Men Read Other Men's Deepest Secrets

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  • @nickparkison977
    @nickparkison977 4 роки тому +14563

    When men are abused they are hurt twice. Once by the abuser, and second when society blames and reviles them for their supposed weakness.

    • @OwenRona
      @OwenRona 4 роки тому +316

      Apparently, “Being Human” and “Human Being” are absolutely not the same. Not exactly sure why ...

    • @charliemurphy7122
      @charliemurphy7122 4 роки тому +65

      Best UA-cam comment I have seen

    • @jem231
      @jem231 4 роки тому +561

      When women are abused, they are hurt twice. Once by the abuser and twice by society for telling them that they shouldn't have wore what they were wearing, that they're lying, that they're ruining a man's life... the list goes on. I think it's the nature of society as opposed to which gender is abused. Not invalidating your point btw, rather adding to it

    • @LyricsCrashx3
      @LyricsCrashx3 4 роки тому +251

      @@jem231 I agree. Also, women are told to forgive the abuser. Stay with the abuser, that's whay I was told. It is also difficult to get into a DV shelter if you don't have a child. That is unspoken about. People think it's so easy to get into a one. I'm homeless right now. When your "family" is abusive, you are always blamed.

    • @marcozolo3536
      @marcozolo3536 4 роки тому +7

      Alrighty then

  • @r4nd0mguuy38
    @r4nd0mguuy38 5 років тому +15898

    "the stigma that males can't be molested and abused it's fiction" Exactly.

    • @Slysnail5339
      @Slysnail5339 5 років тому +312

      My dad molested my brother. But he died from a heartattack while sleeping❤️

    • @r4nd0mguuy38
      @r4nd0mguuy38 5 років тому +191

      @@Slysnail5339 I'm sorry man... 😢 Hope things are better now in your family.

    • @endiya.
      @endiya. 5 років тому +85

      @@Slysnail5339 I'm praying for you, that God will give you strength day by day, your heart is beating right now because you have a purpose in life. So go out into the world and be a Blessing to others!

    • @aaliyahwinrow3941
      @aaliyahwinrow3941 5 років тому +64

      rainhat Feminism has nothing to do with this issue sooo

    • @fozza1051
      @fozza1051 5 років тому +7

      In pulp FICTION Marcus gets raped

  • @itsasetup8652
    @itsasetup8652 4 роки тому +20827

    “Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provide something." - Chris Rock

    • @hamstersamiright8837
      @hamstersamiright8837 4 роки тому +2373

      Can we get an F for cats.

    • @jc8153
      @jc8153 4 роки тому +277

      Too true

    • @pink_alligator
      @pink_alligator 4 роки тому +544

      Oooh, that hits. That's a truth I've never been able to put into words before

    • @MichaelSmith-rn2vk
      @MichaelSmith-rn2vk 4 роки тому +57

      F

    • @sunnyday4055
      @sunnyday4055 4 роки тому +1293

      only *pretty* women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally ...

  • @Dendoi_
    @Dendoi_ 4 роки тому +14099

    The difference is:
    When there's a female virgin everyone thinks she's joking especially if she's hot
    When there's a male virgin everyone laughs it off or makes fun of them

    • @katonadani99
      @katonadani99 4 роки тому +725

      Yeah and they always talk about it like it's some kind of competition, that's why virgins feel bad because they feel like they lost (at least that's what it feels like for me)

    • @theluckyone831
      @theluckyone831 4 роки тому +330

      @@katonadani99 Naah man dont feel like that i am 23 years old and i am not ashamed of it i had the chance few times but i still see it as nonsence to waste something i have inly once in a lifetime to someone who does not matter..
      Be proud of yourself bcs the first time.is.something special dont waste it on anybody just so you can say U jad sex...
      Have a good Day/Night and keep on keeping on 👍

    • @klaasvaak4803
      @klaasvaak4803 4 роки тому +141

      @@katonadani99 for me its not the fact that I "lost". Its the fact that everyone makes fun of you when you tell them. Litarally every single person I have met and told, which is basicly everyone I know, has made fun of it.

    • @phenomenalwrestling8667
      @phenomenalwrestling8667 4 роки тому +113

      I am actually an Aromantic Asexual 19 year old male who has never dated anyone and wants to stay a Virgin my whole life.

    • @katonadani99
      @katonadani99 4 роки тому +15

      @@theluckyone831 Thanks man, that made me happy

  • @GraysBlue
    @GraysBlue 5 років тому +66141

    i think a "men read womens deepest secrets" or "women read mens deepest secrets." i would love to see different perspectives on these issues.

    • @Metalqueen99
      @Metalqueen99 5 років тому +261

      aesthetaeguk yes!!!

    • @dario.m4707
      @dario.m4707 5 років тому +2179

      Guys:I feel so bad for her
      Girl:why are they acting like little girls

    • @angelinatsao5614
      @angelinatsao5614 5 років тому +28

      !!

    • @taestea4747
      @taestea4747 5 років тому +4

      aesthetaeguk not. abad idea

    • @jyotsnaroy9596
      @jyotsnaroy9596 5 років тому +3

      @Roxus if you are telling the truth then"god bless you"

  • @Unknown-zi7wx
    @Unknown-zi7wx 5 років тому +40974

    Why do i feel like they’re reading their own secrets

    • @brendonutjita
      @brendonutjita 5 років тому +4599

      "I myself can relate"

    • @Joanis_vswrld
      @Joanis_vswrld 5 років тому +645

      Me too

    • @elongated2761
      @elongated2761 5 років тому +2996

      It's more easier to tell someone's story than telling a story about yourself

    • @danielakesson27
      @danielakesson27 5 років тому +703

      Why do i feel like they are reading my secrets*

    • @kobelambert8250
      @kobelambert8250 5 років тому +83

      @@elongated2761 well said...

  • @omara8053
    @omara8053 4 роки тому +10816

    The guy that randomised the letters had one job.

    • @genetaylor5368
      @genetaylor5368 4 роки тому +829

      I really dont think any of them were randomised

    • @tristanlj3409
      @tristanlj3409 4 роки тому +1236

      @@genetaylor5368 I think that's his point. I too was a bit confused as to how everyone of them read a letter of which they could relate to (in a, let's be real unusual way). I think though 50% of them wrote letters and then Jubilee found compatibles for their letter

    • @debarghyachattopadhyay2614
      @debarghyachattopadhyay2614 4 роки тому +146

      Letters to people who could relate to it

    • @LukzaFactory
      @LukzaFactory 4 роки тому +14

      Thank you

    • @samsam6535
      @samsam6535 4 роки тому +180

      For the men who are still virgin ...Nothing to be ashamed about. I wish I did stay virgin as I initially planned, before giving it to my first love who in exchange gave me 2 STDs. The excuse of boyfriends that I had after him did not deserve my intimacy either...Since then I decided to remain single because of the delusion of love and what I believed it was.

  • @kingmcowo3351
    @kingmcowo3351 3 роки тому +359

    The rape one hurt “no one believed me cause they said it only happened to girls” no one deserved this im sorry for them

  • @frka6342
    @frka6342 4 роки тому +26495

    Jubilee is just becoming free therapy by this point

    • @na-qh2bf
      @na-qh2bf 4 роки тому +328

      I'm not mad at it

    • @frka6342
      @frka6342 4 роки тому +89

      @@na-qh2bf me too

    • @CiphersWon
      @CiphersWon 4 роки тому +70

      and it is good

    • @taylorhitt9753
      @taylorhitt9753 4 роки тому +78

      Facts. I need therapy and don't have health insurance. Wonder if I can sign up

    • @laniewells9525
      @laniewells9525 4 роки тому +13

      Preach sista

  • @Uhuru_Kenyatta
    @Uhuru_Kenyatta 5 років тому +9978

    Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth. - Oscar Wilde

    • @ron93098
      @ron93098 5 років тому +186

      Damn that really cut deep. Thanks for sharing this. I'll remember this one.

    • @kekelolo6471
      @kekelolo6471 5 років тому +75

      @hamzah anton no

    • @MrRobeasca
      @MrRobeasca 5 років тому +195

      @hamzah anton cause no one will know who they are, they will be anonymous and their image wont be altered

    • @therobotchickn
      @therobotchickn 5 років тому +54

      Sold your brain hamzah ?

    • @dangeroussneeze66
      @dangeroussneeze66 5 років тому +1

      Brian Waweru wow

  • @carlaanastas4161
    @carlaanastas4161 4 роки тому +5756

    Not dating anyone is much better than getting hurt by everyone.

    • @jhay_vine5083
      @jhay_vine5083 4 роки тому +24

      damn. nice one.

    • @johnD1998
      @johnD1998 4 роки тому +212

      Yea maybe your right but it still hurts being a lonely virgin

    • @nikiyubari8410
      @nikiyubari8410 4 роки тому +18

      Watch home alone 2 when kevin tells the rollerblade story to the pigeon lady hun.

    • @matheusdoriadearaujo3318
      @matheusdoriadearaujo3318 4 роки тому +14

      Sexist misandrist. Men suffer too. I hope u keep suffering even more!

