He isn't bored. He clearly knows all the fake shit going on around and how the whole awards show is just a bunch of rich snobs making each other richer. It's nothing about art or creativity anymore. He looks like someone who knows the truth and how pointless everything he thought was.
JLo is the epitome of a rich snob and she is fake as well and still he married her. It’s his own fault for being a fool enough to marry that narcissist diva Lopez.
JLo’s a performer. She did a Vegas show not that long ago, also she stays so active for fitness. That’s a very different type of person than ben who is only an actor and likes to chill lol
As if you'll get a chance to go to the Grammy's and meet all these stars in flesh n blood lmao 💀💀 Plz y'all love to comment 1 thing but if you were experiencing something like this the first time ur reaction wud be entirely different... Ben Affleck is so used to this Hollywood glamour life style & social events that it has become uninteresting to him.. that's hardly relatable to common folks lol.
@@acmartialarts2227 do your own research. Start with Seth G reen what he told Issac Kappy and after Kappy exposed him he suddenly found thrown off a bridge Nothing is as it seems Often the celebs we would never imagine are involved in the worst
@@Dianasviews - You really think Jens going to let him have a beer? lmao! But she drags him to every place alcohol freely flows.. let the man step out & have a smoke at least!
@@jayannakelley9051 amen…however where there’s a will there’s a way. Especially if you’re forced to go somewhere where you know you’d be uncomfortable for the night. I hope not but looks like booze to me.
🚬 isn't good for your health dudes. But at least he could have gone for a cigarette lol...this vid let me ROFL 🤣 it's so funny...if the dude dsnt love these events he should stay comfy at home...
Dude is miserable because he's probably already woken up to the fact this marriage is a lie lol. They broke up, had kids with other people, and to top it all of he's like her 7th husband. Embarrassing.
This is not a winning strategy to be treating a grown man like she has to keep him in check and no point in humiliating him in public either. How does that help? I'd rather let my partner be miserable or take that sip than try and control him. No thanks!
Ben had dry drunk written all over him. 😳 It can't be easy being at this type of a Gala event, where everyone is lit in one way or another and you have to practice sobriety.
I think he just has resting space face/resting existential crisis face or that's his faces screen saver or his face was buffering. Just look at him looking the same during that viral BvS interview with Henry Cavill
He is severely depressed. Probably has been like that for years. His eyes show it especially. There is no way to even summon the energy for a smile when you feel like that. He looks gaunt in the face too. Outside circumstances won't change that, you carry it inside.
@@rockscousteau Yes true, but these can lead to depression or depression can be the reason you turn to that kind of thing? His facial expression is just too severe to be reasonably okay mentally.
100% ! This honestly made me worried for him. When it gets to a point where you just can't hide it anymore it's concerning. He shouldn't have gone, and if she asked him to go she shouldn't have. When you live with someone you grab a feel for how they woke up on a given day, and whether you should be asking anything of them or not. I don't give this relationship more than a few months or a year tops. He's obviously not okay, and Jen's life is clearly too fast passed and noisy for someone who seems to be struggling with depression.
How many of us have gotten back into a relationship with an ex? I have. Twice actually. And at first, the nostalgia feels so great and then as time goes on you realize that it didn't work the first time for a reason(s) and those same reasons come back around. They weren't right the first time. They aren't compatible but she really rushes things with every dude she's ever been with. This time around was no different, rushed right to the alter for marriage #4. And now things are settling in. The kids are having an identity crisis, JLo can't get enough of JLo and Ben is miserable being dragged around like he was 20 years ago.
My sentiments exactly, marriage should NEVER had taken place. Does anyone know that Ben was secretly calling her WHILE she was with Arod (Another poor choice, btw)?!? And that it was Ben that broke up her marriage to Judd Guy?!? That should've been her first clue that he's totally wrong for her... and then she hooks up with that doofus, ...AGAIN!!! Sheesh!!! How stupid can she be?!? "Fool me the first time, shame on you. Fool me the second time, shame on me."
I get the impression that she's trying to make up for what didn't happen 20 years ago!!! And she just can't let go of wanting/needing this fairytale marriage that has ELUDED her for all of her adult life!! But, she keeps TRYING for IT!!! I don't have much HOPE for Ben because his alcoholism goes TOO FAR BACK into his family tree!! Three family members before him have washed out!!! Some have committed suicide, etc. His family tree sounds almost like Ernest Hemingway's life struggles!
Ben looks miserable he sees through all of Hollywood bulshit he just wants to be at home. And Jennifer wants to be in the spot light . Even though her movie marry me bomed😅😅
Hundreds of narcissistic rich people who look down on the normal people of society all patting each other on the back for being rich for hours. It's pathetic.
I believe that they love each other but it’s obvious that even Jen was trying to pretend to have a good time as well!! Enough with making appearances, just stay home and enjoy each other
"In love with each other,..." 😆😂🤣 Dream on,... Worst choice, EVER, out of all her previous choices,...!!! WTH was she thinking?!? Crash and burn in 3-5 years, maybe even sooner by the looks of things,... How long have they been married? Months...? J.Lo is in her FIFTIES,... She's waisting her last years with that moron... So sad. That's what happens when you pick "pretty" over quality, never ends well. Ce' la vie,...
Maybe he’s totally over these annoying/fake award shows (I would be) but wants to support his wife. 🤷♀️ 😂 Newsflash: many people don’t like being up late at large events. I know I don’t 😂
Exactly - people speculating that he was craving a drink or drugs - make me sick!! The Grammys is crap now ! I would be unhappy to be there too!! Its all woke now .
Quantum it makes me sick to people joking about Ben drinking it so wrong. The man doing his best to stay sober and the last thing he needs is negative comments about him being sober or not. Some people need to stop being so mean you get to a certain age where you just want to chill Jlo like these types of events. Ben went to support his wife and had he not gone people would still have something to say.
I think Ben is the kind of guy who would be happier spending some time in a monastery, in the middle of nature than hanging out at something like this.
I'm sure Ben was good at certain moments during the night but clearly it's not his thing. I know Arod was not meant to be with Jen but I will say he knew how to have more fun at these events. Always smiling, dancing and engaging in conversations.
