Lots of guys commenting that you don't need to "play games" like this, etc. But Todd was never trying to list these as hard rules you must always follow. The point is just to notice if there's an overall PATTERN that makes you seem too eager, like you have nothing else going on, and like you care way more than she does.
High value guys do not think about texting fast or slow, we just message when we have time and sometimes we have all the time in the world sometimes we have no time but we just think that deep into it. We obviously connect with someone we will enjoy conversations with that person, if we don’t we won’t bother “gaming” her/him because we don’t lack that inside of us that we need pussy all the time to feel powerful. Hope this clears it up ❤️
LOL you ain’t “high value” if you don’t understand that everyone is playing some form of “games”… especially at the beginning. You act like “high value” dudes can’t get played too 😂😂😂 foh
This is great advice for intermediate guys. The reality is you need to be aware of dynamics like this, why they happen, and understand it's an inner and outer thing. High value guys understand this stuff happens they just aren't aware consciousky
Female here. If you like the girl then just respond when you see the message and if you're free. If you're busy then don't respond. Easy. Don't just pretend to be busy.
It doesn't matter how long you respond to a message. I know so many guys that would purposely respond late to a message because 'Todd said so' LMAO The reality is, it doesn't matter if you text a girl quickly or take time to text her, if you aren't desperate, you aren't desperate.
Yeah if she actually likes you this won't matter too much unless you're obviously needy. If she doesn't like you then ignoring her won't help your cause too much.
Yeah, in the full-length video, he emphasizes that these are not hard rules. Even in this clip, he says "USUALLY." They are just some general guidelines of what correlates to higher vs lower value texting behavior.
I feel like you need to switch it up back and forth be busy when busy and when it’s down time don’t be busy and respond and give attention when needed to build connections 😅 good luck fellas
“eagerness” “desire for interaction” “keep the conversation going” “it shows that this girl is very very important to you in your life” Uh...yeah? That would be the high value man for me. ❤
@@svenskagamernhdhej2269 maybe you mean vapid girls - they can be that way at any age from teens to elderly. On the flip side, we can also desire the deep meaning and intensity of a high value connection at any age too! 😊
I can tell alot of people misunderstood the message of the video. The point is you should never play mind and be manipulative in any way towards people but he is not telling you to manipulate people, lmfao. He is telling you to be patient, not be needy, not be desperate and be genuinely busy doing something while texting time to time. As long as you are confident and patiently text while having a respectful understanding with your woman, there shouldn't be any issues. lol. Be yourself but also have discipline. Very easy to understand.
Nah this is bullshit. What is needy is seeing a text on your phone and not texting back because you don’t want to look needy. That is needy. Be yourself authentic self and some will like you and some won’t.
Nope. No girl will sleep with a guy that’s authentic if authentic means he’s “so nice” he’d never make a move before she does. Don’t delude yourself. Game is necessary
If two people really claim to love and care for each other, texting too often too frequently shouldnt be a chore, a bore or too much. If one person thinks like that then that means that person will never be your husband, wife or your forever Move on to someone who cant wait to see you or hear from you after a long week of spending time at work and apart from each other. Hearing from each other over text shouldnt bore the person who really claims to care for you
Exactly. A genuine kind girl doesn't need us to play these games. I'm talking to a girl right now who is always sweet and kind and reached out everyone morning with a good morning text. I knew right away there was no need to play games with her and that she values respect and kindness In a man.
If a girl sees you as desperate and eager if you respond quickly to her BUT you know youre not eager and desperate youre just being a considerate person because you truly care for her… LEAVE her and dont waste any more time. The fcuk…responding quickly is not a sign of desperation its a sign of respecting someone you truly care about.
I appreciate it when a guy responds immediately. Cause then we can keep the conversation flowing. It's different if he has other things on and he takes time to respond. Either way, I have things to do at my end as well.
I say, if you're that affected by a woman and she's not responding, you need to focus on your interests period. I'd preset her as just an option nit a primary interest.
If a girl takes a day to respond to my texts everytime then l’ll just assume that shes not particularly interested in me and that I oughta just move on
If you’re Gen Z or younger anything beyond 1-2 hours is an indication of either low interest or game playing outside the exception of work. If she’s taking 3+ hours, leave.
