I'm an easy internet viewer of your channel. I don't sail, I know nothing about sailing, I am completely in awe of the fact that you do all the things you do, I am amazed that you manage to fix everything, I love that as a couple you are both just fabulous! I get to live vicariously through you without getting seasick, wet, scared or otherwise inconvenienced by anything. Rock on!
I’ve been a boater for over 65 years and I’ve had many boats both power and sail. I currently have a 2005 Beneteau 373 that I bought brand new. I’ve watched all your videos from the start. In my opinion, you guys rock! You both jumped in the deep end and are doing it! I’m very proud of both of you. Keep going and don’t let anyone stop you. Fair winds and following seas.
My experience is that the moment you step off of your boat, with all tasks and repairs successfully completed, you boat knows it. It assures that something else breaks before you return. This is an absolute. Boats have personalities. And they are jealous of their captain having any life without them. Therefore, a new problem REQUIRING THEIR captain’s TLC.
“There is always someting broken”. Our best friends travelled around the world with their sailboat and they always said they are “repairing around the world”.
I see that alot but when I was cruising it was almost non existant to have things break. I am big on preventive maintenance but also there is a mysterious force that exist. If you have a spare for it, it wont break, if you dont have a spare, it will break. For a smaller boat I kept it simple and had a whole tightly packed area of spares.
@@alanjohnson2613 Yes, and old house, composed of not well chosen maintenance intensive parts. A (good, high quality and finished) house is nothing compared to a boat. Even the best boats with the most expensive high quality parts get broken within no time. A travelling boat is continuously exposed to aggressive mechanical, biological, thermal and chemical forces. I am baffled by these people at sailing boats having to do repairs and maintenance for easily a full work week per month... (If they are truly sailing it.) Respect...
Absolutely love the way you two look at each other, it's so pure, true and beautiful. Every episode, I've been watching from day one, so happy for you both ! Tank you for the great content.
What a great, and very personal, episode. Like you, I’ve witnessed relationships meltdown and end due to the sailing life. I’ve also seen and meet people all the time who have such amazingly strong and deep relationships because of living so close and often so isolated with their partner. I believe it comes down to being really good friends, finding the excitement and joy in the random life and the adventures that just come to you, and being at peace with your human. One reason I love your channel is the dynamic you have with each other. It’s inspiring. Thank you for sharing little glimpses of your world. You’ve brought a lot of smiles to many faces.
I had wonderful friends that lived on their 40’ sailboat for 50 years… and they always said they had no schedule… they just went where the wind took them! I always thought it was just them but now I realize it’s part of live aboard boat life.
Just curious but how did your friends make a living? That's the part I don't understand. How does one make a living, living on a sailboat? I'm a professional chef and have a catering business and I'd love to learn to sail but how can I make money catering events from a sailboat?
You guys nailed it. This is not for the faint of heart when doing crossings or long distance passages from port to port. I remember the first transatlantic I was on and knowing that there was no one but us to get us through if something happens, it can be humbling but things like that makes us stronger. Calm seas my friends...sail on!
Love this. Add some kids into the mix and the craziness of this top ten list goes to the next level. The girls live in bikinis, the boys never seem to have a shirt on, the mess on the boat is insane, but then it's all clean minutes later...... As a busy Dad I hate it when stuff breaks, but love the projects. I would add onto the list cooking! Provisioning in a small area is an artform, and making great meals when you haven't been to the supermarket in a month is an essential life skill!! Love your work team, your videos are great. Rock on!!
This is true, but on land a broken thing usually does not impact your life as much as it will if it's on your floating home! And it's easier to fix if you can drive to your local hardware store or hire and expert if needed, something hard to do if you are in the middle of nowhere on your boat!
For the last 3-4 years I have been following about a dozen sailing youtubers. You are the only one that has lasted. It is because you are the most enjoyable and attractive people online. You consistently entertain. I love Jade's poetic introductions to most vids. Best wishes from Canada.
I just found this channel. And subscribed. I also like Barefoot Sailing Adventures. Big difference, they stay in intercostal waters on the west side of Florida. Their boat is too small for blue water.
The greatest thing about the life that you probably don't yet appreciate yet are the memories that you make. You're very unlikely to remember the days you went to the office but the sailing trips last a lifetime!
I’ve done both im 40 and the office days stick around just as long my friend. When I’m out at sea I miss those land lubbers 😂 So stop with that nonsense. In fact it gives you greater depth and appreciation for those relationships. My least favorite thing about sailing is the absurd elitism. Given the opportunity I know at least 50 people that would love to be out here with us!! Based on UA-cams algorithm I would venture to say that you could multiply that by 10,000 at a bare minimum. Those who stay on land have other obligations to this world. So literally go fuck yourself with your back handed comment.
You two are doing great! Recognizing and accepting that the cruising life is not all rainbows and unicorns is a big part of the journey. We too had to come to terms with this during our 8-year voyage, and it ultimately helped us realize just how worth it the whole adventure is. Enjoy it!
Wife and I made it through an RV journey - F250 with a 25' pull behind with 2 cats. Never towed something that large and we did sell everything else we owned - only kept what we could pack in the truck and RV. That adventure brought us closer than ever! Now - our new adventure is completely remodeling an older home, taking everything down to the studs room by room and doing almost all the work ourselves....lol I'm slowly planting the seed of sailing....maybe someday that adventure will come true for us. Enjoy your channel!!!!
Great update, glad to see you both looking healthy again after the recent illnesses, and very accurate lists on both fronts. One item I would add to the "Positive" list is that there is nothing like the night sky when it's clear and you're on a passage away from coastal light polution. Both with a full and new moon (and I know you both know this) but the sky is totally different than when you're on land. Belated happy Easter, stay well and press on.
I'm a power boater but I also enjoy sailing with friends. The "something is always broken" thing is true for all boats but is exponentially more so for sailboats. Sailing itself is so much more work than power boating. Sailors spend endless hours working on their boats. From the rigging to engines to generators to electrical systems to through hull fittings and hatches, a sailboat is an endless "to do" list. I know sailors who spend all weekend working on their boat so they can get it ready to sail the next weekend. I tell my sailing friends "sailing is work disguised as fun".
