Dealing with loss
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I braced my self to watch this video because I knew I would cry a lot..Beautiful and heartbreaking video..
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I cried during this video and then I hugged and played with my dog. Makes you realize how precious these family members are. We as human's don't deserve such wonderful loved one's.
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You always speak so eloquently, so profoundly, poetically of dogs. I have never heard anyone else speak as you do and whose words match so closely to what the majority of us feel. I think connections with animals, in this case, dogs, are profound and poetic. The more time time with each kiddo improves our ability to communicate with each other. We just have to hear and speak with our hearts and get out of the way.
I know very well what it is, my children's 🐶🐶🐶graves are on my farm and every time I pass by and look at them, I remember every moment they gave me and it still hurts !
I buried them in the places where they always loved to be!
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So sorry for your loss. 😭💔
I know exactly what you mean for losing my baby girl in 2021. Nearly a year has gone since she left and she is still in my mind and in my thoughts every day.
Dear Valia, I understand your grief completely and send my heart felt best wishes to you. I have been through this many times and can think back to better times when life was so much easier. I'm now suffering with Covid and questioning my own mortality and my biggest fear is what will happen to my fur babies without me. Fortunately I have a good support group who are doing a very good job of taking care of me. I could only wish the same for those out there without any support, this is a miserable disease, please take care of yourself, so many others depend on you...............I'm an atheist, but god bless you so much.
Bless you Sir. I'm so sorry that you are suffering, I really am. Thank you for taking your fur babies into consideration in difficult times.
@@AngelaKalli8 I'm about 90% recovered now, It was no walk in the park trust me. Thanks for your concern and well wishes.
Dear Valia,
I agree to every feeling, every decisions - wrong or right - in the last months. Nothing better than your words can describe the loss of my beloved dog.
They will always be with us.
Ulrike
I’m so lucky to have my final act of kindness to happen at home when my Vet came to us to help.
I held him as he left us and buried him in our property where a neighbor and friend were kind enough to dig his grave.
As usual, a beautiful video. I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my cat on July 7, 2021. Shortly before your loss. These words express what I am going through but I couldn't put it in words as only you could. Thank you.
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I am so very sorry for your loss. You will see her again when it is your time to cross Rainbow Bridge. She will be running to greet you. May your wonderful memories carry you through. 💜
Valiah,
Your videos are always so well put together and your words eloquent as always perfectly depicting loss and its most purist and rawest form.
It's been 8 years since I had to put my best friend down... And I had 18 and 1/2 wonderful years with her. Every major milestone of my life she was there for me... And you're right, it doesn't ever go away and the way that you think about them changes as you change... Until you're gone yourself. And thank you again for sharing your pain in your loss. I know so many of your followers will be able to relate to your story in this video.
RIP Laura & Stormy... Forever in Our Hearts & Life Story. 💕
Very,very moving!
Thank you E. I agree 100% with what you write ~ perfect respond to V. Again, I thank you Sir.
I couldn't... When my baby girl is gone, so will be I...she is my world,she is my rock.. she has always been there when she shouldn't have been....
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Valia, you're gift for storytelling is top notch. I'm so very sorry for your loss. 💕🙏🇨🇦❤️
Saying the last goodbye is so hard.... this tribute is perfect 💯❤️❤️❤️❤️😢
Thank you for sharing this. This time last week I had to say goodbye to my best friend Lumpy, and so much of what you expressed reflects what my feelings. I am sorry for your loss.
