Woman realises she wasted her life

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  • It's not too late to save yourself from the bad decisions of the past. It might not be enough to fix everything but it's definitely enough to improve your state of being.
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  • @balkangains
    @balkangains  26 днів тому +2750

    Wish the best for this woman, I heard that she found a new man got engaged and is very happy. Also I hope the ex bf, finaly wakes up from this self destructive path and changes his life...
    follow me if you want 🗺: instagram.com/bill_tegos?igsh...

    • @WaywardVector
      @WaywardVector 26 днів тому +68

      Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but the guy she got engaged to died…

    • @heinzdoofenshmirtz7486
      @heinzdoofenshmirtz7486 26 днів тому +33

      @@WaywardVector WHAT THE FUCK

    • @user-dn6ge9kk3u
      @user-dn6ge9kk3u 26 днів тому +8

      @@WaywardVectorwhen????

    • @user-dn6ge9kk3u
      @user-dn6ge9kk3u 26 днів тому +8

      @@WaywardVectorand where did you find this info?

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas 26 днів тому +26

      This is one of OnlyusemeBlades viewers actually got with and drank with his Ex-gf, got too drunk, slammed his head, live on stream. The people who were with him were busy drawing on his face for donations

  • @lottalotto691
    @lottalotto691 26 днів тому +5782

    Imagine dropping the ball so bad that your girl leaves because of some random advice she got from a person online named Ass Mouth for $3.

    • @blackeroni
      @blackeroni 23 дні тому +67

      relatable

    • @vornamenachname594
      @vornamenachname594 23 дні тому

      women often do this. They read sth in a magazine and the next day they remove their womb. I don't know what makes them so easy to manipulate. Maybe because they are more willing to believe what they wnat to believe. So they are generally more spiritual, "manifest" things and listen to random people, instead of thinking for themselves.

    • @jas6853
      @jas6853 22 дні тому +189

      Doubt that was the only reason she left, she probably wasnt already happy

    • @pixel8397
      @pixel8397 22 дні тому +112

      It is funny but also it was probably more just the straw that broke the camel's back

    • @pineapplepizza4016
      @pineapplepizza4016 21 день тому +10

      That's when you know you've hit rock bottom and it's do or die.

  • @Ciclopea2
    @Ciclopea2 26 днів тому +5778

    Deep down she knew and was ready for a change even tho it didn't seem like it, that message was just confirmation.

    • @DBT1007
      @DBT1007 26 днів тому

      And this is why you guys in the west world, please dont preserve any kind of BAD CULTURE.
      STOP DRINKING ALCOHOL. I DONT CARE IF YOUR CITY FAMOUS FOR RYE BEER, CHAMPAGNE, OR WHATEVER.
      BAD TRADITION IS BAD TRADITION. LEAVE IT.
      The same with adultery and smoking. Leave it. It's not normal.
      Not including any kiss scene or even seggs scene in western movie&series is one big step.
      Edit: also, if other groups are doing better, then accept it. Dont hate them blindly. Like how Muslims actually living their good life without the fat pork, alcohol, and money interests. Why some of them still poor? Because they been colonized in the past. Halted their development.

    • @ImLaughingAtYou
      @ImLaughingAtYou 26 днів тому +16

      She's a terrible person.

    • @Jokervision744
      @Jokervision744 26 днів тому +2

      I'd plug in deep down by Paul McCartney. It has quite fit lyrics and music for this. Nothing too bad. Just the basic slap of how do people party every night.

    • @Offender_Man6666
      @Offender_Man6666 26 днів тому +3

      Peoples life!? It's none of our business

    • @Ciclopea2
      @Ciclopea2 26 днів тому +36

      @@Offender_Man6666 these people made it everybody's business streaming their drunken lives for money.

  • @shawnbrooks5293
    @shawnbrooks5293 26 днів тому +5899

    I can't believe people pay to watch losers get drunk live.

    • @FlyGuy2000
      @FlyGuy2000 26 днів тому +97

      Or just do anything for that matter, what the hell, people?!?!

    • @viiviizzz
      @viiviizzz 26 днів тому +120

      by extension, people pay millions and billions of dollar to encourage others to be and stay fat, when it was actually supposed to be accepting people as they are, but not to encourage more people to degeneracy.
      same goes to anything else. influencers. expensive watches, branded shit.

    • @johnchandler1687
      @johnchandler1687 26 днів тому +16

      Heck! If you want something done right, do it yourself. Right?😅

    • @zasterheffor
      @zasterheffor 26 днів тому +24

      It's the modern-day bread and circuses. More often than not, those drunk streamers act on odd or dumb clippable requests. The most controversial one that comes to mind is the Russian streamer that locked his girlfriend outside on his balcony while it was snowing and forgot about her - all on a dono request.

    • @seekingsalvation546
      @seekingsalvation546 26 днів тому +48

      The lost watching the lost. The audience is no better. Feeding off the misery.

