Absoeffinglutely! she is a typical selfish, snowflake of a narc. Likely spoiled and coddled to death by her family. Makes me so mad, he seems to love her very much and was likely smelling something which made him look at her phone. She should have nothing to hide anyway.
I immediately thought why is she getting the dog. Knowing that she was alone while he was traveling for work. She was having an inappropriate relationship and that's why she feels unsafe. I wonder if she didn't expect him to come and needed to tell the "friend" to not come over.
Even bigger red flag is her making it seem like he is an unsafe and violent partner . That’s the biggest betrayal of all. If he never hurt her as he claims, her cheating is second place to her making him into a monster . She’s a narcissist. Run
Honestly, if I were him, I would be getting my stuff out of the place and breaking up with her immediately! She makes me so angry! She will never face up to her responsibilities, and take accountability!😡
I agree with this situation but the world isn't black & white. I get very defensive when people accuse me of something that isn't true. I lived in a horrible place with horrible people growing up. I get so defensive when someone even says I feel something that I don't feel or think etc.
I get defensive when ppl are accusing me of bs I didn't do. And not just accusing it's actually BELIEVING their own accusations and not listening or believing what I say. It's frustrating and annoying.
It's the gaslighting and victim mentality for me. And for her to bring her sister into it, her sister knew what was going on. She's ballsy enough to claim danger and potentially put her husband in a bad position versus having the guts to tell him her box has been passed around like an offering plate at church.
Some of us have gone our whole life without finding a soulmate & a loyalty like this man has for his wife. It disgusts me how cavalier she is about that bond. Wait until you’re older, love, you’ll regret throwing away a true & honest mate. Karma is coming for you, sis! 😩
Just the way she's acting tells me she's 100% hiding something. You're right about going through someone's phone. If you have to the trust is already gone.
Me and my late fiancé didn’t have a lock on either of our phones. Absolutely nothing to hide. It was comforting NOT to have to be concerned with infidelity. RIP my sweet Glenn 🙏🏻🥲🕊️
Hes valid for asking for reassurance in a respectful way and explaining why he wanted to see it for clarification. She's way overdoing it and everyone can see through it, I hope she doesn't lose her day job cuz acting isn't an option
“You’ve known me for 11 years you know I would never put my hands on you” “I do not believe you”. It’s obvious she’s doing smth sneaky if she rlly says she doesn’t believe you wouldn’t put hands on her after her 11 years..as a women it’s disgusting to see how these kinds of people treat the “love of their live”.🤦🏽♀️
An ex friend of mine was cheating and when her fiancee was about to discover the affair she suddenly claimed he's abusive... she even tried making me a witness 😒 girl we can't associate with a mess
@@deesseducoeur101I was truly disgusted. That man never even raised his voice. He was just confronting her about her lies not adding up. She turned around later and tried saying he grabbed her arm and he was verbally abusive. I told people what really happened and she accused me of sleeping with him 🙄 some women are crazy
@@deesseducoeur101that’s not rare at all actually- I’ve seen PLENTY OF WOMEN /girls blatantly lie on a partner or a man that’s never even touched them sexually/physically/generally in Anyway just to get him in trouble
I cut ties with a friend that tried to get me to go along with her game and justify cheating on her husband. I’m like nah get right with god, don’t call me anymore.
She knew the text was inappropriate and didn’t know how he’d react so trying to kick him out avoided him finding her out but gave herself away more. Played victim to her sister.
She may have not said anything wrong to her male friend , but he may have said something she knows her husband won’t approve of . But for her to pretend that she feels unsafe is uncalled for . Especially if everything he said is true .
😂 This is why I left my ex husband. 😂 It’s the gaslighting and hiding the phone for me. No thanks. I’d rather be single and keep my peace. Good luck with the new girlfriend. She deserves you and ALL that comes with being with you.
I know how this feels. My ex cheated and told me about it while we were at a college party with friends. So when I got mad and yelled, she told everyone I was abusive even though I never did anything to her… only years later she apologized… this dude handled it way better than me-he didn’t even raise his voice… nevertheless, run bro
If my man was feeling a certain way and asked to see my phone, I'd hand him my phone. It's respect, and nothing would be on it TO hide!!! Poor guy knows it's over..
So if she is unfaithful then that is one thing. The fact she went to make it look like he was going to physically abuse her & then he felt scared he might go to jail over a lie she made up is what I have a problem with. So yes cheating isn't a good idea, but making up false incriminating things is far worse. Also yes, her & the male friend going on hike together alone with their dogs is common sense inappropriate. Let's be for real.
