Uncover the Secret of Loving Yourself and Discover You Don't Need to Change | Dr Demartini

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  • You don't need to change. The magnificence of who you are, far exceeds any fantasy you could ever impose upon yourself. It's time to love yourself! After this video, your NEXT STEP... Increase Your Deserve Level and Get What You Want. Watch Dr Demartini’s FREE Masterclass Now 👉 demartini.fm/deserve
    About This Video:
    When was the last time you truly had a moment of appreciation and gratitude for yourself? Dr Demartini breaks down why you don't need to change in order to love yourself. We all have moments of self-depreciation and not loving ourselves for who we are, trying to change and get rid of parts of ourselves. You're perfectly and magnificently designed for your own mission. It's important to have a balanced view of who you are and not a false one-sided expectation of who you think you 'should' be.
    Prefer to read the article? Visit: demartini.ink/3KjAOjI
    ⏱️TIME STAMPS:
    00:00 - Intro
    00:43 - Your identity revolves around your values
    04:08 - Comparisons and subordination
    10:39 - Distracted by infatuation
    15:46 - Give yourself permission to be yourself
    18:30 - Internal conflicts
    21:06 - Free Gift, Awaken Your Astronomical Vision: demartini.ink/visiongiveaway
    About Dr John Demartini:
    Dr. John Demartini is a human behavior specialist, a polymath, philosopher, international speaker and best-selling author. He has recently been awarded the IAOTP Top Human Behavior Specialist of the Year as well as the IAOTP Lifetime Achievement Award.
    His work is a summation of over 299 different disciplines synthesized from the greatest minds in most fields of study today. His extensive curriculum focuses on helping purpose driven individuals master their lives so that they’re able to more extensively serve humanity with their inspired vision and mission.
    #selflove #loveyourself #personaldevelopment

КОМЕНТАРІ • 120

  • @janisfoong6022
    @janisfoong6022 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you Dr Demartini. I have spent most of my life loving others first before myself until a relationship breakup 2 yrs ago. From discussions with friends and reflection post breakup, it was evident I did not put myself first before anything else. But that is changing and I am learning to find myself again, heal myself and love myself little by little knowing I deserve more. .

  • @pascalerotchin2689
    @pascalerotchin2689 3 роки тому +7

    That truly is the missing part of the puzzle I was searching for . I have been reading , listening ,working and integrating your words and my whole heart suddenly burst open . Truly grateful for you and my friend for introducing me to your teachings ❣🙌

  • @blackdogcoaching4436
    @blackdogcoaching4436 3 роки тому +5

    comparison is the thief of joy. I learn a long time ago to stop comparing myself to other and to honour my own journey. It's been a game changer.
    Great video Doc ❤️🙏

  • @shannonthejeepgirl
    @shannonthejeepgirl 3 роки тому +15

    I love and appreciate you for all that you do. I found your teachings a while back and I’ve been physically walking a little taller every since.

  • @shinethelight897
    @shinethelight897 3 роки тому +3

    I know your whole story from school as a boy telling you what you couldn’t do , to California, to Hawaii to doctor bragg to your practices , to your success, truly inspiring . I wish one day to attend your programs ! Take care and blessings

  • @Ababamal
    @Ababamal 3 роки тому +1

    I wanted to write” you are a genius “ then I started to wonder what am I doing to myself.. 👍🏾

  • @diamondsandcream
    @diamondsandcream 3 роки тому +1

    Demartini has really improved his online presence lately. Whoever is behind the scenes doing his web work, you're doing a great job.

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Thank you Anna - glad you're enjoying and SEEING the new content 😃

  • @rachaelhannigan7093
    @rachaelhannigan7093 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for sharing this.
    About a month ago I was introduced to your book, The Values Factor, by my coach.
    This is one of the first times in my life that I have put myself first (wholly) and taken care. I can't thank you enough for your work.
    The first time I looked at that list of values it was like a breath of fresh air, and life has felt simpler and more fulfilling since.
    Again, Thankyou.

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Wonderful feedback Rachael. If you'd love to find out more about the work please let us know by reaching out to either Emile@DrDemartini.com or Debbie@DrDemartini.com. We'd love to assist you with the next step of your journey - from the Demartini Team

  • @michelegardner6132
    @michelegardner6132 6 місяців тому

    SO MUCH VALUE! I look forward to growing with your tools. Thank you Dr. Demartini🙏🏼❤️

  • @shirleymilhouse960
    @shirleymilhouse960 3 роки тому +3

    This is my first time listening to you. I’m so glad I did. What I’ve heard is what I need. I will be listening to you more. Thank you.

