I. am. so. blessed. Thank you thank you THANK YOU for the beautiful words. I have been completely enveloped in your love and support over the last 24 hours, and I could not be more grateful. Today I woke up feeling not deflated, but content. It really is okay. I feel like I somehow have a new sense of optimism within the scary and crazy and beautiful uncertainty of whatever happens next. Here's to the future hey, I'm glad you're here on this journey x
UnJaded Jade i just wanted to tell you, you're not the only one. I had my heart set on cambridge since I was 11 and worked so hard for it. When it didn't work out I was absolutely crushed, I was angry and sad and aimless and then I just got with it. And I wouldn't change it for the world. And this is not to say, don't work hard for something and get it, but I have made the experience that all these things make you grow and shape you in the most amazing ways and often, having to rethink what is going to happen and making new and updated choices actually improves things. One thing, I don't know whether you are thinking about it or not, gap years are amazing. A friend of mine deferred very late and spontaneously in august and had an incredible with incredible experiences. And I wouldn't not have done my gap year for the world. You've been in education all your life and - i don't know, I had an existential crisis when I came back and I dealt with that and now at Uni, I know I've made an informed decision. On the other hand, you are are an incredible young women, smart and hard-working and confident and engaged and you have infinite possibilities in your future. (And sometimes, better things come out of having to go a different way about The One Dream. My sister wants to do medicine, has not managed the test in Germany the first time and now is training as a paramedic for this year and she is learning SO much and has never loved her life more). England has a strange elitism about Oxbridge bjt getting rejected will make you gain perspective and eventually it won't sting so much anymore. So much love xxx
What's with all the negativity in the replies yall? Jade has obviously tried incredibly and, for that, I have so much respect for her. Also, so what if she monetises her videos? She's a teenager, this is probably her only source of income. Good luck Jade, I'm positive that you'll find your place in a university that's right for you xx
evil books? What? She writes books about love and friendship. The magic and all the made up fantasy parts of it are just a metaphore and an addition to express such things in a more fun and colourful way. Plus, I don't know anyone who finds fanatsy/fairy tale stories distrubing or evil.
Jade you are the most incredible soul, I am so so so sorry that Oxford let you slip the net but I promise you'll look back in a year's time and smile. Don't apologise for being sad today, you're more than entitled to a tear (or twelve). It's how you act tomorrow and the next day and the next day and the next day that show your true shining character 💗
Jade - four years ago, I got rejected by Oxford too, when others from my school were accepted. One girl in particular, who did get a place, rather enjoyed taunting me about it. I ended up having the most INCREDIBLE three years at Lancaster University, not just academically, but also personally. I graduated with a first class honours degree in History and Politics, and I left having grown as a person. During my last year, I was accepted on to one of the most competitive graduate schemes in the UK, and I'm now partway through my first year on the scheme. And you know what? The girl who taunted me about not getting a place at Oxford, when she did, also applied to this graduate scheme, and WASN'T successful. Now I'm not like her, I didn't take any delight in that. My purpose of mentioning it, is to simply stress that attending Oxford (or Cambridge), doesn't necessarily mean success afterwards. Just as Oxford decided I wasn't right for them, the organisation I now work for decided my former classmate wasn't right for their graduate scheme, despite that piece of paper with University of Oxford on it. You are clearly dedicated, hard-working, and ambitious, and if you continue to carry that with you, you will do great things. Good luck!
Although I got an offer from Oxford, I didn't end up getting the grades.... I cried for about 5 days. But I'm now in my third year at Bristol and it was honestly the best thing that ever happened to me. Im eternally grateful for that twist of fate. Good Luck with whatever you choose next!
I love you SO much, I'm SO proud of you and I just want to give you the BIGGEST hug right now. I won't repeat everything I've said on Instagram again because you know how amazing I think you are! See you Saturday for lots of partying and fun! xx
Jade, you are born to do so much in this world. I don't know if I believe everything happens for a reason, but I promise you - you are on to big things. You are going to make a difference, you already are. I can't wait to see where you go and what you do next
You have such maturity for someone who is only 17 :) I'm 20, but when I was 17, I was nowhere near as insightful or self-aware as you are! You have such a bright future ahead of you!! I love your videos and you inspire me!
This is so disheartening wow! I mean jade literally has it all. She performed SO incredibly well on her GCSEs, did DofE, is headgirl, did so much extracurricular activities such as NCyes, and then went on to achieve even more outstanding A-level grades and literally outdid herself by being amongst get the top performing student. She put so much time, effort and compassion into the process of applying to Oxford! She is kind, hardworking and totally deserving💞 jade you are incredible and Oxford has lost such a great person, but I believe this is opening doors to even better things🧚🏾♀️I wish the best and I hope that during your gap hear you find and fall in love with the true place that was meant for you❤️❤️
I’ve followed you since you started your channel and I owe you SO much for getting me through GCSES (and a 9 in lit ahah). But after that I got rejected from a sixth form I REALLY wanted to go to because school was my life and was absolutely devastated. But 5 months later I am a full time UA-camr and my life couldn’t be on MORE of a different course. (Not that I recommend dropping out of school ahah). Just remember that it won’t mean anything in a few months time when you’re exactly where you want to be.
Awhh Kiera!! I appreciate this SO much, thank you 💘 and woahh full time UA-cam, get you ;) I'm sorry that you didn't get into that sixth form, but I really am such a big believer in things happening to lead you where you need to be. Lots of love xxx
My favourite thing is that you can see the genuine happiness on your face when you talk about your friends getting in. You are such a wonderful, genuine and kind person and it's definitely Oxford's loss for not accepting you!! We love you so much and you're going to go so far in life 💓 Keep staying positive and inspiring people to work towards their goals no matter the setbacks ❤❣ xxx
Jade you are one of the most beautiful, hard-working, humble, intelligent, wonderful human-beings I know of. I know being rejected is hard, but please don't let this one slip make you fall down. You have your entire, incredible life ahead of you and all of us supporting you. Sending love and happiness xxx
Jade it’s Oxford that should be truly upset, they’ve missed out on such a gem. Keep doing what you’re doing and you’ll be successful wherever you go... have you thought about reapplying after your gap year if it’s still something you want to pursue? It’s so hard to get in with a deferred entry as well, so to still get an interview was amazing! God bless xx
It's their loss! Don't be down about it, I got rejected from Oxford, St Andrews and Cambridge years ago! But guess what, I never went to university in the end and I am now doing the job I've always wanted to do, sports journalist! Never went to Uni! You don't have to go to a top uni or go to uni at all to be successful in life. There is so much the world has to offer, it's your oyster. Wish you luck for the future.
M J i'm not the person who commented but i'm pretty sure you can do journalism apprenticeships now (i guess depending on where you live. they might be more popular/available in certain areas, like around london). sometimes you can work your way up through internships as well.
i didn't get into my first choice uni, and now only being at my second choice for a few months, i cannot imagine being anywhere else. it WAS a blessing in disguise completely, and i couldn't be happier with my course and friends here! everything happens for a reason jade, you will end up where you are meant to be 💗
I've also had a very horrible yet upsetting day today (the worst).I literally was like you today, the excessive stress and tears when waiting for the decision email, and then when I found out that that I had been rejected from Cambridge University I thought that all my hard work had gone to waste because everything I worked for was for my dream to go to Cambridge university to study medicine simply because I loved medicine and the way it was taught. I also don't want to go to school, dreading my head of sixth form and everyone asking me 'did you get in?' Thank you for your comforting words of wisdom and reassurance and don't worry I'm sure you will continue to shine as an awesome biologist in another university. Again, it is their loss on a potentially incredible applicant
Please don’t be too disheartened! You’re a talented and lovely girl. I and many others would never even have the guts to apply to such a regarded place. You have so many good attributes and you’re sure to achieve many things regardless of where you can go. The best thing you can do is accept this moment which will be painful (it would be very much for anyone) and push through and persevere. Make it so that they will regret not having you! You will realise at some point that you did not need Oxford at all and you’re highly capable wherever you end up. I’m 100% sure everyone in your school is proud and impressed by your current achievements! Stay strong and believe in yourself!
Oxford probably wasn't meant to be. This is just another step to your amazing inspirational journey. You are incredible and so many more incredible things are going to come for you! You are such an inspiration to all of us!