    • @banemen27
      @banemen27 3 роки тому +18

      @@wisesensei9741 but why? Instead try to be a better person and without trying girls will come to you , it's ironic but never chase girls and be direct do not give hidden signals, stay away from platonic chatting and always stablish that you're there to be a potential partner

  • @superbacon13
    @superbacon13 4 роки тому +1922

    Remember kings, we are here for each other. Stading together we stand stronger. Love you boys.

  • @thea58193
    @thea58193 5 років тому +16959

    It is sad how women are encouraged to talk about their feelings while many men keep it on the inside

    • @jcliff8415
      @jcliff8415 5 років тому +480

      women are encouraged to abuse men...

    • @thea58193
      @thea58193 5 років тому +236

      @@jcliff8415What do you mean?

    • @Maksie0
      @Maksie0 5 років тому +1040

      Men are discouraged from talking about their feelings... by other men.

    • @Maksie0
      @Maksie0 5 років тому +153

      How is it better?

    • @codename495
      @codename495 5 років тому +397

      NFXDESTRA He resolves them in healthy ways rather than internalizing them and lashing out in other ways.

  • @_Adie
    @_Adie 4 роки тому +13154

    "I've never dated anyone. In my 28 years of life I've been single."
    That actually made me feel better. There's probably nothing wrong with me, stuff like that just happens sometimes.
    That was really helpful to hear, honestly.

    • @ottogofast3882
      @ottogofast3882 4 роки тому +450

      Adie love and companionship is overrated and can seriously hurt you. You just have a different view of it from the outside looking in. Find peace within yourself before looking for love.

    • @TheGonkDroid
      @TheGonkDroid 4 роки тому +162

      Adie you can't give someone else love from within if you don't fill your self up with self love first. Be gentle with your self

    • @kikigam7113
      @kikigam7113 4 роки тому +283

      Same I'm almost 21 and I'm a virgin and never had a bf before it feels weird but I see Its not so weird

    • @TheGonkDroid
      @TheGonkDroid 4 роки тому +129

      Kiki Gam it's actually very common nothing wrong with it at all

    • @luanasinclair
      @luanasinclair 4 роки тому +252

      When I met my boyfriend he was 25 and had never dated or kissed anyone, people just have different timelines, doesn't really say anything bad about him, just like it doesn't say anything bad about anyone else who hasn't dated.

  • @enriquemendoza945
    @enriquemendoza945 4 роки тому +1726

    Fellas, if a woman doesn’t like you anymore because you cry, she’s not the one for you. It is lie to think that because you cry that you’re not a man. Crying is literally part of survival and it can help you connect with others and you won’t feel so lonely, which as you know we are social creatures. Again, if I woman dumps you or loses interest because you express feelings she could possibly be under the mainstream impression that men don’t cry

    • @sylvanathornton2119
      @sylvanathornton2119 4 роки тому +52

      Thank you! I'm so glad to see a man stating this. And I tell you what, the high majority of women will actually think higher of a man who cries when the situation warrants it. That willingness to show humanity displays confidence in a way that is very attractive and relatable to women.

    • @zzassenavzzz
      @zzassenavzzz 3 роки тому +33

      “people cry not because they're weak, but because they've been strong for too long"

    • @holdenaphart7528
      @holdenaphart7528 3 роки тому +12

      @@sylvanathornton2119 not true

    • @aminafz2979
      @aminafz2979 3 роки тому +3

      Then there is no woman at all

    • @kidjedimaster3604
      @kidjedimaster3604 3 роки тому +10

      Not just women, society as a whole. I think for a lot of men, they can’t cry.

  • @vlimos4446
    @vlimos4446 4 роки тому +555

    " inside I'm really sensitive, I'm scared to be who I am " that hits home 😞

    • @sylvanathornton2119
      @sylvanathornton2119 4 роки тому +13

      Don't be! Men, please do realize that a man showing emotions actually displays confidence in a way that women want confidence to be shown. In a way that is attractive to women.
      Most men mistake confidence with dominance or with being cold and heartless, and untouchable. Then they wonder why they still don't appeal to women, who find that kind of person a cold, heartless ass.

    • @janecastro4879
      @janecastro4879 3 роки тому +15

      @@sylvanathornton2119 if we show our emotions then we would probably get bullied and made fun of

    • @bullymaguire2061
      @bullymaguire2061 3 роки тому +6

      @@sylvanathornton2119 which women are you talking about?
      Most women bail immediately when a guy cries.

    • @ATomicAstronaut
      @ATomicAstronaut 3 роки тому +2

      @@sylvanathornton2119 That's a lie.

    • @kingjam3s540
      @kingjam3s540 2 роки тому

      that me too

  • @stressedjudgeby599
    @stressedjudgeby599 5 років тому +21902

    *PLOT TWIST:* they are reading their own secrets

    • @stantoge
      @stantoge 5 років тому +73

      Stressed Judge Bøy ||-//

    • @GuitarFin1
      @GuitarFin1 5 років тому +1160

      Well they are reading one's close to their own experiences

    • @fruitylyrics6052
      @fruitylyrics6052 5 років тому +32

      ||-//

    • @masons4425
      @masons4425 5 років тому +239

      Plot twist, I'm gonna hit you with my back hand instead of my forehand.

    • @novemberscold
      @novemberscold 5 років тому +76

      yeah its seems that way

  • @matthewjackson4915
    @matthewjackson4915 4 роки тому +5941

    The way he said “ I’ve never dated anyone” made it sound so reassuring and he seems so nice

    • @michaelbradley2550
      @michaelbradley2550 4 роки тому +142

      Yeah it's no big deal really, everyone finds love at different points in their lives. Myself, I'm 25 and never dated anyone. I could've dated in high school but didn't really care enough to do it. It's kinda the same still for me now. I could go out and strike up a conversation with a woman but I really don't care atm. I'm happy with working for 40 hours a week, coming home and talking/playing games with friends and gymming. I'd be perfectly fine being alone for the rest of my life too. I don't want kids and I love living alone/having my own space I don't have to share with anyone. Whatever happens, happens

    • @joshualozada8132
      @joshualozada8132 4 роки тому +12

      Michael Bradley I mean at the age of early 30s is the best age to be married at so u still have many years

    • @bogdanstojanovic2540
      @bogdanstojanovic2540 4 роки тому +22

      Michael Bradley Well yeah you chose to live alone I can respect that, but the guy doesnt have a gf not cus he didnt try but because he cant

    • @alexong2542
      @alexong2542 4 роки тому +41

      @@bogdanstojanovic2540 some people are just meant to be alone. I've tried dating , and I realized many who've dated me are just curious about me, none of them wanted a connection,they just wanna expand the social network. Till now, I still don't understand why do people want to have so many friends and such a large network?
      For what? The only true friends that are gonna stick by you in the end are less than 5. It's quality over quantity.
      Sigh, no one nowadays seem like they want to bond or have a connection anymore

    • @highguy6495
      @highguy6495 4 роки тому +27

      @@michaelbradley2550 You chose to not date, the guy chose to date but failed. There's a difference.

  • @ClellBiggs
    @ClellBiggs 3 роки тому +830

    I'm almost 42 and have never been physically intimate with anyone, and probably never will be. I was also abused by a family member when I was 8. These things are more common for men than most people realize.

    • @ClellBiggs
      @ClellBiggs 3 роки тому +43

      @Monkey Nibba At 18 that's not unusual. You likely don't have anything to worry about.

    • @oblivion9520
      @oblivion9520 3 роки тому +46

      @@ClellBiggs I'm 22 and never even held a girls hand. Should I just give up and embrace the solitary life?

    • @ClellBiggs
      @ClellBiggs 3 роки тому +54

      @@oblivion9520 Nah, that's still not unusual. You'll probably be fine.

    • @teapottim4807
      @teapottim4807 3 роки тому +9

      @Step Bro Help I'm Stuck! Depending on the person, barely staying alive can prove to be insanely difficult. Terrible things happen to people, they happened to you too I assume. For the you that you are now it may be a great burden to bear. It's okay to have these dark thoughts as a consequence. However, with that being said, I really believe that there is more to you than you are right now. That there is a you that can overcome the situation you are in right now, no matter how hopeless. There is hope for change, even if it's just a small step, if it can alleviate the pain just a little bit that's alright. Keep going. You'll get there. You have it within you. Please don't give up on life, for despite all it's ugly and pain, there is also beauty and things worth suffering for.

    • @Arturasimo
      @Arturasimo 3 роки тому +3

      I don't want to be too personal but maybe you should seek therapy?

  • @tomasjosefpiano8902
    @tomasjosefpiano8902 3 роки тому +433

    When a man cries, it shows that he's confident in his manhood enough to go against the common stereotypes.
    That's just fax right here.

    • @amiablelampamiablelamp2245
      @amiablelampamiablelamp2245 3 роки тому +5

      Once the stereotype is gone, men will just be a bunch of cry babies who when told to man up, will just snap back and say “I am confident in who I am”. By the time all men realize that crying is a strength, it will
      Become a weakness. Crying is only good until the stereotype is dismantled.

