Don't You Know That You're Toxic - The Ultimatum South Africa Reaction Episode 9

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  • @luzukobhabane7288
    @luzukobhabane7288 5 місяців тому +86

    one of the best reactors on UA-cam right now and I'm not even kidding !

    • @WilliamsPinch
      @WilliamsPinch 5 місяців тому +11

      Yeah, I just found them and I’m rather fond of them 🫶🏼

    • @lorenza696
      @lorenza696 5 місяців тому +8

      They are amazing. I am so happy I stumbled upon their channel 😊

    • @rosemarypaintedpoetry
      @rosemarypaintedpoetry 5 місяців тому +6

      Me too!

  • @mphompepeto1898
    @mphompepeto1898 5 місяців тому +37

    About the letter, it's a custom, when a man wants to marry a woman he will send a letter to her family asking for a meeting to officially ask for her hand in marriage and discuss how much the dowry is.
    About Khanya and Ntakeko, she has a baby but we don't really know who the father is, it's rumored that Kay is the dad but we don't know, hope they confirm at the reunion.

  • @TheQueenE
    @TheQueenE 5 місяців тому +25

    I’m so sorry 😭 I thought I was the only one behind. I won’t spoil the reunion, I ✨promise✨

    • @sunny100294
      @sunny100294 5 місяців тому +5

      The queen herself responded 😭💗

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому +3

      Oh don’t worry!! We are really slow especially when the episodes all drop at once. It was a good thumbnail, and a reference I knew a lot of our viewers would get. We love your channel!

  • @dreadicatednaytive_loz3753
    @dreadicatednaytive_loz3753 5 місяців тому +13

    You guys did a stella job with this show. I still can't believe that I stayed up all night watching Ultimatum SA - I blame that on Khanya 😭😭😭. Oh she rubbed me off the wrong way. I wanted to bite her🤭. It was a great show indeed. The reunion is on the 24/05, that's tomorrow y'all 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿- I can't wait.

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 5 місяців тому +16

    Im not leaving this channel after the reunion. You guys are the best 👌🏾 ❤ Im gonna stick around. 😅

  • @GeorgiaMcDunhill
    @GeorgiaMcDunhill 5 місяців тому +2

    nah cuz i’m obsessed with y’all.😭
    y’all are so real.🥹

  • @seektruth5750
    @seektruth5750 5 місяців тому +8

    “South Africa, they know how to earring” 😂, love it and your channel, you’ve made this season fun to watch

  • @allisonjoyell1702
    @allisonjoyell1702 5 місяців тому +35

    I think Netflix didn't think that we would be interested in anything reality African show that could be farthest from the truth . we want to see more African reality ..I would love to see South African "Love is Blind" with both Melanated and Europeans individuals.
    I think it's Aiden and Courtney should have had another European couple on ultimatum. I don't think Africa is advanced in accepting biracial couples and homosexual couples they are not as comfortable as Americans are.
    I also noticed that Aiden and Courtney was the only couple who did NOT introduce their "play play partner" to their family or friends 😑😑😑😑.
    I hope they ask Aiden does he have a job. Because that is important.
    We need to have another ULTIMATUM SOUTH AFRICA and we need more than one European South African couple. To make it a true temptation and they need to share with their friends and family their play play partner just how the others did. Overall I LOVE ULTIMATUM South Africa and I want more Africa 🌍🌍🌍
    Most of everyone outfits were SUPERMODELS 😍. You said it ,not me AIDEN is definitely a NERD 😆. It would be nice if the men pulled a in a side and dressed him 😆
    Let me know what you think about my comment. I'm very open-minded and I don't get offended at all. I did notice the huge difference between the melanated people's experience and the European couple ❤

    • @VashtiPerry
      @VashtiPerry 5 місяців тому +4

      I feel like because last year the young famous African, the young famous African reality show ratings went down I think that's why they probably not investing too much and promoting this. But then again I feel like they do have a good production team from South Africa Netflix because they have an awesome scripted show that is popular and hit number one when they come out

    • @abster4709
      @abster4709 5 місяців тому +6

      Agree with everything and even though many parts of Africa aren't as comfortable with mixed or homosexual couple, South Africa definitely is. We have such a melting pot of race, culture, religion and upbringing that most of us are happy about our cultures mixing and we have a huge lgbtqia+ community.
      We definitely need more good quality dating shows from SA.

    • @PrincessVelaryon
      @PrincessVelaryon 5 місяців тому +3

      South Africa is used to seeing homosexual relationships. SA is the only country that has legalized gay marriage in Africa for a very long time now. I hope next time the show can have Coloured and Indian couples as they are more open to interracial dating than most white SAns. I also noticed that Adrian and Courtney didnt introduce their trial partners to their parents. SA is still very much segregated when it comes to race as apartheid only officially ended 30 years ago. Give it a few years.

