    • @gil8132
      @gil8132 Рік тому

      WOW I BEEN MISS A LOT BECUSE DRGS WE ART IN A BIG MAST

  • @oldgeezerproductions
    @oldgeezerproductions Рік тому +426

    I love those little 'funnies' that you stick in your monologue without warning. I also like that, while highly amusing, they are not so subtle that they are beyond my limited sophistication. Thanks.

  • @kenn1936
    @kenn1936 Рік тому +184

    I really liked Ivana. She was extremely funny, and did not hold back!! That was her character. RIP Ivana.

    • @aliceinchains4345
      @aliceinchains4345 Рік тому +12

      I really liked her too! She was very intelligent & worked hard. It saddens me that she has passed on, she’s definitely missed. RIP Ivana

    • @Swnsasy
      @Swnsasy Рік тому +3

      I did as well.. I actually feel bad for Donald though. With the father that he had, he had no choice but to be what he is....

    • @kenn1936
      @kenn1936 Рік тому +8

      @@aliceinchains4345 She was, there is a story that when she left a hotel that she had managed for years, the staff cried. I can believe it.

    • @kenn1936
      @kenn1936 Рік тому +2

      @@Swnsasy I don't know much about his father except he was a property developer/owner, and was very wealthy. Before he kept so close to Ivana, she must have been very special to him.

    • @Swnsasy
      @Swnsasy Рік тому +1

      @@kenn1936 There are DOZENS of documentaries on his grandfather and father.. The most disgusting, low down, horrific racist and vile men.. I also read both of Mary Trumps books.. If you have Netflix, type in his name and you'll see the few docs on the family.. It's just sad the way his father treated him.. Now I can tell you from actually SEEING and hearing, his father called him a failure, stupid numerous times on freaking television!!!

  • @dg2517
    @dg2517 Рік тому +11

    "Nobody wanted to hear about her children in 2017 just like they dont want to hear about them now." ROFLMAO.. OMG..LOL. too funny!

  • @laentidaddesconocida
    @laentidaddesconocida Рік тому +74

    Item #6 stuck in my mind forever.
    Dr. Grande: “When two individuals with narcissistic characteristics are married, they teach each other bad habits.” 😂
    In other words, two wrongs don’t make one right.
    I love that statement! 👏

  • @BariumCobaltNitrog3n
    @BariumCobaltNitrog3n Рік тому +424

    If you haven't noticed, check out the facial expression of Dr. G. when he says, "only speculating..." it is the ultimate non-verbal disclaimer. I really love his subtle (and obvious) humor and asides.

    • @GhettoBank
      @GhettoBank Рік тому +12

      Yep me too

    • @drunkensquirrel7545
      @drunkensquirrel7545 Рік тому +13

      Oh yeah! It's especially funny when I listen with earbuds on & fall into paroxysmal laughter... the looks I get can almost make me fall over.
      Oh well, I am only a simple DrunkenSuirrel. 👍🏽💯

    • @j.t.1086
      @j.t.1086 Рік тому +11

      Legit funniest channel I watch

    • @pcastromedina
      @pcastromedina Рік тому +5

      I noticed

    • @Melinda8162
      @Melinda8162 Рік тому +7

      Also seems he’s a left-winger!

  • @kittycapricious
    @kittycapricious Рік тому +72

    I saw the first part of the title and thought, "uh oh he's talking about my romantic relationships" 😄 My narcissistic exes were all dirt poor though. Ivana did at least get wealth along with trauma.

    • @lazerfocusedstriver9960
      @lazerfocusedstriver9960 Рік тому +7

      ANEN!! I met TWO.
      One was poor ( I had to give him $ 200.00 for his water Bill 💵); and, the other was worth close to $ 25 Million. It is a lot better to put up with nonsense when the INDIVIDUAL is Wealthy 🤑🤑💰🤑.

    • @canterburytail2294
      @canterburytail2294 Рік тому +7

      @@lazerfocusedstriver9960 So true! Unless.... the narcissistic behavior becomes stalker- like too. Imagine a billionaire narcissist stalking you, it would be so hard to escape from all their minions and friends in high places.

    • @lazerfocusedstriver9960
      @lazerfocusedstriver9960 Рік тому +2

      @@canterburytail2294 NOW, that would definitely be a total nightmare!!

  • @pamspurgers3578
    @pamspurgers3578 Рік тому +38

    Thank you, Dr. G. I've always enjoyed stories on Ivana. People tend to discount her accomplishments but she was an interesting woman.

  • @poodlegirl55
    @poodlegirl55 Рік тому +102

    She alone raised the three children and that after she divorced the Donald she had successful businesses and made tons of QVC millions. She was actually more of a successful business person than DT. She also negotiated the use of Mar a lago for one month a year in her divorce settlement which is probably why she was comfortable having her wedding there.

