You Don’t Need to Fix Yourself | Dr John Demartini
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- Опубліковано 31 тра 2024
- The idea of self-improvement can be misleading, and frustrating if you constantly think you have to fix yourself. What if you could discover a greater order and purpose of why you do what you do and how to empower your life without having to constantly try to fix yourself? After this video, YOUR NEXT STEP is to... Increase Your Deserve Level and Get What You Want. Watch Dr Demartini’s FREE Masterclass Now 👉 demartini.fm/deserve
About This Video:
Learn the difference between fixing and appreciating yourself - why the one is a subordination to outer authorities and the other an honoring of your true self. The truth is there's nothing to fix, there's only a magnificent part of you to honor and focus on growing.
Prefer to read the article? Visit: demartini.ink/3OHAzQ2
⌚ TIME STAMPS:
00:00 - Intro
00:54 - Comparing self to others
07:11 - Dysmorphic responses in all areas of life
14:35 - Living by highest values
17:52 - Applying the Demartini Method
22:48 - Giving yourself permission to be you
26:09 - Free Masterclass
About Dr John Demartini:
Dr. John Demartini is a human behavior specialist, a polymath, philosopher, international speaker and best-selling author. He has recently been awarded the IAOTP Top Human Behavior Specialist of the Year as well as the IAOTP Lifetime Achievement Award.
His work is a summation of over 299 different disciplines synthesized from the greatest minds in most fields of study today. His extensive curriculum focuses on helping purpose driven individuals master their lives so that they’re able to more extensively serve humanity with their inspired vision and mission.
#selfimprovement #howtofixyourself #selflove
Note that there are subtitles in 9 different languages - just select under 'settings'. 👉 请注意，有 9 种不同语言的字幕 - 只需在“设置”下选择即可。👉Notez qu'il existe des sous-titres dans 9 langues différentes - sélectionnez simplement sous "Paramètres". 👉 Nota che ci sono sottotitoli in 9 lingue diverse: seleziona semplicemente in "impostazioni". 👉 9つの異なる言語の字幕があることに注意してください-「設定」の下で選択するだけです。👉 Rețineți că există subtitrări în 9 limbi diferite - doar selectați din „setări”. 👉 Обратите внимание, что есть субтитры на 9 разных языках - просто выберите в «настройках». 👉 Tenga en cuenta que hay subtítulos en 9 idiomas diferentes, simplemente seleccione en 'configuración'. 👉 9 farklı dilde altyazı olduğunu unutmayın - sadece 'ayarlar' altından seçin. 👉Kokonotsu no kotonaru gengo no jimaku ga aru koto ni chūi shite kudasai - `settei' no shita de sentaku suru dakedesu.
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*don’t compare yourself to others but rather compare your daily actions to your highest values*
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Eyes mind heart and soul wide open. NO FEAR ! Learn to live your ( YOU ) LIFE! ❤ . He is a genius ! ❤
“You don’t need to fix yourself, you need to #love yourself.”
#createbeauty 💎
Jesus christ this man just spoke truth to a cycle I've been going through for 16 whole years. I've found these answers myself too before, lived at my highest potential, and lost sight of it. I'm on the verge of something big in life, I would love to work with you or be around you. Keep my mind in perspective. I feel I keep making the same mistake, and it's simple, but it keeps costing me.
Hi Steven, thanks for being here! If you'd love to take your learning further, please see Dr Demartini's free masterclasses here: demartini.ink/training
Currently watching all your video’s & material 👌🥰👏
We were not born to just work, pay bills then die.. I’ve always thought! & as you say on your video ‘why do we beat ourselves up’ about following society by borrowing off banks to buy houses to do as everyone else’s does etc.. I remind mySelf daily ‘I haven’t got to do what everyONE else is doing’ I was given a life & I can do what I authentically want to do with it to fulfil me! ❤
Thank you Jo!
Allow your heart the space it needs to manifest your highest desires into existence. When you really just let things be, and detach from all outcomes, you give life the opportunity and space to work in your favour. When there is space you can manifest even more and finally receive what you have been waiting for. I set another intention for anyone who reads this, I promise what you desire is on its way. I am sending you love and strength. You are Appreciated & Loved You are Accepted and Supported. Trust in yourself and Trust in life.