  • @TogaTerror
    @TogaTerror 26 днів тому +1811

    I truely hope she took that donation to heart

    • @Miro080808
      @Miro080808 26 днів тому +5

      I watch it for free in mirror

    • @ImLaughingAtYou
      @ImLaughingAtYou 26 днів тому +95

      She's a terrible person. Her ex husband and most recent boyfriend died, while she was the last to see them both, and she conveniently got their assets. Blade here, who she's with in the video, supported her and gave her everything, and her daughter, while she neglected her daughter and provided nothing to him. She's a terrible person.

    • @lostfilmkid221b
      @lostfilmkid221b 23 дні тому +14

      ​@@ImLaughingAtYou how do you know all this i need to look it up too, whats her name

    • @eazy261
      @eazy261 22 дні тому

      @@lostfilmkid221b Her name is Bec, look up willy2guns and youll see whats up. She is awful.

    • @pearlangeline
      @pearlangeline 21 день тому +8

      ​@@ImLaughingAtYou I think that is very much your opinion and not fact. People who have their self worth destroyed get caught up in their own misery so of course they don't make the best parents. That happens to both men and women. People also have a hard time breaking the cycle of dating losers. The fact that she got involved with two losers that died isn't surprising either.

  • @piedragon
    @piedragon 26 днів тому +1862

    Only use me blade passed out drunk as usual. Dude lost everything.

    • @Palladion
      @Palladion 26 днів тому +10

      Bro this is old I believe beck moved on from what I remember

    • @lennylennington
      @lennylennington 26 днів тому +16

      Lmao wait is that actually him? I remember him from way back like BO1

    • @piedragon
      @piedragon 26 днів тому +30

      @@lennylennington yup thats him, unfortunately. He does drunk streams now.

    • @user-rk8cn4ck5y
      @user-rk8cn4ck5y 25 днів тому +7

      *BLADEE?!*

    • @lennylennington
      @lennylennington 25 днів тому +6

      @@piedragon god damn. I thought dude was making banks with UA-cam??

  • @InVinoVeratas
    @InVinoVeratas 26 днів тому +689

    One of OnlyusemeBlades viewers actually got with and drank with his Ex-gf, got too drunk, slammed his head kn a counter and died on the spot, live on stream. The people who were with him during his last moments, were busy drawing on his face for donations.

    • @stephenkioko4205
      @stephenkioko4205 26 днів тому +24

      Lol, that's a straight Darwin award 😂

    • @ButteryEvolution.
      @ButteryEvolution. 26 днів тому

      ​@stephenkioko4205 If you're trolling, that's pretty funny 😂
      If you're a dumb kid?(Most likely) then please look up what a Darwin award is 💀

    • @bertvanbeterbed9702
      @bertvanbeterbed9702 26 днів тому +138

      Do you have any source for this? (not being snarky, would like to read more on the subject)
      Update: I found a youtube video (more of a video essay of around 50minutes) by the channel Nick Nobody that goes into detail about the downward spiral of OUMB life. He also covers this incident extensively. I too once knew him as the CoD guy, but had no idea what came of his life. A very sad story of chronic self destructiveness.

    • @aleksejjovanovic986
      @aleksejjovanovic986 25 днів тому

      I saw that, what lowlives.

    • @glowiedetector
      @glowiedetector 25 днів тому +53

      @stephenkioko4205 mf says that people who are at their rock bottom and die because of the consequences deserve a darwin award. ok.

  • @DreamTerrorist
    @DreamTerrorist 26 днів тому +634

    crazy seeing onlyusemeblade and bec on here lmao, long history between these two

    • @Cookieboy70
      @Cookieboy70 26 днів тому +70

      it's weird seeing onlyusemeblade actually seem hopeful and positive at the end considering how many times he's been at rockbottom.

  • @billmacia4092
    @billmacia4092 26 днів тому +260

    Changes start inside. Good mentality bring results.

    • @thataintfalc0
      @thataintfalc0 21 день тому +1

      That's what I tell homeless people when they ask for change and they always get angry. Change comes from within, brother.

  • @TeddyIsHereIRL
    @TeddyIsHereIRL 23 дні тому +61

    You cann tell she was already close and that speech gave her the push she needed

    • @user-ju9gd9nv9d
      @user-ju9gd9nv9d 4 дні тому

      "thanks for those three dollars si*p, I know every dono thinks they're a philosophical genius but this is going straight to our booze fund!"

    • @user-ju9gd9nv9d
      @user-ju9gd9nv9d 4 дні тому

      Also the guy perishing from hitting his head on the table probably gave her no choice

  • @RickyXV
    @RickyXV 26 днів тому +151

    As someone with a drinking problem this is also motivating for me.