    • @deborahflynn1708
      @deborahflynn1708 Рік тому +3

      she is also buried there

    • @poodlegirl55
      @poodlegirl55 Рік тому +11

      @@deborahflynn1708 she was buried at the golf course in N J

    • @amber40494
      @amber40494 Рік тому +10

      Too bad she didn't get completely away from the D. She didn't need him at all. She was a beautiful smart woman.

    • @deborahxavier1851
      @deborahxavier1851 Рік тому +7

      @@poodlegirl55 unbelievable. I was trying to move to that cow town in NJ the taxes was too high. I move to Florida. Lord I didn't know he would come here too

    • @serendpity3478
      @serendpity3478 Рік тому

      Just about everyone in the media spent 4 years talking about how shit his kids were so if she raised them isn't that at least equally her fault?

  • @barfymann362
    @barfymann362 Рік тому +85

    1.2 Million Subscribers Dr. Grande! We've come such a long way. Much luck to you.

  • @reachingcoldmountainbeforeyou
    @reachingcoldmountainbeforeyou Рік тому +39

    You hit the nail on the head with Ivana having been an athlete and physical educator not wanting to admit physical defeat. As a soldier, your body is EVERYTHING. If it doesn't work, you're NOTHING. They say they leave no one behind. It's not True, physical maladies in another person is terrifying because you're afraid it will happen to you. And you'd rather DIE than not be 100% sound physically.

    • @l-train7876
      @l-train7876 Рік тому +3

      You’re clearly not an old person. Things change when both your body and brain start to decline.

    • @EmmaSuprema888
      @EmmaSuprema888 Рік тому +5

      It seems the not-admitting-defeat attitude is an attribute aqcuired by trauma. My mom and aunt were twin sisters, their childhood was really harsh. Especially my aunt would shame others who needed medical attention, or help of any kind. She died because of her untreated health problems, she continuously refused help. The soldier analogy is great. She had to be like a soldier growing up in a dirt poor, overly religous family. She broke all the rules and ended up leaving the country to live life the way she wanted to. Worked for all her money and wouldn't accept defeat of any kind. But the lack of self-care in the end is what caused her multiple organ system failure at 67. That's trauma for sure.

    • @l-train7876
      @l-train7876 Рік тому +3

      @@EmmaSuprema888 while I’m sure she experienced trauma, what you describe sounds like stubbornness and pride.

    • @pladimir_vutin
      @pladimir_vutin Рік тому

      yeah they tell u not to leave anyone behind only to treat you worse than dogs when u get back home?
      interesting

    • @reachingcoldmountainbeforeyou
      @reachingcoldmountainbeforeyou Рік тому

      @@l-train7876 It's the same thing, not trauma really, just the Facts of how human beings FEEL and react.

  • @vikingrobot4179
    @vikingrobot4179 Рік тому +92

    Sad story.
    I think we sometimes confuse narcissism for stubbornness and denial of age or ailments.
    I know my mom is very much like this….she’s just stubborn and keeps going like an energizer bunny despite pain from age and surgeries.

    • @tanyabriggs8969
      @tanyabriggs8969 Рік тому +18

      100%. We might not agree with elderly's reasoning...but we need to be careful we do not fall into "AGEISM". Treating them as children or unable is something many elderly resent. Many become stubborn BECAUSE they feel they are less valued or a burden. Many times the last thing they have is control of their body and home. Now that I am retired as a RN...last thing I want is some whippersnapper telling me what I should do medically or safety wise even if I know it is unsafe to climb a ladder to fix a gutter. When you can't do it...then you simply can't do it. Just sayin...offer help but let them make the decisions as long as your able to. IF a family member says don't call 911 and let them die...tell them maybe they won't die and you don't want to go to jail for elder abuse. Then leave them to think about it. WORKS.

    • @vikingrobot4179
      @vikingrobot4179 Рік тому +4

      @@tanyabriggs8969
      Yeah funny you
      Mention this ….I am literally texting back and forth with my brother about our game plan for mom as he body is falling apart but she’s Sharp as a tack.
      Unfortunately our siblings that live near her are worthless so I’m probably going to bring her to my place in Georgia
      Where I’m prepared for many
      More years of this great reset crap.
      I’ve been prepping since I was 21y/O and now I’m 51.

    • @janetroberts5140
      @janetroberts5140 Рік тому +9

      @@tanyabriggs8969 I'm a retired RN who cared for my Mom for 6+ years in her home. It was handicap accessible and she spent 4 years on her own, though I lived within a mile and came to check on her often and called frequently. She loved her independence! She had a old motorized wheelchair and watered her plants. We have arthritis in the family and she knew her limitations. She didn't drive anymore and I did grocery runs and we'd do meals together. I was working at night away from home 83 miles round trip. We'd chat on the phone on my way home! Fortunately Mom never had any broken bones. She was a very intelligent woman and I was with her till the end. It doesn't work out for every one, empathy was on my side. Tanya Briggs, I enjoyed all your comments!

    • @Rose-oq2hn
      @Rose-oq2hn Рік тому +3

      That’s not narcissism lol

    • @dorcaskerr6384
      @dorcaskerr6384 Рік тому +3

      My thoughts exactly!

