The last Wedding-related video! After two years of planning, two months on an epic World Cruise and two special celebrations, today we are sharing all the details, moments and behind-the-scenes. We are so grateful to P&O Cruises Ceremonies at Sea and the crew onboard Arcadia, for making it so special for us. Thanks for watching! Brogan & Benji xx
I have a sense that you and Benji have what I call the thing. I know only two other couples that have the thing. It is a complete togetherness that will stand the tests and difficulties that life throws at you. There is a look between you that I recognise as the thing. It was a perfect wedding but much more importantly the thing ensures it stays forever. Lovely to share it.
How is it possible to be extremely fond of 2 strangers. But after watching lots of your vlogs I feel you are such a lovely couple . I had a big white wedding but also my second marriage was just me my husband , his friend and my friend . It was the best day xxx
Love that you did your day exactly as you wanted. Me and my husband were going to elope as we both hate being the centre of attention, and just wanted to get to the 'being married' bit. But at the last minute he changed his mind (only child so he felt sad for his mum missing out). So we had the smallest wedding possible - 4 parents and 3 siblings - and it was magical. In the past 5 years we've lost 3 of our parents, so we treasure the memories and photographs of that wonderful day. You don't have to have a huge, expensive day for it to be perfect ❤
I got so emotional watching this in my lunchbreak. I've been following you for years, and it's been so wonderful seeing you grow into the woman you are, meet Benji and develop this beautiful relationship. I can see the love and joy you have together, but also in the choices you make (from your normal videos to the extra special wedding ones). What a fabulous way to celebrate yourselves. ❤
It’s so right to do what is right for you! Also what an EPIC adventure that you’ll remember forever! Has been great having a glimpse of it through your amazing vlogs! How amazing that everyone stood up clapped for you at the evening meal on your wedding day! Great to hear more about your day ✨
i'm only ten minutes into this video but hearing you guys talk about your love literally makes me tear up with happiness, it's just so beautiful and genuine. i'm so happy for both of you 💖
This reminded me so much of mine and my husband's wedding. We eloped to Antigua just the two of us, he helped me with my dress on our wedding day, we walked to the ceremony together and spent the entire day with each other. It felt so much more intimate and more us. I had a little wobble after I had my hair and makeup done but a glass of Champagne (and a tot of vodka in it) helped loads x
Brogan you are so inspiring and positive I just love watching you. I suffer from depression and your videos make me feel better on those hard days. So I just want to thank you for being such a beautiful person. Congratulations on your wedding. Thank you Jennifer 😊
This was honestly the sweetest video ever 😍 Am a recent newlywed too and definitely echo the excitement you mention about calling each other "my husband / wife"! Huge congratulations to you both - wishing you a long and happy life together ❤️ 🎉
We eloped but it didn’t work out that well and we got a lot of kick back from my husband’s family. I look back with some sadness which is a shame, though I wouldn’t have wanted a traditional wedding at all. I’m so glad it worked out so beautifully for you. You both looked amazing! Such a special day. You both deserve the very best. ❤ I think it’s beautiful and so personal the way you did your wedding: you both love travel, and even the fact that the ship was registered in Bermuda ties in even more places! Good for you. I’m sure a lot of people will follow suit after watching your wedding. All your vlogs have been fab, thank you so much for taking time out of your honeymoon to share it all with us too! xx
What a lovely vlog Brogan you had the best wedding of your life and just what you wanted. You are an amazing couple and you can see you were made for each other. Congratulations once again and now you can look towards a wonderful life together.❤️❤️
Congratulations you two!! It was so wonderful to hear your experience. Your love for each other just radiates. I'm so happy to see that you went for a wedding that was perfect for the two of you. It inspires us to look for the same ❤️ Cheers to many many wedding anniversaries!