If my girlfriend is spending time with another man, you're gonna have to make me feel comfortable about that "friendship". As a man, I know what men think and I know how men feel. I'm not saying men and women can't be friends. But I am saying that the moment a man thinks he can get it from his female friend, he will try. It's not her job to make him feel secure, but if she's making him feel insecure, it's time to go.
Exactly. And if you're not guilty or hiding anything, you will go out of.your way to show that this friend is not a threat & you are faithful. I still don't like the idea of hanging out alone with just the opposite gender. In a group setting, for sure! But that's just me. Because I know damn well that I wouldn't feel comfortable with my man hanging out alone with another female. I did that in my last relationship, and the inevitable happened. Go figure. Lol
@@asiahill3241maybe it’s the choices u made clearly it was the man bc the one u have now would never clearly sometimes it’s the person not the situation
Poor guy. He needs to let her go asap! He can do so much better. Seems like a stand-up guy. And he's not bad looking. Dude, you can get a real woman who won't cheat; that's completely honest with you and one who you can trust. Praying for you and your situation.
Everything you said about girls guys friends is SPOT ON ‼️‼️ It happened to me, i had 2 guy friends throw 10+, 20+ years of friendship away for crossing that line. My heart still hurts just thinking about it. She's for the streets, she doesn't respect him. RUN
She flipped the script! Rather than owning up and apologize she betrays him even more. 11years that’s sad. It’s not worth it -I don’t know why people cheat. 😢especially when you have children and said vows. Really sad she did turned around on him. She is a untrustworthy and shady person!!! Sucks when you find out you devoted your life to someone like this.
Her body language is horrible, I can’t stand it. She is guilty as hell and before she admits that, she would rather paint that man as abusive and a threat to her physical being even though clearly, all the cursing she is doing, she is not afraid. She really turned on a man she has been with for 11 years, turned into a totally different person, scary. If he takes her back, he would be out of his rabbit a s s mind.
She’s trying to get out that door so she can delete those messages then come back in and act like she’s feeling secure again then pass him the phone. She wants to walk the dogs she’s definitely letting that male friend dog walk that vajayjay. Sirrrr runnnnn as fast as you can.
It makes it look even worse at the fact that she’s trying to hide something or that she’s plotting something against him by implying are you there and over again that she doesn’t feel safe and saying that he could get violent… She’s plotting something against this man. I hope he runs and runs fast
She's setting up grounds for divorce or to have him arrested. So glad he immediately left. He should never go back. She can't be trusted! And, she definitely was buying time by walking the dog. She needed to delete those texts!
This is so sad. He seems like a real sweet guy. He did the right thing to leave. Keep going and don't look back. She's obviously up to no good. I hate saying so but the signs are clear. ♥️🙏
So-called good people can paint themselves in a corner by being a passive-aggressive shallow person so if he don't date people darker than him because she is dark skin he painted himself into a corner market and that's his fault as well.
@raymondecho Skin color has nothing to do in this instance. Wrong is wrong. She did him dirty. If he chose a light skin woman that's his preference and there's nothing wrong with that.
My phone was dead and there was this amazing sunset/rainbow/magic happening outside, so I asked my partner if I could use his phone real quick to take a picture before it faded. He paused, said "...Yyyyess let me just go to the bathroom real quick.." and literally took his phone into the bathroom with him for the next 5 minutes, before he came out and tried to hand me his phone 😐😐 I was like No, I'm good. And he actually got mad at me and was like Why not?? The thought hadn't even crossed my mind before that moment that there was anything shady in his phone.
I have done that before when I cheated. 🤷🏼♀️ she 100% did... She is going outside to delete everything. There's no doubt in my mind. Leave sis, don't drag it out to hurt your husband, marriage doesn't always work out, but playing him is not fair.. you both will be happier in the end... The guy I cheated with... I've been with 10 years now and two kids..
Why not just break up if you knew you were going to cheat on them ,you better don't act surprised when you loose him how you got him ,cheaters are pathetically, selfish,cowards honestly.
Same here! People love to say there’s no trust if your husband/wife asks to see your phone lol, that in itself is suspicious. My husband can unlock my phone at anytime, just don’t touch my Candy Soda Crush lol
@user-wp7gr8pf8c Yea, that's silly. I love reassuring people so I don't mind. Trust is earned not just given and a wife/husband looking through their spouses phone is not a red flag depending on how they go about it.