  • @Watcher6868
    @Watcher6868 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for your brilliant brain Dr. Grande and your witty sense of humor.

  • @auroram5853
    @auroram5853 Рік тому +136

    I love your videos, Dr. Grande. You’re a great speaker; very matter of fact, with a blend of sophistication and the ability to reach the layperson. It’s always a pleasure to listen to you share your knowledge and your take on things.
    Keep up the awesome work.

  • @Angelgrinder1
    @Angelgrinder1 Рік тому +10

    It's always a magical experience when Dr Grandini analyzes people, while sprinkling in his witty comedic subcommentary. He is clearly the wizard of counseling...and the one we really need here on UA-cam.

  • @awfulknauffl
    @awfulknauffl Рік тому +15

    Gotta tell you, Dr. Todd, I'm loving your wry wit & dryly humorous remarks in some of your more recent vids! Sometimes they catch me off guard, but they do make me lol.😆 All the best!

  • @Profile907
    @Profile907 Рік тому +76

    What a much needed release tonight before going to bed. I love listening to Dr Grande’s humor with his analysis. Much needed laughs! Thank you!

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Рік тому +1

      Tricia, well Chica, Linda Noche !

  • @tiffanyeyoung1800
    @tiffanyeyoung1800 Рік тому +23

    One thing that I do respect about her, is that she took steps to get away from the country. Plus, she's always been smart about her businesses. She was every bit Trump's equal.
    Not surprised that the marriage to the younger man. She should've learned that from her ex husband.

  • @dugdugi2296
    @dugdugi2296 Рік тому +29

    If the The Office show was still onair. i would definitely recomend you to write an episode. Your humor is too good. 😂

    • @Shelly-lz9tm
      @Shelly-lz9tm Рік тому +2

      Called sarcasm

    • @marymckay9426
      @marymckay9426 Рік тому

      @@Shelly-lz9tm ….and very, very funny too! 😂

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +1

      @@Shelly-lz9tm Sarcasm used to be known as "the lowest form of wit". Nowadays it's thought of as the _only_ form of wit.

  • @randomrebecka6778
    @randomrebecka6778 Рік тому +94

    I wish I could give you about 100 more thumbs up for your comedy quips on this one lol love it

  • @teena4rl211
    @teena4rl211 Рік тому +2

    I'm not sure what I enjoy more, his analyses or humorous quips!

  • @01splitpea
    @01splitpea Рік тому +100

    Well done, Doctor Grande. You've got the humor down to a fine art.

  • @mritzs5142
    @mritzs5142 Рік тому +4

    The shirt rocks DrG the jokes are 🔥 on this one, especially her divorce settlement, and you're the best combination of knowledge and humor on UA-cam

  • @lindaswanson7211
    @lindaswanson7211 Рік тому +7

    You are hilarious!! Thankyou for wrapping humor in with your dry wit. Makes a difficult subject much more tolerable.

  • @mikehuff9793
    @mikehuff9793 Рік тому +8

    The hardest working man on UA-cam!!! Hands down the most content pumped out with zero devaluation. Quantity AND quality!!!
    Edit: two or three projects a day and we ain’t seen the same shirt twice 🤣❤️

  • @woasaywhat
    @woasaywhat Рік тому +58

    HI DR GRANDE ❤️ thank you for posting yet again, I love to listen to you at bed time. Your voice is so soothing!

  • @smadude48
    @smadude48 Рік тому +129

    Is trump a narcissist? This is news to me. I never would have guessed. Always seemed like such a humble altruistic guy 🙃

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 Рік тому +11

      😆😬

    • @katalac
      @katalac Рік тому +11

      😂

    • @janapinson8665
      @janapinson8665 Рік тому +9

      😂

    • @Hey___you
      @Hey___you Рік тому +29

      He's certainly peculiar, but he sure turned out to be an excellent president.

    • @cappy2282
      @cappy2282 Рік тому

      Trump is a confident, positive and crude New York businessman who managed to raise many doting (and successful) children.
      Meanwhile Biden son is currently smoking crack cocaine with ladies of the night