Y’all are such a sweet couple! You both looked absolutely stunning on the big day! Thank you for sharing so much. We all can see how genuine you two are and the deep love you share.❤
Your both a joy to watch, what ever your doing....you bounce off each other so naturally, I have enjoyed watching this wedding cruise and still catching up on past stuff now I know you so well 🤭
25 yrs after the fact and I still have no regrets about our wedding. You and Benji created the perfect day to start your lives together and I loved being along for the ride. I hope my boys will do the same with their partners when the time comes. ❤ congratulations 🍾🥂
I have loved watching your vlogs for years. this wedding video made me a bit tearful, as it was just so lovely to see that you are both so happy with your special day and are so in love. Sending loads of love to you both xx
As a wedding registrar myself, I and all my colleagues would probably agree that the small intimate ceremonies are our favourites. The words mean so much more when there isn’t a distraction of ‘what’s next’ and we find these are the most emotional ceremonies, especially a lot of the time for the grooms! We love how it always takes people by surprise and as you said it is most importantly about the two of you. Loved hearing all the details thanks for sharing and congratulations again 🥂 ❤ xxx
Love hearing all about your day, I'm an Independent Travel Agent and I'm currently helping someone to book there wedding in Cyprus for next year, they are struggling with the hotel as everyone wants different things. So organising a wedding for 35 people is 100% new to me so your tips are helping me with my client and her wedding, like you say its about you and no one else on the day ❤
You guys looked amazing, and the day (and beyond) looked/sounds perfect. We're 5 years in, and I still love hearing 'wife' and saying 'husband'! We were pretty non-traditional, too. There was no proposal (I'm autistic and hate surprises/not knowing what's going on etc), we just decided together that we wanted to get married. We bought semi-matching engagement rings, and both wore them. Then we got married at the registry office on Halloween. Just us and my parents as witnesses. We got ready at home together, I wore a black dress and Nightmare Before Christmas Vans, he wore black jeans and a linen shirt. I drove us there and we got lucky rain. Then we went away for the night. Had food at Hard Rock and a drink in a local pub. I cried the whole way through and was just happy when it was over haha. If we could have just signed the paper instead of having to say vows, I would have! Our original Honeymoon got cancelled due to CvD so we eventually got our Honeymoon last October at DLP. To us, marriage is, as Benji said, between two people. We don't really have any friends or family, so we didn't need or want a party, and I hate being the centre of attention, so I couldn't think of anything worse than a traditional big wedding! Oh, and of course, Congratulations again. It's obvious how perfectly suited you guys are and I wish you all the happiness in the world!
What a lovely video this was! I love hearing how you both please yourselves and prioritise yourselves as that truly is what a marriage is all about! Each other ❤
Love really is everything, doing what makes you happy is definitely the best idea. You looked so beautiful Brogan and Benji looked amazing too. You looked so relaxed and happy...perfect 🩷❤️🩷❤️
Brilliant vlog again! The love and togetherness shines from both of you! Your wedding was amazing! We have been married 43yrs and the choices weren't there in those days, our traditional style wedding meant we didn't spend any time together on the day, would have LOVED to do it your way! Huge congratulations to you both and hope 43yrs later you still do things the way YOU want to! ❤
I’ve absolutely loved watching all your wedding-related videos ❤ and I don’t even plan on ever getting married myself 😅 The love and respect you and Benji have for each other shows - you two are true couple goals 🙏🏻
I LOVE the way you did your union! As someone who was married in Vegas (I know cheesy lol) but it was us with a few witnesses and it was perfect! It was just for us and we just celebrated 20 years!! We have discussed a destination renewal for 25 with just us and our kids so I get it! You two are beautiful, congratulations and cheers to a long, happy, beautiful marriage!! ❤️❤️❤️🌺
I have loved all your wedding content . I got married 35 years ago this year and I would do so many things differently now if i had my chance again as it was expected to have the big wedding /reception back then! It has been lovely to see you do everything that is right for you . Congratulations again Mr & Mrs Lever❤
I absolutely enjoyed watching your whole cruise vlog. Congratulations to you both. My two sons both had " unconventional weddings". One with an afternoon tea in a hotel with both sets of parents, siblings, and 3 guests. Both weddings were perfect. My daughter had a conventional wedding and that was also beautiful. The choice of wedding should always be personal.
We’ve been married now for 43 years and we did it our way in 1980 ,so I totally understand why you chose to do it your way ! Your vlogs were beautiful and a lasting memory for you both x
Hey sweetie 🤗 loved watching this Q&A 😊 I’ve always been able to see the special bond both you and Benj have for each other and just seeing you both at the beginning of this video filled my heart. From what you have shared about your wedding we can all see how perfect and truly special your day / honeymoon cruise was. I cannot wait to stay on this amazing adventure with you both and I am truly excited for what is next for Mr and Mrs Lever ☺️ Sending so much love to you both ♥️ xxx
Congratulations. You had a beautiful wedding and all about you and Benji and what you both wanted. I love watching all your adventures. You are a beautiful couple. 💜💙
You’re totally right about doing what YOU want. My parents wedding was hijacked by their parents and they ended up having a big wedding when they’d have rather done it close family only. When we got married my parents made the point that it was our day and that we should do exactly what we wanted and not be pressurised by others’ opinions. The only downside was that they then had to be really pushed to provide an opinion when we asked for one! 😂 Our day was exactly what we wanted though. We had such a good day and I’ll always look back on it fondly. Congratulations again to you both!
