@@courtneynichols5060 her not comprehending intellectualizing emotions feels like explaining mental illness to someone who’s never felt depression like it’s actually incredible to watch
too short!! guys please make these longer, this is my favourite thing to watch all week and I could listen to yall talk about literally anything. Very calming for my nervous system lol
Boy slug here I’m a 23 year old guy, diddled along with my young brother, and I just want to give my support these ladies give me so much courage and confidence both taking abt it and on the road to recovery, love y’all ❤❤❤
Re: The conversation at 45:00, intellectualizing your feelings. I did this FOR YEARS. I could talk endlessly and dispassionately about the horrors of my childhood. It included all the sexual assault, straight up neglect, and abandonment (because my parents are both addicts) you'd hope to find in a shitty origin story. People would often comment on how "well" I was doing in life despite all the stuff they'd learn about my early years. I thought, "Since I can remember these things, and talk about them openly, I've 'made my peace' with them." NO... It wasn't until I was in an Al-Anon room, (actually ACA, Adult Children of Alcoholic Parents), that I had a full emotional breakthough, because, I was finally telling a room full of people that I knew would actually understand and FEEL what I probably felt or wanted to feel about it as a kid, but, couldn't lest I face further consequences. I realized that people don't have just "buried memories".... we can actually have "buried emotions". And, when they say that the body keeps score.... it does. I think it's actually critical to finally let the you who experienced all that hardship openly express the emotional pain and damage, instead of bottling it up, putting on a brave face, or not crying or reacting because you'd rather die than let them know that they "got to you"..... When it's your time, and you feel safe, FEEL IT. FEEL IT for the little you that was too scared to, to brave to. Your feelings are valid. Set them free.
I’m new to Al-Anon and ACA and appreciate what you’ve shared - I feel like I’ve found a home in ACA and whilst it’s all very confronting I have a lot of hope ❤
My dog just passed away a couple months ago. He was my best friend ever and it's been so hard without him around. I may not have kids but if I did there's no way I would have loved my dog any less
I agree with Esther! This podcast has done so much for me in talking about trauma 55:19 and the healing process. It really helped me take the shame away and start getting help. Thank you ladies for helping me feel less alone!
Dude I love Annie so much, really can’t say enough how valuable her voice has been, been rewatching old episodes and her rant on Schaub and the Bloodbath weirdos spoke to my soul man. As someone who hasn’t had a woman-only friend group since 8th grade, this podcast makes me feel like I have that again. Thanks sluggies
Thank you Esther for saying we can love our dogs as much as other women love their children. I think about this all the time! -36&childless and named her business after her dog
same here. 29 y/o childless guy, but my doberman, Boris, is practically my child. I even have a special diet for him and learned to clip his nails myself since groomers never did a good job with his enormous nails lol. He doesn't even go to sleep until I tuck him in at night 😂
I don't think the fear of getting pregnant, really adds that much. My Ol' Lady has her tubes tied, and I go-go where The Good Lord intended, and sometimes we'll push ourselves into our astral forms
Sometimes when Esther says , "I heard" or "There's people saying," I want to know where she heard or who said these things. Sometimes it's like you know it's her thoughts or opinions, but she's afraid to just say that. If that's the case Esther, OWN IT GIRL!
An episode without a guest that withholds evidence of her friends murmur AND makes a career off it! Brilliant thanks ladies glad to be able to be back this week
What Khalyla was talking about toward the end about intellectualizing feelings is exactly what my therapist and I just talked about in our last session! We had simultaneous breakthroughs about that exact thing. Thanks for sharing!