  • @brebre514
    @brebre514 Рік тому +4

    Oh the good doctor outdid himself in this one!!! Love it!!! ❤

  • @goddess_watching
    @goddess_watching Рік тому +13

    I used to live in Prague, the capital of Czech Republic. This country is former Czechoslovakia which used to be communist until 1990. This is relatively recent, meaning that CZ has been independant since 32 years only, as of day.
    Based on my personal experience as an expatriate in CZ (Czech Republic), and comparing this to other countries in Europe, Asia and North America where I lived in too (not only traveled to) - I still observed a high level of poverty outside the capital Prague, an attitude of scarcity that others might take away something from them, envy observing others having more than they do themselves, and a lack of awareness and acceptance of people of color and generally, of everyone and everything that looks different from the Czech stereotypes.
    I assume this is largely due to the former communist regime. All in all, people appear to be traumatized by the communist regime and as a coping mechanism, would sacrifice everything to never be poor and manipulated again and to be as wealthy as possible and to be validated by others as much as possible.
    This is something I observed in Ivana, in her children and in a lot of elderly people in CZ. Some are indeed not like that, and there are also a lot of Czech people who are welcoming, open-minded, curious and warm, especially the younger generations. Also, Prague as a city, has become more innovative and with an excellent infrastructure, and has been a magnet for expats like me.
    Nevertheless, it's important to address the elephant in the room: Yes, people still feel traumatized by their communist past and can sometimes suffer from their underlying need, to never ever be poor, looked down uppn, inferior etc. again. I feel that Ivana was striving for this until her late days, maybe also generating an NPD - but I am not here to diagnose that and also unable to do that. Just wanted to throw this cultural and historical fact in here, as for us Europeans, our culture has a big impact on our identity. Yes, Ivana has lived in the US for many years, but she did still spent her childhood and teenage years in CZ, still speaks Czech.

  • @charlotte_stevens
    @charlotte_stevens Рік тому +20

    I love your channel, Dr. G! Your voice is so soothing and it's part of my night time routine to listen to your content. If I fall asleep, I go back and replay your videos. I get a kick out of your little "digs" - you are very skilled at keeping your voice and face deadpan and could easily be missed if not familiar with your personality and style. 🥰

  • @archipiratta
    @archipiratta Рік тому +50

    Thanks doc! Your analysis really was as intriguing as a firetruck that quenches flames and hunger 🤣🤣

    • @Nephthys-ness
      @Nephthys-ness Рік тому

      While not quenching a desire to hear about the kids; as that need indeed has never existed~ then or now 🙄 Dr. G, rocks this vid 😅

  • @lol365
    @lol365 Рік тому +2

    I really liked Ivana. She had a warm, open hearted personality and was very intelligent. I think Dr. Grande nailed it about her athletic history being the reason she would not accept physical limitations. Rest In Peace, gallant lady.

  • @catalhuyuk7
    @catalhuyuk7 Рік тому +43

    I would love to hear Dr. Grande question/critique himself. That would be entertaining.
    Love your humour Dr. G.

    • @g3synth205
      @g3synth205 Рік тому +2

      I read in the comments here that he has done that before, but I've not seen it if such a video exists. I'm not sure what search term to use either to find it.

    • @moonstruck562
      @moonstruck562 Рік тому +4

      @@g3synth205 yes he has. He did his famous OCEAN analysis on himself :) unfortunately I don't remember the title of the video. Might be one of his special episodes he did whenever he reached a 100k + subscribers mark.

    • @tanyabriggs8969
      @tanyabriggs8969 Рік тому +4

      YES, Dr. Grande needs to go back to class and sit and critique himself...as well as let the other students do the same. We all have to do it early on...but think he should do so again IMHO. WHY did he find the need to do this video so soon after Ivana's death...and shortly after the Trump Mar a lago raid that he mentioned? I can think of 1 reason. A need to capitalize on the headlines...be damn the children and grandchild that will likely get this video sent to them during their mourning. DR. should have waited a long time IF EVER...to make this video public. Shame on all praising him for this bad professional manner.

    • @catalhuyuk7
      @catalhuyuk7 Рік тому +2

      @@tanyabriggs8969
      That’s not what I had in mind at all but you made some valid points.
      I knew nothing about Ivana prior to this video except that she was married to Donald.
      Dr. Grande does critique people who are currently in the news otherwise people simply move on to the next crisis.

    • @Kat-I-am3333
      @Kat-I-am3333 Рік тому +1

      its all scripted, making the 'good' doctor part of the club. why the brick wall behind him? ive heard others accuse him of way worse... 🤨

  • @jeaninelombardo8907
    @jeaninelombardo8907 Рік тому +25

    Dr grande, you are getting more and more humorous . Love your analyses

  • @JennyoftheNorth
    @JennyoftheNorth Рік тому +42

    My mother navigated her staircase until she died at 93, despite having some sort of stiffness in her leg. It was good for her. I don't think wanting to incorporate exercise into your daily life, at any age, is 'narcissistic', and climbing stairs is a GREAT way to do that. I actually think it's a good idea. Use it or loose it. Having said that, accidents can happen to anyone at any time.

    • @zanzah_
      @zanzah_ Рік тому +10

      You forget Ivana was drunk most of the time.....

    • @JennyoftheNorth
      @JennyoftheNorth Рік тому +6

      @@zanzah_ that's a good point zanzah. I didn't think about that. I might have reconsidered if my mom was a drinker.

    • @alice_rabbit8345
      @alice_rabbit8345 Рік тому +7

      My grandmother lived on the 7 floor in an apartment building without an elevator. She lived to be 90 and went up and down the stairs every day.

    • @aloowalia2849
      @aloowalia2849 Рік тому

      @@alice_rabbit8345 how did she pass away

    • @susanmann5286
      @susanmann5286 9 місяців тому

      @@aloowalia2849 She fell down the stairs.