If you can't afford a proper boat you probably just should leave it ... with a newish lagoon there are none of your mentioned problems that would not also be a problem onshore in a camper or something similar - btw just the sails differ a powered boat from a sail boat, there is not that much difference in work to be done
We always told visitors, you can choose a time or a place, not both. There were many challenges in our two years aboard with 3 kids and a dog but we would do it again, we will do it again after the kids are off on their own. Thanks for the lovely reminders of boat life.
The amount of my life you have gotten me through just watching your videos has been life altering for me. I've had highs and lows with you and love you guys and don't even know you. Thank you so much for sharing what you do. I hope you are able and willing to continue to do so. Have a great day.
Nice video :-) And yes there can be moments that suck: our number one is studip charterboats that have no clue what and how they anchor, thereby draging into our boat or anchoring much to clos so with the next windshift they are just a boatslength in front of you, but the whole crew is on land drinking etc. Biggest plus is having your private perfect bay and make love under a the stars, second best is sailing in perfect wind and waves and doing 12+ knots on our trimaran and the autopilot is steering and everything is just wow. Matthias returning to the boat in the Agean next week for another month of boatworks and then a whole summer of boatlife.
Great episode - and even those of us who never sailed long voyages or lived aboard can vouch for your list lol! As an electronics and mechanical technician - the first thing I teach new boaters is that your boat will have only one mission from the day it is launched - to deconstruct itself as quickly and efficiently as possible lol!
:) Sh*t :)) , we will launch our project in 2 Month from now. Making the boat as simple as it can be , to be ready for every repair :) but i know you cannot prepair everything. Working on your boat means getting into relationship with HER. The better you care the more SHE will take care of you out there, so i don t complain its give and take :)
I watch your shows and I own a 63-foot Nordhavn trawler. And I live on my boat. Since I've gotten his boat at the end of 2020 I towed in one sailboat. The sailboat steering had broke. So I guess motor yachts are good for something.
Love it how you're both so acutely aware of the positives & the somewhat less positives but view it all together equally as what makes for the experience of sailing life you both have come to love & enjoy! You guys rock!
Great video, thank you both! lovely chemistry, content feels really genuine and with a level of ‘altitude’ that just feels refreshing. Well done, and wishing you all the best.
I sailed for a few years. Is the best time in my life if I could get that back and go back to that I would. I think about it all the time. And I always remember telling myself enjoy this moment because it won’t last forever it truly is a gift and a blessing to be sailing. There’s nothing like it. I hope I get to go back sometime soon. I’m working on it.
There's a hella lot of jobs where you don't live in a cubicle! I'm 67 and retired. I tried working in a cubicle one time and lasted about 2 months... Did I even make it 2 months?... I think it had to be less than that because I hated it soooo damn much. People that work in cubicles have made there own bed. You don't have to be in that career, if you can call that a career because IMO it's so bad. So, I didn't work in a cubicle but under 2 months my entire working life, and you didn't have to either. It's a choice you decided to make. What these boat videos don't show you is the monotony of just sailing along for hours getting to a destination. Maybe it's in the rain 🌧️, maybe it's in a terrible storm, or it could be sunny 🌞 and nice. Regardless of weather condition it is boring as hell. Long hours of life on the ocean where you can't go anywhere and all you have to look at is the same ole water... Everywhere you look. It's like a long haul trucker, but instead of on land, you're in the ocean! But, a long haul trucker can stop at any ole hole in the wall diner and get out of his truck if it's "driving" him craZy. On the ocean, you're stuck in that boat. Plus, with the inside cabin being so small you can get claustrophobic because there's just no where to go it's so damn small and there's 90% of the hours just like this. The ocean is vast. It takes forever and a day to get anywhere sailing and it can be boring as hell. Imagine when there's no wind... Which there is quite often. Bottom line: these sailing channels only show you the fun stuff and the fixing stuff... Not the boring stuff, which is the most prevalent time of all, by far. I'd get sick of all of the rolling. You're never just sitting still.
Hope you make it out of cubicle life. I feel for anyone restricted to that life. I was mechanic shortly before a trades worker for 10+yrs. That's how I paid for home and property, that I plan on using to finance sailing. Hopefully soon if my health gets better from the toll of being union tradesmen and working my body and health hard. But what I have seen, is any job outside of cubicle is worth it.
The only reason you get to watch these types of lifestyles is because people send money to the boats owner to keep the boat going. When no one can send disposable money, better learn to sail on a shoestring
What I used to love was the city skyline or island silhouette at sunrise/set and the night sky when away from the light pollution, Loved pulling into Ensenada during sunrise. Well except for the cruse ships.
You guys look super happy, it seems like boat life is doing well for you! Thank you for sharing some of your life with UA-cam, while you get to go places that most people don’t, it’s fantastic that you share that with us so we (who don’t get to go to some of those places) can see and experience them through you!
Entropy…that word covers why relationships become a problem and things always break and your boat has barnacles and everything costs so much…whether on land or at sea…just existing is a war with entropy (the tendency of closed systems to become more disorderly with the passing of time) so you may as well fight in an environment you enjoy and pick your terms of battle since it’s a war we all lose anyway.
I think you hit all the points, especially the one about something always needing fixing. You can have everything working the last time you were out cruising, or everything working while at the dock, then as Captain Ron says " If anything is going to happen, it's gonna happen out there" - and it usually does. But the high points are so wonderful, it's why we put up with all the low ones! And it's so true, that even complete strangers will come to your aid when needed.
Thank you so much for this episode. My wife and me are so close to entering the boat life. So far we have chartered a boat for week. We are going again in the VIs for another 10 days next month. We are so excited to live the life style. Maybe one day see you in an Anchorage. Love you guys
Something is always broken, I live on dry land and it's always that way around the house, with the cars, lawnmowers, yard, etc. The only reason something is not getting fixed is because I decided to take a break and not fix it. But there is always something needing fixing. It's not just boat life.
I recall camping at a campgrounds or a wide spot on the Al-Can hi-way meeting people and then never seeing them again on the way from Cali. To Alaska in 1960. I was 9 and my sisters were younger. Definitely an adventure in a ‘58 VW bus! So glad you two are living your dream! Safe travels!