    • @buddy9684
      @buddy9684 3 роки тому +30

      ​@@amiablelampamiablelamp2245 How did you miss their point entirely bruh?

    • @amiablelampamiablelamp2245
      @amiablelampamiablelamp2245 3 роки тому

      @@buddy9684 wdym

    • @mikeylorenzio2076
      @mikeylorenzio2076 2 роки тому +1

      Eh, it depends what he's crying about.

    • @haaland1103
      @haaland1103 2 роки тому +6

      @@amiablelampamiablelamp2245 there’s something wrong with you

  • @christopheratajudeen1023
    @christopheratajudeen1023 5 років тому +7022

    Does anyone else feel like they need a 1 hour version of this

  • @9salvia
    @9salvia 5 років тому +17573

    “I’ve never dated anyone”
    Same

    • @Bmboo_
      @Bmboo_ 5 років тому +150

      @J-Dog The Beast me neither but I'm thirteen so idk gl I gues

    • @KeinAlias877
      @KeinAlias877 5 років тому +862

      @@Bmboo_ gtfo

    • @kierxn248
      @kierxn248 5 років тому +34

      J-Dog The Beast you need to learn to attract girls then my guy

    • @Itz_Ashley11
      @Itz_Ashley11 5 років тому +17

      @J-Dog The Beast just curious how is it with females in the military cuz i feel like sometimes when guys are talking about something they wouldn't want females to hear they get annoyed

    • @Bmboo_
      @Bmboo_ 5 років тому +78

      @@KeinAlias877 wowa dude that's rude calm your ass don't lash out on others

  • @Obi-Wan_Kenobi
    @Obi-Wan_Kenobi 4 роки тому +3538

    I died and never dated anyone. It's not a big deal.

    • @anaklusmosxriptide
      @anaklusmosxriptide 4 роки тому +462

      But you DID have the high ground.... so....

    • @thecloaker7962
      @thecloaker7962 4 роки тому +108

      Ahhhhhh, General Kenobi!

    • @joelgallegos09
      @joelgallegos09 4 роки тому +194

      Yea but you still had the duchess of mandalore who wanted you so its was just your monk ways that were stopping you general kenobi.

    • @bullseye6969
      @bullseye6969 4 роки тому +17

      Biologically it is a big deal.

    • @REIVAXMEELAS
      @REIVAXMEELAS 4 роки тому +21

      Sex/dating/being in a relationship/Marriage isnt that important.

  • @akamaverick6205
    @akamaverick6205 4 роки тому +330

    Hearing all these I realize I’m extremely fortunate to have an amazing family

    • @Asymmetric_dnb
      @Asymmetric_dnb 3 роки тому +14

      That's when it's important to take note and make sure you create a culture with any family and friends you may have where those lessons are passed on

    • @haaland1103
      @haaland1103 2 роки тому

      yeah

    • @aseed89
      @aseed89 5 місяців тому

      I envy you

  • @jethroblack818
    @jethroblack818 5 років тому +5980

    "Be who you are, say what you feel. Because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."
    -- Dr. Seuss

    • @Underliner07
      @Underliner07 5 років тому +27

      Coming from the guy who had like 6 wives(sarcasm)

    • @PlasticDoll.
      @PlasticDoll. 5 років тому +17

      Idk it this quote is famous or smthn. But I'm going to try living by it! Thank you Mr!

    • @nicktran7490
      @nicktran7490 5 років тому +47

      “Cheat on your wife while she is dying from cancer and proceed to marry the other women when your wife kills herself because she doesn’t want to be an interference to your life” - Dr. Seuss

    • @fireboogaloo6871
      @fireboogaloo6871 5 років тому +86

      @@nicktran7490 You probably don't even like green eggs and ham.

    • @omartrachen6794
      @omartrachen6794 5 років тому +5

      it's really a powerful quote, thanks for sharing

  • @mujtabaellari2597
    @mujtabaellari2597 5 років тому +2429

    Mad respect to these men for talking about their own past.

  • @hustlemami8732
    @hustlemami8732 3 роки тому +189

    As a woman watching this, I am broken for what our men have been through and expected to be. Stop the societal expectations for men!

    • @taketheblackpillneo3940
      @taketheblackpillneo3940 2 роки тому +6

      no you are not. but keep virtue signaling roastie

    • @jimmycruz7172
      @jimmycruz7172 2 роки тому +1

      "stop the societal expectations for men" wtf do you think that means? just remove all true sterotypes that are made to keep men like this from existing??

    • @foreverconfusedandkindacute
      @foreverconfusedandkindacute 2 роки тому +5

      To be fair they're the ones who created these stereotypes and expectations and now they're the ones suffering.... as a woman I rlly feel like were just the supporting cast in this horribly directed movie lol its hilariously sad

    • @macgmol159
      @macgmol159 2 роки тому +2

      @@foreverconfusedandkindacute yes they are the problem not women
      but blaming them it's just gonna makes things recycling

    • @Echani3007
      @Echani3007 Рік тому +1

      @@foreverconfusedandkindacuteatriarchy is set by men but doesn’t exactly apply correctly nor advantageously for al men. Some women may profit off their position in patriarchal societies. Not all men profit off such systems

  • @a32tl
    @a32tl 3 роки тому +200

    0:37 That's my story. I'm 52 and have never been on a date or shared a genuine romantic moment with another living soul. No one has ever loved me. It haunts me daily and I feel great shame about it.

    • @sstff6771
      @sstff6771 3 роки тому +41

      Here is a big hug bro🤗

    • @strawberrydragon1
      @strawberrydragon1 3 роки тому +35

      There is nothing to be ashamed about.

    • @LemperAyam879
      @LemperAyam879 3 роки тому +4

      There is a dating app for ppl in your age, try to google it, i forgot the name

    • @badpiggy2403
      @badpiggy2403 3 роки тому +18

      I’m sorry to hear about that. But it’s ok, you can still be awesome single. Stay strong man, I hope things get better for you

    • @1ztype343
      @1ztype343 3 роки тому +5

      Like other people have said, you aren't missing out on much, in fact, a whole lot of people want to be in your shoes right now. Live life, save money, and have fun. There's more to life than humans and emotions. Focus on yourself king.
      -A person with no contact with the outside world

  • @naraira__1397
    @naraira__1397 5 років тому +3294

    I felt sorry for the guy who has been molested. The memories must have haunt him...he's still a child at that time. You're so strong man!

  • @rmountains3519
    @rmountains3519 4 роки тому +3276

    Men... Being real men. In a circle filled with real men. I WISH men were this honest when I was growing up.

    • @umbra014
      @umbra014 4 роки тому +40

      You can be part of the solution by getting rid of that "real' men

    • @rmountains3519
      @rmountains3519 4 роки тому +62

      @@umbra014 You can be part of the solution by not forcing real men to choose what you say, based on your ignorance.

    • @umbra014
      @umbra014 4 роки тому +27

      @@rmountains3519
      What is that even supposed to mean? My point was that you shouldn't say "real" men cause all men are real men.

    • @rmountains3519
      @rmountains3519 4 роки тому +47

      @@umbra014 All men aren't real men. A lot of men are boys in adult bodies. You can go away now.

    • @kingclampz6081
      @kingclampz6081 4 роки тому +13

      Bayonetta wrong real men are masculine strong alphas who don’t let any man or woman physically nor mentally beat them

  • @justaman1537
    @justaman1537 3 роки тому +275

    The room is filled with KINGS 🗣🤴🏻

    • @haaland1103
      @haaland1103 2 роки тому +1

      fax

    • @user-ps4ky5ki3t
      @user-ps4ky5ki3t 2 роки тому +2

      Lately the word "king" seems to be popping up. But when someone tells that to me it feels like a participation award and it makes me feel worse

    • @bananamonkeygaming14
      @bananamonkeygaming14 2 роки тому +1

      @@user-ps4ky5ki3t yes, its just weird and cringey

  • @SK-vk9jf
    @SK-vk9jf 3 роки тому +148

    Mine would be that when I was a boy I was always 'like a girl' as they said - polite, calm, getting good marks. I really liked maths and was good at it and didn't like sports, wasn't good at sports at all, and wasn't good at social skills neither, thus other boys bullied me and as girls laughed it only encouraged them to go further and further I thought I'll never have a girlfriend, I felt worthless and wanted to commit suicide. But now, the dream came through - I do have a loving girlfriend and I love her so much, sometimes I can't believe that, all those years are just as clear as it was yesterday, but it's a past now. If there's anyone feeling like I felt at the moment, it will pass, you are the most wonderful person on the planet, everything eventually passes.

