I need your validation
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- Опубліковано 21 лип 2023
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“I feel entirely entitled to your attention” -it takes a lot of self awareness and bravery for a person with a large following to publicly admit something so reprehensible. Honest and vulnerable. Not a good or a bad thing
[Insert smart comment for validation]
Wow, you are so smart! Please base your self-worth off of this comment now
Dude that indeed was pretty smart tbh
are you always this smart?I mean you must be......right?
@Sinjax1 I am always this smart, I seek slight grasps of validation as of the normal human
@@scoutbane1651w😅i
"it's all about me" was probably one of the best videos uploaded to your channel. I watched the whole thing the other day and it just hit me on so many levels. The way you portray such specific emotions and situations resonate with my core and help me understand myself in ways never before imagined. I'd just like to thank you Mr Sisyphus 55 for helping me to develop a healthy lifestyle. I know by praising you rn it kinda defeats the purpose of the video but i wouldn't be saying all of this if i didn't mean it.
Again, thank you Ben
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i feel exactly the same.
Let's all accept Sisyphus as our online brother who kept us alive!
💀 cringe
@@mokmokfish2910arent u here 20mins after release just like us?
@@mokmokfish2910 based actually
Not true, but I am thankful for his publishing none the less.
@@mokmokfish2910 no his videos makes me happy 🥰
it’s sad that some content creators think that they need constant validation from random people- when they really need validation from themselves sometimes.
It's not too sad they are making plenty of money off of the mob.
I don't know why, but whenever I get validated or someone compliments me it just feels addicting. Like I need more. Like I need to do something bizarre to get more validation. It's just a loop of doing something cool that lots of people love, attenpting to do something like that and then someone insults you and then it just repeats.
You are valid
This video felt incredibly surreal
Your channel has been one of the only to put to words my own thoughts and feelings in a way that I resonate with. The one about grief especially stays in my head maybe forever, especially for introducing me to Mark Kingwell’s advice.
Thx, man. Here’s a validation comment, apologies for enabling this addiction
3:03 this loading screen honestly stood out to me a lot. For me it feels like a pretty good representation of how I feel about my life. Sometimes it feels like I'm progressing but it's always out of step or feels like I'm missing out on things then it resets back to standard shifty and I go again only with a new and slightly different perspective. Over and over. It may seem like a small thing but that loading bar made me fucking think for a second combined with the narration.
“New York, June 1st, 2023”
*shows drawn-out shot of CN tower
This is a work of art
this arc is wild to me. ive been following for years. thanks for making philosophy so accessible and fun
i LOVE sisyphus short form content
i LOVE sisyphus short form content
i LOVE sisyphus short form content
I remember I used to be just, kind of the fucking worst, solely because my friend group knew me for my edgelord humor, lack of a filter, and disregard for the emotions of others; yet found it funny, and therefore, I felt validated by being.. well, what I was.
Hey, thanks for creating something that makes me realize I'm not alone, that it's not just me, that makes me feel something when nothing else will
But most of all, I hope you reach a place someday, when you realize you don't need the validation of others to just be yourself
Until then, thank you for everything
Watching your channel is like a black mirror but the message doesn't make me more afraid. It makes me feel more secure that even someone I look up to feels the exact same thing I feel on a daily basis. Idk where I would be without you.
This video and the last one have got me thinking. What do you think about the difference between validation vs human connection/interaction?
Sometimes it feels that we use validation to replace the void of genuine, real life interaction. Therefore, the problem seems to become more associated with HOW the validation is being achieved, i.e. how removed from a real life, organic, natural, wholesome human interaction it is.
Seeking validation is natural and okay, I think. It's the fact that we try to get it through the wrong mediums and about the wrong things, and this ends up harming us in the long run.
Even now, I'm imagining this getting lots of likes. But, for me, it's not about impressing people, it's just about knowing that how I feel is shared by many people. It makes me feel less alone and more sane. I don't get that in real life, unfortunately. It's hard to find.
Validation is part of why most people click on your videos. It helps us to feel validated, too.
We're all in the same lonely boat. ⛵ Thanks for sailing with us brother
Couldn't have put it better myself.