Hey Jade, I’ve wanted to go to Cambridge since the age of 14, I worked my arse off and guess what... yesterday I found out I received a rejection. Yeah there were tears for a while but I’m taking it way better than I thought I would. I’m honestly so proud of how I conducted myself through every stage of the process and you should be too! We’re in the same boat and saying it’s not shit would be a lie but it’s not the end of the world. I’m so excited for the LSE and so honoured both the LSE and UCL gave me offers. I’m sure you’ve had offers back from other amazing unis and will smash it anywhere you go. I don’t know if you believe in God but for anyone who does and received a rejection from whatever university, you can’t battle with what God knows is best for you. And even if you don’t believe in God, everything happens for a reason. If it was meant for you, IT WOULD HAVE BEEN YOURS, NO MATTER WHAT. I completely relate when you say the pressure from other people is the hardest thing to deal with. Practically the whole worlddd wants to know how you did and it’s exhausting repeating the news but you are the most important person on this journey. As long as you give yourself time off and come to terms with it yourself, other people will not matter. Three people applied to Oxford out of your entire year! A similar number from mine! Most people don’t even have Oxbridge on their radar! Treat the process and the interviews as a valuable experience that you had the opportunity to have out of sooo many others that did not. A rejection has motivated me like nothing else. London is one of my most favourite places in the world, the only thing that pulled me towards Cambridge over the LSE was accommodation 😂 but I know I’ll make that work. Be excited for this next chapter of your life, it’s where you’re meant to be. Sending you love x
you dealt with the news so well! you’re so intelligent and pretty, and have so many bright prospects for the future! i have full faith that whatever and wherever you go / do you will be successful and put your best efforts into it! xx
I'm not much of a commenter myself but it has truly broken my heart not to see you get in. I admire your positive attitude towards the rejection so much because I know that I probs wouldn't be able to to deal with this myself 😂. Even though I don't know you personally, I believe in you and your capabilities so much and I know that you won't need Oxbridge to become successful, and like you said, some day in the future, this day will be irrelevant. I love you so much Jade so stay strong and keep doing what you're doing xx!!
Honestly, the most positive thing that comes out of this is that it inspires thousands of people to try and try and that before succeeding you will always fail. You succeed in every way possible and this minor setback just proves to us all you're human. You're honestly so brave for showing us every step of the way. Thank you from everyone
I went through the exact same thing last year when I was rejected. I got an email during my first lesson but didn’t tell anyone because I found it so hard and embarrassing. I totally agree with how deflating the process is and it’s so disheartening, but it’s really not the end of the world. The thing I found hardest was telling people but they were so positive and supportive. I’m now on my gap year and feeling so so positive about the future! You have amazing things ahead of you, and you deserve to be successful! Just remember your intelligence is not defined by this and you’ll still do amazingly at another university. It will seem so insignificant by this time next year. Sending love x
You have used your social media platform to spread such wonderful messages to the world and you are one of the most intelligent, kind, and humble persons I have discovered online. You have such a bright future ahead of you.
I didn’t apply to Oxford but really wanted to go to Edinburgh Uni. I didn’t get in and was super sad about it. That was 7 years ago and I’ve just finished my PhD & I’m about to get married to someone I met at my second choice institution. As cheesy as it sounds, things sometimes do work out for the better, even when it feels really awful!! Looking forward to seeing your journey, whatever it might be. 🙌🏻
i just got rejected from edinburgh and it was absolutely soul crushing, i know this was 2 years ago and i hope you've been doing well this past while but i just wanted to say how much your comment means to me! i hope in 9 years time i'll be able to look back on this as a good thing
The universe has sometimes unfortunate ways of guiding you on your journey through life. I am so so so sure though that you are going to do great things in life and you are still an inspiration to so many people (including many of my friends and me) and honestly watching this video was one of the most heartbreaking and happy thing I have watched in a long long time because I am so sad to see you upset, but I think you will find joy in so many other aspects of your life (including Uni!!) Sending love x x x
I didn’t get into Cambridge today, and it’s so refreshing to hear this. I can relate so much to everything you talked about haha. Our time will come & it’ll all work out in the end :-) xx
I am so so so proud of you Jade! Just looking through the comments it’s so positive and supportive! & omg the gap year is soooo exciting! Everything happens for a reason :) - oh & a quote I found- ‘difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations!’
Jade, this video has helped me so much. I completely understand your disappointment as I am in a similar situation to yourself. I am in my final year of university and applied for a summer job at Disney World in Florida. I made it through three stages of interview that all involved a great deal of travelling. The final outcome is that I have been waitlisted, which I found out on my 21st birthday. Obviously, Disney isn't Oxford, but I just wanted to say that I completely understand where you're coming from. You've also made me realise that it is not the end of the world, and there are many other routes/options. Thank you so much, and it is so clear that your future is going to be incredible xx
Aww Jade don't cry. It is Oxfords loss. They are missing out on an amazing, talented, hardworking, beautiful person. You inspire people, such as myself, everyday. Even though it is hard right now, don't worry about university for the moment. You have had a rough couple of days and deserve to have a bit of a break. But nevertheless, bigger and greater things are waiting for you. Keep going with your grades and your beautiful personality. . You are so amazing and never forget that!!!!
Honestly Jade, this was me two years ago. I was already in a very fragile place mentally and getting a rejection after all the work that went into it, as well as getting a taste of Oxford when staying for interviews just pushed me over the edge. I ended up doing something really silly and it's only now I look back, having got into Durham to study my dream course, I realise how easy it is to base your entire worth on one university and feeling like a 'failure' to both yourself and other people. Telling people was also my biggest dread but give it a few days and people will have moved on, too busy with their own lives and their own paths. This does NOT define you, your intelligence or your character. And quite frankly, it is Oxford's loss in this case because you would be an asset to have at any university. I truly hope whatever you decide to do makes you happy, fulfilled and ultimately lead you on the right path. Sending love xxxx
I'm so so proud of you and everything that you've achieved! I don't want to go on a ramble and repeat everything that I've said on twitter and Instagram, but you're a real gem of a person, and well Oxford's definitely missed out :(
I'm watching this peacefully, because as I can understand how disappointing it be, I believe that the universe has something greater for you in store. You are such a intelligent and beautiful person with a touching soul, that does not go unnoticed just wait and see. Meanwhile enjoy the journey, good or bad. This is shaping you and making you grow. I cannot wait to see what life has in store for you. Sending love and positive vibes your way xx
I was rejected from Oxford yesterday and have the exact same feelings about telling people! The whole application process has this uncanny way of drawing you in and I'd become pretty attached to the idea of Oxford - I found myself thinking about it almost constantly. Deciding what to do next is scary but here's to hoping I can turn scary into exciting 😄 Thank you so, so much for making this video Jade 💗 I really think you'll do wonderful things in the future
Hi, I only just found your channel but I just wanted to say please don't take the rejection too personally. Last year, I was also rejected from Oxford to study physics and was devastated, and come results day I had another rejection from Imperial. My best friend also got accepted, and whilst I was incredibly happy for her it was very tough. Fast forward to now I am in my second term at Exeter and couldn't be happier. Honestly, I know it's hard now but everything does happen for a reason (also, I bet biosciences was very competitive course so try not to compare yourself to others who went for different courses!)
Well, it is sad to hear, but don’t worry, sometimes we get angry over the things that we don’t get which is reasonable, but you never know what lies ahead. Who knows, maybe you could have arrived there and it could have been totally different, you may not have been as happy there, due to the environment or for whatever other reason. You didn’t get into oxford this time, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that you are less bright or suitable as a candidate- luck sometimes plays a part too. Also, success is not solely based on the institution one attends, look at some of the top influential people in the world, some of them drop out of school and go through rejection continuously before they can finally get to the place they deserve to be. Jade, keep working hard, inspiring people, success will come in its own time, and we will be here to support you.
I watched this when it was first posted and it is probably what inspired me most to apply. For me, the whole way through the application process, the fear of rejection scared me from applying but this video showed me that rejection is still ok. I did it. I got an interview which in itself was above my wildest dreams. And then today I was rejected. I have never related to a video as much as I have now. Thank you for your honesty and positivity. 💛
I've sent you a private message on Twitter Jade about my experience. But, something even better will come along, just you wait and see. You are an incredibly hard worker and deserve everything you want xxx
I got rejected from Brasenose last year too and felt exactly the same when I found out! It's such a long and intense application process for Oxford and so I completely relate to feeling deflated when you first found out. But honestly, you are such a talented and hard-working person that your future is going to be bright regardless of what uni you go to! This rejection in no way reflects your ability or potential, in many ways success at interview is largely down to luck. So keep inspiring all 111,000 (!!!!) subscribers, you're doing great! Xxx
Jade! Not getting into my uni of choice was probably the best thing that happened to me in hindsight. I also remember feeling so devastated and, as you say, humiliated/over telling people, but I learned through that process how little people cared ... how people’s assessments of me were seemingly unwavering, but more importantly, that I could find and develop my respect for myself, on my own, without external validation. It really sucks at the time, but your love of knowledge and life is evident and that’s so, so much more important that the way you look on paper, in an application. You’re a whole, complex human, and no application process can really do anyone justice. In other words, they rejected your application - not you. I can’t wait to see all that you do accomplish!! I really think the whole uni experience is made by what you bring to it much more than where you are. Lots and lots of love and thanks for your inspiring content!