Thanks for the video. I’m looking at options and living on a boat is one of them. 2:07 running a business together is much the same with regards to the relationship. 25 years working with my wife was very difficult at times but we always made it through those tough times. It’s not always just about loving the other person, it’s understanding them, being compassionate, caring, empathetic and forgiving. 2:42 owing a house is the same. Something is always either broken, needs adjusting, replacing, yard mowed, driveway shoveled, etc. I bet the hardest thing on a boat is getting parts.
I miss my boat every single day except when the humidity is 90%, the hull needs scraping, the anchor wench is locked up, the head needs pumping out, it’s freezing, hurricane force winds, …….😊
I love how you go back on your list of negatives and find positives. I live following the motto "nothing is so bad that it's not good for something". I'm quite a bit older than you guys, but I see a lot of you in me. 🙏🏼😎
In every life there are always things either breaking or broken and you need to fix it or get and pay someone else to fix it. The beauty of the places you visit and live for a time is the variety of locations and the people you meet and share life and love with. Cheers
We just found you and are binge watching from the beginning, so impressed with ayour ability to power trhrough anything. Good lesson for us all, even us old guys. Also appreciate your friendly channel. I could never deal with the haters, appreciate that you can overcome that for us and deliver these great videos. Look forward to seeing you sail that amazing boat.
I think I heard wind hippie sailing say this first about if you want to visit a sailor: you can pick when or where you want to visit, but very very rarely both.
I haven't watched you guys for a little while but this vid really deserved the like. A nice lighthearted look at positives & negatives. Basically it seems what you're saying is that boat life is just like regular life - there's good and bad in everything and hopefully at the end of it there's more good than bad.
I lived on my RV for four and a half years. I purchased a $750k “Boat on Wheels” Unfortunately from the beginning I had electrical problems. I would plug in at a resort and my power would die. I would have to start my generator and run it night and day, which endured me to my neighbors. I would have to make an appointment, normally 30-45 days out. Sometimes I would get lucky and would be able to get in within 2 weeks or so. I chased the electrical problems the whole time I owned my rig. When the electric worked and I was able to live without worrying about it, I had a great time. I strongly dislike snow and cloudy conditions. I made sure to steer clear of both. Summers I would go to places like Montana, Utah, the Dakota’s and other places that just blew my mind. During the winter I would hit Arizona, Texas, Louisiana, Florida. I was lucky and never ran into people at a resort that I could not stand. Everyone was nice and if I had a neighbor that was a little too much, I would go into town or maybe go fishing. The only drawback was the electrical issue. When you spend 750k, you expect perfection. My home base was only 75 miles from the majority of the manufactures (Northeast Indiana) and I grew up here, so I would go in and sit down with the VP and one time the President of the company. They did 16k worth of electrical repairs, which included replacing the batteries at $800 each. It fixed the problem for about 4 or 5 months. They did it all under warranty and goodwill. Anyway… I have dozens of great stories, not too many bad ones. If you have any questions feel free to ask…
As the saying goes, don't judge a book by its cover. I have been a lifelong sailor, but in my older years I have transitioned to a power trawler. So when I float into the harbor I may look like a power guy, but I am a sailor at heart.
Having crewed and skippered on a few voyages to the Pacific Islands from NZ it is the daily rythym of the passages I enjoyed the most , the ocean gives you perspective on your insignificance while the night skys are spectacular , a good harmonious crew tops it off !
This is a master class in understanding each other and I salute you and your willingness to share your experiences truthfully with the rest of us. The secret has always been learning how to balance the equation. Which means that you have to account for each and every variable first, we have recognize each other
Really liked the video!! I learned how the Twirl a pen 🖊️ I lost count and then started to learn. Boating sounds much more fun watching you do it❤️❤️❤️
I have been boating literally my entire life since the age of 3 I am now 53 . fixing the boat is constant , it’s literally an every day thing especially if you’re cruising. I run power yachts for a living now strictly for the financial reasons I’m being paid to deal with all the headaches that even become amplified at 80 90 or 100 feet. Best of luck to you both. It can be fun but can get exhausting
I can recommend a powersnorkel for doing the bottom. It can then double as your diving buddy for when you're on the reefs. Can dive to 24ft with 2 on and 30ft with 1 on.
For #9 also applies to houses in rural area, septic tanks are the sewer system and they do have to be pumped out every 3-5 years. And can back up back into the pipes or flows all over the yard
I watch a lot of videos from many sailing couples (and a few soloists). This was one of the most interesting introspections I've ever encountered. Others have talked about some of the challenges, negatives, but I think this is the first time I've heard anyone talk about the human factor; especially your point about gatekeepers. You see them in pretty much every human endeavor, yet somehow I'd never considered y'all would encounter them in your world. Brett: you seem like the kind of guy it would be great to sit down with one evening and have a bunch of beers and exchange stories with. Jade: you are ridiculously adorable. And together, you two have such a good energy. I'm sure it gets strained, but you clearly work it out every time. Love your channel. Stay safe. If I can ever get my wife onto a boat, y'all would be one of the groups I'd love to run into one day.
Love ur channel!! I’ve never sailed. Always motor yachting. Less steerage work but as you say there’s always maintenance issues, I bet it’s nice letting the wind carry you to distant ports. U guys are great!!
Great list. We'll done. I had a thought when you talked about being conscientious about what goes down the drain. People on land should realize that the products they use mostly end up in the sea as well. Eventually.
Cool video and comments on sailing. I do agree with the weather comment, that you can only look a week ahead. I ride a motorcycle practically every day, rain, hail or sunshine, always in the weather, it is a wonderful feeling, being so in touch with the outside and not stuck in a car.
I stared watching cruising channels during covid and the number 1 thing you learn real quick is REPAIRS...constantly fixing things...now even those that try to hide it and show the "party" lifestyle...you still gotta repair, fix, replace or figure out workarounds.
Back then, I used to focus on traveling and enjoying myself, but as inflation started to bite, I had to cut back. Every withdrawal feels like it’s harder to recover from, and now I’m much more focused on making my savings last instead of splurging like before. I had to rethink what would really matter in the long run
Very nice to hear you guys talking bout why not to buy a live aboard sailboat. I especially love the random, unplanned and chaotic lifestyle. Jim Rodgers
First. Love you guys. Happy Easter. Second, "gatekeepers"...yeah, but what I love about you guys and some others I've seen is the "can do" this is the life we want attitude. Never lose it. Third, powerboaters...I used to live for them pulling along side (barely ticking over), while their kids screamed "she's so pretty!" Keep living the dream. Thanks for having us along.
