girl, lady, woman, miss, anything you want to be called, your videos are brilliant!! i can watch you all day. i'm american, your accent kills is too beautiful
Jane Erstić , is it true that everyone finds big lips more attractive? I dated a man who volunteered to me that he preferred a woman with thin lips (which I have) as he found such a mouth more attractive , he said that he found women with full lips a turn-off; he said that he had found the experience of kissing "big" lips (he called them "balloon lips") disgusting. The fact is that there are millions of women on this planet with thin lips, and they have no more trouble finding a love partner, than women with full lips. Perhaps their partners are all like the man I mentioned i.e. people who find thin lips attractive. it goes without saying that thin lips as a genetic trait would have died out ages ago, if a substantial proportion of our planet's ancestors thought that thin lips on a sexual partner was unattractive. When surveys start talking about "we", it's a major red flag to me. Who exactly are this "we"? So many social surveys quoted today are done on only a tiny number of respondents who are often all the same age, sex, social class, culture (usually Western) and language group - no wonder the respondents all say the same thing. It's bad science, and it results in wrong conclusions. Surveys need to investigate many thousands of people of all races and cultures and nations before they start talking about what "we" as humans prefer.
You basically destroyed the myth that you need big lips to be beautiful by giving one killer example after another. This is the kind of feminism we need in 2019
I agree this is basically how I feel about stuff, if something bothers you then do something about it no matter what it is from an addiction or a bad thing that hurts you just something silly that causes you stress. Why I have additional stress in our lives when we can keep working on staying emotionally centered so we can cope better with the hurricane of life that will inevitably come back our way. I think people should learn to see their truth and honor themselves for their full truth all the bad and good so that we have humility in addition to our confidence.
I wasn’t even referring to plastic surgery or lip fillers in my comment. I was just saying that lips do not need to be full to be beautiful, even though that has become a widely-accepted belief. I think that’s what Aly was implying as well. Not that lip fillers are good or bad, just that enhancing the size of your lips will not automatically make you more beautiful.
Solidsilenceful of course and I agree really, if that’s their thing then of course they shouldn’t be criticised. I love the different make up looks some women/men have, I guess I would just be scared of something going wrong or what if I didn’t like it, thinking about fillers etc, those kinds of thoughts would probably wear me out before I got to go through with it. But I take pain killers and stuff so I guess we all have our thing and we have to live with ourselves and it’s what we think about ourselves and what we think of what we do with ourselves that’s most important, you’re right. But I think the video made a good point in that despite what we are lead to believe, we don’t have to have big lips to be found attractive. They can look attractive but there are people who are attractive without them, also.
Maybe it's because you have thin lips and this video is all about how women can also be beautiful with thin lips? Or maybe you have other features that are different from what women think are the most attractive features to have in this day and age?
Because she puts everything into perspective. Beauty is just something that is made up and agreed on, but most importantly - it also changes. If you wake up feeling that you are not beautiful, it's probably because you are "a slave" to the beauty standards that we made up for ourselves. Beauty standards are not real. They don't define real beauty. 🙂
this is what body positivity should look like, analyzing actual attractive features that are different, not just imposing some random features or bodies
I like you because you talk about beauty from an analytical, almost scientific perspective. It makes a lot of sense and it's not something many 'beautubers' do.
You are so right,...this brings to mind what my brother told me years ago when I was an awkward teenager,... people look at you as a whole not a single feature
You can make money if you analyse people, tell them which body type/face they are what eye/lip/face shape they have and give them tips that suit their types, I bet many many fans would be interested since you've got an aesthetic eye! Because many of us are still so lost no matter how many videos you upload 😂 it's just a gift you've got.
I used to be self conscious of my lips because the top lip is thinner . This video totally boosted my confidence ! Everyone’s face is unique and beautiful in their own way. I have small features and small lips with a round face . You explain things so beautifully and I love how you see beauty in every different unique face . You are so amazing 💕
Amazing video. I loved that you pointed out how beautiful thinner lips can be. I live in Seoul, South Korea, which can be said to be the plastic surgery capital of the world. People come from all over the world to get work done here. There was a certain look that lots of women got done years ago and it's very obvious. They lose their individuality unfortunately as it wasn't just one thing, it was everything on the face done: the eyes, nose, chin and lips. That look actually ends up dating them as it become obvious that they had it done several years ago, and it's the same face on many women. We visited a plastic surgery clinic recently for an upcoming video, and apparently these days it is more fashionable to have a much more natural look, with minor work done, rather than the whole face. So that's more positive. I think if more women were exposed to dialogue about different types of beauty, like how you talked about it here, there could have been less cases of women ending up with the same face.
@@cheeseborger8067 I think she means double eyelids and huge eyes in general, a V-shaped chin (extremely shaving the jaw down), higher nose with downtilted nosetip
@@cheeseborger8067 just do a search for "south korean beauty standards" and you'll see what they mean. Especially with idols, a lot of them have extremely similar face shapes or homogenized features. Chin, eyes, and nose seem to be the most common surgeries done there, but people come from all over the world to get other types done, even things like gender reassignment because the surgeons are so good/have had so much practice. But just looking up the beauty standard will show you.
I have been feeling pretty low lately and feeling like i'm not good enough after a rough break-up, i've even been considering injections and other beauty treatments to make myself feel better, that's how i stumbled upon this video actually. But i love how u somehow were able to make me appreciate my face more through dissecting facial features and really enhancing the beauty of all the different faces. I was rlly not expecting such an outcome. Thank you, i loved hearing ur opinion. U've gained a new subscriber💕💕
never let anyone's presence in your life be the measuring stick of your self worth or beauty. you are beautiful and we don't all need to look alike . big lips and tiny noses and big eyes etc . it's about the harmony in your anatomy and that is just god given to everyone.
black91ize Your post makes me so sad! The only things you should feel bad about in the ending of a relationship is what you are personally responsible for; did you do something detrimental to the relationship?; did you simply make a bad choice in the first place? How you look has absolutely nothing to do with a breakup and all the plastic surgery in the world is not going to make your life wonderful Only YOU can do that!
Also, generally, the features I loved most about my partners was usually their "flaws". Bumps on the nose, cute wonky smiles... it's our differences that make us unique.
