In the words of Johnny Depp, "If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second"
I met my wife on a dating website, we started talking in August 2016, I traveled to Hong Kong ( she was working there) in December, what an amazing woman, what an amazing place , traveled back there a year later, fast forward this December will be our 4th wedding anniversary, life is better with a Filipina…
Filipinos like many other cultures, each person is different, but I would say that the less experienced the lady is and especially if they're from the province, they may be hoping for a relationship because they tend to be more Conservative. Everyone should always remember that intimacy and especially intercourse is a spiritual experience no matter how shallow we try to make it, be careful, think before you act, and remember your partner in the situation
Well I had been talking to a Filipina for over a year and more some how she came across my profile on Facebook and she was sending me messages for a while and I was ignoring her and deleting her messages but she was persistent so I finally answered her messages and we started chatting this was 2013, 2015 I decided to visit the Philippines for vacation and to meet her that was the best year and birthday ever 👍🏾
If you went there not looking for a relationship, go to a bar, you can probably find what you are looking for. If you thought you could have a relationship, but just don't click, then tell them, get it over with so you can save yourself and her any further issues. Why would any man want 2 women, that's like giving your headache a headache.
@@Force1Com In my experience in the Philippines there are bar/party girls, and there are all the other women. Most normal single Filipinas wanted a relationship if I chatted to them and wanted to get married if we had one date. I was honest about being there for a short visit and not wanting anything serious. They were not taking no for an answer. I left the country in early March and had to block all of them. They were never going to stop trying. If you go there, be careful. In Calgary, most women do not want a relationship, they want money and fun, NSA.
@@Force1Com I have stopped trying in Calgary, I am retiring to the Philippines in Sept, we shall see. Initially I am going to stay single and explore on a motorbike.
You should be upfront before you sleep with any woman. Filapina are such beautiful people. I met my Filapina a year ago, we are in a LDR. She is a beautiful lady. When I went to see her she was more than willing to lay with me but I refused until we are together. Guys please respect the Filapinas they will cherish you goodness.
The thing is that you might be screwed in a lot of situations because you have limited rights in a foreign country and might have nobody truly to rely on if things turn bad. Don’t get into problematic situations or let them develop at all by rushing into things especially when people think you are swimming laps in money. Petite, I hope you are feeling better and things are good. You look more rested. 😊
Understood but I do trust to philipino people there. Very kind people and I can pretty much handle anything anyways I Don't have too much left in life except my country which I served a number of years ago. So I do have my country left so I don't think I can leave unless the girl came here that I guess would be a condition
I visited my Philippina after talking and falling in love with her. I wouldn’t want a future relationship with a person who is into one night stands. I need a relationship on a higher level than a physical level. E. M. Is the complete package. ❤
Having been married to a Phillipina for five years, in retrospect I would choose an AI Phillipina robot. More trustworthy, less expensive, and even less drama, lol. Trust me I am doing you guys a favor
Hi pette you are one of the most honest philpina I have ever seen you so down to earth with your channel God will see you through keep the faith and continue to be proud of where you live and your self because everyday is not going to be the same God bless you on your journey to success
Most important to clearly communicate your intentions from the very beginning. Assuming anything will create problems and hazards for the future of the relationship. You’re giving great info, and I like your style for your channel and communicating your thoughts and personality. ❤️🙏🙌
There’s a Filipino woman that comes into my job and we talk all the time and since we been talking she comes into the job a lot and I know she wants more but I know if we did anything she would be there all the time so I keep it cordial. Trouble at work I don’t need 😊
This is a EXCELLENT Video Breakdown. I like How you ALWAYS Keep it Real and Don't Sugarcoat Nothing and Answer the Audiences Questions with No Problem. Keep up the Great work Homegirl 👍👍👍 #PASSPORTGANG
When I was in Thailand there was a guy I worked with who lived the life of your Instagram followers, going to bars, picking up women, and asking them to move in with him immediately. He kept one for a couple of weeks and then decided he didn't like her. When he told her he wanted her to move out, she grabbed a huge butcher knife and held onto the blade with her bare hands with the handle facing him. He didn't want to get stabbed so he pulled the knife from her hands which cut her and caused significant bleeding. She then wiped her bleeding hands on every piece of clothing he owned. He came into work white as a ghost and told us the story. The point is that people have feelings, and they don't go away quietly in the circumstances you mentioned.
@@arnoldjohnson3317 When they think with little head, yes. Some said that you can take the bar girl out but you cant take bar out of the girl. It is very important for both women and men to think about the consequences. It is very important to guard ones heart. Look of lust has destroyed many families. You cant guard against to suddenly see an attractive person, but when you begin to fantasy about you fall prey of lust. It destroys souls.If you watch to many movies where it is cursing it will sooner or later come out of your mouth.
Thank you FP for the Question & Answer session Glad to see you are back on UA-cam you are truly a sweet & honest person thank you for the content and your honest opinion about Filipina women it is refreshing to watch real and truthful content stay Sweet and I will be waiting for your next video
I've chatted Filipinas who their female friends tried to make a play with me. The lady I was chatting with building a relationship had a sit down with her friend and the friend blocked me on social media. Yes the jealousy is real and if a western don't be careful an offended girlfriend could bring legal problems and physical problems. Especially if the offended party lost face.