  • @invinciblesun84
    @invinciblesun84 Рік тому

    Such wonderful information. I've been stagnant in life for a couple years and i know its my own subconscious mind. But its so hard to break. Hopefully this free gift is still available, ive been watching a ton of Dr. Demartinis videos. So helpful

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  Рік тому

      You can download the free gift, Awakening Your Astronomical Vision here: demartini.fm/astrogift

  • @annaynely
    @annaynely 3 роки тому

    You will have a lot of work, because there are many many people that have been obligated by force or different type of relationships to conform to values that are not there own be it because they have had to take jobs to survive or they have had to conform to other people, culture, religion around them and it isn´t that easy to get away, many people get to be 50 years old and more and they are still living by the values imposed on them from the outside world.

  • @mazp1111
    @mazp1111 3 роки тому +3

    I love the clarity of this video. It takes a lot of courage to be yourself.

  • @DanielSquires
    @DanielSquires 2 роки тому

    Give yourself permission to be you! 👑

  • @JLW667
    @JLW667 2 роки тому

    15:50
    22:15 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @tebethhamon8994
    @tebethhamon8994 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you John, it's one of the best videos I have watched on this subject! :)

  • @earthmotherdragon4572
    @earthmotherdragon4572 3 роки тому

    Have read two of your books, but boy its still difficult to break old patterns, and not knowing self is the worst. Long for the day when I have that last breakthrough and stop hide my own self. Love your teachings, so simple, but so powerful. Thank you and many blessings to you. x

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Hello - If you'd love to find out more about the work please let us know by reaching out to either Emile@DrDemartini.com or Debbie@DrDemartini.com. We'd love to assist you with the next step of your journey - from the Demartini Team

  • @williambarnes3054
    @williambarnes3054 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir. I need to here this over and over again. William Barnes, student.

  • @DilshadKhan-wz3bu
    @DilshadKhan-wz3bu 3 роки тому

    I been listening to you all day today. I cannot write a lot but whatever said it was good thank you.

  • @julcee1505
    @julcee1505 3 роки тому +2

    Wow!!! Perfect timing, triggered amazing insights into myself. I am perfectly me. Well worth a listen for everyone especially those on the self discovery journey ♾👀💥
    Thank you,. Thank you. Thank you.

  • @laviniadumitru1157
    @laviniadumitru1157 3 роки тому +2

    One of the best seminars that i've watched so far. Thank you Dr. Demartini for sharing this knowledge!

  • @PaulaDTozer
    @PaulaDTozer 2 роки тому

    Brilliant! I'm an open minded perennial student and love exploring this work, but you've given me a new perspective - inspiring my next Contemplative Writing project. Love it!

  • @ultimatelifesecrets
    @ultimatelifesecrets 3 роки тому +1

    I have heard you say these separately but together this time was inspiring and clicked a knowingness that feels good. thank you so much.

  • @gwynnefoster7043
    @gwynnefoster7043 2 роки тому

    Thank you Dr Demartini.

  • @SanMan10100
    @SanMan10100 3 роки тому

    Just wanted to say that your presentation on your online course called Vision 20/20 had me riveted to my seat where I would normally doze off with other videos. It gave me hope and inspiration that the rest of my life would be fulfilling unmeaningful.

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Hi Santi - lovely to hear that you enjoyed the presentation. If you're interested in finding out
      more, you can have a look at www.drdemartini.com/learn or contact our office team by email: Emile@drdemartini.com
      we look forward to connecting and adding value where we can - thank you 🙂

  • @snjezanazivkovic
    @snjezanazivkovic 3 роки тому +3

    Great! Thank you, it was inspirational...