I think I'll need to rewatch this a few times
i feel the same way, i sure hope we can overcome this and be ourselves without others validation :)
thanks for all the content lately, been really enjoying it
I’m thoroughly enjoying the new direction your videos have taken recently. The raw honesty and the focus on your own emotions has been really interesting to watch. Editing and creative direction has also been really cool. Im not sure if you’ve looked much into taoism, but I love it and I reckon you could make a pretty good video about it ☯️
I have been watching your videos since you started your channel and am just here to say that with whole honesty that your work kept saving me from mental disasters and my friends too (because I share your work with them) and I really like your development and I hope that you achieve what you really want and desire after you figure out what is it.
Thank you man, thank you
I really like how your videos are getting each time more dynamic and interesting. You always had deep meaningful content and I feel like you are getting better and more creative on how to express it. Keep up the good work and thank you! :)
Man, this one really hit home. Thank you for reminding me that I am not alone in feeling this way.
We have to love ourselves to be able to not seek validation from others.
Edit: I see now that you've touched on it your video, albeit briefly. It does carry some weight and, personally, I find it to be true.
You put my feelings and existential crises into words. Thank you. You are appreciated
i worried as i watched sisyphus over time that these thought were the root of the videos, i see now that everyone can struggle with these issues. even the most knowledgeable people can still feel the ache of loneliness and depression though the answers seem so clear in philosophy and rational thinking. you are just as much capable of being loved as anyone is this comment section and we will all be here cheering you on, good luck brother
Loved all the different parodies of video types!
you make me cry and then smile again
Still searching for the thing that gives me even the slightest hint of validation, your videos make me believe for a second that I might some day.
Academic success isn't enough, social validation isn't enough, I haven't yet tried artistic expression but I'm not good at it and even if I was, I don't think it would be any different. Let's hope we all find something, because as you know, always knowing that you're below your own standards is just so stressful.
Validation is a social construct in my opinion. So I don't view it as a bad thing to seek pleasure from external validation. But from whom are you seeking validation is the more important question. I tried to seek validation from the people I love and care and try my best to separate it from the rest.
Be patient with yourself, everything will turn out alright at the end. Cheers guys! :))
I like this. You have my validation
I think that, whether we seek validation from ourselves or others, the result is the same. We're compensating for the fact that our relationships are not genuine. You don't want to just laze around by yourself completely, but what happens when all the things that people ask of you aren't the right things? That's when a leader is needed out of you.
i only need 150k euros or 798 thermonuclear warheads in order to exist in this nightmare of a system
dude stop this is getting too relatable, the part about not loving yourself and pondering can you even love someone else when that is the case, hang in there brotha
It's either 'validation by others = self-love' or 'validation by others VS self-love'.
no matter what people do someone will hate
we've all heard that before we've all at least experianced it once before
surely if there's somebody who dislikes what you do
there's someone who doesn't
don't forget yourself
for the importance of your WAY
it's all In the end for you
don't forget yourself
-From a long time subscriber
'new York' i chuckled. This was wonderfully relatable and very vulnerable. Thank you
I cope with that.going through the same process right now.learning to validate myslef.good luck 🙏
Really liked this video :) really liked the message of this video but also the way you showed us
2:37 “this emptiness or void i feel inside- OOHHHMAHGODD😱”
i was not expecting that. i needed some humor today. thank…you? ❤
This is really relatable,love ur videos btw :)
i love the full thing of this vid
Would someone please recommend more YT channels like this one. Thank you
The synthesis of so many video styles and forms >>>>>>>>
Isn't the solution to accept that you are inherently lovable regardless of your flaws? Like to assume that you need to earn your loveableness means that you are owed it through the hard work you have put in which is unhealthy. Versus being unlovable no matter what means that there's no point doing anything because no matter what you will not be loved.
bro is uploading sections of his hour long vid like its an album. thats smart asf
Isnt it odd how we only need to love ourselves to be happy but it takes one person not approving of you to feel bad about yourself.