Yeah advice should be dont beat a dead horse.. If she takes too long to respond she isnt worth lowering your pride jumping high hoops to keep the dead convo going
dates are there to talk and build connection. you need to give the girl the opportunity to miss you. only use text for setting up the next date and maybe a bit of flirty banter. don’t ask about her day etc thru text
@@Fred-zt5ky As a girl I think you hit the nail on the head! But this is mainly for people you don’t know previously. So if you r trying to move out the friend zone this is a no. But if ur a stranger it is very true! If I like u we’ll message once or twice outside of the date. If we don’t plan for a second date within that frame ur out and constant texting after is too much especially if idk u.
High value guys have their phones active with business messaging. Real estate issues/deals, stock alerts, bankers calling with loan proposals, etc...........
If you don't think hight enough of her that make you often think about her and be eager to interact with her, don't loose your time to have a relationship with her. What means a relationship if not the will to interact? You make no sense, why would you have a relation with someone you can ignore? But the other way around also, if you're not important enough to her so she can ignores you, run away...
Yep. Just have an honest conversation about when the best time is to text or talk. Respect each other’s boundaries and set aside time when you’re both free. It’s not difficult and no games are needed.
as a girl this is so stupid. i want a guy who's interested in me! if you try to hide your interest in me i'll just think you don't like me back and stop texting you. i won't like it! i dont see why any girl would disagree
I don’t follow these rules, I am dating a married chick that is being ignored by her hubby so in this case I actually put an effort to be present as much as I could, at least in the beginning.
I have a job; and I date women who also have a job. I make it clear from the beginning that I’m not going to be able to respond immediately and I don’t expect her to either. That creates a mutual understanding and shows that no one is playing games. Just be real, and you’ll be fine.
This is true! Now not saying to play games but definitely be on your purpose as a man and decide what is for you. That will naturally keep you busy ! Therefore a lot of what Todd is saying happens naturally which is good! And also being in abundance is key, don’t get too caught up with one girl. Date multiple and if you want to settle down than pick one but do not choose from scarcity.
The irony of this, is that I'm a multi-millionaire who owns several businesses and is busy as shit. the only way that I can keep up with all the stuff that I have to do on a day-to-day basis (without creating a big pile of shit that I have to deal with later) is to not only respond immediately, but also via talk-to-text, which means longer texts too. If a girl gets bugged out by that shit, she goes right to the bottom of the fucking pile 🤣
How many girls do you talk to at a time and how old are you? What age of girls are you going for? Congratulations on the success btw. Hope to be super busy myself soon
As a woman , if the guy takes time to respond I see it as him trying to show me he s not interested, not keen. No fire keeps burning this way and if he is too busy for me then I fit no where. I prefer the guy to be real. But worst thing... If he is texting multiple girls ... It puts me off entirely .
Yeah no. If you see a text and put the effort and consideration into sending a response that shows you’re interested which for me is what I’d rather have like back in the day when it was as simple as I’m feeling you and you’re telling me and we move shit around equally to spend time together. These games are what’s killing the dating scene. If you don’t see my text ok cool. But when you do 1-Say hey and give a point in time when you will be available or 2-actually respond if you have a moment. Who likes a text response every 30 minutes? There is no energy or flow in that. and if you cant ever respond bc you're such an important and "high value" man then you're basically not in the position to be dating and wasting women's time who are looking for a genuine connection.
You are right. If the girl was raised right, sweet, genuine, respectful and kind, and you know she's interested in you, we don't need to play these games.
But if you don't text frequently or daily, she can use this as a way to signal either break up or distance herself away from you by saying, you're simply are not interested or not making enough effort to maintain this relationship
Thats such BS. This dude needs to grow up. Im a woman and im super busy all the time but i always reply to texts as soon as i see them, even if its "a little busy, will reply later or asap". Im like that with guys, friends, neighbors, landlords, clients, family, new clients, bad clients, whatever. I hate not responding because if i dont respond immediately i have anxiety building up in me with every passing half hour.
God forbid you take an interest. That's kinda the point. If they aren't taking an interest back, they aren't high value enough to play this game in the first place. Unmatch.
I disagree. I respond when I see the text. If I'm interested I'll say so and text back. If she doesn't budge or isn't interested that's totally fine. You move on. Because if you on PURPOSE don't text back like some weirdo, that's not really you. You meet in person you'll still just be a loser who is playing someone else's game. Just be confident and know what you want. It's not that complicated. In the end, you want to show value, and let her see that you're not a creep, but doesn't mean you shouldn't show yourself. You're looking for a match after all.