This was amazing. I have petite lips which my boyfriend would always say are lovely and proportionate to my face but I got so caught up in the trend of big lips and became convinced I needed fillers. Your video has reassured me and logically broken down why this huge lip trend does not equal beauty, it's just a trend and not the ideal we all must have. I feel so much better about myself after watching this and really keen to love myself more for how nature created me. So glad I didn't change my little lips. Thank you 💜
I actually want to hear your thoughts about this "angel vs witch skull" theory. You are very smart lady! Does skull shape, bone structure and tongue posture really determine how beautiful we are?
The tongue posture influences the face very much! Google mouth breathing, if you are breathing through the mouth your tongue posture automatically differs!
Tongue posture, to an extent, will influence jaw development - genetics are a factor as well. It's akin to how nutrition influences our height, but genetics also factor in as to how tall we can grow. Proper tongue position will help one achieve their personal best in terms of jaw development, proper nutrition will help one achieve their maximum height, but again, genetics are a factor in terms of just how tall one can grow.
Your voice is so musical and soft, and I am in love with how you describe these women, these realmpeople, whose faces are so perfectly designed, as only a leaf, a flower, a sunrise, can be... you're such a blessing, Miss Aly! Thank you so much for reminding people that our faces happen with their own character, 2ith a naturally pccuring beauty, that is always more equisite than any mass produced idea :)
Geez - no wonder women have body dysmorphia. When Kate Winslet made Titanic she was practically ridiculed out of Hollywood and called fat because she has soft lines. She did finally leave and go to London where they were so much nicer to her. Madonna is naturally a romantic but she did everything she possibly could to look like a Natural or Dramatic by working out like a maniac and under-eating to create harder angles and lines on her face and body. She eventually left and went to London as well. Hollywood is a cruel place that makes a lot of us have an exceedingly warped perception of ourselves.
I hate that people perceive us romantics and theatrical romantics as fat because of our soft lines and fleshy bodies. That's why I've been dealing with eating disorders for so long...
@@kuramacabre Don’t listen to them. The romantic body type is super feminine. I’m a soft gamine and think the romantic body type is one of the most ideal body types. Marilyn Monroe had it.
The true definition of a beauty guru. I love that you appreciate everyone’s natural beauty. No one is better than anyone else. Of course every era has a ‘trend’ about what is seen as the ideal but I adore your message of looking at yourself as a whole and embracing what makes you unique
This is sooo good! Instead of making us feel like we need to change something, you make us feel comfortable in our skin and teach us to embrace our particularities. Your content is the best!
It would be so great if you could describe subscriber's faces. All these beautiful women seem so perfect, it's hard for me to see their faces as "soft" or "dry" because they all have perfect cheekbones and full lips.
I second the idea of dissecting subscribers' faces and giving advice based on everyday women's faces / bodies. I've just been wondering whether it's possible to send her pictures with questions.
Normal woman/men who are on instagram seem to go for the instagram look Aka puffy lips, harsh cheeks, V-shaped chins, harsh eyebrows and the shiny nose. There's no variety. It looks like they all go to the seem botcher doctor. Where as the A-celebs seems to enhance their features either with make-up or the right type of fillings. That's why there were so many differences. Even Kim queen of cosmetics Kardashian looks really normal. And seem to have been enhancing her features instead of changing it except for her butt though. And the celebs that have been shown... i see a lot of people that look like them or heck even better. But unfortunately most of these people i've seen or some B-C-celebs seem to go for the Instagram look. And mess up their look. For example Charlotte Crosby. I used to find her really beautiful. Now... she went overboard.
yeppeun seonyeoyeo I’ve learned the term dry form fitness people. It’s about having less ‘meat’ on the body where the muscles and bones become more prone.
I'm African with tiny lips, I'd really like to have full beautiful lips, but I wasn't lucky 🤣 I thought about lip injections but I want to accept myself the way I am.💖
Would love to hear your opinion on eyebrows. I don't understand this trend of everyone drawing on huge eyebrows the shape of Kim Kardashian's. Doesn't matter what shape their face is, nor does it matter the original shape of their eyebrows, it's as if they're all using a stencil (the same shape) and spray painting them on, and way too heavy.
you're totally right that you perceive people "head-to-toe" and not any particular part unless you yourself are obsessed with that particular part. before i became obsessed with my nose i found wildly different people attractive, who i probably wouldnt find attractive now. because i am obsessed with the idea that my own nose is the sole thing that brings down my entire appearance, i now fixate on people's noses the instant i see them. i decide whether people are attractive or not based almost solely on whether they have a nose i have decided to be "correct". its weird.
Same! It's a terrible habit but I understand that I've only become focused on such features because I'm saving up for plastic surgery, and so considering other people's features helps me decide what I want and what would suit and enhance my face.
Man, even dental work like fillings and wisdom teeth extraction can really do a number on your face. Really workin on regaining my balance after that. Love yourselves folks.
@@martaleszkiewicz5115 me too. I extracted a wisdom tooth and that side is now thinner. I never understood why that side became smaller. Just a few weeks ago I saw a person telling that she has a side of her face thinner thanks to a wisdom tooth extration. Now I don't know what to do.. If only I could go back in time 😩
@rebecca elizabeth If I was you I wouldn't, not only because of what happened to me (that doesn't mean that'll happen to you) but also because I believe in Traditional Chinese Medicine where everything in the body is conected so if you do something to a specific teeth it'll show up in a certain organ. Also, one thing I also regret doing is a root canal 😩 Dear Jesus, what was I thinking about 😥
I feel like people have lip fillers to look better, but if you really look at before and after photos - they don’t look better with fillers. Just more like everyone else.
MonacoDK And their mouths do not move normally when they speak. Ditto veneers! Between the inappropriate and unnecessary filler and protruding veneers I think I now look rificulous.
Ikr. Theyll go “oh but it gives me confidence so what does it matter to people”. Well girl the only reason ur getting plastic surgeries is because of people, its because of societies perception of beautiful. Non surgical procedures r fine because they dont really change ir face permanently but noe jobs etc. do. Balance is beauty.
love your message! It's not realistic or possible for everyone to look like perfect clones of each other, we should all embrace the type of beauty we have!!
