How To Let Go of Heartache with Buddy Owens
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- Опубліковано 25 жов 2015
- Jesus commands us to love our enemies - but how is it possible to love people who hate you, hurt you, and make life difficult for you? In this message, Pastor Buddy Owens teaches about “agape” love, the kind of love that Jesus has for us. It’s this kind of love we’re called to show our enemies - compassion, generosity, kindness, and goodness. In learning about “agape” love, you’ll realize that it begins in your mind and is only possible with God’s help. Tune into this message to gain insight on how to better handle relationships, live a lifestyle of forgiveness, and let go of a heartache.
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(Heartache) (Healing from a heartache) (relationships) (love) (storge) (Eros) (Agape) (Phileo) (Community) (Forgiveness) (forgive) (Ways of the cross) (Saddleback Church) (Buddy Owens)
How to release pain
1. Give it to God.
2. Change your mind - dont harbor thoughts of anger or revenge.
3. Pray for them. ask God to bless them.
Go with God my friends... we can do it.
Excellent sermon! 🏆
iamunique1 it’s easier said than done esp when it’s replaying in your head 25/10
I have been a Christian for 40 years and this Pastor explains everything so we can understand God's Message. I love this video and his word. I shared it to Face Book because people need to hear God's word. Amen!
3 years later and this sermon is still at work 🙏🏻👍🏻
I have never commented on a video on UA-cam before. What an incredible message delivered honestly and very heartfelt. I am currently in the prison of thinking about my transgressor for three years straight, almost all of my waking hours. I have to get myself out of this mental prison. Pastor Buddy is right, it isn't easy but I can't keep obsessing over this. I will pray for my ex and give it to God for the next 30 days. I will definitely be watching more of Saddleback messages, especially this pastors. Thank you so much
I feel like hating but loving my ex too...but god bless...her but I guess I learned n excuse not to fight to be back with her...
THANK YOU I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM THIS ONE RICK ABOUT CRYING 😢 😭 🙏 ❤ 😔 I WAS TAUGHT AT A VERY YOUNG AGE BY MY DAD NOT TO CRY.CRYING ONLYMEANT MORE BEATINGS OF TJE BELT.SO I DIDN'T CRY BECAUSE IT WAS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS. BUT I DIDNT RAISE MY KIDS LIKE THIS.I SAID CRYING FOR THEM WAS OK.MY X HUSBAND TAUGHT MY SON MEN DONT CRY.I SAID TO MY SON ITS OK TO CRY SON.YOUR DAD IS WRONG IN THIS.MY X HUSBAND WAS INTO MOCHO MAN.PUT I ALWAYS HAD TO COUNTER ACT EVERYTHING HE SAID TO THEM.I TOLDMY KIDS THAT IDONT HAVE ALOT OF MONEY TO OFFER YOU BUT THAT I WILL TEACH YOU ABOUT GOD.THATS THE GREATEST GIFT I CAN GIVE YOU.GOD IS ALL YOU NEED IN LIFE.
I have watched so many videos on forgiveness which did not really help me. This video touched my heart and helped me turn the corner on forgiveness, especially with one person in particular. It's been a rough road but at the end of the day it feels so much better to let go of the anguish of unforgiveness than to carry it in your heart.
70x7 baby!
Forgiveness is one of the hardest things to do when trying to walk with God. However I'm trying to get there. God please help me I know you're able and I'm wanting to walk in obedience.
What I like about this is that he actually gives us a method for forgiving instead of telling us we need to. I know that, but how? How to stop thinking and hurting? The plan of action for forgiveness is one I know I will use. I've struggled with unforgiveness and this is the first time a message really gave me things I could use moment to moment to help me grow. Thank you for sharing this.
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It's so crazy, I clicked on this video randomly and it was EXACTLY what I needed to hear at this very moment! ❤️ God really is with us. 🙏🏼
One of the BEST sermons I have ever heard! Amen!
Mary Ward Amen
Wow this is one of the best sermons I ever heard on forgiveness explained in truth and in love. I felt every word that I listened to it again and made notes. I thank God for you Man of God I have been looking and waiting for a teaching like this. God answered my prayer I'm free from bitterness and unforgiveness as I know what that cell was like to be in and to be tormented from not letting go of my hurt. Praise God for freedom.💕💕😍😍
Gosh. Forgiveness is one of the beautiful gifts that God has given us as a form of free will to release our pain. So difficult to do.
