You're right. I have tried it and all of them were insecure, socially awkward, and immature. I believe that the majority are troubled individuals who can't talk to women in normal circumstances.
Tony is not lying!! Ive been on those dating sites. I did meet one guy who was really sweet and nice. He brought me a few things as well. But one day I never heard from him again. It was a long distance situation. The rest of the men were crazy and weird as all hell. Ladies stay off those sites! You better than that. Trust me
Tony is right, I met my ex-husband on POF, again, ex-husband... it took years for me for my eyes to open and walk away from that mess!!! And it isn't just him, I've dated men online and have noticed there is definitely a trend in them being crazy. Its not worth your time ladies!!!
@@LA-wv7gf Yes, that happens, a lot, both ways. I met someone who was an "engineer" trying to move into my place... what kind of craziness is that? They are also the ones that tend to try and pressure people into relationships... no sir, no ma'am! When we are out enjoying life and doing the things we love and meet someone, we can at least know we have something in common.
Thank you for doing this video. It’s a lot of low-vibrational people on these “sites.” Even though I’m a “millennial,” I prefer the old skool organic way of meeting people. It’s more genuine. People tend to meet one another when they least expect it, not when they are looking for it. I’m learning this more & more. 🙏🏾💕
Your 100% right I was married to my ex husband on a dating site for 7 years, only to find out he never got off the dating site. He had endless supply. He had a secret live, class A narc. Waste of time.
Not everyone does online dating. Many people are still very adverse to the concept and meet people in their schools, workplaces, etc a lot more commonly than the latter.
This is true, but meeting someone in person, I can tell right off bat a lot quicker that they’re going to be a waste of time. I’m less invested. It’s easier to sell someone a dream that you meet online. It sounds weird, but there is a difference IMO. I also think online dating gives people access to us who never should have stood a chance. I know they say the wider the net, the better, but not always.
Tony, what you are saying is so true. I know a man who works at a gym and has indicated that he's on a dating app. Now that you've brought this out a little more and I think about it, why is he on a dating app? He is in the perfect place to meet a lot of single women with at least one of the B's you described. Seems his intentions may not be in the right place. Ladies, beware... 🤔🤔
They approach women in dating sites and in other places. It's a strategy to reach as many people as possible. Like a job advertisement, a company can put it online, on a local newspaper, can distribute some flyers, you can hear about it from a friend. SAME.
Thank you Mr Gaskin for always showing love and encouragement by the truth you speak.. I'm a single man working on my 3. (Bs ) plus my personal 4th. ( B ) Believing.. because With God all things are possible.. I know you messages are serious.. but at times you can be so hilarious and your expression 😂. Thanks for the joy of laughter. A quick message to the single women.. keep hope alive we are out looking for you..
You are not lost my dear ... just lessons to be learned .... I was fortunate that as a young woman I listened to mom and my grandmom......I figured no need to go through what they went through...but everyone is different ... Tony sharing from a man's perspective is very important .... We have to hear it ..even when it is hard to hear ..and adjust accordingly.... stay the course and safe travels..💞
Tony I agree, why would a man who has himself together have to go to an online dating site? I feel most of the guys on those sites are looking for easy sex, have some type of short man complex or an emotional problem. It's just so draining that the dating era is a mess. Sigh...
Most are looking for casual sexual encounters or a woman desperate enough to fund them. I stopped going on those sites years ago. They all come across the same way and want the same things which is sex.
Those sights are the devil. I been on about four at one time, and I never got good results. Met some scammers too! Tony is right. You can meet guys better in person.
My opinion when a man is seeking women on social media most likely they're straight narcs or just have low self-esteem. There are to many beautiful women out here on sight it's men out here spending unnecessary money on chicks he don't even know just for attention
You have to keep in mind. Take your time, be content with your own life, have a take em or leave em attitude. A dinner and drinks just Isn’t enough to entice me. And some of them don’t want to do that. It’s COVID season. So chatting and moving slow Is an ok avenue online or off. Single people understand. All I know, I’ve gotten sharper than Samurai sword. No Jokers will get a chat let alone bite. Wiser with time. Thank you Jesus.
online OR OFF -- exactly. same rules apply. initial meeting takes place (online OR OFF) then talk on phone 1 hour daily until the 1st date in person, where you can meet up on a park bench & talk for a few hours and get to learn each other. either you'll both enjoy it & want to do it again & continue talking an hour a day in between dates, or not. the ONLY difference SHOULD be the initial WAY you met (online or in person). Otherwise, the rules shouldn't change one bit. the only purpose online dating sites Should serve is bringing that "match" to the person's attention. he should still approach you first. you need just as much discernment & live conversation in real time after meeting online as you do after meeting in person. With that, you can weed 'em out just as quickly if they're not the one. he can be just as slap-crazy & ready to hide your body in a box if he met you in person in the mall as he can if he met you online. be careful EITHER way. Discernment is just as CRUCIAL in-person as it is online. sadly, nowadays, most folks' sense of discernment, social skills & ability to carry on a decent, mature conversation is pretty horrific & the dating sites get blamed for it. ~ b.
Hey Tony i am single and my girlfriend keeps telling me to get online to meet a man but I refuse I am scared to death to meet a man online. I will take my chance to meet a man out on the street before I meet him online I do not trust that so I totally agree with you thank you for being so truthful and helping us women out have a great weekend😊
It makes sense, but in some countries of Europe you would be single forever if you waited for a man to approach you on streets. Men in Germany will avoid even looking at you. All thanks to feminists that were accusing men of harassment if they dare to approach.
