It ripped me to shreds knowing that the last term that girl had with her father was not positive. And now she will never be alive to make amends with her father. I’m very close to my dad so this hits hard.
Yeah that was tragic, but at least she wrote the letter, so she still left him with loving words… if she hadn’t written that letter it probably would have been much sadder
47:04 Interesting comment that I copied from that video comment section: About the people dying after being pulled out from the bus: they had internal injuries and never would have survived. The pressure of the bus on their bodies kept them from bleeding out, but as soon as the officers pulled them out, the internal bleeding started. There is nothing those police officers could have done to save them, but they are still heroes for the attempt.
I have bad anxiety with the whole "you don't know the last time you'll see them" thing. Something like that happened to my friend with her mom so now I always try my best to tell my family I love them before leaving
I was raised to "never leave or go to bed angry" Obviously you can't always smooth things out before you have to leave, but I always try to at least take a breathe and say "I love you" before leaving
i've had my... experience with bridges. when i was in uni, i was away living away from home for the first time. my uni was near enough to my apartment but there was a bridge, it was so scary having to cross that bridge BY FOOT when there were repairs ongoing. yes, they allowed people to walk on it because otherwise it would be around an hour/40 minutes by car around it. one step and i would be falling to the river below. scary stuff
The thing with happy holidays and mishaps is kinda delicate. It's not the chances of something bad happening being higher, but most likely something bad happening on what WAS supposed to be a good day. Let's say, your birthday, every year after the incident or whatever happened that day, you're undeniably going to remember those bad and awful memories, the tragic event has more everlasting mental impact on days that we deem more meaningful.
In the Philippines, there is a superstition to avoid traveling before a significant event like graduation or wedding or any big event. It is believed that accidents are more likely to happen during that time.
still at 33:31 but I wanted to give you an answer before I forgot to comment 😅 The movie Stephanie is talking about of the butterfly effect and the dinossaur and time travel is "A Sound of Thunder" from 2005. "The Butterly Effect" which came out in 2004 is about time travel in the protagonist's own timeline. Side-note: There is also another movie called "El Efecto Mariposa" (The Butterfly Effect) from 1995 but that one is a Spanish-French romantic comedy XD I'm just mentioning it because, in my country, if you don't specify in your search that you want the 2004 movie...this is the first result that appears
I completely believe in the butterfly effect. It reminds me of a line from Mulan which I watched a lot as a kid, "A single grain of rice can tip the scale." It was probably formative for me to hear that as a kid.
Korea really needs to get their shit together because a lot of these “accidents” that happened never have the appropriate actions taken afterwards and it’s always the same excuse. “They weren’t ready for a situation like this” okay well first of all there were ten million things that could’ve been done to prevent accidents like this to happen. In this case they could’ve spent more money to make the bridge safe for their citizens to use. After that they could’ve done inspections at LEAST twice a year or smth. In the department store, they also could’ve not been greedy and built the mall correctly. They could’ve reported the cracks, the uneven floors, the leaks, the droop etc. in the Sewol ferry, they could’ve inspected the boat, they could’ve added more water to the boat to balance the weight, they could’ve strapped down the cars. They could’ve had less cars. In Itaewon, there could’ve been more police officers at the scene before anything happened. They knew a big event was gonna take place. Whatever after that- how do you not have safety protocols in case of an emergency? Like okay have like one or two ambulances on top of the bridge just in case there’s like vehicle collisions due to cars braking suddenly. But majority of the help should’ve been quickly get some boats with the proper equipment and let’s save these people. The Han river is so incredibly popular. So many people go there. Do they just think if they do reckless things nothing bad will happen? It really truly makes me frustrated. My heart goes out to everyone that this tragedy affected.
it's because they are cheap, all the prep and training costs money for something that might never happen or happen often enough to make it "worth' it in there eye's to have people trained and supplies, like no one thinks they would start an apocalypse because if they did they would get help or take themselves if they did know
17:00 you’re not alone on that. I also notice that when I’m very happy, excited or just having an overall good day, life slaps me with a “hey buddy calm tf down here’s some bad news for you” soon after idk why. I also keep forgetting about this balance of good and bad karma or some sht so whenever it happens I’m always flabbergasted
paused to co-sign on the sense of foreboding you feel before happy holidays. i used to have full body panic attacks i thought were bad headaches before going to a christmas party or a thanksgiving dinner because *something always happened*. now? i have a one-hour maximum unless the vibes are on point. otherwise? I'M NOT STAYIN' FOR NO FIGHTS/ARGUMENTS/SEXUALITY OUTINGS/NADA!! love your vids!
