As someone who has been visiting the Philippines since 1989 and who was married to a Filipina here's my 2 Pesos worth: Many, not all, Filipino men lack a serious sense of commitment and responsibility. Their actions ie getting a girl pregnant and then leaving her carries no social responsibility that is enforced and any law is not enforced. Many men cannot provide for their family but they will still produce lots of children that he can neither feed, clothe or educate properly. This is a vicious circle of life and society and sons learn from their fathers. The government could do much more but chooses not to, I have my own theory on this and as to why. The lack of male education, good paying jobs, accountability for their actions, drunkenness, abuse the lack of a sense of responsibility, immaturity and the apathy of society all lead to Filipino men being a poor choice of husband. Some foreigners are no better than Filipino men and many Filipinas have found that out, to their personal experience and cost. Most foreigners are much old, more mature and financially stable, therefore, they make a better prospect as a boyfriend /husband that a Filipino man.
@@walterpont2882 You, poor, poor sad little man. I guess you are still living at home with your mom. Take a tip, better stay there where you are safe, it's a big scary world out here and you have to be responsible for yourself here! 😂
@@walterpont2882 agreed. Married one. No different from any other female worldwide, they'll take advantage of you if you allow it. Sad to say, no such thing as a help mate, you almost have to treat females like you would a pet, though most pets are loyal whereas females most certainly are not.
That really only applies to people at the bottom of the economic heap for the most part. Another difference is that the women also are very irresponsible.
You're right, but this girl likes promoting this bs to justify liking foreigners. It's pretty common in the Philippines for people to spread misinformation like this.
Everything you say is true. I was with a poor province girl, who had a baby from a boy who left her. I met her on a dating site, travelled 8 times to see her in 2019, courting her like crazy, accepted her family and baby as my own. Everything was so wonderful... Until our 2 year relationship was ruined when I found out she cheated on me with a local boy when I was back in California, and also she was on multiple dating sites, still searching, when she had a good man and provider already. I believe that she must of thought that I was going to leave her, as you say, for another girl, but I was 100% committed to her. I found out she was cheating on me, the same day I was going to propose marriage to her. This was to be the happiest day of my life, but the day ended up being the worst day of my life. Next time I will be very cautious of the girl I date.
@@jeh1333 Yes I did thank you. I forgave her, for what she had done... Then she asked me if we were ok again, and I said no darling, the trust has been broken. During our 2 year relationship, over time, I started noticing a change in her attitude toward me, but had no idea she had a secret local boyfriend. She denied her behavior all the way, until her best friends told me. So basically lying on top of cheating. Her friends said to me (after meeting them in person, on Negros with my GF and her family) Rob, your such a nice person, we just have to tell you what is really happening here. I commend them for being upfront with me, because both of them were risking their long term friendship to tell me so I wouldn't be hurt more than I was. Oh, and her Boyfriend? He ended up cheating on her, and left her for another girl. What comes around, goes around. I am ready to move on, and live in the Philippines now. This summer, I will be there.
hi rob hope your well I'm so sorry about your previous bad experience to my country Filipina 😢 I knew some of my country woman are not sincere thier real intentions.. please be careful to a next dating..I will recommend you a goOD Christian dating was called ( Christian FILIPINA DATING ) GOD BLESS U
@@carvercapitalequitypartner122 Yes, she regretted it, after all that we shared together, and blamed her immaturity. I did forgive her for what happened, and just told her to be more careful in the future with someone's heart who loves you. I told her "what if someone did that to you? How would you feel? I think she understands now, she is 4 years older now from when we first met. Just be careful out there people, the girl you think she is... may not be. I know all are not like that, this is why I am going back to try again.
I have been married for 23 years to my filipina wife. We are of the same age. -I must say she very responsible, genuine, & mature. We live in America & I am the bread winner here, although she does her part as far as taking care of the house chores when I am working. We have been together for a long time & I am completely comfortable letting her take control of what ever is going on when we go to the Philippines.
You are such a Sweet and Beautiful Person. I Pray that your King is on his way to you. It is good that you are building a home for you and your daughter. I would call it Chateaux Petite. Please stay safe and I Pray for you.
I think one of the bad things with the dating site is the good Filipinas have to compete with bad ones, and the bad ones have better prospects because they know they're not really looking for an actual relationship, just looking for the sucker to send money so they can be and say whatever they need to, as where the good ones have to be honest and sincere. It's sad some people can be so irresponsible some people can be, if you know you have no job or income and won't be able to support a child, then they should keep their zipper up and stop ruining other people's lives. As always a very informative video, keep them coming and I'll keep watching. You are such a sweet, kind, caring woman and deserving of a better life for you and your child, keep your faith and you'll get it. Unfortunately too many Filipinas realized enough was enough after they had already gotten pregnant or have children, making their lives even more complicated, maybe time to sit down and close the legs until a REAL man PROVES his love for her and that he will be there to take care of her through the good and the bad. Many males (Can't really call them men), especially one that would hit a woman or child, will say anything to a woman to get what he's looking for from her, knowing he doesn't mean a word of it, and once he gets what he was after he heads for the door to fool another woman. Looks like you were having a difficult time talking about a guy beating a woman or child, getting a little choked up, as though maybe this topic was a bit closer to home for you, if so I'm so sorry, take a deep breath and keep looking toward tomorrow and not yesterday. Remember when your world seems the darkest, the sun will always rise.
I agree that the problem needs to be addressed. If a man refuses to accept responsibility for his children and won't work the government should make him perform community service, like cleaning the streets. Also , now that you have talked about the men could you please do a video on what foreign men should look out for concerning what filipinas the should stay away from. Thanks and good luck😀
FB banned me for 30 days after I explained this difference between Filipinos and foreigners. I've been married to a Filipina for 25 years, and known her for 30+ years, so I think I know Filipino culture well enough to comment.
Dear Petite, I just watched this video twice in a row, even after watching it before. I was just comforted by your voice, and the way you said what you were saying. I sincerely hope you find a man worthy of the kind of love I know you can give.
Petite, I have been preparing to retire in the Philippines since before the pandemic. I live in the USA Southern California. I have had a difficult time finding a trustworthy mate and I have never married. With this video, you have restored my faith in my decision to retire there. I hope I can meet someone YOU approve of! Till then, I look forward to the day or night when I meet my future wife in the Philippines. Thank you.
Can i be honest here guys? First off dont go looking anywhere for your soulmate/ wife in the Philippines or any country for that matter. Why not just go to have fun and see how it goes. When ypu go actively looking for something you're bound to make " mistakes" along that journey and a foreign country isnt the place you wanna go making a string of mistakes that have the potential to end your life. Just go take it easy, relax and if love comes it comes if it doesnt it doesnt.