    • @VictorTAnderson
      @VictorTAnderson 26 днів тому +3

      You have the strength to defeat your vices. Never give up! 💪

    • @alreadybanned-pe6se
      @alreadybanned-pe6se 26 днів тому +6

      One day at a time brother
      Took me 2&1/2 years to get sober
      I didn't touch a drop for 8 years
      Now I'm able to have a beer and then get on with my life
      I haven't been drunk for 10 years
      You can do it
      I'm grateful to God Almighty for my opportunity to change
      IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST

    • @harmomic1986
      @harmomic1986 26 днів тому +1

      @@alreadybanned-pe6se Un jour proche qui m'arrivera comme toi j'en ai la certitude, tu sais très bien de quoi je parle. Et ça ne m'empêche pas d'avoir un travail et d'être sportif, Dieu et le christ son fils te bénisse...

    • @glellio88
      @glellio88 24 дні тому

      @@alreadybanned-pe6sei'd omit that 4th line when talking to other alcoholics about your story honestly. That doesn't work for most and doesn't help anyone to hear it.

    • @cooliusmaximus5802
      @cooliusmaximus5802 22 дні тому +1

      ​@@glellio88 it shows he conquered that demon.
      You can take it however you want. He can drink without letting it consume him. It takes more willpower than just saying no because you have that sweet taste of pleasure when you do say no.

  • @Random_Hooman
    @Random_Hooman 26 днів тому +134

    This is a channel i can truly respect. Nowadays, i only see that "Sigma" bullshit that basically sums up to "Women bad, men good, gay bad, straight good" but this channel is great. Its motivational, and its been helping me quite a bit in tougher times, even if im technically not the target audience.
    Its great, its for anyone who wants to improve on themselves no matter who they are, and its truly a rare gem. Keep up the great work.

    • @jigglynorris2559
      @jigglynorris2559 26 днів тому +9

      Right??

    • @Kermit_E_Frog
      @Kermit_E_Frog 26 днів тому +24

      Yeah, the alpha male shit is cringe although I've never actually seen any "gay bad" ones but it's nice to show both sides of the coin and not seek to pin men against women or women against men.

    • @theodorable1425
      @theodorable1425 26 днів тому +8

      @@Kermit_E_Frogthe “gay bad” ones usually entail things like taking clips out of context such as when Messi was kissed on the cheek by a man and saying that Ronaldo isn’t gay so he is Chad and Messi is a shill for gay propoganda or some shit I dunno. It’s real weird.

    • @cisuminocisumino3250
      @cisuminocisumino3250 26 днів тому +30

      "Women bad, men good"
      maybe you just heard what you wanted to hear. Personally I'm happy that there are channels that highlight the fact that toxic and abusive women exist, especially during a time when radical feminism is rampant and people downplay the abuse and criminality of some women. It's not the best solution IMO, but at least it helps balance out the equation.

    • @thatcringedfacedou
      @thatcringedfacedou 26 днів тому +3

      @@cisuminocisumino3250 Fax, this right here!

  • @scurvyrum
    @scurvyrum 26 днів тому +98

    In the Blade lore, people don't like Blade and Bec for different reasons. The lesson to learn from the OnlyUseMeBlade saga is that choices matter. Blade made his choices (getting drunk and gr0p1ng women) and Bec made her choices (cheating on Blade with ChickenAndy). Just do the exact opposite of what a lot of irl streamers do and you'll live a more fulfilling life.

    • @xxflameaminoxx
      @xxflameaminoxx 26 днів тому +1

      i honestly hope they both heal as people. i feel like the situation isnt as black and white as lot of people frame it, its messy and complicated.

    • @lIlIlIll-kg2cm
      @lIlIlIll-kg2cm 25 днів тому +5

      i feel bad that you know and watch these people.

    • @scurvyrum
      @scurvyrum 24 дні тому +10

      @@lIlIlIll-kg2cm Personally, I'm not caught up in the OnlyUseMeBlade saga compared to how much I know about other lolcows. But honestly, who doesn't like to watch a trainwreck? It's quite the good motivator to stay on track.

    • @scurvyrum
      @scurvyrum 23 дні тому +2

      @@Factual_Truth Same here

    • @jadrobe3492
      @jadrobe3492 20 днів тому

      Do they stream on twitch? Why does chickenAndy ring a bell,

  • @theoreomixer9107
    @theoreomixer9107 26 днів тому +38

    If you know who she is…You won’t feel nearly as bad as you think you will.
    She cheated on her drunk boyfriend in a trailer with one of his friends while the other held him down and forced him to listen.
    Even with the terrible relationship it’s still fucked up, and blade is weird for being ok with the aftermath of the ordeal.