I came across this video randomly, but literally don’t worry. I’m a second year medic at Cambridge and the idea of oxbridge is totally over romanticised by almost EVERYONE. You seem very bright, and I’m not trying to deter you from oxbridge should you choose to reapply, but the image I and most applicants fell in love with is far from the reality (it’s not all balls and formals, and supervisions/tutorials are basically hour long roastings). I hope you don’t feel as though you’re somehow not “good enough”. Differences in colleges and interviewers and students mean a student that would get in one year may not in another. Unfortunately, you were unlucky, but you are fortunate in that you can get into other amazing unis where you’ll have equally amazing experiences. I admire your optimism and hope you keep your head up! Go get those A*s!! xx
I'm a bit of a believer in fate and I feel like if you're rejected it's because you'd be a better fit somewhere else. It's such a massive disappointment at the time but I'm sure you'll go on to have a great time elsewhere. But it does seem totally unfair when you look at someone like you who seems so deserving and is clearly such a hard worker.
Why would you say this like two days after she's been rejected? I'm sure she already feels bad, no need for random people who don't know her at all to say she 'wasn't good enough'. Oxbridge is a complex thing that is by no means just about intellect, it's a lot about personality too and personalities are just different, there isn't one that's better than others.
Caitlin Cashmore-Roche Ngl they have the pick of the best so they will just pick the smartest people, I don't think personality will change the decision on whether you get accepted to your course unless you are applying for medicine
Oxbridge is complex, I go to Cambridge and did a ton of research when I was applying. It was far more complicated to apply to than any other university, there are many aspects to the application and it is part luck, part intelligence, part personality. Jade is clearly a clever girl, and I don't know her personally of course but while it could be that she wasn't smart enough, it could just have easily been that she had a bad day in the interview, or that she didn't cope with the pressure well (which is a personality thing)
It okay jade! Universe has something really good for which is perfect for YOU! Have faith! All the best! There are SO many amazing unis that are dying for you to join them! Go ahead and grab whats yours! 😊❤️
Jade!!! Everybody here is mentioning your grades and yes, they were perfect and yes you're brilliant academically BUT honestly you're so much more than that? I know that sounds cheesy and stuff, but I think sometimes Oxbridge et similia fail to recognize how much there is to a person than their grades and polished interviews (I mean, even the personal statement has to be 85% "look how great I am at the subject I'm currently applying to" and 15% "I also do this and this... You know?"). You are committed to your school not only study-wise but socially and *personally*, you volunteer, you have strong ethics (questioning what is on your plate isn't something a lot of people do), you haVE A UA-cam CHANNEL WITH 111K SUBSCRIBERS and you never fail to inspire them and motivate them??? Probably you hear this a lot but whenever I look at you, I see a special glow - I can truly find beauty in the person that you are, not only physically, but mentally and spiritually. It truly comes from my heart, I mean how in the world a person you don't even know would take this much time to write something like this if it weren't true? 😂 Also! Remember your gap year!!! When your first mentioned it you were so excited, and said you would pursue that path unless you got an offer from Oxford. Maybe it is meant for you to take this gap year and (even though I'm not sure how the whole thing works and if you can actually do this) maybe re-apply for Oxford next year if you feel like it? Jade. Best of luck. I know it will work for you - keep your Faith. All of the love!
I secured a place at this point last year, but then my Geography grade fell massively short. I know how you feel, it is truly devastating- especially since family and friends expect you to breeze through it. But please be aware that there really is a marginal difference between the top 30/50 universities. There is always the opportunity to delay your application, but I would advise that you go into a fantastic course at another top university, and perhaps seek to do a Masters or PhD at Oxford later. Chin up lass!
Jade, although I never usually comment on videos, I feel compelled to give you thus message. The way you see your self is probably completely different to how your friends, family, teachers and I (even as a stranger) see you. Not only are you incredibly intelligent, you are more importantly hard working and self motivated which counts for so much in whatever career path you take to get you to the top. It’s by no coincidence that your channel has grown so much in a short space of time, other than that your personality is something that over 100,000 people admire and strive to be. You are so genuine, honest, caring and beautiful which is what we all love so much about you. Oxbridge doesn’t equal success, but all of these characteristics that you already have do. #teamunjadedjade xxxxx
Wherever you go, make sure you have THE BEST experience possible. Meet amazing people, keep working hard, learn new things and get that degree! At the end of it all, its the qualification and the person who comes out in that graduation gown that matters the most. Growth and hard work will get you far, no matter where you go to study. Enjoy wherever you attend and make the most of it. You got this❤
honestly Jade don't worry about it i believe that everything happens for a reason and 2 years ago when i got rejected from my uni i wanted to go to i thought it was the end of the world but now i couldnt be happier ! xxx
I watched this video long ago when jade uploaded it. But, today as I also got rejected from my dream university, I am watching this again and yes I can feel her now. lots of love to you jade, you are so brave.
I understand how you feel about the fact that you don't want to talk about it with people. Especially when you've always been great at something, people have those expectations that make everything so hard, they feel like such a weight. Even if you know it is not, it feels like the end of the world, because you've put so much time, energy, hard work and passion into it and didn't get what you were hoping for, and you probably feel like you've disappointed the people that believed in you. But you haven't disappointed us. You're amazing and a great inspiration. I know that you're thinking something like "well, yeah, thanks, but I still didn't get in and that doesn't change it" right now, but trust me, I know you're going to do amazing things in the future, I'm sure of it. Just keep going and prove them wrong.
I was rejected from Oxford last year so I know the feeling! However I took a gap year and applied to Cambridge this year and just got accepted! Don't give up on your dream! Also you already have such a successful UA-cam channel so keep working at that and your future is going to be brighter than a lot of people going to Oxbridge!
Jade, this is the first video of yours that I've watched, and I literally failed my driving test because of such a stupid mistake a few days ago. At first I cried just like you did because it's so horrible when you're so hopeful of something and your dreams are just put to an end so suddenly. I hate that feeling of trying so hard, and still not being good enough. And I know that's probably what you feel too atm. But, you're a really kind and genuine human being, and I really believe there is something so much better for you out there! I can't wait to see you thrive and flourish, because whatever you'll do, you're going to be incredible at it, because you seem so passionate and hardworking. You have a beautiful smile, and just keeping being amazing! 😁
Massive inspiration and motivation. Oxford isn’t everything they don’t know what they’re missing out on. You didn’t get it and it’s okay something a world better is waiting ahead for you. A journey that is going to lead you to where you want and are meant to be. Stay strong ❤️x
Maybe you are just meant to do a gap year and have that amazing and unique experience. You can still try to get into Oxford next year. I am a strong believer of the quote "what´s meant to be will be". You appear to an genuinely kind, intelligent and hard working person. I wished for you that it worked for you the way you wanted it to. Head up! xoxo
i am absolutely lOving watching this video with hindsight!! Baby Jade has no idea what's in store for her!! When she said "i know in a few years that i'll be somewhere better" she was SO right! Minerva babyyy!! hahaha i love how much she's grown from this now :)
I've been rejected twice last year. I applied to do engineering at Cambridge and got rejected; missed out on my offer to Bristol in August. It was really tough, and there were tears, so I completely understand what you're going through. I'm currently on a gap year; I've reapplied to unis, top ones too, got all my offers, and now I'm working to get money saved up for uni, revising for my resits this summer and hopefully this September, I'll be going to my first choice. You'll make it through this. I'm sure whatever uni you end up at, you will do your best and think "Why was I upset with my Oxford rejection in the first place?" The universe has a funny way of sending you down a path, but I'm sure you won't have any regrets about where you'll end up. Keep your head up :)
I was also rejected from Brasenose today and I was devastated at first, especially (as you said) when you work so hard doing the test and interviews etc. However, this does not undermine your abilities whatsoever. Good luck with the future ☺️ x
5:29 omg this is literally what annoys me the most ''having to tell people'' and their ''reaction'' and yeah I literally cried because I love you so much but I hope you are not disheartened because I'm happy if you're happy and trust me you will do so well stay strong. and btw the 10th is my birthday so if I decide to apply for oxford I will make sure I don't open it on the 10th because its always a 50 % chance
Really appreciate the honesty in this video, some of my closest friends have been rejected from oxbridge and I definitely sympathise with the disappointment! It's natural to be upset, so don't beat yourself up for that, but try to put things into perspective even though I know that's easier said than done. My friends who were rejected are some of the kindest, most hard working and talented people I know, and although I don't know you personally, I'm sure you are too! Being a well rounded person counts for so much more! Sending big hugs Xx
My stomach dropped as soon as saw your Instagram post, I’m so sorry Jade, i know it must be truly crushing but I truly believe that this is fate and that it is ONLY onwards and upwards from here You’ve got this You truly inspire me every single day and I couldn’t give a damn what uni you get in to Sending you all the positive thoughts I can! Xxxxx
The oxbridge application process is brutal. Don't fret over the conversations - you don't need to speak to anyone about it. You haven't let anyone down, not yourself, not anyone else. No one will judge you or put you down for not getting in. Failure is a huge part of success and you will be successful, I promise. If you want something enough, you'll get it.