  • @cheerychum7875
    @cheerychum7875 Рік тому +1

    Your sly comic relief is why I still watch you. I found you while researching Narcissistic Personality Disorder but stayed for your interesting topics, witty humor, as well as your professional opinion. Thank you Dr. Grande. 👏😊

  • @estelle9414
    @estelle9414 Рік тому +48

    This is one of the best videos yet that you've done. On so many levels, I think you captured the essence of a narcissistic relationship, the long term consequences, the danger of actually appropriating narcissistic characteristics (or having them in the first place) and the dynamics of the family and spouses afterward. Love it, love your humor!! Thanks, Dr. Grande.

  • @aprilduwe8846
    @aprilduwe8846 Рік тому +17

    Donald Trump is a man that cares about American and He worked so hard to make are country great again. He has alot of good trait. Everyone has narcissist traits.

  • @catherinecarella2928
    @catherinecarella2928 Рік тому +48

    She was alone and lonely. She let a gigolo take advantage of her. She got co-dependent with him, and when he died, her purpose for living died also. She was blind to who he really was to her.

    • @Stefanie3
      @Stefanie3 Рік тому +11

      Do you know that he took advantage of her, or is this just your interpretation?

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Рік тому +13

      Are you saying she was not smart enough to know what she was doing when she married the giggalo? Was took advantage of. I Don't buy that ! Women are as smart and cunning as any man.

    • @dominiquerzee
      @dominiquerzee Рік тому

      @@Stefanie3 she accused him of marital rape. His response wasn’t ‘no
      I didn’t do that” but instead, “ you can’t rape your spouse”

    • @dominiquerzee
      @dominiquerzee Рік тому

      @@ratdad48 she accused him of marital rape. His response wasn’t ‘no
      I didn’t do that” but instead, “ you can’t rape your spouse”

    • @maryrose7712
      @maryrose7712 Рік тому +3

      @@ratdad48 Yep

  • @Brandilyn24
    @Brandilyn24 Рік тому +2

    OMG "But if I stop smoking why do I need a fire truck?" You're killing me Dr. Grande LOL

  • @chrisl6875
    @chrisl6875 Рік тому +2

    I live for his subtle sarcasm.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Рік тому +34

    Definitely interesting. I always appreciateGrande’s videos. I like learning about the psychology of these people, all of them.

  • @elizabethhamm5320
    @elizabethhamm5320 Рік тому +65

    So sad. Her children tried to give her an alert device but she didn’t want to wear it. They were the ones who were truly looking out for her. Her 2nd husband/ boy toy certainly wasn’t.

    • @ContentMadame
      @ContentMadame Рік тому +5

      Third husband.

    • @joanofarcxxi
      @joanofarcxxi Рік тому +6

      He was dead.

    • @sararivz668
      @sararivz668 Рік тому +8

      He’d passed away before she died.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Рік тому +5

      her kids could have moved closer , they have ample means. a cow bell ring is disrespectful and frankly she should have downscaled a decade ago. too many injuries as we get older , big ass apartments are a health hazard

    • @heidilopez8875
      @heidilopez8875 Рік тому +6

      @@PHlophe no that's not disrespectful. Even if your kids live with you, you can still fall and get hurt. Oh smart watches are great alternative. My friend's mom wears one and she fell while he was at work. He send help to her.

  • @dakrontu
    @dakrontu Рік тому +5

    This had me laughing. Such wonderful dead-pan understated humour.

  • @heidiheidi0
    @heidiheidi0 Рік тому +66

    I knew some people who (allegedly) knew Ivana Trump or worked for Ivana Trump. All they say is that she was very high maintenance. I think she was a bit of a narcissist herself, having used her ex husband to gain Austrian citizenship. But she was probably not on the same extreme of the scale as Trump was.

    • @katalac
      @katalac Рік тому +14

      I think you may be right..that sounds similar to what I have heard 🤔

    • @isimioyekunlemarktaiwo3643
      @isimioyekunlemarktaiwo3643 Рік тому +11

      If all she did was advantage of men because of status then she is an extreme narcissistic..let's not try and dump down her behaviour..the only reason we deem it less is because people take women that do this as normal, as "female nature"

    • @Juke582
      @Juke582 Рік тому +1

      They were an awesome family though! Until she rejected his cheating.

    • @rammsterdamm020
      @rammsterdamm020 Рік тому +2

      @@isimioyekunlemarktaiwo3643 She was, like Melania, from a (former) communist country in Eastern Europe. Any chance to escape a communist country was considered an option, work, sports, arts or marriage.

    • @eeeriebrilliance
      @eeeriebrilliance Рік тому +3

      @@Juke582
      Only in public. I can only imagine what went on behind closed doors...

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 Рік тому +25

    This assessment is spot on! I was hoping you would cover this case, glad you did it.🙂
    Thank you, Dr. Grande!❤️

  • @claudiacamama3623
    @claudiacamama3623 Рік тому +16

    I always look forward to your videos, Dr. Grande you are amazing….. keep it coming.