Yes, it's survival. PI is a 3rd world country, meaning it's a poor country. Basic income in PI is inadequate to live comfortably. Therefore, girls find someone who has stable and adequate income which is mostly foreigners. Also the conversion rate of pesos versus usd is high. It also apply to US, rich men marry young girls, 10-15 years younger than them, its all about money! Lastly, in PI there are no child support law, spouse support and community property (husband & wife) law...
Well Said Sir! I can't find a single reason to disagree with you. Men everywhere tend to be most attracted to women whose age and features suggest peak fertility. For teen boys, this is a woman several years older than themselves. For mid-20s men, it’s women their own age. For older men, it’s younger women, and the older the man, the greater the age difference he prefers when selecting a mate . Larry King, 25 years older than seventh wife, Shawn Southwick-King.
Petite, I appreciate you for telling how you feel and how relationships are there. I'm American and my dad acted just like the Filipino men. Broke apart our family because he cheated. I can't stand cheating men and even women after going through that. Unfortunately a lot of women her want bad boy types who do drugs or other things, it's like there are no morals left. I agree with you that you just want to find someone to love and be loved in return.
This the second video I've watched of this woman. I like her because she speaks the truth. I am a black man from the U.S. and I met a Fillipina woman on a social site online. She didn't even have a picture but what was written in her profile showed great character so it got my attention. After we started talking I realized she had many of the personality traits I had been looking for. Just as Fillipina woman don't want to date Fillipino men there are many foreigners who no longer have interest in women of there own countries. It's an unfortunate matter but it makes things better for those who honestly want to be in a truly nurturing relationship with a Fillipina and that goes both ways. Love is what two people do for each other in a fulfilling way. This why we love I believe. We talked online for more then 4 years through the pandemic which didn't allow any of us to travel but now I'm here with her and it's like we already know each other. It's the best relationship I've ever had so I hope soon we will both live I the U.S. together.
Good morning, little Filipina! thank you for an interesting video! you have a wonderful, informative, serious channel! Happy to subscribe to your channel! hello to you from Russia and all the best and best wishes! I wish you find your happiness as soon as possible!
Thank you for sharing and giving your perspective on things. You are appreciated for your honesty and you have gained a new subscriber/ supporter. Keep up the good work 👏🏾
Hi Petite! You seem like such a kind, loving, loyal, compassionate GODLY, woman!! I'm from the United States & found myself a Maganda Filipina woman like you on line, a little over 2 years ago! & Someday i want her to be my Asawa! She's such a Humble, Loving, GODLY, CHRISTIAN woman! I am soooo Blessed to have her!!! I'm gonna try to find some of my single friends to Check you out! Only respectful, respectable, GODLY men!! They deserve a GOOD woman!! & you deserve a GOOD man!! Love your videos! Have a Blessed day Petite! 😘🙏🏻❤️🙌🕊
Spot on Petite . Many took things for granted and have no respect and responsibility for d kid/s. U express urself well . Hope u will find someone who loves u and a résponsible guy /partner /husband . God bless u 🙏🙏
That's Right. A Lot Of American Men Are Only In Love With Their PICKUP TRUCK And Are CLUELESS About Romance And Have NO CLUE As To How To Treat A Woman. An ALPHA To Sum It Up, Basically.
for us.....we call em haoles. haole guys "think" they are so macho....so charismatic...so handsome, yet.....so damn fkn cheap!!! after they get used to with you.....they WILL eventually leave you under the bus.
Wow!, I meet Gloria in Bacolod city Philippines 🇵🇭 back in 1993. Many moons ago. I am not Filipino but I’m America native Indian. My wife and I are going too Buy a house or build a house in the Philippines 🇵🇭. My opinion only. NOT all filipino men, but some filipino men. I understood what you saying. Peace ☮️
You are right. When I first arrived in the Philipoines (4/65) as a very young man in the Navy, I was stationed Shore duty here. Shortly before getting my first set of orders coming out of my rating school, I received the good old Dear John letrer from my high school sweetheart of all 4 years of high school. We had planned our marriage a couple years prior and talked about it all the time. But Vietnam got in the way causing me to join the Navy before getting drafted into the human fodder brigade wading through rice pattys. She could not understand this move. I being a Navy brat growing up totally understood the method behind my madness. Anyway, to cut this short (too late for that), my first year here I hit the bars in the redlight district every chance I got and could afford. I was taking out my anger of being dropped and replaced so quickly. My supvr was married to a Filipina and had been for about 15 years. He pulled me aside one day and said he was going to introduce me to a proper Filipina, saying I had no idea what a good Filipina was like, and what the Filipina culture was all about. We dated, ALWAYS with a chaperone for about 6-8 months. I may have sneaked a few kisses in the dark theater a few times, but that was about it. without dragging you through more history, we married a few months later. It did stop me from staying in the bars shortly after I decided she was the one for me.
Hello my friend 😃 I just watched your video. I really enjoyed watching and you are amazing. I am a new fan from Florida and I love your beautiful channel 🥰
Hi, I am an American who has lived in Basey Samar since 2013. Your English is very good and that is a big plus in finding a good man. Best of luck in your search.
For me this was a interesting video I am an American. My wife is Filipina we’ve been married for 38 years and of course by now we have dozens of Filipino friends and family members that are males. For me they are some of the best men I’ve ever met. I understand what you’re saying and I can say that there is a lot of truth when you look at the reasons someone looks for a partner in another country after all when I Filipino Marries a foreigner foreigner is also looking for a woman from another country. There are good and bad men in every country there are men that have grown up a certain way and they don’t know any other life, it’s often generational they just do what their father did and they also do what their grandfather did into them it is OK. They need to break those chains. I would say that Filipina should look at Filipino men and find one that has dreams that has goals that wants to bust out of poverty just like they do. There are plenty of Filipinos that move abroad and find out they’re in the same poverty that they were in in the Philippines. Yes they have running water electricity no more NIPA hut what the poverty remains the same just because you have an apartment in the city doesn’t mean you’re i’m not struggling. Life in America and everywhere can be very hard people have cars because it’s necessary jobs often leave you waiting for the next paycheck to be able to buy food it’s the same problem just with a different make up. Anyways good video and God bless
I found your videos today . I'm very impressed with everything you have to say . It's nice to hear the truth from someone . Really . Thank you . I'm going to keep following . I really want to learn more about Philippine woman and your traditions so I might be a better husband in the future .
Great job as always didn't know a lot of that information I'm so sorry to hear that of course we have a lot of those people in the states too unfortunately if you put some good work
Filipinas have to be careful with foreigners as well, some are not looking for long term committment. We also meet insincere filipinas at times so it takes two good people to make a couple. Salamat Petite.
You are very honest and clear on what a PH woman wants as well as what she does not want. I have not been to PH but I hope soon. I noticed how pleasant speaking to Filipinas are in chat and video and yes the majority are not scammers. Filipinas are very educated beautiful hard working and caring women. I won't get into a relationship here in the USA when the prize a Filipina awaits in the Philippines.