Not like this dude just wanted to play candy crush, he already accused decided she was up to no good. Nothing good can come from that you'll prolly be all up in my files n Google searches lol
I'm a married woman and my phone completely broke last week and I need one for work so my husband immediately handed his phone to me and I used it 2 days. We have no issue at all swapping phones. We have each other's passwords to everything. Married couples do not hide anything from each other.
A long-distance marriage would never work. Let's keep it real. Its nice that he tried , but we all know how it ends every time. Who knows if he was even being loyal himself 🤷♀️ I'll never trust or know the full story.
OK!! My comment has nothing to do with this video so I’m apologizing now. But I always wanted to tell you this. When they say never judge a book by it’s cover, NEVER!!! I never expected this to be your personality at all. And this is not being said in a bad way at all because honestly I just love everything about you down to your voice, music and reaction videos. What I’m trying to say is, at the beginning when you first started and the way you would be on live, not saying a word 😂, I just didn’t think that you were this person that we see now. Keep writing music and doing what you love to do, because honestly you’re really good at it❤
I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that she's probably already "replaced" him and that's why she didn't care if he leaves.. In fact it's almost like she is trying to find a reason for him to go because she's already checked out.
Idk the full situation here. But based off of what I've seen so far..... someone who acts like he does, is usually the one projecting their dishonest guilt on their partner. So I'm not sure whom to believe. I think they both have issues. Toxicity at it's finest. Break it off.
Poor guy. He is very cute and he deserves better. He will find the right woman who is actual loyal and won’t treat someone like that. Sometimes it’s better to learn it sooner then later. 11 years sucks to waste but anymore would be worse so it’s good to consider that time saved and be thankful and make sure the next person isn’t the same type of person.
I have male friends. I am female. One of them is like a brother to me since I've known him since I was 11. That all being said, that male friend isn't just a friend. I was married and would gladly have given my phone off asked but there was no need bc there's never been anything other than family/friend. This is shady af. I feel so bad for him. He doesn't seem to deserve it (we never know) but i hope he keeps away from her. She's no good.
Ppl who use the “I’m uncomfortable” bs to get out of a unfavorable situation are gas lighting and the stress isn’t worth it. LEAVE now. It’s about to be cuffing season trust me someone will swoop you up 😂
I’d tell her it’s time for a divorce if she’s acting “ scared “ when in fact she’s cheating and using this as an excuse, she is 👨 the situation, my hubby and I use each other’s phones without issue, sometimes he needs help with something, I have his pw, vice versa, this marriage is over from what I see.
It was easy to hand the phone to him. Once he’s done looking at the message(s) and find no malice in the texts, we’d have a conversation about what sparked his curiosity about what I’m texting. Because she didn’t hand the phone to him, she’s concealing messages that deem inappropriate.
I patiently wait for these notifications! Thanks for these! I rock with your music, just off strength! I even have my man invested in the messiness 😂! Love ya bro
She’s TRIFLING for playing the unsafe card. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 Why would you let him come ALL THE WAY THERE??!!! It would have been better if you just broke it off over the phone/video.
How do you just fall out of love like that? I know feelings change but you don't stop caring for & loving them unless there's contempt, & that doesn't just happen overnight for no reason.
Agree. But he needs some work too. Peeking over her shoulder when she's on the phone, recording her when she won't let him see it. He's showing a few flags himself. On his end if he truly loves and respects her then he needs to just have an open and honest convo with her. I know getting cheated on hurts but let's figure out where we fell off I'm not demanding anything from you and I'm not gonna trip either. Just talk to me and lmk where you're at so we can figure out if you're not happy anymore. Then it's a different discussion. I don't need to see your phone for that.
I don’t like people going through my phone cause I’m all about privacy and people come to me with a lot of stuff they don’t want people to know about. Not everyone is cheating, but I believe something is up with her lol. She was doing to much.
First 1 to comment wow. I just got done watching the fails one from yesterday and then got new video. Ive never been 1st to comment 😂😂 she is guilty 💯%
Both my parents have never hidden their phones from each other infac neither of them have any passwords and can go Through each other's phone without a fuss, this whole we're in a relationship but I can't let you see what on my phone has always seemed weird to me, especially if the relationship is like years old.
She’s shady, she’s gaslighting him big time and trying to make herself a victim already and he hasn’t even raised his voice. She lying!
100%
Absoeffinglutely! she is a typical selfish, snowflake of a narc. Likely spoiled and coddled to death by her family. Makes me so mad, he seems to love her very much and was likely smelling something which made him look at her phone. She should have nothing to hide anyway.
