The girl must wake up, she's old to force people to love her, I'm 23 and I started looking after my self when I was 16, I never sow my father and I don't need anything to do with him... I can't force love from people who left me when I was still a clot of blood
Family is very important. No matter how old you are, no matter how rich you are, humbling yourself and giving your family chance to be with you is valuable
The second part. May those ancestors open this girl's mind so she can understand that she's an adult and she's in charge of her own success in life. May she find healing and happiness.
@@shibumahlobogoane493 very true..some of us njengami grew up without d love n support of both parents n old as iam have never been with both my parents but was raised by my grandmother kodvwa ngafunda n went to university...the situation I grew under made me to be determined in my heart kutsi ngifundze n with God's help am independent today...so people should own up their mistakes yokungalaleli those who were guiding them..i feel pity for those who dropped out of school coz of lacking support
@@shibumahlobogoane493 Dude my Mom passed away when I was 4years 10months, I do not know where my supposed father is, and it doesn't bother me anymore. We need to make life of our own and stop blaming the absence of parents. Its up to an individual to make it work, life is not fair like that.
Aaaai the second show wow this gal is crazy xem u can’t blame ur father for ur stupidity...u can’t drop out to school because of that... here I am today I lost my mom at every early age and I ddnt knw my father but today I have my diploma and working..I am independent because I knew what I want...so sisi grow up and stand up for ur self
Is primary and high school education not for free in public schools in South Africa 🇿🇦,everyone who grew up without a father or mother we hear the very same story of a blaming culture to their failures. She’s still very young there’s more room for improvement she can still go back to school and pursue her studies. At least she had her mother some people will grew up without both parents but still make it in life. Against all odds
Mahali Selepe - that’s sad I have always thought education is free on government schools 🏫 thought one has to pay if its private which you normally call multiracial schools etc
@@brendonmartin9550 that will be nice but the go will be broke unless he get fundraisers , donations and most people don't do that in Africa far behind.
she dwells so much on the past , blames all the external factors for her own short comings , hopes she grows up and takes responsibility of her own life because wow
Being fatherless in the black communities of South Africa is so normalized now hence people in the comment section are repulsed by Nyeleti for being angry and expressing her hurt to her dad,Our parents have a duty to raise us,it's not a favour so she has every right to express herself,Stop invalidating her feelings just because growing up without a dad is your new normal!
tsk tsk tsk, l am sure there are successful people who grew up without both or either parents. let’s learn not to blame our failures to absent parents( still alive) especially if you are legally an adult. l know we are people who follow cultural rituals but most people on this show think if they appease our ancestors, life gets better. l would love to see khumbul’khaya do a follow up on some of the participants. l feel sorry for some of these people & wish they find “closure “ & happiness after this.
you don't blame the man for dropping out of school ...you should have been thoughtful enough to complete your matric and atleast blame him for staying at home because of lack of money to pay tertiary funds.
Weh sesi nyeleti ukurin sukel ku blame papa kuv utsikhe xikolo. Loko papa wehe avalo kuteka wahar tsongo sweswi awuta Rila u ku mhana weh vaku siyini kava papa weh.
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones.
Kasi why vanhu va tshika xikolo in the name of bcz my parents (mom or dad) was not there, not to say that a father is not important but to my experience when you have a mother that strive for you and support your vision you have everything. Stop blaming people and take control of your life people , you in this alone just thank God that somehow you survived.💔 mo' gurl go back to school you still young ani se vo mba wena uva kumile🤗
Life gives us different experiences and we each respond different to those experiences, no two situations are ever the same. We shouldn't group people based on our own experiences.
@@muhlekazi3498 i agree with you there....khumbule ekaya is my fav show and 80% of people who come here are drop outs. All am saying is that your life doesn't have to stop because your dad or mom abandoned you.
I agree with you Kellz if you not positive about yourself first noma ungaba nabazali some people haven’t made it in life there are kids whom we grew with rich having everything but they grew to be something
E swiyimo swa vanhu ni mahanyelo yava manana aya fani...guess wena ur lucky to hv a good mother bt unfortunately the same can't b said bwt other mothers...dnt b narrow minded look at it holistically
One thing I have realised is that anger will never solve your problems , instead find peace and stop the blame game because it will never help you to grow and move on. Most people always put the blame on their parents yet whatever happened between the two has nothing to do with you. Find peace and move on with your life.