    • @sstff6771
      @sstff6771 3 роки тому +15

      Thank you😊,
      My girlfriend broke up with my today and i was looking for some positivity.
      Ps
      its great to read all the stories
      Stay strong bros and sis

    • @SK-vk9jf
      @SK-vk9jf 3 роки тому +8

      @@sstff6771 you too brother, stay strong especially now, wish you the best

    • @sstff6771
      @sstff6771 3 роки тому +5

      @S K
      Thanks bro, that means a lot
      I happy that there are people like you, stay how you are. You are a wonderful human being

    • @badpiggy2403
      @badpiggy2403 3 роки тому +3

      I’m glad you found someone!

    • @badpiggy2403
      @badpiggy2403 3 роки тому +3

      @@sstff6771 sorry to hear that man. Try to stay strong, things can get better

  • @RAINBOWDASH-sv9wl
    @RAINBOWDASH-sv9wl 5 років тому +2386

    That second guy talking about having sex with someone who you care about is right. He deserves someone who loves him. He seems like a really nice guy

    • @kunalthe100
      @kunalthe100 5 років тому +105

      yeaaa he is right... i am 26 and never dated anyone or had sex with anyone...and i dont feel bad about it...being with someone who loves you for real is more satisfying and rewarding...we all are gonna lose virginity at some point...everyone takes their own time...

    • @abubakarbusati7731
      @abubakarbusati7731 5 років тому +19

      @@kunalthe100 I am the same as you, 3 months until i turn 26 and i will wait until marriage

    • @Lovemyfriends1
      @Lovemyfriends1 5 років тому +41

      A real man cries at his wedding

    • @NathanielGidacan
      @NathanielGidacan 5 років тому +47

      the longer you stay single the longer they will f*ck your future wife....

    • @abubakarbusati7731
      @abubakarbusati7731 5 років тому +47

      @@NathanielGidacan i will marry a woman who has this same idea as me, so i am not interested in girls who don't keep themselves.

  • @PouryaBigonah
    @PouryaBigonah 5 років тому +3255

    This video is so important.
    We try so hard to seem strong, not realizing it’s only making us weaker. So many men spend so much time building up a shield, but it’s only masking the fact that they are slowly breaking down.

    • @brekenwallar4164
      @brekenwallar4164 5 років тому +8

      That just means they’re building an ineffective shield and they let things get to them

    • @ramots8367
      @ramots8367 5 років тому +49

      i feel like people constantly underestimate the crap men go through cause they literally don't know. The world makes it seem like it's some great shame for men to be open and have feelings and just not be the stereotype

    • @ricosuave62094
      @ricosuave62094 5 років тому

      Seems like that's what society wants us to do

    • @aengusog3415
      @aengusog3415 5 років тому +6

      Pourya Bigonah on you’re everywhere

    • @MM73..
      @MM73.. 5 років тому +12

      I see your comments literally everywhere.. God....

  • @kaskaskas
    @kaskaskas 4 роки тому +45

    I hate when people dismiss men being beaten by saying they should fight back. your supporting one person's physical abuse against another. the man in the red jacket said it best; he could've hit back but knew he would never put a hand on her.
    all of these men are incredibly strong and I hope they're in better places.

  • @miasbookblog96
    @miasbookblog96 4 роки тому +190

    As a woman, I completely understand the first guy, I have been single for all of my life(for 24 years), it's not that I haven't tried to find someone, it's just that it isn't working out for me. Now I am texting with a guy that I like and I hope that I will be able to build a relationship with him.

    • @aeroplane3630
      @aeroplane3630 3 роки тому +9

      I wish the best for you, Mia. I actually relate to the second (I believe so, because there was already one guy before him) secret. I've never dated anyone, I actually tried to get into it, but I feel like it was somewhat forced and rushed at some point. I also don't wanna date just to date, I want to get emotionally attached to that someone first. Tbh, I don't know how can people just randomly date someone without feelings for them
      I believe getting to know each other first and growing together is a whole new level before dating someone just because you want to, and not about feelings

    • @royceleanzer
      @royceleanzer 3 роки тому +6

      I hope he texted back )))

    • @deservinglive
      @deservinglive 3 роки тому +2

      Did it work? :)

    • @RaZoR7i7
      @RaZoR7i7 3 роки тому +15

      Atleast you are women and men are seeking out for you
      As an lonely virgin nothing will happen to ne

    • @krix4961
      @krix4961 3 роки тому +9

      @@RaZoR7i7 some women don't get "seeked" at all

  • @JudoJasonTemple
    @JudoJasonTemple 4 роки тому +4413

    Having been raped by my ex, I can back up the fact that the stereotype is still Strong. When I wrote a book about a Rape survivor I was told that as a guy I had no right to talk about rape because as a guy i would never expirience what a woman expirienced as rape.

    • @pmakiie262
      @pmakiie262 4 роки тому +344

      Judo Jason Temple I'm very sorry that you had to deal with this

    • @saums
      @saums 4 роки тому +64

      If men are raped, it hurts more than women because most men tend to have sexual contact with the outer part of their body but if they are raped (I'm sorry I can't help but use this language now) a dick goes inside of their buttholes which feels like all your skin is being torn apart or atleast that's how it usually is especially if you're a virgin

    • @regm1220
      @regm1220 4 роки тому +634

      @@saums because women are not raped through their butthole? Stop comparing sufferings. Rape is equally traumatizing.

    • @hozza0411
      @hozza0411 3 роки тому +360

      @@saums It's equally as tramautizing, It's equally Emotionally, Spiritually effecting. It also hurts alot

    • @IHEARTCOQUETTECLOTHES.777
      @IHEARTCOQUETTECLOTHES.777 3 роки тому +36

      I'm a girl, and I support that all the way God bless

  • @Emma-kq9ud
    @Emma-kq9ud 5 років тому +2376

    Men aren't made of stone. It saddens me how we ignore that they can be sexually harassed and abused. Also, we always think they are not supposed to be emotional but always tough. They also have the right to be heard and to have their emotional moments . I hope Jesus help those men and every man out there. God bless Y'all.

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 5 років тому +26

      rosé love it seems like toxic masculinity is still stuck in your mindset, stop equating men being "normal" to anything opposite of being affectionate/emotional.

    • @user-vy9tk8yb9o
      @user-vy9tk8yb9o 5 років тому +16

      @rosé love men and women are biologically different. Women are way more emotional on average. Now back off

    • @ananya9931
      @ananya9931 5 років тому +9

      @@user-vy9tk8yb9o please let me state that biological difference doesn't mean one sex is emotionally stable and the other is unstable...it's the norm for men to act tough no matter what.

    • @user-vy9tk8yb9o
      @user-vy9tk8yb9o 5 років тому +12

      @@ananya9931 no one was claiming that. Please let me state that way more women are emotionally unstable and way more men are emotionally stable. Women are naturally more emotional and men are naturally tougher. That does not mean they don't have feelings though but let's not pretend they are just like girls

    • @123455866201Aaron
      @123455866201Aaron 5 років тому +3

      @rosé love sucks that you want nothing to do with me, Im just trying to live like everyone else.

  • @TheAmazingChrisDK
    @TheAmazingChrisDK 4 роки тому +402

    I feel like my mental problems are not as important as girls, because the media always tell us we should protect girls and they're important. NOT because women are a problem ofc! I just wish we could help each other with these kinds of things. Everyone has problems and we should stand together

    • @ang6872
      @ang6872 4 роки тому +15

      Of course it’s terrible! With friends it’s not a matter of gender on whether I care about their mental health that’s what being a friend is all about.

    • @michaelhuerter1921
      @michaelhuerter1921 3 роки тому +17

      Women just get the spotlight and I feel lost

    • @cloudblinky6189
      @cloudblinky6189 3 роки тому +7

      As a woman, I aspire to be strong enough to be able to be leaned on by men, especially for my future partner. I want to be strong and independent enough to be relied on so men around me won't have to carry the burden of always protecting me.

    • @amiablelampamiablelamp2245
      @amiablelampamiablelamp2245 3 роки тому

      I’m a woman and men don’t have mental problems. they have to be strong and cannot be sensitive

    • @amiablelampamiablelamp2245
      @amiablelampamiablelamp2245 3 роки тому

      @@michaelhuerter1921 man up. Why should a man act like he needs attention? It is very bad

  • @koikoi6612
    @koikoi6612 4 роки тому +524

    The social toxic masculinity and stereotypes really kills men inside out.

    • @BabyBugBug
      @BabyBugBug 3 роки тому +19

      I also dislike it strongly when people say toxic masculinity does not exist. It DOES and causes immense heartache in some way, shape, or form for the majority of men.

    • @seeker3357
      @seeker3357 3 роки тому +2

      @@BabyBugBug Is there a definition of what non - toxic masculinity is?

    • @BabyBugBug
      @BabyBugBug 3 роки тому +5

      @@seeker3357 oh yes. This what you see in this video. Openness about emotions and not being shamed to show them when something is wrong and seek help when you need it.

    • @seeker3357
      @seeker3357 3 роки тому +15

      @@BabyBugBug But i see that as healthy behaviour in general, not something masculine specifically. I'd like to know specific masculine traits that are healthy and seen as "manly".