As a woman, if I didn’t feel safe, then I wouldn’t feel like I had enough time to get the dog ready to take on a walk. She feels safe.
I immediately thought why is she getting the dog. Knowing that she was alone while he was traveling for work. She was having an inappropriate relationship and that's why she feels unsafe. I wonder if she didn't expect him to come and needed to tell the "friend" to not come over.
Exactly! Eff the dog, she's definitely messing up.
💯 That’s exactly what I thought
Yes, Becky/Karen feels safe and she’s going to make him feel like his life is in danger. White is right though, right?
@@JustJ-Mehe looks like older version of blueface
Even bigger red flag is her making it seem like he is an unsafe and violent partner . That’s the biggest betrayal of all. If he never hurt her as he claims, her cheating is second place to her making him into a monster . She’s a narcissist. Run
I agree!
Honestly, if I were him, I would be getting my stuff out of the place and breaking up with her immediately! She makes me so angry! She will never face up to her responsibilities, and take accountability!😡
𝑬𝒙𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒍𝒚!
I agree that is wrong as hell bc she's cheating that's why she won't show him period
I came here to say this! I don’t believe for one min this man is physically abusive and she left quickly to delete lots of messages 😂
The way the dog was looking like he didn't feel safe with her😂😂😂
😂 omg now that you said that
I bet you $100000 she sleeping with the dog too
She "didnt feel safe" because she knew she was cheating and up to no good. SMH
Plus, she knew she was being recorded, so she verbally said “she didn’t feel safe”, so people who are watching the video thinks that he’s an abuser. 😑
She's definitely cheating on him
Period! And she think she’s so smart! She doesn’t realize how stupid she is. I hope she sees these messages.
The only thing that wasnt safe is their relationship status! 😂
Her husband is ethnic. She’s very well putting his life in danger with these accusations.
You know that's their Go To. He's Abusive BS
All the time
Was thinking the same. 🥴
She knows exactly what she was doing.
Ethnic women are far more psychotic not even close. Everyone has the internet we see what's up
The fact that she won't look at him in his eyes says all you need to know
Dead Giveaway 🧐
Major and only flag needed to run! 🏃🏽♀️
Damn 😢
She is SO guilty. It’s never worth it. Cheaters are just cowards.
When you call out someone and they are immediately defensive that tells you all you need to know GUILTY!
EXACTLY 💯
I agree with this situation but the world isn't black & white. I get very defensive when people accuse me of something that isn't true. I lived in a horrible place with horrible people growing up. I get so defensive when someone even says I feel something that I don't feel or think etc.
I get defensive when ppl are accusing me of bs I didn't do. And not just accusing it's actually BELIEVING their own accusations and not listening or believing what I say. It's frustrating and annoying.
@@bluijay4204
Getting defensive for abused ppl like me is like a survival mode where I can prepare myself for fight
That’s a generalization
It's the gaslighting and victim mentality for me. And for her to bring her sister into it, her sister knew what was going on. She's ballsy enough to claim danger and potentially put her husband in a bad position versus having the guts to tell him her box has been passed around like an offering plate at church.
Hell of an analogy! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Giiiirrrrl… bahahahaaa! 😂
🤣🤣🤣
💀 😂😂
She’s wrong. If you’re married, your husband is your best friend. ❤ he comes first before any man.
Facts. As soon as she said guy friend, automatic divorce. I know that's a boundary of mine.
Not all husbands are best friends, some are abusive or decided to randomly one day murder their wife just because they feel like it....
Some of us have gone our whole life without finding a soulmate & a loyalty like this man has for his wife. It disgusts me how cavalier she is about that bond. Wait until you’re older, love, you’ll regret throwing away a true & honest mate. Karma is coming for you, sis! 😩
Omg yesssss!!
This!!!
Just the way she's acting tells me she's 100% hiding something. You're right about going through someone's phone. If you have to the trust is already gone.
She's hiding a drug addiction, bet.
Me and my late fiancé didn’t have a lock on either of our phones. Absolutely nothing to hide. It was comforting NOT to have to be concerned with infidelity. RIP my sweet Glenn 🙏🏻🥲🕊️
She's clearly going to delete the messages while walking her dog.... That's her only way out is to leave.