Not true! I've NOT been a loser upon meet-up because there are techniques for face to face too. Why would you think game is limited to electronics?? I have proven this wrong
I never cared about guys but my abusive cheating partner made me become nothing but a house wife with no life and this guys that I’m trying to cheat with never messaged me first, is it my fault that I became needy? No one understands the depression, like I’m doing well with school so my only thing is men.
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If a girls into you she isn’t going to give a shit that being said don’t be a short prick but also don’t waterfall onto her. Also ask them if they want to call you later it’s so much better
I get it, I understand that the tips that you're giving work and I use them. What I don't understand why women want to text guys who are texting other women and don't have time for them. I wouldn't consider these to be high value trates. It's very odd. I think that part of the reason that most relationships fail is that women are actively seeking out men don't care about them. And when you seek out a man who doesn't care about you, that's what you get. I think it's called reaping what you sow. Thanks for the helpful tips though 😉
Normal behaviour is responding to someone, so if I ask you something you will wait hours to answer or a day ? No you respond straight away it’s called communication
Dude, todd can you still reverse game a girl if I challenged you to turn your resistance on girl to the max. So the max disqualifiers. max negs. max non chalant. Max disinterest. Max freeze out Etc...
With this guy's logic, high value men are too busy to accomplish anything, thus making them not high value if value is determined by accomplishments. Because if you're not accomplishing anything, what are you doing then? Trust me bro insanity, rise and grind nonsense.
But isn't neediness something you feel not do ? I'm been guilty about this but like we like eachother & it's been reciprocated & we both have things going on
If it's mostly reciprocated, I wouldn't worry about it too much. IMO it's mostly just something to be cautious about if you notice a pattern where you're consistently showing a lot more eagerness and enthusiasm than her.
i don't think its about high value or anything like that, over texting is just annoying for any man or women. imagine there is someone knocking at your door over and over until you answer it and they do it everyday? its just bad manners i looks despite and needy like everyday its some kind of emergency and its not. it just drains your energy. its safe to assume this person is just using you to feel better its selfish.
If you have to treat texting like you are defusing a bomb then she just isn't into you to begin with. If a woman is highly attracted to you then you can throw all these rules right out the window. Focus on the gym and less on learning "game."
i sent my crush a couple messages she won’t open them and she’s posting on her snap story and opening mine and she also stares at me whenever she can but she is keeps giving me more mixed signals nonstop what do you guys think i should do lemme know in the reply section
It's not the texting too much per se that's the problem, it's what that behavior is correlated with that is the problem. Does Elon Musk worry about how often to text a girl or make her wait 3 days or whatever? No. But he might naturally do that because he is busy. Be busy and this problem goes away.
Then I do not get what is value and who decides how valuable someone is. I thought the point is to value yourself, not to play games to make someone want you so that you feel more valuable. True value comes with understanding who you are, what you what, what you can tolerate, whom you like and strength that lets you be honest and show your feelings and then except the fact that not every person on the planet will be interested in you, but some definitely will.
🌺🌸🌺 Don't hold back guys, if you have the girl's attention - keep it! Damn there's so much competition, that, while you're dragging your ass, acting like a big shot, her attention will be diverted by the sweet genuine guy, who sweeps her off her feet - and doesn't f@#k with her head!!
If you're interested what the heck is wrong with showing interest?? Bad advice! If she's interested and your not showing interest she'll move on to someone who is interested. Why play games? As a woman, its a major red flag
As a woman this is such bad advice. If a man is high value he doesn’t play/pretend to be, he just is. At heart all we want is Simone who shows us interest, if I’m interested back I’ll give you the green light. We want momentum, constant behaviour, honestly and let the rest take its natural course.
Sad how this is what needs to be done to get a girl nowadays. Playing games to try convince a girl you are super busy and don't really care when you are both on a dating site trying to meet people ffs.
Stop studying how to ‘act’ as a high value man. Just be one. Be genuinely happy with your self. Learn new things, do what you love, invest in your mind and body. And when a woman comes along that match your vibe have a normal intellectual conversation with her if she’s meant for you things will naturally flow. This ‘acting as a high value man’ behavior is for fucboys to manipulate woman into having sex with them.. it’s not for the long term. Its childish behavior and only promotes toxicity in the relationship. Real high value men don’t care about temporary relationships and aim for the long term relationships with the intention to build a strong intimate connection together.