😂 Some “love.” Some “best friend.” The marriage didn’t even make it two years and most of the second year was spent apart! I think his sad face of regret started on the honeymoon, actually. All the publicity and cameras were a stark reminder of why it didn’t work the first time. He is low-key and private, she craves camera attention and loves an entourage. Wrong for each other in all the ways that matter.
Most of the show was dark and evil. I can understand it not being his cup of tea. Jlo wants her way and when she doesn’t get it the relationship starts to fizzle.
@@Daniel-Strain Ladiessence was just giving their opinions so you're going to get triggered and give your (rude) opinion on their opinion ? Hypocritical much? Perhaps ladieessence will be willing to share that mirror with you 🙃
@@Daniel-Strain haha you're too angry over the obvious and blatant satanic symbolism. It's known for people to use circles in rituals. Your ranting paragraphs don't excuse what's there. You don't see what I see bc your obviously blind with worldly things.
@@Daniel-Strain I love how you used the "everybody else does it and has been doing so it's okay" if people are constantly shown devil imagery of course people are going to think it's 'harmless' and it's okay. You better wake up time is running short
@@Daniel-Strain Umm, I don't want to speak for OP but I think they were mostly talking about Sam Smith's performance of "Unholy" which by its very nature is sinful and wicked by its lyrics which it is supposed to be. I don't know what you call someone depicting Satan and his legion of demons but many would refer to it as dark and evil. It really isn't a stretch of the imagination and considering the # of likes on OP comment others agree. No one is calling Sam Smith evil or saying to go attack him. I don't know how you even get such an extreme thing from OP's comment. So maybe calm down and don't get your britches in a twist. Wars, torture and murder are not the only dark and evil things that exist on this planet.
People don’t have to be smiling and cheesing 😁 always to have a good time,some people just don’t smile very much and it doesn’t have to be a reason for it 😩
Exactly. Some people are naturally serious. People ask me all the time “why are you so serious?” I could be perfectly happy and not have a smile painted on my face. Everyone is different ❤
@@AmyLSchulte well with that I guess I can say if you won't answer you don't know. If it's satanic rituals your beating around the bush with. Trust me I already know.
@@joshuamoore9751 It's really about crappy music, crap performances testing the patience of anyone with a smidgen of intelligence. He bailed early. Good for him.
@@jbjjbb - No, he’s always been upfront about not liking these events. Dolly Parton was always smart & caring in not insisting her husband had to attend!!
I wouldn't ask that from my partner, we're not joined at the hip; we're individuals with different interests, and no one has to sacrifice their happiness or comfort for anyone else, when they don't have to; what a stupid idea! Life is too short. Y'all sound like you've been dooped by codependent, manipulative women with "daddy didn't watch me dance" issues. You can be supportive without having to go through shit that you don't care to go through. I'm a big girl, I don't need for anyone to hold my hand through an award ceremony, or to attend any of my stuff. What am I, nine?! Duh!
@@selmahare sounds like you never been in a serious relationship. Goes both ways… if I’m into sports or whatever she will come and support me. You don’t even have to ask, they will just come on their own… I’ve been married for 10 years.
In roughly 10 years time, all celebrities and influencers will be trans and openly Satanic, or risk being left behind by the establishment that promotes them and makes them famous in the first place. Normal celebrities are being left behind by abnormal, upside down folk. That's what Satanism is all about. Flipping normal things upside down, so that you begin to think in ways opposite to reality. And don't worry, I'm not some bible bashing idiot with a low I.Q. I know God and devil don't exist in any literal sense. Even still, these people are channeling Satanic energy and it can't be a good thing.
Anthony Cirami .... Exactly! I though the same thing too first time I saw this. They look and act as though they had an argument or serious fight before the Grammy's and he's trying extremely hard to not show it but it's not working because he's still thinking about it and how pissed he is from it. She comes across to me as though she's constantly controlling with Ben telling him what to wear, how to act, what to say and not, etc... more like a mother figure than a wife. I don't see their marriage lasting for more than a year or two. This is already starting to get old at least that's the feeling I'm getting from them but especially Ben. She seems to really love him way more than he loves her. It won't last but if it's true love on both their parts they'll do all they can to make it last because love is a two way street not one way. Glad to know I wasn't the only one who thought about the argument thing.
A lot of people who know each other for decades or years rush cause they think that's enough and there is a foundation in that when marriage and dating are two different things.
Simply he wasn’t drinking staying sober is good thing for him clearly but can make awkward pictures on the other hand believe he is very happy having the love of his life next to him 😊 can’t get any better for both of them they better stay together ❤
Both Jen and Ben are Leos a power struggle couple right there. Jen looked liked she was enjoying herself and Ben looked like he wanted to go home. I think Jen checked him on what he said to her and he reacted like a quiet child on punishment.
yep! I'm a Leo and one of my exes was a Leo so it was definitely a power struggle. I haven't dated another Leo since. Too much of a clash for me. Yeah, I think Ben was just over it.
...I think he whispered in her ear, your Bean casserole gave me Gas 😃 ...cause she probably doesn't know how to cook. 🤔 And she wasn't pleased with the comment, or something similar 😃 you know, the way couples interact with each other.
First of all, I'm also a Leo ♌🦁, August Leo at that. Not so wimpy July Leo like her. I've had relationships with every zodiac sign there is. I'm not the bossy / manipulative type, that's a classic falsehood about true Leo's. Actually, I'm a very generous person. Although, I am very arrogant with my intelligence level, and like to show people how stupid they really are, haven't you noticed?!? And "Bean Casserole?". WTF?!? That's not even a typical latin dish, besides the fact that she probably has her very own cook actually doing the cooking for them, since most likely they're vastly culturally different in their eating habits. She prefers Latin food, he prefers Anglo food, figure it out... I just don't see "Bean Casserole" as part of her menu,...