What an lovely Q & A!!! And I'm CAUGHT UP!!! 😍😍😍 Your wedding was so beautiful!!! You both looked amazing and I'm so happy you made it the day you wanted!!! My husband and I did non-traditional also. We had been living together for nearly fourteen years and shortly after we went into covid lockdown, in March of 2020 we decided to write a ceremony to handfast ourselves. Nothing was done legally, but we still call ourselves husband and wife and feel married. We may have a legal ceremony at some point, but we haven't felt the need for one yet. Our ways of incorporating family members was to each wear nearly associated with them. Thank you for sharing your wedding details! Continued love and health to you and Benji from across the pond!!! 💜💜💜
I must say that this video of your perfect wedding day❤ is the only thing thats made me come close to wanting to tie the knot .....😊after being engaged for 37 years !!😆Such a beautiful vlog 😍 Congratulations 🎉 to you both !! 😘Xx
Congratulations Brogan and Benji! ♥️. Brogan you are beaming during the whole video!!!! 🙂🌸🙂🌸 you and Benji are so lovely 🥰 take care. Sending all the love 💕
I absolutely love you two and all that you stand for. You are one of the most lovely, perfect couples and were made for each other. The love between you is so apparent and long May it last. The perfect wedding for the perfect couple. I wish you all the love & luck in the world xx❤️🎊🎉🥂🍾xx
Thanks so much for sharing! You both looked amazing. I found it interesting when you spoke about the weather being grey....I hadn't even noticed that in any of your pics because you're both glowing. Congratulations!
I loved to hear all the details about your weddingday en weddingparty. Made me relive mine a little bit, 18 years ago 😊. Also loved the vlogseries on the cruise. Looking forward to future vlogs from mr and mrs Lever 😃.
Wonderful video, I have enjoyed every minute of it....thank you for sharing all about your magical day and party. Wishing you both every blessing for the future...x
Such a perfect vlog to end your wedding journey! Thank you for all the videos youve done! 2 weeks to go until i become a mrs and i cant wait to feel all of these emotions 🥹❤️
Getting married in October this year and the two of you inspired me and my future husband to think outside the box so we are getting married in Versailles and then we are going touring France for 3 months and when we get back we are going to invite friends and family for a wedding after party ❤️
You and Benj so remind Amanda and myself of us.As you know we got married in New York went out alone and every word you have said was us. 25 years later in October. Wishing you both a wonderful life together ❤
Our wedding was a bit less traditional but it really suited us and this year we celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. I really think people should do it their way as what is important is the couple,their day and their future ❤ congratulations again x
We didn’t have a traditional wedding as we were both married in uniform , Keith bulled my shoes , you could see the colour of your eyes in my shoes ! We’ve been married since 1980 ! Loved that you both did the wedding on your terms ! The vlog was absolutely beautiful and you both looked stunning ! Congratulations x
I enjoyed your wedding series. I was a new subscriber. Well done you both looked very beautiful precious gorgeous on your day. Still wouldn't go on a cruise but loved watching you both enjoy your journey. Fantastic series from someone who doesn't want to be in the water for more than is necessary. Your energy is infectious and I wish you both the best, love, and light future possible
Love love love all your videos am soo happy for you both want too wish you a very happy marriage you are really are a great couple all the best thanks for sharing xx
Loved that q&a ,I've been married 35 years in June to my 1st boyfriend 😊 watching you video was lovely your such a special couple ,huge congratulations 🎊 Looking forward to the next video 😊
Thank you for this Q&A ❤️ Watching your whole journey from engagement to wedding has been really refreshing and engaging and it's made me realise just how much control both me and my gf can have over our future wedding one day (we're not engaged but have discussed us being married). We're a lesbian couple anyway so our wedding will never be traditional but there's also a lot of things we don't agree with either in traditional weddings nor do we have loads of friends so seeing you and Benji do it all for yourselves is really eye opening and inspiring 🥰 Because I agree, a marriage is about you two not about anyone else and doing the wedding with exactly what you want is such a brilliant way to set that foundation for the start of your marriage and life together 🎉
I love what benj says at the beginning about why you did your wedding your way❤Definitely inspired us to elope and do it in a non traditional way! Your wedding dress was one of the most beautiful ive seen it suited you so well and looked stunning 😍
This vide9 is adorable. Loved your dress and benji suite so beautiful. We have been married 11 years this October. Our first dance song was a boyce avenue cover as well heaven. Their covers so so wonderful 🎉
Just catching up on your vlogs as we’ve just got back from Disney World, Loved following along on your wedding journey after getting married myself a couple of years ago. So sorry to hear about Bonnie, I cried as I know how devastating it would be to lose our boy Douglas. Congratulations and looking forward to future vlogs. PS where is your dress from you’re wearing on this vlog?