I also believe in the butterfly effect to an extent. Example being; a snowy mountain where people ski on and a certain patch of snow along the edge becomes loose from the amount of weight and different movements of the skiis and crumbles causing those along the edge and on it to fall. I believe those types of butterfly effects
53:25 the only bridge that’s supposed to do that is the San Francisco bridge 🌉 when it sways because of the wind, it makes noise but it’s a good thing; it means that the joints are still intact! :)
1:14:56 that wasn’t even the same company though. The owner hired his own people to build it because a more reputable company then and now refused to do it.
The butterfly story with the T-Rex she's talking about is "A Sound of Thunder" by Ray Bradbury. We had to read it when I was in high school, it was pretty cool.
31:18 i do believe in the butterfly effect. one of the biggest reasons why is because of my grandma's death. two years ago, i was at home just chilling and living my life. I didn't visit my grandma in a long time since she lived in a different town and there's no internet or anything to do there basically. My father was going pretty regularly to visit and as always he asked me to come with him. i thought about it and i agreed, on the last day though, before we went I decided against it saying i could go another time. My father also decided not to go, thinking there's another time too. Less than a week later my mother, father and i were dropping my brother to the student dormitory with his stuff, we went into a train and it was late so i started to fall asleep. I very hazily heard my father on the phone and next thing i knew when i woke up was my father looking weird. I knew something was up so i asked if anything happened and then he told me my uncle called to tell him my grandma got hit by a car right in front of her house. Immediately the guilt took over me. whenever i was there i would always go everywhere with her, maybe if i was there it would've never happened? perhaps i could've stopped it because i would've been looking carefully before crossing? the guy who hit her was a distant relative from my mothers side, he ended up killing himself after my grandma was confirmed dead at the hospital a few months later.
Finally we got a new Rotten Mango reaction 🎉 I've been waiting for a long time 🤩 I hope you upload these reactions more often (2 to 3 times a week) Please Seb 🙏 We Purple You 💜💜
16:26 anytime I have a very good day where nothing goes wrong at all (like not even stubbing a toe or getting pinched accidentally doing something or even having a family member nag me) life be like “you’re having too much of a good time” and then something goes wrong. Like I was having a good time at my cousins school fair and as we are walking down the stairs, back to the car with all the extra food leftover food, I missed a step and slid down. I saved the food, but I twisted my ankle badly. 31:08 I feel like if I told my dad to take his car instead of his motorcycle or even if I called him to come back home earlier, maybe he would still be around and maybe life would be easier for my family. 33:17 I think the story she was referencing is called ‘The Sound of Thunder’. I remember this story from an English textbook when I was in high school.
It’s so easy to put blame on yourself through the butterfly affect because even though we’re fine now there’s still times where I wonder if me and my brother had took the later or earlier bus that one day last year would we have not been hit by that car getting off, if we waited for his friend from the other bus could we have been safe from the speeding car if I wasn’t so he’ll bent on him not missing the bell for class, but then I’m thinking like that it would’ve been someone else’s child so it always gets so dark when you think too hard
16:50 no you not alone I be feeling like that to and I never used to feel like that until I had started watching her😂 because now that I look at it the world is different in different parts and places so everything and everyone do different things and the reason why I be thinking that something bad probably had happened somewhere is because I be wanting to much documentaries and videos like this and it be making me just think about stuff like my future and even the present cuz you never know
When I heard the letter that the girl wrote to her father I literally had to pause the video because I was sobbing so hard. My heart goes out to all those who have suffered from that tragedy.