Wow one of the best sermons I ever heard on forgiveness. I thank God for you Man of God I have waiting for a teaching like this absolutely fantastic. Praise God who the sons sets free is free indeed.💕😍😍
This pastor is insightful and easy to listen to. Aside from pastor Rick, he's my second favorite.
C D I find him easier to listen to than rick
This is absolutely fabulous…. Wow,,,what a spot on sermon on forgiveness. 🙌🏻🙏🏻
The Lord is doing this right now in my life. This Friday I am going back to the group I have been judged and torn down at. I am going back to show love and forgive. I am at peace with this. Thanks for the Teaching Saddleback yes Hagar and Jacob went back, pray for me as I rest in Jesus trusting He walks with me.
Thank You for this message, it really hit home for me. I will work towards this with my Sons' Dad.
I'm going to work toward this
Thank you Buddy great message forgiveness is a lifestyle.
Dear Jesus thank you for sending me this message. My heart has been hurt and abused in so many ways. I've been unable to trust and share my heart for fear it will again be broken. Im 66 years old and have finally felt peace through your message. Thank you Jesus! I will try to carry your message in my heart to continue to heal me and others. Love you and God Bless you too Jesus
❤ I am gonna listen to this daily
I shared this message three times! I needed to forgive myself!
I needed this today and the days to come. Thanks for sharing!
Oh, soooo needed this! Been on this path, but you outlined it so perfectly! On 30 day challenge!
Thank you pastor buddy.
I need this massage today
God help me I need kind of help in Jesus name
hello Buddy thanks for a great message.
thank you for this awesome message.May the Lord continue to bless all pastors in saddle back church and in any other congression. Godbless!
I listen to this message almost 1-2 times a week. It’s so appropriate for me. ❤️
This is incredibly wisdomfilled and funny too
A timeless message! Release, intentional transformation and prayer.
Thank you Pastor Owen. The used you to speak to me today. Forgiveness is a struggle but the LORD is helping me. #grateful
Its horrible ...you forgive them but then your brain brings it up again and again ....
Thank you so much! I have been blessed from heartache.
Thank you for an amazing God-centred sermon. I’ve listened to this several times over the past year when encountering deep sadness and resentment towards a close friend that severely hurt me. So grateful for you Buddy. Bless you and your family x
Much needed! Such a blessing!
Thank you Pastor.
Awesome sermon. Hits home.
amen...thank you God...
Thank u very much couldn't come at a better time in my life.
Third time listening to this sermon . Need every word 🙏🏻
Thank you. This is so far the best prayer I have learned. God bless you.
I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this important message. Anger and vengeance has consumed me for some time and it's time to forgive and let go and trust God.
Beautiful message!
such amazing perching this was. thank you so much, may GOD always give you strength to continue this great work.
Love this message 🙏
Awesome message. very timely.
When talked about forgiveness and forgiving others, I thought, I have no real enemies and I already forgive because God is been brought into my heart. However, I have trouble forgiving myself which seems to drive me away from God. This sermon helped me realize this. I’ve had trouble letting go of my wrongs and faults and seem to be very hard on myself. Are their any words or sermons that can help guide me to add in my self forgiveness? Thank you and God bless you for for the work you do for Him.
This message is really for me! Thank God I found this video. :')
Great message. I really needed this message tonight. I am struggling with loving people who hurt me. This message was sent from God to me. My heart is broken. I’m trying to fix it.
This is the message I needed to hear today. Thank you ☺️
I love this Pastor😘
Thank you so much for teaching us how to treat the unlovable and how to love with agape love.
thanks for sharing 🙏😘♥️♥️♥️♥️
That makes sense
amen
Amen
My husband abandoned me and left me alone and moved in with my best friend. They are both Christians and deeply hurt me. I cry everyday over it. She won't talk to me and now lives with my husband. He mows her lawn and I now have to pay someone to mow my lawn . I eat alone they eat together . I'm struggling financially she is not. I HAVE forgiven but I can't stop crying over it. I have asked 1000 times to remove this pain and he has not. I so wish I was dead.