  • @missshroom5512
    @missshroom5512 Рік тому +2

    This was good Dr. grande 💐

  • @conniechloe53
    @conniechloe53 Рік тому +1

    Outstanding analysis. I didn't realize that narcissistic traits could rub off one person to another, but this really deepens my understanding of her death. She was a lovely woman in her youth.

  • @koreenal5056
    @koreenal5056 Рік тому +13

    Always so excited to click on your channel and find a new analysis!!!

  • @terryowen6759
    @terryowen6759 Рік тому +150

    I would have loved more analysis in regards to that burial plot on the golf course. It's just a hole in the ground with a plain flat stone...even the flowers were insufficient? Even If it were a mausoleum, the fact her final resting place is on a Golf Course...just shameful and sad

    • @blondespitfire
      @blondespitfire Рік тому

      A lot of people are saying that some of the Gov classified documents Trump stole are buried in Ivanna’s empty ⚰️, since she was cremated. Numerous pall bearer’s were apparently needed to carry that empty ⚰️!

    • @joanneblack7697
      @joanneblack7697 Рік тому +63

      @Terry Owen, cemeteries are exempt from property tax. Just one interment turns the golf course into a "cemetery". Truly a despicable way to treat Ivana.

    • @QueenOfTheNorth65
      @QueenOfTheNorth65 Рік тому +24

      I agree. So sad and disrespectful.

    • @ladymonacoofthebluepacific2571
      @ladymonacoofthebluepacific2571 Рік тому +21

      Apparently her kids are ok with it.

    • @rammsterdamm020
      @rammsterdamm020 Рік тому +19

      A grave takes a while to build. A headstone alone can take months. If they go for grandiosity, even longer. Only her children may know what she wanted for a final resting place.
      And if a grave can be tax deductable, go right ahead. She was a businesswoman too, she'd understand.
      It's not like she's burried at one of the holes.

  • @MAINECOONLADY
    @MAINECOONLADY Рік тому +2

    YIKES, DOC! You were brutal in this one about Ivana & The Donald.

  • @ellentravers7889
    @ellentravers7889 11 місяців тому

    I love the wry face Dr. Grande made when uttering Ivana's title, "Vice President for Interior Design."

  • @dissidentfairy4264
    @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +65

    I felt bad when I heard about what happened to her, and it must be very sad for her 96-year-old mother who has out lived her.. "She was not going to let a set of stairs reduce her standing." Was that a joke? lol

    • @Annenigmatic
      @Annenigmatic Рік тому +17

      He also mentioned her...."downfall"

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe Рік тому +15

      Dang ! i had no idea Ivana still had a living mom.the lesson here is that when you reach age 65 . you need to downscale. no stairs inside the house . one door in/out . her kids failed her too

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +5

      @@Annenigmatic Let's not forget the "killer stairs" lol.

    • @anastasiyabksi1281
      @anastasiyabksi1281 Рік тому +2

      Omg 😱 how terrible! Didn’t know that, very tragic

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +7

      @@PHlophe I feel bad for her children too. It's very difficult to lose your mother and no one should have to go through the pain of losing a child at any age let alone at 96. Also, her mother's longevity shows that Ivana had many good years left had it not been for that tragic fall. I read that she was planning to go on an exotic vacation. Looks like her destination changed. (sigh) As far as blaming her kids, I get what you are saying but I don't feel that we can. I think Ivana was strong-willed and independent. I doubt anyone could have convinced her to move. One of her closest friends said she tried to persuade her to move on several occasions but to no avail. She refused to leave. Her friend said that the stairs were extra steep and scary. Part of me wondered if she could have been pushed. I doubt it but you never know. I'm not talking about family. I was thinking maybe it was a hit (no pun intended) based on an enemy of Trump.

  • @2509498788
    @2509498788 Рік тому +12

    Well thank you for the information about this woman.. I was not aware of all this information. thank you

  • @theodorapriska9860
    @theodorapriska9860 Рік тому

    I love the ways in which your channel have changed. Your humor is delightful. Your take down of Life Coaches is my very very favorite. Congrats to you, you’ve found your voice.

  • @infinitejest441
    @infinitejest441 Рік тому +1

    Your analysis is dead on Dr Grande. Always a pleasure to watch. 14:50

  • @Thorboy156
    @Thorboy156 Рік тому +6

    You hit the nail right on the head on this one. Loved your comments about Trump. Could not be closer to the truth.

    • @patriotwife3920
      @patriotwife3920 Рік тому

      I love POTUS Trump! ❤️ 🇺🇸

    • @Thorboy156
      @Thorboy156 Рік тому +1

      @@patriotwife3920 you and too many others unfortunately. One day those that drank the kook aid will wake up. Hopefully it won’t be too late.

  • @edramirez1240
    @edramirez1240 Рік тому +65

    Don’t want to be a hater, but she could have purchased her own burial plot or mausoleum instead of being buried behind a sand trap.