@@joycomesinthemorning6721 Center of attention, hardly. Self righteous, eh, maybe a lil bit. But, not so much. Arrogant, no doubt. Throughout my life, I've always won awards for this and that from school, my job, & my civilian communities. I always strived to be the very best at what I do, no matter what it was. But I don't do it for attention, that just works out that way, I'm not asking for it, nor the recognition. I'm just very competitive. Take a look at my "you tube account", or my "Quora account", statistics & followers are above-average high (not showing off, just giving an example). I'm constantly being asked questions for my knowledge, so, maybe I like being "needed" just a little bit, who doesn't? Especially after 50 years old +? Everybody likes being liked. But I see that as being generous, giving my words of opinion. It's still really up to THEM whether they agree with me or not. But I've also made some mistakes as well, nobody's perfect. No one can really grow and learn WITHOUT making a mistake here and there and learning from them. But I've always apologized for them. Keeps me humble. So, self righteous? Eh, ...maybe not so much. But I HAVE learned that July Leo's and August Leo's aren't the same exact kind of personalty types. July Leo's are more what you just described, apparently they resent being called the "lesser" Leo's. Those are the ones that seek the constant attention (Me, me, me / Dancing / Singing), manipulate things in their favor (things are done THEIR way, "Stand up straight", "stand always on THIS side of me when next to me"), and "self-righteous" behaviour (Nobody can tell me what to do, I'll pick the man / men whomever I choose, right or wrong, it's THEIR choice), and also arrogant (I'm a better Singer / Actress than so-and-so.). Apparently, the arrogant part we are the same way. Heck, just look at my profile Picture 🤭. Oops! That was / is attention seeking, sorry. But merely trying to prove that I DO have the credentials to give quality opinions without trying to be too arrogant / too self-righteous about them. Oops! Just did it again, didn't I? Sorry!!! 🤭😊
This is what separates them, she’s all out type of person, glamorous and all and he’s all laid back, chill, sneakers kind of guy. He looks EXTREMELY miserable 😮
Yep, I get 3 things of her, needy, pushy and self absorbed, he's most likely struggling still with staying off the wagon and maintaining a relationship with his children that are probably quite aware of everything and who knows maybe she bullied him into going, one picture honestly the look in his face looked like a cry for help, looked absolutely just done with it
@@Niki-mp8qe Ben has struggled with alcoholism and depression for years and it looks like JLo is making it worse with her personality.People are laughing, but Ben looks like he's struggling with demons
@@avengingangel6319 because he's dependent. He literally just finished alcohol treatment, then got with her. He's a broken man and he's looking for something to fix him.
Ben's seriousness has always been a part of him but people always want to think the worst for no logical reason and no proof or "he's not happy". On this occasion there were so many images where he appears serious and smiles a bit but of course, it is better to pay attention to what I think is wrong when I am just an ignorant idiot who uses the keyboard but never the brain.
@@mariaokhapkina6971 That could be true, but at the same time you're making judgments from your computer, so you could be wrong also because we don't have even close to all the info.
poor guy is dying for a smoke and a drink. you can tell the hollywood lifestyle that jen enjoys so much totally irritates him. their first break up was apparently because of the same reason: he desired to be respected as an actor and he felt that his relationship with jen was leading to overexposure. while jen basks in the attention, ben quite obviously detests the shallowness of it all!! the same problems all over again PLUS he has to deal with his addictions to gambling and drinking while she likely lives in fear of his relapse.
@@mikenielsen7008 that's because it is a proper noun. Like Kathy or Italy. It also spellchecks to capitalize God as well. (just did it here). It's how the English language works.
"Good Actor"?!? ROTFLMMFAO!!! 😊🤭😆😂🤣 He's as bad as Ashton Kutcher, and between both of them, they can't act a decent movie or series to save their lives!!! They should've gone into Porn Acting, instead!!! Good Acting!!! Bwahahahaha!!!! 😆😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@bonnemoms5413 Just because he divorced J. Gardner a long time ago doesn't make it right that he was calling / texting J.Lo while SHE was engaged with ARod. And that wasn't the FIRST time he did stupid things like that either. Ben has some SERIOUS Character Flaws in his personality. The FIRST time he made J.Lo cheat on her husband or lover was when she was STILL married to Chris Judd in 2003,... Let's face it, the girl is no saint, but she wouldn't be tempted to sin if it weren't for her "beloved" Ben Affleck, screwing with her mind. Hahaha! 😆 Does this remind anyone of "Game of Thrones" when Sophie Turner aka Sansa Stark, was "sick in love" with her "Beloved" (sick & twisted) Joffrey Baratheon?!? 😱 OMG!!! BEN AFFLECK is JOFFREY!!! 😂😆🤣
Donna smith ... Uh ... I give it one like later on this year but if they last then maybe another 3 years at max. Regardless, I don't see them together til their last breath on this earth.
He isn't bored. He clearly knows all the fake shit going on around and how the whole awards show is just a bunch of rich snobs making each other richer. It's nothing about art or creativity anymore. He looks like someone who knows the truth and how pointless everything he thought was.
Seeing that woke shiet and satan dance in Grammys make u want to go home
But he doesnt seems to know jen’s pointless point of rich snobs
@@endingending922 Some people get hard up to post a lousy UA-cam video. I want 3:26 of my life back.
he's a negative loser i wouldve dumped him for all the negative energy
JLo is the epitome of a rich snob and she is fake as well and still he married her. It’s his own fault for being a fool enough to marry that narcissist diva Lopez.
The older I get the less I want extremely public events that go late. I get it.
Agree.
Jlo is older than him
Nd btw Vladimir Horowitz, Alison krauss, john Williams are among the Grammys winners
JLo’s a performer. She did a Vegas show not that long ago, also she stays so active for fitness. That’s a very different type of person than ben who is only an actor and likes to chill lol
Ben more a chill at home watching tv with his wife Jlo.
or maybe hes just tired of the woke nonsense this whole grammys show was
Bens face shows the reaction all of us were having during the whole show.
Lies again? Grab BAFTA USD SGD
He was looking like I've been ready to go an hour ago 🤣🤣🤣
Do you blame the guy.it was such a horrible show they could do the whole show in 1 hour .
@@nickhamon9758 Aye, demons and sexual perversion programing is just as mindless and boring as can be, especially if you're wife starts loving it.
An alternate universe and his game piece avatar was being rebooted-face...
He is half drunk
@@rockscousteau what about the other half ? stoned?
He's probably the only normal person at the grammys. He realizes it's all pointless.
😂yes!😂
Exactly
Exactly
yes
Without a doubt
At least he's the most relatable that night.
If I had to sit through half that show, I'd have that look on my face too.
Agreed. And if I was an alcoholic, I promise you I would have to drink to get through that miserable Grammy nonsense! Blah.