I am very sorry for your pain. I hope this message finds you better. I know the bitterness and pain of being abandoned by someone you loves so much for someone else. I can't imagine the best friend. I pray you have found some peace in your heart from this situation. 💕 God bless.
God is always by your side. He never gives you more than you can bear.
doecolorado ...I so hear and understand your pain. I sure hope life is better for you.
I just broke up with my four month old relationship with ex bf and I feel so broken. I can’t imagine how you feel right now. I pray that you heal and find peace in your heart and mind. Please don’t give up. Something and someone better will come along. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. God loves you. Your family loves you. We love you. You are better off without your ex husband and bestfriend. In God’s time, you’ll understand why it had to happen. ❤️
I'm divorced from a narcissistic sociopath compulsive lying sex addict I didn't understand how serious and real disorder is.... who kept every record of wrong Slanders lies manipulates the hardship I've been through isn't going away.... I've been a willing participant in everything and have committed many sins.. I've never had a hateful heart or wanted to harm her in any way... I'm an empath I've learned learning to let go give it to God and pray for forgiveness of my sins forgiving her of her own... There's something called The Jezebel spirit if you have sex or relations with a jezebel you will experience tribulation don't I know it.... Please help me with prayer to release everything over to our Lord... That he'll use all the pain and suffering to help others for his glory.. please pray for both our Eternal Souls
I love you Abba father
Hi Buddy
Pastor how about if you're in love with the wrong guy?need some advice plsssss, thanks pastor
The only time it bothers me is when I go to forgive them and they act like I’m stupid. And there’s this one time they broke into my house while I was asleep in my bedroom and stole $500 dollars from me. They were on camera. Even though they were the ones in the wrong I forgave them.
I dont play whit fire but people whit understanding dont critice was they dont undertand
How about the one who abuse you emotionally? Forgive 70x 7?years after years? And accepting it?
That's not love and no one's telling you to stay.....
Forgive and Leave
IT'S BEEN SO HARD FOR ME SINCE MY HUSBAND PASSED AWAY 7 MONTH'S AGO, I HAVE A LITTLE TROUBLE SLEEPING, AND I LOST WEIGHT, WILL IT GET BETTER?
Yes :) God never gives you more than He knows you can bear. Keep your eyes on the cross and pray hard that God sends you comfort every morning and every night. When I went through a hard time all I prayed for was comfort, and He provided it. I'll pray for you. Keep trusting God. He has a plan for you and knows how much you hurt right now. Take comfort in knowing that he knows everythiiinggg about you and loves every inch and his heart breaks for and with you
God bless you.
Ir will by Gods grace
What about an ex fiance that you have loose ends with, but makes you feel bad often with their words and actions. Is it OK to block their messages and pray for them? He's unkind to me, but I feel wrong blocking people because I know what it feels like to be stonewalled. He doesn't know God and I've tried to witness to him, but he refuses. Please help
Sometimes you are the planter of the seed, and sometimes you are the water. It's not often that you are the planter of the seed and the water...and therein the person who brings the PLANT/Witnessing to fruition. Coming into Knowing/Accepting God/Jesus/Salvation is a process that happens through life experiences that consistently expands the revelation of who God/Jesus/Salvation is and why they need it. You'll drive yourself crazy "witnessing" and not seeing actionable change and confession in the timing that you think it should happen in.
As it concerns blocking people - yes it is OK to block people. You have to guard your gates (ears, mouth, heart, etc.)...what you let in should be of God and not of murderous words and actions. You have to protect the God in you and sometimes that means drawing lines where they need to be drawn or else you'll have one foot in bondage and one foot trying to get into deliverance and freedom. Don't allow your empathy/sympathy via a kind or big heart have you wrapped up in a reality that makes often feel bad. If he's your ex-fiance, then that ship has sailed and you if you have the desire to still marry one day, you've got to make room for what God may have for you in the future.
J Y Thank you
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How to forgive my EX who just played with my heart?
What do you think about the delinquent buyer?
As you go along, God takes the training wheels off and you can fall into sins you thought you had covered. You find out that the training wheels kept you going not yourself. God wants you to ride your bike yourself and you can take some spills at that point.l
Say it ain’t so
Your drug is a heartbreaker
Say it ain’t so
My love is a life taker
Amen
Amen
Amen