@@brogantatexowatched it now and… WOW as usual… A bit sad this is the last wedding vlog. Start planning the anniversary…lol So glad you were strong enough to say to so called tradition and don’t your way…which by the way was perfect. Congratulations once again Mr and Mrs Lever…👍🇬🇧
O this brought back happy memories. Our day was very long with lots of driving. But we arent a traditional couple so it was still lots of fun. Very true the husband and wife thing still throws me. We also had a party a few days after the wedding day so glad did it that way and saved a fortune. Finally having our honeymoon on Norwegian fjords on iona next year. Fab video. X
Oh my, not me having to go and re watch your wedding video again! Another fantastic video. I have been married 35 yrs this year and you’ve made me want to re do the whole day just the way you both did. I don’t even remember half of my wedding as it was all about making sure everyone else was ok and having fun and I w as exhausted. Your day looked so perfect and chilled. Well done to you both for keeping the day just the way you wanted it. Totally beautiful x
Thank you so much Julie! I think this is very common and was something many people (including my Mum!) told me the same. I am glad we have people before us to share their experiences and adopt our own take on the day we want. Thank you for watching! Sending love to you and your family xx
Congrats again on your wedding 🥂🍾 , you looked beautiful Brogan the dress was amazing and benji look handsome you both looked like you had a wonderful day , I loved the part in the wedding video of you both walking away of the deck it was really nice ……..❤❤❤❤ thanks for sharing the cruise and the wedding ❤
Loved hearing about your wedding and reasons for why you did it the way you did. Makes perfect sense. You're such a cute couple. Congratulations. Personally, I'm not into marriage or relationships at all and have been single for about 15 years now and that's right for me, wouldn't have it any other way now. Wouldn't it be boring if we were all the same? 😍
We had ready for the ride when going into our meal and happily ever after signing register and touch the sky from Brave when we left the ceremony. We only had 14 people and then had a party in Scotland where Graeme is from and then one in Manchester where I am from xx
The last Wedding-related video! After two years of planning, two months on an epic World Cruise and two special celebrations, today we are sharing all the details, moments and behind-the-scenes. We are so grateful to P&O Cruises Ceremonies at Sea and the crew onboard Arcadia, for making it so special for us. Thanks for watching! Brogan & Benji xx
I have a sense that you and Benji have what I call the thing. I know only two other couples that have the thing. It is a complete togetherness that will stand the tests and difficulties that life throws at you. There is a look between you that I recognise as the thing.
It was a perfect wedding but much more importantly the thing ensures it stays forever.
Lovely to share it.
How is it possible to be extremely fond of 2 strangers. But after watching lots of your vlogs I feel you are such a lovely couple . I had a big white wedding but also my second marriage was just me my husband , his friend and my friend . It was the best day xxx
Love that you did your day exactly as you wanted. Me and my husband were going to elope as we both hate being the centre of attention, and just wanted to get to the 'being married' bit. But at the last minute he changed his mind (only child so he felt sad for his mum missing out). So we had the smallest wedding possible - 4 parents and 3 siblings - and it was magical. In the past 5 years we've lost 3 of our parents, so we treasure the memories and photographs of that wonderful day. You don't have to have a huge, expensive day for it to be perfect ❤
I got so emotional watching this in my lunchbreak. I've been following you for years, and it's been so wonderful seeing you grow into the woman you are, meet Benji and develop this beautiful relationship. I can see the love and joy you have together, but also in the choices you make (from your normal videos to the extra special wedding ones). What a fabulous way to celebrate yourselves. ❤
Ah so lovely to see my question/not question included! 1:12
Love the ‘you do what’s right for you’ vibe throughout this! So refreshing!! ❤
It’s so right to do what is right for you! Also what an EPIC adventure that you’ll remember forever! Has been great having a glimpse of it through your amazing vlogs! How amazing that everyone stood up clapped for you at the evening meal on your wedding day! Great to hear more about your day ✨
Your happiness shines through on your vlogs and photos.