Heish dis gal shi talks too much shems...My real dad hi told mi hi left mi when i was 4 months n hi only saw mi dis year April 2019 n um 26 n i was happy to c him ..All glory belongs to God..Its heartbreaking but yu need to dust urself n keep walking to ur destiny if hi is willing to help yu hi will definitely do to yu not forcefully demanding
This second family the dad is a nice and humble man but the girl is talking so hushe of which the dad is trying to explain to her in a very good way please girl you're lucky to see him still are life
Ones Success is not tied to any person! This girl is uttering blame and not taking any responsibility. Her father explained his reasons, we cannot justify his actions but if she keeps this up their relationship will be hard to build
Yes if u don't have food on ur stamac ur uniform u look different from ather kids ur uprbing might affect u questioning ur self u won't understand really athers were depending ekubolekweleni uniform kwabanye Ababantwana 🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆
@ Londiwe n Edith, we are eating in the same plate. I was one of them and ges what? I am a teacher by profession now. And u know what! My uniform looked different from other kids
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones.
I'm interested to know what happens after filming Khumbulekhaya because the young lady in the 2nd Story is too demanding, too talkative and borderline rude as well
Bruv both of my parents are alive but they can't afford to pay for my fees so I use NSFAS, I've used different bursaries. Not having money is not an excuse here in South Africa.
First story this guy is hurt and the person with all the answers is no more, his looking for answers but your uncle probably had his own problems than to be busy looking for children his brother left.
She must learn to accept situation and be responsible of her life.because she can't force someone to love her.dropping out of school is her decision,she must stop blaming others.she is old enough to take care of herself.
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones.
Eish the second story inzima. This girl will cause trouble if she goes to stay with her father. She wants her own room, money, uku thwasiswa ahhh too many demands. She is so entitled and will not last in this home and yet her father is so humble and sounds genuinely sorry for abandoning her.
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones. She craves what she never had like any child who didn't have a father growing up.
The 2nd girl should go back to school. Go back to school, and make something of yourself. Build a relationship with God and seek Him with all your heart, He can fill the void in your heart. You're too young to settle for such a life.
Take time to heel the more u block it doesn't go away I will rather him talk, cry, puch the wall whatever will let the anger go . I know people wants to block the past and move on believing me the wound will ne very sensible if u choose that way.
this girl still have a chance to go back to school , i am 23 and in grade 12 now
GOOD GIRL I WAS 31 WHEN I AM FINISH MY MATRIC.I AM A WORKER TODAY. EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE
Wow u are very brave
Eish first family. Now the uncle has to answer for the sins of his brother, Eish 🙆🏽♀️
😂😂😂😂
The girl must wake up, she's old to force people to love her, I'm 23 and I started looking after my self when I was 16, I never sow my father and I don't need anything to do with him... I can't force love from people who left me when I was still a clot of blood
Eish bophelo mara
True enough of they leave you at your worst why bother looking for them when you are capable.
Good girl keep it up
Family is very important.
No matter how old you are, no matter how rich you are, humbling yourself and giving your family chance to be with you is valuable
Very true people must learn to do for themselves fullstop of the parent is not their wake up and it urself
The second part. May those ancestors open this girl's mind so she can understand that she's an adult and she's in charge of her own success in life. May she find healing and happiness.
She has lot of attitude I sense that
Mxm it bores me to hear ppl blaming their absent parents for dropping out of school. It's total bull, How many ppl made it without parents
@@shibumahlobogoane493 very true..some of us njengami grew up without d love n support of both parents n old as iam have never been with both my parents but was raised by my grandmother kodvwa ngafunda n went to university...the situation I grew under made me to be determined in my heart kutsi ngifundze n with God's help am independent today...so people should own up their mistakes yokungalaleli those who were guiding them..i feel pity for those who dropped out of school coz of lacking support
@@shibumahlobogoane493 Dude my Mom passed away when I was 4years 10months, I do not know where my supposed father is, and it doesn't bother me anymore. We need to make life of our own and stop blaming the absence of parents. Its up to an individual to make it work, life is not fair like that.