Awesome video! Have been watching since just a few episodes after you bought the boat. I clicked on them because I saw you were a pilot. I am a pilot and have grown up sailing. Your channel is awesome and fun. Keep it up!
Great video, a truly inspired presentation of 10 reasons why it sucks ... but the flip side of those same features are why it's great! I have owned 7 boats, and while the greater part of my mileage was singlehanded and daylight-only (never had to bring a passport), I can relate to every one of the 10 reasons. Both positive and negative!
I would have guessed fresh water would’ve made it to the list. Find it, hauling it, saving it. On thing that scares me is the thought of rough seas while between destinations.
We have an Oceanis 43 and yes, fixing things all the time plus continuous upgrades as old stuff wears out ($$$$!!!). So pleased you’ve discovered liberation of nudity. You’re naturists now. No sitting about in wet swimsuits or using precious freshwater to rinse them out etc. As you say, extremely liberating. Tremendous!
Buahaahaaahaa. Thats fantastic. Sounds a lot like growing up in a very rural area, raising cattle. There's always a fence or piece of something to fix. If there isn't, you just aren't looking. Also the planning ahead for the weather to schedule your life around. And peeing around the corner or if there's a lot of alcohol, off the back deck. It sounds like a great lifestyle, thanks for the fun insightful look into boat life.
Jade, i have to say, you are looking very healthy these days. Skin and hair are glowing, you look rested and happy. Please take as a compliment, not a comment on your appearance any other time, just that you look to be in a good place.
I have been viewing your videos since they started and really enjoy your determination and working as a team that refuses to be defeated. Your love for one another is evident and very refereshing, even for this 77 year old land locked sailor.
Regarding second positive , I fully agree 10 years living full time out of my truck camper has made being regular pretty crucial. I think my awareness and need to keep things “simple” has changed my diet. So good one to mention that probably gets overlooked.
That was fun and right on point. We left the boat to enjoy a hike to a recommended hot springs. It was great until "naked man" showed up and took a running jump over our heads to cannon ball the group. At the time, we did not enjoy his sense of humor. Although later when we shared our experience, we laugh so hard we cried.
Well stated guys. Bought my first boat at 63. Ten months later I’m still floating. Almost solo cuz my golden, Gunn, keeps me. Every move is a pile of firsts. Fair winds 🐾❤️⛵️
You made me cry!! 60yo male wished I’d done this sooner. Selling everything and buying my boat by the end of the year! Maybe I’ll find a mate out there! Btw how did you get a scorpion on your boat??!!
I live in the Seattle area, moved here from the southwest. Soon after I arrived, I decided I wanted a sale boat, my wife of 43 years was and is 100 percent against it. So, I’m living me fantasy through videos like yours, so thank you for sharing. It is greatly appreciated.
This is the first video of your adventures that I have watched,with that said, it’s really cool to see such a young couple enjoying life on a sailboat. I have subscribed and look forward to watching your new adventures. Tight sails 🙌😎
As for number 11. You are about to experience a spanish summer, a majority of the beaches in Barcelona are far lot less uptight about covering up compared to the US...
We are part of the power boat community but have total respect for the sailing community, no way would I climb to the top of your mast so I will stick with my 454's, love your lifestyle and the bonus #11 is universal for both boating styles
You guys... I just binge watched your entire library... now what am I going to do?! lol Really amazed and inspired with the incredible amount of work and passion you've put into this life. Definitely motivating me to chase dreams... hope to see you out on the water some day!
Great video and content. I've had a few bluewater sailboats (incl. one catamaran yes) over my life and 'been there, done that'. But your attitude, energy and joy in going thr all those 10+10+1 POV (!) made my day today.
I'm an easy internet viewer of your channel. I don't sail, I know nothing about sailing, I am completely in awe of the fact that you do all the things you do, I am amazed that you manage to fix everything, I love that as a couple you are both just fabulous! I get to live vicariously through you without getting seasick, wet, scared or otherwise inconvenienced by anything. Rock on!
Ditto
I’ve been a boater for over 65 years and I’ve had many boats both power and sail. I currently have a 2005 Beneteau 373 that I bought brand new. I’ve watched all your videos from the start. In my opinion, you guys rock! You both jumped in the deep end and are doing it! I’m very proud of both of you. Keep going and don’t let anyone stop you. Fair winds and following seas.
They jumped in and survived wonderfully
My experience is that the moment you step off of your boat, with all tasks and repairs successfully completed, you boat knows it. It assures that something else breaks before you return. This is an absolute.
Boats have personalities. And they are jealous of their captain having any life without them. Therefore, a new problem REQUIRING THEIR captain’s TLC.
❤😂
We left your boat on a dry dock for around 1 yr and had native bees nests all through our dinghy’s outboard and sucked to clean
Our water maker also failed in p and g that was a bit of a problem 😅
You need to get out more...lol
YES Ha Hahahahahahaa. yes.
“There is always someting broken”. Our best friends travelled around the world with their sailboat and they always said they are “repairing around the world”.
I see that alot but when I was cruising it was almost non existant to have things break. I am big on preventive maintenance but also there is a mysterious force that exist. If you have a spare for it, it wont break, if you dont have a spare, it will break. For a smaller boat I kept it simple and had a whole tightly packed area of spares.
Sounds like a house.
Except for cleaning the bottom
@sapienspace8814 That is the stronger version of Murphy's law! "de Biezel's law"!
@@alanjohnson2613 Yes, and old house, composed of not well chosen maintenance intensive parts. A (good, high quality and finished) house is nothing compared to a boat. Even the best boats with the most expensive high quality parts get broken within no time. A travelling boat is continuously exposed to aggressive mechanical, biological, thermal and chemical forces. I am baffled by these people at sailing boats having to do repairs and maintenance for easily a full work week per month... (If they are truly sailing it.) Respect...
Absolutely love the way you two look at each other, it's so pure, true and beautiful.