Dear Valia ---sharing your grief & love for your beautiful baby. My precious ones were all in turn given their respectful & special burial on my vet's farm.... since joined by the vet himself....all never to be forgotten, & missed daily. Thank you for your special heart & lovely words. 💛
Hello Vilia, I have been through what you have been through, and know your feelings and thoughts so well.I believe you have spoken for a lot of us that do share that purest of love we have for our dogs. I wasn't able to put it into words like you have and call me selfish, but I don't want to. Just like you it was mine and mine alone. I still have his collar and will forever keep it with me. Time has a way of healing and allowing you to cope. I am not a people person, because of the evil they are capable of, so I turn my relationships that mean the most to me towards my dog. After he had passed away, I didn't believe I wanted another dog and go through the loss and the pain again, that I did with him. Although I needed to fulfill that void so desperately, that I did adopt another dog, and now I have subjected myself to one day go through this again. Not sure if I am just a glutton for punishment, but now that I have him, he fills that void in my heart and my life for me. I will never forget my boy who passed away and have things that remind me of my best friend. But he would not want me to be sad, but to be happy. Because I know in my heart that although I miss him so very much, that he is happy too. I am just saying that I sympathize with you and understand where you are saying and glad you were able to say it.
So sorry for your loss.❣
Share his love to other Dogs
Valia, so sorry to hear of your loss.
Valia,, so sorry for your loss 😪💔
Dear Valia. Pls keep on with your videos. It means so much to me. You are such a lovely and caring persons to your pets
This made me cry through the whole video, I was taken back to my own grief of loosing my dog Shadow. I am sorry Valia you lost a good friend!
That was beautiful. There are no other words 💜
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I take you in my arms, no words needed🐕❤😘
Wonderful post. Thank you.
I miss her too and I didn't even meet her... RIP, Laura. You sweet doggy angel. As always, I cried my eyes out :(
Hello friend
My heart resonates with this. Healing blessings for you, dear Valia.
Duele el alma la partida de un amigo incondicional son maravillosos compañeros y dejan un hueco una ausencia de por vida en nuestras vidas descanse en paz
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I'm sorry Valía!!!💔
Dear Valia, it was so beautiful to watch you video and what you say about her. I can understand how hard it is to lose a pet. I lost a lot of beautiful pets. I know that's not a relieve but we have to live with that. To lose a pet is always hard. Your words shows me to be grateful for every moment with my pets. Thank you for your commitment to your beautiful pets.
ΕΙΝΑΙ ΜΑΖΙ ΣΟΥ, ΒΑΛΙΑ, ΣΤΗΝ ΚΑΡΔΙΑ ΚΑΙ ΣΤΗΝ ΣΚΕΨΗ ΣΟΥ.
ΩΡΑΙΟ ΤΟ ΑΦΙΕΡΩΜΑ ΓΙΑ ΤΗΝ ΜΙΚΡΗ ΛΩΡΑ.
ΚΑΛΗ ΧΡΟΝΙΑ ΚΑΙ ΟΛΟΙ ΣΤΗΝ ΠΑΡΕΑ ΝΑ ΕΙΣΤΕ ΥΓΙΕΙΣ!!!
I am so sorry for your loss 🥺💔
I lost my sweet little Minnie Dec.2020. She was only 10. She was a deer head chihuahua and weighed 10 pounds. She was the best dog ever. No shivering like a normal chi. She didn’t bark a lot. In fact she was pretty silent. She only barked when someone rang the doorbell but quit when you picked her up to introduce her to the new friend. Th her everyone was a friend. Everyone wanted to bring her home. If you didn’t like dogs you liked her. She fell over one day and brought her to the vet they wanted to put her down right then. Brought her to a specialist and they said the same. She had kidney failure and other things going on. She could not be saved. So we brought her home and two days later our vet came to our home and put her down. I still cry every day.
I am so sorry for your loss and am sure you feel the same as I do, heartbroken.
💙🔥💙 #RIPBelovedLaura
This is such a beautiful tribute. I am so sorry. 😢
I am so moved by your words, they fit my experience perfectly. I lost my 13 year old dachshund after a very quick decline of bladder cancer. He was my best friend ever. I cried like a baby as I watched him slip into his last sleep. I was uncontrollable. When I got home I crawled into his bed and cried for his body, needing his smell to surround me. That was 11 months ago and I miss him and talk to him every single day.