We are lucky. We have our 3 kids mama sie to take care of and my Filipina tells her brothers we're not running a free hotel here😂😂😂. She's mean sometimes but she knows that her youngest brother will try to stay here for months and months. I'm a good foreigner and say nothing when it comes to her family. I have no problem with her mama living with us at all. She loves me and we get along great
I met my filipina online. She contacted me. She never offered sexy pictures and I never asked. I looked at her Facebook and her pictures. Always modest dressed and always shorts and shirt over bathing suit. I am a man that loves God and I’m not ashamed of that. She showed that by her profile and during our hundreds of hours of video chats. We’ve been married 3 years now. I am so happy with our relationship and marriage. My focus is to make her life enjoyable and her focus has been taking care of me. Traditional for both of us
Then people shouldn’t sleep with each other if they’re not ready for relationships. By sleeping with her, you’ve already spoiled it for another person who will take her seriously. Leave her pure for a real relationship.
I'm old school and believe in making sure you're devoted to each other before you go all in, but still I've been let down with 2 marriages, I still hold onto hope and dreams though. I saw you wearing a ring in one of your videos, did you get married?
I have never been with a Filipina before, but my general rule, which I try to stick to as much as possible, is to lay my cards on the table BEFORE I get intimate with a woman, and I have lost count of how many times I have said I was not ready for a relationship, so if we proceed, there is NO commitment being suggested, let alone offered on my part, only to have the woman feel hurt when I remind them later of what I made VERY clear from the beginning. Not always, but often enough. Considering the cultural differences between North America and the Philippines however, I would be MUCH more reluctant to become intimate with a Filipina until I had a chance to get to know her as much as possible long before becoming sexually intimate with her, and also for the sake of being responsible for her family "Losing Face", I would also hold off on meeting her family as well. But that's just me. There is no shortage of tantalizing "Westernized girls" just looking for a fun time if that's what you're looking for. Seriously. Patience and honesty.
This was also my approach. I was 25, single, upfront that I wasn't looking to instantly be married or anything. World was my oyster... It definitely is weird that they will introduce every stranger to whole family. I have met dads before I even knew the girl's whole name. I don't think I would mind that if I had a daughter. I could filter for her and I do understand dudes better.
Be careful of the girl that does NOT want to introduce you to the family. Many times its because she is trying to hide you for a reason. Maybe she's getting a few extra pesos from you on the side, and it doesn't take much to make a huge difference in someones life. Maybe she doesn't want to lose face in front of her family when you realize she's been taking advantage of you.
As for the last question, the fact that he wants to bring a second prospective girlfriend means he is not loyal to the one he has. If he can't bring her home, he'll just go to her home, or a hotel or wherever . . . I personally think she should cut her losses and leave, unless he's just testing her of course, although that's not a smart way to go about testing a girlfriend, OR a boyfriend for that matter.
People should know better than that. If you’re sleeping with someone in any country, there’s generally an assumption that it’s part of a growing relationship.
If she stays and trying to get adopted,than the cousin stays pass 2 weeks, she's getting adopted also. We can just live happy together or somebody has to leave.
I always love your videos your so sweet and caring about your subjects you discuss and so wonderfully honest and in my opinion your a very sweet beautiful woman I truly hope one day you'll find a man who is worthy of you and you find a life long love of your own .you have a wonderful family and a awesome child. Respectfully your friend Robert from Virginia God bless ❤
I would suggest telling her that you would like to slow down if there is some potential. Make sure she isn't going to go stabby stabby if you break her heart. Just remember you did this to yourself. If you want a 1 night stand. Let Asian girls know up front.
The problem is if a woman has a 1 night stand she doesnt come off as a wholesome and trustworthy monogamous person. Its a red flag. People shouldnt be sleeping together until after there is a romantic connection and there are possibilities of a future, and they have talked and agreed that those are their intentions. And im not only putting blame on the woman, its both persons responsibility.
Back in the day, sleeping with a person, before mqrriage, was considered as taboo, and so disrespectful not only to the person you sleep with, but to their entirely family. Nowaydays, the whole society went upside down and this creates a lot of dramas and suffering. We must understand that it is wrong to be very intimate and then decide to go away.
It has been my experience that, after chatting with a Filipina a couple of times, they consider themselves your girlfriend,. Maybe others have had a different experience than I have.
This is true but it is also incredibly fleeting. So they don't truly believe it. I think they just operate on extreme disney hopium sometimes :) My gf was jealous of other women when we weren't serious and I just flat told her she didn't have any right to act that way. To demand my time, attention or anything. I would push her back over and over until one day she won... lol
Yes they go straight to gf after you say "Hi" with them. I just told one that I'm not your bf and to go talk to other men. They still try hard though sending pics and the such. I find their mentality fascinating.
@@gregbeck7276 No need to be too harsh on them. It's an EQ thing and the younger people are the lower it is. I've never not been able to shut it down with a short calm conversation. if she doesn't listen you dodged a mess xD. Filipinas are more willing to listen. I'd argue wiser in general due to how they live so close with family. Also if you're headed to 30 with no relationship experience your emotional smarts around that are going to be stunted compared to women in the west. It's not across the board but it is a thing.