Thank you! xx
You both looked absolutely stunning on your wedding day! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
It's lovely that you did everything in a way that felt personal to you. Congratulations!
i'm only ten minutes into this video but hearing you guys talk about your love literally makes me tear up with happiness, it's just so beautiful and genuine. i'm so happy for both of you 💖
Such a Beautiful couple only just started watching wish it was sooner. Wedding was so special. Love and Best Wishes❤xx
This reminded me so much of mine and my husband's wedding. We eloped to Antigua just the two of us, he helped me with my dress on our wedding day, we walked to the ceremony together and spent the entire day with each other. It felt so much more intimate and more us. I had a little wobble after I had my hair and makeup done but a glass of Champagne (and a tot of vodka in it) helped loads x
Meeting you before watching you has made me feel protective- Brogan and Benji you are blessed and a blessing 💕🙏
Brogan you are so inspiring and positive I just love watching you. I suffer from depression and your videos make me feel better on those hard days. So I just want to thank you for being such a beautiful person. Congratulations on your wedding. Thank you Jennifer 😊
This was honestly the sweetest video ever 😍 Am a recent newlywed too and definitely echo the excitement you mention about calling each other "my husband / wife"! Huge congratulations to you both - wishing you a long and happy life together ❤️ 🎉
We eloped but it didn’t work out that well and we got a lot of kick back from my husband’s family. I look back with some sadness which is a shame, though I wouldn’t have wanted a traditional wedding at all.
I’m so glad it worked out so beautifully for you. You both looked amazing! Such a special day. You both deserve the very best. ❤
I think it’s beautiful and so personal the way you did your wedding: you both love travel, and even the fact that the ship was registered in Bermuda ties in even more places! Good for you. I’m sure a lot of people will follow suit after watching your wedding.
All your vlogs have been fab, thank you so much for taking time out of your honeymoon to share it all with us too! xx
What a lovely vlog Brogan you had the best wedding of your life and just what you wanted. You are an amazing couple and you can see you were made for each other. Congratulations once again and now you can look towards a wonderful life together.❤️❤️
I love that you used the Boyce Avenue cover, he has such a beautiful voice. Congratulations 🥳 ❤
Congratulations you two!! It was so wonderful to hear your experience. Your love for each other just radiates. I'm so happy to see that you went for a wedding that was perfect for the two of you. It inspires us to look for the same ❤️ Cheers to many many wedding anniversaries!
Y’all are such a sweet couple! You both looked absolutely stunning on the big day! Thank you for sharing so much. We all can see how genuine you two are and the deep love you share.❤
Your both a joy to watch, what ever your doing....you bounce off each other so naturally, I have enjoyed watching this wedding cruise and still catching up on past stuff now I know you so well 🤭
25 yrs after the fact and I still have no regrets about our wedding. You and Benji created the perfect day to start your lives together and I loved being along for the ride. I hope my boys will do the same with their partners when the time comes. ❤ congratulations 🍾🥂
Stunning from Start to finish… I’m so so sorry about Bonnie!!! Bless your hearts ❤️🩹
It's clear how much joy you both had & I love that you were able to get ready together. So special & perfect. ❤❤
I have loved watching your vlogs for years. this wedding video made me a bit tearful, as it was just so lovely to see that you are both so happy with your special day and are so in love. Sending loads of love to you both xx
As a wedding registrar myself, I and all my colleagues would probably agree that the small intimate ceremonies are our favourites. The words mean so much more when there isn’t a distraction of ‘what’s next’ and we find these are the most emotional ceremonies, especially a lot of the time for the grooms! We love how it always takes people by surprise and as you said it is most importantly about the two of you. Loved hearing all the details thanks for sharing and congratulations again 🥂 ❤ xxx
I love going back and opening our fragrance bottles! Best wedding tip ever.
Love hearing all about your day, I'm an Independent Travel Agent and I'm currently helping someone to book there wedding in Cyprus for next year, they are struggling with the hotel as everyone wants different things. So organising a wedding for 35 people is 100% new to me so your tips are helping me with my client and her wedding, like you say its about you and no one else on the day ❤
Missed you Brogan! Loved this vid. You give such brilliant big sister vibes 🥰
You guys looked amazing, and the day (and beyond) looked/sounds perfect. We're 5 years in, and I still love hearing 'wife' and saying 'husband'!
We were pretty non-traditional, too. There was no proposal (I'm autistic and hate surprises/not knowing what's going on etc), we just decided together that we wanted to get married. We bought semi-matching engagement rings, and both wore them.
Then we got married at the registry office on Halloween. Just us and my parents as witnesses. We got ready at home together, I wore a black dress and Nightmare Before Christmas Vans, he wore black jeans and a linen shirt. I drove us there and we got lucky rain. Then we went away for the night. Had food at Hard Rock and a drink in a local pub.
I cried the whole way through and was just happy when it was over haha. If we could have just signed the paper instead of having to say vows, I would have!