    • @TheWilku22
      @TheWilku22 26 днів тому +7

      What. That's terrible. Holy shit

    • @jurassicthunder
      @jurassicthunder 26 днів тому +3

      wtf 😂

    • @haerincore.4572
      @haerincore.4572 День тому +1

      Ive seen like two different stories of her, which one of you is lying

  • @steadythrone3763
    @steadythrone3763 26 днів тому +127

    Balkan you have made me consistently go to the gym and better myself. Thank you 💪

    • @user-be8qz3pt9b
      @user-be8qz3pt9b 26 днів тому +8

      Better for what? Everyone just live he's life. You can go to gym, you can not go to gym, she can drink, she can not drink... It's just society's expectations...
      Hundreds of scientists and poets and painters didn't go to gym but created great things.
      And millions go to gym every week, but... They just live years of their lives.

    • @enderstergaming7710
      @enderstergaming7710 26 днів тому

      @@user-be8qz3pt9b cry

    • @whodatscammer
      @whodatscammer 26 днів тому

      @@user-be8qz3pt9b bro hes saying he is bettering himself by going to the gym calm down your saying that going to the gym isnt bettering yourself? its probabaly one of the best things you can do

    • @arshyankhan973
      @arshyankhan973 26 днів тому

      You're just having an existential crisis ​@@user-be8qz3pt9b

    • @Dinobot69420xxx
      @Dinobot69420xxx 26 днів тому

      Lol

  • @NormalChannel95
    @NormalChannel95 26 днів тому +54

    Sometimes, a little push can change anyone's life for the best or for the worst.

  • @dynacambri4990
    @dynacambri4990 26 днів тому +165

    -if it was'nt for that guy messaging me on stream, I never would of had the courage to make the change in my life for the better.
    -oh wow, what was this guys name
    -.....ass mouth....

  • @elijahbaker781
    @elijahbaker781 26 днів тому +29

    I hope for her sake she changes and gets her life together.

  • @ChromeMan04
    @ChromeMan04 26 днів тому +42

    I turned 30 this year and i remember crying on my birthday. Wasted my precious 20s to a porn addiction I didn’t get under control and now I am paying the price for it. A depressed, 30 year old virgin with a bad paying job 😢

    • @NotaThing13
      @NotaThing13 26 днів тому +8

      Hey brother. 30 is not too old to use your body to make some decent money. Lots of possibilities if you’re willing to get into shape and toil a bit. Then when you start having money, doors will open for opportunities to learn new things. You can spend money to get some education and training for a career that won’t rely on your body. I believe in you.
      As a man you can use your strength to build momentum. I say don’t sit around trying to learn from books, videos, or random studying. Build tenacity and discipline through hard physical work then take those habits and grow even further. But you don’t have to take my advice. And maybe you can’t. All the best.

    • @AIartificalIntellige
      @AIartificalIntellige 26 днів тому +1

      Could you be more specific on how it ruined you?

    • @moneymakinmitch8130
      @moneymakinmitch8130 26 днів тому +1

      In what areas of life did that addiction make you waste your 20s

    • @CatScratch18
      @CatScratch18 26 днів тому

      prn is an addicting drug that destroys meaningful relationships

    • @ChromeMan04
      @ChromeMan04 26 днів тому +5

      @@AIartificalIntellige I had on and of relapses during my 20s when I tried to quit and keep telling myself that I will quit tomorrow or the next day. This procrastination took over and consumed me until now. I truly believe if I had caught this addiction under control and quit one time, I would have been married and far happier in life.

  • @angel373bcn
    @angel373bcn 26 днів тому +64

    The irony of the captions saying fight for your future, as he shows a video of a dude lifting that has taken so many drugs he's gonna be unalived by the time he's 50 lmao

    • @tokyotyson6903
      @tokyotyson6903 26 днів тому +15

      Jay cutler already hit the age of 50 and still looks insane for his age. You also do realize , every top athletes in any sports / Olympic event takes steroids/drugs to become the best. The irony is that the video is supposed to be uplifting and you somewhat turned it into semantics fest.

    • @jurassicthunder
      @jurassicthunder 26 днів тому +1

      ​@@tokyotyson6903don't take steroids. do it naturally. you're not getting ready for war after all.

    • @alreadybanned-pe6se
      @alreadybanned-pe6se 26 днів тому +2

      Jay cutler is The Man dude
      You do better.
      And I won't judge you for using any performance enhancements.

    • @poopww5378
      @poopww5378 26 днів тому

      True, they think if you look strong it immediately means you’re healthy and successful but most of the time it’s not
      Humans shouldn’t be too fat nor too skinny AND not too buff humans should be normal weight

    • @johnnydark3260
      @johnnydark3260 24 дні тому

      @@alreadybanned-pe6se it should be judged, shamed even, people on roids aka extreme athletes are no better than obese people

  • @mr.s9783
    @mr.s9783 26 днів тому +8

    I needed this today

  • @Jump8c2
    @Jump8c2 26 днів тому +7

    i personally dont get much or find much encouragement to keep fighting the trench war of life, this channel helps a lot with that.