Hello Valia a belated Happy New Year and I understand and I feel your pain but with me when my Nero was poisoned I wasnt there this time and to this day the remorse still hurts even though I have my Saint Nero was a good special companion to me so I totally understand God🕊 bless🌟 you Valia thank you for your story many of us can relate!!❤⚘🙏🐾
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Laura.
I hate saying that I understand all to well how you are feeling.
On New Years Day I lost my fur baby, Onion, unexpectedly. He wasn't sick and still I don't understand. He found us one day as a stray. He was the perfect fit for our home and our hearts.
Your words are spoken so perfectly. You make others feel through your words.
Love to you and family.
I'm so sorry you lost your baby girl I have watched you as far back as I can remember, your videos I just love them and when one pops up on my phone I save it for later so I can watch it alone and sometimes have a good cry and a laugh, your a special lady so kind caring and beautiful I wish to be more like you, big hugs and kisses to you x x
You sweet woman, you find the words for grief that lingers in it's presence. We Humans show our grief in emotions. You have a gift to write about them. No one else will remember the ones we have loved, like the ones who loved them. As long as you never forget them then their presence meant something. I guess what I want to say is that I never want to forget the humans and animals I had loved, never. Then someday, I too will be forgotten and then I belong to history. And a cycle will repeat. You have a powerful presence and are making a difference in the world. Thank you for sharing. God Bless you. I'm sure he has.
God bless you and give you strength❤❤❤❤
When I lost my beloved Bobo ( male Labrador) I too found myself thinking about the last time I came to this park Bobo was with me. Everything for me was when Bobo was last with me. So I can relate ,but I couldn't hide my grief from people who knew me.
Such a beautiful tribute to your baby.
stay strong Valia, the pain will get less and less with time and you will learn to live again, and mabey even get another one
Más. Mimado. Por. Ellas. Cuanto. Atesora
Tu tareA valía estas
Preciosas perritos
Gatitos son 1 alegrías
Nuestros hogares
Sending you so many hugs
Thank you
Te amamos Valia... Desde🌎
💔Sorry for your Loss of Laura 🌹🐕🌹
Your pain is shared, the grief and the guilt. Did we prolong the pain of illness to avoid the tidal wave of pain that's inevitable? Finally, that furbaby sized hole in the heart is permanent and just the cost of loving and caring. Will my heart be shredded from so many losses? No. I don't think so, it has grown larger to make room for others thankfully. Its the entry fee into the world of unimaginable trust, love and affection that only a furry companion gives. Im old and there are other really old ones to care for right now. Medicine to give and accidents to clean up.
But most importantly to cherish every single moment in today and preserve their dignity as I try to keep mine in my decline.
Thanks for giving poignant words to all that we too experience.
You have helped me.
Till we cross that rainbow bridge and are united again.
Thank you for this story. My old cat passed today at home.
Happy New year greetings from here to you friend, how are you doing today. It’s my pleasure to talk with you I hope you don’t mind talking with me back.
I'm sorry for you're loss Valia, they leave a hole in your heart that seems could be filled again, a pain so deep that only you can feel how much it hurts. She'll never be gone if you hold her memories deep in you're heart, keep the belief that she loved you unconditionally and is no longer suffering any pains of growing old. You will eventually meet another poor soul that'll touch you're heart in a way that she did and that one will become the new family member, and it's not going to because you want to replace her or her memories , it'll be because you want to fill that space that she left behind. She took a big piece of you're heart when she left but remember ... you took a big piece of hers too.
Thank you Valia, you have so beautifully put in words what I have been going through since February 2, 2022. I feel and I know your pain🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️
You are so lucky to have such loving fur family beside you and l my heart goes to you and your pain. They are also lucky to have you beside them as well 💎… take care ( of each other 💞) l do wish you all the best🌷
Thank you New Friend. You are good and wonderful and this video is amazing. I am so sorry for your loss Beloved. I needed to see this and hear this to know that I am not the only human that went (goes) thru this. Bless you V. Please keep working with animals and taking pictures and making videos and writing and sharing and giving and loving and loving and loving. Please.