My dad passed away when I was 14. My mom was leaving him to force him to go into rehab for drug abuse. Wednesday before his coma he threw his wedding ring and to get out because I’m a traitor. My dad was on narcan. I knew that wasn’t my dad. The next day we were on the phone and he told me how he was gonna fight to get better and he is fighting for his family. Thankfully my dad got to say the words I needed from him. That Friday he took two does of his meds. Not sure if it was an accident but pretty sure it was. He died even tho is body was alive. People told me it was my fault because I didn’t tell them about Wednesday even though I was told if I told my mom I would lose both my dad and my sister. So i stayed silent then the other found out and was so mad. We donated my dad’s organs. He saved 5 peoples lives. I’m sorry I’m having a really bad mental health day. Thank you if you read this. All this is to say losing a parents hurts in a way I can’t explain
In terms of the Butterfly Effect, if you actually could change the future to keep people from dying a horrible death, you'd only get the Final Destination series. The first movie is what happens when you change Fate.
16:50 theres many customs and superstitious rules in my country which forbids stuff when its the day of celebration like for awarding date if its gonna be your birthday/graduation/promotion any personal celebration with a set date you shouldn't be traveling far or doing stunts for that particular day... Any celebration that includes something like that must be after the set celebration day. Like for example my birthday we celebrate at home or some restaurant but the pool party or mall shopping in another city will be set on a later date. It includes drinking but nobody can enforce that one in particular lmao.
I dkn if this is disrespectful to the victims or families [Not my intention AT ALL if it is ㅠㅠ] but one thing I always say is I don't care how mad or pissed off I am at my parents ESPECIALLY them or even friends if I will always say goodnight I love you before going anywhere cause you never know :(
This might sound dangerous but my uncle carrys around a kinife in his car incase for any emergencies or if people try to hurt him because i live in a dangerous country but besides from all of that rest in peace to all the people who died this broke my heart..
It ripped me to shreds knowing that the last term that girl had with her father was not positive. And now she will never be alive to make amends with her father. I’m very close to my dad so this hits hard.
Yeah that was tragic, but at least she wrote the letter, so she still left him with loving words… if she hadn’t written that letter it probably would have been much sadder
The girl's letter for her dad broke my heart...
47:04 Interesting comment that I copied from that video comment section:
About the people dying after being pulled out from the bus: they had internal injuries and never would have survived. The pressure of the bus on their bodies kept them from bleeding out, but as soon as the officers pulled them out, the internal bleeding started. There is nothing those police officers could have done to save them, but they are still heroes for the attempt.
I have bad anxiety with the whole "you don't know the last time you'll see them" thing. Something like that happened to my friend with her mom so now I always try my best to tell my family I love them before leaving
Same
I was raised to "never leave or go to bed angry"
Obviously you can't always smooth things out before you have to leave, but I always try to at least take a breathe and say "I love you" before leaving
i've had my... experience with bridges. when i was in uni, i was away living away from home for the first time. my uni was near enough to my apartment but there was a bridge, it was so scary having to cross that bridge BY FOOT when there were repairs ongoing. yes, they allowed people to walk on it because otherwise it would be around an hour/40 minutes by car around it. one step and i would be falling to the river below. scary stuff
The thing with happy holidays and mishaps is kinda delicate.
It's not the chances of something bad happening being higher, but most likely something bad happening on what WAS supposed to be a good day. Let's say, your birthday, every year after the incident or whatever happened that day, you're undeniably going to remember those bad and awful memories, the tragic event has more everlasting mental impact on days that we deem more meaningful.
In the Philippines, there is a superstition to avoid traveling before a significant event like graduation or wedding or any big event. It is believed that accidents are more likely to happen during that time.
still at 33:31 but I wanted to give you an answer before I forgot to comment 😅 The movie Stephanie is talking about of the butterfly effect and the dinossaur and time travel is "A Sound of Thunder" from 2005. "The Butterly Effect" which came out in 2004 is about time travel in the protagonist's own timeline.
Side-note: There is also another movie called "El Efecto Mariposa" (The Butterfly Effect) from 1995 but that one is a Spanish-French romantic comedy XD I'm just mentioning it because, in my country, if you don't specify in your search that you want the 2004 movie...this is the first result that appears
dude she taught me so many helpful things in the first few minutes
I completely believe in the butterfly effect. It reminds me of a line from Mulan which I watched a lot as a kid, "A single grain of rice can tip the scale." It was probably formative for me to hear that as a kid.
also you can use the head rest of your seats to break the windows as in most cars they can come detached
Korea really needs to get their shit together because a lot of these “accidents” that happened never have the appropriate actions taken afterwards and it’s always the same excuse. “They weren’t ready for a situation like this” okay well first of all there were ten million things that could’ve been done to prevent accidents like this to happen. In this case they could’ve spent more money to make the bridge safe for their citizens to use. After that they could’ve done inspections at LEAST twice a year or smth.