💯💯
Still can be subpoena back in court, nothing is never deleted
Facts! Sneaky b*tch. 😂
Like it’s so late that your sister is in bed.. but you need to go walk the dog?! Its not safe outside either 🤣
Hes valid for asking for reassurance in a respectful way and explaining why he wanted to see it for clarification. She's way overdoing it and everyone can see through it, I hope she doesn't lose her day job cuz acting isn't an option
I Agree
“You’ve known me for 11 years you know I would never put my hands on you” “I do not believe you”. It’s obvious she’s doing smth sneaky if she rlly says she doesn’t believe you wouldn’t put hands on her after her 11 years..as a women it’s disgusting to see how these kinds of people treat the “love of their live”.🤦🏽♀️
@@ThelmaSky1992 geez sorry that happened I hope your doing better atleast now💜
@@ThelmaSky1992 that’s beautiful I’m glad your better now luv😊
An ex friend of mine was cheating and when her fiancee was about to discover the affair she suddenly claimed he's abusive... she even tried making me a witness 😒 girl we can't associate with a mess
@@deesseducoeur101I was truly disgusted. That man never even raised his voice. He was just confronting her about her lies not adding up. She turned around later and tried saying he grabbed her arm and he was verbally abusive. I told people what really happened and she accused me of sleeping with him 🙄 some women are crazy
@@deesseducoeur101that’s not rare at all actually- I’ve seen PLENTY OF WOMEN /girls blatantly lie on a partner or a man that’s never even touched them sexually/physically/generally in Anyway just to get him in trouble
@Phatse that is very sad so the reap victims who are raped and abused will not be saved abs trustee. Shs
@Phatse that is very sad so the reap victims who are raped and abused will not be saved abs trustee. Shs
I cut ties with a friend that tried to get me to go along with her game and justify cheating on her husband. I’m like nah get right with god, don’t call me anymore.
and the sister BEEN knew what was up. GUARANTEED
FACTS!! Bet sister met dude too. Foul asf!!!
@@breasimons2469 and I'm sure she already advocated for her to leave her husband for him too. Big ole YEP
She knew the text was inappropriate and didn’t know how he’d react so trying to kick him out avoided him finding her out but gave herself away more. Played victim to her sister.
She may have not said anything wrong to her male friend , but he may have said something she knows her husband won’t approve of . But for her to pretend that she feels unsafe is uncalled for . Especially if everything he said is true .
Idk if it was just on the guys end I dont think she'd go this far. But then again idk her *shrug emoji*
Lol accountability because I bet he still talk to her in that manner and she ain't stopping it
Make your husband feel like you are not safe around him to hide a male friends inappropriateness is wild.
No because the husband said the messages he saw looked thirsty on her end
@@andriataylor4758wild asf!!!!
When he’s not around, she’s just not married. That’s terrible.
I Agree
He needs to get in the car and head straight to the court house and Divorce the F outta her!
😂 This is why I left my ex husband. 😂 It’s the gaslighting and hiding the phone for me. No thanks. I’d rather be single and keep my peace. Good luck with the new girlfriend. She deserves you and ALL that comes with being with you.
I know how this feels. My ex cheated and told me about it while we were at a college party with friends. So when I got mad and yelled, she told everyone I was abusive even though I never did anything to her… only years later she apologized… this dude handled it way better than me-he didn’t even raise his voice… nevertheless, run bro
I may accept the apology for the cheating but not the false accusation
Every day I hear about a messy relationship 😂😂😂
It's peaceful being a rejected 😂
True, rejections are protections in a Halloween costume.
@subconsciousclarity1702 😂😂 yes
They wildn out here😂
Feelin good bring single 🎉
Most the good ones are taken lol
Yesssss
Facts 😂😂😂
If my man was feeling a certain way and asked to see my phone, I'd hand him my phone. It's respect, and nothing would be on it TO hide!!! Poor guy knows it's over..
She about to go delete all them messages on her unnecessary dog walk. Lol. Watch her come back in like “Fine you can see my phone” . 😩
So if she is unfaithful then that is one thing. The fact she went to make it look like he was going to physically abuse her & then he felt scared he might go to jail over a lie she made up is what I have a problem with. So yes cheating isn't a good idea, but making up false incriminating things is far worse. Also yes, her & the male friend going on hike together alone with their dogs is common sense inappropriate. Let's be for real.
If my girlfriend is spending time with another man, you're gonna have to make me feel comfortable about that "friendship". As a man, I know what men think and I know how men feel. I'm not saying men and women can't be friends. But I am saying that the moment a man thinks he can get it from his female friend, he will try. It's not her job to make him feel secure, but if she's making him feel insecure, it's time to go.