@@Nocare89 I'm not trying to be harsh on them and the lady in question is 45 yrs old and I'm 59 so she's not young and she works in cebu city so she works good. It's just that my experience online is that they tend to try and latch onto you really quickly. I think the best thing is to go over there to make contact rather than just online. What do you think? Have you or are you living over there? Lastly I think filipina women are the best...
@gregbeck7276 Oh, sorry if I misinterpreted. I was noticing some not great comments around this channel. I definitely was young and inexperienced meeting my gf. My measuring stick may be flawed. Even now though, meeting a woman here, they feel cold, defensive and are often manipulative. So for me, running into a bunch of women trying to make a claim was awesome. I had my rule of not being serious and stood my ground. I also was more in tune with the whole thing of being younger and every crush is the love of your life for a solid 5 minutes. I was past it but aware of it. I went there to meet my gf in the Metro Manilla area. I stayed in her home and I slept in her bed which was 3/4 of a twin bed, in her room which was 5/4 as wide as a twin bed. If I forgot and put my hands on the wall as I climbed the 50-degree stairs I was absolutely mauled by fire ants. I rapped with her brothers, drank with her dad and his chickens and I had a cock roach scream at me on the roof. The entire building was smaller than my room at home, but 3 stories. This is a family that is not the poorest family on their street but only barely above average. So I went there to get a full deep dive on how people live by just doing the same. I probably have some kind of a record for LDR. I've actually had this in my head recently. I know your generation tends to have a view on LDR. Even I was against them going into one lmao. so here goes: When you are physically hanging out with a woman what do you do? Well do you things together. A fair bit is talking, but that can be drowned out by the doing. When your relationship revolves entirely around voice and video calls its hard to do anything other than talk. And trust is a massive issue to contend with in an LDR. You would have to compromise on some things you never would here. So my opinion on LDR is if you can succeed at it you'll have one of the strongest relationships. Open personality types would never need that to be strong. However, overall, entering an LDR is setting up for some emotionally hard times on both ends. It doesn't really matter if you met them online or in person first. The ability to pop in and physically meet a person early in talking is simply really helpful. If it was my dad I'd say dude, just buy a plane ticket. Do research and protect yourself and money, but just go. They are truly lovely. The food is also fantastic. I grew up on it hehe.
I'm old enough to remember, back in the 60's they called it "free love"! These days the women are thinking like the men do. Just go out have a good time. Maybe we will have a relationship.
3:08 - *Two months is WAY too soon to declare an exclusive relationship.* You don't even see someone's true colors until at least six months have passed.
magandang gabi po, if a woman is easy she wont be worth it, if she's worth it, she won't be easy. I'm not interested in a "sampler platter" I know what Im looking for and will recognize her vibe
I can say I did sleep with my Bisayan girlfriend after almost two years of LDR. Our communication over those years was great. I would say she is one as I told her in no uncertain terms I want a family, despite our 30 years difference in age. I'm absolutely crazy about her.
Thank you for the topics. I never understood guys that "juggle" multiple women. If I didn't like the current one, why would I want to poison the lives of two women? Quality, not quantity in life is the measuring stick.
In the west you can be friends with benefits without money involved but in the Philippines you can have a friend with benefits but only if the man supplies lots of cash. If you are messing with a province girl, remember she has learned how to skillfully use a machete and various knives as a young child. She is more than capable of removing your banana or balls if you make her mad, and in the Philippines would likely get away with it. For a western man it really hurts when you find out your Filipina expects to spend lots of time with her family instead of you and you are also expected to cough up pesos for family accidents, education, illness, medications, etc. etc. Even weddings and funerals. Filipinas are not cheap or free by any means. Expect the unexpected. Some Filipinas have more cousins than they can count and some of them are like sisters to each other. That scenario leads to all kinds of money being required for a long list of unforeseen events. Extended family in the Philippines really means extended, and some of them are lazy and looking for loans which are really gifts. If you are overly generous, kind hearted, and struggle to say no, you will be in deep trouble.
I am a Vietnam Veteran,and have never been to your Country but,have heard many times about the quality,of relations with a Philppina woman! I think,I may be interested in trying a marital relationship with a quality lady! I am a black man,and not certain,how the relationship/experiences are with my race? I am loking for a woman,with the possibilty of starting a family! She must be "attractive" with a -Good Lifestyle & Background- Thank You😊!
It takes me a while to get intimate with a woman, I have to like her a lot and "have water flowing under the bridge". To me, intimacy is the solidification of the relationship.
Luv you say it as it is and I truly appreciate how you say it as it is. Agree with everything you say, I'm like any other guy yes I enjoy the imtimacy butI want a relationship above anything else.
"One night stand" is such a disgusting concept. Human beings are not material consumables, and intimacy is supposed to mean something; in a healthy adult it's the physical continuation of having built feelings towards another human being as a whole. But these days, more and more people are acting out their bonding disorders and having their prior traumas drive their life, trying to legitimize these things by assigning labels to them. It's understandable if one is unsure if they want to be with someone for years, or to marry someone, but if they wish them to disappear the next day... then why would they want to get intimate with them, unless they dehumanize them, don't even acknowledge them as a person, but treat them as a sack of meat to ejaculate into?