In the department store, they also could’ve not been greedy and built the mall correctly. They could’ve reported the cracks, the uneven floors, the leaks, the droop etc.
in the Sewol ferry, they could’ve inspected the boat, they could’ve added more water to the boat to balance the weight, they could’ve strapped down the cars.
They could’ve had less cars.
In Itaewon, there could’ve been more police officers at the scene before anything happened. They knew a big event was gonna take place.
Whatever after that- how do you not have safety protocols in case of an emergency? Like okay have like one or two ambulances on top of the bridge just in case there’s like vehicle collisions due to cars braking suddenly. But majority of the help should’ve been quickly get some boats with the proper equipment and let’s save these people. The Han river is so incredibly popular. So many people go there. Do they just think if they do reckless things nothing bad will happen? It really truly makes me frustrated. My heart goes out to everyone that this tragedy affected.
it's because they are cheap, all the prep and training costs money for something that might never happen or happen often enough to make it "worth' it in there eye's to have people trained and supplies, like no one thinks they would start an apocalypse because if they did they would get help or take themselves if they did know
The timing of this video is crazy😅
17:00 you’re not alone on that. I also notice that when I’m very happy, excited or just having an overall good day, life slaps me with a “hey buddy calm tf down here’s some bad news for you” soon after idk why. I also keep forgetting about this balance of good and bad karma or some sht so whenever it happens I’m always flabbergasted
I actually read that story she was talking about in school. It’s called “A Sound of Thunder” by Ray Bradbury
paused to co-sign on the sense of foreboding you feel before happy holidays. i used to have full body panic attacks i thought were bad headaches before going to a christmas party or a thanksgiving dinner because *something always happened*. now? i have a one-hour maximum unless the vibes are on point. otherwise? I'M NOT STAYIN' FOR NO FIGHTS/ARGUMENTS/SEXUALITY OUTINGS/NADA!! love your vids!
I also believe in the butterfly effect to an extent. Example being; a snowy mountain where people ski on and a certain patch of snow along the edge becomes loose from the amount of weight and different movements of the skiis and crumbles causing those along the edge and on it to fall. I believe those types of butterfly effects
53:25 the only bridge that’s supposed to do that is the San Francisco bridge 🌉 when it sways because of the wind, it makes noise but it’s a good thing; it means that the joints are still intact! :)
The girls letter was my last straw.
44:50 he’s on the end. Like the sides of the river
My heart hurts, as a Nan and Mum, it hurts. Just like the students from the Sewol Ferry tragedy and this disaster, I will not forget.
1:14:56 that wasn’t even the same company though. The owner hired his own people to build it because a more reputable company then and now refused to do it.
The butterfly story with the T-Rex she's talking about is "A Sound of Thunder" by Ray Bradbury. We had to read it when I was in high school, it was pretty cool.
31:18 i do believe in the butterfly effect.
one of the biggest reasons why is because of my grandma's death.
two years ago, i was at home just chilling and living my life. I didn't visit my grandma in a long time since she lived in a different town and there's no internet or anything to do there basically.
My father was going pretty regularly to visit and as always he asked me to come with him.
i thought about it and i agreed, on the last day though, before we went I decided against it saying i could go another time.
My father also decided not to go, thinking there's another time too.
Less than a week later my mother, father and i were dropping my brother to the student dormitory with his stuff, we went into a train and it was late so i started to fall asleep.
I very hazily heard my father on the phone and next thing i knew when i woke up was my father looking weird.
I knew something was up so i asked if anything happened and then he told me my uncle called to tell him my grandma got hit by a car right in front of her house.
Immediately the guilt took over me.
whenever i was there i would always go everywhere with her, maybe if i was there it would've never happened? perhaps i could've stopped it because i would've been looking carefully before crossing?
the guy who hit her was a distant relative from my mothers side, he ended up killing himself after my grandma was confirmed dead at the hospital a few months later.
Yeah I totally get you Seb, I refuse to go out on holidays because of the fact a lot of bad things can happen.