    • @BabyBugBug
      @BabyBugBug 3 роки тому +26

      @@seeker3357 healthy masculine traits include decisiveness, courage, strength, and determination. Unhealthy traits include emotional distance or absence, adherence to the “tough guy” stereotype, aggression, anger, over competition, and promiscuity. It is mainly the lack of being in touch with emotions and over aggressive behavior meant to “help” the male deal with an inability to process emotions that create the problems we have with masculinity.

  • @joscher
    @joscher 4 роки тому +2483

    The manliest part about this video is them all coming together and hugging and appreciating one another for their time and sharing their stories.

  • @Alroytt
    @Alroytt 5 років тому +3319

    the first guy is a peoples champ, i love you brother

    • @ImNotWealthy
      @ImNotWealthy 5 років тому +6

      “Peoples”

    • @zain6008
      @zain6008 4 роки тому

      @@ImNotWealthy peoples is a word dumbass

  • @gemmibemmi
    @gemmibemmi 4 роки тому +22

    "In my opinion I'm way stronger, and I loved her more to know I'd never put my hands on her in that way" that's beautiful ❤️

    • @Strmchsrtv
      @Strmchsrtv 9 місяців тому

      That was me, and i thank you for your compassion Gemmi! ❤

  • @kabir_hosssain
    @kabir_hosssain 3 роки тому +52

    I'm a girl but I can feel it those who wrote had very hard time and those read they had to. You people are really strong. Respect!

  • @Catcherintherye11111
    @Catcherintherye11111 5 років тому +13223

    The most "manly" thing a guy can do is express their feelings

    • @daddydallas4789
      @daddydallas4789 5 років тому +217

      No xDD

    • @Munchausenification
      @Munchausenification 5 років тому +336

      I think you should word it differently. It takes courage (a manly feature which women also is able to have) to show and talk about feelings. Its part of the human condition and quite essential for a normal life to communicate your inner thoughts.
      I wouldnt say its the most manly thing for a guy to do, since manliness is somewhat subjective to the individual. Just take a look at women, what do they find manly and you will have widely different views of what a man is and how he should act, depending on where in the world you are.

    • @jallei.337
      @jallei.337 5 років тому +21

      An opinion if I've ever seen one. Speak for yourself, bud.

    • @daan260
      @daan260 5 років тому +73

      how is it a manly thing if women are so good at it? nothing wrong with expressing your feelings, but it's not "manly".

    • @carlosforbidden1429
      @carlosforbidden1429 5 років тому +20

      That is completely not true

  • @jonathansblonded
    @jonathansblonded 4 роки тому +4770

    It’s sad how “crying” as a man makes you “weak”. There is nothing wrong with it. It’s natural. It’s what makes us human. Why hide it?

    • @haruyanto8085
      @haruyanto8085 4 роки тому +94

      It is, but it is seen as a weakness, men can still cry, but do it sparingly and don't tell anyone about it.

    • @spicytuna5920
      @spicytuna5920 4 роки тому +46

      Haru Yanto facts, don’t let nobody see u crying

    • @sorryim4uyyou590
      @sorryim4uyyou590 4 роки тому +5

      Jonabob Yeah but you cry when someone dies or something like that not because someone calls you ugly

    • @sttonep242
      @sttonep242 4 роки тому +189

      @Richard Casterly If a movie is very strong and I can really relate to it, why can't I cry?

    • @Spartan-ek8ih
      @Spartan-ek8ih 4 роки тому +109

      sttonep IKR. Crying over a bad day is not ducking petty either. If you have been a man than im sure you would know it builds up as you keep hiding your emotions than one day it's just too much and you let it all out from when you kept hiding it for even months or years or whatever. Something petty would be your brother wants to play the xbox after you have been on for 8 hours or some sh*t crying over a bad day and especially over a movie is not weak. Infact if you cry over a movie then atleast you have emotion and it's not sad or depressed crying.
      You don't need to 'man up' for such things. There are petty things though but not those things

  • @trissy2446
    @trissy2446 4 роки тому +4

    This hit really deep . These are my favorite Jubilee videos tbh , from way back in the day

  • @darbyfabre2
    @darbyfabre2 4 роки тому +15

    These were intense. I think when we take a second to step back and realize that everybody has been through tough times, we can really start appreciating each other and being there for each other

  • @who_this_king
    @who_this_king 5 років тому +508

    As a man, I'm really proud of all the men that broke their silence and shared their secrets
    In the middle of all shame, guilty and hopelessness, knowing you're not alone helps alot

    • @Risingofthephoenix
      @Risingofthephoenix 5 років тому +12

      As a woman and feminist i'm so proud and relieved to see this kind of video being done we been waiting for this

    • @likealight2854
      @likealight2854 5 років тому +6

      as a woman. im proud too. proud of this channel and this comment section.

    • @AB-ou8ve
      @AB-ou8ve 5 років тому

      Risingofthephoenixx x
      Piss off feminist.

    • @stefanrosu9735
      @stefanrosu9735 5 років тому +10

      A B do you know what feminist means or are you a butthurt 12-year old that has watched too many ”feminist gets destroyed” videos?

    • @SabatSch95
      @SabatSch95 5 років тому +1

      @@stefanrosu9735 Feminist basically means blaming men for everything, which is proved time and time again by their actions. No one cares about dictionary definitions when they do NOT reflect the actions they partake in.

  • @kylelowry150
    @kylelowry150 5 років тому +1610

    "We Are All In The Gutter, But Some Of Us Look At The Stars" - Oscar Wilde

    • @rizzamaeong
      @rizzamaeong 5 років тому +11

      i love this line.
      in awe.

    • @kylelowry150
      @kylelowry150 5 років тому +8

      @@rizzamaeong yea I found it in a TV show lol

    • @aidan8870
      @aidan8870 5 років тому +1

      hi kyle lowry

    • @kylelowry150
      @kylelowry150 5 років тому +1

      @@aidan8870 hi

    • @Azubjourni
      @Azubjourni 5 років тому +3

      bro i can relate to this so much. people are sometimes just to negative, even when im down, i try to better my condition atleast.

  • @madhushrutimukherjee
    @madhushrutimukherjee 4 роки тому +14

    I loved how all of them hugged at the end. I keep on telling survivors, that rejoice in the fact that you SURVIVED. You ARE NOT in the past anymore. You survived, you are loved and you will thrive. Nothing spells revenge on your abuser who tried to destroy you like a life well lived.

  • @Sean.A.M
    @Sean.A.M 4 роки тому

    Some of these hit home. Won’t say which ones. It’s always nice that not only do the read someone’s secret but the reveal a little one of there own or offer advice. I love that.

  • @angelac9694
    @angelac9694 5 років тому +3005

    Vulnerability is strength. Hats off to these amazing men.

    • @legionmaniac-9202
      @legionmaniac-9202 5 років тому +5

      Saitama: haha

    • @dorime669
      @dorime669 5 років тому +25

      Vulnerability = Strength
      You libtards are really tards

    • @johnreese7352
      @johnreese7352 5 років тому +2

      @@dorime669 yea i agree these guys are sissies getting made fun of all the time and be treated horribly what a bunch of babies

    • @SabatSch95
      @SabatSch95 5 років тому +16

      It really isn't though... In fact, it's pretty much the opposite.

    • @joshuas.686
      @joshuas.686 5 років тому +20

      Your wrong. These men and any person (man or woman) will go through stuff but that doesn't make you vulnerable. Strength is pushing through toughness, not sulking in it

  • @NewtonSparetire
    @NewtonSparetire 4 роки тому +468

    My mother almost sold me as a sex slave to fuel her drug habit. I ran away though. Was abused by several girlfriends as well. I think it's far more common than people think

    • @valb5437
      @valb5437 4 роки тому +26

      I'm sorry that happened to you. I believe you. I hope you're doing ok (and if you aren't ok that's ok too). Help is out there.
      - from a girl

    • @dasht1917
      @dasht1917 4 роки тому +11

      One of my closest friends was almost sold for drugs. He means the world to me, and I care about him, and I am sorry for you have gone through.

    • @warriorsanjay
      @warriorsanjay 4 роки тому +1

      yeah but who cares were men wage gap blah blah

    • @roddy_ricch9392
      @roddy_ricch9392 4 роки тому +1

      where u from?

    • @lluviaayala7039
      @lluviaayala7039 4 роки тому +3

      My mom almost did to. She literally had the man infront of me (I was 10) and we're making the deal. I think she was gonna sell me for like $1000 and they mad plans on when. I was at school when my social took me away. That man is out somewhere and ik he has other girls but I'm to scared to tell anyone.

  • @Savannah-yi1yv
    @Savannah-yi1yv 3 роки тому +38

    I really hope my generation raises our sons better. I hope we teach them that they are valid despite their relationship status, that being vulnerable and weak aren't the same, and that they can let their guard down without having their trust betrayed.