At least you are aware and honest so it is great. You know sometimes if we don’t get validation from the people we love or ourself we seek it in others. Remember you started this Chanel regardless of validation and you have so much to learn and share. I don’t know if you compare yourself sometimes to other UA-camr but maybe this is where the validation seeking may come from. Know that you are you , on your own time, on your own path and that numbers don’t equal the best or the worst.
Thanks for the video, Sisyphus
I feel like I know what you mean. I often think that had I been less lucky I wouldn't have succeeded so much (or perhaps just enough) in my youth that grew me into a person who was able to depend on praise as a mechanism for my self worth. If I had failed, maybe I'd have learned a better way. Or maybe not. But at least now, I can learn.
Clicked on this video, didn't expect a perfect knock out wow ok
you are important, you matter, and people love you
You are unimportant. You do not matter. Existence itself loves you.
@@tdjhueok treehugger
Respect for being raw and honest. Even comments like this seek validation.
This is the bababooey special I needed. Thank you.
Things I do often is drinking coffee and listening to Sisyphus he is like a therapist of sorts s therapist that can often have you agree with things about the lord
I love your content so much. Thank you.
i think that if u get literally any attention u should thrive in it or else it'll go away i guess. u deserve it
and i also think that any comment is able to fully express the one's feelings and thoughts, its just too much
omg bros on a roll 😭😭 and im lovin it btw :")
loved the vlog moment
I don't think it's anywhere near the time to think about sinking into irrelevance! Your peak has yet to come, if you continue posting content about which that inspires you and are passionate for, you are sure to hit milestones much higher and more fulfilling than you could imagine. The only question you should be thinking about is: "What do I truly want in this life?"
The question should not focus on material things, unless they are fundamental to your well being such as a home, reliable transportation, food, etc..., but they should focus more on personal character development, well-being, connection with yourself, your loved ones & anyone else who you may deign to love.
Society as a whole has seemingly completely shunned itself from the spiritual, mystical & fantastic and replaced it with scientific facts & mathematics. While these things are of immeasurable value to humanity, they can only answer the question of how life works and why it works the way it does. However, they cannot establish why life is and what is its purpose.
Anyways, i believe you to be a fantastic content creator, that's why i subbed, but you don't need me to validate you. You're worth more than your content. You have value intrinsically as a person. This is something I'm in the middle of discovering for myself as well. I do want to see more content from you because your content touches millions of lives and its impact is just as immeasurable as science and mathematics on the lives of those you reach!
Apologies for the mammoth comment, but I felt this in my heart and therefore had to speak it aloud 😅
we love you sisyphus
I feel like there's was a second deeper half of this video that went over my head but I can't tell. Really enjoyed the dumb dumb half tho
I loved this
1:01 i love that episode of theo von and john mullaney , thanks for the unique feature
I developed early a strong and somewhat overblow sense of identity. An integrity measured by my own standards alone. Marriage in the late nineties slowly drug me away from the activities and sociality that had helped me maintain this bulwark and crutch. A decade and a half later my wife passed after several years of health issues. I attempted to rebuild the identity that had eroded but quickly found my identity had changed such that i could not see myself living without another. So i found a partner and and a good deal of happiness largely on my new amended terms. I started to rethink the goals and identity i had formerly had. The pandemic came and with it financially comfortable unemployment. Very little survived the isolation and enforced idleness of this condition. I have lost my old goals, which i came to understand were impossible and with most of my worst fears of my youth realized. I am now adrift and rudderless with no star to sail by and no shore that seems a safe harbor. I do not feel lost, i feel doomed with very little to help myself or anyone else. I am not that concerned for myself. All my dread is for what life and good remains in this world hurtling through the void with only ghastly momentum to guide it and it's denizens.
thank you for your content
4:30
New York?!? Y’ain’t fooling me! That’s Toronto!
All is one and one is all. No matter where you go, everyone is connected.
This is the best video I have ever watched.
I want validation much much more than I care to admit
I often don't think of myself as that person, but I often sought validation from teachers and my parents. Their judgement were via my grades. I felt less of a person if I got a bad grade.
You're making art now!