  • @tomw.1507
    @tomw.1507 26 днів тому +9

    I had a situation like that happen to me, though i wasnt streaming. After ten years of my relationship with a deadbeat bf who lashes out at any suggestion to change, i finally found courage to tell him I'm not happy. In that same conversation we broke up with him blaming me for ruining his life (like lol whut)
    Fast forward a few years later, I'm married to wonderful husband who supports me as much as I support him. I blocked my ex so I dont know how he is, but from my guess he hasnt changed. Life has been so much better.

  • @gouravchakraborty9801
    @gouravchakraborty9801 26 днів тому +23

    At least she realized her mistake

  • @GibranFermin
    @GibranFermin 16 днів тому +4

    God bless that woman’s soul, Lord Heavenly father let her prosper in your Word

  • @alimichalkan8046
    @alimichalkan8046 26 днів тому +50

    If your partner is dragging you down, you are better off alone. You don't have to be desperate for a life partner. Living by yourself and loving yourself is all you need.

  • @murman9088
    @murman9088 23 дні тому +2

    Hope they both got better, dude prob drinking in response to a stressor as well but the girl looks like she is ready for change but is not ready to do it just yet which is good step

  • @yayocandyboi4381
    @yayocandyboi4381 23 дні тому

    Another great video. Thanks for making these. Keep making them 🫡

  • @jackdurden2483
    @jackdurden2483 25 днів тому +3

    Yep. Sometimes we have to realize that certain things or people aren’t meant for us. But when finally do, we can be happy, at peace and free from any negative emotions:)

  • @a_randomuser4
    @a_randomuser4 26 днів тому +1

    I feel bad for people like her. Not fully since they let themselves get like that, but it’s also important to understand some just give up or feel they deserve that life.

  • @Linityh
    @Linityh 21 день тому

    Thank you i feel so motivated

  • @firelordzuko7925
    @firelordzuko7925 26 днів тому +2

    I was in a similar situation like her in the past. From my own experienced I can tell that its not too late change your life.

    • @2RG_
      @2RG_ 26 днів тому

      If you knew the whole story with her, I promise you would not want to compare your life to hers. She’s bad news 😬

  • @deltavagen9796
    @deltavagen9796 26 днів тому +4

    self destruction mode in full effect.

  • @richemontsaffre6812
    @richemontsaffre6812 26 днів тому +4

    Never give up, trust your instincts.
    James Mc Cloud

  • @5ex.
    @5ex. 26 днів тому +13

    Wasn't Bec a drug addicted thief that let blade into her life even though she had a teenage son (knowing what blade was like) and had already broken up with him a few times?

    • @mssophiad03
      @mssophiad03 26 днів тому

      Who is this woman?

    • @5ex.
      @5ex. 26 днів тому +5

      ​@@mssophiad03The clip is from like a year ago, she's pretty much just a nobody (in regards to being someone online) she just dated the guy and was on camera often

    • @mssophiad03
      @mssophiad03 26 днів тому

      @@5ex. I went down a brief rabbit hole about this. Evidently the dude is a streamer called OnlyUseMeBlade who is obviously an alcoholic who also gropes women in public. I couldn’t find anything about Bec? Her son?

    • @mssophiad03
      @mssophiad03 26 днів тому +6

      @@5ex. I did some cursory research (a few YT searches lol I know very extensive) and evidently the dude is a streamer who goes by OnlyUseMeBlade who is obviously an alcoholic who also grøpes women in public. What a class act. I don’t know anything about Bec though only that she cheated on him. Son? Thief?

    • @5ex.
      @5ex. 26 днів тому +1

      @@mssophiad03 Son = Bec has a son, she didn't want him filmed at all... but of course Blade has gotten him on camera before. Thief = Blades mother is convinced that Bec had stolen some of her medicine from a cabinet.

  • @Lee_21
    @Lee_21 26 днів тому +4

    I respect the person that sent that donation message, i hope she took it by heart

  • @micqrec
    @micqrec 15 днів тому +1

    I still remember when I found out about this whole case about the streamer who got drunk every stream, he lost everything, the last I knew the man was getting better. And the girl is now happily engaged… good for them. 😔

  • @NotYomama13
    @NotYomama13 23 дні тому +11

    such wisdom from a 3$ donation from.... AssMouth.

    • @ShortContent853
      @ShortContent853 23 дні тому +1

      You know it's a simp wanting to get a chance....nothing else

    • @kawoshin_is_canon
      @kawoshin_is_canon День тому

      @@ShortContent853 umm no? not every guy who gives good advice is a simp.