Dating app gives you the chance of having a pre-evaluation of the guy, 90% of them will show their crazy or true intentions in at least 2 days, many in the first line, you just don't entertain and unmatch. If a guy can hold a normal conversation and seems interesting and tries to move on for a meeting IRL in a public,safe place, that's all right, if he invites you to his place or any location of his special preference (usually next to him) then you don't go. Easy. Better meet a man in a safe and public environment where you can leave at any moment (choose an area you know well and have available transportation) than just entertain a potential creep. A woman met this guy on the train back home, they talked back and forth and he invited her for a dinner at some nearby restaurant, after building rapport he invited her to his place for drinks, but then he threatened her with a knife, beat her up and raped her. I guess she wouldn't think a guy commuting by train was a predator, well he was.
When you put too much emphasis on WHERE AND HOW you met your man/woman, it beats the whole purpose of meeting the right person. It’s about being upfront, with your intentions, set the ground rules, know and state your boundaries, know and state your non-negotiable. It is about HONESTY, TRANSPARENCY and JUST BEING A DECENT HUMAN BEING♥️
Wow, this opened my eyes! I tried online dating and it was EXACTLY as Tony Gaskins said it. All I can said is wow because he described my experience. I got played on there thought I was being classy and he was talking to other women behind my back. I don’t go out much so I thought it would be easier to meet online. It’s a lot of nonsense on there! I will do it the regular way and didn’t think about what kind of men that’s really on there. Not getting on there again! Thank you Tony for your wisdom! God uses you!!! We APPRECIATE you! Your helping many people! God bless!
He has a coaching web site affiliated with his name and it's an ndividuals responsibility to vet. Person can always change to another coach if they dont like them. It would be same with a meet and greet site It would be interesting to see how a dating website with the Tony Gaskins influence would be differant. It would be so unique in its approach and include his proven dating tips and relationship information If The Fathers will, it will happen, and Ill be first in line to sign up.
😂"Bust it down Becky" & "Loose Booty Lu" (When I think I heard it all😂) I'm learning real life lessons from this channel but also getting a real good laugh at the same time.😂 Keep up the good work Mr. Tony.
Tony I feel like we get to see more and more of who you are with each video and it gets funnier, more real, and hits home/confirms like never before. You told the 1000% truth when you say men don’t have the right intentions online because even OFFline men don’t have the right intentions; whether you meet them at a restaurant, church etc so it has to be triple quadruple so online. That comment sealed the video perfectly!! Thank you !
This is soo true I was on BPM & met a 54 yr old still living at home with his parents ( he lied & said it was his house). He was also a habitual liar & complained about paying child support. Anyhow he ghosted me & Good Riddance.
It was "That's Ted Bundy's nephew" for me 😭 Tony said "when I set up my momma's dating profile and automatically men chimed in😂😂. Keep us informed Tony Gaskins😃
Truth. I met my ex husband on Christian mingle. Grown boy, narcissistic traits, thank God I only wasted 5 years of my life. Thank you! I shared this video with a couple girlfriends including a matchstick user & plenty of sharks user. So on point!
I've had terrible experiences online with so called "CHRISTIAN" men! My girlfriend has had two horrible marriages with men she met online. One man turned out to be an addict and the other was a scammer smh. I know waiting seems like it just never ends but we really truly have to put our desire for marriage in God's hands...if we trust Him with everything else in life, why don't we trust Him with matchmaking? I'm preaching to the choir 🤣
My favorite thing you reminded us of is if we are single doing all that we can working on the three Bs , we may need to tap in to our purpose and look for God to show us what are we supposed to be doing during this time. Like you said every one has a time that love and relationship will come. Ever since I heard this I’m looking at others in relationships different now instead of wondering why not me . The why not me mentality has been distracting me for some time now. Thanks for the insight and encouragement!
Wow. This was so good. Loved Tony's question: "Do you want someone that's introverted or that lazy that he won't make an effort to meet women in person?"
On point Tony, Thanks for this video. this online dating sounds so crazy to my old fashioned mind. Almost every friend of mine is on there. They get hooked, laid then dumped like crazy and still don't learn that it doesn't have to be that way. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" the bible says. How can a man treasure you if he's effortlessly picked off dating site.
I definitely need to delete my dating apps. I always wanted to find someone in person anyway. The dating apps just seem like they want hook ups anyway.
Tony, remember we are in a pandemic! I never dated before and I really want to now , but Covid is preventing me from going out. Also I’m in Chicago we keep getting shut down , spaces are limited, etc. a man for me probably not outside during a time like this because he needs to protect himself and his family. Same as I. I finally tried Facebook dating and kind of like it. They only show people who you have mutual friends with, so they are not a total complete stranger and you get get insight of them from a friend.
Yes!!!! Tony Yess!!! This is so wise!!!! I just moved to a new city and made the mistake of looking to meet someone on dating sites and I met some real jerks! I am now sticking to meeting someone at church!!
Tony is so on point...Never did online dating, but wanted to but my momma and grandmama talked me out of it. They saying the same thing as Tony saying. Listen to him ladies!!!!!!