A woman, Filipina, Latina, American, etc.............a woman dates a man, they have a great time together and it does not have to cost a pretty penny. They go dancing so they both have the opportunity to be close. At the end of the evening she thanks him and he asks her out for a second date and she accepts. She puts her arms around him and he follows and makes her feel special. For some reason texting works magic inbetween dates. Second date and things are still going great. This time she thanks him and she is confident enough to give him a tender kiss on the lips. She asks him out for the third date and will cook for him at her place and there is no need for him to bring anything. The critical third date. They have chemistry and both have been able to comfortably flirt. He has been the gentleman she hoped he would be. Date one and two have given her the opportunity to convery to him that his wait will be worth it................they take it from there.
The young lady is either in business or she is looking for a relationship. She will be happy to show you which she is doing. Just watch her behavior. Be careful about a woman's looks. If she is pretty enough. If she is the type that you like to wake up and do things with and be proud of. Because if she wants you she is very likely going to get you so if she does get you better if sdhe is one you would be happy with for years.
I've heard a few expats on UA-cam say you don't even have to sleep with a Filipina for her to think it's a relationship. All you have to do is go on one date to dinner or a club dancing and that's enough for the Filipina to assume she is your GF. I've even heard they will tell you they LOVE you on the first date! It's like a fast food drive-though where you get instant food. But in this case it's an instant GF and you might not even realize it.
Love your channel I'm in the USA gonna try move to northern Mariana islands Saipan then I'm 5hour flight to the Philippines alot Filipino ofw in saipan you ever heard of it keep up the good work have great day 3:42
Hello Petite. I have been talking to my PH woman for two months and I am flying out from the Uk to meet her in a month. We have done many video calls, I have chatted to her 16 year old son, her mother, her cousins and I've had a virtual tour of where she lives. I can't find a red flag anywhere and she's never asked me for anything. I'll be staying in a hotel about 20 mins drive from her home, she says that she wants to stay with me at the hotel. I am very flattered, I'm 60 and she is 40. I'm very keen on her and I'm a bit different from some guys, I want the constant companionship, the constant touching and the clingy stuff. I can be a hopeless romantic once someone makes it through my thick skin of life. I would appreciate your thoughts on all of this. Every time we talk I am asked if I have slept properly, have I eaten, all sorts of questions. She sounds like just who I'm looking for.
I'd love for you to talk about the philippine adultery law. I just had to break up with a great love due to this law. A woman can be charged with adultery if she gets into a relationship while separated from her ex?? However, that law doesn't apply to the husband?? This is nuts!
In the words of Johnny Depp, "If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second"
Live with both.
In more word of Johnny Depp, "stay away from women that poops in your bed".
I met my wife on a dating website, we started talking in August 2016, I traveled to Hong Kong ( she was working there) in December, what an amazing woman, what an amazing place , traveled back there a year later, fast forward this December will be our 4th wedding anniversary, life is better with a Filipina…
🤔 so you met your filipina wife in Hong kong China republic and not the Philippines
@@thebigmann81 yes, and what’s your point?
Oh yeah, my friends that are all married to western men met their spouses while we worked in Middle East.
(raised hand) Bahrain in the 80s.
Life is not always better with a Filipina marriage can go south in any country it happens all the time in Philippines
Filipinos like many other cultures, each person is different, but I would say that the less experienced the lady is and especially if they're from the province, they may be hoping for a relationship because they tend to be more Conservative. Everyone should always remember that intimacy and especially intercourse is a spiritual experience no matter how shallow we try to make it, be careful, think before you act, and remember your partner in the situation
Thanks for those wonderful words! You are a nice guy, not being selfish.
Well I had been talking to a Filipina for over a year and more some how she came across my profile on Facebook and she was sending me messages for a while and I was ignoring her and deleting her messages but she was persistent so I finally answered her messages and we started chatting this was 2013, 2015 I decided to visit the Philippines for vacation and to meet her that was the best year and birthday ever 👍🏾
If you went there not looking for a relationship, go to a bar, you can probably find what you are looking for. If you thought you could have a relationship, but just don't click, then tell them, get it over with so you can save yourself and her any further issues. Why would any man want 2 women, that's like giving your headache a headache.
Man what's up with all these girls sleeping with guys and not even having a relationship. Is that just normal now?
Should I just stop trying to commit to anyone? I mean it doesn't even seem necessary
@@Force1Com In my experience in the Philippines there are bar/party girls, and there are all the other women. Most normal single Filipinas wanted a relationship if I chatted to them and wanted to get married if we had one date. I was honest about being there for a short visit and not wanting anything serious. They were not taking no for an answer. I left the country in early March and had to block all of them. They were never going to stop trying. If you go there, be careful. In Calgary, most women do not want a relationship, they want money and fun, NSA.
@@Force1Com I have stopped trying in Calgary, I am retiring to the Philippines in Sept, we shall see. Initially I am going to stay single and explore on a motorbike.