    • @abster4709
      @abster4709 5 місяців тому +3

      @@PrincessVelaryon That's exactly what I meant by other race, just didn't say Coloured cause we know that's a sensitive word for Americans. Also I'm a bit scared of how my coloured sisters will portray us(hopefully not the typical knife girls,iykyk)😅 but they would definitely add a whole new level of spice to the already mixed masala lol. Imagine a Coloured and Xhosa in a relationship...draaaama!

    • @abster4709
      @abster4709 5 місяців тому +1

      @@PrincessVelaryon That's exactly what I meant by other race, just didn't say Coloured cause we know that's a sensitive word for Americans. Also I'm a bit scared of how my coloured sisters will portray us(hopefully not the typical knife girls,iykyk)😅 but they would definitely add a whole new level of spice to the already mixed masala lol. Imagine a Coloured and Xhosa in a relationship...draaaama!

  • @cocox2551
    @cocox2551 5 місяців тому +25

    Since the show aired one lady came forward and claimed that Khanya used to heavily bully her when they were 8 years-old, apparently she’s always had an awful personality. The video is on TikTok.

    • @teattime
      @teattime 5 місяців тому

      And stabbed someone in the chest...

  • @RoxiieSays
    @RoxiieSays 5 місяців тому +7

    Love your reactions!! 💕

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much! Your videos are so professional, and its amazing what youve been able to accomplish in a year! My mom actually told me about your videos during the LIB6, and Im glad she shared 😅

  • @yasminevenmelach-schindler2153
    @yasminevenmelach-schindler2153 5 місяців тому +9

    This season was good and strong thanks to the casting, editing and filming.
    They chose different and interesting people, who surprised me as a viewer. The moderators were very successful. Aiden, who seemed to me at first to be the most boring of all, turned out to be kind and a sensitive and considerate person.
    The relationships between the women and the men as separate groups were completely different from what I have seen so far in reality shows. The reactions of the participants were unexpected. And as for you, from what I saw, you were the only white vloggers who watched and commented on this season.
    From your side, it was a less meticulous performance, without ten layers of make-up, effects and a feeling of being in the center of a performance, and much more homely and a feeling that you are here watching with me. We will meet in the episode that will be uploaded at the end of the week.

  • @shirleymatlabo267
    @shirleymatlabo267 5 місяців тому +9

    You guys are so wholesome. Thoroughly enjoyed your perspective.

  • @SharronDope
    @SharronDope 5 місяців тому +10

    Such a great time watching this with you both!! And really enjoyed reading all the comments. You’re building a really strong, lovely & positive community. Always a pleasure tuning in, Always excited when I see a new video has popped up. 😀🥳 Netflix did The Ultimatum South Africa dirty by giving us so few episodes, I hope they give us more episodes in the future and just more South African content in the future. 🎯

  • @kattsomething
    @kattsomething 5 місяців тому +8

    Isaac said Ruth deserves better than him because he knows he has been horrible to her. In the earlier episodes, Isaac could've been kinder to her. She was going to choose Lindile, but she went for Nolla to spite Isaac. She should've never chosen Nolla and be vengeful, but because she saw it was over with Isaac, she went with Nolla.

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      Its true. Maybe it was a reflection on the roughness of the original relationship. I think in the moment I felt bad for both of them, including Isaac.

    • @bryce253
      @bryce253 5 місяців тому

      Comon man. Men do that all the time when breaking up. Men already know that women almost never are capable of accepting accountability in a break up. So you give her the gift of accepting blame so she can process the closure otherwise it will be HELL breaking up. You take the hit because you know she never will so you can make the clean break and move on.
      It is known.

  • @ketumilem8382
    @ketumilem8382 5 місяців тому +11

    Your reactions have been so great. Thoroughly enjoyed all the videos👌🏾 Love from SA 🇿🇦

  • @Afrosoil11
    @Afrosoil11 5 місяців тому +17

    Beyonce Beyonce, is from the song "If you like the you should put a ring on it"
    I've enjoyed your reviews, the best. And your lovely relationship

  • @moniquegyampo9517
    @moniquegyampo9517 5 місяців тому +7

    You guys bring great insights. Can’t wait for the reunion

  • @kellyquach4921
    @kellyquach4921 5 місяців тому +7

    I found you guys through this series and have been watching your videos since!! Thank you for the constant uploads! I love your commentary HAHA

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      Thank you for being here!

  • @lynbattersby
    @lynbattersby 5 місяців тому +4

    I, too, cried when Isaac and Ruth broke up. It was absolutely for the best, but it was so sad because I'd grown to really care about both of them.