You've featured A LOT of people with cosmetic enhancements in the video (nearly all the modern ones). Apart from that, I like your analysis as always!!
everyone is beautiful. we need to come out of this infatuation with looking all the same. harmony is key. and we all have that. everything balances out. it's just natural. it's not that we lack beauty but rather that the beholder lacks the ability to see it.
The worst thing is that she tells everyone to be strong and feel beautiful in her music but actually she is so insecure about herself that she has to put fillers and look horrible now.. She is the worst
Aly this video was such a confidence boost. A number of people have told me that my lips fit my face and I struggled to believe them. I am a soft natural and have defined cheekbones, jaw bone but soft features as well. This video has taught me to believe that my lips do fit my face well and had they been different; they would not look natural. I love what you do, thank you for boosting every womans self esteem with your videos:)
This was THE BEST body acceptance/positivity video I have ever seen! You presented in a completely different way and spoke to your audience as the mutually intelligent women we are. Thank you, thank you 💛 I donated to you, the first youtuber I have ever felt the impulse to. Bright future and good things no doubt. Can’t wait to see your Ted talk one day 😉
This is my favourite video on the Internet right now. Basically half an hour of a woman praising other women for how they look but not from a place of jealousy. We need more of this in this world. As women being happy for other women and their unique beauty! You are right that so many of these women, if they'd not been successful, might think they had to change their lips.
I love your videos so much!!! Only person I've seen approaching beauty this way. It has also really helped with my confidence. I am a "Natural" kibbe body type and for so many years I never understood why full glam didn't look right on me but neither did a super tailored professional look. I just thought I was the problem until I watched your videos and understood what suits me. Thank you so much
I’m still watching the video, but I had to comment on Olivia Munn. She has clearly had a LOT of work done. If you compare this to her old pictures she used to have a wider face and jawline. She also had thinner lips. It appears like she has filler in her cheeks. No hate at all, she still looks great but she has definitely softened her face.
Not just Olivia, nearly all of them!! Good work is undetectable and this is missing from the video. People think about generic, cartoonish work only!! People are being fooled all the time by subtle work!
your videos make me so excited to creatively find my own personal sense of beauty. i wish i could share this giddy happy empowerment with everyone. my confidence and social life are soaring since finding your videos and embracing the raw material of myself to create beauty.
Good point with the ‚movable face‘. I‘m one of those people...I seem to have twice the amount of muscles in my face than regular people...and they move quite independently of each other. When I ‚make a face‘, for example, I usually only do it with the left side. I raise my left eyebrow or the corner of my mouth just on the left...it’s quite weird. I would feel like a robot, if I lost that ability, so Botox definitely isn’t an option for me. Not so sure about fillers...I love, how it looks, when I have slightly swollen lips from spicy food...it softens up my angular face and very defined features. I just don’t want to deal with the costs of the upkeep.
Hafsa Al-Awadhi are you Arab? Middle eastern women are so naturally beautiful. It’s a shame some of you get surgery. You’re the types that wake up looking gorgeous with no make up on 😩, reconsider it
I can tell from your name you are probably middle eastern. Dont do it. I think middle eastern women are some of the most sexy women. With the olive skin. brown huge almond eyes long thick yasmine hair. I highly doubt you need it
Thank you so much, really. Before this video I was feeling so bad about my thin lips, and right after, I started looking at photos of me on my phone, and realized that objectively I would be looking so weird with full lips, disproportionate. You just took away an insecurity of mine in 26 minutes. Amazing
I watch your videos for your perspective on faces and symmetry! It is really refreshing, and needed in this lip filler phase some people are going through. I'm Black with naturally full lips so this doesn't apply, but I still couldn't help clicking, haha! Thanks for the content!
I really liked how you broke down all the different types of faces. We see so much of the same look on social media. It was really nice to see that there really is a whole world of people with countless different features and all of them are equally interesting.
i loveeee that video!! i have so many friends that want to get lip fillers, but for the most of them i just think it wouldn't suit them... but they dont believe me because just everybody wants to have full lips.. you explained it so well! i shared that video directly
This video is so needed. Please make more of these! I always think of the beautiful, glamorous ladies of the 1920s who would underdraw their lips -- it's all fashion and pressure. Large lips =/= beauty just like small lips =/= beauty. I have a feeling we're going to look back on this and wonder what the hell we were doing esp since we don't know the long term effects of these injections. We're only just starting to get there with the breast implant illness tragedy that's happening to so many women now. Ladies -- you're stunning and you are ENOUGH ❤️
Hi - just a suggestion for you: maybe you could do a video on makeup for women over 40?, whose faces have become less sharp and tight and what we can do to help with that situation? I’m not sure if you’veAlready done this or not but I think that would be interesting. Thank you.
You're really doing a service for all ages of women by creating these videos. It really gives us insight in accepting the beauty of what we naturally look like
Your perspective is really illuminating, and I like the distance you managed to create between being critical of the trends, but not criticising. It's a fine balance which you must have thought hard about before creating this video for us! Thanks Aly :) hope you can keep creating content despite any hurdles or pushbacks.
I have a masculine face with super sharp cheekbones and a sharp jawline. The only thing on my face that isn't sharp is my nose; I feel like I've got a round bulbous tip to my nose and in order to keep my nose sharp and angled like the rest of my facial features I contour it and would definitely love to get surgery to refine that tip. That's an example of someone working with her facial proportions and knowing what surgery will look good with her particular face. Gigi Hadid for example is a girl with a naturally round face and no prominent angles while her sister Bella has a face that's the complete opposite. If Gigi suddenly got surgery to make her cheek bones look more pronounced and surgery to make her face more sharp overall she would look so fake because her face is naturally more round and cherubic.
I wish I had found your channel much earlier in my life! Your message/opinions on body types and facial structures are about acceptance, love, and the natural ways we can enhance our beautiful selves. You have so much insight and knowledge. Thank you for your videos! Sending love from California ❤
I'm blessed to have full lips but nowadays the trend is going too far so I'm starting to think that even my lips are too small for that. But I'll wait till the trend end 😂 I have anxiety of needles 😀
same! i always had the fullest lips compared to everyone in my circle. Now it feels like if they became smaller, just cos everyone is walking around with duck faces)
stop measuring yourself by others just because they do. Lips/mouth is also an extremely complex muscle so if failed experiments weren't evidence enough, consider that
Ugh yes. In high school I was bullied for my big lips. But now everyone on Instagram has these huge plump lips and I have thought about lip fillers 🤦🏻♀️
I was thinking of getting lip fillers and was searching for it and suddenly this video came in my recommendations. I am over that idea now. Your videos are really inspiring, and this must be shown to young girls in high school. Thanks, you got a new subscriber.