Every episode, I've been watching from day one, so happy for you both !
Tank you for the great content.
What a great, and very personal, episode. Like you, I’ve witnessed relationships meltdown and end due to the sailing life. I’ve also seen and meet people all the time who have such amazingly strong and deep relationships because of living so close and often so isolated with their partner. I believe it comes down to being really good friends, finding the excitement and joy in the random life and the adventures that just come to you, and being at peace with your human. One reason I love your channel is the dynamic you have with each other. It’s inspiring. Thank you for sharing little glimpses of your world. You’ve brought a lot of smiles to many faces.
I had wonderful friends that lived on their 40’ sailboat for 50 years… and they always said they had no schedule… they just went where the wind took them! I always thought it was just them but now I realize it’s part of live aboard boat life.
Best way !!!!
The programming of time is too stressful
Sounds good to me!
You are always governed by a weather window as a schedule. Stay or leave.... always
😮 wow
Just curious but how did your friends make a living? That's the part I don't understand. How does one make a living, living on a sailboat? I'm a professional chef and have a catering business and I'd love to learn to sail but how can I make money catering events from a sailboat?
You guys nailed it. This is not for the faint of heart when doing crossings or long distance passages from port to port. I remember the first transatlantic I was on and knowing that there was no one but us to get us through if something happens, it can be humbling but things like that makes us stronger. Calm seas my friends...sail on!
You two are amazing. That you have the maturity needed to maintain a relationship under so many stressors is impressive.
Major Ditto!!
Love this. Add some kids into the mix and the craziness of this top ten list goes to the next level. The girls live in bikinis, the boys never seem to have a shirt on, the mess on the boat is insane, but then it's all clean minutes later...... As a busy Dad I hate it when stuff breaks, but love the projects. I would add onto the list cooking! Provisioning in a small area is an artform, and making great meals when you haven't been to the supermarket in a month is an essential life skill!! Love your work team, your videos are great. Rock on!!
Something is always broken... on land, too, especially living in an old house, so I fully understand that one. Well, all of them, really.
No joke! I’m taking a break from fixing a table to watch the video! 😂
Running equipment on a farm, something is always broken or going to break.
Exactly. I own three houses. I‘m always on tour. Could also go sailing 😂
This is true, but on land a broken thing usually does not impact your life as much as it will if it's on your floating home! And it's easier to fix if you can drive to your local hardware store or hire and expert if needed, something hard to do if you are in the middle of nowhere on your boat!
I just made a similar comment before I saw yours and it is 100% true! Lol
For the last 3-4 years I have been following about a dozen sailing youtubers. You are the only one that has lasted. It is because you are the most enjoyable and attractive people online. You consistently entertain. I love Jade's poetic introductions to most vids. Best wishes from Canada.
I just found this channel. And subscribed. I also like Barefoot Sailing Adventures. Big difference, they stay in intercostal waters on the west side of Florida. Their boat is too small for blue water.
@@edwardantrobusjr2253 " and attractive people online" lol weird
The greatest thing about the life that you probably don't yet appreciate yet are the memories that you make. You're very unlikely to remember the days you went to the office but the sailing trips last a lifetime!
I’ve done both im 40 and the office days stick around just as long my friend.
When I’m out at sea I miss those land lubbers 😂
So stop with that nonsense.
In fact it gives you greater depth and appreciation for those relationships.
My least favorite thing about sailing is the absurd elitism.
Given the opportunity I know at least 50 people that would love to be out here with us!!
Based on UA-cams algorithm I would venture to say that you could multiply that by 10,000 at a bare minimum.
Those who stay on land have other obligations to this world.
So literally go fuck yourself with your back handed comment.
You two are doing great! Recognizing and accepting that the cruising life is not all rainbows and unicorns is a big part of the journey. We too had to come to terms with this during our 8-year voyage, and it ultimately helped us realize just how worth it the whole adventure is. Enjoy it!
this is actually the first time Ive watched a ranting sailing crew/couple/youtuber video to the end. that was awesome, guys!
Wife and I made it through an RV journey - F250 with a 25' pull behind with 2 cats. Never towed something that large and we did sell everything else we owned - only kept what we could pack in the truck and RV. That adventure brought us closer than ever! Now - our new adventure is completely remodeling an older home, taking everything down to the studs room by room and doing almost all the work ourselves....lol I'm slowly planting the seed of sailing....maybe someday that adventure will come true for us. Enjoy your channel!!!!
I've toured on Motorcycles, drove Semi trucks, Busses, boats, campers... It doesn't matter what, Something always needs fixed, is broken or will break. That's life!! Bon Voyage!!
Great update, glad to see you both looking healthy again after the recent illnesses, and very accurate lists on both fronts. One item I would add to the "Positive" list is that there is nothing like the night sky when it's clear and you're on a passage away from coastal light polution. Both with a full and new moon (and I know you both know this) but the sky is totally different than when you're on land. Belated happy Easter, stay well and press on.
I'm a power boater but I also enjoy sailing with friends. The "something is always broken" thing is true for all boats but is exponentially more so for sailboats. Sailing itself is so much more work than power boating. Sailors spend endless hours working on their boats. From the rigging to engines to generators to electrical systems to through hull fittings and hatches, a sailboat is an endless "to do" list. I know sailors who spend all weekend working on their boat so they can get it ready to sail the next weekend. I tell my sailing friends "sailing is work disguised as fun".
If you can't afford a proper boat you probably just should leave it ... with a newish lagoon there are none of your mentioned problems that would not also be a problem onshore in a camper or something similar - btw just the sails differ a powered boat from a sail boat, there is not that much difference in work to be done
We always told visitors, you can choose a time or a place, not both. There were many challenges in our two years aboard with 3 kids and a dog but we would do it again, we will do it again after the kids are off on their own. Thanks for the lovely reminders of boat life.
The amount of my life you have gotten me through just watching your videos has been life altering for me. I've had highs and lows with you and love you guys and don't even know you. Thank you so much for sharing what you do. I hope you are able and willing to continue to do so. Have a great day.
Nice video :-) And yes there can be moments that suck: our number one is studip charterboats that have no clue what and how they anchor, thereby draging into our boat or anchoring much to clos so with the next windshift they are just a boatslength in front of you, but the whole crew is on land drinking etc.