  • @shinethelight897
    @shinethelight897 3 роки тому

    I have a family business . My older brother is the owner and our leader . I am the next to assume position . My whole adult life since I was 18 I’ve been being trained for this next step . My true values are health , being physically fit and being in shape . Also a clear mind and understand I also seek with proper dieting . I have a relationship I’m from USA she lives in phillipines at moment . I am handling work .... I am handling relationship . But when I come home at night or on my day off .. I’m not inspired to achieve my personal goals . I feel drained so to say and somewhat resentful of returning . I cannot tell if my daily life I’m living is not truly for me and not my highest values or if I’m just lazy , and co dependent . I brain seems to crave caffeine . To achieve my daily task . I can’t tell if the problem is within me or am I not aligned . You are one of the top 3 mentors in my life dr. De martini ! These UA-cam videos do not give the proper credit to your name . I know your story and millions you’ve inspired .. before this pandemic and and virtual age you were doing the work . You lessons I hold to my life . Thank you for all you do . I’ll figure out my side . But your methods seem to make all the sense to me , makes me question am I operating off my highest values ... although I’m not fulfilled , my path leads me to business ownership and my highest achievements of revenues so i almost feel obligated to comply ... am I missing the big picture and I must shift my values or am I really not aligned ? I wonder ? Lol ok well thank you sir .. your life works and the leadership you provide are truly inspiring . Thank you 👍

  • @plantmanstudios
    @plantmanstudios 2 роки тому

    Thank you for taking the time to spread truth. Now we just need to spread the word about your channel so everyone can benefit from your content.

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  2 роки тому

      ❤️Thank you, we appreciate you passing the torch

  • @guillaumemaurice3503
    @guillaumemaurice3503 11 місяців тому

    Brilliant video! Thank you for sharing it that was such a powerful lesson. ❤

  • @innertruthcoach
    @innertruthcoach 3 роки тому

    "If you’re not filling your day with high-priority actions that don't match your highest values; that are really inspiring to you every day, you’re not going to love yourself."
    I need to get clear on my values...

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому +1

      Hi Mercedes, thanks for your comment. Here is the link to go do your values online: drdemartini.com/values/
      Team Demartini.

    • @innertruthcoach
      @innertruthcoach 3 роки тому

      @@DrDemartini thank you! ❤

  • @bettygoncalves8333
    @bettygoncalves8333 3 роки тому +1

    Thank You 🙏 my friend!! You are absolutely BEAUTIFUL!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @DilshadKhan-wz3bu
    @DilshadKhan-wz3bu 2 роки тому

    When I was 18yrs I had 2 daughters so I will work and go through Thanks ❤️😇

  • @danab172
    @danab172 2 роки тому

    I like your Pom Pom girl story.

  • @meetajain714
    @meetajain714 Рік тому

    Thank you so much Dr Demartini for endorsing the value of being true to oneself ❤️

  • @zabdy_love
    @zabdy_love Рік тому

    This is so freeing. Thank you so much 💓

  • @HEIDIJVR6791
    @HEIDIJVR6791 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the wisdom shared. Much appreciated

  • @cheery-hex
    @cheery-hex 3 роки тому +1

    thank you, you are the gift!

  • @joechiro
    @joechiro 3 роки тому

    Superb. Complete!

  • @dharmadharma2094
    @dharmadharma2094 3 роки тому

    Incredible being. Thanks 🙏

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому +1

      Our pleasure J Z, thank you. Team Demartini.

  • @blisswkc3344
    @blisswkc3344 2 роки тому

    Immense gratitude thanks to y'all so much dearest all 🌹
    Y'all such an inspiration 🥰
    Appreciate y'all from the bottom of my heart 💖
    Stay Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈

  • @donnagudalovic6617
    @donnagudalovic6617 2 роки тому

    I can not express my gratitude for your wisdom

  • @HealthyHairJourney
    @HealthyHairJourney 2 роки тому

    This was AWESOME!!!! THANK YOU!!!!

  • @TuNguyen-ec9tl
    @TuNguyen-ec9tl 3 роки тому

    I've only listen to a few of your videos but I think they're so honest, down to earth, and really truthful. By truthful, I meant truth, down the to core that makes sense with logic. Not just motivations that I do found very short lived & again, something I can't live by because it's really is only a one-side-ness! Your strategies/theories made sense to me & that everything needs 'balance' -- that is totally my model & I think this is the missing link I'm looking for. Thank you!!! (I can't believe this channel doesn't have more subscriber, perhaps part of human nature is still pursuing after illusions rather than to seek...truth)

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Hi Tu, thanks for being a student of truth. Please join Dr Demartini on he's monthly free webinar. Here is the link to register: drdemartini.com/click/your-physiology-express-your-psychology

  • @WyseWealth
    @WyseWealth 3 роки тому +1

    I appreciate your intuition, advice and insight....thank you for the gift Dr.Demartini!!