  • @blueshyguyuwu4390
    @blueshyguyuwu4390 3 роки тому +5

    This video make my cry but I'm happy that there is more people out there who understand the things that lot of us feel

  • @Jryl
    @Jryl 5 років тому +783

    I'm 20 and never dated anyone either. I try all the time to get a girlfriend or a girl as a friend but its hard, I have to much anxiety. Shout out my meat though

    • @maryamboujarfaoui7734
      @maryamboujarfaoui7734 5 років тому +69

      I'm 19 and i have never dated lmao , no big deal 💔

    • @yallknowwhoiam7036
      @yallknowwhoiam7036 5 років тому +72

      22 here on the same boat, it does not matter focus on your dreams man

    • @Daniel-de6gz
      @Daniel-de6gz 5 років тому +14

      Aye man we all rocking in the same boat, you’ll find the *one*, one day trust me

    • @chikezieojiabo6885
      @chikezieojiabo6885 5 років тому +15

      21 ..same🙂

    • @DeeznutztheOG
      @DeeznutztheOG 5 років тому +94

      Not trying to sound like a douche but most of the times girls well anyone can usually pick up when someone else just wants something. Girls aren’t going to feel attracted to you if all you want is a relationship status w/ them. You need to have actual similar interests, friendships or to have an actual bond w/ this person. Don’t force anything if it happens it does

  • @anthonybrown7650
    @anthonybrown7650 4 роки тому +2283

    One of the hardest things I could ever say is that I was sexually abused by my own wife... as a man I don't like talking about it

    • @Kimberlylesniok
      @Kimberlylesniok 4 роки тому +119

      Anthony Brown Im so sorry to hear that... Do you want to talk about it?

    • @predatorhunter3169
      @predatorhunter3169 4 роки тому +19

      Anthony Brown what did she do

    • @Qauzzie
      @Qauzzie 4 роки тому +370

      predator Hunter 316 Didn’t you read the last part? He doesn’t like talking about it?

    • @saifullahhabid1133
      @saifullahhabid1133 4 роки тому +244

      You don't want to talk about it brother but please know that you are loved

    • @saifullahhabid1133
      @saifullahhabid1133 4 роки тому +180

      @Anonymous sorry. All I'm saying is that your not alone

  • @amarmesic7170
    @amarmesic7170 4 роки тому +5

    Beautiful to see that these men have gone through such difficult or traumatic experiences, yet they don't let it define them. This is what being strong is about.

  • @kabirsardana1282
    @kabirsardana1282 2 роки тому +14

    im a 33 yr old guy who has never dated or been in a relationship. I often lie about having had sexual experiences to my friends and make up weird stories about how I got laid so that they dont come to know that not only have I never had sex with anyone but iv also not kissed anyone till now. its become soo much of a strain on my psyche that I can't eve have normal physical contact with women. I actually makes me feel weird.
    I feel sad when I see couples around me living their lives together, on social media, seeing them build their lives together. it makes me want to do that also but its pretty sad that everytime iv tried to do that by being myself almost everytime id been put in the friend zone or the brother zone just because I listen to women.
    its scary how many men out there feel the same way.

  • @keithdon748
    @keithdon748 5 років тому +1020

    At 10 my dad taught me how to be invisible. He's so good. Still havent seen him. Im 32

    • @renspeeters4055
      @renspeeters4055 5 років тому +30

      That's touching thanks for sharing this story with is!

    • @6ig6ird71
      @6ig6ird71 5 років тому +14

      Lmao 😂 😂 😂 HAHAHAHAHAHHA! Dude.

    • @upsettispaghettispaghetti2114
      @upsettispaghettispaghetti2114 5 років тому +5

      Keith, I'm cryingg

    • @calebirwin3964
      @calebirwin3964 5 років тому +9

      @@6ig6ird71 Yo even if it is possibly a joke for him. It's not a joke for others. How about you think before you go laughing at that situation.

    • @calebirwin3964
      @calebirwin3964 5 років тому

      @thomas bicket what are you talking about?

  • @sleepyontime5513
    @sleepyontime5513 5 років тому +1875

    0:46 i haven’t ever dated anyone either, I feel lonely and singled out because I see people holding hands and making out, and it seems so great, I keep telling myself that one day I’ll find the right guy but sometimes I feel my hope just slip away.

    • @gabrielvasile9377
      @gabrielvasile9377 5 років тому +50

      You should keep fighting, it's gonna be worth it in the end, Idk why you'd be single if you really tried though, it's not fair

    • @Jp-yd2ke
      @Jp-yd2ke 5 років тому +79

      I've been there and it's really hard. I think what helped me get passed it was understanding that vulnerability is the path to happiness.

    • @svenja5919
      @svenja5919 5 років тому +2

      Same.

    • @thejaneeyre
      @thejaneeyre 5 років тому +5

      I feel you!

    • @sydney1432
      @sydney1432 5 років тому +1

      same :( im sorry

  • @NavaneethChowhan
    @NavaneethChowhan 4 роки тому +300

    He's 28 years old, still a Virgin and Demisexual.. He was in a long distance relationship for 3 years but it didn't end up well and every day he thinks about dying.
    'So lost to live, too afraid to die'
    That 'He' is me. I know this is too much to say here but I hope this stays here if I ever stopped talking myself out of suicide.

    • @arnav8606
      @arnav8606 4 роки тому +32

      Don't do it . It's not worth it . There is someone for you who God will send at the right time and that person will bring you all happiness you deserve 💗💗

    • @pocketbee3648
      @pocketbee3648 4 роки тому +13

      There is nothing wrong with who you are. Life challenged you, but you are still here sharing your story. You are so much stronger and beautifull than you think and there is always someone out there waiting with love. I wish you the best, keep going ❤️

    • @simpsbelongtothegulags3702
      @simpsbelongtothegulags3702 4 роки тому +11

      If you ever wanna give up,
      Give God a chance
      Pray and he will help

    • @oisinosborne2852
      @oisinosborne2852 4 роки тому +9

      I hope you are feeling better, suicide is never the answer to lifes problems when you are feeling down talk to a close friend or someone in your family who you trust. Change you life and work toward a goal. Depression is a right sob I get it from time to time due to my ASD but I know it will pass. Try meditation and yoga and other things that will help you. Best of luck.

    • @greenlitlleman
      @greenlitlleman 4 роки тому +3

      I will just post my other comment here and then add a note to you personally.
      " Because for men in our species popularity with the opposite sex is determined by the number and/or quality of his partners. And the popularity of a woman is determined by her appearance. This is related to the fact that even an ugly guy can get laid a lot and even a hot guy can stay a virgin. And your popularity equals to your social status.
      We are very competitive animals and the different treatment is just part of how different our sexual strategies biologically. There is no conspiracy against men, lol. This is also the reason why most virgin guys, even those who are "ashamed" about their status, would rather stay virgins than hire a hooker and experience sex. They don't really give a fuck about sex, they care about their subjective social status in their own head and they wouldn't feel that they "won" by buying sex. "
      I at some became fed up with all this nonsense, about how our emotions work in a primitive way. So I just lost my virginity with a hooker, then slept with other two. After that it became much easier to find a girl to date. I learned that sex isn't such a big deal. But you can't stop putting it on the pedestal until you actually experience it by yourself. It is overrated and not worth suffering over not getting it. If you aren't skilled in sex it is also very possible that it wouldn't feel even as good as masturbation. There are a lot of things in life that are more meaningful and enjoyable, just do them.

  • @BlueVeinedMeatRoll
    @BlueVeinedMeatRoll 3 роки тому +1

    All the hugs at the end.. so wonderful.

  • @sampekofsky5569
    @sampekofsky5569 5 років тому +3275

    It's manly if a guy is strong enough to express their feelings.

    • @geraltvonriva9873
      @geraltvonriva9873 5 років тому +7

      Ah but when a woman goes thru a crisis and seems „weak“ the man leaves her yall gonna hear what a monster he is.

    • @Elm98
      @Elm98 5 років тому +25

      A stronger guy internalizes everything and grows from it without having to share it with the whole world....

    • @thedarthknight5161
      @thedarthknight5161 5 років тому +30

      @C, boy it’s better to talk about your feelings than hurt your self to be a ‘stronger man’.
      All your doing is becoming closer to what society wants you to be, instead of becoming closer to what you want to be.

    • @Elm98
      @Elm98 5 років тому +12

      @@thedarthknight5161 lol no, todays society every man tries to be a sensitive liberal, i have my own thoughts, im open minded, and im strong asf. Bad things that happen to you are not bad unless you humor them and make them real, look at bad situations as things to grow from, no one wants to hear you bitching about bad things like your the only one.