Yeah it’s all semantics… saying “high value” is the new “alpha male” .. it’s all bullshit, Brad Pitt doesn’t go around saying “I’m high value”.. they just are, energetically
I don't think it's worth the time to artificially delay your response. Look I don't have time for bs game time delays. Yeah don't be afraid to not respond when you busy. But when you're free just respond asap. Not because I'm worried I'm going to lose her. It's because I don't want to spend hours texting her.
@@nahumgonzalez5087 It works the exact same. with less time wasted and It can actually speed up the interaction because often it goes into back and forth exchange.
How about you actually live a half interesting life and be the kind of guy that people want to be around and then you don’t have to pretend to be busy because you actually are
Real men won’t entertain a women with games, real men don’t want a women who plays games, it’s that simple, y’all thinking too deep and you wonder why the worlds fucked up
The “high-value” guys this dude is talking about are only high value to a man’s perspective. He’s talking about guys that get tons of women (plays boys). If that’s what you’re looking for, then sure listen to his advice and be a douche. Now if you want a real connection with a real singular female who is actually into YOU, never do this.
Don’t follow these “rules” but instead become someone that causes this high-value behavior to happen naturally.
this. But also fake it till make it. People dont care if something real or not until it looks like real. They are dissappointng only if it revealed
Social scamming.. No Bueno amigo :/
You can be a high value person who just isn't good at texting girls tho
You can be a high value person who just isn't good at texting girls tho
@@johnrambo4934 Becoming a better version of yourself is social scamming?
Lots of guys commenting that you don't need to "play games" like this, etc. But Todd was never trying to list these as hard rules you must always follow. The point is just to notice if there's an overall PATTERN that makes you seem too eager, like you have nothing else going on, and like you care way more than she does.
You definitely need to play games. If you want to die a virgin just go on , be your self
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 😂”supremelordoftheuniverse5449”
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 I would say it depends on which kind of game. There are nasty games and more normal ones.
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449these guys are dumb bro the game is the whole point. She WANTS to play games, she wants to chase, just have to let her.
@@msp_-_-uk6geit’s based on the woman and her past experiences. Crazy woman need crazy entertainment
High value guys do not think about texting fast or slow, we just message when we have time and sometimes we have all the time in the world sometimes we have no time but we just think that deep into it. We obviously connect with someone we will enjoy conversations with that person, if we don’t we won’t bother “gaming” her/him because we don’t lack that inside of us that we need pussy all the time to feel powerful. Hope this clears it up ❤️
bingo
BS. Only giga chad can get away without playing games (and just because he does it anyway, despite not consciously).
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 enjoy your delusions 😉
LOL you ain’t “high value” if you don’t understand that everyone is playing some form of “games”… especially at the beginning. You act like “high value” dudes can’t get played too 😂😂😂 foh
This is great advice for intermediate guys. The reality is you need to be aware of dynamics like this, why they happen, and understand it's an inner and outer thing. High value guys understand this stuff happens they just aren't aware consciousky
Female here. If you like the girl then just respond when you see the message and if you're free. If you're busy then don't respond. Easy. Don't just pretend to be busy.
fisherman dont take advice from the fish
Exactly, this is very outdated advice
@@TheSabertax fisherman’s mother should be mad aware of his comment 🦭
You can’t trick us so please go away
Factss
Just be you, whether you respond slow or quick... If a girl likes you, she won't go anywhere...
Most won't
bro if she takes a day to respond she's not interested lol
recently had proof against this. texted a girl after a month and she replied that she was just thinking about me the night before
What if she is not online 🤔
Not always.
It doesn't matter how long you respond to a message. I know so many guys that would purposely respond late to a message because 'Todd said so' LMAO
The reality is, it doesn't matter if you text a girl quickly or take time to text her, if you aren't desperate, you aren't desperate.
Yeah if she actually likes you this won't matter too much unless you're obviously needy. If she doesn't like you then ignoring her won't help your cause too much.
Yeah, in the full-length video, he emphasizes that these are not hard rules. Even in this clip, he says "USUALLY." They are just some general guidelines of what correlates to higher vs lower value texting behavior.
And we should value your opinion over todds why...?
The biggest facts I’ve heard in my entire life
Exactly
I feel like you need to switch it up back and forth be busy when busy and when it’s down time don’t be busy and respond and give attention when needed to build connections 😅 good luck fellas
if a girl likes you, she wouldn’t be bothered by all these tricks.