I've always kind of understood the anti-birth control movement as women being against putting all of these extra hormones in our bodies that can cause chaos. Like some people get more emotional, some get sick (like me, I would get sick from hormonal birth control), and the unfairness that women are the ones who need to take all of these life altering hormones and men don't. And doctors have historically just prescribed women birth control to manage everything under the sun, like acne and pcos, and we haven't put in the thought to mange these conditions in better ways. And finally, when you are excreting all of these extra hormones into the water it can disrupt wildlife, like causing hermaphrodism in some aquatic animals
She is our spiritual babyyy...so maybe something weird happened? You guys were connected for a split second in time. yee... Rambling....anyways, happy for ya ha
For me, as a man, nothig could be less hot then worrying about getting someone pregnant. And i´ve had that scare a coiple of times. Very NON-Sexy, very scary. If it´s meant to be then it´s all well but as a result of error it´s not desirable in any way. Love you guys but some of these takes are very questionable xD
I have a son (21) and we had 2 dogs. (1 still alive, one passed 2 years ago from old age). We also have a cat. They’re our family, but, if I had to save one, I’m obviously saving my son. I’d take having a child 10 times over just loving a pet, but motherhood isn’t for everyone and that’s okay. Just know you can love both at the same time.
49:24 this whole thing. I’ve put off therapy for so long because I don’t want to dig it up and go through everything again. I cry almost every time I have a real therapy session. And I haven’t had one in over 5 years.
I don't know if ya'll know this, but I noticed your views have been down, and it coincides with UA-cam not showing me lately when new episodes come out. I only noticed it recently so I missed several episodes and I'm catching up while I'm sick now. Could be a coincidence, but seems like you might have upset the algorithm somehow. Or it's a coincidence. I don't know.
Their views have been dwindling since way back to the beginning episodes. Could just be your algorithm. I see all the new episodes pop up on my home feed.
1:00:05 I think choking is apart of an erotic thing! I definitely do not associate it with rape (have been in past); it’s more a reminder of control. Some may associate that with rape, but if you are a controlling person in your life, it’s a domination thing
Khalyla just wanted to thank you for being so candid about your therapy experience & intellectualising feelings. such a nuanced topic, i have been grappling with this recently (have compplx ptsd and doing emdr processing) and i have been finding it so hard to explain - but u nailed it!
Okay when Bobby said "Esther has the social skill of an 18th century ghost" I felt that... but now more than ever in this outfit
It was Russell Brand that said that about her
And in her trying so hard, so slowly to follow Khalyla and Annie in re: to healing trauma
@@courtneynichols5060 her not comprehending intellectualizing emotions feels like explaining mental illness to someone who’s never felt depression like it’s actually incredible to watch
@@abbyz13 that’s our little Esther! ☺️
@@StenKingsley Oh really?
too short!! guys please make these longer, this is my favourite thing to watch all week and I could listen to yall talk about literally anything. Very calming for my nervous system lol
frfr when it’s less than an hour i get major disappointment
Boy slug here I’m a 23 year old guy, diddled along with my young brother, and I just want to give my support these ladies give me so much courage and confidence both taking abt it and on the road to recovery, love y’all ❤❤❤
Re: The conversation at 45:00, intellectualizing your feelings. I did this FOR YEARS. I could talk endlessly and dispassionately about the horrors of my childhood. It included all the sexual assault, straight up neglect, and abandonment (because my parents are both addicts) you'd hope to find in a shitty origin story. People would often comment on how "well" I was doing in life despite all the stuff they'd learn about my early years. I thought, "Since I can remember these things, and talk about them openly, I've 'made my peace' with them." NO... It wasn't until I was in an Al-Anon room, (actually ACA, Adult Children of Alcoholic Parents), that I had a full emotional breakthough, because, I was finally telling a room full of people that I knew would actually understand and FEEL what I probably felt or wanted to feel about it as a kid, but, couldn't lest I face further consequences. I realized that people don't have just "buried memories".... we can actually have "buried emotions". And, when they say that the body keeps score.... it does. I think it's actually critical to finally let the you who experienced all that hardship openly express the emotional pain and damage, instead of bottling it up, putting on a brave face, or not crying or reacting because you'd rather die than let them know that they "got to you"..... When it's your time, and you feel safe, FEEL IT. FEEL IT for the little you that was too scared to, to brave to. Your feelings are valid. Set them free.