    • @katalac
      @katalac Рік тому +1

      People like her don't ever expect to die

    • @edramirez1240
      @edramirez1240 Рік тому

      @@katalac She got the plot as part of her divorce settlement. The Donald set it up cemetery in order to get a tax break. The whole matter is totally ridiculous.

    • @THE-id1by
      @THE-id1by Рік тому +16

      What's worse she had a sizeable estate and he used her money to bury her there. He gets his tax dodge and it costs him nothing. Win. Win.

    • @dokskwyr4353
      @dokskwyr4353 Рік тому +14

      The sand trap was her ex-husband's idea, not hers.

    • @edramirez1240
      @edramirez1240 Рік тому

      She had enough money to make her final arrangements and have a proper burial. Otherwise, golfers will play through right on top of her thanks to the ex.

  • @CaseyRhyneXoXo
    @CaseyRhyneXoXo 9 місяців тому

    Well done! This video might just be my favorite out of all of Dr. Grande's fabulous videos!!

  • @lindapiper9171
    @lindapiper9171 Рік тому +1

    It's been a tough day thanks for cracking me up..you never fail.

  • @docdoctme
    @docdoctme Рік тому +4

    Very good analysis Doctor. Thanks for sharing your talent.

  • @J..a..y
    @J..a..y Рік тому +13

    love ur Channel Dr.! I look forward to your daily videos.👍

  • @PonziZombieKiller
    @PonziZombieKiller Рік тому +1

    I really enjoyed the analysis. One of my favorites. Thanks

  • @thenarcissistanalyst
    @thenarcissistanalyst Рік тому +2

    Your analysis is always impeccable, and your humor always makes me chuckle. 😊😊

    • @bobs182
      @bobs182 Рік тому

      I have dry humor which usually doesn't work which makes me wonder how people in his life take him.

  • @velmawingfield655
    @velmawingfield655 Рік тому +6

    Great interesting video. Love your sense of humor 😀

  • @lancel71
    @lancel71 Рік тому +14

    "Not having to be married to Donald Trump, that's gotta be worth another 10-15 million dollars" I almost spit my coffee across the kitchen!!

    • @laprincessa9787
      @laprincessa9787 Рік тому +1

      Good lord, I thought I was the only one who heard that! 👌😁🤣

    • @canterburytail2294
      @canterburytail2294 Рік тому

      In her first autobiography she had some terrible claims about the Donald, e.i. he rapped her while married. Sorry about the extra p but UA-cam has become very picky about certain words and I suspect that might be one of them.

    • @canterburytail2294
      @canterburytail2294 Рік тому

      Oops, that was meant for Robert above you, sorry.

    • @laprincessa9787
      @laprincessa9787 Рік тому

      @@canterburytail2294 oh my lord. I actually hope their babies didn't hear about that. That's awful no matter who you are.

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande.

  • @frisk151
    @frisk151 8 місяців тому

    Your humor is world class, Doc!

  • @girl4spidey
    @girl4spidey Рік тому +11

    I collect your videos thru the week then binge watch/listen while doing chores.

    • @VOCALCHEMY
      @VOCALCHEMY Рік тому +1

      Love it 😊

    • @VOCALCHEMY
      @VOCALCHEMY Рік тому +1

      Shield 🛡️ of narcissism 💯🖤🖤♂️🐈‍⬛🪞🌹😍🤣🤣😅😁

  • @happycalimama354
    @happycalimama354 Рік тому +43

    To survive that many years with a narcissist, you have to be an extremely strong person, especially if children are involved. I think she was a lot stronger and smarter than she got credit for, and also a very beautiful person loving mother.

    • @anastasiyabksi1281
      @anastasiyabksi1281 Рік тому +7

      All Slavic women are very strong and have very very tough but traditional values, I think this helped her a lot when dealing with being with a man that was constantly cheating on her and raising three children and staying with him for over 15 years

  • @donnaroberts9119
    @donnaroberts9119 Рік тому +10

    Sigh, I believe Donald might have been a platform to jump from but I see her as a shrewd businesswoman and not part of his narcissism.

  • @ReedRosson1987
    @ReedRosson1987 Рік тому

    Excellent video, Dr. Grande! Keep up the good work, sir.

  • @pearl0705
    @pearl0705 Рік тому +6

    The kids threw her stuff out into a garbage truck like she meant nothing to them. He buried on field so he can get tax breaks...this is why you should marry for love and not money. So even after death you're treated with respect and love from your family. They treated her like she was nothing...

    • @eyespy0070
      @eyespy0070 Рік тому +2

      Where did you hear that her kids threw everything onto a garbage truck?
      Those things could have been sold at an auction and the money given to charity.
      Everything she owned was extremely expensive. Wow

  • @deedk
    @deedk Рік тому +9

    Hey Doc! Great one!

  • @valerieclifton3902
    @valerieclifton3902 Рік тому

    Most informative analysis I have read or listened to yet. Thank you.