~Much Love from a Law of Attraction UA-camr💜
Thank you 😊
Thankyou for Yr kind words and such an uplifting msg
Thanks Gavin ! 🥰😊
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"I don't wanna be the 2nd Elvis, I wanna be the No.1 me" True in every way
You're so welcome!
thank you ❤ from Turkey
Thank you John for all your inspiring videos, I've been reading your books for at 20 years 😊......You've definitely changed the way I view how I see myself and the people around me. I feel a whole lot happier. For that I thank you.
Sir, I recently discovered you and I have to say thank God for you! Idk what it us exactly but the way you connect these dots just clicks on some subjects. I'm getting so much clarity on these seemingly miniscule points. I can't tell you how many times I go "Mhhm. Dang. I know thats right!" Lol i love it. We must have a very similar story and make up my brother. I can achieve success to that level. Absolutely. I'm just gonna keep showing up, doing my best and follow the spiritual leaders way. I will get there. I'm claiming it 🙌
I love who I am and look forward to being my potential. Thank you for saying you wouldn’t be anyone else. I feel that, admire it and embody it 💕🙏🏼
Love you DrJD!! So Happy n Horned to be healed by you!i am Ming Ming from South Africa, Johannesburg! Iam currently in Penang Island, Malaysia. Best Regard to YOU.
After a moment today where someone put me down and I minimised myself in response, I started watching your videos. Your method made me realise that I admire people who can speak positively about themselves, without minimising themselves. I've been seeing myself as not having the right to speak about myself in a way that empowers me - not to people who I've identified as being strong in that area. It's so good to realise I've already got that quality inside of me. Thank you for the video!
been in classrooms of all ages since 93 and you have hit so many nails on the head,,,great work Dr!!
Still learning at 93, good on you haha
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I've heard two of your lessons bottom line is be happy for who you are be grateful for the fact that we're living and never compete or compare yourself with anybody else be kind be loving and know that all is well with you 💞
If one is a psychopath, there's definitely an urgent need of fixing. You can't just accept evil or those that do evil things. Nor should they love, or accept themselves for being ''authentic''.
There are cases of certain souls, that definitely need some kind of help or some sort of external intervention, in order to become a better version of what they currently are. Food for thought.
I agree totally with this.
There is an awareness beyond such labels. Loving others as they are transforms them.
@@DrDemartini Or maybe not. Some people just love harming others, and they don't have a problem with it. The uncomfortable truth that people don't like to hear, is that not all souls can be saved.
@@Tiborqius that is a very valid point of view.
I had to change my behaviour because I was lost ( still are ) so, my athentic self was gone and I had adapted to society in a way that I completely lost myself and had to take medication and alcohol and became a workaholic so,.....I had not to fix myself but to get to that that wat is, myself....and in order to get there I had to change behaviour so I could come back tot that state of me that is me. A psychopath is lost, a lot of hatred and who knows, demons, possesed so, he will not listen to this and if he does and felt the urge to be wise and to be love again het would change himself, not fix himself.....to be come also the authentic self again....but....not everyone in this lifetime has to be healed and that also is a fact and has to be accepted.
I once felt source coming over me and then I said: If i accept all pain, in me, and in the world, and not have the need annymore to fix it, then my heart will open and source will come over me.
This means: unconditional love.....and I could totally feel my own words resonate and the truth of these words. Like Jesus would say i guess.....
I love your work. Your words inspire hope. I the universe is so on point always. I just told this phrase to my therapist yesterday. "I told her that I discovered that, " I don't have to fix myself " I have spent YEARS obsessed with fixing myself due to childhood trauma and CPTSD. I have always been a straight A student, intelligent, very creative, and possessed beauty (according to years of compliments from people) and not ONE landed on me. I always felt like an imposter. After so many years of trying to fix my childhood I understand that no amount of self awareness and study will eradicate my childhood experience. "I dont"t need to fix myself. I need to Love myself " Thank you. I will head to your website now, as I would like to invest the next half of my life creating who I want to become and stepping into my authentic self.
Thank you ✨ Here's another video that will be helpful, Revealing the Perfection of Your 'Imperfect' Childhood: ua-cam.com/video/WkUPZAl0Lgo/v-deo.html
I’ve spent the last hour listening to you on your Breakthrough method after asking you-tube search ‘why do I keep beating myself up’ & your video was the 1st so I listened to you on your video there ☺️👌 then clicked on your link on the video & listened to you on your introduction to your method☺️👌I’ve been learning after searching for information the last 10 yrs to help find out why I’ve been dissatisfied with my life after ‘anxiety & depression’ bouts & learnt valuable lessons after stumbling over yet more information about how to excavate the ‘victim mentality’ etc traits that hold us humans back & I came across priceless information about how ‘gratitude is the attitude’ & ‘how to be your authentic self’ & how to ‘love mySelf’ etc & it changed my life dramatically! So became proud of mySelf that I freed mySelf from ‘my story’ that had been playing on l👀p for years!