Jade you are a force to be reckoned with!! Keep going, you are such a motivation to me and all of your subscribers, thankyou for everything you do, out of everyone you did not deserve the pain. Keep going ❤️
I have experienced the same thing. Two years ago I was rejected from Biological Natural Sciences at Cambridge King's College and like you described it, when I read the email my heart dropped. It was terrible to tell others but with time it got less painful and then it stopped hurting at all. Like Luke Birch said, getting rejected was probably the best thing that happened. I am pursuing an amazing degree in Scotland, and I have plans to do another degree after this one. Jade, be proud of yourself. You had the interviews - not everyone is invited to them. I believe that everything happens for a reason, and I'm sure you'll look back at this experience with a smile in a few years. Lots of love x
No one deserves to get in more than you. Just remember you inspire so many people everyday including me. When I’m down or feeling unproductive your channel is what I return to. Oxford doesn’t matter, you’ll get far without it, you work hard enough. ❤️❤️
You are so so smart and so deserving!! I know so many people who have been rejected and you’re not alone!! Keep working hard and you’ll get where you want to eventually! If it’s meant to be it’s meant to be. You might end up at a different university/oxford next year and find yourself meeting new people that you wouldn’t have met if you had got in this year! Keep working towards your goals and don’t let this stop you 💗💗💗
I have just received my rejection email and oh God, I am so happy to know that i am not going through this alone. Thank you for your virtual support, yous videos are so therapeutic for me, Jade. 💛
I started tearing up when you cried, I have the same worries on having to talk about not getting in with other people. Don't worry jade, I'm incredibly proud of you and you have a very bright future x ❤️
So many opportunities are heading your way becuase of your inspiring hard work throughout the years! Please don't beat yourself down for it when your future will still be funominal whether you are in oxford or not! Xxxx
Jade this isn’t the end for you. It simply just means you’re path will take a different route. You will still be extremely successful and you should be so proud getting to the interview stage. You may be disheartened after putting so much effort into the application process (I experienced the same thing but for Cambridge last year) but to be honest it may be the best thing to happen to you. You will end up at an amazing uni and it will definitely make you realise that this isn’t the end for you. Don’t feel pressured to talk to people about it until you feel okay with it. You still inspire me every day and have made me believe in myself!
There are so many brilliant universities in the UK Jade. I recently recruited for a vacancy in my organisation and 1 out of the 40 applicants has an environmental science degree from Oxford and he didnt get shortlisted. There is so much more out there than Oxford Uni. Best of luck.
its ok...it really is ok. Life isn't always gonna be happy and amazing..you will do well and succeed regardless of what barriers (like this one) there are. Some of the most successful people didn't go to oxbridge so just keep that in mind
Listen, you're clearly a smart girl. It depends on how badly you want it. If you truly want it, apply again (you will probably get in after re-applying). If you don't, then go for something else that you truly want. If you haven't figured it out yet, you will. You just need time... time = clarity.
Taking a gap year can sometimes inspire existential changes, so who is to say that the road to Oxford is necessarily blocked for her? If she wants to re-apply after her gap year, she might be in sync with the right moment that could lead her straight into the gates of Oxford to study something else that is closely related to Biological Sciences (i.e. the BA in Human Sciences). Life is fluid, and the power of the mind and one's state of existence can change things for the better. I wish her well!
I'm so sorry to hear the news. I was certain you'd get in!! These things are unpredictable I guess. You're one of the brightest people and an inspiration for so many people. Not gonna lie, it's only Oxford's loss, not yours. I wish you all the luck in your future, stay strong ♡
Oxford’s loss. Don’t worry you’ll be fine. Someone with your hard work, intelligence and mindset will do brilliantly in the future. You deserve the best
I got rejected by oxford as well today and i got to say that your video made me feel much much better. Thank you so much and I’m hoping that you’re having an amazing time on your gap year!!!
I got rejected from Cambridge yesterday too, I feel you girl lmaooo. I think it's v easy to underestimate the level of competition we're up against whether it's Oxford or Cambridge. Even reaching the interview stage is commendable so make sure u keep reminding yourself of that. Some friends of mine who are some of the most intelligent and academic people I've ever met got rejected, but there's no doubt in my mind they'll be wildly successful regardless. It's a gruelling admissions process, so now it's all over we can turn attention toward other things. Gotta prove to them that they're loosing out by rejecting us !!!!!
Everything happens for a reason 💛 You are such an intelligent, kind person who deserves the best and I hope what you choose to do next will lead you into doing great things... so sorry to hear this. 💕💕
Jade, you are such an inspirational, beautiful person and you deserve whatever is going to come to you in the future. Like you said, the outcome is going to be what is meant for you. I feel for you and am so thankful for your honesty and realness - keep being you! Your persistent positivity is what makes a lot of people's lives better everyday and I want you to remember all that you tell us also applies to you. You are strong and you are worth it. ❤︎ I love YOU. Xo
Watching this back after knowing you achieved literal perfection on results day is just incredible! You are destined for amazing things Jade and Oxford will be kicking themselves for rejecting someone as outstanding as you! I know you'll do wonderfully at Bristol! Enjoy your gap year x
I can’t believe it. Even while crying, your smile is the most beautiful thing in the world And that makes me wanna cry. You truly are a beautiful and wonderful human being, inside and outside.
I. am. so. blessed.
Thank you thank you THANK YOU for the beautiful words. I have been completely enveloped in your love and support over the last 24 hours, and I could not be more grateful. Today I woke up feeling not deflated, but content. It really is okay. I feel like I somehow have a new sense of optimism within the scary and crazy and beautiful uncertainty of whatever happens next.
Here's to the future hey, I'm glad you're here on this journey x
UnJaded Jade much love hope you feel better ! 💖
AwesomeRules what’s wrong with monetisation? It’s her job at least she’s not shoving ads in our faces left right and centre like other youtubers
Louise Alungat she literally couldn’t have done this vid without using their name?! It’s not even click bait 😂
UnJaded Jade i just wanted to tell you, you're not the only one. I had my heart set on cambridge since I was 11 and worked so hard for it. When it didn't work out I was absolutely crushed, I was angry and sad and aimless and then I just got with it. And I wouldn't change it for the world. And this is not to say, don't work hard for something and get it, but I have made the experience that all these things make you grow and shape you in the most amazing ways and often, having to rethink what is going to happen and making new and updated choices actually improves things. One thing, I don't know whether you are thinking about it or not, gap years are amazing. A friend of mine deferred very late and spontaneously in august and had an incredible with incredible experiences. And I wouldn't not have done my gap year for the world. You've been in education all your life and - i don't know, I had an existential crisis when I came back and I dealt with that and now at Uni, I know I've made an informed decision.
On the other hand, you are are an incredible young women, smart and hard-working and confident and engaged and you have infinite possibilities in your future. (And sometimes, better things come out of having to go a different way about The One Dream. My sister wants to do medicine, has not managed the test in Germany the first time and now is training as a paramedic for this year and she is learning SO much and has never loved her life more). England has a strange elitism about Oxbridge bjt getting rejected will make you gain perspective and eventually it won't sting so much anymore.
So much love xxx
What's with all the negativity in the replies yall? Jade has obviously tried incredibly and, for that, I have so much respect for her. Also, so what if she monetises her videos? She's a teenager, this is probably her only source of income. Good luck Jade, I'm positive that you'll find your place in a university that's right for you xx
Harry potter was once rejected by 12 publishers. But now....you know 💖💖
@eliora sam lmao why
True :) And now she has 3 A*s :)
I love this your such a lovely person :)
evil books? What? She writes books about love and friendship. The magic and all the made up fantasy parts of it are just a metaphore and an addition to express such things in a more fun and colourful way. Plus, I don't know anyone who finds fanatsy/fairy tale stories distrubing or evil.
That's what I always think about !❤
Jade you are the most incredible soul, I am so so so sorry that Oxford let you slip the net but I promise you'll look back in a year's time and smile. Don't apologise for being sad today, you're more than entitled to a tear (or twelve). It's how you act tomorrow and the next day and the next day and the next day that show your true shining character 💗
Jack Edwards good advice jack! You are also a good person like jade and I wish you well
I really appreciate it, thank you Jack! Here's to the future hey 💫
Jack Edwards oxfords loss.