“eagerness”
“desire for interaction”
“keep the conversation going”
“it shows that this girl is very very important to you in your life”
Uh...yeah? That would be the high value man for me. ❤
ofc in your 40s, like you are the thought process is different from a hot 20 y girls
@@svenskagamernhdhej2269 maybe you mean vapid girls - they can be that way at any age from teens to elderly. On the flip side, we can also desire the deep meaning and intensity of a high value connection at any age too! 😊
It's always middle aged women yapping@@svenskagamernhdhej2269
Too many games, brothers. Time to leave the states.
Women walk over weak men ANYWHERE in the world. Moving won't change anything, just make you think it did.
I can tell alot of people misunderstood the message of the video. The point is you should never play mind and be manipulative in any way towards people but he is not telling you to manipulate people, lmfao. He is telling you to be patient, not be needy, not be desperate and be genuinely busy doing something while texting time to time. As long as you are confident and patiently text while having a respectful understanding with your woman, there shouldn't be any issues. lol. Be yourself but also have discipline. Very easy to understand.
All this games are the reason there’s so much pain
Poor baby! The pain! 🍼
Yeeeees
Nah this is bullshit. What is needy is seeing a text on your phone and not texting back because you don’t want to look needy. That is needy. Be yourself authentic self and some will like you and some won’t.
Nope. No girl will sleep with a guy that’s authentic if authentic means he’s “so nice” he’d never make a move before she does. Don’t delude yourself. Game is necessary
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 No it's not lol. I know this first hand through lots of experience. Game is bullshit.
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449are you gay?
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449facts 💯
It’s needy to not look needy? Lmao 😂😂😂 bruh foh with that lame shit
If two people really claim to love and care for each other, texting too often too frequently shouldnt be a chore, a bore or too much.
If one person thinks like that then that means that person will never be your husband, wife or your forever
Move on to someone who cant wait to see you or hear from you after a long week of spending time at work and apart from each other.
Hearing from each other over text shouldnt bore the person who really claims to care for you
Thanks this helps me a lot in making a decision wether to leave or stay
I feel like most advice is for attracting avoidant women who get a lot of free attention they don’t want or need.
Exactly. A genuine kind girl doesn't need us to play these games. I'm talking to a girl right now who is always sweet and kind and reached out everyone morning with a good morning text. I knew right away there was no need to play games with her and that she values respect and kindness In a man.
If a girl sees you as desperate and eager if you respond quickly to her BUT you know youre not eager and desperate youre just being a considerate person because you truly care for her…
LEAVE her and dont waste any more time. The fcuk…responding quickly is not a sign of desperation its a sign of respecting someone you truly care about.
Love this
I appreciate it when a guy responds immediately. Cause then we can keep the conversation flowing. It's different if he has other things on and he takes time to respond. Either way, I have things to do at my end as well.
I say, if you're that affected by a woman and she's not responding, you need to focus on your interests period. I'd preset her as just an option nit a primary interest.
Idk about this but whether you high value or not guy/ girl ,if you love someone then you won't keep them hanging
But you don't love someone you've just met, right?
I got that brain that never stops. Of course I send long texts to try and paint a picture.
Texting and aps have ruined dating
Exactly!!! tell my bro that 😂😂
Watching these shorts like I’m actually talking to a girl 😅
Same
If a girl takes a day to respond to my texts everytime then l’ll just assume that shes not particularly interested in me and that I oughta just move on
If you’re Gen Z or younger anything beyond 1-2 hours is an indication of either low interest or game playing outside the exception of work. If she’s taking 3+ hours, leave.
What if it takes more than 2 hours to respond even if he just woke up or going to bed? I dont think he is busy?
Man, this is one of the worst games people play nowadays. If you like each other, just talk lol
Yeah advice should be dont beat a dead horse.. If she takes too long to respond she isnt worth lowering your pride jumping high hoops to keep the dead convo going
dates are there to talk and build connection. you need to give the girl the opportunity to miss you. only use text for setting up the next date and maybe a bit of flirty banter. don’t ask about her day etc thru text
It’s biological dude, especially from the women’s perspective.. it’s not something you are supposed to control “logically”
@@Fred-zt5ky As a girl I think you hit the nail on the head! But this is mainly for people you don’t know previously. So if you r trying to move out the friend zone this is a no. But if ur a stranger it is very true! If I like u we’ll message once or twice outside of the date. If we don’t plan for a second date within that frame ur out and constant texting after is too much especially if idk u.