I really want to spread your videos in all social medias, can I? And i will of course mention your channel. Your content is just amazing and visually pleasing. And about validation,especially because your subscribers are increasing the fear will also increase. As you said praises and compliments are kinda of addicting. I know this feeling because I experience this every time my tweets gets recognition and I hate this feeling, it makes me crave for more attention and more validation. Human being is so weird my friend and to be honest I don’t know the answer for the need of validation myself, maybe because of that i closed my public twitter and opened a new one with only 11 followers? All I know ben is that me trying to be a good person- started to act as one because of others too- but with time I found satisfaction within myself without needing people to know what I did and sometimes I do believe that I’m good person and good person is love-able, right? And other times I’m not sure. But the attempts of trying makes me want to continue to try more.
I have a lot to tell about this matter but let me stop here. I really hope you find freedom from all of this and just be yourself or keep trying to be yourself💙 WISH YOU ALL THE LOVE.
We seek validation through creation yet misunderstand that our intention is to feel the love we cannot give ourselves
You're an excellent chap
hereby i validate your need of validation and hence feed your never ending hunger for it
It's a scary thing that each of us will eventually be completely forgotten. No mind will perceive us, imagine, us, or remember us. There will be no one to love us. My take-away from this is that developing self-love from the within-- versus without, is the only meaningful way to love oneself. To love others is another topic entirely, but equally important, because we are social beings and almost everything we do is social.
I think we can collectively say we love you. You are perfect as you, you saved probably millions of people from suicide with one 10 minute stick figure animation, and if not millions, you did me. We love you. you... not him, or them or him, you.
the neistat impersonation is hilarious
That's creative 😮
I was going to ask my therapist about this topic. Thanks
While I may be some random douche on the internet, all I have to say is you’re perfectly valid in my eyes. I relate and completely understand where you come from.
My man going trough the awakening proces
Your honesty is incredible and although you may have made this video to be told that you are very honest and feed your addiction, that does not mean that it is not incredible.
Thanks for telling my story for me!
I liked the casey neistat reference 😂
Kick ass video
“NEW YORK” threw me off the treadmill
Because Toronto? See s02e03 star trek strange new worlds
If you're at least 25, I'd recommend doing a fuckton of psychedellics for a few weeks and giving yourself verbal validation in the mirror. Directly address your deepest fears with good eye contact and the same conperson attitude you use to cheer up and embolden others. The psychedellics let the validation get in. I was at peace and alone at the same time. It was amazing. It was like being an animal from earth that only needed regular earth things to be happy. Even though the effects were temporary, the experience gave me a mental "goal state" to aim for, and I've been consistently getting closer to that feeling in my anxious-preoccupied / dismissive-avoidant sober life. edit: grammish
Relatable.
i feel like its the core belief that we're defective in some way is the main cause of this, and i've just been repeatedly going back to try and figure out how to uproot it
bill wurtz reference is underrated
Even If we drift away. We always come back. You should know this better than anyone. You're valuable as you are. Internet philosopher or not. Just keep moving forward. And all will reveal itself in time. I learned that in many different ways. But one of them was from you.
Thank you so much. I genuinely mean that.
validated.
But I need my validation as well!
Good video :D
Well, in that case I gave your video a thumbs up!
Take the dark path. Abandon all hope and descend into the depths of your own soul. Find the fire within
do this but also eat mushrooms
same.
i just want to comment this but for lots of years i was seeking validation from others and it really hurts when somebody says something about me being not good enough. even if it is just constructive criticism it hurts me a lot. i wanted others, actually even now to perceive me as great, perfect, sweet, amazing, cool any of those words. i never had the chance to enjoy in my own way because i was afraid other people would think it's weird. i wanted to be the top in everything. even in some random game in a birthday part, if i lose it hurts. i've wanted others to think i'm good to the point where i broke rules to achieve others' validation. the thought of others disliking me even a little bit hurts me so much. i feel like lots of people in the internet and even the ones i love will hate me if i act like myself instead of copying what others like. idk why i just wanted to comment on this. i just wanted to express my feelings. please don't bully me i know this isnt big of a problem im not doing this to be quirky.
Here, have some validation boi
Gj