I will always treat my beautiful girlfriend with respect and I will always always love her and respect her and appreciate her and I am so thankful for her,just waiting patiently now
Yes, Petite. It looks like good progress is being made on your home. I get why some Filipinas want to meet a foreigner. My filipina girlfriend is in her late 30s with kids. She wanted to try her luck with something different when she met me. I liked the different perspective and appreciation she had for me that the women in my previous relationships did not have. I get why there are a lot of Filipinas looking for foreigners and visa versa. Remember to be careful about picking foreigners as well. Some foreign men also have the negative traits you described in Filipino men. I think it’s easier to find someone like-minded when you are willing go beyond your own border for a relationship. Best wishes in your future.
Hi Petite. Another good video. Does that type of roof keep the rain out when it gets heavy rain? I know it's cultural for Filipino men to act this way and the culture continues to allow this to continue because these immature men are celebrated and rewarded for their terrible behavior. Eventually this behavior will catch up with them. For now, you and other filipinas just need to do what is best for you. There is nothing wrong with wanting a better life and a partner who is willing to think toward the future. Your king will come. Be patient and keep moving forward one step at a time.
Always refreshing and encouraging to listen to an honest Filipino perspective on known facts regarding the majority of Filipino men. Filipinas must also remember that the majority of foreign men are not much different when it comes to proper responsibility for the family, laziness, vices (womanizing, smoking, alcohol consumption, drugs, gambling, sexual addiction (pornography), profanity, verbal, psychological and physical abuse, lack of education, values and etiquette.) The majority of foreign men either do not believe in God, or at best, have a half-baked notion of the teachings and principles of the biblical Christ. They certainly do not study, follow, or lead a life representative of disciples. When America and the Philippines claim 80% of the population is Christian, yet the people live in constant sin, corruption, greed, vulgarness, disrespect of each other and have bad behavioral attitudes, it is no wonder why relationships do not develop properly and turn out well. My advice to an honest and good charactered Filipina is take your time and be thorough in selecting a foreign man. There are decent foreigners out there, you just have to vet them carefully. Foreign men and women will lie and deceive, just like Pinays and Pinoys. If you use basic common sense and do not lead with desperation, eventually you will find a decent mate worth the wait. Also, stop putting so much value on the beauty of physical characteristics as that typically leads to relationship issues. As long as a married couple focuses on the immediate family's essential needs and well-being, with the comprehension that working together in love for the family's greater good, and not selfish personal desires, will serve the relationship well, whether poor, middle class or wealthy. Good luck.
I agree with most of what you write, accept that I am not religious. Whether men believe in a god or not, their actions speak louder than their words. It amazes me that the view of Filipinas on foreign men is as positive as it is, while they get the left-overs. Good foreign men may be able to find a good wife back home as well. The picture we see on social media is very positive, but I doubt it is that way in reality.
@@GerbenWulff I agree with 100%. I am a US Naturalized citizen, been here almost 40 years. Most of the American men that I worked with are good men, very close to their family. Most of them are married to the high school sweat heart. Only I see my Filipina co-workers are the worst kind. They always boast about having a relationship with a Filipina as half age as them, they visit their country every year to have good times with those girls. Their wife are not good moral at all. Both have bad sides. Why these American men go and marry these left-over woman in Philippines? These woman have many men at the same time. I am in this UA-cam channel because one of my love one got trapped in a Filipina scammer. I am trying to understand this Filipina culture and figure out how I can rescue my own kid. These woman are like Siren in Homers Odyssey. Only one way I can rescue American by putting ear plugs with beeswax and has them bind. These woman are immoral creatures.
@@GerbenWulff I tend to agree with you. There are good non-religious men around the world, too, just have to vet them out. Being raised in a good family environment certainly helps cultivate a person in the right civil direction, but in reality, an individual is responsible for their own development and accountability as they mature.
@@RameshKumar-zw1ch I understand your viewpoint and certainly I am aware of Filipinos in the U.S. like what you described. There are some decent Filipino's living in the U.S. too. Like with anything, you have to use good judgement in any relationship choice. What type of work are you employed in?
Filipinas best friends in the world, and work hard. i had filipinas friends in my military deployment, always smilling and positive, best wishes to all filipines people.... wish to have new filipina friend....
Thanks for the video! I can't wait to visit the Philippines once the restrictions over there clear up a little bit. In regards to a relationship it's give and take. Both genders are looking for different things in a partner, but that's the beauty of the union between man and woman 👍.
Thanks for the insights ... These are natural things that are faced everywhere. The challenges can be overcome with the right two people that take time to understand each other and work together. Many thanks for sharing this msg.
I remember when i asked question to my mom . " ma , if you'll go back to the past , what should you do?". Mom: im gonna look for a richman , it doesn't matter if he beat the hell out of me or hit me everytime he want . Just accept the fact that i have you and your sister and treat you guys like his own . Im the one who need to sacrifice everything . Not you. ( that time , i told my mom that i want to go college but it's better if i help her , so my sister will go first instead of me)
I think you pretty much gave everybody a clear picture of the situation.Any man that wouldn't be true to a woman that done what you said the wife would treat him i wouldn't know what to think about him.
My one and only reason for this is , ACCEPTANCE!!!!!!! Either Filipino or foreign guys! Because you cannot prove your love and pure commitment to a guy once you don’t have acceptance for yourself. That’s why there is a getting to know each other situations!❤️
So, now I know why my wife chose me to marry 41 years ago! Unfortunately, what you are saying is true. Honestly, I don’t know how a man can shirk his responsibilities to his family.
Once you know and understand Asian men, not just Filipinos, you will understand what Asian women have to put up with and endure! It is heart breaking for us decent Westerners to see.
Wow, that is so sad that Filipino men could treat their women so poorly. In my opinion the Filipino woman is what every man should desire! There all very beautiful. They all want their partner to be a provider and care for the family. Seems to me as an American a perfect way to live. The husband and wife should be a team as they grow together. But even here in the states there are a lot of men who abuse their partner, worry more about themselves instead of their partner or are just less than perfect. Petite you make such good points on why some Filipino women see opportunity in foreign partners. As always it's a pleasure to watch your vlog and learn about the Filipino culture as a whole. Hats off to you and your family!!!
Are you saying American men doesn’t do the same? I’ve seen a lot of divorces, domestic violence, sexual/physical, and emotional abuse, single moms who depends on government assistance because their “American” ex-husband doesn’t provide child or financial support. What do you say about that?
@@rmendozalivingtemecula oh I agree with you. American men are some of the worst as far as that goes. Just saying we all need to treat out partners as the jewels that they are. With respect and always with consideration for there feelings and needs.
It depends on Filipino men, because on some country sides, there are not enough work to search but if you are in the cities, Filipino women choose their kababayan rather than a foreign due to its culture,
It's really sad and a hard time for you and all the girls in your country don't be sad always got hope and be positive some in any part of this world will love you ok
Sadly, I’m 70 years old so it’s a little too late for me to start over. But if I could it would be with a Philippine lady I think. Thanks for this interesting and informative video.