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Looking back on this, you were so right Jack!
Jade - four years ago, I got rejected by Oxford too, when others from my school were accepted. One girl in particular, who did get a place, rather enjoyed taunting me about it. I ended up having the most INCREDIBLE three years at Lancaster University, not just academically, but also personally. I graduated with a first class honours degree in History and Politics, and I left having grown as a person. During my last year, I was accepted on to one of the most competitive graduate schemes in the UK, and I'm now partway through my first year on the scheme. And you know what? The girl who taunted me about not getting a place at Oxford, when she did, also applied to this graduate scheme, and WASN'T successful. Now I'm not like her, I didn't take any delight in that. My purpose of mentioning it, is to simply stress that attending Oxford (or Cambridge), doesn't necessarily mean success afterwards. Just as Oxford decided I wasn't right for them, the organisation I now work for decided my former classmate wasn't right for their graduate scheme, despite that piece of paper with University of Oxford on it. You are clearly dedicated, hard-working, and ambitious, and if you continue to carry that with you, you will do great things. Good luck!
Harriet B I live very close to you xx Congrats by the way xx I live in Morecambe
Harriet B I’ve applied to Lancaster so it’s really good to hear you had a good experience! Xx
I'm currently studying at Lancaster and I love it much more than I thought I would! except the scaffolding - I don't love that lol
oh my god the scaffolding....and neverending spine works hahaha, doesn't help that it's Easter!
What graduate scheme is it you’re on, if I may ask? ☺️
Although I got an offer from Oxford, I didn't end up getting the grades.... I cried for about 5 days. But I'm now in my third year at Bristol and it was honestly the best thing that ever happened to me. Im eternally grateful for that twist of fate. Good Luck with whatever you choose next!
What a levels did you do? What course were you studying at Bristol?
Zetch I live in bristol!! It’s a great place and everyone is polite there. Born and raised 🥰
Massive respect to Jade for putting this video out.
I love you SO much, I'm SO proud of you and I just want to give you the BIGGEST hug right now. I won't repeat everything I've said on Instagram again because you know how amazing I think you are! See you Saturday for lots of partying and fun! xx
Love this❤Congratulations to you again😀
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Jade, you are born to do so much in this world.
I don't know if I believe everything happens for a reason, but I promise you - you are on to big things.
You are going to make a difference, you already are.
I can't wait to see where you go and what you do next
You have such maturity for someone who is only 17 :) I'm 20, but when I was 17, I was nowhere near as insightful or self-aware as you are! You have such a bright future ahead of you!! I love your videos and you inspire me!
J.K. Rowling was also rejected from Oxford!
Look at her now! It gets better
Olivia Mauracia so every person who was rejected, are going to be the next jk rowling? Yhhhhh no.
Big Myth that's not what she's saying.. the point is that just because you get rejected from Oxford doesn't mean you cannot be successful
But she went to Cambridge or something right?
@@jai770 No, Jo was in Exeter.
@@bigmyth4558 It's not like that. He/she are saying that Oxford Uni doesn't make you a horrible person if you get rejected
You weren't rejected, You just were given a new unexpected opportunity !! Well done you!! 💜
mynameisemily so Oxford uni gave her a new unexpected opportunity? Pretty sure they said no to her which also is a rejection :(
This is so disheartening wow! I mean jade literally has it all. She performed SO incredibly well on her GCSEs, did DofE, is headgirl, did so much extracurricular activities such as NCyes, and then went on to achieve even more outstanding A-level grades and literally outdid herself by being amongst get the top performing student. She put so much time, effort and compassion into the process of applying to Oxford! She is kind, hardworking and totally deserving💞 jade you are incredible and Oxford has lost such a great person, but I believe this is opening doors to even better things🧚🏾♀️I wish the best and I hope that during your gap hear you find and fall in love with the true place that was meant for you❤️❤️
Real talk. My 2nd cousin was on Child Genius for chess and got rejected by Cambridge. Life can be weird sometimes
Dylannnnnn love your vids
Student Vlogs - Dylan aye Dylan nice vids bruh
What’s the name of your cousin?
Student Vlogs - Dylan maybe they don't accept children to go to Cambridge?
Lisaa xo what do u mean by early a level?
I’ve followed you since you started your channel and I owe you SO much for getting me through GCSES (and a 9 in lit ahah). But after that I got rejected from a sixth form I REALLY wanted to go to because school was my life and was absolutely devastated. But 5 months later I am a full time UA-camr and my life couldn’t be on MORE of a different course. (Not that I recommend dropping out of school ahah). Just remember that it won’t mean anything in a few months time when you’re exactly where you want to be.
Awhh Kiera!! I appreciate this SO much, thank you 💘 and woahh full time UA-cam, get you ;) I'm sorry that you didn't get into that sixth form, but I really am such a big believer in things happening to lead you where you need to be. Lots of love xxx
Oh hey kiera, didn't see you there
no one cares you got a 9 in lit lmao
Kiera Bridget you’re amazing Kiera ugh ily
Skylar Crate lol why u bitter
My favourite thing is that you can see the genuine happiness on your face when you talk about your friends getting in. You are such a wonderful, genuine and kind person and it's definitely Oxford's loss for not accepting you!! We love you so much and you're going to go so far in life 💓 Keep staying positive and inspiring people to work towards their goals no matter the setbacks ❤❣ xxx
Jade you are one of the most beautiful, hard-working, humble, intelligent, wonderful human-beings I know of. I know being rejected is hard, but please don't let this one slip make you fall down. You have your entire, incredible life ahead of you and all of us supporting you. Sending love and happiness xxx
Jade it’s Oxford that should be truly upset, they’ve missed out on such a gem. Keep doing what you’re doing and you’ll be successful wherever you go... have you thought about reapplying after your gap year if it’s still something you want to pursue? It’s so hard to get in with a deferred entry as well, so to still get an interview was amazing! God bless xx
Jade you're a star 🌟 Sending the love ✨
Holly Gabrielle And besides many successful people ex:David Bowie etc. never went to Oxford something better is in store
omg fave😂
Two favorites 😍❤❤
Holly Gabrielle I
But Holly don't you think she should have gotton in? :)
It's their loss! Don't be down about it, I got rejected from Oxford, St Andrews and Cambridge years ago! But guess what, I never went to university in the end and I am now doing the job I've always wanted to do, sports journalist! Never went to Uni! You don't have to go to a top uni or go to uni at all to be successful in life. There is so much the world has to offer, it's your oyster. Wish you luck for the future.
Do you have a blog or somewhere you documented this journey into journalism without going to university?
M J i'm not the person who commented but i'm pretty sure you can do journalism apprenticeships now (i guess depending on where you live. they might be more popular/available in certain areas, like around london). sometimes you can work your way up through internships as well.
This comment!!! 👏👏👏
That is not necessarily good advice
Wait, how were you rejected from both Oxford and Cambridge?
i didn't get into my first choice uni, and now only being at my second choice for a few months, i cannot imagine being anywhere else. it WAS a blessing in disguise completely, and i couldn't be happier with my course and friends here! everything happens for a reason jade, you will end up where you are meant to be 💗
I've also had a very horrible yet upsetting day today (the worst).I literally was like you today, the excessive stress and tears when waiting for the decision email, and then when I found out that that I had been rejected from Cambridge University I thought that all my hard work had gone to waste because everything I worked for was for my dream to go to Cambridge university to study medicine simply because I loved medicine and the way it was taught. I also don't want to go to school, dreading my head of sixth form and everyone asking me 'did you get in?' Thank you for your comforting words of wisdom and reassurance and don't worry I'm sure you will continue to shine as an awesome biologist in another university. Again, it is their loss on a potentially incredible applicant
Please don’t be too disheartened! You’re a talented and lovely girl. I and many others would never even have the guts to apply to such a regarded place. You have so many good attributes and you’re sure to achieve many things regardless of where you can go. The best thing you can do is accept this moment which will be painful (it would be very much for anyone) and push through and persevere. Make it so that they will regret not having you! You will realise at some point that you did not need Oxford at all and you’re highly capable wherever you end up. I’m 100% sure everyone in your school is proud and impressed by your current achievements! Stay strong and believe in yourself!
Oxford probably wasn't meant to be. This is just another step to your amazing inspirational journey. You are incredible and so many more incredible things are going to come for you! You are such an inspiration to all of us!