Exactly. And if you're not guilty or hiding anything, you will go out of.your way to show that this friend is not a threat & you are faithful. I still don't like the idea of hanging out alone with just the opposite gender. In a group setting, for sure! But that's just me.
Because I know damn well that I wouldn't feel comfortable with my man hanging out alone with another female. I did that in my last relationship, and the inevitable happened. Go figure. Lol
@@asiahill3241 I agree 100%!
Agreed. If the so-called male friend is putting that much energy into her it is for a reason. He wants to smash!
That’s very true! The only time a many won’t try his “home girl” is if he’s gay asf or he thinks she’s ugly and not his type.
@@asiahill3241maybe it’s the choices u made clearly it was the man bc the one u have now would never clearly sometimes it’s the person not the situation
She cheating for sure bro 😂
Man this breaks my heart . How can ppl be so evil ? Karma and God please work faster 😭🙏🏾🙏🏾
Poor guy. He needs to let her go asap! He can do so much better. Seems like a stand-up guy. And he's not bad looking. Dude, you can get a real woman who won't cheat; that's completely honest with you and one who you can trust. Praying for you and your situation.
Everything you said about girls guys friends is SPOT ON ‼️‼️ It happened to me, i had 2 guy friends throw 10+, 20+ years of friendship away for crossing that line. My heart still hurts just thinking about it. She's for the streets, she doesn't respect him. RUN
We're the ones that are always saying that and y'all women be in denial. We know men. Men are about conquest and they'll take another man's girl
She flipped the script! Rather than owning up and apologize she betrays him even more. 11years that’s sad. It’s not worth it -I don’t know why people cheat. 😢especially when you have children and said vows. Really sad she did turned around on him. She is a untrustworthy and shady person!!! Sucks when you find out you devoted your life to someone like this.
If there was a threat, the dog would sense it. The dog would bark at him🤦🏽 she's evil!! Even when he confronted her, he kept his composure. EVIL 😈
Her body language is horrible, I can’t stand it. She is guilty as hell and before she admits that, she would rather paint that man as abusive and a threat to her physical being even though clearly, all the cursing she is doing, she is not afraid. She really turned on a man she has been with for 11 years, turned into a totally different person, scary.
If he takes her back, he would be out of his rabbit a s s mind.
Wow, she’s deflecting and gaslighting him.
She’s trying to get out that door so she can delete those messages then come back in and act like she’s feeling secure again then pass him the phone. She wants to walk the dogs she’s definitely letting that male friend dog walk that vajayjay. Sirrrr runnnnn as fast as you can.
It makes it look even worse at the fact that she’s trying to hide something or that she’s plotting something against him by implying are you there and over again that she doesn’t feel safe and saying that he could get violent… She’s plotting something against this man. I hope he runs and runs fast
She's setting up grounds for divorce or to have him arrested. So glad he immediately left. He should never go back. She can't be trusted! And, she definitely was buying time by walking the dog. She needed to delete those texts!
I love how "need to call my sister" is actually her way of destroying all texts between her & dude. 😅😅
Those dogs have definitely seen that "friend" slap some cheeks on the hiking trail. Definitely. 😂😂
This is so sad. He seems like a real sweet guy. He did the right thing to leave. Keep going and don't look back. She's obviously up to no good. I hate saying so but the signs are clear. ♥️🙏
I Agree. He can do better
So-called good people can paint themselves in a corner by being a passive-aggressive shallow person so if he don't date people darker than him because she is dark skin he painted himself into a corner market and that's his fault as well.
@raymondecho Skin color has nothing to do in this instance. Wrong is wrong. She did him dirty. If he chose a light skin woman that's his preference and there's nothing wrong with that.
My phone was dead and there was this amazing sunset/rainbow/magic happening outside, so I asked my partner if I could use his phone real quick to take a picture before it faded. He paused, said "...Yyyyess let me just go to the bathroom real quick.." and literally took his phone into the bathroom with him for the next 5 minutes, before he came out and tried to hand me his phone 😐😐 I was like No, I'm good. And he actually got mad at me and was like Why not??
The thought hadn't even crossed my mind before that moment that there was anything shady in his phone.
LMAO you naive AF
She's obviously a manipulator. Her acting scared bc he wants to see the context of the texts with her guy friend is scheming!!!!
I have done that before when I cheated. 🤷🏼♀️ she 100% did... She is going outside to delete everything. There's no doubt in my mind.