Tony, LOL Do you know you can MOONLIGHT 🌙 as a comedian!!🤣🤣🤣 But seriously, thank you for confirming what I already knew in my Spirit about online dating/men!👍🏾👏🏾🙌🏾💕
Tony we’re in a pandemic. You can’t even smile at somebody you pass in the grocery store because of the masks and people are trying to distance from each other. It’s a terrible time if you’re trying to meet somebody. There are more reputable dating sites than others. But some people are going on there because they’re having problems meeting someone especially if you recently moved to a new area. And if you’re in a more liberal state things are very shut down still so you’re pretty much out of luck unless you go on a dating site.
I've met a few guys with my mask on in a Walmart, waiting outside a restaurant for take out, etc. It's definitely more difficult now and I wasn't interested in the guys, but it made me feel good to know it's not impossible.
THIS IS SO TRUE!! EVERYTHING ABOUT WHAT YOU SAID Tony Gaskins. Been there and the lies the manipulation...don't waist your time and energy. Get you together. Those three B's body, brains, business. Work on You!!! I had to learn the hard way. Lesson learned. Much love TGASKINS for telling like it is. Hard truth but it has to be told. 💛🤗😉🌞
True!:) ...I’m going through a divorce not looking to date at the moment but I enjoy so much watching these videos! In a way it helps to prepare me for next chapter of my life... Tony can you talk about divorce...what man feel during the process? Are they as emotional about it as women? Or about dating life after divorce..when is the right time to start dating? ...how to add child to the mix?
@@LA-wv7gf yea that’s the best thing to do:) divorce isn’t easy and it’s usually complex not only the whole process but lots of emotions that come with it; I have friends that are separated and date (online lol) looking for that long term relationship but they haven’t done the work to heal from their marriages so it doesn’t really work...plus it’s online dating But as someone going through a divorce right now, counseling or some other form of “self healing “ is needed prior to jumping into a new relationship.
Needed to hear this message. Had not so good experience. Immediately bought the you Real Love University. Educating myself and learning so much. First time I ever took time to learn about myself and heal and Im 53 years oldl. Thank you Mr Gaskins
Tony, This message was everything!! Although, I know you were speaking from the heart, I cried laughing the entire time!! Thank you for enlightening us!
All the men I've met offline at the grocery store, car wash, post office, beach, etc were also married and/or juggling other women. So what gives? 🤷♀️🤷♀️
I agree. I wish I could say that I have seen a significant difference in success rates compared to online or offline, but I have not. To me it's all about risk management.
Tony, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!! When I got the notification for this message, I was like a child at Christmas!!! You always bless me!! 65 years young, divorced and dating, and you are teaching me so much!!! Things my daddy and brothers never told me. I appreciate you so much. Blessings to you, beautiful wife and children. I tried to find your cashapp but couldn’t. What is it please? Blessings!!
Tony ain't lying on this topic! I WILL NEVER DO ONLINE DATING AGAIN! POINT BLANK PERIODDDD. Tony said I gotta wait to year 11 to chop her up and drink a bottle of wine! 😂 Oh wow
He has a video on that topic, talks about how you can still meet people in person which is true while at the gas station, store etc. He said make sure you forehead looks good while in that mask lol
Tony is telling the truth. All we have to think about is if we were men and all those single women out there we would not be on a dating site, unless we are whorish and want a buffet of women, if we have low self esteem and aint got no game or we got personal, physical and psychological problems and we are vicious liars. I always felt that those dating apps were no good and I never wanted to go on one until one day in college our teacher wanted us to do a social experiment and go on one and I went on the black people meet and lo and behold there was a man who was on there talking about he had his own business, and it was a straight lie because I used to take him home to the shelter because he was homeless with a suit on, that's when I knew it was no good. Later I saw him on the street at the bus stop trying to get some money to get on the bus. He had a lot of psychological issues and he was looks challenged but nice as he was crazy.
Thanks Tony! Question.. Not online, I’m referring to in person interaction... do men view women negatively who are very friendly and easy to talk to? Do men think these women are naive, thirsty, Gullible, too eager to connect? Also, my online dating days are over! Too much time wasted! its a full time job meeting people online! ! I have met and dated nice men (i met my ex husband at work) at the store, gym, parties, waking my dog. ... but those relationships were not successful long-term either. Single season has been amazing for me!
Met a guy in person and he lived in a different country. His social media showed me what I needed to know. People use their Facebook and Instagram as a dating site. I got tired of the constant calls and chatting and blocked him. I can't fall into the trap of talking to someone and listening to future fake promises.😑
Not bust it down Becky & loose booty lucy. IM screaming. hahaha you make some awesome points and love your sense of humor! :) - but on a serious note I'm over dating apps. A lot of low frequency, perverted, immature, narcissistic, broke, and short men on there. lol Waiting on God is the best option. Being healed and secure in who you are as a woman is so important. I must admit loneliness pushed me to those apps but after going through healing, therapy & fully giving things to God I'm good and gonna wait on my King to meet me in person. lol
😂😂😂 real talk! Dating apps is trash. As a man who is looking for a wife, I believe in keeping things traditional and meeting someone in person. I gotta feel that energy/presence.
@Nelson Gil..I totally agree with you. I don't belong to any dating sites but when you live in a small town like myself, the pickings are slim to none.