    • @ShortContent853
      @ShortContent853 День тому

      @@kawoshin_is_canon yes it is

  • @Bitepills
    @Bitepills 17 днів тому +1

    The good thing is that it isn’t the end she hasn’t wasted her life everyone gets better at some point glad she realized before it was too late get away from that weirdo

  • @chainsawchanselour5452
    @chainsawchanselour5452 16 днів тому +1

    All it takes to help, is to speak up

  • @prenimystic
    @prenimystic 18 днів тому +1

    Good for her... ❤❤❤

  • @ayeshamess
    @ayeshamess 22 дні тому +1

    tbh thinking about all the regrets and missed opportunities youve had in ur life and thinking that it was completely wasted is just depressing.

  • @LoganO.
    @LoganO. 26 днів тому +2

    Using Blade for life insight is wild

  • @dandelionspulp3725
    @dandelionspulp3725 22 дні тому

    Most of time its not easy to get out from that kind of relationship. Its easier to say than done.

  • @satisfactiongamer7385
    @satisfactiongamer7385 5 днів тому +1

    People must learn to accept guidance.

  • @tdb517
    @tdb517 День тому

    "she needs to focus on being happy"
    WOW THANKS FOR THE HELP GENIUS

  • @Emperorofthebleedingroses2405
    @Emperorofthebleedingroses2405 12 днів тому

    Praying she gets her life together......Only you can change it.

  • @Die446
    @Die446 23 дні тому +1

    he says it never late to change but the title says otherwise

  • @name.2268
    @name.2268 10 днів тому

    Whoever that woman is she has my well wishes❤🙏

  • @ChristopherLaw-qv4ou
    @ChristopherLaw-qv4ou 26 днів тому +56

    At least as a woman nobody will shame her or hold her accountable for how she acts. She will still have people to feel bad for her and want her. As a man I will be immediately condemned and degraded as a loser and a failure.

    • @kingvejita8827
      @kingvejita8827 26 днів тому +23

      case an point this video, i havent seen a single fwk1ng comment saying something nice about the dude , other than op

    • @TheWilku22
      @TheWilku22 26 днів тому +17

      ​@@kingvejita8827and you wont see because people dont care. Its easier to talk shit then to say something nice, especially about men because nowadays men's value is at all time low.
      She could have divorce him and leave him or just move out and forget about that dude. But nah, shes just sitting there, doing nothing like that guy, and yet shes the one getting all the help and advices

    • @Alix-dy8ou
      @Alix-dy8ou 26 днів тому +15

      ​@@kingvejita8827yes exactly, and everyones saying hes a loser but then they say to help the girl

    • @ireki4017
      @ireki4017 26 днів тому

      all comments here are literally blaming her for her consequences, stop living in your world of make belief were women are praised and men are shit on

    • @fmjjjjn7510
      @fmjjjjn7510 26 днів тому

      Not really

  • @georgewhaley8951
    @georgewhaley8951 21 день тому

    Mistakes do happen, bit that does not make it freindly fire.

  • @spectre4974
    @spectre4974 26 днів тому

    cool to see everyone watching youtube see themselves higher than others and deciding whether they wasting time or not
    guess whatever make you sleep at night right?

  • @smellslikeproductions1024
    @smellslikeproductions1024 26 днів тому +8

    Current ex is an alcoholic and I'm exhausted of rescuing her.

    • @alexandrogalicia8711
      @alexandrogalicia8711 25 днів тому

      Gotta let her go man

    • @Cadian92nd
      @Cadian92nd 23 дні тому

      It ain't worth it bro I been down that road it's long and dark

    • @anchorthesun3438
      @anchorthesun3438 23 дні тому

      Pray for her man , God can do anything

    • @Ri57490
      @Ri57490 22 дні тому

      She needs professional help

  • @cloakerzero.mp3802
    @cloakerzero.mp3802 26 днів тому +4

    The people whopay you to do stupid shit is the far worse human beings out there. Dont let money or clout steer you to the wrong direction. Live the life you want to live not how others make you to.

    • @kingvejita8827
      @kingvejita8827 26 днів тому +1

      yeah cuz the people u are talking about really give a shit about what ur saying and they have the IQ to comprehend it

  • @skyler114
    @skyler114 26 днів тому +7

    no one saying the guy should improve his life too?

    • @tsm_naps1354
      @tsm_naps1354 24 дні тому

      Fr

    • @Ri57490
      @Ri57490 22 дні тому

      The guy isn't the streamer. Also, alcoholics need professional help. A few online comments won't cut it.

  • @AlexPatterson-co4gh
    @AlexPatterson-co4gh 26 днів тому

    Can't change your world until your change your mind.

  • @iampower5547
    @iampower5547 26 днів тому +1

    Thats a wake up call for her. Not many people got that wake up call. Also fix urself first than u can fix others......

  • @amateur-madman3047
    @amateur-madman3047 19 днів тому

    Instant tears.