  • @acceleratedtrainingacademy
    @acceleratedtrainingacademy Рік тому

    Profound wisdom

  • @anecitosilvano2166
    @anecitosilvano2166 3 роки тому +1

    I been into your breakthrough experience, that was the greatest realization, that happens in my life. Thank you.

  • @thelonewolf848
    @thelonewolf848 3 роки тому +1

    Power message!

  • @yoohoo9842
    @yoohoo9842 Рік тому

    Thank you Dr DeMartini! This is exactly what I needed to hear today!

  • @selfworthsam
    @selfworthsam Рік тому

    ❤ love this

  • @Imasteff
    @Imasteff Рік тому

    Thank you so much seriously

  • @MagdusiaPoProstu
    @MagdusiaPoProstu 3 роки тому

    Absolutely awesome as always 😀 I appreciate that great reminder 💖 thank you from my soul to yours 👍🙏✌️

  • @DilshadKhan-wz3bu
    @DilshadKhan-wz3bu 2 роки тому

    Thanks 🙏 I will do ❤️

  • @EagleMiles
    @EagleMiles 2 роки тому

    Love this wisdom
    Open your heart and you will be YOU 💜🙏

  • @lizetteswanepoel3786
    @lizetteswanepoel3786 2 роки тому

    Cannot thank you enough for this, clarity through sharing truth

  • @hazelbailey681
    @hazelbailey681 9 місяців тому

    Superb

  • @DilshadKhan-wz3bu
    @DilshadKhan-wz3bu 2 роки тому

    Thank you❤️

  • @Ababamal
    @Ababamal 3 роки тому

    You are a true teacher

  • @evremtatlici4997
    @evremtatlici4997 2 роки тому

    You are my real teacher🙏💫❣

  • @taniamarshall9327
    @taniamarshall9327 2 роки тому

    One of my fav videos !

  • @janieale6444
    @janieale6444 Рік тому

    Love your your videos and the way you break everything down, these videos are exactly what I've been looking for around self love and how our values are directly impacted, as well as how we can place our values on others which is why we can also end up unhappy or confused - love these and without big explanations just straight to the point ways to shift and change - thank you for all the work you do!

  • @kenia5604
    @kenia5604 3 роки тому

    increible

  • @Ababamal
    @Ababamal 3 роки тому

    Thanks for everything. Glad I UA-cammeetyou

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Glad we've connected here and if you have any interest in finding out more about Dr Demartini's work, then please let us know by reaching out to either Emile@DrDemartini.com or Debbie@DrDemartini.com. We'd love to assist you however we can 😃 - from the Demartini Team

  • @logandakshi2087
    @logandakshi2087 3 роки тому

    Dear Doctor Demartini: Yet again awesome inspiring thoughtful wisdom. Hearing repeatedly continues to refine us and lead a empowered life. We Love and owe our Heartfelt Gratitude to you Doctor Demartini 🙏😃

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Thank you Logan for your message 🙂

  • @nicoleens8277
    @nicoleens8277 2 роки тому

    Loved this one ❤ love yourself first... the most and appreciate who you are ... 😍 don't beat yourself up for not having/doing what others have/do... be your best self by living by YOUR OWN VALUES...😍😍😍

  • @mtvlagunabeach
    @mtvlagunabeach 3 роки тому

    Great way to start the day! Sharing. Thank you good sir! Yes, be the star of your own movie (life), not an extra in someone else's movie. ;) Stay self and well, Dr.! Careful in H-town today, Heat Advisory in efct...heat index of 110° , one huge sauna out there. Take great care! Pom pom dancing, 😂...

  • @mtvlagunabeach
    @mtvlagunabeach 3 роки тому

    Thanks for the TIME STAMPS!! (17:30) is a major *game changer*, wow, thanks for that insight!! 🕊

  • @evremtatlici4997
    @evremtatlici4997 2 роки тому

    I am grateful 🙏 Thank you ❤💫

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  2 роки тому

      Thank you for being here Evrem 🙏

  • @jennapilgram2514
    @jennapilgram2514 3 роки тому

    I love listening to these videos while eating breakfast! Thank you!

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Thanks for your comment Jenna, Team Demartini.

  • @jasonsaleem552
    @jasonsaleem552 3 роки тому

    Thank you!