Hey Jade, I’ve wanted to go to Cambridge since the age of 14, I worked my arse off and guess what... yesterday I found out I received a rejection. Yeah there were tears for a while but I’m taking it way better than I thought I would. I’m honestly so proud of how I conducted myself through every stage of the process and you should be too! We’re in the same boat and saying it’s not shit would be a lie but it’s not the end of the world. I’m so excited for the LSE and so honoured both the LSE and UCL gave me offers. I’m sure you’ve had offers back from other amazing unis and will smash it anywhere you go. I don’t know if you believe in God but for anyone who does and received a rejection from whatever university, you can’t battle with what God knows is best for you. And even if you don’t believe in God, everything happens for a reason. If it was meant for you, IT WOULD HAVE BEEN YOURS, NO MATTER WHAT. I completely relate when you say the pressure from other people is the hardest thing to deal with. Practically the whole worlddd wants to know how you did and it’s exhausting repeating the news but you are the most important person on this journey. As long as you give yourself time off and come to terms with it yourself, other people will not matter. Three people applied to Oxford out of your entire year! A similar number from mine! Most people don’t even have Oxbridge on their radar! Treat the process and the interviews as a valuable experience that you had the opportunity to have out of sooo many others that did not. A rejection has motivated me like nothing else. London is one of my most favourite places in the world, the only thing that pulled me towards Cambridge over the LSE was accommodation 😂 but I know I’ll make that work. Be excited for this next chapter of your life, it’s where you’re meant to be. Sending you love x
you dealt with the news so well! you’re so intelligent and pretty, and have so many bright prospects for the future! i have full faith that whatever and wherever you go / do you will be successful and put your best efforts into it! xx
I'm not much of a commenter myself but it has truly broken my heart not to see you get in. I admire your positive attitude towards the rejection so much because I know that I probs wouldn't be able to to deal with this myself 😂. Even though I don't know you personally, I believe in you and your capabilities so much and I know that you won't need Oxbridge to become successful, and like you said, some day in the future, this day will be irrelevant. I love you so much Jade so stay strong and keep doing what you're doing xx!!
Jade I love ❤you ️and I hope things work out!!!
Honestly, the most positive thing that comes out of this is that it inspires thousands of people to try and try and that before succeeding you will always fail. You succeed in every way possible and this minor setback just proves to us all you're human. You're honestly so brave for showing us every step of the way. Thank you from everyone
I went through the exact same thing last year when I was rejected. I got an email during my first lesson but didn’t tell anyone because I found it so hard and embarrassing. I totally agree with how deflating the process is and it’s so disheartening, but it’s really not the end of the world. The thing I found hardest was telling people but they were so positive and supportive. I’m now on my gap year and feeling so so positive about the future! You have amazing things ahead of you, and you deserve to be successful! Just remember your intelligence is not defined by this and you’ll still do amazingly at another university. It will seem so insignificant by this time next year. Sending love x
You have used your social media platform to spread such wonderful messages to the world and you are one of the most intelligent, kind, and humble persons I have discovered online. You have such a bright future ahead of you.
I didn’t apply to Oxford but really wanted to go to Edinburgh Uni. I didn’t get in and was super sad about it. That was 7 years ago and I’ve just finished my PhD & I’m about to get married to someone I met at my second choice institution. As cheesy as it sounds, things sometimes do work out for the better, even when it feels really awful!! Looking forward to seeing your journey, whatever it might be. 🙌🏻
i just got rejected from edinburgh and it was absolutely soul crushing, i know this was 2 years ago and i hope you've been doing well this past while but i just wanted to say how much your comment means to me! i hope in 9 years time i'll be able to look back on this as a good thing
The universe has sometimes unfortunate ways of guiding you on your journey through life. I am so so so sure though that you are going to do great things in life and you are still an inspiration to so many people (including many of my friends and me) and honestly watching this video was one of the most heartbreaking and happy thing I have watched in a long long time because I am so sad to see you upset, but I think you will find joy in so many other aspects of your life (including Uni!!) Sending love x x x
I didn’t get into Cambridge today, and it’s so refreshing to hear this. I can relate so much to everything you talked about haha. Our time will come & it’ll all work out in the end :-) xx
I am so so so proud of you Jade! Just looking through the comments it’s so positive and supportive! & omg the gap year is soooo exciting! Everything happens for a reason :) - oh & a quote I found- ‘difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations!’
Jade, this video has helped me so much. I completely understand your disappointment as I am in a similar situation to yourself. I am in my final year of university and applied for a summer job at Disney World in Florida. I made it through three stages of interview that all involved a great deal of travelling. The final outcome is that I have been waitlisted, which I found out on my 21st birthday. Obviously, Disney isn't Oxford, but I just wanted to say that I completely understand where you're coming from. You've also made me realise that it is not the end of the world, and there are many other routes/options. Thank you so much, and it is so clear that your future is going to be incredible xx
lifeashannah I am from Florida and I live about 30 minutes from Disney. You will love Disney, and Florida.
Aww Jade don't cry. It is Oxfords loss. They are missing out on an amazing, talented, hardworking, beautiful person. You inspire people, such as myself, everyday. Even though it is hard right now, don't worry about university for the moment. You have had a rough couple of days and deserve to have a bit of a break. But nevertheless, bigger and greater things are waiting for you. Keep going with your grades and your beautiful personality. . You are so amazing and never forget that!!!!
I wouldn't say she's beautiful but she does work hard I'll give you that. X
+Albino Fish beauty works both from inside & the outside you know
It's Oxford's loss. We still love and always!❤❤❤
Edit: how do u look beautiful even when ur crying? 😂
Honestly Jade, this was me two years ago. I was already in a very fragile place mentally and getting a rejection after all the work that went into it, as well as getting a taste of Oxford when staying for interviews just pushed me over the edge. I ended up doing something really silly and it's only now I look back, having got into Durham to study my dream course, I realise how easy it is to base your entire worth on one university and feeling like a 'failure' to both yourself and other people. Telling people was also my biggest dread but give it a few days and people will have moved on, too busy with their own lives and their own paths. This does NOT define you, your intelligence or your character. And quite frankly, it is Oxford's loss in this case because you would be an asset to have at any university. I truly hope whatever you decide to do makes you happy, fulfilled and ultimately lead you on the right path. Sending love xxxx
I'm so so proud of you and everything that you've achieved! I don't want to go on a ramble and repeat everything that I've said on twitter and Instagram, but you're a real gem of a person, and well Oxford's definitely missed out :(
I'm watching this peacefully, because as I can understand how disappointing it be, I believe that the universe has something greater for you in store. You are such a intelligent and beautiful person with a touching soul, that does not go unnoticed just wait and see. Meanwhile enjoy the journey, good or bad. This is shaping you and making you grow. I cannot wait to see what life has in store for you. Sending love and positive vibes your way xx
I was rejected from Oxford yesterday and have the exact same feelings about telling people! The whole application process has this uncanny way of drawing you in and I'd become pretty attached to the idea of Oxford - I found myself thinking about it almost constantly. Deciding what to do next is scary but here's to hoping I can turn scary into exciting 😄 Thank you so, so much for making this video Jade 💗 I really think you'll do wonderful things in the future
hope ur doing well
i started crying when you started crying, God always has better things planned for the most deserving of people
Hi, I only just found your channel but I just wanted to say please don't take the rejection too personally. Last year, I was also rejected from Oxford to study physics and was devastated, and come results day I had another rejection from Imperial. My best friend also got accepted, and whilst I was incredibly happy for her it was very tough. Fast forward to now I am in my second term at Exeter and couldn't be happier. Honestly, I know it's hard now but everything does happen for a reason (also, I bet biosciences was very competitive course so try not to compare yourself to others who went for different courses!)
Well, it is sad to hear, but don’t worry, sometimes we get angry over the things that we don’t get which is reasonable, but you never know what lies ahead. Who knows, maybe you could have arrived there and it could have been totally different, you may not have been as happy there, due to the environment or for whatever other reason. You didn’t get into oxford this time, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that you are less bright or suitable as a candidate- luck sometimes plays a part too. Also, success is not solely based on the institution one attends, look at some of the top influential people in the world, some of them drop out of school and go through rejection continuously before they can finally get to the place they deserve to be. Jade, keep working hard, inspiring people, success will come in its own time, and we will be here to support you.