I learnt to learn to listen to my intuition after coming across information to help me understand my emotions & more importantly understand MySelf!
Now synchronicity brought me to you.. 🥰 so GREAT to come across WISE people like YOU Dr John DeMartini who help others see we ALL of worthy of GREATNESS! As you say/teach we positive have I are born with inner guidance system that if we can BALANCE ourSelves & work with the positive & negative to our advantage, can all live lives to our FULL potential! So Great to meet YOU! Dr John DeMartini ☺️ I’ll passing the torch 🔦 of your work!
L❤ve&Wisdom from Jo 🫂
Thank you Jo for your message and glad to hear that you've gained some value from the lessons shared ❤
Thank you for sharing. I was trying to fix my LGBT gender, that way I fell into suicidal state. Now I am learning to heal myself.
you’re doing a great service with these videos❤️🙏❤️
thank you Michelle ❤️❤️
A lot of people don’t know how to be authentic. They have no idea what it is about them is authentic. We’re so conditioned by our families and society. It takes work to recognize that and decondition from it.
So very true! Just believe in yourself. Thanks for sharing 🙏
Thank you John you see the beauty where other people don't !
It's there for all to see.
Thank you for explaining this concept - we often times ignore ourselves because of our societal habit patterns
Thank you Dr John Demartini 😊💯🌏
Such great wisdom!
Thank you, DR.JOHN ,,,amazing insights into our human minds,,,,God bless you for your awesome work, and mission-[soo inspiring]-, and may all 9 billion of us human beings -be authentic , and enlightened to our true selves,,and our best highest purpose ! >gratzia , my friend- ,jerrypotente
You just sum it down into fixing every relationship issue people have with one another , your right that everyone shows you a reflection and self excepting yourself is where it starts. Love it !
Thank you mr de martini for dotting the i's and dashing the t's.
You're welcome - hope you're appreciating your magnificent self more today 🙂
@@DrDemartini yes i do, I do a fulfilling job, which I consider as a calling, as a result I feel invigorated and more grounded, this of course doesn't mean that life is always seamless, but I'm healthy and confident and resilient,
Two suicide temptations of my wife, where I luckily was on time to save her life from overdose which I dare to say was ten seconds away from her death.
I guess this experience made me grounded and resilient.
Wow, this is good. Some gems of wisdom, glad UA-cam offered this to watch! 🎉
Thank you for your message and for watching 🙂
Thanks doc, this was truly amazing
,, uneori plătim un preț pentru neautenticitatea noastră " costul e liniște sufleteasca, integritatea ne este afectata și iubirea🙈🙏
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Precious gem!
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John you came in at a perfect time in my life! I can somewhat relate to that young lady you spoke about
This is awesome advice
This helped me. I have a work presentation coming up in 3 weeks, which I'm dreading. I just keep comparing myself to other speakers. I yelled out, "How am I going to do this presentation, I'm scared." I get on UA-cam, and you pop up in my feed! Were you in the movie, The Secret?
Yes, I was in The Secret ✨ This video on public speaking may offer you some more insights for your upcoming presentation: ua-cam.com/video/USwGl1DFtgU/v-deo.html
@@DrDemartini - Thank you!🙂
A+⭐👏👏👏You made a diffrence in my life today. Thank Q💗
that's inspiring to hear - thank you ❤️
Thank you. Have a great weekend.
Thank you. 💛
Thank you. 🙂
Thank you!
this is really great - thank you
Wow 💚
Thank you.
So good 🤸🏼♂️🤸🏼♂️🤸🏼♂️
Lots of love❤❤
I think there's a fine line between wanting to emulate someone in business and being authentic. I am also concerned about my motives in my business, am I doing it for myself or to do better than others who have humiliated me. I want to succeed with the right motives. Any advice?