I’m new to Al-Anon and ACA and appreciate what you’ve shared - I feel like I’ve found a home in ACA and whilst it’s all very confronting I have a lot of hope ❤
Y'all gotta bring Hila onto the pod!
Yes! Bring Ethan too
@@britnysnyder4991love ethan but nooo, i want an hila exclusive
That’ll be the slowest podcast ever lol Hila doesn’t really have much to say
Why? So they can have four narcissistic women all in one place?
Please 😭
lol at Esther being a fan of Gollum. Its so on brand for her.
I hope next weeks theme is Lord of the Rings 😂
"I'm putting on weight for a role." ...... "what role?" ...... " cinnamon ."
LMAO I totally missed this. It had to be Annie that said it
no one said it
@@worlddictionary9954 then why put it in quotes psh
ua-cam.com/video/X6418URPatI/v-deo.html sorry for the joke , Karen
Esther being surprised that Khalylas song choices are sad is so funny to me lol
Everyone grieves differently.
I LOVE TUESDAY WITH MY GIRLS!!!
My dog just passed away a couple months ago. He was my best friend ever and it's been so hard without him around. I may not have kids but if I did there's no way I would have loved my dog any less
I agree with Esther! This podcast has done so much for me in talking about trauma 55:19 and the healing process. It really helped me take the shame away and start getting help. Thank you ladies for helping me feel less alone!
Wow Annie looks really good with no make up
We need a bride of Gollum themed episode. They need to dress as their own interpretation of what it would look like
Dude I love Annie so much, really can’t say enough how valuable her voice has been, been rewatching old episodes and her rant on Schaub and the Bloodbath weirdos spoke to my soul man. As someone who hasn’t had a woman-only friend group since 8th grade, this podcast makes me feel like I have that again. Thanks sluggies
I was gonna say where are my sluggies attttttt whew! 😅 🐌❤️
Thank you Esther for saying we can love our dogs as much as other women love their children. I think about this all the time! -36&childless and named her business after her dog
same here. 29 y/o childless guy, but my doberman, Boris, is practically my child. I even have a special diet for him and learned to clip his nails myself since groomers never did a good job with his enormous nails lol. He doesn't even go to sleep until I tuck him in at night 😂
It would be funny imagining Esther choking insects.🤣
Esther at 29:30 literally pitching Lysistrata by Aristophanes SENT MEEEE
Spike Lee's Chiraq... which was indeed drawn from Lysistria
@@coolraul510 I love both of you
annies eyes are so pretty. so green.
I don't think the fear of getting pregnant, really adds that much. My Ol' Lady has her tubes tied, and I go-go where The Good Lord intended, and sometimes we'll push ourselves into our astral forms
Hell yeah 🎉
Sometimes when Esther says , "I heard" or "There's people saying," I want to know where she heard or who said these things. Sometimes it's like you know it's her thoughts or opinions, but she's afraid to just say that. If that's the case Esther, OWN IT GIRL!
The answer is always tiktok 😂
@@s33king4d6 lol you're not wrong.
I would say shit like that too if my opinions were just as embarrassing
no ur so right bc she says this so often. cite ur sources!
@@abbyz13 lol right...and here I thought people were gonna rip me for calling her out. Glad I'm not the only one.
You killed it in Raleigh Esther!
Annie made my HomePod start playing music. 😂😂😂
I think Annie’s costume is fine, Waffle House Waitress on point
I really love this episode! Real, honest talk is so valuable! Thanks girls... Love you Annie! 😉❤️✨
Trash Tuesdays are the best ❤
Esther’s taste in pop music has always been superior
Right?? Quoting every sza song ever lol
Wow esther dated both hinchcliffe and redban? Whoah lol
Thanks Sluggies! ⭐🌹😘💕⭐
That banana break came at such a serious moment in the conversation!!!! Like whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaatttt?