@@shibumahlobogoane493 It depends what level of education we are talking about.Without sponsorship varsity is a very steep hill.
Eish Andile! Your glasses. On 👌
thank you admin..weekly dose..let's show appreciation
I like the quality of this film.Production on point.
Iyo mara khumbulekhaya makes me cry Iyooooo.
Am I the most emotional person or someone is also crying out there 😥
Nthabisa iam a guy but I am emotional also
@@johnmoloi9230 esh. It's so heart breaking. Sometimes we can't help it because it's a real show. We cry a lot
Aaaai the second show wow this gal is crazy xem u can’t blame ur father for ur stupidity...u can’t drop out to school because of that... here I am today I lost my mom at every early age and I ddnt knw my father but today I have my diploma and working..I am independent because I knew what I want...so sisi grow up and stand up for ur self
The first guy has got lot of anger unfortunately he is taking it out to wrong person
Of course.he is asking questions to the wrong person.
Is primary and high school education not for free in public schools in South Africa 🇿🇦,everyone who grew up without a father or mother we hear the very same story of a blaming culture to their failures. She’s still very young there’s more room for improvement she can still go back to school and pursue her studies. At least she had her mother some people will grew up without both parents but still make it in life. Against all odds
Brendon Martin not free no.
Mahali Selepe - that’s sad I have always thought education is free on government schools 🏫 thought one has to pay if its private which you normally call multiracial schools etc
@@brendonmartin9550 that will be nice but the go will be broke unless he get fundraisers , donations and most people don't do that in Africa far behind.
she dwells so much on the past , blames all the external factors for her own short comings , hopes she grows up and takes responsibility of her own life because wow
Very talkative young girl selfish also nxaaaaaa
the first guy talks as if the man doesn't have his own priorities🙄
Waze wazehlisa ubaba ka Nyeleti. Noma isenzo sakhe sokulahla ingane kodwa ubonakala ewumuntu onokuzisola.
Donald is an intelligent young man, he's father is lucky to be dead he was gonna feel the heat.
Thank you Khumbulekhaya
Thank you Admin much appreciated.
Being fatherless in the black communities of South Africa is so normalized now hence people in the comment section are repulsed by Nyeleti for being angry and expressing her hurt to her dad,Our parents have a duty to raise us,it's not a favour so she has every right to express herself,Stop invalidating her feelings just because growing up without a dad is your new normal!
Exactly. People just lack empathy.
syabonga Khumbule ekhaya ave nisebenza phambili Khumbul'ekhaya phambili
Kuncono kodwa umzali akulahle kunokuhlala nawe akuhluphe akudlwengule ashaye umama wakho phambi kwakho aqonywe adle imali nezintombi baxoleleni zingane zakwethu
First guy is pushing the blame to the wrong person....the second girl can talk yoooo...too commanding on money issues
I don't understand why he's blaming the uncle. It's not his fault that their father left them.
tsk tsk tsk, l am sure there are successful people who grew up without both or either parents. let’s learn not to blame our failures to absent parents( still alive) especially if you are legally an adult. l know we are people who follow cultural rituals but most people on this show think if they appease our ancestors, life gets better. l would love to see khumbul’khaya do a follow up on some of the participants. l feel sorry for some of these people & wish they find “closure “ & happiness after this.
you don't blame the man for dropping out of school ...you should have been thoughtful enough to complete your matric and atleast blame him for staying at home because of lack of money to pay tertiary funds.
shame this man looks humble and hurt
The second part's Papa is so humble and regretful.
Weh sesi nyeleti ukurin sukel ku blame papa kuv utsikhe xikolo. Loko papa wehe avalo kuteka wahar tsongo sweswi awuta Rila u ku mhana weh vaku siyini kava papa weh.
This show will teach you the importance of not having kids out of wedlock.
Well said.
Some children are born in marriage unions that later break and families grow apart.don't speak as if wedlock is a passport to heaven
Fungai Mabuda 😅
You are so ignorant siesss
The second story,this girl talk too much...im 25,i only met my father when i was 18 years,my mother played a double role...but i did not drop school
I never dropped out of school
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones.