I recently have been considering lip injections after seeing models everywhere wt overblown lips…after watching this, I no longer feel the need!! Thank you for explaining this… my dry face can’t handle the pout lol 👄
I like this video a lot because it provides "perspective". Beauty has trends- be it seasonal or through the decades. It's ever changing, or evolving and revisiting itself. When I was debating about having something "done" the best and nicest advice I got was "Do what makes you happy." Sometimes we do things "thinking" it will make us happy when in fact it doesn't or it wont. I have smaller/thinner lips and when I smile I do not like seeing my gum line. Does anyone else care? No. But I do, and when I got my lips injected by a skilled plastic surgeon I was relieved and happy. Did other people point out my lips to me? No. The guy did a good job. Injectibles are similar to makeup in the sense we are manipulating how we look (for better or worse) and that has been going on for eons. I think beauty should be seen through a global lens and not just an isolated feature- although some people have wonderful isolated features. I have obsessed over eyebrow shapes before. But so long as YOU keep it in perspective and take a step away from the mirror occasionally, you can typically keep things healthy.
I would be so happy to see a video from you talking about aging face features and not how to change them to something else but how to bring them back to how they were maybe 10 years ago. For example a nose that's getting "bigger" or longer, cheeks that's are loosing volume and kinda "drop", lips that get thinner and if in that case we could bring some volume back to those features in the exact areas as how they used to be and not to change their whole form, etc.
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You have an amazing perception of human features. I love how you explained that not everyone has to have big, plump limps to look beautiful. I finally get it!!! Made me feel confident!
I love the way you talk about body types and face features with such respect, It made me feel more secure about my body and stop trying to correct a feature of mine , so, thank you S2
man, you sound so wise, especially with that accent. i feel like if ever wanted any lip injections you'd be the first person that i would ask for advice.
You are making me feel my natural beauty! I have sharp features which I’ve thought of trying to soften. I have a smaller upper lip compared to my lowered. It has a beautiful Cupid’s bow and really looks great with my sharp features. THANN YOU!
You're a cutie pie 💖 Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are helping me and a lot of women, specifically younger ones to find they're inner beauty. Which is priceless 😭🤩🌹🤙
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girl, lady, woman, miss, anything you want to be called, your videos are brilliant!! i can watch you all day. i'm american, your accent kills is too beautiful
Я думаю, если бы Вы разбавляли видео русскими актрисами или моделями, всем бы тоже было интересно.
Am I the only one who wants her to examine my face 😂
I came down here to comment this
Same here 😂
Yes, she could tell you exactly what feature you should play up and which you should play down for ultimate personal beauty.
Jane Erstić , is it true that everyone finds big lips more attractive? I dated a man who volunteered to me that he preferred a woman with thin lips (which I have) as he found such a mouth more attractive , he said that he found women with full lips a turn-off; he said that he had found the experience of kissing "big" lips (he called them "balloon lips") disgusting.
The fact is that there are millions of women on this planet with thin lips, and they have no more trouble finding a love partner, than women with full lips. Perhaps their partners are all like the man I mentioned i.e. people who find thin lips attractive. it goes without saying that thin lips as a genetic trait would have died out ages ago, if a substantial proportion of our planet's ancestors thought that thin lips on a sexual partner was unattractive.
When surveys start talking about "we", it's a major red flag to me. Who exactly are this "we"? So many social surveys quoted today are done on only a tiny number of respondents who are often all the same age, sex, social class, culture (usually Western) and language group - no wonder the respondents all say the same thing. It's bad science, and it results in wrong conclusions. Surveys need to investigate many thousands of people of all races and cultures and nations before they start talking about what "we" as humans prefer.
You’re not the only one! Me too!!
" The more you know, the less of a slave to social ideas you are"
Right. This is the kind of video and the kind of youtuber we need. Someone who reminds us of our own natural beauty. :)
Thank you, Aly!
I really liked this comment :)
Honestly I’ve been having a confidence battle for a long time but with this video and her help I think if finally won... :)
yup
Love this
You basically destroyed the myth that you need big lips to be beautiful by giving one killer example after another. This is the kind of feminism we need in 2019
well said - natural beauty always looks best
I agree this is basically how I feel about stuff, if something bothers you then do something about it no matter what it is from an addiction or a bad thing that hurts you just something silly that causes you stress. Why I have additional stress in our lives when we can keep working on staying emotionally centered so we can cope better with the hurricane of life that will inevitably come back our way. I think people should learn to see their truth and honor themselves for their full truth all the bad and good so that we have humility in addition to our confidence.
I wasn’t even referring to plastic surgery or lip fillers in my comment. I was just saying that lips do not need to be full to be beautiful, even though that has become a widely-accepted belief. I think that’s what Aly was implying as well. Not that lip fillers are good or bad, just that enhancing the size of your lips will not automatically make you more beautiful.
Neikka that’s not what I meant at all lol
Solidsilenceful of course and I agree really, if that’s their thing then of course they shouldn’t be criticised. I love the different make up looks some women/men have, I guess I would just be scared of something going wrong or what if I didn’t like it, thinking about fillers etc, those kinds of thoughts would probably wear me out before I got to go through with it. But I take pain killers and stuff so I guess we all have our thing and we have to live with ourselves and it’s what we think about ourselves and what we think of what we do with ourselves that’s most important, you’re right. But I think the video made a good point in that despite what we are lead to believe, we don’t have to have big lips to be found attractive. They can look attractive but there are people who are attractive without them, also.
I don’t know exactly why, but this video made me feel a lot better about myself
SAME
Me too! And I don't even know why!
Knowledge is power baby.
Maybe it's because you have thin lips and this video is all about how women can also be beautiful with thin lips? Or maybe you have other features that are different from what women think are the most attractive features to have in this day and age?