Biggest plus is having your private perfect bay and make love under a the stars, second best is sailing in perfect wind and waves and doing 12+ knots on our trimaran and the autopilot is steering and everything is just wow.
Matthias returning to the boat in the Agean next week for another month of boatworks and then a whole summer of boatlife.
Great episode - and even those of us who never sailed long voyages or lived aboard can vouch for your list lol! As an electronics and mechanical technician - the first thing I teach new boaters is that your boat will have only one mission from the day it is launched - to deconstruct itself as quickly and efficiently as possible lol!
Very accurate assessment.
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Sh*t :)) , we will launch our project in 2 Month from now. Making the boat as simple as it can be , to be ready for every repair :) but i know you cannot prepair everything. Working on your boat means getting into relationship with HER. The better you care the more SHE will take care of you out there, so i don t complain its give and take :)
Great balanced piece here. This was very funny. The best definition of being a boat owner- doing boat work in exotic locations!
❤❤ Excellent, I remember that life. It’s not for everyone. I grew old but still long for that life!
Which begs the question, How old is too old? I am about to turn 60 and leaning hard towards this lifestyle.
I watch your shows and I own a 63-foot Nordhavn trawler. And I live on my boat. Since I've gotten his boat at the end of 2020 I towed in one sailboat. The sailboat steering had broke. So I guess motor yachts are good for something.
Love it how you're both so acutely aware of the positives & the somewhat less positives but view it all together equally as what makes for the experience of sailing life you both have come to love & enjoy! You guys rock!
Great video, thank you both! lovely chemistry, content feels really genuine and with a level of ‘altitude’ that just feels refreshing. Well done, and wishing you all the best.
I sailed for a few years. Is the best time in my life if I could get that back and go back to that I would. I think about it all the time. And I always remember telling myself enjoy this moment because it won’t last forever it truly is a gift and a blessing to be sailing. There’s nothing like it. I hope I get to go back sometime soon. I’m working on it.
1 reason why boat life doesn't suck: You're not living your life in a cubicle for 10 hours per day while your debt continues to increase!
There's a hella lot of jobs where you don't live in a cubicle! I'm 67 and retired. I tried working in a cubicle one time and lasted about 2 months... Did I even make it 2 months?... I think it had to be less than that because I hated it soooo damn much. People that work in cubicles have made there own bed. You don't have to be in that career, if you can call that a career because IMO it's so bad. So, I didn't work in a cubicle but under 2 months my entire working life, and you didn't have to either. It's a choice you decided to make.
What these boat videos don't show you is the monotony of just sailing along for hours getting to a destination. Maybe it's in the rain 🌧️, maybe it's in a terrible storm, or it could be sunny 🌞 and nice. Regardless of weather condition it is boring as hell. Long hours of life on the ocean where you can't go anywhere and all you have to look at is the same ole water... Everywhere you look.
It's like a long haul trucker, but instead of on land, you're in the ocean! But, a long haul trucker can stop at any ole hole in the wall diner and get out of his truck if it's "driving" him craZy. On the ocean, you're stuck in that boat.
Plus, with the inside cabin being so small you can get claustrophobic because there's just no where to go it's so damn small and there's 90% of the hours just like this. The ocean is vast. It takes forever and a day to get anywhere sailing and it can be boring as hell. Imagine when there's no wind... Which there is quite often.
Bottom line: these sailing channels only show you the fun stuff and the fixing stuff... Not the boring stuff, which is the most prevalent time of all, by far. I'd get sick of all of the rolling. You're never just sitting still.
I don't think most people that has a cubicle job can just choose to have the amount of resources needed to just buy a boat and go sailing.
Hope you make it out of cubicle life. I feel for anyone restricted to that life.
I was mechanic shortly before a trades worker for 10+yrs. That's how I paid for home and property, that I plan on using to finance sailing. Hopefully soon if my health gets better from the toll of being union tradesmen and working my body and health hard.
But what I have seen, is any job outside of cubicle is worth it.
The only reason you get to watch these types of lifestyles is because people send money to the boats owner to keep the boat going. When no one can send disposable money, better learn to sail on a shoestring
ABSOLUTELY!!
What I used to love was the city skyline or island silhouette at sunrise/set and the night sky when away from the light pollution, Loved pulling into Ensenada during sunrise. Well except for the cruse ships.
You guys look super happy, it seems like boat life is doing well for you! Thank you for sharing some of your life with UA-cam, while you get to go places that most people don’t, it’s fantastic that you share that with us so we (who don’t get to go to some of those places) can see and experience them through you!
Watched your channel from the beginning. You can really see how you guys have changed and grown to the good and the difference in how you view life.
Entropy…that word covers why relationships become a problem and things always break and your boat has barnacles and everything costs so much…whether on land or at sea…just existing is a war with entropy (the tendency of closed systems to become more disorderly with the passing of time) so you may as well fight in an environment you enjoy and pick your terms of battle since it’s a war we all lose anyway.
Always thought of my boat as Santa. It gives me a gift every day. You may or may not like it, but it keeps on giving
I think you hit all the points, especially the one about something always needing fixing. You can have everything working the last time you were out cruising, or everything working while at the dock, then as Captain Ron says " If anything is going to happen, it's gonna happen out there" - and it usually does. But the high points are so wonderful, it's why we put up with all the low ones! And it's so true, that even complete strangers will come to your aid when needed.
Thank you so much for this episode. My wife and me are so close to entering the boat life. So far we have chartered a boat for week. We are going again in the VIs for another 10 days next month. We are so excited to live the life style. Maybe one day see you in an Anchorage. Love you guys
Something is always broken, I live on dry land and it's always that way around the house, with the cars, lawnmowers, yard, etc. The only reason something is not getting fixed is because I decided to take a break and not fix it. But there is always something needing fixing. It's not just boat life.
Congratulations on sailing towards 500k subscribers. Thanks for the update.
You two are AWESOME. Even referring to nudity. Life in a way becomes much more free. Love You Both.
I recall camping at a campgrounds or a wide spot on the Al-Can hi-way meeting people and then never seeing them again on the way from Cali. To Alaska in 1960. I was 9 and my sisters were younger. Definitely an adventure in a ‘58 VW bus! So glad you two are living your dream! Safe travels!