    • @mamahlahamoloi6950
      @mamahlahamoloi6950 5 місяців тому

      I cried too...I could feel their pain, it was a heavy moment

  • @carmenlegrange8153
    @carmenlegrange8153 5 місяців тому +3

    Guys next review is the reunion!!! Cant wait to experience it with you.
    These proposals were on point and the couples that were meant to be together worked out perfectly.
    Can't wait to see what the reunion has in store for us. Hope all the tea gets spilled 🤞🏽🫖

  • @allisonjoyell1702
    @allisonjoyell1702 5 місяців тому +7

    I will give NO spoilers, but I am excited for your video on the reunion. I hope you also talked about all of the NEW UPDATES about "Miss Meanie Poo". It seems like she has been a "meanie poo" since birth ; terrorizing people in her community. 😒😒

  • @KamandaHickey
    @KamandaHickey 5 місяців тому +1

    Isaac also grew on me and I felt so sad when they broke up even if it was the best solution for both of them. Your commentary on this season were amazing. See you at the reunion. I can’t wait.

  • @yvonnememela918
    @yvonnememela918 5 місяців тому +1

    After stumbling on your channel, you have now become my favorite channel. You are great.

  • @kalikayy
    @kalikayy 5 місяців тому +3

    All the emotions hit with this one even with tabi and Genesis and lindile and siza and we didn't get any of their stories
    Courtney and Aiden even had me Crack a smile

  • @CarolineofTheInternet
    @CarolineofTheInternet 17 днів тому

    I could not love this channel more

  • @nathintsangani5979
    @nathintsangani5979 5 місяців тому +1

    I did not miss a single video of your reactions and reviews, loved you guys so much. I loved that your reactions/reviews were not only about Khanya's story as most reviews did, you gave each couple's story attention ❤️❤️❤️

  • @zulphaslamdien6782
    @zulphaslamdien6782 5 місяців тому +2

    I've really enjoyed watching your reactions I watch first thing in the morning while making breakfast /packing our lunches.

  • @allbutperfect
    @allbutperfect 5 місяців тому +1

    The baby announcement 😭😂

  • @kronyka
    @kronyka 5 місяців тому +3

    Y'all such a good vibe ❤

  • @NthabelengNtsihlele
    @NthabelengNtsihlele 5 місяців тому +1

    Jesus,guys I watched the reunion 😯😯😯😯

  • @Luluavery
    @Luluavery 5 місяців тому +2

    Can’t wait to “watch” other shows with you guys🙌🏾. Love from Norway 🇳🇴

  • @tonyajawwaad7933
    @tonyajawwaad7933 5 місяців тому +8

    We don't know that it is his. she has a child. It is on her instagram. No mention of the father

  • @AM20238
    @AM20238 5 місяців тому +1

    I just found you guys due to your commentary on this show. I love that it is a couple dissecting shows because you get both the male and female perspectives. Looking forward to seeing more reviews from you two.

  • @wikileigha7077
    @wikileigha7077 5 місяців тому +1

    This show was so chaotic! When I watched it I felt completely different about Nkateko but after what you guys pointed out my opinions fully changed! I can’t wait for the reunion tomorrow! Thanks for covering this and introducing it to me!!!! I always click on your videos as soon as I see them, and honestly if I see you guys covering something I make my partner watch it with me so I can follow along with you guys! If I ever come across a show first I’ll have to recommend it cause I feel like you guys always give us the best suggestions!

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      Please do give suggestions if you see something interesting! I do think we were a little hard on Nkateko, I dont want to victim blame. But something there is off

  • @kalishadee8925
    @kalishadee8925 5 місяців тому +5

    Tell me why I read the thumbnail, the same way "broken promises" is pronounced in the 3LW song - despite the fact it's spelt normally 😭😭😂

  • @shortyp1000
    @shortyp1000 5 місяців тому +2

    I am loving your recaps. 😊

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching! 🙂

  • @NthabelengNtsihlele
    @NthabelengNtsihlele 5 місяців тому +1

    You guys are the best, it was so nice watching and listening to you❤

  • @teejohnson2949
    @teejohnson2949 4 місяці тому

    My favorite comment: "The earring game this season is pretty strong!" and "Nerds don't accessorize." The rant of Courtney and Aiden is hilarious but sweet at the same time. and how you guys were talking so much you literally didn't get to see what she gave him until after and said yeah I think she gave him a bracelet or something.. who knows, oh a ring! 🤣🤣 I really love how mature Ruth & Issac were, that was so sad to see. 💔

  • @Ashley-lw2vu
    @Ashley-lw2vu 5 місяців тому +2

    Yall are soooo cute. New fave channel!!

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! Is this a fellow Ashley?!