Er why? I am 67years old and I am getting on with it. What are you going to do just sit in an armchair like a friend of mine did and died on his own. Live life. My friend wasn't discovered for 17weeks what an end. What are you going to do if you live to be 100. All the people who live long lives have an attitude of looking forward.
And another thing years ago I was talking to a 19 year old and thinking I wish I was him he has all that life ahead of him. A week later I didn't want to be him he went under a truck, splat. Just felt out there and get on with life.
Daniel, it is NEVER to late that is just a figment of your imagination. If you have a pulse and a good heart you are good to go! Give it a try, the ball is in your court. I am 71 and still rocking on so, come and join the team we need you!
I really appreciate your honesty in this video. It is difficult to say that some Filipino men are like this, but bad behaviour must be called out. I was shocked at how many young single mum's I saw on dating sites. I was also shocked at how many married men bragged about having a girlfriend also.
Just because a man is the leader in the family is no reason to put hands on woman or child in bad way. A true family man understands his role and won't abuse his role as Dad. For me a woman's role is more important in many ways. That is why a male figure should set good examples.
She just telling how it is on her country most Filipinas that are looking for date a foreigner is just looking for stability and a serious commitment . But be careful you can find yourself with a gold digger remember this happens on all country's but as for the ones tired of how they are getting treated are just looking for a positive change
This is my first time watching your channel and I'm impressed by your video i really like you and your outlook on life and relationships I wish American women think the way you do about relationships
I understand where you coming from because back in the days being a player was normal and the woman would just accept it because there wasn’t no divorce just annulment. I love my pinays since I came out of one. 🥰🥰🥰
I have been to almost all the countries in Southeast Asia.Filipina women and Filipinos are the most wonderful people. That's why I will check out Davao in May.
Good point , also in the USA we have much of the same mainly in the cities and hidden in the country side (hence our media doesnt cover it much in the countryside). One Big difference between our countries is that (correct me if I'm wong) in the Philippines there's fewer/less accessible options/services/programs or monetary support for the mothers or pregnant women vs say the U.S. Example: Welfare, Wic, local non profit healthcare, church programs, temp & part time work, daycare, government cash cards etc etc.
Still disturbs my mind that any real man could put his addictions above his families needs. I'm an American, from a poor part of the US. Like Filipinos we let the children eat first and then the adults only get the leftovers. How can you drink or smoke if your children and wife can't eat?
I'm 28 for context I am in love with my pinay aye haha she literally rocks my world so funny our conversations are an how humble she is .. you've got great content 👏
I really appreciate your candor and honesty I know it must be hard talking about such things😔 I'm sorry there are a lot of people they're going through those type of things I'm sorry to say there are going to be good guys going there but there probably will be some bad guys also hopefully more good than bad I think a lot of guys honestly want New Life a lot of Western women a lot of Western men I know no matter what I did it wasn't enough my ex-wife would take tripping to your every year to visit her sister and do what else she would travel to visit her family in other parts of the country also she was very bad with money she had a really good job and still it was hard to make ends meet I knew for years I needed to get out and I stayed way too long and that's why I lost a very expensive house hopefully you find what you need
First, your very attractive woman with so much practical truthful advice. I found my forever true Filipina in Mandaue. 2 years of texting and 2-3 videos monthly. I have been learning about Philippines and relationships from people like you for 2 years too. Hopefully I will be over ina few months finally. I pray you find a true love too take care of your needs and daughter.
As someone who has been visiting the Philippines since 1989 and who was married to a Filipina here's my 2 Pesos worth: Many, not all, Filipino men lack a serious sense of commitment and responsibility. Their actions ie getting a girl pregnant and then leaving her carries no social responsibility that is enforced and any law is not enforced. Many men cannot provide for their family but they will still produce lots of children that he can neither feed, clothe or educate properly. This is a vicious circle of life and society and sons learn from their fathers.
The government could do much more but chooses not to, I have my own theory on this and as to why.
The lack of male education, good paying jobs, accountability for their actions, drunkenness, abuse the lack of a sense of responsibility, immaturity and the apathy of society all lead to Filipino men being a poor choice of husband.
Some foreigners are no better than Filipino men and many Filipinas have found that out, to their personal experience and cost.
Most foreigners are much old, more mature and financially stable, therefore, they make a better prospect as a boyfriend /husband that a Filipino man.
@@walterpont2882 Who said it was your problem? If you don't want to get involved don't.
Take a tip - just keep away and get on with your life.
@@walterpont2882 You, poor, poor sad little man. I guess you are still living at home with your mom. Take a tip, better stay there where you are safe, it's a big scary world out here and you have to be responsible for yourself here! 😂
@@walterpont2882 agreed. Married one. No different from any other female worldwide, they'll take advantage of you if you allow it. Sad to say, no such thing as a help mate, you almost have to treat females like you would a pet, though most pets are loyal whereas females most certainly are not.
Well said !!
@@walterpont2882 Oh really, I am quaking in my boots. Go back to drinking and dreaming. Tell your mom I said Hi!
This is not just a problem in the Philippines, it is basically the same in many (if not all) major U.S. cities.
That really only applies to people at the bottom of the economic heap for the most
part. Another difference is that the women also are very irresponsible.
It's ALL Michael.
Their government keeps them oppressed ...to get better control of their people
You're right, but this girl likes promoting this bs to justify liking foreigners. It's pretty common in the Philippines for people to spread misinformation like this.
Absolutely right.."
Everything you say is true. I was with a poor province girl, who had a baby from a boy who left her. I met her on a dating site, travelled 8 times to see her in 2019, courting her like crazy, accepted her family and baby as my own. Everything was so wonderful... Until our 2 year relationship was ruined when I found out she cheated on me with a local boy when I was back in California, and also she was on multiple dating sites, still searching, when she had a good man and provider already. I believe that she must of thought that I was going to leave her, as you say, for another girl, but I was 100% committed to her. I found out she was cheating on me, the same day I was going to propose marriage to her. This was to be the happiest day of my life, but the day ended up being the worst day of my life. Next time I will be very cautious of the girl I date.
Sorry to learn about your experience. Some Filipinas are not so smart. Maybe, you dodge a bullet there?
Don't lose heart or hope.
Did you ever hear whether she regretted her cheating on you?