Little baby girl, had 5he last word.
sorry for your loss,I know how you feel because I lost my dog two decades now but still I miss him I always ask why did someone poison an animal without even doing wrong to them 😢 it's hard 😢 but I know even he is not there with me he is always protecting in so many ways again be strong
Molto doloroso..anch'io ho passato questo momento doloroso due anni fa..importante che loro sono stati felici accanto a noi e ci hanno ringraziato con il loro amore..adesso sono delle stelline sul cielo e giocano insieme vicino hai loro amichetti che non sono più tra noi..vi mando un abbraccio!!!
I love the work you do. I admire you. I wish the best for you and for those helpless beings that you protect so well. Please don't ever lose your will to fight for them. My respects to you🙏🙏
Valia, I understand how you are feeling. On March 16, 2022 I lost a friend who had been by my side for 17 years. As much as I fought it, nature had decided it was his time. Everything you said about why you cry and your reasoning for why they can’t/shouldn’t leave us I understood. He was a Yorkie rescued from a puppy mill bust. I adopted him when he was about a year old. I remember him just tearing around my huge backyard as fast as he could after being kept in a cage for who knows how long. So I named him Zippy. He was like my child. He had his spot on a pillow on my bed. It started with one side of his heart being enlarged. Ok, so we can manage that. Then it was revealed that his kidneys were failing. Ok, another medication. Then….the cancer made itself known. They took the tumor out of his mouth. It was a very aggressive form the vet said. Then he stopped eating. I tried everything. In my heart I knew that keeping him with me would be at his expense and I wasn’t going to do that to him. The vet came to the house and he left in my arms. I am still trying to figure out how to cope without him. His little winter coat is on his pillow where it will stay until my mind and heart can move forward. I’ve had breakups that didn’t hurt this bad. I pray there is a heaven and that our pets are there. I can’t bare the thought of never seeing him again. Hugs for you my friend. You are not alone in your pain.
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i know what you mean i have had 3 dogs and i miss them so much now i am on my 3 cat and she is so lovely we are best friends
I'm sure she is happy with your granny , again..
This just KILLED ME…
My big dog TITAN ( puggle ) had to be put down… same thing , GUILT …
My wife and I wanted him to LIVE forever… I MISS HIM…
He was big for his breed , he did live for 15 years ,
TITAN lived a good life..
SPOILED ROTTEN DOG 😢😢😢
I think about him a lot …
I hope I see him again 😢😢😢
You have helped SO MANY dogs and there must have been some that didn't make it. Yet your dog is a family member and it hits a lot harder. Sadly even the best of care can only postpone the inevitable. The worst part for me is making the decision when to do it because the dog hides its pain so well. I had the same thought of "Let her die in her sleep at home" but that's not how it ends most of the time. I tried to bring the vet home but she disagreed, it's not done in my country. Did you feel like you were betraying Laura on that last ride? I sure did with mine. I sure did. Rest in Peace, beautiful Laura.
She was special a pretty Angel miss me too
i wish i could love the way you love.
It's only for a Moment, the Transition is only for A Moment. She is still with you. Build that Holiday For her. For She'll be with you within each New Day.
Remember ENERGY NEVER CEASE. HOW CAN IT.
Hugging her Pillows Will Keep Her Close Always And Remember The Little One's Miss Her Too.
Sug Graham
Networker
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Che dolce
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Τα συλληπητήρια μου. Θα μπορούσε να ήταν πολύ χειρότερα. Θα μπορούσες να μην την είχες γνωρίσει ποτέ
Your PRECIOUS FUR BABY WENT TO SPEND HER ENTERNAL LIFE WITH HER TRUE MASTER, GOD FATHER ALMIGHTY. FOR THIS IS FOREVERMORE.