Thanks for the video. I’m looking at options and living on a boat is one of them.
2:07 running a business together is much the same with regards to the relationship. 25 years working with my wife was very difficult at times but we always made it through those tough times. It’s not always just about loving the other person, it’s understanding them, being compassionate, caring, empathetic and forgiving.
2:42 owing a house is the same. Something is always either broken, needs adjusting, replacing, yard mowed, driveway shoveled, etc. I bet the hardest thing on a boat is getting parts.
I miss my boat every single day except when the humidity is 90%, the hull needs scraping, the anchor wench is locked up, the head needs pumping out, it’s freezing, hurricane force winds, …….😊
I love how you go back on your list of negatives and find positives. I live following the motto "nothing is so bad that it's not good for something". I'm quite a bit older than you guys, but I see a lot of you in me. 🙏🏼😎
In every life there are always things either breaking or broken and you need to fix it or get and pay someone else to fix it. The beauty of the places you visit and live for a time is the variety of locations and the people you meet and share life and love with. Cheers
We just found you and are binge watching from the beginning, so impressed with ayour ability to power trhrough anything. Good lesson for us all, even us old guys. Also appreciate your friendly channel. I could never deal with the haters, appreciate that you can overcome that for us and deliver these great videos. Look forward to seeing you sail that amazing boat.
I've been sailing around the world for the Last 8 years living in my boat and I must say: GO FOR IT!
I think I heard wind hippie sailing say this first about if you want to visit a sailor: you can pick when or where you want to visit, but very very rarely both.
What a great episode. Loved it. I especially liked how you turned the negatives into positives. We should do this more in general. So true!
Great reflection on your boat life. Thanks for sharing your experience, thoughts and feelings. And of course your lives. Cheers
I haven't watched you guys for a little while but this vid really deserved the like. A nice lighthearted look at positives & negatives. Basically it seems what you're saying is that boat life is just like regular life - there's good and bad in everything and hopefully at the end of it there's more good than bad.
I lived on my RV for four and a half years. I purchased a $750k “Boat on Wheels” Unfortunately from the beginning I had electrical problems. I would plug in at a resort and my power would die. I would have to start my generator and run it night and day, which endured me to my neighbors. I would have to make an appointment, normally 30-45 days out. Sometimes I would get lucky and would be able to get in within 2 weeks or so. I chased the electrical problems the whole time I owned my rig. When the electric worked and I was able to live without worrying about it, I had a great time. I strongly dislike snow and cloudy conditions. I made sure to steer clear of both. Summers I would go to places like Montana, Utah, the Dakota’s and other places that just blew my mind. During the winter I would hit Arizona, Texas, Louisiana, Florida. I was lucky and never ran into people at a resort that I could not stand. Everyone was nice and if I had a neighbor that was a little too much, I would go into town or maybe go fishing. The only drawback was the electrical issue. When you spend 750k, you expect perfection. My home base was only 75 miles from the majority of the manufactures (Northeast Indiana) and I grew up here, so I would go in and sit down with the VP and one time the President of the company. They did 16k worth of electrical repairs, which included replacing the batteries at $800 each. It fixed the problem for about 4 or 5 months. They did it all under warranty and goodwill. Anyway… I have dozens of great stories, not too many bad ones. If you have any questions feel free to ask…
As the saying goes, don't judge a book by its cover. I have been a lifelong sailor, but in my older years I have transitioned to a power trawler. So when I float into the harbor I may look like a power guy, but I am a sailor at heart.
Having crewed and skippered on a few voyages to the Pacific Islands from NZ it is the daily rythym of the passages I enjoyed the most , the ocean gives you perspective on your insignificance while the night skys are spectacular , a good harmonious crew tops it off !
This is a master class in understanding each other and I salute you and your willingness to share your experiences truthfully with the rest of us. The secret has always been learning how to balance the equation. Which means that you have to account for each and every variable first, we have recognize each other
Really liked the video!! I learned how the Twirl a pen 🖊️ I lost count and then started to learn. Boating sounds much more fun watching you do it❤️❤️❤️
I have been boating literally my entire life since the age of 3 I am now 53 . fixing the boat is constant , it’s literally an every day thing especially if you’re cruising. I run power yachts for a living now strictly for the financial reasons I’m being paid to deal with all the headaches that even become amplified at 80 90 or 100 feet.
Best of luck to you both. It can be fun but can get exhausting
I can recommend a powersnorkel for doing the bottom. It can then double as your diving buddy for when you're on the reefs. Can dive to 24ft with 2 on and 30ft with 1 on.
For #9 also applies to houses in rural area, septic tanks are the sewer system and they do have to be pumped out every 3-5 years. And can back up back into the pipes or flows all over the yard
I watch a lot of videos from many sailing couples (and a few soloists). This was one of the most interesting introspections I've ever encountered. Others have talked about some of the challenges, negatives, but I think this is the first time I've heard anyone talk about the human factor; especially your point about gatekeepers. You see them in pretty much every human endeavor, yet somehow I'd never considered y'all would encounter them in your world.
Brett: you seem like the kind of guy it would be great to sit down with one evening and have a bunch of beers and exchange stories with. Jade: you are ridiculously adorable. And together, you two have such a good energy. I'm sure it gets strained, but you clearly work it out every time.
Love your channel. Stay safe. If I can ever get my wife onto a boat, y'all would be one of the groups I'd love to run into one day.
Same here mate! On ALL aspects! And I’ll also probably never get my wife onto a boat! 😆
Love ur channel!! I’ve never sailed. Always motor yachting. Less steerage work but as you say there’s always maintenance issues, I bet it’s nice letting the wind carry you to distant ports. U guys are great!!
This one put a smile on my face. Thank you, I really needed it. Jade your hair looks f'ing amazing 😍
Great list. We'll done. I had a thought when you talked about being conscientious about what goes down the drain. People on land should realize that the products they use mostly end up in the sea as well. Eventually.