@@jeh1333 Yes I did thank you. I forgave her, for what she had done... Then she asked me if we were ok again, and I said no darling, the trust has been broken. During our 2 year relationship, over time, I started noticing a change in her attitude toward me, but had no idea she had a secret local boyfriend. She denied her behavior all the way, until her best friends told me. So basically lying on top of cheating. Her friends said to me (after meeting them in person, on Negros with my GF and her family) Rob, your such a nice person, we just have to tell you what is really happening here. I commend them for being upfront with me, because both of them were risking their long term friendship to tell me so I wouldn't be hurt more than I was. Oh, and her Boyfriend? He ended up cheating on her, and left her for another girl. What comes around, goes around. I am ready to move on, and live in the Philippines now. This summer, I will be there.
hi rob hope your well I'm so sorry about your previous bad experience to my country Filipina 😢 I knew some of my country woman are not sincere thier real intentions.. please be careful to a next dating..I will recommend you a goOD Christian dating was called ( Christian FILIPINA DATING ) GOD BLESS U
@@carvercapitalequitypartner122 Yes, she regretted it, after all that we shared together, and blamed her immaturity. I did forgive her for what happened, and just told her to be more careful in the future with someone's heart who loves you. I told her "what if someone did that to you? How would you feel? I think she understands now, she is 4 years older now from when we first met. Just be careful out there people, the girl you think she is... may not be. I know all are not like that, this is why I am going back to try again.
I have been married for 23 years to my filipina wife. We are of the same age.
-I must say she very responsible, genuine, & mature.
We live in America & I am the bread winner here, although she does her part as far as taking care of the house chores when I am working.
We have been together for a long time & I am completely comfortable letting her take control of what ever is going on when we go to the Philippines.
You are such a Sweet and Beautiful Person. I Pray that your King is on his way to you. It is good that you are building a home for you and your daughter. I would call it Chateaux Petite. Please stay safe and I Pray for you.
Thirst trap 🪤 pump your brakes homie it’s just UA-cam
I think one of the bad things with the dating site is the good Filipinas have to compete with bad ones, and the bad ones have better prospects because they know they're not really looking for an actual relationship, just looking for the sucker to send money so they can be and say whatever they need to, as where the good ones have to be honest and sincere. It's sad some people can be so irresponsible some people can be, if you know you have no job or income and won't be able to support a child, then they should keep their zipper up and stop ruining other people's lives.
As always a very informative video, keep them coming and I'll keep watching. You are such a sweet, kind, caring woman and deserving of a better life for you and your child, keep your faith and you'll get it. Unfortunately too many Filipinas realized enough was enough after they had already gotten pregnant or have children, making their lives even more complicated, maybe time to sit down and close the legs until a REAL man PROVES his love for her and that he will be there to take care of her through the good and the bad. Many males (Can't really call them men), especially one that would hit a woman or child, will say anything to a woman to get what he's looking for from her, knowing he doesn't mean a word of it, and once he gets what he was after he heads for the door to fool another woman. Looks like you were having a difficult time talking about a guy beating a woman or child, getting a little choked up, as though maybe this topic was a bit closer to home for you, if so I'm so sorry, take a deep breath and keep looking toward tomorrow and not yesterday. Remember when your world seems the darkest, the sun will always rise.
That is a great comment 👍☮️
I agree that the problem needs to be addressed. If a man refuses to accept responsibility for his children and won't work the government should make him perform community service, like cleaning the streets. Also , now that you have talked about the men could you please do a video on what foreign men should look out for concerning what filipinas the should stay away from. Thanks and good luck😀
Well the kids have no respect for the mothers new mate also so that works two ways
Sad but true. I noticed that Filipino men are quite different from Filipino women. Seems like they picked those habits up from the Spanish culture.
Philippines is matriarchal society.
Women stable, responsible.
FB banned me for 30 days after I explained this difference between Filipinos and foreigners. I've been married to a Filipina for 25 years, and known her for 30+ years, so I think I know Filipino culture well enough to comment.
you probably got reported bro
I think you should make another video interviewing Filipino men why they're behaving as what you describe. It's their turn to speak
True, it's so sickening to have a one sided story/perspective.
She should have interviewed her mother about why she married her father so she wouldn't end up making content out of her misery.
This is a one sided video
I really appreciate your honesty and your openness. Love your channel! Keep it up.
That was beautiful thank you for taking your time out and explaining all of that to us.
Dear Petite, I just watched this video twice in a row, even after watching it before. I was just comforted by your voice, and the way you said what you were saying. I sincerely hope you find a man worthy of the kind of love I know you can give.
Petite, I have been preparing to retire in the Philippines since before the pandemic. I live in the USA Southern California. I have had a difficult time finding a trustworthy mate and I have never married. With this video, you have restored my faith in my decision to retire there. I hope I can meet someone YOU approve of! Till then, I look forward to the day or night when I meet my future wife in the Philippines. Thank you.
I am thinking same thing. Where are you going to look for a Filipina ?
@@keonesilva3646 I don't know, maybe next to Petite if that is where women that think like her live.
Just stay off the Asian dating sites, dan. too many scammers. Just go to PH (smaller cities) and meet women working in stores and restaurants.
Can i be honest here guys? First off dont go looking anywhere for your soulmate/ wife in the Philippines or any country for that matter. Why not just go to have fun and see how it goes. When ypu go actively looking for something you're bound to make " mistakes" along that journey and a foreign country isnt the place you wanna go making a string of mistakes that have the potential to end your life. Just go take it easy, relax and if love comes it comes if it doesnt it doesnt.
@@Ron-oe7hg agreed
Yes, it's survival. PI is a 3rd world country, meaning it's a poor country. Basic income in PI is inadequate to live comfortably. Therefore, girls find someone who has stable and adequate income which is mostly foreigners. Also the conversion rate of pesos versus usd is high. It also apply to US, rich men marry young girls, 10-15 years younger than them, its all about money! Lastly, in PI there are no child support law, spouse support and community property (husband & wife) law...
Well Said Sir! I can't find a single reason to disagree with you. Men everywhere tend to be most attracted to women whose age and features suggest peak fertility. For teen boys, this is a woman several years older than themselves.
For mid-20s men, it’s women their own age. For older men, it’s younger women, and the older the man, the greater the age difference he prefers when selecting a mate . Larry King, 25 years older than seventh wife, Shawn Southwick-King.
Petite, I appreciate you for telling how you feel and how relationships are there. I'm American and my dad acted just like the Filipino men. Broke apart our family because he cheated. I can't stand cheating men and even women after going through that. Unfortunately a lot of women her want bad boy types who do drugs or other things, it's like there are no morals left. I agree with you that you just want to find someone to love and be loved in return.
You are a strong, assertive, and articulate woman. God is faithful, he will bless you
This the second video I've watched of this woman. I like her because she speaks the truth. I am a black man from the U.S. and I met a Fillipina woman on a social site online. She didn't even have a picture but what was written in her profile showed great character so it got my attention. After we started talking I realized she had many of the personality traits I had been looking for. Just as Fillipina woman don't want to date Fillipino men there are many foreigners who no longer have interest in women of there own countries. It's an unfortunate matter but it makes things better for those who honestly want to be in a truly nurturing relationship with a Fillipina and that goes both ways. Love is what two people do for each other in a fulfilling way. This why we love I believe. We talked online for more then 4 years through the pandemic which didn't allow any of us to travel but now I'm here with her and it's like we already know each other. It's the best relationship I've ever had so I hope soon we will both live I the U.S. together.