Our original Honeymoon got cancelled due to CvD so we eventually got our Honeymoon last October at DLP.
To us, marriage is, as Benji said, between two people. We don't really have any friends or family, so we didn't need or want a party, and I hate being the centre of attention, so I couldn't think of anything worse than a traditional big wedding!
Oh, and of course, Congratulations again. It's obvious how perfectly suited you guys are and I wish you all the happiness in the world!
What a lovely video this was! I love hearing how you both please yourselves and prioritise yourselves as that truly is what a marriage is all about! Each other ❤
Love really is everything, doing what makes you happy is definitely the best idea. You looked so beautiful Brogan and Benji looked amazing too. You looked so relaxed and happy...perfect 🩷❤️🩷❤️
Love a Saturday morning upload, sat watching eagerly with a cuppa and a crossaint! X
Aww yay, I love that! Enjoy! xx
Brilliant vlog again! The love and togetherness shines from both of you! Your wedding was amazing! We have been married 43yrs and the choices weren't there in those days, our traditional style wedding meant we didn't spend any time together on the day, would have LOVED to do it your way!
Huge congratulations to you both and hope 43yrs later you still do things the way YOU want to! ❤
I’ve absolutely loved watching all your wedding-related videos ❤ and I don’t even plan on ever getting married myself 😅 The love and respect you and Benji have for each other shows - you two are true couple goals 🙏🏻
I LOVE the way you did your union! As someone who was married in Vegas (I know cheesy lol) but it was us with a few witnesses and it was perfect! It was just for us and we just celebrated 20 years!! We have discussed a destination renewal for 25 with just us and our kids so I get it! You two are beautiful, congratulations and cheers to a long, happy, beautiful marriage!! ❤️❤️❤️🌺
I have loved all your wedding content . I got married 35 years ago this year and I would do so many things differently now if i had my chance again as it was expected to have the big wedding /reception back then! It has been lovely to see you do everything that is right for you . Congratulations again Mr & Mrs Lever❤
Thank you so much! xx
I absolutely enjoyed watching your whole cruise vlog. Congratulations to you both. My two sons both had " unconventional weddings". One with an afternoon tea in a hotel with both sets of parents, siblings, and 3 guests. Both weddings were perfect. My daughter had a conventional wedding and that was also beautiful. The choice of wedding should always be personal.
You guys are so sweet together. Wishing you a lifetime of continued happiness!
Why did I get emotional when you spoke about walking into the dining room and everyone clapping for you guys, glad it was everything you both wanted
Aww it was so emotional, I was a bit overwhelmed but it was so kind and special!
Same!!!
We’ve been married now for 43 years and we did it our way in 1980 ,so I totally understand why you chose to do it your way ! Your vlogs were beautiful and a lasting memory for you both x
Hey sweetie 🤗 loved watching this Q&A 😊 I’ve always been able to see the special bond both you and Benj have for each other and just seeing you both at the beginning of this video filled my heart. From what you have shared about your wedding we can all see how perfect and truly special your day / honeymoon cruise was. I cannot wait to stay on this amazing adventure with you both and I am truly excited for what is next for Mr and Mrs Lever ☺️ Sending so much love to you both ♥️ xxx
Huge continued congrats - love hearing the behind the scenes!!
Congratulations. You had a beautiful wedding and all about you and Benji and what you both wanted. I love watching all your adventures. You are a beautiful couple. 💜💙
I think you did the wedding perfect for you guys. You guys look so very happy.
You’re totally right about doing what YOU want. My parents wedding was hijacked by their parents and they ended up having a big wedding when they’d have rather done it close family only.
When we got married my parents made the point that it was our day and that we should do exactly what we wanted and not be pressurised by others’ opinions.
The only downside was that they then had to be really pushed to provide an opinion when we asked for one! 😂
Our day was exactly what we wanted though. We had such a good day and I’ll always look back on it fondly.
Congratulations again to you both!