    • @thedarthknight5161
      @thedarthknight5161 5 років тому +1

      C, I absolutely agree with that last part which is why I’m such a mess

  • @sisterstina3700
    @sisterstina3700 5 років тому +193

    To the first guy: I respect the fact that you are honest and you're not ashamed because there is literally nothing to be ashamed about. You'll find your soul mate:)

    • @rwhoosh1122
      @rwhoosh1122 5 років тому +16

      Fuckn patriarchy, I am sorry but your grammar LmAo

    • @kamarabdelzahra3722
      @kamarabdelzahra3722 5 років тому +22

      Fuckn patriarchy, are u mentally sane ? There is nothing wrong with having no sexual desire

    • @sarojahsathivelu5174
      @sarojahsathivelu5174 5 років тому +11

      you live in a fantasy world where all women are the same and want the same things in life - what women want and what they believe in are just as diverse and different as men @@khalidsamu

  • @zee-nq9ik
    @zee-nq9ik 4 роки тому +10

    "i myself can relate"
    them healing each other like that though my heart

  • @QueenRissa_34
    @QueenRissa_34 4 роки тому +1

    This was so beautiful! I really truly enjoyed every man’s story and you guys are so strong!!! Stay strong everyone....🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @PouryaBigonah
    @PouryaBigonah 5 років тому +2078

    I need to steal those balls of light, seems like an efficient way of making my guy friends open up.

  • @andregalvao5739
    @andregalvao5739 2 роки тому +1

    Everyone needs a hug sometimes. My friend lost his brother and father due to a traffic accident. There were no words to say, just came into the chapel and gave a hug to him. It was what he never asked, but always needed

  • @willmatthew4673
    @willmatthew4673 2 роки тому +2

    Seeing the brother love in this video just gives me this warm comforting feeling in my chest and stomach.

  • @sagarhabib4037
    @sagarhabib4037 4 роки тому +524

    Men needs care, attention, love, and empethy. It's important to look after our men too.

    • @petersayatshkin7454
      @petersayatshkin7454 4 роки тому +3

      true that. disciplining them and helping them to find responsibilities to adhere to and challenges to train there characters to would also be great.

    • @speakersr-lyefaudio6830
      @speakersr-lyefaudio6830 4 роки тому +5

      Peter Sayatshkin disciplining them fairly and in the same way you do a woman

    • @brush1448
      @brush1448 4 роки тому

      Jesus Christ you still drunk

  • @mattthedestroyer2804
    @mattthedestroyer2804 5 років тому +1068

    They must of picked out which guy would read which one, they all related.

    • @Tara-xx2lu
      @Tara-xx2lu 5 років тому +167

      Matt TheDestroyer 2 either that, or more men than most people realize actually go through these situations, making it more likely for them to relate to other traumas. Insecurity in men is much more common than many believe.

    • @jodie7951
      @jodie7951 5 років тому +52

      I think that way is better since they can give advice to each other or show them theyre not alone

    • @maddogmuncy467
      @maddogmuncy467 5 років тому +11

      Tara Hobbs ehhhh maybe not, did you notice that some of the men sitting in the chairs didn’t get to describe a secret? maybe Jubilee has hand picked their secretes they wanted to release along with the men’s opinions and relation to it?

    • @MrsSankta
      @MrsSankta 5 років тому +8

      or they picked themselfes

    • @mattthedestroyer2804
      @mattthedestroyer2804 5 років тому +2

      @@MrsSankta yeah that too

  • @bobertwhatzittuya601
    @bobertwhatzittuya601 3 роки тому +3

    Damn. I love man positive content. It makes me feel good and loved. There isn’t enough of it

  • @drewburke4343
    @drewburke4343 2 роки тому +2

    I was on the verge of tears watching how emotional and vulnerable these men were. Even though im comfortable crying watching these guys go thru that and stay dry eyed made me hold it back. But when the guy who talked about getting molested finished and everyone stood up, and lined up to hug him I absolutely lost it.

  • @anniezikianda9142
    @anniezikianda9142 5 років тому +248

    thank you for giving men the platform to able to voice their biggest insecurities and such, without judgement.

  • @sorryforwhat1528
    @sorryforwhat1528 4 роки тому +1038

    What’s sad is that this has over 2k dislikes

    • @maximusdossantos5947
      @maximusdossantos5947 4 роки тому +90

      ThatLiamo it’s the SJW’s

    • @cajunsphinxgaming1759
      @cajunsphinxgaming1759 4 роки тому +91

      Cuz in the diluted eyes of feminist men don't have struggles

    • @protenpinner
      @protenpinner 4 роки тому +43

      Because men revealing things that happened to them and emotions isn't liked by society

    • @truthseeker8200
      @truthseeker8200 4 роки тому +23

      @@maximusdossantos5947 @cartohead
      Or people who are against gays as it was mentioned in the video. Or people who believe that men should not be emotional or show their vulnerable side. Or it could be radical feminists. It could be a spectrum of people.

    • @DivineAtheistWannabe
      @DivineAtheistWannabe 4 роки тому +14

      @@cajunsphinxgaming1759 If men have struggles, it's because of the....surprise, surprise. You know it: the Patriarchy!

  • @firsttenor76
    @firsttenor76 3 роки тому +2

    Wow! Jubilee is putting out some deep content... I love that the company touches on things no one else wants to touch.

  • @chuluoyi
    @chuluoyi 3 роки тому +2

    What an amazingly vulnerable topic and incredible panel! Thanks Jubiilee.

  • @1976LFonseca
    @1976LFonseca 4 роки тому +320

    “The shame belongs to the abuser...”
    I like that line.
    It’s true but hard see when you’re on this side of the abuse/shame.

  • @shrexyeverafter
    @shrexyeverafter 5 років тому +1360

    i love how they included loads of different men ( trans, gay, all races) just wOw
    edit: thank you sm for the likes

    • @Munchausenification
      @Munchausenification 5 років тому +36

      I feel like its not that relevant for most men though. It speaks more to the minority.

    • @whiplash823
      @whiplash823 5 років тому +15

      who cares about that

    • @sarahsiajibckx770
      @sarahsiajibckx770 5 років тому +86

      i think its a huge disrespect towards the gay and straight men to put in transgenders, they cannot ride the same boat about feel not masculine enough, trnas people have the trans card to show why they dont have sex or why their voice is higher or why they act feminine. REAL men dont have that card

    • @rwhoosh1122
      @rwhoosh1122 5 років тому +2

      sokolowitch where is the trans one?

    • @dannyslemonade976
      @dannyslemonade976 5 років тому +53

      sarah siajibckx no, you see we have testosterone too. It’s just supplemented. I absolutely hate anyone knowing my birth sex since .... it’s the definition of invalidating my masculinity. I have gender dysphoria which makes me even more insecure in my masculinity. My feet are too small, I’m too short, my voice is still not deep enough ect. My family puts more pressure on me to look the part, to seem manly enough that they will respect my pronouns. It’s not easy, and we have similar struggles. (Id also recommend saying trans men as you didn’t say “the gays” about gay men)

  • @YupImNegus
    @YupImNegus 2 роки тому

    I loved this video. Thank you so much for this. I also wanna thank all the men who wrote down their secrets and all the meam who read them while also sharing their own experiences. I have so much love and respect for y'all! 🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕

  • @toothless2323
    @toothless2323 2 роки тому +10

    Don’t ever be with someone that won’t stand you crying. The truth of the matter is that we all cry and it’s a necessary thing. It’s also necessary to talk about our issues. If you are with someone important and you can’t fry in front of them, leave. You deserve someone that won’t judge you and also support you in your worst times

  • @Lukemasonmedia
    @Lukemasonmedia 5 років тому +348

    I wish as a man it was easier to talk about these things but in our society any sign of emotional distress is automatically seen as us being weak

    • @rwhoosh1122
      @rwhoosh1122 5 років тому +1

      Marrow Talk to a trusted person like a family

    • @rorisangpitswane3595
      @rorisangpitswane3595 5 років тому +13

      BEGONETHOT Tbh family never understand the way you want them or even need them to...

    • @Johnsrocknvinyl77
      @Johnsrocknvinyl77 5 років тому +13

      @@rwhoosh1122 Family minimized my issues too talking to family did not help. I told them of my depression countless times I actually tried to take my life fairly young in my life at about 14 years old and they still didn't take me seriously. Family can be useless and make me feel worse about my problems. That's what happens when you don't have supportive families.

    • @campbellholt1220
      @campbellholt1220 5 років тому +4

      It's hard man just find those who you trust you know sometimes a stranger on the internet can be good but just dont bottle it up I had someone I knew commit suicide recently and I don't want anyone to end up in that situation if in know them or not i mean it's just harder for us guys to talk about emotions anyway naturally but even if you dont realise it you have people who you can talk to just have to find the right ones

    • @rwhoosh1122
      @rwhoosh1122 5 років тому +4

      Johnsrocknvinyl77 I hope someone will understand you

  • @user-ed9bj2ms6c
    @user-ed9bj2ms6c 5 років тому +210

    the “I’m too scared to be who I am” really hit home, I’m always cautious of what I do because of how I raised, i often accidentally show my true emotions but realize I look very sensitive and weak, then suddenly my mind is scolding me for slipping and I try and go back to being “cold” or give out an insensitive exterior. it’s really tiring. I wish I could just be myself. I have talked about this with my male friends and a lot of them really relate, and I find that very sad.