Good morning, little Filipina! thank you for an interesting video! you have a wonderful, informative, serious channel! Happy to subscribe to your channel! hello to you from Russia and all the best and best wishes! I wish you find your happiness as soon as possible!
Your English is better than many people from U.S.A. also so wise and mature is one the reasons I enjoy your videos.🙏❤️👍
Thank you for sharing and giving your perspective on things. You are appreciated for your honesty and you have gained a new subscriber/ supporter. Keep up the good work 👏🏾
When long time ago I asked my filipina about this question, she told me the same story! All same points! 😯😯😯
Why do the women keep accepting these men?
@@billtillman3681 The Filipina that cheat are not worth knowing, good Filipina don’t cheat…on the contrary these are fiercely loyal.
@@ericbown1551 younger ones do watch tv under 24 cheat . western tv
@@hillbillyintheasia6122 No idea what that means.
Hi Petite! You seem like such a kind, loving, loyal, compassionate GODLY, woman!! I'm from the United States & found myself a Maganda Filipina woman like you on line, a little over 2 years ago! & Someday i want her to be my Asawa! She's such a Humble, Loving, GODLY, CHRISTIAN woman! I am soooo Blessed to have her!!!
I'm gonna try to find some of my single friends to Check you out! Only respectful, respectable, GODLY men!! They deserve a GOOD woman!! & you deserve a GOOD man!!
Love your videos! Have a Blessed day Petite!
😘🙏🏻❤️🙌🕊
Spot on Petite . Many took things for granted and have no respect and responsibility for d kid/s. U express urself well . Hope u will find someone who loves u and a résponsible guy /partner /husband . God bless u 🙏🙏
Be careful, some foreign men can be the same way.
That's Right. A Lot Of American Men Are Only In Love With Their PICKUP TRUCK And Are CLUELESS About Romance And Have NO CLUE As To How To Treat A Woman. An ALPHA To Sum It Up, Basically.
That is the problem they think all white men or good not true at all
@@richardkaltenbach3961 not what an alpha is
for us.....we call em haoles. haole guys "think" they are so macho....so charismatic...so handsome, yet.....so damn fkn cheap!!! after they get used to with you.....they WILL eventually leave you under the bus.
Glad to see you back I was worrying about you I have not seen any videos on UA-cam I was wondering what happened? I'm glad you're back
Wow!, I meet Gloria in Bacolod city
Philippines 🇵🇭 back in 1993. Many moons ago. I am not Filipino but I’m America native Indian. My wife and I are going too Buy a house or build a house in the Philippines 🇵🇭. My opinion only. NOT all filipino men, but some filipino men. I understood what you saying. Peace ☮️
Might be a good idea to bring courtship back into romantic life. That might help filter out the guys who aren't serious.
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You are right. When I first arrived in the Philipoines (4/65) as a very young man in the Navy, I was stationed Shore duty here. Shortly before getting my first set of orders coming out of my rating school, I received the good old Dear John letrer from my high school sweetheart of all 4 years of high school. We had planned our marriage a couple years prior and talked about it all the time. But Vietnam got in the way causing me to join the Navy before getting drafted into the human fodder brigade wading through rice pattys. She could not understand this move. I being a Navy brat growing up totally understood the method behind my madness. Anyway, to cut this short (too late for that), my first year here I hit the bars in the redlight district every chance I got and could afford. I was taking out my anger of being dropped and replaced so quickly. My supvr was married to a Filipina and had been for about 15 years. He pulled me aside one day and said he was going to introduce me to a proper Filipina, saying I had no idea what a good Filipina was like, and what the Filipina culture was all about. We dated, ALWAYS with a chaperone for about 6-8 months. I may have sneaked a few kisses in the dark theater a few times, but that was about it. without dragging you through more history, we married a few months later. It did stop me from staying in the bars shortly after I decided she was the one for me.
New subscriber from California God bless you always I vacation many times I phillipinnes
Hello my friend 😃
I just watched your video. I really enjoyed watching and you are amazing. I am a new fan from Florida and I love your beautiful channel 🥰
Hi, I am an American who has lived in Basey Samar since 2013. Your English is very good and that is a big plus in finding a good man. Best of luck in your search.
For me this was a interesting video I am an American. My wife is Filipina we’ve been married for 38 years and of course by now we have dozens of Filipino friends and family members that are males. For me they are some of the best men I’ve ever met. I understand what you’re saying and I can say that there is a lot of truth when you look at the reasons someone looks for a partner in another country after all when I Filipino Marries a foreigner foreigner is also looking for a woman from another country.
There are good and bad men in every country there are men that have grown up a certain way and they don’t know any other life, it’s often generational they just do what their father did and they also do what their grandfather did into them it is OK. They need to break those chains.
I would say that Filipina should look at Filipino men and find one that has dreams that has goals that wants to bust out of poverty just like they do.
There are plenty of Filipinos that move abroad and find out they’re in the same poverty that they were in in the Philippines. Yes they have running water electricity no more NIPA hut what the poverty remains the same just because you have an apartment in the city doesn’t mean you’re i’m not struggling. Life in America and everywhere can be very hard people have cars because it’s necessary jobs often leave you waiting for the next paycheck to be able to buy food it’s the same problem just with a different make up.
Anyways good video and God bless
Filipina, not filipino . . . unless you married a beni-boy. Just an observation. It too me ages to not confuse the descriptors.
@@gregorypierson4536 Yes you are correct that was a typo. Thanks I’m glad you got a lot out of what I have written.
I found your videos today .
I'm very impressed with everything you have to say . It's nice to hear the truth from someone .
Really . Thank you . I'm going to keep following . I really want to learn more about Philippine woman and your traditions so I might be a better husband in the future .
Great job as always didn't know a lot of that information I'm so sorry to hear that of course we have a lot of those people in the states too unfortunately if you put some good work
Filipinas have to be careful with foreigners as well, some are not looking for long term committment. We also meet insincere filipinas at times so it takes two good people to make a couple. Salamat Petite.
Good inciteful video, thank you
You are very honest and clear on what a PH woman wants as well as what she does not want. I have not been to PH but I hope soon. I noticed how pleasant speaking to Filipinas are in chat and video and yes the majority are not scammers. Filipinas are very educated beautiful hard working and caring women. I won't get into a relationship here in the USA when the prize a Filipina awaits in the Philippines.
Filipina Petite, what you are asking for is very reasonable. I wish you the best of luck.
Quite interesting to know about this house construction, costs, etc.
Your absolutely right Petite- I hear those stories in Cebu a lot.