Wrong
High value guys have their phones active with business messaging. Real estate issues/deals, stock alerts, bankers calling with loan proposals, etc...........
Dude. You’re so far gone 😂
We really need a great reset back to the bronze age. All the games are so tiresome and petty.
If you don't think hight enough of her that make you often think about her and be eager to interact with her, don't loose your time to have a relationship with her. What means a relationship if not the will to interact?
You make no sense, why would you have a relation with someone you can ignore?
But the other way around also, if you're not important enough to her so she can ignores you, run away...
🌺🌸 These kind of idiotic games are manipulative. It needs to stop - on both sides.
Yep. Just have an honest conversation about when the best time is to text or talk. Respect each other’s boundaries and set aside time when you’re both free. It’s not difficult and no games are needed.
Female here. Please don't text her. It creeps her out anyway. Just set up the date by calling her on the phone.
And I don't want my future wife think that she is very, very important to me in my life.
🤷🤔💬🤦
as a girl this is so stupid. i want a guy who's interested in me! if you try to hide your interest in me i'll just think you don't like me back and stop texting you. i won't like it! i dont see why any girl would disagree
I don’t follow these rules, I am dating a married chick that is being ignored by her hubby so in this case I actually put an effort to be present as much as I could, at least in the beginning.
If you're strong in other areas, lack of texting isn't going to ruin anything.
Imagine caring about and being interested in someone and not wanting to play mind games 🤡
It would be amazing, but is just doesn’t work. Women are irrational animals and you need to know how to play them, like it or not
he's 100% right, I am just so fuckin tired of this shit...
I have a job; and I date women who also have a job. I make it clear from the beginning that I’m not going to be able to respond immediately and I don’t expect her to either. That creates a mutual understanding and shows that no one is playing games. Just be real, and you’ll be fine.
Okay, i get what not to do, but what are the high value texting habits though?
short, rare, unpredictible.
This is true! Now not saying to play games but definitely be on your purpose as a man and decide what is for you. That will naturally keep you busy ! Therefore a lot of what Todd is saying happens naturally which is good! And also being in abundance is key, don’t get too caught up with one girl. Date multiple and if you want to settle down than pick one but do not choose from scarcity.
The irony of this, is that I'm a multi-millionaire who owns several businesses and is busy as shit. the only way that I can keep up with all the stuff that I have to do on a day-to-day basis (without creating a big pile of shit that I have to deal with later) is to not only respond immediately, but also via talk-to-text, which means longer texts too. If a girl gets bugged out by that shit, she goes right to the bottom of the fucking pile 🤣
How many girls do you talk to at a time and how old are you? What age of girls are you going for?
Congratulations on the success btw. Hope to be super busy myself soon
As a woman , if the guy takes time to respond I see it as him trying to show me he s not interested, not keen. No fire keeps burning this way and if he is too busy for me then I fit no where. I prefer the guy to be real. But worst thing... If he is texting multiple girls ... It puts me off entirely .
This kind of teaching is manipulation , no authenticity, no vulnerability
Yeah no. If you see a text and put the effort and consideration into sending a response that shows you’re interested which for me is what I’d rather have like back in the day when it was as simple as I’m feeling you and you’re telling me and we move shit around equally to spend time together. These games are what’s killing the dating scene. If you don’t see my text ok cool. But when you do 1-Say hey and give a point in time when you will be available or 2-actually respond if you have a moment. Who likes a text response every 30 minutes? There is no energy or flow in that. and if you cant ever respond bc you're such an important and "high value" man then you're basically not in the position to be dating and wasting women's time who are looking for a genuine connection.
🌺🌸🌺 Guys DON'T listen to this dud!
Take it from me, DECENT sweet caring woman (like me😊) would love to see that kind of enthusiasm!
Naah u don't
Depends on who it is
You are right. If the girl was raised right, sweet, genuine, respectful and kind, and you know she's interested in you, we don't need to play these games.
Would you consider it simply wanting to "Get the ball rolling" and not waste time with back and forth bs?
But if you don't text frequently or daily, she can use this as a way to signal either break up or distance herself away from you by saying, you're simply are not interested or not making enough effort to maintain this relationship
I get to the point that I don't text back for a day and then the girl becomes disinterested.