    • @Ashley-lw2vu
      @Ashley-lw2vu 5 місяців тому +1

      @@membriash Yesss! There are so many of us!! 🤣

  • @BusiMjiyakho
    @BusiMjiyakho 5 місяців тому +7

    The way y'all say Lindile (Lindilayyyyy) It's pronounced Lin-dee-le. Otherwise great job!

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      Appreciate the correction! I knew I was off in a few places

  • @bryce253
    @bryce253 5 місяців тому +2

    Watching Courtney and Aiden is like watching two androids sync their marriage algorithms. If monotone works as a marriage vibe, they will be the most epic ever. But watching them??? Lord they seem like the two most boring people in every room they go into. They'll have a great life together if they can stay awake.

  • @seneolo9699
    @seneolo9699 5 місяців тому +1

    "Fiance Beyonce" is a play on "put a ring on it"

  • @JuneBee9606
    @JuneBee9606 5 місяців тому +1

    These have been my favourite reactions of this show of all I've watched, and I've watched a few 😂.
    Can you guys review Big Little Lies S1? I'd love to rewatch it with you.

  • @allisonjoyell1702
    @allisonjoyell1702 5 місяців тому +5

    Phrase it differently we are not sure who the daddy is remember she said they did not have sex since last year September we don't know who the baby is.

  • @KwaJobe
    @KwaJobe 5 місяців тому +1

    Lol regarding Khanya's baby...
    I was really happy to have seen that no one had spoiled it for you guys but got so disappointed when I saw the comment in your last video. But I honestly expected the spoiler to come out sooner.
    Yes, Khanya had a baby. From her Instagram, it seems she gave birth in January but it could have been earlier and she just posted about it in Jan.
    People on Twitter that claim to know them personally have said it's definitely Nkateko's baby and the Twitter detectives have said she was probably already pregnant when she filmed the show and possibly just didn't know. So the definite is that she had a baby, likely Nkateko's but everything will be revealed at the reunion.
    You two have been amazing at this and you're the most genuinely wholesome and relatable couple I've seen on UA-cam. I hope this channel grows in leaps and bounds ❤

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      Thank you for the thorough clarification! Im very curious to see how it plays out in reunion

  • @ezz869
    @ezz869 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mandisandlovu8914
    @mandisandlovu8914 5 місяців тому +1

    Love the straight hair 😌

  • @dalubuhlengwenya7188
    @dalubuhlengwenya7188 5 місяців тому +2

    It’s really hard to make Courtney and Aiden interesting 😂I found myself laughing during their section on your video cause of how dry it felt.

  • @EfraimNkengurutse
    @EfraimNkengurutse 5 місяців тому +1

    28:20 the same thing happened in the ultimatum season 2 one couple didnt get married and had a baby toegether anyway ... i dont think that they are married now

  • @sabelozulu5161
    @sabelozulu5161 5 місяців тому +2

    You guys are great. Try more SA content , music and all.

  • @thisqueenwontquit9699
    @thisqueenwontquit9699 5 місяців тому +1

    Isaac’s growth is so unexpected… who knew … btw I keep thinking you 2 are South African…😂

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 5 місяців тому +2

    Guys, what if the child is for Issac? 😅😂😂 More drama😅

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      That would be a such a wild twist

  • @mselwalt
    @mselwalt 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @ZeekSeeks
    @ZeekSeeks 5 місяців тому +1

    Clocking the loons shirt, are y’all Minnesotans?!

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      Lol, no. But I do love birds. I was born in the UP, raised in coastal Wisconsin

  • @gigimarie1380
    @gigimarie1380 5 місяців тому +1

    It's not his baby and she already had it.

  • @NthabelengNtsihlele
    @NthabelengNtsihlele 5 місяців тому +1

    I'm not saying anything😮just watch it

  • @thandilechinyavanhu9220
    @thandilechinyavanhu9220 5 місяців тому +1

    Oh no! I left a comment on a Queen E video, was it me did I spoil it for you?

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      No no, I dont read other peoples comments and we cant really watch others while we cover the same shows. I just cant help but see what happens in our own comment section when they get alerted on my yt app on my phone 😅

  • @taylormarie7896
    @taylormarie7896 5 місяців тому +1

    Please watch f boy island

  • @chichonete
    @chichonete 5 місяців тому +5

    "Nerds are my people" I always say that lol 🫶🏻

  • @ig_Flawless_kami
    @ig_Flawless_kami 5 місяців тому +1

    I don’t know if housewives are your thing, but you should check out the real housewives of Durban

    • @membriash
      @membriash  5 місяців тому

      Weve thought about it! Might give it a go, we’re unsure how Bravo is on copyright blocks and we dont currently have Bravo, but we’ll keep it in mind