Indeed.not everyone knows how to converse.... so it is good that you picked that up right away ...because at the end of the day how will we ever get to learn about the person if not through conversation ...be vigilant and pay attention .. be safe 💞
These days all faucets or avenues taken to meet people are or can be dangerous. We were wearing masks before it became a requirement, think about it. Best thing is to do is what Mr. Gaskins suggests in regards to getting out there in public and allowing God to be the ultimate match maker. He did it in the beginning, right?! Don't put down your crown Kings and Queens.
I met my ex husband online, and everything you speak about is truth! He was pretty much chatting with women our entire marriage, as well is doing other things, I suspect. Please consider doing a video on alternative ways to meet men. It's not easy, especially for us over 50 gals.
TG will tell you what applies to the youngins, applies to us more "mature" women..get out the house, do things you enjoy, network, talk to people and it will happen naturally and organically! Peace & Blessings✌
You're right. I have tried it and all of them were insecure, socially awkward, and immature. I believe that the majority are troubled individuals who can't talk to women in normal circumstances.
Yep! That's the sum of the majority of the ones I ran across. Like talking to guys from middle school.
Phew. You said it all 🤣
You mean you don't like getting "hello beautiful" and "wyd" messages all day?
@@LostlikeNemo82 ... I know right. That is the favorites saying. Lol
Haven't you met them in person?
Tony is not lying!! Ive been on those dating sites. I did meet one guy who was really sweet and nice. He brought me a few things as well. But one day I never heard from him again. It was a long distance situation. The rest of the men were crazy and weird as all hell. Ladies stay off those sites! You better than that. Trust me
I feel regardless of how you meet a person you still need to check them out and keep your eyes open and pray
And whatever this man says is not gospel. Where did the men on the dating sites come from? Not from space but from the population of men.
Agree Serene👏👏
Online, grocery store, family friend, church it doesn't matter. You never know a person "fully." There's crazy people everywhere.
That's 100% right!!
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Background check is important.
Tony is right, I met my ex-husband on POF, again, ex-husband... it took years for me for my eyes to open and walk away from that mess!!! And it isn't just him, I've dated men online and have noticed there is definitely a trend in them being crazy. Its not worth your time ladies!!!
@@LA-wv7gf Yes, that happens, a lot, both ways. I met someone who was an "engineer" trying to move into my place... what kind of craziness is that? They are also the ones that tend to try and pressure people into relationships... no sir, no ma'am!
When we are out enjoying life and doing the things we love and meet someone, we can at least know we have something in common.
Glad you have enough self love and strength to know what you deserve and dont L and L.
Wish you the best this year lovely lady 👍
Thank you for doing this video. It’s a lot of low-vibrational people on these “sites.” Even though I’m a “millennial,” I prefer the old skool organic way of meeting people. It’s more genuine. People tend to meet one another when they least expect it, not when they are looking for it. I’m learning this more & more. 🙏🏾💕
Quote of the Day: “If he’s tall dark and handsome...He’s a scammer!”😂🤣😂🤣
Girl!😂😂
💯💯💯 or he's creepy
Married!!
Hilarious 😂😂😂
Right
Your 100% right
I was married to my ex husband on a dating site for 7 years, only to find out he never got off the dating site. He had endless supply. He had a secret live, class A narc. Waste of time.
Sorry
but that single guy you meet at the grocery store most likely has an online dating profile. The way you meet doesn’t change who the person is.
Not everyone does online dating. Many people are still very adverse to the concept and meet people in their schools, workplaces, etc a lot more commonly than the latter.
I agree. A lot of men have profiles but they might not be active everyday. But most have them.
Indeed!
Still doesn't change the fact that online dating is trash
This is true, but meeting someone in person, I can tell right off bat a lot quicker that they’re going to be a waste of time. I’m less invested. It’s easier to sell someone a dream that you meet online. It sounds weird, but there is a difference IMO. I also think online dating gives people access to us who never should have stood a chance. I know they say the wider the net, the better, but not always.
Tony, what you are saying is so true. I know a man who works at a gym and has indicated that he's on a dating app. Now that you've brought this out a little more and I think about it, why is he on a dating app? He is in the perfect place to meet a lot of single women with at least one of the B's you described. Seems his intentions may not be in the right place. Ladies, beware... 🤔🤔
He's too cowardly to approach a woman in real life.
They approach women in dating sites and in other places. It's a strategy to reach as many people as possible. Like a job advertisement, a company can put it online, on a local newspaper, can distribute some flyers, you can hear about it from a friend. SAME.
Online dating = desperation‼️ Got it 👌
Thank you Mr Gaskin for always showing love and encouragement by the truth you speak.. I'm a single man working on my 3. (Bs ) plus my personal 4th. ( B ) Believing.. because With God all things are possible.. I know you messages are serious.. but at times you can be so hilarious and your expression
😂. Thanks for the joy of laughter.
A quick message to the single women.. keep hope alive we are out looking for you..
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Thanks for the encouragement. It’s frustrating when I’m a good woman but there’s guys out there playing games. I will keep hope alive!!
Thanks but in this hard dating world it’s very sad to trust men and even in person they will play lie fake real love to damage your heart
You are ON it man just the sheer relevancy of topics confirms you’re being led by The Spirit. Thank you.