Because she puts everything into perspective. Beauty is just something that is made up and agreed on, but most importantly - it also changes. If you wake up feeling that you are not beautiful, it's probably because you are "a slave" to the beauty standards that we made up for ourselves. Beauty standards are not real. They don't define real beauty. 🙂
you made me feel beautiful without even talking about me
this is what body positivity should look like, analyzing actual attractive features that are different, not just imposing some random features or bodies
could you talk about beautiful women with strong/'masculine' features aka big noses, long faces etc
If you watch the Body Types videos those are the Dramatic type and Flamboyant Natural women.
@Bambibasil I think she meant tall noses like Sarah Jessica Parker
Georgia Brown
Trans genders. All of them.
@@rowlet3270 yep tall noses
@Bambibasil those aren't big noses those are flat noses (black noses)
I like you because you talk about beauty from an analytical, almost scientific perspective. It makes a lot of sense and it's not something many 'beautubers' do.
You are so right,...this brings to mind what my brother told me years ago when I was an awkward teenager,... people look at you as a whole not a single feature
amen molier youre lucky you have a very smart brother 😊
Thank you so much for the comment, I really needed it. You have an angel of a brother BTW.
You can make money if you analyse people, tell them which body type/face they are what eye/lip/face shape they have and give them tips that suit their types, I bet many many fans would be interested since you've got an aesthetic eye! Because many of us are still so lost no matter how many videos you upload 😂 it's just a gift you've got.
Alla Ali for real she could be an image consultant
@@becky15707 I think she's earning a lot more on youtube than she could as a consultant. And deservedly so.
Please make more videos like this where you talk about confidence, personality and how to embrace ourselves and our features
Yessss
I used to be self conscious of my lips because the top lip is thinner . This video totally boosted my confidence ! Everyone’s face is unique and beautiful in their own way. I have small features and small lips with a round face . You explain things so beautifully and I love how you see beauty in every different unique face . You are so amazing 💕
Hey Charmed Intuition! I'm subscribed to both yours Aly's channels 😊
You should do a video on nose shapes
What is St. BlackOps2Cel doing on Aly Art's channel
Amazing video. I loved that you pointed out how beautiful thinner lips can be. I live in Seoul, South Korea, which can be said to be the plastic surgery capital of the world. People come from all over the world to get work done here. There was a certain look that lots of women got done years ago and it's very obvious. They lose their individuality unfortunately as it wasn't just one thing, it was everything on the face done: the eyes, nose, chin and lips. That look actually ends up dating them as it become obvious that they had it done several years ago, and it's the same face on many women. We visited a plastic surgery clinic recently for an upcoming video, and apparently these days it is more fashionable to have a much more natural look, with minor work done, rather than the whole face. So that's more positive. I think if more women were exposed to dialogue about different types of beauty, like how you talked about it here, there could have been less cases of women ending up with the same face.
what kind of look was it? can u describe?
@@cheeseborger8067 I think she means double eyelids and huge eyes in general, a V-shaped chin (extremely shaving the jaw down), higher nose with downtilted nosetip
@@cheeseborger8067 just do a search for "south korean beauty standards" and you'll see what they mean. Especially with idols, a lot of them have extremely similar face shapes or homogenized features. Chin, eyes, and nose seem to be the most common surgeries done there, but people come from all over the world to get other types done, even things like gender reassignment because the surgeons are so good/have had so much practice. But just looking up the beauty standard will show you.
I think this is the first time I've been positively clickbaited..? Thanks for this video. It wasn't what I was expecting, but maybe what I needed.
"Symmetry equals symmetry, it doesn't equal beauty" i love you ♥️
I have been feeling pretty low lately and feeling like i'm not good enough after a rough break-up, i've even been considering injections and other beauty treatments to make myself feel better, that's how i stumbled upon this video actually. But i love how u somehow were able to make me appreciate my face more through dissecting facial features and really enhancing the beauty of all the different faces. I was rlly not expecting such an outcome. Thank you, i loved hearing ur opinion. U've gained a new subscriber💕💕
never let anyone's presence in your life be the measuring stick of your self worth or beauty. you are beautiful and we don't all need to look alike . big lips and tiny noses and big eyes etc . it's about the harmony in your anatomy and that is just god given to everyone.
Wow. I feel absolutely the same, so crazy!
black91ize Your post makes me so sad! The only things you should feel bad about in the ending of a relationship is what you are personally responsible for; did you do something detrimental to the relationship?; did you simply make a bad choice in the first place? How you look has absolutely nothing to do with a breakup and all the plastic surgery in the world is not going to make your life wonderful Only YOU can do that!
Also, generally, the features I loved most about my partners was usually their "flaws". Bumps on the nose, cute wonky smiles... it's our differences that make us unique.
black91ize you should check out false beauty in insta. Before and after facetune/photoshop. They’re mostly fake. So don’t feel bad.
This was amazing. I have petite lips which my boyfriend would always say are lovely and proportionate to my face but I got so caught up in the trend of big lips and became convinced I needed fillers. Your video has reassured me and logically broken down why this huge lip trend does not equal beauty, it's just a trend and not the ideal we all must have. I feel so much better about myself after watching this and really keen to love myself more for how nature created me. So glad I didn't change my little lips. Thank you 💜
I actually want to hear your thoughts about this "angel vs witch skull" theory. You are very smart lady! Does skull shape, bone structure and tongue posture really determine how beautiful we are?
yes
I would be interested in that as well
The tongue posture influences the face very much! Google mouth breathing, if you are breathing through the mouth your tongue posture automatically differs!
@@fancynistaa1605 you mean mewing?
Tongue posture, to an extent, will influence jaw development - genetics are a factor as well. It's akin to how nutrition influences our height, but genetics also factor in as to how tall we can grow. Proper tongue position will help one achieve their personal best in terms of jaw development, proper nutrition will help one achieve their maximum height, but again, genetics are a factor in terms of just how tall one can grow.
Your voice is so musical and soft, and I am in love with how you describe these women, these realmpeople, whose faces are so perfectly designed, as only a leaf, a flower, a sunrise, can be... you're such a blessing, Miss Aly! Thank you so much for reminding people that our faces happen with their own character, 2ith a naturally pccuring beauty, that is always more equisite than any mass produced idea :)
This video should be shown to everyone considering cosmetic surgery
Geez - no wonder women have body dysmorphia. When Kate Winslet made Titanic she was practically ridiculed out of Hollywood and called fat because she has soft lines. She did finally leave and go to London where they were so much nicer to her. Madonna is naturally a romantic but she did everything she possibly could to look like a Natural or Dramatic by working out like a maniac and under-eating to create harder angles and lines on her face and body. She eventually left and went to London as well. Hollywood is a cruel place that makes a lot of us have an exceedingly warped perception of ourselves.