Always glad when I find a new update from my four favorite world travelers!❤
We love boat life and the 99 percent of the people…We find most are fun loving, adventurous, and non judgmental…thanks for the fun update…
Cool video and comments on sailing. I do agree with the weather comment, that you can only look a week ahead. I ride a motorcycle practically every day, rain, hail or sunshine, always in the weather, it is a wonderful feeling, being so in touch with the outside and not stuck in a car.
When trying to have friends or family come meet us, we say they can pick a time or a place, but not both.
I stared watching cruising channels during covid and the number 1 thing you learn real quick is REPAIRS...constantly fixing things...now even those that try to hide it and show the "party" lifestyle...you still gotta repair, fix, replace or figure out workarounds.
Back then, I used to focus on traveling and enjoying myself, but as inflation started to bite, I had to cut back. Every withdrawal feels like it’s harder to recover from, and now I’m much more focused on making my savings last instead of splurging like before. I had to rethink what would really matter in the long run
Very nice to hear you guys talking bout why not to buy a live aboard sailboat. I especially love the random, unplanned and chaotic lifestyle. Jim Rodgers
First. Love you guys. Happy Easter. Second, "gatekeepers"...yeah, but what I love about you guys and some others I've seen is the "can do" this is the life we want attitude. Never lose it. Third, powerboaters...I used to live for them pulling along side (barely ticking over), while their kids screamed "she's so pretty!" Keep living the dream. Thanks for having us along.
Awesome video! Have been watching since just a few episodes after you bought the boat. I clicked on them because I saw you were a pilot. I am a pilot and have grown up sailing. Your channel is awesome and fun. Keep it up!
You guys are so cool! I have been watching sailing videos for years & everything you have said is TRUE! I am now a new subscriber. Stay safe!
Great video you guys. I'll make sure to send it along to my daughter and her husband who are rebuilding a 52' monohull.
Great video, a truly inspired presentation of 10 reasons why it sucks ... but the flip side of those same features are why it's great! I have owned 7 boats, and while the greater part of my mileage was singlehanded and daylight-only (never had to bring a passport), I can relate to every one of the 10 reasons. Both positive and negative!
I would have guessed fresh water would’ve made it to the list. Find it, hauling it, saving it. On thing that scares me is the thought of rough seas while between destinations.
We have an Oceanis 43 and yes, fixing things all the time plus continuous upgrades as old stuff wears out ($$$$!!!). So pleased you’ve discovered liberation of nudity. You’re naturists now. No sitting about in wet swimsuits or using precious freshwater to rinse them out etc. As you say, extremely liberating. Tremendous!
Buahaahaaahaa.
Thats fantastic. Sounds a lot like growing up in a very rural area, raising cattle. There's always a fence or piece of something to fix. If there isn't, you just aren't looking. Also the planning ahead for the weather to schedule your life around. And peeing around the corner or if there's a lot of alcohol, off the back deck.
It sounds like a great lifestyle, thanks for the fun insightful look into boat life.
Thanks for adding the bright side too. We almost changed our minds about splashing Yabá! 😅
😂 anytime! Next time you're feeling frustrated with a project let us know and we'll send some pictures of the Bahamas your way 😁
Jade, i have to say, you are looking very healthy these days. Skin and hair are glowing, you look rested and happy. Please take as a compliment, not a comment on your appearance any other time, just that you look to be in a good place.
I have been viewing your videos since they started and really enjoy your determination and working as a team that refuses to be defeated. Your love for one another is evident and very refereshing, even for this 77 year old land locked sailor.
As always, much love in watching the episode! Thanks you two!
Regarding second positive , I fully agree 10 years living full time out of my truck camper has made being regular pretty crucial. I think my awareness and need to keep things “simple” has changed my diet. So good one to mention that probably gets overlooked.
Wow 3 years! I've been watching that long.
That was fun and right on point. We left the boat to enjoy a hike to a recommended hot springs. It was great until "naked man" showed up and took a running jump over our heads to cannon ball the group. At the time, we did not enjoy his sense of humor. Although later when we shared our experience, we laugh so hard we cried.
Well stated guys. Bought my first boat at 63. Ten months later I’m still floating. Almost solo cuz my golden, Gunn, keeps me. Every move is a pile of firsts. Fair winds 🐾❤️⛵️
I love to see how good your relationship is. I hope you are blessed in your future endeavors together and maintain a healthy relationship together 😊
You made me cry!! 60yo male wished I’d done this sooner. Selling everything and buying my boat by the end of the year! Maybe I’ll find a mate out there! Btw how did you get a scorpion on your boat??!!
I live in the Seattle area, moved here from the southwest. Soon after I arrived, I decided I wanted a sale boat, my wife of 43 years was and is 100 percent against it. So, I’m living me fantasy through videos like yours, so thank you for sharing. It is greatly appreciated.
Guys big hi ! from tulum Mexico / you forgot to talk about cons and pros about having the doggies traveling with you !
Freaking love you guys… honest as always, fun as always, adorable as always.. best sailing channel bar none!!
This is the first video of your adventures that I have watched,with that said, it’s really cool to see such a young couple enjoying life on a sailboat. I have subscribed and look forward to watching your new adventures. Tight sails 🙌😎
I love Jades facial expressions as you went through both negative and positive lists.
As for number 11. You are about to experience a spanish summer, a majority of the beaches in Barcelona are far lot less uptight about covering up compared to the US...
Yes, they still stop and pee on the side of the roads in all of the EU
Really great stuff! 🤙🏽🍻
And nevermind the gatekeepers.
"Be yourselves, everyone else is taken."
-O. Wilde
We are part of the power boat community but have total respect for the sailing community, no way would I climb to the top of your mast so I will stick with my 454's, love your lifestyle and the bonus #11 is universal for both boating styles
The interaction with dolphins and entire schools of fish...
That would be a major highlight I'd like to see discussed..
Ty
You guys... I just binge watched your entire library... now what am I going to do?! lol
Really amazed and inspired with the incredible amount of work and passion you've put into this life. Definitely motivating me to chase dreams... hope to see you out on the water some day!
Living on a boat and traveling around the world, that's living !
When they get old they can look back and say they had a wonderful life !
Great video and content. I've had a few bluewater sailboats (incl. one catamaran yes) over my life and 'been there, done that'. But your attitude, energy and joy in going thr all those 10+10+1 POV (!) made my day today.