- a lost 26 year old
You are not lost my dear ... just lessons to be learned .... I was fortunate that as a young woman I listened to mom and my grandmom......I figured no need to go through what they went through...but everyone is different ... Tony sharing from a man's perspective is very important .... We have to hear it ..even when it is hard to hear ..and adjust accordingly....
stay the course and safe travels..💞
Sweetheart, you are not lost. Believe in yourself and continue listening to your HolySpirit. Wishing you many blessings 🙏
Honey you are a long way from being lost. You're thinking is on point! Keep your cookie in the jar. Many blessings to you.🙏🏾
Same here girl! Also almost 26.
Be careful what you speak into your life 😫 trust me.
Tony I agree, why would a man who has himself together have to go to an online dating site? I feel most of the guys on those sites are looking for easy sex, have some type of short man complex or an emotional problem. It's just so draining that the dating era is a mess. Sigh...
Most are looking for casual sexual encounters or a woman desperate enough to fund them. I stopped going on those sites years ago. They all come across the same way and want the same things which is sex.
I hate online dating!!! Hate hate hate! Filled with crazies!!!
Definitely
Crazies and perverts.
And closeted gay men
Those sights are the devil. I been on about four at one time, and I never got good results. Met some scammers too! Tony is right. You can meet guys better in person.
My opinion when a man is seeking women on social media most likely they're straight narcs or just have low self-esteem. There are to many beautiful women out here on sight it's men out here spending unnecessary money on chicks he don't even know just for attention
You have to keep in mind. Take your time, be content with your own life, have a take em or leave em attitude. A dinner and drinks just Isn’t enough to entice me.
And some of them don’t want to do that. It’s COVID season.
So chatting and moving slow Is an ok avenue online or off. Single people understand.
All I know, I’ve gotten sharper than Samurai sword. No Jokers will get a chat let alone bite. Wiser with time. Thank you Jesus.
online OR OFF -- exactly. same rules apply. initial meeting takes place (online OR OFF) then talk on phone 1 hour daily until the 1st date in person, where you can meet up on a park bench & talk for a few hours and get to learn each other. either you'll both enjoy it & want to do it again & continue talking an hour a day in between dates, or not. the ONLY difference SHOULD be the initial WAY you met (online or in person). Otherwise, the rules shouldn't change one bit. the only purpose online dating sites Should serve is bringing that "match" to the person's attention. he should still approach you first. you need just as much discernment & live conversation in real time after meeting online as you do after meeting in person. With that, you can weed 'em out just as quickly if they're not the one. he can be just as slap-crazy & ready to hide your body in a box if he met you in person in the mall as he can if he met you online. be careful EITHER way. Discernment is just as CRUCIAL in-person as it is online. sadly, nowadays, most folks' sense of discernment, social skills & ability to carry on a decent, mature conversation is pretty horrific & the dating sites get blamed for it. ~ b.
Big Betty etc ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@prettypenne662 Yes lady, Big enough not to sell myself short out here. Not today, not tomorrow, not any longer If I had.
Hey Tony i am single and my girlfriend keeps telling me to get online to meet a man but I refuse I am scared to death to meet a man online. I will take my chance to meet a man out on the street before I meet him online I do not trust that so I totally agree with you thank you for being so truthful and helping us women out have a great weekend😊
Hello don't do it I just met a 54 yr old dusty ass dude that still stay at home with his parents & is a habitual liar. Hard Pass
@@sophisticatedmm3632 🤣🤣thanks for sharing!
@@sophisticatedmm3632 😂
It makes sense, but in some countries of Europe you would be single forever if you waited for a man to approach you on streets. Men in Germany will avoid even looking at you. All thanks to feminists that were accusing men of harassment if they dare to approach.
@Euphora eup if it Turkey probably yes. May be Italy. Otherwise only Arabs, Africans and Turks approach women here.
Dating app gives you the chance of having a pre-evaluation of the guy, 90% of them will show their crazy or true intentions in at least 2 days, many in the first line, you just don't entertain and unmatch.
If a guy can hold a normal conversation and seems interesting and tries to move on for a meeting IRL in a public,safe place, that's all right, if he invites you to his place or any location of his special preference (usually next to him) then you don't go. Easy.
Better meet a man in a safe and public environment where you can leave at any moment (choose an area you know well and have available transportation) than just entertain a potential creep.
A woman met this guy on the train back home, they talked back and forth and he invited her for a dinner at some nearby restaurant, after building rapport he invited her to his place for drinks, but then he threatened her with a knife, beat her up and raped her.
I guess she wouldn't think a guy commuting by train was a predator, well he was.
Tony snoring @ 19:24 TOOK ME OUT!! The one eye open 😩😭💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
When you put too much emphasis on WHERE AND HOW you met your man/woman, it beats the whole purpose of meeting the right person. It’s about being upfront, with your intentions, set the ground rules, know and state your boundaries, know and state your non-negotiable. It is about HONESTY, TRANSPARENCY and JUST BEING A DECENT HUMAN BEING♥️
Great message Kris...
Some people can’t take the truth, they will argue with Jesus🤷♀️
U live in the bong shop
Why I’m starting to say.. point, blank, period... when I repeat the rules learned on this UA-cam channel
Yes, I've been saying it a lot lately as well😩🤣
Lol he has me saying broke busted and disgusted 😩🤣
Welcome to the blessed tribe family 🙂
@@CaramelKissez Thanks
YOOOOOOOOO I have real tears in my eyes from that DL story. LOOOOOOL If I've ever laughed so hard in my life, it was today.