Esther @31:20 got me crying
Ive gotta get Redban back was not given the right laugh 😂
Bahaha not the 'Pun Couch' translating to the fart couch in Spanish ahahhahahahaha
54:13 Esther pulls on her knee skin
Esther can only carry this show for so long
You spelled Annie wrong
Annie is me making a joke to break up the sad stuff. I'm laugh crying.
Where mah sluggies at ? 🐌
Anyone have their HomePod activated by Annie requesting who let the dogs out
An episode without a guest that withholds evidence of her friends murmur AND makes a career off it! Brilliant thanks ladies glad to be able to be back this week
I really don't know why people keep inviting her on podcasts
@@twistedthumbv2 who?
Who Amanda?
@@Redrumgivemecum Yes
What Khalyla was talking about toward the end about intellectualizing feelings is exactly what my therapist and I just talked about in our last session! We had simultaneous breakthroughs about that exact thing. Thanks for sharing!
Did he illustrate to you that your a pretentious and boring droob, or is that next week's breakthrough?
Annie was so valid with Caruso’s fake snow LMAOOO
Esther: That’s hot
Khalila: he does look like Todd
This was such a good episode. Thank you guys 🙏🎉
Esther's knees resemble her ancestors
"King of Wishful Thinking" is an S Tier pick
Sza , she is killin r&b rn
I've always kind of understood the anti-birth control movement as women being against putting all of these extra hormones in our bodies that can cause chaos. Like some people get more emotional, some get sick (like me, I would get sick from hormonal birth control), and the unfairness that women are the ones who need to take all of these life altering hormones and men don't. And doctors have historically just prescribed women birth control to manage everything under the sun, like acne and pcos, and we haven't put in the thought to mange these conditions in better ways. And finally, when you are excreting all of these extra hormones into the water it can disrupt wildlife, like causing hermaphrodism in some aquatic animals
Lysistrata a play from Ancient Greece
Best breakup song from high school is Crazy by KC and Jojo
Oh damn I was typing King of Wishful Thinking right as Annie said it. That video is wild.
She is our spiritual babyyy...so maybe something weird happened? You guys were connected for a split second in time. yee...
Rambling....anyways, happy for ya ha
For me, as a man, nothig could be less hot then worrying about getting someone pregnant. And i´ve had that scare a coiple of times. Very NON-Sexy, very scary. If it´s meant to be then it´s all well but as a result of error it´s not desirable in any way. Love you guys but some of these takes are very questionable xD
As a woman WITH two kiddos, it is not a hot DANGEROUS feeling. It's ghetto lol
Are we going the Schulz route of letting the plants in the background die and then just buying new ones 😂
I can't keep plants alive either 😂
My Top 3 Break-Up Songs:
1. Eamon- Fuck It (I Don't Want You Back)
2. Limp Bizkit- Nookie
3. Rollins Band- Liar
😀
great podcast, good feelings :D
Easy by The Commodores, absolutely the best break-up song of all time... Sail On a close 2nd. 😎
The way of the househusband is one of my fav anime!! Love y’all ❤ watch every week 😘
Can you have Hila Klein on here, please!?!
IS THAT THE MALE VERSION OF LADY GAGA LMAOOO
222 means 2 eggs, 2 pieces of bacon, 2 pancakes. Everyone knows this.
The gals are firing on all cylinders in this one strong ep
Gollum deepfakes would be awesomely creepy
I really relate to Khalyla's description of " intellectualizing feelings" . I have never heard this spoken aloud. Great stuff!