    • @karolina12339
      @karolina12339 5 років тому +2

      hey, I can relate and Im really proud that you show your real deepest emotions. Imagine if you wouldn't do it at all and bottle it up the whole freaking time.. Take time to really think about the most important values for u, the purposes, and things that make u happy, things that u want to fight for. Find yourself and never be ashamed to express your real self. Good luck and love

    • @leonorpatrocinio4516
      @leonorpatrocinio4516 5 років тому +6

      As a woman, I feel sad that most guys feel that. All I can hope is for everyone to speak up to express what they really feel. I think vulnerability sometimes can be a beautiful thing.

    • @user-ed9bj2ms6c
      @user-ed9bj2ms6c 5 років тому

      yup that's me thanks man! (or woman) I really appreciate you taking the time to write this :)

    • @user-ed9bj2ms6c
      @user-ed9bj2ms6c 5 років тому +2

      Leonor M ..thank you❤️i hope as well these very toxic gender stereotypes will leave in the near future..

    • @user-ed9bj2ms6c
      @user-ed9bj2ms6c 5 років тому +1

      CesarChicken I understand where you’re coming from :/ I feel like if I tell someone how I feel they will not understand and silently judge..

  • @guywithbigwhitecock709
    @guywithbigwhitecock709 4 роки тому +25

    Somehow it feels like they're reading their own secrets.

  • @Tehui1974
    @Tehui1974 3 роки тому +11

    It's uncanny how they strongly they relate to each random secret they're reading out.

  • @wazapxd565
    @wazapxd565 5 років тому +355

    People really underestimate how hard being a guy can be. Both genders face struggles we just aren't in each others shoes so we can't see the other side

    • @yuhz1m1
      @yuhz1m1 5 років тому +7

      That's it in a nutshell.

    • @dualcitizenshipsenator6080
      @dualcitizenshipsenator6080 5 років тому +7

      It's objectively easier to be a woman. It's 100x harder to be male.

    • @choosei588
      @choosei588 5 років тому +21

      Dual Citizenship Senator
      There's nothing objective about it though. Male or female, we all face problems. Some more than others. If you take gender out of the equation, you'll find we're all more similar than we think. We just need to try to understand each other.

    • @kingassasin6031
      @kingassasin6031 5 років тому

      choosei male and female brains are completely different. So were more different than related

    • @phantom-xb6wv
      @phantom-xb6wv 5 років тому +5

      Both genders? Women are playing life on easy mode, while men are in nightmare difficulty, veteran if youre handsome.

  • @kingstonb8130
    @kingstonb8130 5 років тому +5785

    You should have women read men’s secrets as well. I feel like that would be really interesting.
    Edit: Thank you for all the likes! I just want to say, not all women are men-hating-only-I-have-problems kinda people. Lots of women are very compassionate, and some like me are all for men’s rights. These replies have lots of ‘nice guy’ types. Not everyone is a SJW tumblr snowflake. Thank you.

    • @Leobreacker
      @Leobreacker 5 років тому +182

      You're right, I'd be interested to see that.

    • @nelsongonzales1263
      @nelsongonzales1263 5 років тому +396

      YES and the Opposite as well, I feel like it will put into perspective that men and women share very similar struggles in life

    • @caelanrileyfriesen3659
      @caelanrileyfriesen3659 5 років тому +208

      I wanna see those radical feminist read these. I think it would be an eye opener that men aren't privileged and that we have our own struggles too.

    • @didds8869
      @didds8869 5 років тому +142

      @@caelanrileyfriesen3659 Just because we have struggles doesn't mean we aren't privileged. I absolutely see where you're coming from but there are a lot of negative experiences that women deal with that we generally don't have to worry about at all

    • @the1dbumblebee317
      @the1dbumblebee317 5 років тому +89

      ._. You are politically and religiously privileged. There are still countries in the world where baby girls are being murdered or where women are forced to have their vaginas stitched close so not men and women are not "equally" privileged. The fact that a lot of men struggle in life doesn't negate the fact that we live in a world that was built to accommodate men's desires.

  • @pn074
    @pn074 3 роки тому +1

    This was really powerful, thank you for producing content like this.

  • @awhiterose__
    @awhiterose__ 2 роки тому

    This was such a great video. When you go through trauma it changes your perspective on the world and make you feel isolated. But a video like this gives me hope that I can find someone who will relate to me and be patient with me and my fears.

  • @memebois4307
    @memebois4307 5 років тому +478

    This is super awesome! I think men's issues are always downplayed and/or ignored. Its really nice to see this type of content on here! Please keep this going!

    • @John_F_Kennedy79
      @John_F_Kennedy79 5 років тому

      dog days fr, jubilee is so important for today

  • @simonem.7385
    @simonem.7385 5 років тому +750

    You should never be ashamed that you are a virgin, man or woman! Take time to figure out who you want to do it with and when you want to do it so you can live life having 1 less regret. So many people rush losing their virginity because it's cool or whatever, then end up regretting doing it with that person or at that time. Love yourself enough by taking the time to understand what you really want!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @RealMcLovin
      @RealMcLovin 5 років тому +4

      NERD

    • @flareb99
      @flareb99 5 років тому +6

      After a while it's just about not feeling alone

    • @KingDayDayDay00
      @KingDayDayDay00 5 років тому +6

      It isnt about being cool. We all want to feel it because it is in our DNA. We need that affection and being deprived from it can really hurt

    • @sanna9062
      @sanna9062 5 років тому

      I wanted to do it with someone special and that special person has never come around - by special I simply mean someone who could return my feelings. At this point I'm considering just doing it with a one-night stand.

    • @edoardofedrighi2102
      @edoardofedrighi2102 5 років тому +4

      The problem is not being virgin but being unable to have relationships that leads to sex

  • @johnny_roots
    @johnny_roots 3 роки тому +2

    I think the feeling of helplessness is one of the hardest things to cope with. Not being able to reach out to others, or trying to and receiving shame or being ignored, and staying stuck by yourself in a painful situation can be devastating, becaue you see no way out.

  • @loka-chan6695
    @loka-chan6695 3 роки тому +21

    I have always had the mindset ”be like a man” ”don’t show emotions” ”be strong”. I’m a female

  • @donramonbalboa4797
    @donramonbalboa4797 4 роки тому +2089

    A guy should always have another male friend he trusts deeply to talk about his feelings and such since guys can relate to another guy better than females

    • @shapsugh1864
      @shapsugh1864 4 роки тому +149

      Yeah, but usually males do not care about other males feelings because they can barely hold their own and cope with them. It's sad but true.

    • @shapsugh1864
      @shapsugh1864 4 роки тому +55

      @antwinettec all my male "friends" ditched me, motherfuckers been studying with them since kindergarten. Men are as bad as women in some cases and this is one of the cases where they're the worst

    • @shapsugh1864
      @shapsugh1864 4 роки тому +6

      @av rmx a better judge... " I've been with them since kindergarten I'm 19 years old....

    • @tonystark4434
      @tonystark4434 4 роки тому +30

      CVG GAMING i’m gay, i get along better with females because i can relate to them better. not every guy is the same

    • @tonystark4434
      @tonystark4434 4 роки тому +46

      av rmx wow you have no education

  • @ditch9396
    @ditch9396 5 років тому +7840

    Secret: im a virgin
    First guy: yo same
    2nd Secret: im gay
    2nd guy: yo same
    3rd secret: im not strong enough
    3d guy: when i was 19

    • @jirenoboy
      @jirenoboy 5 років тому +69

      Diya RI legendary comment

    • @lilheba-8712
      @lilheba-8712 5 років тому +271

      I think they gave em secrets that close to their situations

    • @DistortedV12
      @DistortedV12 5 років тому +106

      4th guy: I was raped as well

    • @zaerrius6939
      @zaerrius6939 5 років тому +5

      @Legendary super Saiyan Broly definitely didn't get a nevermind

    • @culturednative5390
      @culturednative5390 5 років тому +5

      Their own stuff

  • @ashleemarie06
    @ashleemarie06 3 роки тому +1

    hearing these stories makes me wanna get all of them a long hug :/

  • @gaminecat5245
    @gaminecat5245 7 місяців тому +1

    This has been so touching 😢

  • @endiya.
    @endiya. 5 років тому +7045

    this is completely sad and heartbreaking, imagine all the men out in the world who have been taking advantage of and abused. As a woman, my heart goes out to each and every one of them. Because society is full of feminist who brings men down and wants to say "woman are better." When in reality I love seeing strong, emotional, loving men (its just so beautiful to me). Yea for all the woman out there take care of our men and for men out there take care of our women, please!!

    • @eliastamim2319
      @eliastamim2319 5 років тому +126

      Endiya Dacosta you are amazing!
      Thanks for the kind words.

    • @EliTheBMXER
      @EliTheBMXER 5 років тому +71

      Endiya Dacosta Thank you 🙌🏼

    • @elijahpelletier136
      @elijahpelletier136 5 років тому +206

      And its also super important to know that men with emotions aren't always feminine.

    • @astralisk
      @astralisk 5 років тому +83

      You’re so open minded, you’ve earned my respect

    • @wildavenue6171
      @wildavenue6171 5 років тому +38

      Thank you...