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Man said he was a "RB" 🤣🤣😩
I’m dead he said defensive linemen.... I’m dead 🤣🤣🤣
😭😭😭same ☠️
And when Tony said he got cat-fished 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
Wow, this opened my eyes! I tried online dating and it was EXACTLY as Tony Gaskins said it. All I can said is wow because he described my experience. I got played on there thought I was being classy and he was talking to other women behind my back. I don’t go out much so I thought it would be easier to meet online. It’s a lot of nonsense on there! I will do it the regular way and didn’t think about what kind of men that’s really on there. Not getting on there again! Thank you Tony for your wisdom! God uses you!!! We APPRECIATE you! Your helping many people! God bless!
“DL? Nah imma RB” 😂😂😂 Tony log off NOWWW
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I died laughing at that part🤣🤣🤣
I HOLLEREDDD❗😂😫😭🤣😭😂
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A TG dating site might be a plan 🙌🏾
Yezzzz
That would be great.
Play matchmaker? Hey why not?
Too many liars out here. I wouldn't want his name associated with these fools
He has a coaching web site affiliated with his name and it's an ndividuals responsibility to vet. Person can always change to another coach if they dont like them. It would be same with a meet and greet site It would be interesting to see how a dating website with the Tony Gaskins influence would be differant. It would be so unique in its approach and include his proven dating tips and relationship information If The Fathers will, it will happen, and Ill be first in line to sign up.
Taking myself off dating sites. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Tony. You are absolutely right.
He got a catheter 😂😂😂😂😂
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I criedddd🤣
@@Imani.. IKR!! I’m a Nurse I know for SURE there are catheterized players still trying to ply
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😂"Bust it down Becky" & "Loose Booty Lu" (When I think I heard it all😂) I'm learning real life lessons from this channel but also getting a real good laugh at the same time.😂 Keep up the good work Mr. Tony.
Tony I feel like we get to see more and more of who you are with each video and it gets funnier, more real, and hits home/confirms like never before. You told the 1000% truth when you say men don’t have the right intentions online because even OFFline men don’t have the right intentions; whether you meet them at a restaurant, church etc so it has to be triple quadruple so online. That comment sealed the video perfectly!! Thank you !
This is soo true I was on BPM & met a 54 yr old still living at home with his parents ( he lied & said it was his house). He was also a habitual liar & complained about paying child support. Anyhow he ghosted me & Good Riddance.
It was "That's Ted Bundy's nephew" for me 😭 Tony said "when I set up my momma's dating profile and automatically men chimed in😂😂. Keep us informed Tony Gaskins😃
Lmaooooo
Ted Bundy's nephew 😆😆😁😂😂
Truth. I met my ex husband on Christian mingle. Grown boy, narcissistic traits, thank God I only wasted 5 years of my life. Thank you! I shared this video with a couple girlfriends including a matchstick user & plenty of sharks user. So on point!
I've had terrible experiences online with so called "CHRISTIAN" men! My girlfriend has had two horrible marriages with men she met online. One man turned out to be an addict and the other was a scammer smh. I know waiting seems like it just never ends but we really truly have to put our desire for marriage in God's hands...if we trust Him with everything else in life, why don't we trust Him with matchmaking? I'm preaching to the choir 🤣
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That online dating is no good. I did it years ago, did not listen to my mother; biggest mistake I’ve over made in my life. Don’t do it...
My favorite thing you reminded us of is if we are single doing all that we can working on the three Bs , we may need to tap in to our purpose and look for God to show us what are we supposed to be doing during this time. Like you said every one has a time that love and relationship will come. Ever since I heard this I’m looking at others in relationships different now instead of wondering why not me . The why not me mentality has been distracting me for some time now. Thanks for the insight and encouragement!
Body, Brain, and Brand in that order!
Been binge watching Tony never gets old 🤣
Wow. This was so good. Loved Tony's question: "Do you want someone that's introverted or that lazy that he won't make an effort to meet women in person?"
On point Tony, Thanks for this video. this online dating sounds so crazy to my old fashioned mind. Almost every friend of mine is on there. They get hooked, laid then dumped like crazy and still don't learn that it doesn't have to be that way. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" the bible says. How can a man treasure you if he's effortlessly picked off dating site.
“Take your headphones out your ear so when he try to talk to you, you can hear” 😆🤦🏻♀️
I definitely need to delete my dating apps. I always wanted to find someone in person anyway. The dating apps just seem like they want hook ups anyway.
Tony, remember we are in a pandemic! I never dated before and I really want to now , but Covid is preventing me from going out. Also I’m in Chicago we keep getting shut down , spaces are limited, etc. a man for me probably not outside during a time like this because he needs to protect himself and his family. Same as I. I finally tried Facebook dating and kind of like it. They only show people who you have mutual friends with, so they are not a total complete stranger and you get get insight of them from a friend.
Man you are truly a gift from GOD!! FACTS ALL DAY LONG!!! BE BLESSED BROTHER!!!
Yes!!!! Tony Yess!!! This is so wise!!!! I just moved to a new city and made the mistake of looking to meet someone on dating sites and I met some real jerks! I am now sticking to meeting someone at church!!
Wow lol this is exactly the topic I was searching for APTTMH thanks brotha Tony!
Tony's video be right on time! What's apptmh?
@@agadonk all praises to the most high Ahayah
When I declared 'no more distractions' they disappeared...