@@Force1Com In a word, "Yes!"
I won't sleep with someone unless I want to be with them
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You should be upfront before you sleep with any woman. Filapina are such beautiful people. I met my Filapina a year ago, we are in a LDR. She is a beautiful lady. When I went to see her she was more than willing to lay with me but I refused until we are together. Guys please respect the Filapinas they will cherish you goodness.
It's okay she's with me now until you decide you want too...😂
@@unique1_4u wow what a classless punk. She wouldn’t give you the time of day,
A true gentleman.
The thing is that you might be screwed in a lot of situations because you have limited rights in a foreign country and might have nobody truly to rely on if things turn bad. Don’t get into problematic situations or let them develop at all by rushing into things especially when people think you are swimming laps in money.
Petite, I hope you are feeling better and things are good. You look more rested. 😊
Understood but I do trust to philipino people there. Very kind people and I can pretty much handle anything anyways I Don't have too much left in life except my country which I served a number of years ago. So I do have my country left so I don't think I can leave unless the girl came here that I guess would be a condition
I visited my Philippina after talking and falling in love with her. I wouldn’t want a future relationship with a person who is into one night stands. I need a relationship on a higher level than a physical level. E. M. Is the complete package. ❤
thank you again for opening up about life in philippine
Having been married to a Phillipina for five years, in retrospect I would choose an AI Phillipina robot. More trustworthy, less expensive, and even less drama, lol. Trust me I am doing you guys a favor
Hi pette you are one of the most honest philpina I have ever seen you so down to earth with your channel God will see you through keep the faith and continue to be proud of where you live and your self because everyday is not going to be the same God bless you on your journey to success
Most important to clearly communicate your intentions from the very beginning. Assuming anything will create problems and hazards for the future of the relationship. You’re giving great info, and I like your style for your channel and communicating your thoughts and personality. ❤️🙏🙌
Good response to the questions. I agree with all the advice you gave on this video.
There’s a Filipino woman that comes into my job and we talk all the time and since we been talking she comes into the job a lot and I know she wants more but I know if we did anything she would be there all the time so I keep it cordial. Trouble at work I don’t need 😊
Very informative and always watching from Papua New Guinea 🇵🇬.
Awesome! Thank you!
This is a EXCELLENT Video Breakdown. I like How you ALWAYS Keep it Real and Don't Sugarcoat Nothing and Answer the Audiences Questions with No Problem. Keep up the Great work Homegirl 👍👍👍 #PASSPORTGANG
Very excellent approach to making videos. Answering the tough questions.
When I was in Thailand there was a guy I worked with who lived the life of your Instagram followers, going to bars, picking up women, and asking them to move in with him immediately. He kept one for a couple of weeks and then decided he didn't like her. When he told her he wanted her to move out, she grabbed a huge butcher knife and held onto the blade with her bare hands with the handle facing him. He didn't want to get stabbed so he pulled the knife from her hands which cut her and caused significant bleeding. She then wiped her bleeding hands on every piece of clothing he owned. He came into work white as a ghost and told us the story. The point is that people have feelings, and they don't go away quietly in the circumstances you mentioned.
Thanks for sharing.
And this is why you should have security cameras in your home.
@@neilis2405 I think it is best to be prepared than sorry later, thank you.
Men can be stupid. The moving in of bar girls just crazy. Moving in non professionals is just plain mean.
@@arnoldjohnson3317 When they think with little head, yes. Some said that you can take the bar girl out but you cant take bar out of the girl. It is very important for both women and men to think about the consequences. It is very important to guard ones heart. Look of lust has destroyed many families. You cant guard against to suddenly see an attractive person, but when you begin to fantasy about you fall prey of lust. It destroys souls.If you watch to many movies where it is cursing it will sooner or later come out of your mouth.
Well said P. you have revealed the truth !
Honesty is best policy IMO.
Honest is best policy in any relationship not just a filipina
Love your place looks cozy 💕
Nice to see you again Petite. And you are looking a lot happier so something has worked for you. XX
You seems to be a very good person. I wish to met Filipina like You.
Thanks for the question and answer video 👍
Thank you FP for the Question & Answer session Glad to see you are back on UA-cam you are truly a sweet & honest person thank you for the content and your honest opinion about Filipina women it is refreshing to watch real and truthful content stay Sweet and I will be waiting for your next video
I've chatted Filipinas who their female friends tried to make a play with me. The lady I was chatting with building a relationship had a sit down with her friend and the friend blocked me on social media. Yes the jealousy is real and if a western don't be careful an offended girlfriend could bring legal problems and physical problems. Especially if the offended party lost face.
As always you have great views on everything! You have such a beautiful home . Many Blessings 🙏
We are lucky. We have our 3 kids mama sie to take care of and my Filipina tells her brothers we're not running a free hotel here😂😂😂. She's mean sometimes but she knows that her youngest brother will try to stay here for months and months. I'm a good foreigner and say nothing when it comes to her family. I have no problem with her mama living with us at all. She loves me and we get along great
Great information! Thank you.
Really good for sharing...see u in another video... regards.