  • @LonesomeKrow
    @LonesomeKrow 24 дні тому +2

    I hope she gets better, I don’t know the context but I wish her well

    • @soulofexistence
      @soulofexistence 21 день тому +1

      She's Becky, the ex-wife of the infamous streamer OnlyUsemeBlade, they broke up a while ago

  • @notsosolimshady21
    @notsosolimshady21 22 дні тому

    I’ve always thought Blade could pull out of his spiral. And he maybe still could. Problem is he won’t.

  • @Seeyeay
    @Seeyeay 26 днів тому

    Potential, the ultimate drug

  • @lembergsohn
    @lembergsohn 26 днів тому +23

    Didn't she know he was a drunk? And yet of all other men she chose to be with him, because "he is not a boring nice guy". She has no one to blame but herself.

    • @kingvejita8827
      @kingvejita8827 26 днів тому +7

      well at least theres 1 that has any kind of sympathy ( not simpathy) and treats her as an equal and not some lost pupy

    • @CatScratch18
      @CatScratch18 26 днів тому +3

      apparently her ex-husband and last boyfriend died so maybe don't assume every woman goes for a "bad boy"

    • @tassiodrigues
      @tassiodrigues 26 днів тому +8

      When someone chooses a bad path to suffer, they simply don't love themselves. And just pointing that it's their fault won't help them in any way.

    • @kingvejita8827
      @kingvejita8827 26 днів тому

      @@CatScratch18 what ? this shit u just said makes sense in ur head ?

    • @kingvejita8827
      @kingvejita8827 26 днів тому

      @@tassiodrigues cool story bro

  • @ivseptimusiv1663
    @ivseptimusiv1663 3 дні тому

    the reason this is sad is because you can see in her reaction to the comment that she cares, and hates seeing him passed out on the bed drunk. I know this from experience while battling an alcohol problem myself mostly attributed to the stress of active duty in the corps while having a wife and son. I'm sure she left him but you can see she truly cared and knew for a long time that he was dug way too deep.

  • @SebaDiGiuseppe
    @SebaDiGiuseppe 26 днів тому

    We all deserve a second chance and we all have time for it.
    GUYS, we are all going to make it, and she is too! Love you all

  • @bsgfan1
    @bsgfan1 24 дні тому +5

    Nah, I have no sympathy for Beck or Blade. They’ve both had so many chances and threw away every single one of them. I want to say I hope they get their lives together, but if you’ve seen their story, you know it’s not going to happen.

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 21 день тому

      Wouldn't surprise me if they both live in a house and just play up a story for their streaming life trying to go viral. I also play a character on TikTok trying to gain as much of a following as I can. What the fuck is the point of putting myself online for the world to see if i'm not going to do that?

  • @LupusAdNoctem
    @LupusAdNoctem 26 днів тому +2

    Bro that's OnlyUseMeBlade. What a wild plot twist.

  • @hosoiarchives4858
    @hosoiarchives4858 26 днів тому +9

    Almost everyone wastes their life

    • @kingvejita8827
      @kingvejita8827 26 днів тому

      it really depends on what 1 believes to be wasteful
      in the end we all die a mortal death (generic , i know)

    • @hosoiarchives4858
      @hosoiarchives4858 26 днів тому +1

      @@kingvejita8827 in geologic time we will all be dead soon and nothing we did will have meant anything

    • @kingvejita8827
      @kingvejita8827 26 днів тому

      @@hosoiarchives4858 damn thats even more generic than my comment
      i really tried not to add the 2nd verse in my comment '' nothing we did will have meant anything''

    • @ghoulzi2127
      @ghoulzi2127 25 днів тому

      Nah, I'd win​@hosoiarchives4858

    • @Ri57490
      @Ri57490 22 дні тому

      Most people don't live meaningful lives. People waste hours watching sports on tv/online, repetitive tv shows and movies, playing video games, spending time with stupid people, damaged their bodies and minds with alcohol, sleeping around, watching p*rn etc

  • @lit-e-rachy5502
    @lit-e-rachy5502 26 днів тому +4

    that was her choice to be with a man like that she can leave anytime You Reap What You Sow and i dont feel bad for her

  • @oscarleyva6485
    @oscarleyva6485 23 дні тому

    i need more hope

  • @Weeperofdeath8567
    @Weeperofdeath8567 22 дні тому

    Out of all people to get stuck on why only use me blade

  • @TheFelixdahouse
    @TheFelixdahouse 26 днів тому +1

    Deserve? No one deserves anything, everything is earned with hard work and discipline, from money to love.
    Whoever is in the mirror is the representation of that hard work... or lack thereof.

  • @peterrusso7336
    @peterrusso7336 13 днів тому

    Smokey Niagara was a nice touch to this

  • @JohnWick-nf7pj
    @JohnWick-nf7pj 26 днів тому +3

    when hes 6'1

    • @kingvejita8827
      @kingvejita8827 26 днів тому +1

      and has no job
      -women ''i think i just came''

  • @Offender_Man6666
    @Offender_Man6666 26 днів тому +1

    It's none of our business peoples life

  • @Unknown0human
    @Unknown0human 22 дні тому +1

    I kinda dont understand why type people go on their issue doing bad behavior smoking and drinking, and up with bad person
    She need fix herself, fix her own life. I seen alot typos in rl like dam fix your life nobody going save yours!