Hi James, watch this video on The Telos ✨: ua-cam.com/video/WeBvLKYQSyc/v-deo.html
This video has truly changed my life, I can't begin to tell you how life changing this was for me. Thank you so incredibly much 🧡
Thank you for sharing your message and for honoring your unique value - it's why we all do what we do ❤️
I appreciate you ❤️🫂
I have this problem 😢 I don't know how to love enough
I do need to fix myself, but not to the people in media. Not good role models majority of them, but truly as following scripture. 💖🙏
In solo sport's, swimming, golf, etc, the best attitudes are the ones that compare themselves to their last race, or meet or whatever. Did I do better than what I did yesterday (or last time I did this). Winning and losing fall to the background and personal improvement is much sweeter and meaningful
Happy Friday Mr DeMartini and great video 😎👍
thank you - glad you enjoyed it 🙂
Thank you, enjoyed this
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Super exemplul cu Elvis✌️
Great video!!!
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thank you for sharing this I really appreciate you perfect timing
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Comparing, ect this behaviour all comes from trauma behind off this behaviour, many People dont even understand their behaviour,..therapy can help alooot! Because how you would change something if you dont know the reason why you are doing it? Making People on the pedistal comes from narcisist abuse also..
It is necesary to fix our behaviour, ect..and it is along way, when you really go naked totaly❤
All the best🎉
Brilliant wisdom 👏
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@@DrDemartini thankyou 🙏 Sir. I personally met with you in Toronto in 1995. We had a ninetyminutedialogue. .I appreciate your incredible contributions to the well of world humanity 😀.
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Never equal is unhealthy.
The ENTIRE TRANS COMMUNITY NEEDS TO HEAR THIS
Thank you What is the free Master class link?
Hi Tia, you can find it here: demartini.ink/2VnxDT6
Envious ignorance and imitation is suicide - Ralph Emerson
I love that you pointed out the plus side of people and the potential downside. Super grounding and clarity of perspective 🙏🏼🩵
How do we know when we overvalue us in this process and become arrogant? Is there anyway to keep a check on it?
Hi Aravind, thank you for your question, you can learn more about how to balance your emotions here: demartini.ink/3DTG8qF
@@DrDemartini Thankyou 😊
Whenever i try to spot their qualities in me i find my age as an obstacle. I m 36 and i feel old to start things or enter sports professionally. I m wondering if i m the fish or the cat
Hi Thiresia, have you taken the free Value Determination to get clear on what your life is truly demonstrating as most important to you? That is a great place to start: demartini.fm/mytopvalues
Also, here's a great video for you titled, It's Never Too Late: ua-cam.com/video/ygUAffQ83wc/v-deo.html
Stop fixing yourself but come fix yourself with my course. Can I have your questions for free Dr if I dont have to fix myself? ❤ I see the mirror in your offer. 😊
Correct - you don't need fixing. Come and discover the magnificence of yourself, your life and all the events you may be judging so that you can appreciate yourself, your life and your journey to date. You don't have to live another day with the illusion that there are any mistakes, wiser to see the order and the perfection of what is as it is. That's what the Breakthrough Experience will help you to see ❤️.
If you'd love to chat to the team you can book a free Discovery call here and they'll take you through a Mini-Powers Assessment Session: demartini.ink/3WPrREE - Enjoy!
Your Growth is Our Greatest Inspiration
So I can't manifest full head of hair? Balding destroyed my social life. That's not me, that sick body is not me
My question is why has dismorfia not yet gown extinct ???
As long as humans judge others there will be dysmorphia.
Way too much focus on the physical.
I think the world is way full of narcissists as is
So for example physically..... Like my friend is in really good shape.... I want to be in good shape. Is it just a matter of, doing the things that I need to do to get into shape without looking at others? I've lost weight and gained weight so I know what it feels like to be at a ideal weight for my height and my body.... And that's what I want. So, I do see people that I feel have what I want. Are they automatically on a pedestal? Im lost! 🫤
It starts with loving yourself for who you are, as you are. The body you have is a reflection of what you perceive will give you more benefits than drawbacks according to your highest value (what you value most). So instead of judging it, take the time to see how your body is serving you the way it is. And how it would be a drawback to you if it was the way you imagine it should be.
When you see the order of your body the way it is, you become grateful for yourself as you are. That then gives you the power to influence that order.
This is something that I train people to do at my 2 day seminar the Breakthrough Experience. If you'd love to find out more about the seminar, click here: demartini.ink/3jYF8ZU and if you'd love to chat to my team about the seminar or how to love and appreciate yourself for who you are, then book a call with them here: demartini.ink/3Ahh2Qk
I hope to meet you at the seminar soon ❤️
@@DrDemartini Oh ok. I believe I understand. On the quiz, it says my highest value is community. Community frequently means, I'm out socializing with people, mostly with food and drink. 🤣 I imagine having more community meetings over fitness related venues. 💪🏽😝 Thank you! 🙏🏽