Tony is so on point...Never did online dating, but wanted to but my momma and grandmama talked me out of it. They saying the same thing as Tony saying. Listen to him ladies!!!!!!
Floating in Space “clapping motion” Done, Tony! 😂🤣
Tony, LOL Do you know you can MOONLIGHT 🌙 as a comedian!!🤣🤣🤣 But seriously, thank you for confirming what I already knew in my Spirit about online dating/men!👍🏾👏🏾🙌🏾💕
He sure could!!! Lol
Tony I SCREAMED at Defensive lineman🤣😂🤣😭
Tony we’re in a pandemic. You can’t even smile at somebody you pass in the grocery store because of the masks and people are trying to distance from each other. It’s a terrible time if you’re trying to meet somebody. There are more reputable dating sites than others. But some people are going on there because they’re having problems meeting someone especially if you recently moved to a new area. And if you’re in a more liberal state things are very shut down still so you’re pretty much out of luck unless you go on a dating site.
I've met a few guys with my mask on in a Walmart, waiting outside a restaurant for take out, etc. It's definitely more difficult now and I wasn't interested in the guys, but it made me feel good to know it's not impossible.
Mr Gaskinssssss!!!!!! I JUST SHUT IT DOWN! I knew it didn't feel right to begin with. You confirmed it. THANK YOU
I heard you Tony I’m getting off e harmony and I’ll go out tomorrow.. mask on!
THIS IS SO TRUE!! EVERYTHING ABOUT WHAT YOU SAID Tony Gaskins. Been there and the lies the manipulation...don't waist your time and energy. Get you together. Those three B's body, brains, business. Work on You!!! I had to learn the hard way. Lesson learned. Much love TGASKINS for telling like it is. Hard truth but it has to be told. 💛🤗😉🌞
He maybe an Interovert....but not a MUTE🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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The one eyed snoring! 😂😂😂 Thank you for sharing the truth!
True!:) ...I’m going through a divorce not looking to date at the moment but I enjoy so much watching these videos! In a way it helps to prepare me for next chapter of my life...
Tony can you talk about divorce...what man feel during the process? Are they as emotional about it as women? Or about dating life after divorce..when is the right time to start dating? ...how to add child to the mix?
@@LA-wv7gf yea that’s the best thing to do:) divorce isn’t easy and it’s usually complex not only the whole process but lots of emotions that come with it; I have friends that are separated and date (online lol) looking for that long term relationship but they haven’t done the work to heal from their marriages so it doesn’t really work...plus it’s online dating
But as someone going through a divorce right now, counseling or some other form of “self healing “ is needed prior to jumping into a new relationship.
Needed to hear this message. Had not so good experience. Immediately bought the you Real Love University. Educating myself and learning so much. First time I ever took time to learn about myself and heal and Im 53 years oldl. Thank you Mr Gaskins
Tony, This message was everything!! Although, I know you were speaking from the heart, I cried laughing the entire time!! Thank you for enlightening us!
All the men I've met offline at the grocery store, car wash, post office, beach, etc were also married and/or juggling other women. So what gives? 🤷♀️🤷♀️
I agree. I wish I could say that I have seen a significant difference in success rates compared to online or offline, but I have not. To me it's all about risk management.
Tony, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!! When I got the notification for this message, I was like a child at Christmas!!! You always bless me!! 65 years young, divorced and dating, and you are teaching me so much!!! Things my daddy and brothers never told me. I appreciate you so much. Blessings to you, beautiful wife and children. I tried to find your cashapp but couldn’t. What is it please? Blessings!!
Good Work Gail or Gale !!! beautiful, many blessings to you.
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You are the best, Tony!😁 For telling the truth♥️ God bless you and your family!🙏💜
This was heaven sent information. I finally see. Thanks TG
"Plenty of fish? It's trash. Plenty of sharks!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Betty..Becky...Lucille..
Please Tony..I am at work about to scream! You are telling the truth...point blank period!
“If he tall, dark and handsome, he a scammer” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tony you should host an event for singles ! I know so many people would come
Lol..."daddy loan...dead leg" ....In 2002 I swear it would take a minute to figure that out too. Great vid Tony!
Defensive lineman??? Naw I'm a running back 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
God bless you Gale, please leave your website!!! Thank you Tony for the message. 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Tony ain't lying on this topic! I WILL NEVER DO ONLINE DATING AGAIN! POINT BLANK PERIODDDD. Tony said I gotta wait to year 11 to chop her up and drink a bottle of wine! 😂 Oh wow
Listen now 🤣 Tony said don’t sleep we gotta be careful with these men on these online dating sites
This video needs to updated for dating online during Covid!
He has a video on that topic, talks about how you can still meet people in person which is true while at the gas station, store etc. He said make sure you forehead looks good while in that mask lol
The Female voice like Martin Lawrence Shen Nae Nae
This was confirmation for me to delete my bumble acct lol
I heard that on bumble the woman makes the first move. That would never happen 👎 with me.
Girrrrrrlllll... I felt uncomfortable talking to dudes
Proud of you
Tony is telling the truth. All we have to think about is if we were men and all those single women out there we would not be on a dating site, unless we are whorish and want a buffet of women, if we have low self esteem and aint got no game or we got personal, physical and psychological problems and we are vicious liars. I always felt that those dating apps were no good and I never wanted to go on one until one day in college our teacher wanted us to do a social experiment and go on one and I went on the black people meet and lo and behold there was a man who was on there talking about he had his own business, and it was a straight lie because I used to take him home to the shelter because he was homeless with a suit on, that's when I knew it was no good. Later I saw him on the street at the bus stop trying to get some money to get on the bus. He had a lot of psychological issues and he was looks challenged but nice as he was crazy.