I will always treat my beautiful girlfriend with respect and I will always always love her and respect her and appreciate her and I am so thankful for her,just waiting patiently now
Yes, Petite. It looks like good progress is being made on your home.
I get why some Filipinas want to meet a foreigner. My filipina girlfriend is in her late 30s with kids. She wanted to try her luck with something different when she met me. I liked the different perspective and appreciation she had for me that the women in my previous relationships did not have. I get why there are a lot of Filipinas looking for foreigners and visa versa. Remember to be careful about picking foreigners as well. Some foreign men also have the negative traits you described in Filipino men.
I think it’s easier to find someone like-minded when you are willing go beyond your own border for a relationship.
Best wishes in your future.
As usual, your incredible honesty is very refreshing.
Hi Petite. Another good video. Does that type of roof keep the rain out when it gets heavy rain? I know it's cultural for Filipino men to act this way and the culture continues to allow this to continue because these immature men are celebrated and rewarded for their terrible behavior. Eventually this behavior will catch up with them. For now, you and other filipinas just need to do what is best for you. There is nothing wrong with wanting a better life and a partner who is willing to think toward the future. Your king will come. Be patient and keep moving forward one step at a time.
Lovies its a good house 🏠. and good roof too ❤...
Thanks and its nice to see you here ❤
Once again Petite, an amazing heart-felt and honest video. I really appreciate your perspective. Bravo & Marami Salamat until next time 🙂
This was a great video! I hope you will show us more of your house. I enjoyed seeing the materials used and how it was constructed. Salamat!
thanks for sharing your thoughts
Always refreshing and encouraging to listen to an honest Filipino perspective on known facts regarding the majority of Filipino men. Filipinas must also remember that the majority of foreign men are not much different when it comes to proper responsibility for the family, laziness, vices (womanizing, smoking, alcohol consumption, drugs, gambling, sexual addiction (pornography), profanity, verbal, psychological and physical abuse, lack of education, values and etiquette.) The majority of foreign men either do not believe in God, or at best, have a half-baked notion of the teachings and principles of the biblical Christ. They certainly do not study, follow, or lead a life representative of disciples. When America and the Philippines claim 80% of the population is Christian, yet the people live in constant sin, corruption, greed, vulgarness, disrespect of each other and have bad behavioral attitudes, it is no wonder why relationships do not develop properly and turn out well. My advice to an honest and good charactered Filipina is take your time and be thorough in selecting a foreign man. There are decent foreigners out there, you just have to vet them carefully. Foreign men and women will lie and deceive, just like Pinays and Pinoys. If you use basic common sense and do not lead with desperation, eventually you will find a decent mate worth the wait. Also, stop putting so much value on the beauty of physical characteristics as that typically leads to relationship issues. As long as a married couple focuses on the immediate family's essential needs and well-being, with the comprehension that working together in love for the family's greater good, and not selfish personal desires, will serve the relationship well, whether poor, middle class or wealthy. Good luck.
I agree with most of what you write, accept that I am not religious. Whether men believe in a god or not, their actions speak louder than their words. It amazes me that the view of Filipinas on foreign men is as positive as it is, while they get the left-overs. Good foreign men may be able to find a good wife back home as well. The picture we see on social media is very positive, but I doubt it is that way in reality.
@@GerbenWulff I agree with 100%. I am a US Naturalized citizen, been here almost 40 years. Most of the American men that I worked with are good men, very close to their family. Most of them are married to the high school sweat heart. Only I see my Filipina co-workers are the worst kind. They always boast about having a relationship with a Filipina as half age as them, they visit their country every year to have good times with those girls. Their wife are not good moral at all. Both have bad sides. Why these American men go and marry these left-over woman in Philippines? These woman have many men at the same time. I am in this UA-cam channel because one of my love one got trapped in a Filipina scammer. I am trying to understand this Filipina culture and figure out how I can rescue my own kid. These woman are like Siren in Homers Odyssey. Only one way I can rescue American by putting ear plugs with beeswax and has them bind. These woman are immoral creatures.
@@GerbenWulff I tend to agree with you. There are good non-religious men around the world, too, just have to vet them out. Being raised in a good family environment certainly helps cultivate a person in the right civil direction, but in reality, an individual is responsible for their own development and accountability as they mature.
@@RameshKumar-zw1ch I understand your viewpoint and certainly I am aware of Filipinos in the U.S. like what you described. There are some decent Filipino's living in the U.S. too. Like with anything, you have to use good judgement in any relationship choice. What type of work are you employed in?
@@serenepeacefulrelaxingmusi3874 Well said. I couldn't agree more with all you stated. Very wise advice.
There are always a few bad apples, but I believe that most Filipinas are very sweet, loving, honest and true. Thankyou for the information.
Filipinas best friends in the world, and work hard. i had filipinas friends in my military deployment, always smilling and positive, best wishes to all filipines people.... wish to have new filipina friend....
Thanks for the video! I can't wait to visit the Philippines once the restrictions over there clear up a little bit. In regards to a relationship it's give and take. Both genders are looking for different things in a partner, but that's the beauty of the union between man and woman 👍.
Dont buy their bullshit !1
Hello Petite. I am from Canada and I like your channel. Most of the things you say about Filipino men is true of some men I know. Beware.
Thanks for the insights ... These are natural things that are faced everywhere. The challenges can be overcome with the right two people that take time to understand each other and work together. Many thanks for sharing this msg.
I remember when i asked question to my mom . " ma , if you'll go back to the past , what should you do?".
Mom: im gonna look for a richman , it doesn't matter if he beat the hell out of me or hit me everytime he want . Just accept the fact that i have you and your sister and treat you guys like his own . Im the one who need to sacrifice everything . Not you. ( that time , i told my mom that i want to go college but it's better if i help her , so my sister will go first instead of me)
Amazing,,,youare describing my philipina. She has said the same thing,,,word for word.
I think you pretty much gave everybody a clear picture of the situation.Any man that wouldn't be true to a woman that done what you said the wife would treat him i wouldn't know what to think about him.
My one and only reason for this is ,
ACCEPTANCE!!!!!!!
Either Filipino or foreign guys!
Because you cannot prove your love and pure commitment to a guy once you don’t have acceptance for yourself. That’s why there is a getting to know each other situations!❤️
Thanks for sharing !!
So, now I know why my wife chose me to marry 41 years ago! Unfortunately, what you are saying is true. Honestly, I don’t know how a man can shirk his responsibilities to his family.
Either can I guess we don’t relate to deadbeats.
@@elliottschertzer876 Exactly
Once you know and understand Asian men, not just Filipinos, you will understand what Asian women have to put up with and endure! It is heart breaking for us decent Westerners to see.
@@jeh1333 That’s right!
Wow and I like Asian men.