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Jason , Thanks for the comment - Team Demartini

  • @zzzh9160
    @zzzh9160 3 роки тому

    This is GOOD... Thanks

  • @mara1275
    @mara1275 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much! 😭🤧

  • @ineszrelli3563
    @ineszrelli3563 3 роки тому

    thank you

  • @maryalicecoleman4661
    @maryalicecoleman4661 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you! Love this!

  • @angellarios4802
    @angellarios4802 3 роки тому

    🙏🏼

  • @whb247
    @whb247 3 роки тому

    Love it! The link a the end I can it seem to find by URL. Pls share the link.

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      Hi Werner, you can access your free gift, Awaken Your Astronomical Vision here: demartini.ink/bonus

  • @entrepreneurshangout2370
    @entrepreneurshangout2370 2 роки тому

    Thanks a ton Dr. Demartini for your enlightening presentation on self mastery!
    I loved what you said reg purpose which is what one loves to master. I'd like to know what the other 2,viz. Teleological and Ontological mean in layman terms. Thanks a lot once again in advance!

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  2 роки тому +1

      Teleological is relating to your purpose - your Telos, your highest value. Ontological relates to the nature of being.

    • @entrepreneurshangout2370
      @entrepreneurshangout2370 2 роки тому

      @@DrDemartini Thanks a lot for your prompt response! I'm trying to correlate these 3 words - Ontological, teleological and Epistemological with Ikigai. If there's no comparison, please ignore.

  • @yannickrondeau1578
    @yannickrondeau1578 3 роки тому

    I'm not sure I get it or maybe I do.
    It's just not so easy to reclaim those values that have been pushed back.
    And the injected/not-so-genuine values aren't that awful I guess.
    If I substitute perceived mistakes to injected values, I think I could work something out with the method.

  • @iamajackpot2810
    @iamajackpot2810 3 роки тому

    I remember you from high school. Glad you changed!!!! This was a GREAT presentation. Two thumbs up 👍👍.

    • @iamajackpot2810
      @iamajackpot2810 3 роки тому

      P.S. That was a nice tractor you drove!!!! 😎

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому

      May I ask your name. It would be lovely to find out who you are who remembers all the way back to Lamar?

    • @iamajackpot2810
      @iamajackpot2810 3 роки тому +1

      @@DrDemartini You never knew me. I stayed clear. I had a study hall you were in and watched you bedazzle the hell out of Mr Hood. Also, I was friends with the Hannas, Harley and Jimmy G. EVERYTHING is cool. You're doing GREAT work.

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  3 роки тому +1

      @@iamajackpot2810 Jimmy Guest passed away. Harley Hochman is still around and I have seen him occasionally. Mike and Jay Hanna I have not seen for decades since the late 70s. Do you know anything about Mike, Jay or Harley more recently. I remember Mr Hood. I did give him some challenges. It would be great to know
      your name. Do you still live in the same area?

    • @iamajackpot2810
      @iamajackpot2810 3 роки тому

      @@DrDemartini Harley is a surfing cowboy. He got involved with cutting horses and raising cattle. Bought some nice property near Kendelton. Still surfing worldwide. Mike made it to one one of the Hawaiian islands years ago and still there as far as I know. Not sure about Jay. Right now I am living near where you grew up. 😎

  • @elsabedejager993
    @elsabedejager993 11 місяців тому

    Is the breakthrough program online available?

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  11 місяців тому

      Yes - here's the link to the page that outlines all the seminar options - you'll see there's one coming up in London that's in-person but the rest are all delivered live online: demartini.ink/3jYF8ZU - if you have any questions you can reach out to Emile@DrDemartini.com and he will gladly answer any question you may have. Hope to meet you at the seminar shortly ❤️

  • @paulthompson8642
    @paulthompson8642 3 роки тому +1

    God mindset

  • @lizk.8964
    @lizk.8964 2 роки тому

    Can you have more than one high value interest?

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  2 роки тому +1

      You have a hierarchy of values, what's most important to least important in your life. Your highest value is also known as the telos, you can learn more about the telos here: ua-cam.com/video/WeBvLKYQSyc/v-deo.html
      You can take the free Value Determination here: demartini.fm/mytopvalues

  • @neslihanilesadece
    @neslihanilesadece 3 роки тому

    Never works

  • @julcee1505
    @julcee1505 3 роки тому

    Bit of a shame of the sales pitch at the end. Some will disregard the valuable information before it.