I hate that people perceive us romantics and theatrical romantics as fat because of our soft lines and fleshy bodies. That's why I've been dealing with eating disorders for so long...
@@kuramacabre Don’t listen to them. The romantic body type is super feminine. I’m a soft gamine and think the romantic body type is one of the most ideal body types. Marilyn Monroe had it.
The true definition of a beauty guru. I love that you appreciate everyone’s natural beauty. No one is better than anyone else. Of course every era has a ‘trend’ about what is seen as the ideal but I adore your message of looking at yourself as a whole and embracing what makes you unique
Only by listening to her beauty perspective I feel good about my self. Who needs a knife when you are smart like Aly.
And what if you are not smart?
I would love a video on CASUAL outfits for the body types. Like which cut of T-shirt, jeans, and shoes for each type!
Kat Graham I love her tbh
I’ve been obsessed with the idea of wanting to have my lips injected. After watching this video I’m over it. Thank you😊
This video is incredible, and the commentary does a fantastic job of explaining and deconstructing modern trends and obsessions. Love this.
This is sooo good! Instead of making us feel like we need to change something, you make us feel comfortable in our skin and teach us to embrace our particularities. Your content is the best!
Tired of so many duck lips.
It would be so great if you could describe subscriber's faces. All these beautiful women seem so perfect, it's hard for me to see their faces as "soft" or "dry" because they all have perfect cheekbones and full lips.
but most of them don't have full lips... That was the whole video
I second the idea of dissecting subscribers' faces and giving advice based on everyday women's faces / bodies. I've just been wondering whether it's possible to send her pictures with questions.
@@booknerdjebbi5037 i don't know, a lot of the people she describes as having smaller lips, I would consider "full". Not all, but most.
Normal woman/men who are on instagram seem to go for the instagram look Aka puffy lips, harsh cheeks, V-shaped chins, harsh eyebrows and the shiny nose. There's no variety. It looks like they all go to the seem botcher doctor. Where as the A-celebs seems to enhance their features either with make-up or the right type of fillings. That's why there were so many differences.
Even Kim queen of cosmetics Kardashian looks really normal. And seem to have been enhancing her features instead of changing it except for her butt though.
And the celebs that have been shown... i see a lot of people that look like them or heck even better. But unfortunately most of these people i've seen or some B-C-celebs seem to go for the Instagram look. And mess up their look. For example Charlotte Crosby. I used to find her really beautiful. Now... she went overboard.
yeppeun seonyeoyeo I’ve learned the term dry form fitness people. It’s about having less ‘meat’ on the body where the muscles and bones become more prone.
Conclusion: any kind of face can be beautiful !
You destroyed every single tiny desire I had to get plastic surgery! Amazing video
I'm African with tiny lips, I'd really like to have full beautiful lips, but I wasn't lucky 🤣 I thought about lip injections but I want to accept myself the way I am.💖
@Urusai Kodokushi Awww💖
Small lips look better than fats lips, to be honest
@@Cybeldina that's an opinion, not a fact
@@isaiah779 No shit, snowflake. That's why I said it's me being honest not me stating a fact.
that means u r more unique since africans usually have very full lips! thats actually a great thing!
Would love to hear your opinion on eyebrows. I don't understand this trend of everyone drawing on huge eyebrows the shape of Kim Kardashian's. Doesn't matter what shape their face is, nor does it matter the original shape of their eyebrows, it's as if they're all using a stencil (the same shape) and spray painting them on, and way too heavy.
She has a " i do an Instagram makeup look" video that comments on this
2020, laminated brows are the trend now. XD
you're totally right that you perceive people "head-to-toe" and not any particular part unless you yourself are obsessed with that particular part. before i became obsessed with my nose i found wildly different people attractive, who i probably wouldnt find attractive now. because i am obsessed with the idea that my own nose is the sole thing that brings down my entire appearance, i now fixate on people's noses the instant i see them. i decide whether people are attractive or not based almost solely on whether they have a nose i have decided to be "correct". its weird.
Same! It's a terrible habit but I understand that I've only become focused on such features because I'm saving up for plastic surgery, and so considering other people's features helps me decide what I want and what would suit and enhance my face.
Man, even dental work like fillings and wisdom teeth extraction can really do a number on your face. Really workin on regaining my balance after that. Love yourselves folks.
Hey, I'm also struggling with regaining my balance after wisdom teeth extraction. Mind if I PM you?
what happened
@@martaleszkiewicz5115 me too. I extracted a wisdom tooth and that side is now thinner. I never understood why that side became smaller. Just a few weeks ago I saw a person telling that she has a side of her face thinner thanks to a wisdom tooth extration. Now I don't know what to do.. If only I could go back in time 😩
@rebecca elizabeth If I was you I wouldn't, not only because of what happened to me (that doesn't mean that'll happen to you) but also because I believe in Traditional Chinese Medicine where everything in the body is conected so if you do something to a specific teeth it'll show up in a certain organ. Also, one thing I also regret doing is a root canal 😩 Dear Jesus, what was I thinking about 😥
"symmetry equals symmetry, not beauty"
astounding.audacity i needed this 🥺
:)
I love how she pinpoints certain trends by their definition and not = beauty. Proportion = proportion, Proportion is not = Beauty...etc love it!
I feel like people have lip fillers to look better, but if you really look at before and after photos - they don’t look better with fillers. Just more like everyone else.
MonacoDK And their mouths do not move normally when they speak. Ditto veneers! Between the inappropriate and unnecessary filler and protruding veneers I think I now look rificulous.
Ikr. Theyll go “oh but it gives me confidence so what does it matter to people”. Well girl the only reason ur getting plastic surgeries is because of people, its because of societies perception of beautiful. Non surgical procedures r fine because they dont really change ir face permanently but noe jobs etc. do. Balance is beauty.
Cmon lets be real Kylie looks a thousand times better. Not to mention it did wonders for her career
In my whole life i didnt see a women that is so beautyful and inteligent and unique like you. Every single video that you make is gold worth.