@@cherylharrison3789you all love commenting considering you don’t watch it lol. 😂
Seriously
As if you'll get a chance to go to the Grammy's and meet all these stars in flesh n blood lmao 💀💀
Plz y'all love to comment 1 thing but if you were experiencing something like this the first time ur reaction wud be entirely different... Ben Affleck is so used to this Hollywood glamour life style & social events that it has become uninteresting to him.. that's hardly relatable to common folks lol.
😂😂😂😂
He sees through all the fakeness. Give the guy a break. I respect him for being the most human person at the awards. Love this guy 😎
You mean demonic
@@jackthomas9137 many celebs yes but I've not seen any evidence he's into the occult
@@dawnc511many like who
@@acmartialarts2227 do your own research. Start with Seth G reen what he told Issac Kappy and after Kappy exposed him he suddenly found thrown off a bridge
Nothing is as it seems
Often the celebs we would never imagine are involved in the worst
He’s the epitome of “zero fucks given” 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 yes. If it was a person!! 😂😂😂
G DRAGON KING ,
Why even go? 🤔🤔🤔
Talk about making a public spectacle.
And he ain't getting none tonight for sure lol
Or maybe he's having too much lol, Jen is well known for wanting more than what her man used to gave her.
He was only there physically not emotionally or mentally he looked zoned out
Looks tipsy and maybe pills… he needs his Dunkin coffee 🤣🤣
@@Dianasviews - You really think Jens going to let him have a beer? lmao! But she drags him to every place alcohol freely flows.. let the man step out & have a smoke at least!
@@jayannakelley9051 amen…however where there’s a will there’s a way. Especially if you’re forced to go somewhere where you know you’d be uncomfortable for the night. I hope not but looks like booze to me.
@@Dianasviews - Nah, not drinking but maybe craving. I’m not a drinker but around a couple people who do.
I’d have slipped out & had a smoke break!
🚬 isn't good for your health dudes. But at least he could have gone for a cigarette lol...this vid let me ROFL 🤣 it's so funny...if the dude dsnt love these events he should stay comfy at home...
I had that expression just watching clips of the Grammys online. Can’t imagine being there in person
🤣🤣🤣
he doesn’t look serious, he looks sad and miserable 😭
Yeah. that's what happens when you want to drink but you can't
That happens when you're at one of these neverending things with your wife and can't go home to watch shark week in your undies.
He is exhausted. He has to satisfy her sexually mentally emotionally. He is drained
Because he's married
He always look sad and miserable 😂😂
Ben was like, “Why are we here? You know full well you aren’t even nominated and haven’t been for over 24 years.”
😂😂😂😂😂
Well he knows she had to present an award didn't he? 💀💀
@@Azarath_Metrion_Zinthos Always the presenter, never the presented.
I was the thinking the same thing. She’d only be up for some pretentious honoury award.
No you didn't!!!!😂😂😂
He just wants to be a normal guy sitting on the couch at home passing the award show channel with his remote in one hand and a beer in the other 😂
Dude is miserable because he's probably already woken up to the fact this marriage is a lie lol. They broke up, had kids with other people, and to top it all of he's like her 7th husband. Embarrassing.
Ding ding. Lol.
He doesn’t drink alcohol. Hasn’t for many years. A wise decision
Than he should have stayed with Garner. She seems so much more down to earth than lopez. 😅
Why does drinking beer has to make you feel like you're grown. Can't he have a glass of water or tea in the other hand?
Holy shit he looks tired.
He's probably on meds?🤔
Living a lie must be tiring.
I'm gonna give the dude a break if he is a recovering Alcoholic then he's handlings it the best way he can at the moment 🤔
He married a diva. Of course he's tired. Lol.
@@DS-vt8kn maybe Injektion
Ben’s face said, “only an hour my ass”🤣
Nah, that's a face of an alcoholic. He needs some scotch on the rocks.
Na, He just realized there were 321 men in the same room that slept with his wife
🤣
This is not a winning strategy to be treating a grown man like she has to keep him in check and no point in humiliating him in public either. How does that help? I'd rather let my partner be miserable or take that sip than try and control him. No thanks!
fr 😂
That expression on his face is priceless. He's saying, someone rescue me, I'm effing bored and miserable.
He's a human-being
If she allows him too
Somethings you can not fake and happiness is one of those things 🤣
Some people can fake it pretty good.
@@billj4525 they sure can 💯😮😢
Yeah I am going to have to disagree.. I worked in a factory for 2 years, plenty of people were on suicide watch at that place.
@@rpnp2 that's sad and alarming
You either choose it or you don't you can't fake it 😂😂😂😅
He's face is saying , i can't believe I'm back with this woman again .
Ben had dry drunk written all over him. 😳 It can't be easy being at this type of a Gala event, where everyone is lit in one way or another and you have to practice sobriety.
Exactly! If she genuinely cared about him she’d stop dragging him to all these events!!
No, she has to have a man to cling to.
@@jayannakelley9051 Do you think it drags? she is his wife
I think he just has resting space face/resting existential crisis face or that's his faces screen saver or his face was buffering. Just look at him looking the same during that viral BvS interview with Henry Cavill
He is not sober since he married that woman.🤣🤣
Why would we be speculating all this garbage about him??? The grammys is a woke bunch of garbage now !!
He is severely depressed. Probably has been like that for years. His eyes show it especially. There is no way to even summon the energy for a smile when you feel like that. He looks gaunt in the face too. Outside circumstances won't change that, you carry it inside.
No dude. He has been a drunk and coke head for decades.
@@rockscousteau Yes true, but these can lead to depression or depression can be the reason you turn to that kind of thing? His facial expression is just too severe to be reasonably okay mentally.
he does look sad.
I agree with you 100%!!! I actually can't even believe that is Ben... His depression has aged him immensely... He doesn't look like himself AT ALL!!!
100% ! This honestly made me worried for him. When it gets to a point where you just can't hide it anymore it's concerning. He shouldn't have gone, and if she asked him to go she shouldn't have. When you live with someone you grab a feel for how they woke up on a given day, and whether you should be asking anything of them or not. I don't give this relationship more than a few months or a year tops. He's obviously not okay, and Jen's life is clearly too fast passed and noisy for someone who seems to be struggling with depression.