A real relationship is what I'm hoping for ❤
I met my filipina online. She contacted me. She never offered sexy pictures and I never asked. I looked at her Facebook and her pictures. Always modest dressed and always shorts and shirt over bathing suit. I am a man that loves God and I’m not ashamed of that. She showed that by her profile and during our hundreds of hours of video chats. We’ve been married 3 years now. I am so happy with our relationship and marriage. My focus is to make her life enjoyable and her focus has been taking care of me. Traditional for both of us
Then people shouldn’t sleep with each other if they’re not ready for relationships. By sleeping with her, you’ve already spoiled it for another person who will take her seriously. Leave her pure for a real relationship.
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And what world do you live in Disneyland or fantasy glades 😂 !
I'm old school and believe in making sure you're devoted to each other before you go all in, but still I've been let down with 2 marriages, I still hold onto hope and dreams though. I saw you wearing a ring in one of your videos, did you get married?
If she expects a relationship, then expect even more boom boom.
Ive been with my philipina for 4 years and yes i want a serious relationship period
Thanks for all your contents ❤❤❤❤
Happy Mothers Day
Thank you Lovies ❤️
I have never been with a Filipina before, but my general rule, which I try to stick to as much as possible, is to lay my cards on the table BEFORE I get intimate with a woman, and I have lost count of how many times I have said I was not ready for a relationship, so if we proceed, there is NO commitment being suggested, let alone offered on my part, only to have the woman feel hurt when I remind them later of what I made VERY clear from the beginning. Not always, but often enough.
Considering the cultural differences between North America and the Philippines however, I would be MUCH more reluctant to become intimate with a Filipina until I had a chance to get to know her as much as possible long before becoming sexually intimate with her, and also for the sake of being responsible for her family "Losing Face", I would also hold off on meeting her family as well.
But that's just me.
There is no shortage of tantalizing "Westernized girls" just looking for a fun time if that's what you're looking for. Seriously. Patience and honesty.
This was also my approach. I was 25, single, upfront that I wasn't looking to instantly be married or anything. World was my oyster...
It definitely is weird that they will introduce every stranger to whole family. I have met dads before I even knew the girl's whole name. I don't think I would mind that if I had a daughter. I could filter for her and I do understand dudes better.
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Be careful of the girl that does NOT want to introduce you to the family. Many times its because she is trying to hide you for a reason. Maybe she's getting a few extra pesos from you on the side, and it doesn't take much to make a huge difference in someones life. Maybe she doesn't want to lose face in front of her family when you realize she's been taking advantage of you.
Nice 24 thousand subs. Keep up the good content cutie
As for the last question, the fact that he wants to bring a second prospective girlfriend means he is not loyal to the one he has. If he can't bring her home, he'll just go to her home, or a hotel or wherever . . . I personally think she should cut her losses and leave, unless he's just testing her of course, although that's not a smart way to go about testing a girlfriend, OR a boyfriend for that matter.
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People should know better than that. If you’re sleeping with someone in any country, there’s generally an assumption that it’s part of a growing relationship.
First off love that Gorgeous smile, I enjoy your content keep up the enjoyable videos
Thank you so much 🤗
If she stays and trying to get adopted,than the cousin stays pass 2 weeks, she's getting adopted also. We can just live happy together or somebody has to leave.
I always love your videos your so sweet and caring about your subjects you discuss and so wonderfully honest and in my opinion your a very sweet beautiful woman I truly hope one day you'll find a man who is worthy of you and you find a life long love of your own .you have a wonderful family and a awesome child. Respectfully your friend Robert from Virginia God bless ❤
Just stop sleeping with the Philippinas it's so obvious these guys don't respect women
Good video
Thanks!
Thank you, You gorgeous. Excellent video.
Thank you.
Been married to my phillipina for 32 years
warning to all men who think they can bounce around like a butterfly you may lose your little friend
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I would suggest telling her that you would like to slow down if there is some potential. Make sure she isn't going to go stabby stabby if you break her heart. Just remember you did this to yourself. If you want a 1 night stand. Let Asian girls know up front.
Yes it is possible. And it has worked for me.
The problem is if a woman has a 1 night stand she doesnt come off as a wholesome and trustworthy monogamous person. Its a red flag. People shouldnt be sleeping together until after there is a romantic connection and there are possibilities of a future, and they have talked and agreed that those are their intentions. And im not only putting blame on the woman, its both persons responsibility.
Back in the day, sleeping with a person, before mqrriage, was considered as taboo, and so disrespectful not only to the person you sleep with, but to their entirely family. Nowaydays, the whole society went upside down and this creates a lot of dramas and suffering. We must understand that it is wrong to be very intimate and then decide to go away.
It has been my experience that, after chatting with a Filipina a couple of times, they consider themselves your girlfriend,. Maybe others have had a different experience than I have.
This is true but it is also incredibly fleeting. So they don't truly believe it. I think they just operate on extreme disney hopium sometimes :)
My gf was jealous of other women when we weren't serious and I just flat told her she didn't have any right to act that way. To demand my time, attention or anything.
I would push her back over and over until one day she won... lol
Yes they go straight to gf after you say "Hi" with them. I just told one that I'm not your bf and to go talk to other men. They still try hard though sending pics and the such. I find their mentality fascinating.