Wow, that is so sad that Filipino men could treat their women so poorly. In my opinion the Filipino woman is what every man should desire! There all very beautiful. They all want their partner to be a provider and care for the family. Seems to me as an American a perfect way to live. The husband and wife should be a team as they grow together. But even here in the states there are a lot of men who abuse their partner, worry more about themselves instead of their partner or are just less than perfect. Petite you make such good points on why some Filipino women see opportunity in foreign partners. As always it's a pleasure to watch your vlog and learn about the Filipino culture as a whole. Hats off to you and your family!!!
Are you saying American men doesn’t do the same? I’ve seen a lot of divorces, domestic violence, sexual/physical, and emotional abuse, single moms who depends on government assistance because their “American” ex-husband doesn’t provide child or financial support. What do you say about that?
@@rmendozalivingtemecula oh I agree with you. American men are some of the worst as far as that goes. Just saying we all need to treat out partners as the jewels that they are. With respect and always with consideration for there feelings and needs.
Thank you I appreciate you being open and telling the truth about Filipino men, God bless be safe...
It depends on Filipino men, because on some country sides, there are not enough work to search but if you are in the cities, Filipino women choose their kababayan rather than a foreign due to its culture,
Great video, good to see an honest outlook-
Very well said mam , that's why me i decided to find a foreigner because they are loyal and generous ..
Some are, but the majority are not. Be careful.
@@poiqweee yes we've been 4 years together now and we have 1 kid
@@sizzykelly Oh, sorry. I thought by the way you stated your comment you were still looking. Glad to hear you are content in your marriage.
Excellent post OK very informative and helpful I'm definitely looking for a Filipino but I'm not sure as to what I want to do I want to retire there
It's really sad and a hard time for you and all the girls in your country don't be sad always got hope and be positive some in any part of this world will love you ok
Take that cape off fam u can’t save them all
Sadly, I’m 70 years old so it’s a little too late for me to start over. But if I could it would be with a Philippine lady I think. Thanks for this interesting and informative video.
Er why? I am 67years old and I am getting on with it. What are you going to do just sit in an armchair like a friend of mine did and died on his own. Live life.
My friend wasn't discovered for 17weeks what an end. What are you going to do if you live to be 100. All the people who live long lives have an attitude of looking forward.
I am 71. My life just began ! You sound like yours just ended. Get up and live bro !!
And another thing years ago I was talking to a 19 year old and thinking I wish I was him he has all that life ahead of him. A week later I didn't want to be him he went under a truck, splat. Just felt out there and get on with life.
Daniel,
it is NEVER to late that is just a figment of your imagination.
If you have a pulse and a good heart you are good to go!
Give it a try, the ball is in your court.
I am 71 and still rocking on so, come and join the team we need you!
I really appreciate your honesty in this video. It is difficult to say that some Filipino men are like this, but bad behaviour must be called out.
I was shocked at how many young single mum's I saw on dating sites. I was also shocked at how many married men bragged about having a girlfriend also.
🙂
WOW Petite. Another great video. Your common sense and respect for yourself when explaining says it all. All the best with your new home. Namaste🙏
Well said beautiful young lady. I applaud your honesty and bravery.
This is got to be the most honest video I’ve seen on here , your a smart woman, pretty too
Such a great topic 👏 thank you maganda lage ka 😊 I loved this video
I just found your channel, enjoying your videos. Subscribed now, so I can learn more. God bless you.
I’ve heard so many sad stories from my Pinay friends over the years
Just because a man is the leader in the family is no reason to put hands on woman or child in bad way. A true family man understands his role and won't abuse his role as Dad. For me a woman's role is more important in many ways. That is why a male figure should set good examples.
I'll be visiting Mandaluyong, in September to meet my special someone. been talking for 3 years wish us luck:)
Your opinions are very objective and honest the truth is most helpful for anyone considering relocating...thanks for that🙏😁😁💕
Real talk. I appreciate your honesty.
I can understand why some woman may not trust men anymore ,i'm sure they can find a good man who don't drink etc .salamat for your video
Thank you for all you do for us foreigners
Great video...like I said before, you got good and bad in all peoples!
She just telling how it is on her country most Filipinas that are looking for date a foreigner is just looking for stability and a serious commitment . But be careful you can find yourself with a gold digger remember this happens on all country's but as for the ones tired of how they are getting treated are just looking for a positive change
This is my first time watching your channel and I'm impressed by your video i really like you and your outlook on life and relationships I wish American women think the way you do about relationships
There’s a saying here in the US once a cheater always a cheater 🤦♂️
I understand where you coming from because back in the days being a player was normal and the woman would just accept it because there wasn’t no divorce just annulment. I love my pinays since I came out of one. 🥰🥰🥰
Thanks for sharing.
You are the best your mindset is from God just what I am looking for amen
You have really good English. 👍 Totally understand what you're saying also. Seen it first hand there.
Thank you so much for your honesty and views
I have been to almost all the countries in Southeast Asia.Filipina women and Filipinos are the most wonderful people. That's why I will check out Davao in May.
Good point , also in the USA we have much of the same mainly in the cities and hidden in the country side (hence our media doesnt cover it much in the countryside). One Big difference between our countries is that (correct me if I'm wong) in the Philippines there's fewer/less accessible options/services/programs or monetary support for the mothers or pregnant women vs say the U.S. Example: Welfare, Wic, local non profit healthcare, church programs, temp & part time work, daycare, government cash cards etc etc.
US courts enforce the child support laws. That is a huge difference
Still disturbs my mind that any real man could put his addictions above his families needs. I'm an American, from a poor part of the US. Like Filipinos we let the children eat first and then the adults only get the leftovers. How can you drink or smoke if your children and wife can't eat?
Also Filipinas are like this. I know a lot here in Belgium and the numbers of men they go through...
Great information video just great 👍
I'm 28 for context I am in love with my pinay aye haha she literally rocks my world so funny our conversations are an how humble she is .. you've got great content 👏
I really appreciate your candor and honesty I know it must be hard talking about such things😔 I'm sorry there are a lot of people they're going through those type of things I'm sorry to say there are going to be good guys going there but there probably will be some bad guys also hopefully more good than bad I think a lot of guys honestly want New Life a lot of Western women a lot of Western men I know no matter what I did it wasn't enough my ex-wife would take tripping to your every year to visit her sister and do what else she would travel to visit her family in other parts of the country also she was very bad with money she had a really good job and still it was hard to make ends meet I knew for years I needed to get out and I stayed way too long and that's why I lost a very expensive house hopefully you find what you need
Hi...i enjoy your videos because the talk about the common things.....the things of most interest...Can you do a video on relationship with older man.
Please keep on doing what you are doing ok I love ur blog, 💗
Great vlogs! I just subscribed.
Thanks for subbing Lovies.
First, your very attractive woman with so much practical truthful advice. I found my forever true Filipina in Mandaue. 2 years of texting and 2-3 videos monthly. I have been learning about Philippines and relationships from people like you for 2 years too. Hopefully I will be over ina few months finally. I pray you find a true love too take care of your needs and daughter.