Jules being what Khalyla was for Bobby in terms of finding things is hilarious. Pretty much Khalyla turning into Bobby haha
This is the only thing that brings me joy in my deepest of sorrows and you deserve boundless abundance and love
That was my alter ego - fr I fuck w y’all
using 2 for the angel number 222 is extra relevant because that's the alignment we lived through here in the 2000s... 2022 .... 2/22/2022 :))
i’m surprised annie didn’t say nickleback
Choking insects 😂
🦗🪰🦟🪳
I'm surprised Annie didn't wear the outfit from her queen's show Two Broke Girls 😆
I always stay in Esterstan, but the Keys of Koko Bay lookin pretty good these last couple weeks ❤
I have a son (21) and we had 2 dogs. (1 still alive, one passed 2 years ago from old age). We also have a cat. They’re our family, but, if I had to save one, I’m obviously saving my son. I’d take having a child 10 times over just loving a pet, but motherhood isn’t for everyone and that’s okay. Just know you can love both at the same time.
They would love Ashnikko if they don't already!!
Omfg yes! She has TT vibes
@@JBGC916 right? She would be such a fun guest now that I think about it they could totally get her on there!
After having two kids I don’t think it’s hot at all. I like the fact my husband can go go whenever we want is hotter and I’m so much more relaxed
lmao Kim Kardashian also said to vote for Rick Caruso
49:24 this whole thing. I’ve put off therapy for so long because I don’t want to dig it up and go through everything again. I cry almost every time I have a real therapy session. And I haven’t had one in over 5 years.
Love you guys
I don't know if ya'll know this, but I noticed your views have been down, and it coincides with UA-cam not showing me lately when new episodes come out. I only noticed it recently so I missed several episodes and I'm catching up while I'm sick now.
Could be a coincidence, but seems like you might have upset the algorithm somehow. Or it's a coincidence. I don't know.
it’s every tuesday lol
Their views have been dwindling since way back to the beginning episodes. Could just be your algorithm. I see all the new episodes pop up on my home feed.
❤Hiiiii slugies, woodies, n terrarium gang❤
1:00:05 I think choking is apart of an erotic thing! I definitely do not associate it with rape (have been in past); it’s more a reminder of control. Some may associate that with rape, but if you are a controlling person in your life, it’s a domination thing
Powerful female ballad - How Can I Ease the Pain by Lisa Fischer
Love this ep
ANNIE ESTHER N KHALYLA BEST TEAM BEST TEAM
Oh man, Annie supports Rick Caruso. That's rough. Lets just stay away from politics girls please.
HILARIOUS freaking episode!!! One of the best yet:-)
I miss Carlos :( wish we got the backstory about the new stu and where our boy is
He is in Bad Friends - I’m sure bobo got sick of the non stop flirting with his ex
@@tomblaze2 hey you never know what if bobby wanted to flirt with carlos
So I finally get Liz’s name… on her TT appearance!
My Canadian FIL shot & killed two people in a drug/money dispute & only did 10 years.
Its honestly crazy that they didnt grab the hosts measurements for a costume episode, so weird😅
Doubt these were custom made, by the look of it the choices were small , medium, and large and the dresses run small
Didn’t Esther do a reality tv pilot with Carlos and Rick?
02:00
Esther you just described ‘CHI-RAQ’. Spike Lee movie where the women withhold sex to stop gun violence in Chicago. It’s amazing and surreal.
I think they did this in Peru too back in the 70s
Esther found her mum's makeup.
just saw Annie kill it Magoobies
Thankful 🧡
K looks gooooood
21:09 can you guys still get paid if you have AI do the ad reads? 🤔🤖🗣️
I hate the background change! The other was so vibrant and this one is millennial gray corporate industrial vibes
28:27 💀
Khalyla just wanted to thank you for being so candid about your therapy experience & intellectualising feelings. such a nuanced topic, i have been grappling with this recently (have compplx ptsd and doing emdr processing) and i have been finding it so hard to explain - but u nailed it!
What a shout out for Way of the House Husband, super funny manga and anime. As a fellow house Husband Sluggy, I love it.
I adore ALL of y’all