I think he would have rather watch from his living room
Lol right
Or not watch at all. Lol
Mayb its botox
@@songbird372p7 🤣
Ben thinking about black rapper dudes jlo was friends with
It’s that energy of they had a fight leaving the house and they go ahead and show up at the place anyway and make it awkward for everyone! 🤣
I don't blame him for not being impressed. He was so cute when he winced at Jennifer's nudge.
I know that was cute the way he sorted himself out bless him he didn’t really want to be there. Was there to support his wife.
Cute? If my man couldn't keep a smile on his face in private, much less on camera, he would be goners.
He'd be gone because he couldn't/wouldn't force himself to look happy all the time just to please to you?
He miserable , he married a woman who has hit the wall, plus Westernized,,,get your passport bro..
@Tracey Trotter well she wore 3 wedding dresses at their 2nd wedding so maybe he's tired out of her diva drama. He just looks tired to me.
*He looks not bored but very tired of something* 🤷♀️
Unfortunately of chronic depression,
HE WAS, OF JENNIFER! SHE PROBABLY HAD TO DRAG HIM THEIR. THATS NOT BENS SCENCE, HE DOESN'T LIKE ALL THAT & SHE KNEW THAT WHEN SHE MARRIED HIM!
Nah, he just wanted a cigarette
@@anonymeister123 - So..Ben, go out & have a smoke! She’s not your damn ‘mother’!!
Don't
This is why you don't go back to your ex.
I felt bad for him, most of the music is not his jam!
I feel ya Ben.
I don’t understand why she forced him to go with her?!!
@@MrJammcat married couple
Ben was just being a supportive husband.
lol he should be grateful for what he has in his life. he has no reason to be miserable. he has no idea what true misery is
@@kellymulderino7156
It's called entitled and out of touch...she is even worse just fakes better.
Stars live their lives in front of a camera, every emotion, every type of day. I'm not envious.
Right?! Total nightmare existence.
At All.
How many of us have gotten back into a relationship with an ex? I have. Twice actually. And at first, the nostalgia feels so great and then as time goes on you realize that it didn't work the first time for a reason(s) and those same reasons come back around. They weren't right the first time. They aren't compatible but she really rushes things with every dude she's ever been with. This time around was no different, rushed right to the alter for marriage #4. And now things are settling in. The kids are having an identity crisis, JLo can't get enough of JLo and Ben is miserable being dragged around like he was 20 years ago.
My sentiments exactly, marriage should NEVER had taken place.
Does anyone know that Ben was secretly calling her WHILE she was with Arod (Another poor choice, btw)?!? And that it was Ben that broke up her marriage to Judd Guy?!? That should've been her first clue that he's totally wrong for her... and then she hooks up with that doofus, ...AGAIN!!!
Sheesh!!! How stupid can she be?!? "Fool me the first time, shame on you. Fool me the second time, shame on me."
I get the impression that she's trying to make up for what didn't happen 20 years ago!!! And she just can't let go of wanting/needing this fairytale marriage that has ELUDED her for all of her adult life!! But, she keeps TRYING for IT!!! I don't have much HOPE for Ben because his alcoholism goes TOO FAR BACK into his family tree!! Three family members before him have washed out!!! Some have committed suicide, etc. His family tree sounds almost like Ernest Hemingway's life struggles!
Maybe he doesn't like being Mr. Jaylo. LOL
@@honeybee8002exactly.
Ben looks miserable he sees through all of Hollywood bulshit he just wants to be at home. And Jennifer wants to be in the spot light . Even though her movie marry me bomed😅😅
"Ben Affleck is every husband dragged to a work thing by his wife" = best comment!! lol
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nailed it!!!!
Yep
Ben looked like he needed a 🍷. From Ms. Harper Stacey.
Ben is like WTF have I done? I would rather be playing with my kids.😂🤣
Every time the camera cut to him I was dying 😂😂😂
They looked like they fought before they came 😂
He's not bored, he's goddamn miserable. Anyone could predict the divorce that they are going through right now.
He doesn’t look happy. I hope everything is ok.
HE LOOKS IN SO MUCH PAIN
Maybe he is in pain...
Well he's a recovering alcoholic. I'm sure he is still struggling.
Botox
They are both hired look a likes. Real ones are dead.
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They like to say this is just how he is but Ive never seen him act this way with Jen Garner at award shows
Two things, one he was probably the only normal person in the room ( didn't even want to be there), two he's married to Jennifer lopez
This isn't the first time he's looked miserable. Oof. 😆
He's tired all the time...
Bro was like us whenever we watch the grammys
He just realized that he was in a room full of Demons
Been always look miserable
Literally.
Right
Hundreds of narcissistic rich people who look down on the normal people of society all patting each other on the back for being rich for hours. It's pathetic.
He always looks that way lol has always been vocal about how he doesn’t like these events.
Very true.
But Jen loves to be there and where there are cameras😁🥳
And he has to do it sober. Those nights can go long.
She should have taken a friend instead, and let Ben chill at home, or stay home with him and watch on the sofa.
I reckon she’s a narcissistic. You can tell how drained Ben is from putting up with her behind closed door. The public affection is more of a stunt.
Facts
I believe that they love each other but it’s obvious that even Jen was trying to pretend to have a good time as well!!
Enough with making appearances, just stay home and enjoy each other
I thought the same thing! Her dancing looked forced. They could have been in an argument 😂
She was presenting a award you dummy
"In love with each other,..."
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Dream on,... Worst choice, EVER, out of all her previous choices,...!!! WTH was she thinking?!? Crash and burn in 3-5 years, maybe even sooner by the looks of things,... How long have they been married? Months...?
J.Lo is in her FIFTIES,... She's waisting her last years with that moron... So sad. That's what happens when you pick "pretty" over quality, never ends well. Ce' la vie,...
@@alycat9186 🎯
He wanted to go home and have a drink😂😂😂😂
Looks like he had plenty and a toot toot as well . Damn.
Hit the bottle lol
He wants a few cigarettes 🚬
Right, he probably got him a drink soon as he got in the door lol.
He’d been sober for many years
“The eyes Chico, they never lie “ - tony Montana 😂
I think he's over the lime light, I think he is there for Jen. If he isn't then he is unhappy in his marriage
IMO - I don't think the marriage will last.
