Self Sabotage All Around - The Ultimatum South Africa Reaction Episode 8

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
  • Its the last day for the original couples' trial marriages, and Its extremely unclear if the right people are going to split or get hitched after all this

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  • @QueenB723
    @QueenB723 4 місяці тому +19

    I think Nkateko wants to have Siza on the side in case things with Khanya go bad. I hope Siza remembers him leaving her & saw how he ran back to his monster and realized the tricks & told him no, she wants Lindile & only Lindile 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @margaretchandia9452
      @margaretchandia9452 4 місяці тому +1

      Exactly, stringing her along. It seems insane to want Nkateko over Lindile.

  • @siphokazintetha1857
    @siphokazintetha1857 4 місяці тому +24

    Mitch: “Can I bash my face onto the wall?” 😂😂😅

  • @mirariri98
    @mirariri98 4 місяці тому +25

    I’m so glad you guys reviewed this show. I found y’all for the first time and y’all have kept me entertained at work and when I’m doing housework.
    Khanya is unhinged. I can’t wait for the reunion. Hopefully she atones for her sins. Siza is a sweetheart.

  • @kalikayy
    @kalikayy 4 місяці тому +9

    The emotional labor is written all over your faces! 😂

  • @sunny100294
    @sunny100294 4 місяці тому +9

    Not the turtleneck slander. I love me a good turtleneck 😂

    • @membriash
      @membriash  4 місяці тому +2

      I think Lindile has a turtle neck on later and I didnt even care. I think its just me seeing Nkateko to be honest

    • @margaretchandia9452
      @margaretchandia9452 4 місяці тому +1

      The, you're not Steve Jobs, comment, ended me! 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sunny100294
      @sunny100294 4 місяці тому +1

      @@membriash understandable

  • @liabstrait8306
    @liabstrait8306 4 місяці тому +15

    I'm so early in the comments...😯 it's like 3 am at my place 😂
    I love y'all takes on this show !!! I'm having a good time watching y'all
    (Watching it while trying to calm down my autistic meltdown, it warms up my heart 💕)

    • @membriash
      @membriash  4 місяці тому +2

      Im glad we can help you out! Nothing like a late night tv soothing session

  • @dreadicatednaytive_loz3753
    @dreadicatednaytive_loz3753 4 місяці тому +10

    Waking up to you guys is a real flex🤭... I also enjoyed the talk between Siza and Ruth.

  • @shauntelrenee9197
    @shauntelrenee9197 4 місяці тому +5

    Wow, it feels so strange being this early!! 🎉😂 Thanks for reacting to this show! I completely agree with so much y'all said! ❤❤

  • @fundiliphapang5679
    @fundiliphapang5679 4 місяці тому +2

    I watched so many reviews of the South African Ultimatum, especially from Americans. I really love yours so much.

  • @mandisandlovu8914
    @mandisandlovu8914 4 місяці тому +4

    I think Siza is a smart girl. For some reason I feel like she’s aware of everything that’s going on. Some of her giggles do seem performative (don’t get me wrong, I like her)

    • @AlwaysLisaLisa
      @AlwaysLisaLisa 4 місяці тому

      Best reaction for now for her? Processing pause needed? Might be different at age 59 for ex

  • @mipps125
    @mipps125 4 місяці тому +3

    Guys there Is a girl that exposed kganya to be a bully in primary on tiktok

  • @SharronDope
    @SharronDope 4 місяці тому +1

    I’ve mostly been going with the “just add an emoji thing” if you’re having a good time on the Ultimatum Videos. Im so excited to see you breakdown the reunion. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @misspzar
    @misspzar 4 місяці тому +4

    I think you are a bit harsh on Nkateko. I work with victims of abuse and I see how they deal with it. I love to hear to perspective though. I enjoy your reaction

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 4 місяці тому +1

    Good job guys, I like how you pronounce their names. You are spot on. Im gonna miss you after the reunion episode.

  • @cocox2551
    @cocox2551 4 місяці тому +2

    Ashley is so Smart ❤

  • @QueenB723
    @QueenB723 4 місяці тому +4

    Ugh I didn't even think about Ruth potentially linking up with Nolla after the show 😫 🤢🤮. If that comes out at the reunion she gets a huge side eye from me. I know she has some red flags but Nola is 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩+💩💩💩💩

  • @fundiliphapang5679
    @fundiliphapang5679 4 місяці тому +2

    I don’t know how to load a video of Khanya being wanted by police for allegedly stabbing someone. And a primary school friend who was bullied by her. Please search for same.

  • @victoria1247
    @victoria1247 4 місяці тому +1

    Im only watching through yalls reactions. but Nkateko does seem fake. That dinner was weird. He either was set on Khanya and just wanted an ego boost or he was unsure and wante dto know if he had options

  • @bryce253
    @bryce253 4 місяці тому +2

    At the beginning, Ruth was my favorite. But I am not buying this act of hers at all at this point. She is fully aware of the cameras and that she has to deal with life after the show. Deflecting responsibility for her part in continually sleeping with Nolla is a big fat red flag for me. It's damage control so that she doesn't look that bad and has options AFTER the show. They got down the first night. There was no breaking down. If it was that easy, she already had it in her mind she was going to go there. She needs to stop deflecting and own up to having THAT mindset if she wants to salvage any amount of self-respect and validity in being marriage material in the future. As of now, she is not marriage material. What man would ever be able to trust her when she was that easy to breaking up with her man (so she says) for the show and humping the first dude so easily...who happens to be in a relationship that is considering engagement himself?! That is not a woman displaying a moral foundation a man can trust to build a family structure with. She is claiming her hurt feelings by Isaac made her do it. 🙄🙄. That's the same story she would go with after a 1-3 years if marriage and she feeela like she needs more and files for divorce. A man would be an idiot to sign up for that. Notice I didn't mention Isaac here because he has his own issues. Yes...he's a mess also and was trying to sleep with Kanyah, which OMG dude why?!? UGH?! But it does not excuse Ruth from accountability for her actions and the consequences from them.
    We have to stop this narrative that women are so powerless in the decisions they make. There are single moms that have children with multiple men and women with multiple divorces that will look you right in the eye and say none of it is their fault and the men manipulated them into these situations. We live in this ridiculous society narrative these days that says women at the end are blameless and should always be given the benefit of the doubt no matter the situation.
    Please stop.