  • @soulofexistence
    @soulofexistence 21 день тому

    Necky and OMB in a Balkian Gains video ayooooo, IP2 ALWAYS WINS

  • @lockenessmotorsports818
    @lockenessmotorsports818 25 днів тому

    0:28 smoky nagata!

  • @hardxmeister
    @hardxmeister 19 годин тому

    He Will be the GREAT drunk ever

  • @Raw.milk1
    @Raw.milk1 26 днів тому +4

    Lol I told a girl this once that was in a similar situation and she started crying her eyes out 😂 I felt so bad but then I remembered she cheated on her husband multiple times and once with me. What is it with women that just can’t get up focus on themselves. I wouldn’t tolerate being around a junkie.

  • @rdj900
    @rdj900 26 днів тому

    shes not crying bc its the truth she’s crying bc its so hard

  • @01993jbdbejifn
    @01993jbdbejifn 12 днів тому

    I truly hope she is still with her lovely bf🙏

  • @aishi_rei
    @aishi_rei День тому

    *I don’t drink and smoke. Morality is always inside of me rather than real life possessions. Naruto changed me and realized that there’s no shortcut to be what I am. It doesn’t matter if I don’t have talents or everything. I’ll stay to remain morally sane for the rest of my life. I don’t care if people sees my actions as immature or childish.*

  • @buudorobuudronovich1507
    @buudorobuudronovich1507 26 днів тому

    @0:28 not sure what's going on here. it's never too late to save yourself. okay, yes, but how is that related to the people in the car?

  • @user-sj5pt4tm4r
    @user-sj5pt4tm4r 17 днів тому

    We all need to change our ways this is majority of the people. We are a hamster in a wheel inside a gold cage.

  • @ThatHoodieDude
    @ThatHoodieDude 26 днів тому

    Legend

  • @zomkino
    @zomkino 26 днів тому +6

    respect for the bf, at least he brings the views lol

  • @Al_Cidni
    @Al_Cidni 23 дні тому +1

    Then they wake up the next day and do it all over again. I used to be like this when I was drinking. Been sober for just a few months since I turned to Islam. I feel much much better. I feel like a different person I don't even recognize myself sometimes. It's so amazing not waking up with still a buzz.

  • @thebestplayerdead956
    @thebestplayerdead956 26 днів тому

    YES SIR! MR. BALKAN, SIR!! 😭

  • @alexanderjefferies7740
    @alexanderjefferies7740 26 днів тому +1

    Unfortunately the viewers and donors are a classic example of enablers

  • @user-po3ey4zl2o
    @user-po3ey4zl2o 21 день тому +1

    You only waste your life if you die from it. I wasted 23 years to alcohol, been sober 14 years and doing spectacular things.

  • @Saltpeanutss
    @Saltpeanutss 20 днів тому

    She didn’t waste her life. She chose her life.

  • @frederikstach9046
    @frederikstach9046 25 днів тому

    Can someone tell me the original song? I know it's in the description but it's not 1:1 the same on UA-cam that I found.

  • @Dreamer-4300
    @Dreamer-4300 26 днів тому +5

    May god protect her soul and show her the light in the darkness she is wondering in †

  • @ragevl7201
    @ragevl7201 26 днів тому +1

    I don't think it ever change anything about her. Woman normally deep down regret, but on the surface she addicted to the way she lived. Happen to few woman i met, when they drunk they are crying about how many good man she've rejected, how much her life would different if she did this and that but the next day she still hooks up with some dude for money and never get proper job. When man drown in suffering either they die or they change. Woman try to distract and cover it. But everyone is different. Happiness is just a feeling. Hopefully people find their inner peace.

  • @yanwain9454
    @yanwain9454 25 днів тому

    The fact that she transformed into jay cutler is really inspirational.

  • @DennisMartinezCalifornia
    @DennisMartinezCalifornia 5 днів тому +1

    Simping for alcoholic leftovers. A new low

  • @user-fv7jd4xj5n
    @user-fv7jd4xj5n День тому

    She could have helped him. She was not the only one suffering. Alcoholism is serious and she loved him.

  • @coolorphans
    @coolorphans 18 днів тому

    People are non-playable characters. You can only accelerate what they're going to do anyways.

  • @danhibiki3359
    @danhibiki3359 26 днів тому

    Heroes can come in many forms. In this case came from a guy named "assmouth"

  • @user-wb4mz6iy4b
    @user-wb4mz6iy4b 12 днів тому

    She cant do better is what she realized.