Maybe he’s totally over these annoying/fake award shows (I would be) but wants to support his wife. 🤷♀️ 😂
Newsflash: many people don’t like being up late at large events. I know I don’t 😂
Amen!
Exactly - people speculating that he was craving a drink or drugs - make me sick!!
The Grammys is crap now ! I would be unhappy to be there too!! Its all woke now .
Yes Ben probably rather chill with his wife in private at home as he hate fame and over these awards ceremony but go for his wife to support her.
Quantum it makes me sick to people joking about Ben drinking it so wrong. The man doing his best to stay sober and the last thing he needs is negative comments about him being sober or not. Some people need to stop being so mean you get to a certain age where you just want to chill Jlo like these types of events. Ben went to support his wife and had he not gone people would still have something to say.
It’s all fake rich perverts who do the most satanic disgusting things while preaching to us plebs about the climate. 🤮
I think Ben is the kind of guy who would be happier spending some time in a monastery, in the middle of nature than hanging out at something like this.
Ben looked miserable. Probably he was missing his dunkin donuts with a good cigarette 🤣
So glad I can have a cig when I want!
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@@jayannakelley9051 lol.
I'm sure Ben was good at certain moments during the night but clearly it's not his thing. I know Arod was not meant to be with Jen but I will say he knew how to have more fun at these events. Always smiling, dancing and engaging in conversations.
Arod just like the spot light on him and wanted to steal Jennifer spot light don’t be fooled by that player ass hole.
😂 Some “love.” Some “best friend.” The marriage didn’t even make it two years and most of the second year was spent apart! I think his sad face of regret started on the honeymoon, actually. All the publicity and cameras were a stark reminder of why it didn’t work the first time. He is low-key and private, she craves camera attention and loves an entourage. Wrong for each other in all the ways that matter.
Most of the show was dark and evil. I can understand it not being his cup of tea. Jlo wants her way and when she doesn’t get it the relationship starts to fizzle.
@@Daniel-Strain Ladiessence was just giving their opinions so you're going to get triggered and give your (rude) opinion on their opinion ? Hypocritical much? Perhaps ladieessence will be willing to share that mirror with you 🙃
@@Daniel-Strain lmao are you blind ?? Did you not see Sam Smith dancing with devil horns on? You just choose to see want you want
@@Daniel-Strain haha you're too angry over the obvious and blatant satanic symbolism. It's known for people to use circles in rituals. Your ranting paragraphs don't excuse what's there. You don't see what I see bc your obviously blind with worldly things.
@@Daniel-Strain I love how you used the "everybody else does it and has been doing so it's okay" if people are constantly shown devil imagery of course people are going to think it's 'harmless' and it's okay. You better wake up time is running short
@@Daniel-Strain Umm, I don't want to speak for OP but I think they were mostly talking about Sam Smith's performance of "Unholy" which by its very nature is sinful and wicked by its lyrics which it is supposed to be. I don't know what you call someone depicting Satan and his legion of demons but many would refer to it as dark and evil. It really isn't a stretch of the imagination and considering the # of likes on OP comment others agree. No one is calling Sam Smith evil or saying to go attack him. I don't know how you even get such an extreme thing from OP's comment. So maybe calm down and don't get your britches in a twist. Wars, torture and murder are not the only dark and evil things that exist on this planet.
People don’t have to be smiling and cheesing 😁 always to have a good time,some people just don’t smile very much and it doesn’t have to be a reason for it 😩
Exactly. Some people are naturally serious. People ask me all the time “why are you so serious?” I could be perfectly happy and not have a smile painted on my face. Everyone is different ❤
I rarely drink, but there is NO WAY I could've sat thru that dumpster fire award show sober with a smile on my face either.
Because he knows what it’s really all about.
And what's that? What's it really about.
@@joshuamoore9751 If you have to ask, you wouldn’t believe it.
@@AmyLSchulte well with that I guess I can say if you won't answer you don't know. If it's satanic rituals your beating around the bush with. Trust me I already know.
@@joshuamoore9751 It's really about crappy music, crap performances testing the patience of anyone with a smidgen of intelligence. He bailed early. Good for him.
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He looks beat up and miserable. Its almost like the real Ben’s been cloned😮
He's just an ageing narcissist who has to take second seat to narcissist Jen, and he's unhappy and ready to relapse.
@@jbjjbb - No, he’s always been upfront about not liking these events.
Dolly Parton was always smart & caring in not insisting her husband had to attend!!
Na he’s just coked out.. who wants to listen to those phony loud mouthed flakes
He made a bad choice getting married, he was in addition of alcohol at the time he got married. Off course he chose to run away from the fact
Yea, I've noticed he's looked like this ever since he's been with her.
He hated the paparazzi and all the exposure but he married her anyway. Doesnt make sense, he knew what he was getting into.
He don’t want to be there and this is a prime example of why u don’t force people to do ish they don’t want to do
Some of us guys get him. Even though he looks awkward to be there he is there for his wife to support her on the things she likes.
you gotta do what ya gotta do, how else you gonna get the noodle in the cookieeeeeeeeee
I wouldn't ask that from my partner, we're not joined at the hip; we're individuals with different interests, and no one has to sacrifice their happiness or comfort for anyone else, when they don't have to; what a stupid idea! Life is too short. Y'all sound like you've been dooped by codependent, manipulative women with "daddy didn't watch me dance" issues. You can be supportive without having to go through shit that you don't care to go through. I'm a big girl, I don't need for anyone to hold my hand through an award ceremony, or to attend any of my stuff. What am I, nine?! Duh!
@@selmahare sounds like you never been in a serious relationship. Goes both ways… if I’m into sports or whatever she will come and support me. You don’t even have to ask, they will just come on their own… I’ve been married for 10 years.
"I love you , youre perfect,a "manifestation of my dreams"..
🥴YIKES j lo
Judging by the quality of today's music, I could not empathize with Ben more.
AGREE!!
Not going to lie the music was not great and most of the people that perform were rubbish lives.
I am so glad some of the artist out here keep it original and still hold there values and make sense in this world
In roughly 10 years time, all celebrities and influencers will be trans and openly Satanic, or risk being left behind by the establishment that promotes them and makes them famous in the first place. Normal celebrities are being left behind by abnormal, upside down folk. That's what Satanism is all about. Flipping normal things upside down, so that you begin to think in ways opposite to reality.