Finally we got a new Rotten Mango reaction 🎉 I've been waiting for a long time 🤩
I hope you upload these reactions more often (2 to 3 times a week) Please Seb 🙏 We Purple You 💜💜
16:26 anytime I have a very good day where nothing goes wrong at all (like not even stubbing a toe or getting pinched accidentally doing something or even having a family member nag me) life be like “you’re having too much of a good time” and then something goes wrong. Like I was having a good time at my cousins school fair and as we are walking down the stairs, back to the car with all the extra food leftover food, I missed a step and slid down. I saved the food, but I twisted my ankle badly.
31:08 I feel like if I told my dad to take his car instead of his motorcycle or even if I called him to come back home earlier, maybe he would still be around and maybe life would be easier for my family.
33:17 I think the story she was referencing is called ‘The Sound of Thunder’. I remember this story from an English textbook when I was in high school.
It’s so easy to put blame on yourself through the butterfly affect because even though we’re fine now there’s still times where I wonder if me and my brother had took the later or earlier bus that one day last year would we have not been hit by that car getting off, if we waited for his friend from the other bus could we have been safe from the speeding car if I wasn’t so he’ll bent on him not missing the bell for class, but then I’m thinking like that it would’ve been someone else’s child so it always gets so dark when you think too hard
21:40 that doesn’t look like 2 football fields to me
I'd love to see you learning about Action Park ❤
16:50 no you not alone I be feeling like that to and I never used to feel like that until I had started watching her😂 because now that I look at it the world is different in different parts and places so everything and everyone do different things and the reason why I be thinking that something bad probably had happened somewhere is because I be wanting to much documentaries and videos like this and it be making me just think about stuff like my future and even the present cuz you never know
Thanks for this birthday gift seb. 💜
When I heard the letter that the girl wrote to her father I literally had to pause the video because I was sobbing so hard. My heart goes out to all those who have suffered from that tragedy.
2:15 what are you doing?
16:10 uhh cool? That’s the nature of pausing??? What’s “normal”?
Not sure if you're still looking for that t rex movie, but i think she is referring to a sound of thunder(2005)
My dad passed away when I was 14. My mom was leaving him to force him to go into rehab for drug abuse. Wednesday before his coma he threw his wedding ring and to get out because I’m a traitor. My dad was on narcan. I knew that wasn’t my dad. The next day we were on the phone and he told me how he was gonna fight to get better and he is fighting for his family. Thankfully my dad got to say the words I needed from him. That Friday he took two does of his meds. Not sure if it was an accident but pretty sure it was. He died even tho is body was alive. People told me it was my fault because I didn’t tell them about Wednesday even though I was told if I told my mom I would lose both my dad and my sister. So i stayed silent then the other found out and was so mad. We donated my dad’s organs. He saved 5 peoples lives. I’m sorry I’m having a really bad mental health day. Thank you if you read this. All this is to say losing a parents hurts in a way I can’t explain
43:00 I didn’t hear anything
In terms of the Butterfly Effect, if you actually could change the future to keep people from dying a horrible death, you'd only get the Final Destination series. The first movie is what happens when you change Fate.
My parents SPEED past semi trucks. I didn't understand until I got older. 💀
It‘s always the money and ignorant attitude 😔
16:50 theres many customs and superstitious rules in my country which forbids stuff when its the day of celebration like for awarding date if its gonna be your birthday/graduation/promotion any personal celebration with a set date you shouldn't be traveling far or doing stunts for that particular day... Any celebration that includes something like that must be after the set celebration day.
Like for example my birthday we celebrate at home or some restaurant but the pool party or mall shopping in another city will be set on a later date.
It includes drinking but nobody can enforce that one in particular lmao.
I’m so glad you’re covering this.
16:37 same but like we need to talk to a professional abt this dude ☠ it's not healthy for us
heartbreaking
this shit made me cry
This is one I haven't seen beforehand hmm
16:47 YES!!
I never go near any water period
I dkn if this is disrespectful to the victims or families [Not my intention AT ALL if it is ㅠㅠ] but one thing I always say is I don't care how mad or pissed off I am at my parents ESPECIALLY them or even friends if I will always say goodnight I love you before going anywhere cause you never know :(
This might sound dangerous but my uncle carrys around a kinife in his car incase for any emergencies or if people try to hurt him because i live in a dangerous country but besides from all of that rest in peace to all the people who died this broke my heart..
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Is it just me or is the volume really low