What an lovely Q & A!!! And I'm CAUGHT UP!!! 😍😍😍 Your wedding was so beautiful!!! You both looked amazing and I'm so happy you made it the day you wanted!!! My husband and I did non-traditional also. We had been living together for nearly fourteen years and shortly after we went into covid lockdown, in March of 2020 we decided to write a ceremony to handfast ourselves. Nothing was done legally, but we still call ourselves husband and wife and feel married. We may have a legal ceremony at some point, but we haven't felt the need for one yet. Our ways of incorporating family members was to each wear nearly associated with them. Thank you for sharing your wedding details! Continued love and health to you and Benji from across the pond!!! 💜💜💜
The little Bonnie eating the cake is precious! 🥰
Loved this so much, you’ve made me feel so at ease with doing things our way when we get married so thank you! So happy for you both 🤍🤍🤍
such a beautiful but very factual video, so cute so happy to see you both so happy xx
Just amazing and beautiful 🥰 it has been so so lovely to follow along on your wedding journey and I am so happy for you both 😃❤️🥂🍾 xxxxxx
I must say that this video of your perfect wedding day❤ is the only thing thats made me come close to wanting to tie the knot .....😊after being engaged for 37 years !!😆Such a beautiful vlog 😍 Congratulations 🎉 to you both !! 😘Xx
Congratulations Brogan and Benji! ♥️. Brogan you are beaming during the whole video!!!! 🙂🌸🙂🌸 you and Benji are so lovely 🥰 take care. Sending all the love 💕
I absolutely love you two and all that you stand for. You are one of the most lovely, perfect couples and were made for each other. The love between you is so apparent and long May it last. The perfect wedding for the perfect couple. I wish you all the love & luck in the world xx❤️🎊🎉🥂🍾xx
Thanks so much for sharing! You both looked amazing. I found it interesting when you spoke about the weather being grey....I hadn't even noticed that in any of your pics because you're both glowing. Congratulations!
Congratulations Guys! Love watching your videos! am glad you both did what felt right for you as a couple!💖💖👍
I loved to hear all the details about your weddingday en weddingparty. Made me relive mine a little bit, 18 years ago 😊. Also loved the vlogseries on the cruise. Looking forward to future vlogs from mr and mrs Lever 😃.
Absolutely loved the photo of you on the deck on your own ❤
Wonderful video, I have enjoyed every minute of it....thank you for sharing all about your magical day and party. Wishing you both every blessing for the future...x
Oh congratulations your wedding looked amazing ❤
Aw congratulations both of you. Your dress is beautiful ❤🎉😊
Such a perfect vlog to end your wedding journey! Thank you for all the videos youve done! 2 weeks to go until i become a mrs and i cant wait to feel all of these emotions 🥹❤️
Well the wedding is over on to the next chapter as a married couple can't wait to join you in your journey as a married couple
Getting married in October this year and the two of you inspired me and my future husband to think outside the box so we are getting married in Versailles and then we are going touring France for 3 months and when we get back we are going to invite friends and family for a wedding after party ❤️
What a beautiful wedding you both had. So glad you did what you both wanted. You both looked so beautiful and happy xx
You and Benj so remind Amanda and myself of us.As you know we got married in New York went out alone and every word you have said was us. 25 years later in October. Wishing you both a wonderful life together ❤
We also eloped in NYC 🙋🏼♀️ and absolutely loved that you’re normalising this ❤
Such an awesome video. Loved getting an insight into the epic journey!! Congratulations to you both once again❤
Our wedding was a bit less traditional but it really suited us and this year we celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. I really think people should do it their way as what is important is the couple,their day and their future ❤ congratulations again x
Loved this! So much fun to hear all about it.
We didn’t have a traditional wedding as we were both married in uniform , Keith bulled my shoes , you could see the colour of your eyes in my shoes ! We’ve been married since 1980 ! Loved that you both did the wedding on your terms ! The vlog was absolutely beautiful and you both looked stunning ! Congratulations x
Such a great celebration of the two of you! Honestly so lovely to see you both so so happy! ❤❤
Thank you so much Sarah! xx
I enjoyed your wedding series. I was a new subscriber. Well done you both looked very beautiful precious gorgeous on your day. Still wouldn't go on a cruise but loved watching you both enjoy your journey. Fantastic series from someone who doesn't want to be in the water for more than is necessary. Your energy is infectious and I wish you both the best, love, and light future possible
Thank you so much, big warm welcome and thank you for subscribing! That is so kind, sending the best to you too! x
You both looked so beautiful and happy. I actually cheered when I first saw you in that dress 👌
Love love love all your videos am soo happy for you both want too wish you a very happy marriage you are really are a great couple all the best thanks for sharing xx
Loved that q&a ,I've been married 35 years in June to my 1st boyfriend 😊 watching you video was lovely your such a special couple ,huge congratulations 🎊
Looking forward to the next video 😊
Hehe happy to have been woken up at 5am 😊 loved the video! 💕
Yayyyy been looking forward to seeing this. Thankyou for a lovely surprise on a Saturday morning xx
Thanks Rochelle for watching! xx
Thank you for this Q&A ❤️ Watching your whole journey from engagement to wedding has been really refreshing and engaging and it's made me realise just how much control both me and my gf can have over our future wedding one day (we're not engaged but have discussed us being married). We're a lesbian couple anyway so our wedding will never be traditional but there's also a lot of things we don't agree with either in traditional weddings nor do we have loads of friends so seeing you and Benji do it all for yourselves is really eye opening and inspiring 🥰 Because I agree, a marriage is about you two not about anyone else and doing the wedding with exactly what you want is such a brilliant way to set that foundation for the start of your marriage and life together 🎉
Thank you so much! We love to hear that! I hope whatever day you choose to have is so special. Sending love and the same to you both! xx
I love what benj says at the beginning about why you did your wedding your way❤Definitely inspired us to elope and do it in a non traditional way! Your wedding dress was one of the most beautiful ive seen it suited you so well and looked stunning 😍
Amazing! I hope you had a wonderful day. Thank you so much! xx
We got married last year by a lake with just 6 guests (both sets of parents and my husband’s grandparents). It was absolutely perfect ❤
Huge congratulations to you both. Your content is fabulous and its so clear how much you both enjoy your life together. Keep being you xxx
Thank you, Samantha! xx
This vide9 is adorable. Loved your dress and benji suite so beautiful.