And don't worry, I'm not some bible bashing idiot with a low I.Q. I know God and devil don't exist in any literal sense. Even still, these people are channeling Satanic energy and it can't be a good thing.
Ben Affleck is an emotional ticking time bomb and if J.Lo does not see that, God help her.
He looks bored like he doesn't want to be there . Or he had an argument with her
Read another article they seem to be having an argument Ben seem to have been drinking
They were arguing at that primere of ‘Shotgun Wedding’. He looked pissed! I bet she’s a nag to live with…
Anthony Cirami .... Exactly! I though the same thing too first time I saw this. They look and act as though they had an argument or serious fight before the Grammy's and he's trying extremely hard to not show it but it's not working because he's still thinking about it and how pissed he is from it. She comes across to me as though she's constantly controlling with Ben telling him what to wear, how to act, what to say and not, etc... more like a mother figure than a wife. I don't see their marriage lasting for more than a year or two. This is already starting to get old at least that's the feeling I'm getting from them but especially Ben. She seems to really love him way more than he loves her. It won't last but if it's true love on both their parts they'll do all they can to make it last because love is a two way street not one way. Glad to know I wasn't the only one who thought about the argument thing.
@@EmeraldJade66 Yep. Totally see it too.
I mean...they rushed into the marriage even though they have known eachother for years.....still rushed... i feel for him
A lot of people who know each other for decades or years rush cause they think that's enough and there is a foundation in that when marriage and dating are two different things.
Ben's face said it all, LMAO
Genuinely he looks like he's going through something. I hope he's okay because he's just got married and she clearly adores him.
Yes Jennifer adores him. Ben adores Jennifer he just look tired to me and Ben always had a serious face.
Simply he wasn’t drinking staying sober is good thing for him clearly but can make awkward pictures on the other hand believe he is very happy having the love of his life next to him 😊 can’t get any better for both of them they better stay together ❤
He’s someone trying to stay sober in a place full of drunk people. He’s uncomfortable
He always looks miserable when he’s with her.
No shit... REALY 🧐
I noticed that too but we don’t really know.
@@barb6868 I think he’s remembering why they broke up the 1st time.
Emotionally relapsing which turns into a complete relapsed . Praying for Ben
He would rather be in Boston at a pub having a good time . He looked like he wanted to just leave .
It was like Jennifer dragged her husband to the work party 🥳 and he was like dam do I have to go to this Sh$t again.
Lmao.
Both Jen and Ben are Leos a power struggle couple right there. Jen looked liked she was enjoying herself and Ben looked like he wanted to go home. I think Jen checked him on what he said to her and he reacted like a quiet child on punishment.
yep! I'm a Leo and one of my exes was a Leo so it was definitely a power struggle. I haven't dated another Leo since. Too much of a clash for me. Yeah, I think Ben was just over it.
...I think he whispered in her ear, your Bean casserole gave me Gas 😃 ...cause she probably doesn't know how to cook. 🤔
And she wasn't pleased with the comment, or something similar 😃 you know, the way couples interact with each other.
First of all, I'm also a Leo
♌🦁, August Leo at that.
Not so wimpy July Leo like her.
I've had relationships with every zodiac sign there is. I'm not the bossy / manipulative type, that's a classic falsehood about true Leo's.
Actually, I'm a very generous person.
Although, I am very arrogant with my intelligence level, and like to show people how stupid they really are, haven't you noticed?!?
And "Bean Casserole?". WTF?!? That's not even a typical latin dish, besides the fact that she probably has her very own cook actually doing the cooking for them, since most likely they're vastly culturally different in their eating habits. She prefers Latin food, he prefers Anglo food, figure it out... I just don't see "Bean Casserole" as part of her menu,...
@@jerrya.rodriguez7504 a man august Leo = arrogant self righteous center of attention overly sarcastic know it all
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Center of attention, hardly.
Self righteous, eh, maybe a lil bit. But, not so much.
Arrogant, no doubt.
Throughout my life, I've always won awards for this and that from school, my job, & my civilian communities.
I always strived to be the very best at what I do, no matter what it was. But I don't do it for attention, that just works out that way, I'm not asking for it, nor the recognition. I'm just very competitive.
Take a look at my "you tube account", or my "Quora account", statistics & followers are above-average high (not showing off, just giving an example). I'm constantly being asked questions for my knowledge, so, maybe I like being "needed" just a little bit, who doesn't? Especially after 50 years old +? Everybody likes being liked. But I see that as being generous, giving my words of opinion. It's still really up to THEM whether they agree with me or not.
But I've also made some mistakes as well, nobody's perfect. No one can really grow and learn WITHOUT making a mistake here and there and learning from them. But I've always apologized for them. Keeps me humble.
So, self righteous? Eh, ...maybe not so much.
But I HAVE learned that July Leo's and August Leo's aren't the same exact kind of personalty types. July Leo's are more what you just described, apparently they resent being called the "lesser" Leo's. Those are the ones that seek the constant attention (Me, me, me / Dancing / Singing), manipulate things in their favor (things are done THEIR way, "Stand up straight", "stand always on THIS side of me when next to me"), and "self-righteous" behaviour (Nobody can tell me what to do, I'll pick the man / men whomever I choose, right or wrong, it's THEIR choice), and also arrogant (I'm a better Singer / Actress than so-and-so.). Apparently, the arrogant part we are the same way. Heck, just look at my profile Picture 🤭.
Oops! That was / is attention seeking, sorry. But merely trying to prove that I DO have the credentials to give quality opinions without trying to be too arrogant / too self-righteous about them.
Oops! Just did it again, didn't I?
Sorry!!! 🤭😊
This is what separates them, she’s all out type of person, glamorous and all and he’s all laid back, chill, sneakers kind of guy. He looks EXTREMELY miserable 😮
I would have gotten Ben a taxi and sent him home.
That would’ve been the loving wife thing to do BUT we know she has to have a man around!
He's a serious Debbie downer.
@@mpazinambao2938 I think he is just married to a dumb wh0re and he knows he effed up.
Is that what you do to your man send him home when he is not behaving within your guidelines. You don't have a real man Elizabeth.
@@timothymcintosh2932 Whoa! Down boy! Probably I wouldn't have brought him in the first place if he looked that miserable.