If she or you takes a day to respond shes not interested
So she wasn’t interested in the first place, meaning there is other stuff you need to work on
Thats such BS. This dude needs to grow up. Im a woman and im super busy all the time but i always reply to texts as soon as i see them, even if its "a little busy, will reply later or asap". Im like that with guys, friends, neighbors, landlords, clients, family, new clients, bad clients, whatever. I hate not responding because if i dont respond immediately i have anxiety building up in me with every passing half hour.
God forbid you take an interest. That's kinda the point. If they aren't taking an interest back, they aren't high value enough to play this game in the first place. Unmatch.
Yes we’re supposed to act busy and like we don’t care! How stupid
I disagree. I respond when I see the text. If I'm interested I'll say so and text back. If she doesn't budge or isn't interested that's totally fine. You move on. Because if you on PURPOSE don't text back like some weirdo, that's not really you. You meet in person you'll still just be a loser who is playing someone else's game. Just be confident and know what you want. It's not that complicated. In the end, you want to show value, and let her see that you're not a creep, but doesn't mean you shouldn't show yourself. You're looking for a match after all.
Not true! I've NOT been a loser upon meet-up because there are techniques for face to face too. Why would you think game is limited to electronics?? I have proven this wrong
I never cared about guys but my abusive cheating partner made me become nothing but a house wife with no life and this guys that I’m trying to cheat with never messaged me first, is it my fault that I became needy? No one understands the depression, like I’m doing well with school so my only thing is men.
Too many games if I wanted to play I would be a PS5! Which I have, so over women atm.
I can say from experience and self awareness that this is all true
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If a girls into you she isn’t going to give a shit that being said don’t be a short prick but also don’t waterfall onto her. Also ask them if they want to call you later it’s so much better
Ask them?? Ya just do it!
Be disingenuous, lie your ass off so she doesn't know who you are. Build that special relationship on quicksand! What could go wrong??!!
I get it, I understand that the tips that you're giving work and I use them. What I don't understand why women want to text guys who are texting other women and don't have time for them. I wouldn't consider these to be high value trates. It's very odd. I think that part of the reason that most relationships fail is that women are actively seeking out men don't care about them. And when you seek out a man who doesn't care about you, that's what you get. I think it's called reaping what you sow. Thanks for the helpful tips though 😉
Normal behaviour is responding to someone, so if I ask you something you will wait hours to answer or a day ? No you respond straight away it’s called communication
Dude, todd can you still reverse game a girl if I challenged you to turn your resistance on girl to the max. So the max disqualifiers.
max negs.
max non chalant.
Max disinterest.
Max freeze out
Etc...
I'd say don' t reply fast in general, just turn the notificarions off
With this guy's logic, high value men are too busy to accomplish anything, thus making them not high value if value is determined by accomplishments. Because if you're not accomplishing anything, what are you doing then? Trust me bro insanity, rise and grind nonsense.
But isn't neediness something you feel not do ? I'm been guilty about this but like we like eachother & it's been reciprocated & we both have things going on
If it's mostly reciprocated, I wouldn't worry about it too much. IMO it's mostly just something to be cautious about if you notice a pattern where you're consistently showing a lot more eagerness and enthusiasm than her.
i don't think its about high value or anything like that, over texting is just annoying for any man or women. imagine there is someone knocking at your door over and over until you answer it and they do it everyday? its just bad manners i looks despite and needy like everyday its some kind of emergency and its not. it just drains your energy. its safe to assume this person is just using you to feel better its selfish.
If you have to treat texting like you are defusing a bomb then she just isn't into you to begin with. If a woman is highly attracted to you then you can throw all these rules right out the window. Focus on the gym and less on learning "game."
Eagerness and desire for interaction
i sent my crush a couple messages she won’t open them and she’s posting on her snap story and opening mine and she also stares at me whenever she can but she is keeps giving me more mixed signals nonstop what do you guys think i should do lemme know in the reply section
fyi i’m falling hard for her
@@TTTChickenshe already knows that you've put her on a pedestal
Move on
how long is too long to reply to a girl?? How long should I leave it??
Thats my question too
Its true.. even tht girl like you,, you need to find the right time to respond or strt cht..