Leave sis, don't drag it out to hurt your husband, marriage doesn't always work out, but playing him is not fair.. you both will be happier in the end... The guy I cheated with... I've been with 10 years now and two kids..
I don't understand the mindset of cheating. Its gross.
Why not just break up if you knew you were going to cheat on them ,you better don't act surprised when you loose him how you got him ,cheaters are pathetically, selfish,cowards honestly.
@@opeyemiadegoke361 !
Lmaooo you always crack me up at the end “and don’t forget.. to pop yo shit STAR! 🌟 “
I started crying u can tell he wants to cry like how can you do that to a man like him!!! 😢😢
A man like him? Uuuuhm what does that mean?
Guilty. I’d never want my partner to feel insecure due to my choices that I can control making
When my husband ask for my phone I hand it over without hesitation.
Same here! People love to say there’s no trust if your husband/wife asks to see your phone lol, that in itself is suspicious. My husband can unlock my phone at anytime, just don’t touch my Candy Soda Crush lol
Facts no brainer
@user-wp7gr8pf8c Yea, that's silly. I love reassuring people so I don't mind. Trust is earned not just given and a wife/husband looking through their spouses phone is not a red flag depending on how they go about it.
Why's he asking for it though
Not like this dude just wanted to play candy crush, he already accused decided she was up to no good. Nothing good can come from that you'll prolly be all up in my files n Google searches lol
You can tell by the look on her face and the way she keeps trying to guilt trip the guy
She's guilty AF😹😹😹😹
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 if you know you know bro💀
I got left after 12 years for the guy she told me not to worry about.
Left me with nothing 😢
Dang bro, sorry to hear it. Keep your head up 😊
She was never yours and she will do the same to him, so he did you a favor 🎉
She got out that house pretty fast with that dog 🤦🏾♀️ she got something to hide.
Husband is fine... how did she get him!
Right!!
Leave herrrrrr!!!
I'm a married woman and my phone completely broke last week and I need one for work so my husband immediately handed his phone to me and I used it 2 days. We have no issue at all swapping phones. We have each other's passwords to everything. Married couples do not hide anything from each other.
She’s manipulative, she’s about to go walk those dogs and delete those Sus messages
I feel for the husband. Ive been in his spot Married 31 years and my husband cheats.... itll take timebut youll recover ❤
Should be “ex husband”
Hell yeah baby!!!! You just made my day getting this notification 😁 I F**KING LOVE YOU DERRICK!!!! ❤❤ KEEP EM COMING 😂😂😂😂
Same ❤
You can see the PAIN in this man's eyes !!
Digital Derrick once again spot on in his judgement. I like a man who can use common sense and accurately assess the situation presented.
You hit this right on the head!!
A long-distance marriage would never work. Let's keep it real. Its nice that he tried , but we all know how it ends every time. Who knows if he was even being loyal himself 🤷♀️ I'll never trust or know the full story.
Every time ?
Not always i am for 6 years in long distance relation
It depends on the person
@@janis9523 and they were together for 11 years, so you still have time to prove your point..
@@ChaiLatte64lmao
@@ChaiLatte64
I dont have to prove nothing
I just said it depends on the person
I actually heard somewhere that 80 something percent of long distant relationships fail eventually...
OK!! My comment has nothing to do with this video so I’m apologizing now. But I always wanted to tell you this. When they say never judge a book by it’s cover, NEVER!!! I never expected this to be your personality at all. And this is not being said in a bad way at all because honestly I just love everything about you down to your voice, music and reaction videos. What I’m trying to say is, at the beginning when you first started and the way you would be on live, not saying a word 😂, I just didn’t think that you were this person that we see now. Keep writing music and doing what you love to do, because honestly you’re really good at it❤
I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that she's probably already "replaced" him and that's why she didn't care if he leaves.. In fact it's almost like she is trying to find a reason for him to go because she's already checked out.
Yours is basically the only outro I'll listen to every time. Love your reactions and your voice!
Idk the full situation here. But based off of what I've seen so far..... someone who acts like he does, is usually the one projecting their dishonest guilt on their partner. So I'm not sure whom to believe. I think they both have issues. Toxicity at it's finest. Break it off.
You're the only other person who caught that 💯
No eye contact after 11 yrs of marriage 😂😂
She is fooling herself
Poor guy. He is very cute and he deserves better. He will find the right woman who is actual loyal and won’t treat someone like that. Sometimes it’s better to learn it sooner then later. 11 years sucks to waste but anymore would be worse so it’s good to consider that time saved and be thankful and make sure the next person isn’t the same type of person.