So informative, so encouraging of embracing yourself. Thank you for this video.
You are very talented, definitely have an artistic vision. I hadn’t noticed a lot of the details in faces until she mentioned them. Great video
love your message! It's not realistic or possible for everyone to look like perfect clones of each other, we should all embrace the type of beauty we have!!
You've featured A LOT of people with cosmetic enhancements in the video (nearly all the modern ones). Apart from that, I like your analysis as always!!
everyone is beautiful. we need to come out of this infatuation with looking all the same. harmony is key. and we all have that. everything balances out. it's just natural. it's not that we lack beauty but rather that the beholder lacks the ability to see it.
I think Christina Aguilera is one of the great 'gone wrongs' as of recent. She used to look so incredibly beautiful
Now she looks like everyone else. Showing off her lips like her new accessory.
I like her, but daaaaamn!
The worst thing is that she tells everyone to be strong and feel beautiful in her music but actually she is so insecure about herself that she has to put fillers and look horrible now.. She is the worst
For me, Lindsay Lohan was the most beautiful woman ever, before those horrible lip injections...
@@map2476 how is she horrible for having insecurities 💀
Angelina Jolie has a mascular face I think her lips doesnt suit her either
So I did lip injections and O BOY did I look weird. I looked swollen. So after that I’m over injections. Not for me
Aly this video was such a confidence boost. A number of people have told me that my lips fit my face and I struggled to believe them. I am a soft natural and have defined cheekbones, jaw bone but soft features as well. This video has taught me to believe that my lips do fit my face well and had they been different; they would not look natural. I love what you do, thank you for boosting every womans self esteem with your videos:)
This was THE BEST body acceptance/positivity video I have ever seen! You presented in a completely different way and spoke to your audience as the mutually intelligent women we are. Thank you, thank you 💛 I donated to you, the first youtuber I have ever felt the impulse to. Bright future and good things no doubt. Can’t wait to see your Ted talk one day 😉
This is my favourite video on the Internet right now. Basically half an hour of a woman praising other women for how they look but not from a place of jealousy. We need more of this in this world. As women being happy for other women and their unique beauty! You are right that so many of these women, if they'd not been successful, might think they had to change their lips.
I felt so flattered when she spoke about how girls with full lips are blessed even though I'm a man
I admit I was desperate to inject my lips and what are they small, but I saw this and there is nothing else to thank you. ❤❤❤
I love your videos so much!!! Only person I've seen approaching beauty this way. It has also really helped with my confidence. I am a "Natural" kibbe body type and for so many years I never understood why full glam didn't look right on me but neither did a super tailored professional look. I just thought I was the problem until I watched your videos and understood what suits me. Thank you so much
the way you talk about beauty is poetic in itself while giving such amazing insight
I’m still watching the video, but I had to comment on Olivia Munn. She has clearly had a LOT of work done. If you compare this to her old pictures she used to have a wider face and jawline. She also had thinner lips. It appears like she has filler in her cheeks. No hate at all, she still looks great but she has definitely softened her face.
Yeah I agree - she's has a very different face now from her former years
I didn’t know that, I wouldn’t have guessed at all!
Not just Olivia, nearly all of them!! Good work is undetectable and this is missing from the video. People think about generic, cartoonish work only!! People are being fooled all the time by subtle work!
Amusegirl1980 exactly, I just replied to someone else how Perrie Edwards has her lips done but yet no one here noticed 🤣
your videos make me so excited to creatively find my own personal sense of beauty. i wish i could share this giddy happy empowerment with everyone. my confidence and social life are soaring since finding your videos and embracing the raw material of myself to create beauty.
Good point with the ‚movable face‘. I‘m one of those people...I seem to have twice the amount of muscles in my face than regular people...and they move quite independently of each other. When I ‚make a face‘, for example, I usually only do it with the left side. I raise my left eyebrow or the corner of my mouth just on the left...it’s quite weird.
I would feel like a robot, if I lost that ability, so Botox definitely isn’t an option for me.
Not so sure about fillers...I love, how it looks, when I have slightly swollen lips from spicy food...it softens up my angular face and very defined features. I just don’t want to deal with the costs of the upkeep.
I have one of those naturally frozen faces and yeah I do look like a robot sometimes xD but I like it tbh
I have the exact same thing!
So i have an appoinmemt for lip filler next Saterday but after this ... im reconsiderjng things
Hafsa Al-Awadhi are you Arab? Middle eastern women are so naturally beautiful. It’s a shame some of you get surgery. You’re the types that wake up looking gorgeous with no make up on 😩, reconsider it
@@mervaa7467 I'm an Arab and your comment made me happy, thank you ❤️ (but nah I look ugly 24/7)
I can tell from your name you are probably middle eastern. Dont do it. I think middle eastern women are some of the most sexy women. With the olive skin. brown huge almond eyes long thick yasmine hair. I highly doubt you need it
M Ervaa awww thats so sweet !!
No No wow i’m flattered ty 💕
To make this pretty serious, lip fillers actually made me extremely sick. I think people should learn to love themselves. 💛
They have a lot of potential risks as well I came very very close to losing some of my lip due to the injector putting filler in the wrong spot
Thank you so much, really. Before this video I was feeling so bad about my thin lips, and right after, I started looking at photos of me on my phone, and realized that objectively I would be looking so weird with full lips, disproportionate. You just took away an insecurity of mine in 26 minutes. Amazing
I watch your videos for your perspective on faces and symmetry! It is really refreshing, and needed in this lip filler phase some people are going through. I'm Black with naturally full lips so this doesn't apply, but I still couldn't help clicking, haha! Thanks for the content!
I really liked how you broke down all the different types of faces. We see so much of the same look on social media. It was really nice to see that there really is a whole world of people with countless different features and all of them are equally interesting.
i loveeee that video!! i have so many friends that want to get lip fillers, but for the most of them i just think it wouldn't suit them... but they dont believe me because just everybody wants to have full lips.. you explained it so well! i shared that video directly
This video is so needed. Please make more of these! I always think of the beautiful, glamorous ladies of the 1920s who would underdraw their lips -- it's all fashion and pressure. Large lips =/= beauty just like small lips =/= beauty. I have a feeling we're going to look back on this and wonder what the hell we were doing esp since we don't know the long term effects of these injections. We're only just starting to get there with the breast implant illness tragedy that's happening to so many women now. Ladies -- you're stunning and you are ENOUGH ❤️
I LOVE this video, i love the science behind each facial structure that she breaks down and proves how big lips dont match every face!!!