@@annelinejordaan7076 not you but Nyeleti the girl who found his father
Waze wamuhle uAndile
Kasi why vanhu va tshika xikolo in the name of bcz my parents (mom or dad) was not there, not to say that a father is not important but to my experience when you have a mother that strive for you and support your vision you have everything. Stop blaming people and take control of your life people , you in this alone just thank God that somehow you survived.💔 mo' gurl go back to school you still young ani se vo mba wena uva kumile🤗
Life gives us different experiences and we each respond different to those experiences, no two situations are ever the same. We shouldn't group people based on our own experiences.
@@muhlekazi3498 i agree with you there....khumbule ekaya is my fav show and 80% of people who come here are drop outs. All am saying is that your life doesn't have to stop because your dad or mom abandoned you.
Kellz Hlongwane I agree with you . You need to work with wat you have try to better ur life.
I agree with you Kellz if you not positive about yourself first noma ungaba nabazali some people haven’t made it in life there are kids whom we grew with rich having everything but they grew to be something
E swiyimo swa vanhu ni mahanyelo yava manana aya fani...guess wena ur lucky to hv a good mother bt unfortunately the same can't b said bwt other mothers...dnt b narrow minded look at it holistically
One thing I have realised is that anger will never solve your problems , instead find peace and stop the blame game because it will never help you to grow and move on. Most people always put the blame on their parents yet whatever happened between the two has nothing to do with you. Find peace and move on with your life.
She's demanding as if she's the only child kubabakhe
Miss Mathebula may God bless you 💞🙏
I applaud the lady in the second segment for wanting to go back to school. Can black men stop making babies and abandoning them it's really selfish.
Very true its disgusting really aaaa its much kids suffering out there
Childish
Amen!! It's heartbreaking.
Dat girl is right I feel her pain n I like his father he is very humble n hurt
Heish dis gal shi talks too much shems...My real dad hi told mi hi left mi when i was 4 months n hi only saw mi dis year April 2019 n um 26 n i was happy to c him ..All glory belongs to God..Its heartbreaking but yu need to dust urself n keep walking to ur destiny if hi is willing to help yu hi will definitely do to yu not forcefully demanding
That first guy looks like Elliot
🤣
Can you please remind me who is Elliot.
@@smangelerose7126 That guy who got resurrected from the dead lol
lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ei batho ba rata ditaba 6:30
jhiii u tshikele yini xikolo grd 12 ayilavi mali wo ulava kuya twasa and utahlupheka sesi
This second family the dad is a nice and humble man but the girl is talking so hushe of which the dad is trying to explain to her in a very good way please girl you're lucky to see him still are life
Eish Bush ban! Tamaa
Ones Success is not tied to any person! This girl is uttering blame and not taking any responsibility. Her father explained his reasons, we cannot justify his actions but if she keeps this up their relationship will be hard to build
I hate this," I didn't finish matric because of you" seriously?
She just wants to put the blame on her Dad instead of taking responsibility of her actions
Yes if u don't have food on ur stamac ur uniform u look different from ather kids ur uprbing might affect u questioning ur self u won't understand really athers were depending ekubolekweleni uniform kwabanye Ababantwana 🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆
@ Londiwe n Edith, we are eating in the same plate. I was one of them and ges what? I am a teacher by profession now. And u know what! My uniform looked different from other kids
KUFUNDWA MAHALA PRIMARY TO VARSITY. LA ESOUTH AFRICA WENA UPHUMAPHI 21 YEARS YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH UKUZIMELA
Inkinga yabo bathatha izinkinga zabantu abadala bazenze ezabo ingakho bengeke bayapgambili ngezimpilo zabo. Angeke phela ube kaw2 uwedwa.
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones.
This gal neh...... Yerrr she is so demanding, she speaks like a very old person
She's too much but i think her step mother will fix her😂
@@mrstk2672 😂😂😂 right? Step mama looks super strict,she will definitely sort her out
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂Aker ore okgona English.