It might not even be her cheating. It might be her talking shit about him to the male friend. It’s not always like negative like that.
I have male friends. I am female. One of them is like a brother to me since I've known him since I was 11.
That all being said, that male friend isn't just a friend. I was married and would gladly have given my phone off asked but there was no need bc there's never been anything other than family/friend. This is shady af. I feel so bad for him. He doesn't seem to deserve it (we never know) but i hope he keeps away from her. She's no good.
If she was endanger due to abuse, when he said "You've known me for 11 years. I would never hit you," she would have called him out on that lie.
She gaslit him..was defensive..when you proclaim so much and when YOU have suspicion of something shady. Yep, she’s lying.
Idk I’m good on going anywhere with any man that isn’t my husband 😂
Soon as I see a video go up. I’m like 😳😳dude I love you and your vids lol
She definitely hiding something and gaslighting bro. if i was him i wouldve just snatched the phone.
Ppl who use the “I’m uncomfortable” bs to get out of a unfavorable situation are gas lighting and the stress isn’t worth it. LEAVE now. It’s about to be cuffing season trust me someone will swoop you up 😂
Well her husband looks good
I’d tell her it’s time for a divorce if she’s acting “ scared “ when in fact she’s cheating and using this as an excuse, she is 👨 the situation, my hubby and I use each other’s phones without issue, sometimes he needs help with something, I have his pw, vice versa, this marriage is over from what I see.
She's guilty af,her trying to flip the situation, is another sign
She just actually found out where she really belongs too😅😅😅😅the streets
It was easy to hand the phone to him. Once he’s done looking at the message(s) and find no malice in the texts, we’d have a conversation about what sparked his curiosity about what I’m texting. Because she didn’t hand the phone to him, she’s concealing messages that deem inappropriate.
I patiently wait for these notifications! Thanks for these! I rock with your music, just off strength! I even have my man invested in the messiness 😂! Love ya bro
That guys gonna be “OH HELLLL YEA and he’s gonna speed over to your house let’s BFFR” 🤣🤣
She’s TRIFLING for playing the unsafe card.
🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
Why would you let him come ALL THE WAY THERE??!!!
It would have been better if you just broke it off over the phone/video.
Why do people keep incriminating text threads in their phone?? I mean obviously it’s easier to not cheat but come on now. How stupid can You be😂😂
The dog just giving the side eye😭
😅😅😅😅😅
Poor dog is so uncomfortable🥲. You can see by his tail and he's not excited to go😭.
He doesn't even sound like he's hiding aggression in his tone.
How do you just fall out of love like that? I know feelings change but you don't stop caring for & loving them unless there's contempt, & that doesn't just happen overnight for no reason.
Agree. But he needs some work too. Peeking over her shoulder when she's on the phone, recording her when she won't let him see it. He's showing a few flags himself. On his end if he truly loves and respects her then he needs to just have an open and honest convo with her. I know getting cheated on hurts but let's figure out where we fell off I'm not demanding anything from you and I'm not gonna trip either. Just talk to me and lmk where you're at so we can figure out if you're not happy anymore. Then it's a different discussion. I don't need to see your phone for that.
If it was love then why didn't you stay?? Lol I miss the old outro song but this one is a banger too
She is shady! She playing that "I feel unsafe" and he is like "What????" lol She is lyin and a narcissist. She is gaslighting this man.
She’s triflin af!!!! Shady for even pulling the “I’m uncomfortable” bs haha!
I don’t like people going through my phone cause I’m all about privacy and people come to me with a lot of stuff they don’t want people to know about. Not everyone is cheating, but I believe something is up with her lol. She was doing to much.
They're married....
@@mekeo5237 I know. Did you read my comment?
First 1 to comment wow. I just got done watching the fails one from yesterday and then got new video. Ive never been 1st to comment 😂😂 she is guilty 💯%
The look on the dog before walking out, like he know she lying but cant do nothing😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
If you have to ask to see your partners text then leave. There’s zero trust. This is why I’m happily single.
The song at the end is a banger gooooo off Derrick
Both my parents have never hidden their phones from each other infac neither of them have any passwords and can go Through each other's phone without a fuss, this whole we're in a relationship but I can't let you see what on my phone has always seemed weird to me, especially if the relationship is like years old.
If her life is in danger, why walk the dog? She'd just leave
exactly!! and she was so calm, not stressed or anything
She's a terrible liar and guilty asl