  • @JessicaSantos-gb8ht
    @JessicaSantos-gb8ht Рік тому +2

    Wow! Fascinating evaluation!

  • @briangarrow448
    @briangarrow448 Рік тому +10

    I looked up the word hubris in the dictionary and there was a photo of Donald Trump in the description.

  • @pinkvivi9345
    @pinkvivi9345 Рік тому +4

    Dr Grande is part of my self care routine.

  • @NastazyaPhylipovnaTchornaya

    You are a deeply kind person Dr. Grande.

  • @straymusic
    @straymusic 10 місяців тому

    At 14:00 "may have led to her down......fall....."
    I see what you did there. Bravo!

  • @LadyLexaRae
    @LadyLexaRae Рік тому +5

    “Legendary Narcissist” had me dying 😂

  • @hauntedbearchild
    @hauntedbearchild Рік тому +27

    Looks to me like Ivana and Donald were not very different. Both extremely extroverted and living their own way. She DID have an elevator in her home. Others used it because they were afraid of the stairs, she would make fun of them for doing so.

    • @katalac
      @katalac Рік тому +5

      You're right

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 Рік тому +2

      That’s just crazy. Wow, just wow

    • @sweetd097
      @sweetd097 Рік тому +1

      having nice stuff has nothing to do with being a narcissist

  • @carmelasowens7303
    @carmelasowens7303 Рік тому

    Dr Grande, I've watched a load of your videos (even the early ones)and this was my favorite. I also appreciate your brand of humor.
    MVTO!

  • @jdk5379
    @jdk5379 Рік тому +1

    You’re a hoot, Dr. Grande! Love your dry delivery…Thank You! Lol

  • @janetlynne3508
    @janetlynne3508 Рік тому +19

    Love this analysis! Dr Grande, I also love your dry, and well focused humor!

  • @drewnealski969
    @drewnealski969 Рік тому +10

    “In addition, she no longer had to be married to Donald Trump, which has to be worth at least another $10-$15M “ … I’m dying on that one. In addition to brilliance, Dr. G brings some of the best low key shade on social media. I live for it.

  • @rachelmansoor8323
    @rachelmansoor8323 Рік тому +1

    You crack me up with his pizza delivery service idea 😂🚒👍

  • @gregevans6044
    @gregevans6044 Рік тому

    Good as always, Doc. Thanks!

  • @keysaysassah
    @keysaysassah Рік тому +15

    As a German speaker, I 100% understand how she accidentally said ‘the Donald’

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Рік тому +2

      Behringer , Bosch, Blaupunkt??

    • @Ella-rx2vm
      @Ella-rx2vm Рік тому

      Yeah, I wonder if it's the same in Czech or whether she picked this up in Austria? It's much used in Austrian German, so I tend to think that she picked it up here ;)

  • @luciafidalgo296
    @luciafidalgo296 Рік тому +52

    Thank you Dr Grande. She really did try to be her own person in the face of the such horrible narcissism. As you said, it took it's toll even after death. How could her children have allowed her to be buried on a golf course?

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Рік тому +7

      Maybe she had a plot already picked out! Duh! And I'm about positive it's not in the middle of the fairway!! Yikes!😣

    • @craykanne
      @craykanne Рік тому +11

      Couldn't pass up the tax breaks.

    • @ContentMadame
      @ContentMadame Рік тому

      @@ratdad48 A freaking GOLF COURSE in NEW JERSEY is not a place ANYONE wants to be buried. I hope she haunts him into the grave, and better sooner than later.

    • @kaihuang4970
      @kaihuang4970 Рік тому +8

      Her first marriage was for Austrian citizenship. Doesn't that tell you who she is? What makes you think Ivana was some wonderful parent behind closed doors?

    • @minirock000
      @minirock000 Рік тому

      She tried to be her own person but wasn't above selling herself to do it. I do have to give her credit, with such an extreme quantity of "butter face" she fucked her way to the top quite successfully.
      Her children, having such poor contributors to their genes, are just like her and willing to screw the dead to make a buck.

  • @theelephantintheroom69
    @theelephantintheroom69 Рік тому +2

    "This is not compatible with being alive" is my favorite quote from Dr Grande (from another video I commented on)

  • @wickster2121
    @wickster2121 Рік тому

    I love the subtle snark. top notch best part of my day as always!

  • @lindaouellette6656
    @lindaouellette6656 Рік тому +42

    WHAT!!!! The Donald Lied about his wife??? I don’t believe it, and he always pays his bills too….lol.

  • @cindyriikola7760
    @cindyriikola7760 Рік тому +3

    Love the cacti in the background and your sense of humor!

  • @jchow5966
    @jchow5966 Рік тому

    Thank ypi for another fascinating episode.

  • @Golden-Eagle781
    @Golden-Eagle781 Рік тому +2

    Donald Trump and Ivana are great. They don't deserve to be called narcissists. They are certainly unique, but demonstrated love to others in practical ways. Bizarre but beautiful people.