It's the vice versa in my case
I'm shitty because I use to see your videos pop up all the time. Noe they never do. I hate algorithms now. I needed to find some Todd videos today
It's not the texting too much per se that's the problem, it's what that behavior is correlated with that is the problem. Does Elon Musk worry about how often to text a girl or make her wait 3 days or whatever? No. But he might naturally do that because he is busy. Be busy and this problem goes away.
This goes for women as well.
Bitter but true 👍
Facts.
Then I do not get what is value and who decides how valuable someone is. I thought the point is to value yourself, not to play games to make someone want you so that you feel more valuable. True value comes with understanding who you are, what you what, what you can tolerate, whom you like and strength that lets you be honest and show your feelings and then except the fact that not every person on the planet will be interested in you, but some definitely will.
All these guys have to do is say hey sorry sweetie I’m busy right now can I call you later?
sick world we live in
Love ❤
I am not a high value guy but I am busy and I do not answear quickly to messages. Sometimes I take too long.
🌺🌸🌺 Don't hold back guys, if you have the girl's attention - keep it! Damn there's so much competition, that, while you're dragging your ass, acting like a big shot, her attention will be diverted by the sweet genuine guy, who sweeps her off her feet - and doesn't f@#k with her head!!
If you're interested what the heck is wrong with showing interest?? Bad advice! If she's interested and your not showing interest she'll move on to someone who is interested. Why play games? As a woman, its a major red flag
What about once u have a girlfriend, how about then?
So we have to fake our interest ? How is this life
I think he's saying if you don't have a lot going on, at least don't convey it and run them off.
dont multitext, but multitask (women) lol :D
There is a difference between the wife types and harlot types… which one are you speaking about??
So “high value” guys are “players” ?
What is a high value guy…??.. what is requirement to be a HIGH VALUE GUY.. ?
For some reason I get a really bad vibe off this guy
You genius!
As a woman this is such bad advice.
If a man is high value he doesn’t play/pretend to be, he just is.
At heart all we want is Simone who shows us interest, if I’m interested back I’ll give you the green light.
We want momentum, constant behaviour, honestly and let the rest take its natural course.
Yeah, and we live in 2023. Everybody is constantly on their phone (even the so-called "high value males"), so it's ridiculous to pretend not to be...
Life is a game. Learn the rules and become the best.
Sad how this is what needs to be done to get a girl nowadays.
Playing games to try convince a girl you are super busy and don't really care when you are both on a dating site trying to meet people ffs.
Stop studying how to ‘act’ as a high value man. Just be one. Be genuinely happy with your self. Learn new things, do what you love, invest in your mind and body. And when a woman comes along that match your vibe have a normal intellectual conversation with her if she’s meant for you things will naturally flow.
This ‘acting as a high value man’ behavior is for fucboys to manipulate woman into having sex with them.. it’s not for the long term. Its childish behavior and only promotes toxicity in the relationship. Real high value men don’t care about temporary relationships and aim for the long term relationships with the intention to build a strong intimate connection together.
Yeah it’s all semantics… saying “high value” is the new “alpha male” .. it’s all bullshit, Brad Pitt doesn’t go around saying “I’m high value”.. they just are, energetically
What if you are further into the dating process? Like 10 dates in
I don't think it's worth the time to artificially delay your response. Look I don't have time for bs game time delays. Yeah don't be afraid to not respond when you busy. But when you're free just respond asap. Not because I'm worried I'm going to lose her.
It's because I don't want to spend hours texting her.
And how has that been working for you?
@@nahumgonzalez5087 It works the exact same. with less time wasted and It can actually speed up the interaction because often it goes into back and forth exchange.
I would mostly agree if your texting doesn't appear needy otherwise
How about you actually live a half interesting life and be the kind of guy that people want to be around and then you don’t have to pretend to be busy because you actually are
Im not here to play games. I get the concept tho.
I totally disagree with this saying. Guys stop doing this! Men are supposed to pursue. Lead. Men be men!!!!
Are you a high value guy??
Real men won’t entertain a women with games, real men don’t want a women who plays games, it’s that simple, y’all thinking too deep and you wonder why the worlds fucked up
The “high-value” guys this dude is talking about are only high value to a man’s perspective. He’s talking about guys that get tons of women (plays boys). If that’s what you’re looking for, then sure listen to his advice and be a douche. Now if you want a real connection with a real singular female who is actually into YOU, never do this.
Wow you literally just gotta treat them like 💩 single guys a doomed