We have been married 11 years this October. Our first dance song was a boyce avenue cover as well heaven. Their covers so so wonderful 🎉
Huge Congratulations again B and Benji!!! Ye are such a beautiful couple and best friends! Love ye
Thank you so much!! xx
It has been so lovely to follow all your wedding plans and amazing travels. Massive congratulations to you both ❤
Thank you so much! xx
Just catching up on your vlogs as we’ve just got back from Disney World, Loved following along on your wedding journey after getting married myself a couple of years ago. So sorry to hear about Bonnie, I cried as I know how devastating it would be to lose our boy Douglas. Congratulations and looking forward to future vlogs. PS where is your dress from you’re wearing on this vlog?
Lovely! The perfect getting ready for work video that I need this morning.Can’t wait to listen to this XX
Aww enjoy! Have a good day! xx
Darn I haven’t got time to watch this until this evening!
Looking forward to seeing it tremendously👍🇬🇧
Have a great day and enjoy the vlog later!! xx
@@brogantatexowatched it now and…
WOW as usual…
A bit sad this is the last wedding vlog.
Start planning the anniversary…lol
So glad you were strong enough to say to so called tradition and don’t your way…which by the way was perfect.
Congratulations once again Mr and Mrs Lever…👍🇬🇧
You look so happy and radiant!! Congratulations again❤️
Thank you so much!! xx
i woke up early to watch this video! so so happy for you and benji, you’re both made for each other xx💗
You're so sweet! Thank you so much! xx
O this brought back happy memories. Our day was very long with lots of driving. But we arent a traditional couple so it was still lots of fun. Very true the husband and wife thing still throws me. We also had a party a few days after the wedding day so glad did it that way and saved a fortune. Finally having our honeymoon on Norwegian fjords on iona next year. Fab video. X
This video just radiates joy ❤
Oh my, not me having to go and re watch your wedding video again! Another fantastic video. I have been married 35 yrs this year and you’ve made me want to re do the whole day just the way you both did. I don’t even remember half of my wedding as it was all about making sure everyone else was ok and having fun and I w as exhausted. Your day looked so perfect and chilled. Well done to you both for keeping the day just the way you wanted it. Totally beautiful x
Thank you so much Julie! I think this is very common and was something many people (including my Mum!) told me the same. I am glad we have people before us to share their experiences and adopt our own take on the day we want. Thank you for watching! Sending love to you and your family xx
Omg my question! Hehe - so glad you had a beautiful day you deserve it xx
Thanks for asking it! Aww thank you xx
Congrats again on your wedding 🥂🍾 , you looked beautiful Brogan the dress was amazing and benji look handsome you both looked like you had a wonderful day , I loved the part in the wedding video of you both walking away of the deck it was really nice ……..❤❤❤❤ thanks for sharing the cruise and the wedding ❤
Thank you so so much! xx
Loved hearing about your wedding and reasons for why you did it the way you did. Makes perfect sense. You're such a cute couple. Congratulations. Personally, I'm not into marriage or relationships at all and have been single for about 15 years now and that's right for me, wouldn't have it any other way now. Wouldn't it be boring if we were all the same? 😍
We had ready for the ride when going into our meal and happily ever after signing register and touch the sky from Brave when we left the ceremony.
We only had 14 people and then had a party in Scotland where Graeme is from and then one in Manchester where I am from xx
Love your approach to everything !
Thank you!
You guys are so cute! Congratulations again ❤