@@gregbeck7276 No need to be too harsh on them. It's an EQ thing and the younger people are the lower it is. I've never not been able to shut it down with a short calm conversation. if she doesn't listen you dodged a mess xD. Filipinas are more willing to listen. I'd argue wiser in general due to how they live so close with family.
Also if you're headed to 30 with no relationship experience your emotional smarts around that are going to be stunted compared to women in the west. It's not across the board but it is a thing.
@@Nocare89 I'm not trying to be harsh on them and the lady in question is 45 yrs old and I'm 59 so she's not young and she works in cebu city so she works good. It's just that my experience online is that they tend to try and latch onto you really quickly. I think the best thing is to go over there to make contact rather than just online. What do you think? Have you or are you living over there? Lastly I think filipina women are the best...
@gregbeck7276 Oh, sorry if I misinterpreted. I was noticing some not great comments around this channel.
I definitely was young and inexperienced meeting my gf. My measuring stick may be flawed. Even now though, meeting a woman here, they feel cold, defensive and are often manipulative. So for me, running into a bunch of women trying to make a claim was awesome. I had my rule of not being serious and stood my ground. I also was more in tune with the whole thing of being younger and every crush is the love of your life for a solid 5 minutes. I was past it but aware of it.
I went there to meet my gf in the Metro Manilla area. I stayed in her home and I slept in her bed which was 3/4 of a twin bed, in her room which was 5/4 as wide as a twin bed. If I forgot and put my hands on the wall as I climbed the 50-degree stairs I was absolutely mauled by fire ants. I rapped with her brothers, drank with her dad and his chickens and I had a cock roach scream at me on the roof. The entire building was smaller than my room at home, but 3 stories. This is a family that is not the poorest family on their street but only barely above average. So I went there to get a full deep dive on how people live by just doing the same.
I probably have some kind of a record for LDR. I've actually had this in my head recently. I know your generation tends to have a view on LDR. Even I was against them going into one lmao. so here goes:
When you are physically hanging out with a woman what do you do?
Well do you things together. A fair bit is talking, but that can be drowned out by the doing.
When your relationship revolves entirely around voice and video calls its hard to do anything other than talk. And trust is a massive issue to contend with in an LDR. You would have to compromise on some things you never would here.
So my opinion on LDR is if you can succeed at it you'll have one of the strongest relationships. Open personality types would never need that to be strong. However, overall, entering an LDR is setting up for some emotionally hard times on both ends. It doesn't really matter if you met them online or in person first. The ability to pop in and physically meet a person early in talking is simply really helpful. If it was my dad I'd say dude, just buy a plane ticket. Do research and protect yourself and money, but just go.
They are truly lovely. The food is also fantastic. I grew up on it hehe.
I like your presentation and comments you made today. am also looking for a Filipino girls
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Bring it on 😃
We love your videos Miss Petite❤my Filipina and I say you're so beautiful
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Honesty is the best policy.
That's why people used to "hook-up culture" shouldn't expect or force it on others from a different culture
I'm old enough to remember, back in the 60's they called it "free love"! These days the women are thinking like the men do. Just go out have a good time. Maybe we will have a relationship.
3:08 - *Two months is WAY too soon to declare an exclusive relationship.* You don't even see someone's true colors until at least six months have passed.
wow nice topic, new subscriber here
Thank you so much.
I must say, even if it doesn't sound good, that those subscribers of you asking those questions are... very low quality men. Let's leave it at that.
magandang gabi po, if a woman is easy she wont be worth it, if she's worth it, she won't be easy. I'm not interested in a "sampler platter" I know what Im looking for and will recognize her vibe
Great insights Petite. I just finished my trip to Thailand and hopefully someday I will be able to visit PI.
Rica. Can we meet and then see what happens? 🇺🇸🇵🇭❤️
I can say I did sleep with my Bisayan girlfriend after almost two years of LDR. Our communication over those years was great. I would say she is one as I told her in no uncertain terms I want a family, despite our 30 years difference in age. I'm absolutely crazy about her.
Awwwwww your daughter is so cute….
Thank you for the topics. I never understood guys that "juggle" multiple women. If I didn't like the current one, why would I want to poison the lives of two women? Quality, not quantity in life is the measuring stick.
I agree, why waste time spinning plates?
Because spinning plates is entertaining 👻
@@Shaolin91z To each their own. Not my cup of tea.
@@Shaolin91z dont be mad when you are in constant rotations with women. It works both ways mate.
Sounds like it's best to rip the band aid off as early and quickly as possible.
In the west you can be friends with benefits without money involved but in the Philippines you can have a friend with benefits but only if the man supplies lots of cash. If you are messing with a province girl, remember she has learned how to skillfully use a machete and various knives as a young child. She is more than capable of removing your banana or balls if you make her mad, and in the Philippines would likely get away with it. For a western man it really hurts when you find out your Filipina expects to spend lots of time with her family instead of you and you are also expected to cough up pesos for family accidents, education, illness, medications, etc. etc. Even weddings and funerals. Filipinas are not cheap or free by any means. Expect the unexpected. Some Filipinas have more cousins than they can count and some of them are like sisters to each other. That scenario leads to all kinds of money being required for a long list of unforeseen events. Extended family in the Philippines really means extended, and some of them are lazy and looking for loans which are really gifts. If you are overly generous, kind hearted, and struggle to say no, you will be in deep trouble.