Hi - just a suggestion for you: maybe you could do a video on makeup for women over 40?, whose faces have become less sharp and tight and what we can do to help with that situation? I’m not sure if you’veAlready done this or not but I think that would be interesting. Thank you.
I agree with a previous comment, Your videos should be shown in Junior High School to young girls- Love yourselves
You're really doing a service for all ages of women by creating these videos. It really gives us insight in accepting the beauty of what we naturally look like
i've never kicked on a video so fast, you're literally the only youtuber i need in life ilysm
*clicked
Your perspective is really illuminating, and I like the distance you managed to create between being critical of the trends, but not criticising. It's a fine balance which you must have thought hard about before creating this video for us! Thanks Aly :) hope you can keep creating content despite any hurdles or pushbacks.
I wish you could upload everyday 😭☺ You have the best content on YT. So unique. 😻😻😻
I love seeing someone celebrate all facial types... this is very sweet and I appreciate it so much, you have no idea!
I love binge watching your videos lately. They double as ASMR and I learn something! You have a very relaxing voice :)
I have a masculine face with super sharp cheekbones and a sharp jawline. The only thing on my face that isn't sharp is my nose; I feel like I've got a round bulbous tip to my nose and in order to keep my nose sharp and angled like the rest of my facial features I contour it and would definitely love to get surgery to refine that tip. That's an example of someone working with her facial proportions and knowing what surgery will look good with her particular face.
Gigi Hadid for example is a girl with a naturally round face and no prominent angles while her sister Bella has a face that's the complete opposite. If Gigi suddenly got surgery to make her cheek bones look more pronounced and surgery to make her face more sharp overall she would look so fake because her face is naturally more round and cherubic.
You just saved me.
It's amazing that you make videos about appreciating natural features.
I wish I had found your channel much earlier in my life! Your message/opinions on body types and facial structures are about acceptance, love, and the natural ways we can enhance our beautiful selves. You have so much insight and knowledge. Thank you for your videos! Sending love from California ❤
wow she’s so educating i feel like i’ve been enlightened
I'm blessed to have full lips but nowadays the trend is going too far so I'm starting to think that even my lips are too small for that.
But I'll wait till the trend end 😂 I have anxiety of needles 😀
I'm in the same boat as you. I've always had big lips but now with the trends I'm not so sure anymore lol.
same! i always had the fullest lips compared to everyone in my circle. Now it feels like if they became smaller, just cos everyone is walking around with duck faces)
stop measuring yourself by others just because they do.
Lips/mouth is also an extremely complex muscle so if failed experiments weren't evidence enough, consider that
Ugh yes. In high school I was bullied for my big lips. But now everyone on Instagram has these huge plump lips and I have thought about lip fillers 🤦🏻♀️
Same!!
I was thinking of getting lip fillers and was searching for it and suddenly this video came in my recommendations. I am over that idea now. Your videos are really inspiring, and this must be shown to young girls in high school. Thanks, you got a new subscriber.
I recently have been considering lip injections after seeing models everywhere wt overblown lips…after watching this, I no longer feel the need!! Thank you for explaining this… my dry face can’t handle the pout lol 👄
You speak so softly and gently. It makes you really appreciate natural beauty.
Omg your English has gotten so much more fluent! Your accent is diminishing every video!
Do you know where’s she from?
@@heythere8917 Russia
Silver Roxen Thank you
I like this video a lot because it provides "perspective". Beauty has trends- be it seasonal or through the decades. It's ever changing, or evolving and revisiting itself. When I was debating about having something "done" the best and nicest advice I got was "Do what makes you happy." Sometimes we do things "thinking" it will make us happy when in fact it doesn't or it wont. I have smaller/thinner lips and when I smile I do not like seeing my gum line. Does anyone else care? No. But I do, and when I got my lips injected by a skilled plastic surgeon I was relieved and happy. Did other people point out my lips to me? No. The guy did a good job. Injectibles are similar to makeup in the sense we are manipulating how we look (for better or worse) and that has been going on for eons. I think beauty should be seen through a global lens and not just an isolated feature- although some people have wonderful isolated features. I have obsessed over eyebrow shapes before. But so long as YOU keep it in perspective and take a step away from the mirror occasionally, you can typically keep things healthy.
I would be so happy to see a video from you talking about aging face features and not how to change them to something else but how to bring them back to how they were maybe 10 years ago. For example a nose that's getting "bigger" or longer, cheeks that's are loosing volume and kinda "drop", lips that get thinner and if in that case we could bring some volume back to those features in the exact areas as how they used to be and not to change their whole form, etc.
You have an amazing insight into lip fillers. It's like you have been doing my job for the past 10 years!
look up Yulia Volkova before and after pics. That is proof that bigger lips aren't always better. Thanks for this video Ms. Aly. It means a lot
Thank you so much for this beautiful tribute to diversity and natural beauty. I needed that ❤️
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Before watched this video I was thinking "I want my lips to be bigger." after this video am thinking "My lips are fine I don't need anything."
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You have an amazing perception of human features. I love how you explained that not everyone has to have big, plump limps to look beautiful. I finally get it!!! Made me feel confident!
I love the way you talk about body types and face features with such respect, It made me feel more secure about my body and stop trying to correct a feature of mine , so, thank you S2
man, you sound so wise, especially with that accent. i feel like if ever wanted any lip injections you'd be the first person that i would ask for advice.
you are such an intelligent beautiful classy woman, thank you so much for your amazing superinteresting videos!!
I love this video
So many examples hard not to find yourself in each photo and hearing you say each is beautiful and okay is a blessing! Thank you Aly!
You are making me feel my natural beauty! I have sharp features which I’ve thought of trying to soften. I have a smaller upper lip compared to my lowered. It has a beautiful Cupid’s bow and really looks great with my sharp features. THANN YOU!
It’s so easy to forget how truly differently we are all built, given how similar so many women look online. This made me appreciate my unique beauty!
You're a cutie pie 💖
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are helping me and a lot of women, specifically younger ones to find they're inner beauty. Which is priceless 😭🤩🌹🤙