I watched this when it was first posted and it is probably what inspired me most to apply. For me, the whole way through the application process, the fear of rejection scared me from applying but this video showed me that rejection is still ok. I did it. I got an interview which in itself was above my wildest dreams. And then today I was rejected. I have never related to a video as much as I have now. Thank you for your honesty and positivity. 💛
That white dot on her lip is gonna bug me
I think it's a lip piercing but I'm not sure
OML SAME
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Omg I didn’t see it till you told me. Gahhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Why have you forsaken me
Enderwolf MC it's toothpaste
I've sent you a private message on Twitter Jade about my experience. But, something even better will come along, just you wait and see. You are an incredibly hard worker and deserve everything you want xxx
Lottie Gibbons no one deserves anything hun
starships fly wtf
I got rejected from Brasenose last year too and felt exactly the same when I found out! It's such a long and intense application process for Oxford and so I completely relate to feeling deflated when you first found out. But honestly, you are such a talented and hard-working person that your future is going to be bright regardless of what uni you go to! This rejection in no way reflects your ability or potential, in many ways success at interview is largely down to luck. So keep inspiring all 111,000 (!!!!) subscribers, you're doing great! Xxx
Jade! Not getting into my uni of choice was probably the best thing that happened to me in hindsight. I also remember feeling so devastated and, as you say, humiliated/over telling people, but I learned through that process how little people cared ... how people’s assessments of me were seemingly unwavering, but more importantly, that I could find and develop my respect for myself, on my own, without external validation. It really sucks at the time, but your love of knowledge and life is evident and that’s so, so much more important that the way you look on paper, in an application. You’re a whole, complex human, and no application process can really do anyone justice. In other words, they rejected your application - not you. I can’t wait to see all that you do accomplish!! I really think the whole uni experience is made by what you bring to it much more than where you are. Lots and lots of love and thanks for your inspiring content!
I came across this video randomly, but literally don’t worry. I’m a second year medic at Cambridge and the idea of oxbridge is totally over romanticised by almost EVERYONE. You seem very bright, and I’m not trying to deter you from oxbridge should you choose to reapply, but the image I and most applicants fell in love with is far from the reality (it’s not all balls and formals, and supervisions/tutorials are basically hour long roastings). I hope you don’t feel as though you’re somehow not “good enough”. Differences in colleges and interviewers and students mean a student that would get in one year may not in another. Unfortunately, you were unlucky, but you are fortunate in that you can get into other amazing unis where you’ll have equally amazing experiences. I admire your optimism and hope you keep your head up! Go get those A*s!! xx
I'm a bit of a believer in fate and I feel like if you're rejected it's because you'd be a better fit somewhere else. It's such a massive disappointment at the time but I'm sure you'll go on to have a great time elsewhere. But it does seem totally unfair when you look at someone like you who seems so deserving and is clearly such a hard worker.
Caitlin Cashmore-Roche No such thing as fate she just wasn't good enough sorry x
Why would you say this like two days after she's been rejected? I'm sure she already feels bad, no need for random people who don't know her at all to say she 'wasn't good enough'. Oxbridge is a complex thing that is by no means just about intellect, it's a lot about personality too and personalities are just different, there isn't one that's better than others.
Caitlin Cashmore-Roche Ngl they have the pick of the best so they will just pick the smartest people, I don't think personality will change the decision on whether you get accepted to your course unless you are applying for medicine
Sorry but Oxbridge isn't complex; if you're good enough you get in. For example, Eve Bennett has the ability to study at Oxbridge, but Jade doesn't.
Oxbridge is complex, I go to Cambridge and did a ton of research when I was applying. It was far more complicated to apply to than any other university, there are many aspects to the application and it is part luck, part intelligence, part personality. Jade is clearly a clever girl, and I don't know her personally of course but while it could be that she wasn't smart enough, it could just have easily been that she had a bad day in the interview, or that she didn't cope with the pressure well (which is a personality thing)
It okay jade! Universe has something really good for which is perfect for YOU! Have faith! All the best! There are SO many amazing unis that are dying for you to join them! Go ahead and grab whats yours! 😊❤️
Don’t worry jade! You are such a lovely and intelligent person... you will go far whatever you do ❤️
Jade!!!
Everybody here is mentioning your grades and yes, they were perfect and yes you're brilliant academically BUT honestly you're so much more than that? I know that sounds cheesy and stuff, but I think sometimes Oxbridge et similia fail to recognize how much there is to a person than their grades and polished interviews (I mean, even the personal statement has to be 85% "look how great I am at the subject I'm currently applying to" and 15% "I also do this and this... You know?"). You are committed to your school not only study-wise but socially and *personally*, you volunteer, you have strong ethics (questioning what is on your plate isn't something a lot of people do), you haVE A UA-cam CHANNEL WITH 111K SUBSCRIBERS and you never fail to inspire them and motivate them???
Probably you hear this a lot but whenever I look at you, I see a special glow - I can truly find beauty in the person that you are, not only physically, but mentally and spiritually. It truly comes from my heart, I mean how in the world a person you don't even know would take this much time to write something like this if it weren't true? 😂
Also! Remember your gap year!!! When your first mentioned it you were so excited, and said you would pursue that path unless you got an offer from Oxford. Maybe it is meant for you to take this gap year and (even though I'm not sure how the whole thing works and if you can actually do this) maybe re-apply for Oxford next year if you feel like it?
Jade.
Best of luck.
I know it will work for you - keep your Faith.
All of the love!
Francesca Battista such a nice comment. God bless you. :)
I secured a place at this point last year, but then my Geography grade fell massively short. I know how you feel, it is truly devastating- especially since family and friends expect you to breeze through it. But please be aware that there really is a marginal difference between the top 30/50 universities. There is always the opportunity to delay your application, but I would advise that you go into a fantastic course at another top university, and perhaps seek to do a Masters or PhD at Oxford later. Chin up lass!
You're literally so brave to have been this vulnerable on camera. Keep shining x
Jade, although I never usually comment on videos, I feel compelled to give you thus message. The way you see your self is probably completely different to how your friends, family, teachers and I (even as a stranger) see you. Not only are you incredibly intelligent, you are more importantly hard working and self motivated which counts for so much in whatever career path you take to get you to the top. It’s by no coincidence that your channel has grown so much in a short space of time, other than that your personality is something that over 100,000 people admire and strive to be. You are so genuine, honest, caring and beautiful which is what we all love so much about you. Oxbridge doesn’t equal success, but all of these characteristics that you already have do. #teamunjadedjade xxxxx
Wherever you go, make sure you have THE BEST experience possible. Meet amazing people, keep working hard, learn new things and get that degree! At the end of it all, its the qualification and the person who comes out in that graduation gown that matters the most. Growth and hard work will get you far, no matter where you go to study. Enjoy wherever you attend and make the most of it. You got this❤
Also, since you're having a gap year you could try and reapply next year😙
Don't give up, there not good enough for you. Stay strong Jade x
honestly Jade don't worry about it i believe that everything happens for a reason and 2 years ago when i got rejected from my uni i wanted to go to i thought it was the end of the world but now i couldnt be happier ! xxx
I watched this video long ago when jade uploaded it. But, today as I also got rejected from my dream university, I am watching this again and yes I can feel her now.
lots of love to you jade, you are so brave.
I understand how you feel about the fact that you don't want to talk about it with people. Especially when you've always been great at something, people have those expectations that make everything so hard, they feel like such a weight. Even if you know it is not, it feels like the end of the world, because you've put so much time, energy, hard work and passion into it and didn't get what you were hoping for, and you probably feel like you've disappointed the people that believed in you.
But you haven't disappointed us. You're amazing and a great inspiration. I know that you're thinking something like "well, yeah, thanks, but I still didn't get in and that doesn't change it" right now, but trust me, I know you're going to do amazing things in the future, I'm sure of it.
Just keep going and prove them wrong.
If jade can't get in what hope do the rest of us have!! Don't let this get you down, everything happens for a reason love u jade xx
I was rejected from Oxford last year so I know the feeling! However I took a gap year and applied to Cambridge this year and just got accepted! Don't give up on your dream! Also you already have such a successful UA-cam channel so keep working at that and your future is going to be brighter than a lot of people going to Oxbridge!
i got rejected this year too :( feel so sorry for you too but we’re in this together!