A spineless fool and his money are soon parted, no matter where he lives in the world.
I am a Vietnam Veteran,and have never been to your Country but,have heard many times about the quality,of relations with a Philppina woman! I think,I may be interested in trying a marital relationship with a quality lady! I am a black man,and not certain,how the relationship/experiences are with my race? I am loking for a woman,with the possibilty of starting a family! She must be "attractive" with a -Good Lifestyle & Background- Thank You😊!
It takes me a while to get intimate with a woman, I have to like her a lot and "have water flowing under the bridge". To me, intimacy is the solidification of the relationship.
Luv you say it as it is and I truly appreciate how you say it as it is. Agree with everything you say, I'm like any other guy yes I enjoy the imtimacy butI want a relationship above anything else.
What do you mean by you’re a seller in your description?
I sell goods in the market.Thanks Lovies.
"One night stand" is such a disgusting concept. Human beings are not material consumables, and intimacy is supposed to mean something; in a healthy adult it's the physical continuation of having built feelings towards another human being as a whole. But these days, more and more people are acting out their bonding disorders and having their prior traumas drive their life, trying to legitimize these things by assigning labels to them.
It's understandable if one is unsure if they want to be with someone for years, or to marry someone, but if they wish them to disappear the next day... then why would they want to get intimate with them, unless they dehumanize them, don't even acknowledge them as a person, but treat them as a sack of meat to ejaculate into?
Question I am going to Cebu and staying at someone’s home. So no hotel how much money should I bring?
A woman, Filipina, Latina, American, etc.............a woman dates a man, they have a great time together and it does not have to cost a pretty penny. They go dancing so they both have the opportunity to be close. At the end of the evening she thanks him and he asks her out for a second date and she accepts. She puts her arms around him and he follows and makes her feel special. For some reason texting works magic inbetween dates. Second date and things are still going great. This time she thanks him and she is confident enough to give him a tender kiss on the lips. She asks him out for the third date and will cook for him at her place and there is no need for him to bring anything. The critical third date. They have chemistry and both have been able to comfortably flirt. He has been the gentleman she hoped he would be. Date one and two have given her the opportunity to convery to him that his wait will be worth it................they take it from there.
One men one woman is what I believe
The young lady is either in business or she is looking for a relationship. She will be happy to show you which she is doing. Just watch her behavior. Be careful about a woman's looks. If she is pretty enough. If she is the type that you like to wake up and do things with and be proud of. Because if she wants you she is very likely going to get you so if she does get you better if sdhe is one you would be happy with for years.
I used a friend's referral and yes
I've heard a few expats on UA-cam say you don't even have to sleep with a Filipina for her to think it's a relationship. All you have to do is go on one date to dinner or a club dancing and that's enough for the Filipina to assume she is your GF. I've even heard they will tell you they LOVE you on the first date! It's like a fast food drive-though where you get instant food. But in this case it's an instant GF and you might not even realize it.
Oh nooo..
Thank you for an awesome video. Communication between couples is the most valuable thing. I only need one lady.
Rather have a southeast pacific islander. Dolly
Love your channel I'm in the USA gonna try move to northern Mariana islands Saipan then I'm 5hour flight to the Philippines alot Filipino ofw in saipan you ever heard of it keep up the good work have great day 3:42
Nice house😊
Most of these letters are from players not people looking for girlfriends.
Are you in Zamboanga city
Hello Petite. I have been talking to my PH woman for two months and I am flying out from the Uk to meet her in a month.
We have done many video calls, I have chatted to her 16 year old son, her mother, her cousins and I've had a virtual tour of where she lives.
I can't find a red flag anywhere and she's never asked me for anything. I'll be staying in a hotel about 20 mins drive from her home, she says that she wants to stay with me at the hotel.
I am very flattered, I'm 60 and she is 40. I'm very keen on her and I'm a bit different from some guys, I want the constant companionship, the constant touching and the clingy stuff. I can be a hopeless romantic once someone makes it through my thick skin of life.
I would appreciate your thoughts on all of this. Every time we talk I am asked if I have slept properly, have I eaten, all sorts of questions.
She sounds like just who I'm looking for.
Just found your channel! New sub! Awesome advice.
Lovies, welcome in my small house. 🙂
@@FilipinaPetite1990 Thank you. It's a lovely house!
@@MusicGodReacts Thank you, thank you 😊
I'd love for you to talk about the philippine adultery law. I just had to break up with a great love due to this law. A woman can be charged with adultery if she gets into a relationship while separated from her ex?? However, that law doesn't apply to the husband?? This is nuts!
Should not be a problem if tell her up front you are a playboy
If can't have kids tell her upfront
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Hi love your videos what are good chat sites to meet nice ladies like yourself. Thanks from uk
Tell the girl you are butterfly I met my asawa 18 years ago and she was my soulmate I was butterfly before
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These guys know what they are doing. Just silly!