Angimqondi kahle uNyeleti ngathi uyazthandela isnemfu😂😂😂😂😂
argh this girl is so demanding money, rooms get a life girl
I have a life running my own business
I'm interested to know what happens after filming Khumbulekhaya because the young lady in the 2nd Story is too demanding, too talkative and borderline rude as well
Neighbours ba iphuthile gossiping😂😂
Bo mma ditaba haii,
Lol hai le feteletse
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bo meiki le mmatuli ko skeem saam.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hle bo makhi ba extra
What a humble man there is love it
the last time i checked there was public schools...actually what is her reason to drop out? after metric u get bursaries. gal womanup
Bruv both of my parents are alive but they can't afford to pay for my fees so I use NSFAS, I've used different bursaries. Not having money is not an excuse here in South Africa.
First story this guy is hurt and the person with all the answers is no more, his looking for answers but your uncle probably had his own problems than to be busy looking for children his brother left.
She must learn to accept situation and be responsible of her life.because she can't force someone to love her.dropping out of school is her decision,she must stop blaming others.she is old enough to take care of herself.
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones.
the second girl though
Drop out of school and blame your unemployability on you parents... Mxxxxxm
If demand was a person,is this Nyeleti girl.She winges and blames everything on his dad🤦🏾♀️😌!!
I love watching this program but it breaks my heart. The black people are worse poor since after the freedom it's sad
Marha sesi Nyeleti
Yo! Di nephew tsa Kgakatla where they are bare please Malome go fetch her...........lankwa akere!
Eish the second story inzima. This girl will cause trouble if she goes to stay with her father. She wants her own room, money, uku thwasiswa ahhh too many demands. She is so entitled and will not last in this home and yet her father is so humble and sounds genuinely sorry for abandoning her.
I am the 4th one
Yes B go bona...luv it
yoh neighbours wow, how did they know
Just seeing the car with a sign of Khumbule e khaya. They gather to gossip.
Nyeleti xa complain
Hay sesi wa vulavula shem mi hlangane mi fana na mhani ntsongo wa wena
Sorry I can't stay with her she talks too much with those facial expressions,sorry
@@lizzyndava2185 i don't blame you i wouldn't stay with her as well. I doubt she will even finish her metric.
That coloured lady looks Tswana even her surname sounds like a Tswana surname
this girl
I attitude yakalo girl yaku 2nd story angeke nje imnikise ndawo she's very dependent and demanding 😏
Abandonment issues a real. She truly needed her father. She had a dad shaped hole in her heart. Not everyone copes well with such issues. The pain of not having a father can be paralysing for some people. It affects them for their entire lives. It's not fair for you to expect her to react the same you did. You don't know how she grew up and what she faced just because her mother worked on a farm meaning she lived there most of the time and her father was not there. Her mother tried her best. She has every right to express her pain. Deadbeat parents who walk away from their children need to see that they leave behind broken hearted, living breathing human beings not stones. She craves what she never had like any child who didn't have a father growing up.
Mhani mathebula mi munhu na
I can speak English 🤔🤔🤔
cant he stop smoking when people are eating solong
Next episode going to be lit!
😂😂😂😂How do you know?
@@feyfrank2137 learn to watch previews!
@@ofentsetswai9694 😂😂😂ok
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Im second today finaly
cousin from mvenge mvenge l see you
Here 1st😊😊😊😊😋😋😋😋
Reconcile Mthunz'Omuhle kgotso kebatla alfios makabole mo .mmalebitsa
The 2nd girl should go back to school. Go back to school, and make something of yourself. Build a relationship with God and seek Him with all your heart, He can fill the void in your heart. You're too young to settle for such a life.
You talk too much wena.....Learn to forgive and move on hawu.
Take time to heel the more u block it doesn't go away I will rather him talk, cry, puch the wall whatever will let the anger go .
I know people wants to block the past and move on believing me the wound will ne very sensible if u choose that way.
Ll
The second lady mustn't waste her maths skills. But she talks too much hey.
😂😂😂
And the audience...?
You took too long to upload.
It is nice to be grateful every time than complaining .
@@traceymandloe1194 not for you darls.
@@thapeloobonye417 kiniti
@@traceymandloe1194 o bolawa ke bodutu kea bona.
go back to school then later u will talk about collages and u said u are smart then u will get a bursary
😂
For Godsake!speak one goddamn language😌
Njengoba efake I make-up engasabonakali nokuthi ungubani yini pho ebenzima ukuthi aqede isikole