Jade, this is the first video of yours that I've watched, and I literally failed my driving test because of such a stupid mistake a few days ago. At first I cried just like you did because it's so horrible when you're so hopeful of something and your dreams are just put to an end so suddenly. I hate that feeling of trying so hard, and still not being good enough. And I know that's probably what you feel too atm. But, you're a really kind and genuine human being, and I really believe there is something so much better for you out there! I can't wait to see you thrive and flourish, because whatever you'll do, you're going to be incredible at it, because you seem so passionate and hardworking. You have a beautiful smile, and just keeping being amazing! 😁
Massive inspiration and motivation. Oxford isn’t everything they don’t know what they’re missing out on. You didn’t get it and it’s okay something a world better is waiting ahead for you. A journey that is going to lead you to where you want and are meant to be. Stay strong ❤️x
Maybe you are just meant to do a gap year and have that amazing and unique experience. You can still try to get into Oxford next year. I am a strong believer of the quote "what´s meant to be will be". You appear to an genuinely kind, intelligent and hard working person. I wished for you that it worked for you the way you wanted it to. Head up! xoxo
My opinions of Oxford have changed. I have NO IDEA why they would EVER reject someone like Jade. Their loss.☹️
C. Burnadea because there are thousands of people more talented them her, get over it
um.... did you not just hear her list all the different UA-camrs who got in??? I do see that point though I guess.
i am absolutely lOving watching this video with hindsight!! Baby Jade has no idea what's in store for her!! When she said "i know in a few years that i'll be somewhere better" she was SO right! Minerva babyyy!! hahaha i love how much she's grown from this now :)
I've been rejected twice last year. I applied to do engineering at Cambridge and got rejected; missed out on my offer to Bristol in August. It was really tough, and there were tears, so I completely understand what you're going through. I'm currently on a gap year; I've reapplied to unis, top ones too, got all my offers, and now I'm working to get money saved up for uni, revising for my resits this summer and hopefully this September, I'll be going to my first choice. You'll make it through this. I'm sure whatever uni you end up at, you will do your best and think "Why was I upset with my Oxford rejection in the first place?" The universe has a funny way of sending you down a path, but I'm sure you won't have any regrets about where you'll end up. Keep your head up :)
Don't worry Jade. My best friend was rejected from Cambridge and she's an amazing student and an awesome person so don't feel bad ❤️
oh Jade, just remember that everything happens for a reason & that the universe is just giving you better opportunities ☄☄❤
katti moon or god?
katti moon Oha du bist mit einer meiner Liebsten deutschen UA-camr❤️ hätte niemals damit gerechnet das ich dich hier finden werde!❤️
I was also rejected from Brasenose today and I was devastated at first, especially (as you said) when you work so hard doing the test and interviews etc. However, this does not undermine your abilities whatsoever. Good luck with the future ☺️ x
5:29 omg this is literally what annoys me the most ''having to tell people'' and their ''reaction'' and yeah I literally cried because I love you so much but I hope you are not disheartened because I'm happy if you're happy and trust me you will do so well stay strong.
and btw the 10th is my birthday so if I decide to apply for oxford I will make sure I don't open it on the 10th because its always a 50 % chance
Really appreciate the honesty in this video, some of my closest friends have been rejected from oxbridge and I definitely sympathise with the disappointment! It's natural to be upset, so don't beat yourself up for that, but try to put things into perspective even though I know that's easier said than done. My friends who were rejected are some of the kindest, most hard working and talented people I know, and although I don't know you personally, I'm sure you are too! Being a well rounded person counts for so much more! Sending big hugs Xx
My stomach dropped as soon as saw your Instagram post, I’m so sorry Jade, i know it must be truly crushing but I truly believe that this is fate and that it is ONLY onwards and upwards from here
You’ve got this
You truly inspire me every single day and I couldn’t give a damn what uni you get in to
Sending you all the positive thoughts I can! Xxxxx
The oxbridge application process is brutal. Don't fret over the conversations - you don't need to speak to anyone about it. You haven't let anyone down, not yourself, not anyone else. No one will judge you or put you down for not getting in. Failure is a huge part of success and you will be successful, I promise. If you want something enough, you'll get it.
Oxford doesn't know what they're missing ! I'm so proud of you, you're gonna be okay
Jade you are a force to be reckoned with!! Keep going, you are such a motivation to me and all of your subscribers, thankyou for everything you do, out of everyone you did not deserve the pain. Keep going ❤️
I have experienced the same thing. Two years ago I was rejected from Biological Natural Sciences at Cambridge King's College and like you described it, when I read the email my heart dropped. It was terrible to tell others but with time it got less painful and then it stopped hurting at all. Like Luke Birch said, getting rejected was probably the best thing that happened. I am pursuing an amazing degree in Scotland, and I have plans to do another degree after this one.
Jade, be proud of yourself. You had the interviews - not everyone is invited to them. I believe that everything happens for a reason, and I'm sure you'll look back at this experience with a smile in a few years. Lots of love x
So sorry Jade sending you lots of love in this sad time but just know that the path ahead is sosososo amazing because you're a brilliant gal :) xx
Much love for you Jade, Oxford's loss, not yours
No one deserves to get in more than you. Just remember you inspire so many people everyday including me. When I’m down or feeling unproductive your channel is what I return to. Oxford doesn’t matter, you’ll get far without it, you work hard enough. ❤️❤️
You are so so smart and so deserving!! I know so many people who have been rejected and you’re not alone!! Keep working hard and you’ll get where you want to eventually! If it’s meant to be it’s meant to be. You might end up at a different university/oxford next year and find yourself meeting new people that you wouldn’t have met if you had got in this year! Keep working towards your goals and don’t let this stop you 💗💗💗
I have just received my rejection email and oh God, I am so happy to know that i am not going through this alone. Thank you for your virtual support, yous videos are so therapeutic for me, Jade. 💛
I started tearing up when you cried, I have the same worries on having to talk about not getting in with other people. Don't worry jade, I'm incredibly proud of you and you have a very bright future x ❤️
So many opportunities are heading your way becuase of your inspiring hard work throughout the years! Please don't beat yourself down for it when your future will still be funominal whether you are in oxford or not! Xxxx
Jade this isn’t the end for you. It simply just means you’re path will take a different route. You will still be extremely successful and you should be so proud getting to the interview stage. You may be disheartened after putting so much effort into the application process (I experienced the same thing but for Cambridge last year) but to be honest it may be the best thing to happen to you. You will end up at an amazing uni and it will definitely make you realise that this isn’t the end for you. Don’t feel pressured to talk to people about it until you feel okay with it. You still inspire me every day and have made me believe in myself!
There are so many brilliant universities in the UK Jade. I recently recruited for a vacancy in my organisation and 1 out of the 40 applicants has an environmental science degree from Oxford and he didnt get shortlisted. There is so much more out there than Oxford Uni. Best of luck.
its ok...it really is ok. Life isn't always gonna be happy and amazing..you will do well and succeed regardless of what barriers (like this one) there are. Some of the most successful people didn't go to oxbridge so just keep that in mind
Listen, you're clearly a smart girl. It depends on how badly you want it. If you truly want it, apply again (you will probably get in after re-applying). If you don't, then go for something else that you truly want. If you haven't figured it out yet, you will. You just need time... time = clarity.
Darth Vader I don’t think your allowed to apply again. She might be able to apply for a different subject there though like grace fit uk did
Taking a gap year can sometimes inspire existential changes, so who is to say that the road to Oxford is necessarily blocked for her? If she wants to re-apply after her gap year, she might be in sync with the right moment that could lead her straight into the gates of Oxford to study something else that is closely related to Biological Sciences (i.e. the BA in Human Sciences). Life is fluid, and the power of the mind and one's state of existence can change things for the better. I wish her well!
What's all this positive life advice? Aren't you supposed to say something like: "Yes, now release your anger and feel the power of the dark side!"
Darth Vader I agree
I'm so sorry to hear the news. I was certain you'd get in!! These things are unpredictable I guess. You're one of the brightest people and an inspiration for so many people. Not gonna lie, it's only Oxford's loss, not yours. I wish you all the luck in your future, stay strong ♡
Oxford’s loss. Don’t worry you’ll be fine. Someone with your hard work, intelligence and mindset will do brilliantly in the future. You deserve the best
I got rejected by oxford as well today and i got to say that your video made me feel much much better. Thank you so much and I’m hoping that you’re having an amazing time on your gap year!!!
I got rejected from Cambridge yesterday too, I feel you girl lmaooo. I think it's v easy to underestimate the level of competition we're up against whether it's Oxford or Cambridge. Even reaching the interview stage is commendable so make sure u keep reminding yourself of that. Some friends of mine who are some of the most intelligent and academic people I've ever met got rejected, but there's no doubt in my mind they'll be wildly successful regardless. It's a gruelling admissions process, so now it's all over we can turn attention toward other things. Gotta prove to them that they're loosing out by rejecting us !!!!!
So sorry Jade! But I know that this will only make you stronger and better! You show them what they lost! xxx
Love you xx💕💕
Everything happens for a reason 💛 You are such an intelligent, kind person who deserves the best and I hope what you choose to do next will lead you into doing great things... so sorry to hear this. 💕💕
Jade, you are such an inspirational, beautiful person and you deserve whatever is going to come to you in the future. Like you said, the outcome is going to be what is meant for you. I feel for you and am so thankful for your honesty and realness - keep being you! Your persistent positivity is what makes a lot of people's lives better everyday and I want you to remember all that you tell us also applies to you. You are strong and you are worth it. ❤︎ I love YOU. Xo
Watching this back after knowing you achieved literal perfection on results day is just incredible! You are destined for amazing things Jade and Oxford will be kicking themselves for rejecting someone as outstanding as you! I know you'll do wonderfully at Bristol! Enjoy your gap year x
I can’t believe it. Even while crying, your smile is the most beautiful thing in the world
And that makes me wanna cry. You truly are a beautiful and wonderful human being, inside and outside.