Thanks Tony! Question.. Not online, I’m referring to in person interaction... do men view women negatively who are very friendly and easy to talk to? Do men think these women are naive, thirsty, Gullible, too eager to connect? Also, my online dating days are over! Too much time wasted! its a full time job meeting people online! ! I have met and dated nice men (i met my ex husband at work) at the store, gym, parties, waking my dog. ... but those relationships were not successful long-term either. Single season has been amazing for me!
Ah that means most men are not of any good quality now even if you meet people the regular way.
Met a guy in person and he lived in a different country. His social media showed me what I needed to know. People use their Facebook and Instagram as a dating site. I got tired of the constant calls and chatting and blocked him. I can't fall into the trap of talking to someone and listening to future fake promises.😑
thank you so much for the words of wisdom. it opened my eyes. God bless
If he’s tall dark & handsome HES A SCAMMER 😩😩😂😂😂😂 dammit man !
Listening.
I’m absolutely laughing so hard I’m crying!! The sleeping part nearly killed me!!!
Thank you 🙏🏽 again Tony for being a true blessing to the ladies. Knowledge is power.
Thank you Tony! This is real and practical knowledge.
Thank you for this word 🙏🏾
defensive linebacker?!!! oh lawwwdd tony to got me rolling lmaoo
Tony’s repping his Tampa Bay Ray’s since he lives in Florida. Imma have to go with my Dodgers in the series. 💙
Yes because there a lot of scammers guys online and serial killers and murderers so lady’s please don’t do it!!
Lmaooo not diddy getting on songs rapping 😩😂😂
Straight facts. You break up with them for say low effort or they ghost you and they are back on the site the next day (probably never left 😜)
Tony is the truth!! I love these videos.
Not bust it down Becky & loose booty lucy. IM screaming. hahaha you make some awesome points and love your sense of humor! :) - but on a serious note I'm over dating apps. A lot of low frequency, perverted, immature, narcissistic, broke, and short men on there. lol Waiting on God is the best option. Being healed and secure in who you are as a woman is so important. I must admit loneliness pushed me to those apps but after going through healing, therapy & fully giving things to God I'm good and gonna wait on my King to meet me in person. lol
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Me too! 😂😂
Yup me too I just did right away, I'm so done with dating apps never again
Same about to do mine 👌
Best thing you can do, boo
😂😂😂 real talk! Dating apps is trash. As a man who is looking for a wife, I believe in keeping things traditional and meeting someone in person. I gotta feel that energy/presence.
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Amen!!
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@Nelson Gil..I totally agree with you. I don't belong to any dating sites but when you live in a small town like myself, the pickings are slim to none.
So true. You also have to get to know them in various environments as well. The traditional way works.
Who deleted their dating app after hearing the truth? 🙋🏾♀️ Tony is so right
I did!!
🙋🏽♀ I sure did girl never again...so so done with those, I will wait on God
I left them all alone about 5 yrs ago. I'm good. Most are married or full of bs. I was like this isn't for me Lord.
I’m making my way right now to my POF....let go and let GOD is all I can do.
I sure did 😂
Some of these men online don’t even know how to conversate it’s like I have to be asking all the questions which is draining 🤦🏿♀️
Indeed.not everyone knows how to converse.... so it is good that you picked that up right away ...because at the end of the day how will we ever get to learn about the person if not through conversation ...be vigilant and pay attention .. be safe 💞
Omg yess I know what you mean.
@@tammerry9496 yes exhausting once I match with that person it’s like they don’t initiate the conversation I always have too
@GoldLoveee 😂🤣😅 so true
CONVERSE is the correct word to use.
Conversate is Ebonics, NOT a real word!
Shoutout to Gale! The stitching on those hats is gorgeous
Thank you soooo much!!
@@gailpdesigns G Er dd
@@gailpdesigns Hi, your work is FIRST CLASS-way to go with the stitching details!
I’m going to follow “ rat now” in my Tony accent😂!
These days all faucets or avenues taken to meet people are or can be dangerous. We were wearing masks before it became a requirement, think about it. Best thing is to do is what Mr. Gaskins suggests in regards to getting out there in public and allowing God to be the ultimate match maker. He did it in the beginning, right?! Don't put down your crown Kings and Queens.
I agree with you
Well said Chris. 🙌🏾✨
Truth
So true, men have admitted to me that they use social media for dating... watch those inboxes ladies, there are sharks there too!
@@TlangiBaloyi 🙏👑💞
I met my ex husband online, and everything you speak about is truth! He was pretty much chatting with women our entire marriage, as well is doing other things, I suspect. Please consider doing a video on alternative ways to meet men. It's not easy, especially for us over 50 gals.
I believe he has a dating over 50 video.
@@SoultanicalsTube Yes, I've watched it. 😀
Over 50. So true.
TG will tell you what applies to the youngins, applies to us more "mature" women..get out the house, do things you enjoy, network, talk to people and it will happen naturally and organically! Peace & Blessings✌
Wow sorry to hear this and congrats on being a badass and remaining positive and still believing in LOVE! Wishing you all the best ❤️