It looks like they were fighting . Especially when she “nudged” him she had that look about her face afterwards
I think she bought him, whether it’s blackmail or actually purchased him. He’s in a contact to be hers for a period of time.
contract... i agree.. they are together ... good for business.. media..
I thought they were arguing when the camera cut to Trevor in the phone with his mom. He didn’t look too thrilled to be there, that’s for sure!
I think she was letting him know that they were on camera and to sit up. No biggie. Just a wife telling her man what to do at an event. Lol
I know the cameras caught them at her movie premiere arguing & Ben looked livid!
The whole thing is fake nauseating woke trash. I haven’t watched these award shows in years. Wanted to see what this Ben thing was about
She was p*ssed off, he looked zoned out! Surprised he married her again. Bet it's not long!
This man is so unhappy with her and Hollywood. You can see how depressed he is. He's been like this for a while and Jen is making it worse
Then why did he marry her?
Yep, I get 3 things of her, needy, pushy and self absorbed, he's most likely struggling still with staying off the wagon and maintaining a relationship with his children that are probably quite aware of everything and who knows maybe she bullied him into going, one picture honestly the look in his face looked like a cry for help, looked absolutely just done with it
@@Niki-mp8qe Ben has struggled with alcoholism and depression for years and it looks like JLo is making it worse with her personality.People are laughing, but Ben looks like he's struggling with demons
@@avengingangel6319 because he's dependent. He literally just finished alcohol treatment, then got with her. He's a broken man and he's looking for something to fix him.
@@linger4605 I agree
That wasn’t a playful nudge. That was an ‘Act right, we’re on camera’ nudge.
Ben's seriousness has always been a part of him but people always want to think the worst for no logical reason and no proof or "he's not happy". On this occasion there were so many images where he appears serious and smiles a bit but of course, it is better to pay attention to what I think is wrong when I am just an ignorant idiot who uses the keyboard but never the brain.
Agree and it’s just not nice because what if that’s just your face and people are always saying shit about it.
Yes thank you for calling them hater's out, they wish them nothing but harm, God bless Beniffer.
Well at her movie premiere they were definitely arguing & Ben was livid!
@@jayannakelley9051 No 😂😂
Yes he smiles at time and I agree with what you said.
Jlo is the star of this couple. Ben always looks depressed and like he doesn't want to be there.
Ben has said in many interviews he is shy and he deal with anxiety and depression.
He's at the Grammys. Can you blame him? Have you listened to today's music?
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Lol, yeah right, he’s enjoying being coked out and tuning out all the phony loud mouthed flakes in the room
@0:35 "tired old man". He's probably thinking, "oh great they're singing about me now".... 😅
You wanted him, you got him Jen Jen
Agreed
Did Jen tell Ben to "sit up straight"!? 🤣
Looked like it. 😂😂
Yep
He look so old😩
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@k k OMG ... she did!!! Jeez like a child 🥴😶 😂
HAVING TO BE JENNIFER LOPEZ NUMBER ONE FAN☝️EVERYDAY 24-7 WEARS OUT REAL FAST 📽 🎬🐐
That's NOT his world. He was looking so miserable and uncomfortable. I felt bad for him.
this woman loves this man more than he loves her, it really shows!! 🤦🏼♀️
💯 that’s what desperation does to ya
if she loved him, she wouldn't be dragging him to all these events he clearly detests
@@mariaokhapkina6971 That could be true, but at the same time you're making judgments from your computer, so you could be wrong also because we don't have even close to all the info.
You cannot love truly love anyone unless, you love yourself, first!
He hated her 😂😂😂😂
poor guy is dying for a smoke and a drink. you can tell the hollywood lifestyle that jen enjoys so much totally irritates him. their first break up was apparently because of the same reason: he desired to be respected as an actor and he felt that his relationship with jen was leading to overexposure. while jen basks in the attention, ben quite obviously detests the shallowness of it all!! the same problems all over again PLUS he has to deal with his addictions to gambling and drinking while she likely lives in fear of his relapse.
Sounds like a great foundation for a reunition!
Ben affleck always had a stern vibe! Also this genre of ceremony was new to him.
You mean worshipping satan. (Google influence, It spell checks me for not capitalizing satan.)
@@mikenielsen7008 that's because it is a proper noun. Like Kathy or Italy. It also spellchecks to capitalize God as well. (just did it here). It's how the English language works.
Ben Affleck was the most relatable one there😂😂😂
Wow,Ben is a good actor,it's too bad he wasn't able to act like he's having a good time! 🤦♀️
He would have earned an Oscar 😂
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"Good Actor"?!?
ROTFLMMFAO!!!
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He's as bad as Ashton Kutcher, and between both of them, they can't act a decent movie or series to save their lives!!! They should've gone into Porn Acting, instead!!!
Good Acting!!!
Bwahahahaha!!!!
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Dang, he's an adult father. We're all tired 😫
But you're a woman. Why are you pretending to be a man?
@@gabrielle-d1b huh?
Its not the grammys. Its his wife
“Poor Ben?”😂 He had twenty years to think about this, should have known better, he had a beautiful wife (JG) & children”
People always see the grass greener in the neighbors yards.
Ben was calling J.Lo "WHILE" she was with ARod, what does THAT tell you ,...
They were divorced long ago
@@bonnemoms5413
Just because he divorced J. Gardner a long time ago doesn't make it right that he was calling / texting J.Lo while SHE was engaged with ARod. And that wasn't the FIRST time he did stupid things like that either. Ben has some SERIOUS Character Flaws in his personality.
The FIRST time he made J.Lo cheat on her husband or lover was when she was STILL married to Chris Judd in 2003,... Let's face it, the girl is no saint, but she wouldn't be tempted to sin if it weren't for her "beloved" Ben Affleck, screwing with her mind.
Hahaha! 😆 Does this remind anyone of "Game of Thrones" when Sophie Turner aka Sansa Stark, was "sick in love" with her "Beloved" (sick & twisted) Joffrey Baratheon?!?
😱 OMG!!! BEN AFFLECK is JOFFREY!!! 😂😆🤣
Two years tops for this marriage
Donna smith ... Uh ... I give it one like later on this year but if they last then maybe another 3 years at max. Regardless, I don't see them together til their last breath on this earth.
Two years? Two months and that's it.🙉🙄