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Calor. Humanos
Juguetes lo. Ayudan
Compañeritos
Acepta. Posar. Como
Si. Supiera ser. Conocida
Sorry for your loss...you gave this beautiful angel a wonderful life...God bless her great life and soul.
So Sorry for Your Loss! 💔 Thank you for Sharing your Journey! I'm here for you!
God this was heartbreaking 💔 I lost MY boy before Christmas Tonka 14 years. I’m crying so hard right now, you mentioned so many many things I so miss….. I touched his ashes while watching this. I feel like you Valia know my pain. 😭
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Thank you for this post....truth regarding the guilt. 3 gone in this past year.
Same,three cats are gone and the guilt will never go away nor the pure love!
I'm so sorry Valia. Your love for Laura was and continues to be beautiful! Carrying our doubts about what we could have done differently is acutely painful. You fought for her to the end.
I still have dreams about my cat of 18 years, even after she's been gone for more than a year! I treasure the memories and try to silence the ending. She died in my arms, over hours; I didn't want to leave her alone. My mother insisted that she pass naturally at home, while I begged to call in a vet for a home visit and rapid peace. I see it as a privilege to end suffering, even though it hurts us.
Receive my condolences, this is a very Hard moment, i Know...😭
I loved the way you ended the video on such a nice and positive way. As you say, it's so difficult to put an end to this video, and you did in such a heart warming way 🌷
The saddest and most poignant video about the loss of a beloved pet. It touched me to the core and it lets me know what awaits me when my dog Coco can no longer cope with her heart murmur. We can only hope there will be a Heaven where we will be reunited in spirit. Much love Valia.
Sorry for your loss! It's so hard to say goodbye, even more so when one has to make the hard decision ... knowing well it's the best for the animal, and at the same time feeling like you failed them ...
Thank you for sharing with us! We are sorry for your loss 😢
We ❤️ you!!!
Beautiful 💕
I am very sorry. I feel for your loss. Courage..
Here’s toLaura. Who opened our heart for more Laura’s to come.
Όταν θα τελειώσουμε κ μεις από αυτό το κόσμο.... Ίσως θα βρεθούμε πάλι όλοι μαζί με τα ζωντανά μας... Ίσως μας περιμένουν....
i miss you soooo much , guess things are really shitty over there, thank you for your update on things !!!!!!!!!!!! can't tell you how much i feel for your loss , except just cry and remember and love the other ones !!! take care !!!!!
Είναι αυτό που λες: η αγνή τους αγάπη. Η ανιδιοτελής, στην πιό απλή & συνάμα πιό γεμάτη της μορφή, αγάπη. Κι όταν μας φεύγουν, η απουσία της είναι τόσο ισχυρή, που σε γονατίζει. Κανείς δε μπορεί να σε παρηγορήσει όταν χάνεις κάτι τέτοιο. Αναγκάζεσαι να περιμένεις καρτερικά, μέχρι να κλείσει ο κύκλος του πένθους. Μέχρι να μπορείς να ανοίξεις πάλι την καρδιά σου, για να γεμίσεις μέρος του κενού, με την αγάπη που θα λάβεις από τα υπόλοιπα, μοναδικά πλάσματα που σε περιβάλλουν ή που θα συναντηθούν οι δρόμοι σας...
My beautiful girl Star would have been 15 today. I lost her on xmas eve 2020. My vet robbed me of saying goodbye to her. She was on the table, i was about to get her to lie down, the next thing she collapsed, her head hit off the wall, her front legs buckled unnaturally beneath her and I heard the words "she is gone". I was left traumatised, she deserved to be lying down and cuddled and told she was loved as she passed. It was heartbreaking.
Valia I am so very sorry for your loss. They take a peace of our soul when they leave but know she is running freely & in no pain now. May she RIP and may God Bless 🙏 You
VALIA…. it‘s true what you say…. 💎