8 Signs Someone Is Fighting Their Feelings For You

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  • Crushing on someone special but unsure if they feel the same way? It's time to decipher the signs and unlock the mystery of your crush's feelings and whether they're fighting their feelings for you.
    Dating can be confusing. Whether you're wondering "Does he like me?" or "Does she like me?", this video is your go-to guide for unraveling the mysteries of attraction.
    #crush #relationship #love
    Writer: Enaa Juneja
    Editor: Michal Mitchell
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    Voice Over: Brandon / @littleghostyofficialtm
    Animator: Delfina (new animator)
    UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References:
    Gao, Z., Yu, H., Ma, X., Becker, B., Li, K., Zhou, F., & Kendrick, K. M. (2017). Men Who Compliment a Woman’s Appearance Using Metaphorical Language: Associations with Creativity, Masculinity, Intelligence and Attractiveness. Frontiers in Psychology, 8. doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2017.02185
    Kar, D. a. K. (2018, June 6). How to Walk Your Talk: Effective Use of Body Language for Business Professionals. papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3191047
    O’Sullivan, L. F., O’Sullivan, L. F., & Garcia, J. R. (2021). Loving you from afar: Attraction to others (“crushes”) among adults in exclusive relationships, communication, perceived outcomes, and expectations of future intimate involvement. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships,026540752110386. doi.org/10.1177/02654075211038612

КОМЕНТАРІ • 509

  • @aaronlee4608
    @aaronlee4608 24 дні тому +1710

    Why am I watching this I literally got rejected yesterday
    (Edit): how did this get 1.5k likes 😭, for those asking how I am now (19th may) honestly am doing worse the whole thing between us has become a whole story which you all probably don’t want to hear

    • @snowviix
      @snowviix 24 дні тому +121

      aw i’m so sorry 😭

    • @aaronlee4608
      @aaronlee4608 24 дні тому +84

      @@snowviixthank you it’s okay tho slowly getting over it ❤

    • @excuseme4884
      @excuseme4884 24 дні тому +69

      Stay strong soldier! 💪

    • @ScrollzGhostz
      @ScrollzGhostz 24 дні тому +33

      Same but 11 days ago but like who knows other people might like me probably not but like 🥰

    • @user-ms2vv2eb5o
      @user-ms2vv2eb5o 24 дні тому +28

      Literally got ask divorce yesterday

  • @user-es8zy9zr7t
    @user-es8zy9zr7t 11 днів тому +766

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

  • @jayvee1387
    @jayvee1387 24 дні тому +265

    Here's a bit of advice..... If they confuse you in any way and you have no idea where you stand with each other relationship wise and every time you try to make sense of said topic but they deflect or straight up refuse to talk about it......... DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND RUN. Not because they are bad people necessarily, but because you will NOT be confused if someone genuinely likes you and you shouldn't have to feel like you're pulling teeth to get someones feelings out of them. Being with someone who's emotionally unavailable is shitty and detrimental to ones psyche 🤷

    • @markvd1008
      @markvd1008 20 днів тому +11

      But some people don't mean to be that way and they would regret later, especially if not being clear to intend only wanting to be friends and not romantic. There can be nuance to this.

    • @jayvee1387
      @jayvee1387 20 днів тому +14

      @@markvd1008 fixing other peoples confusion on where they stand with you is not your job. if someone cant make up their mind and stop playing games, then thats on them to learn and grow from. Nobody wants to be led on and nobody wants to be with someone who isnt mature and aware enough to see that their actions and behaviors are hurting someone else either. You can make excuses for that person all you want as well, but thats not going to make them change or actually put in effort to show you that they care. And im speaking as someone who is very emotionally unavailable. theres a reason im not dating. Nobody wants to live with a walking talking minefield.

    • @markvd1008
      @markvd1008 20 днів тому +5

      @@jayvee1387
      I'm actually the one who tends to have regret of accidentally confusing people due to not communicating when I wanted to, hence why I sometimes dwell about my past and trying to fix it by reaching out. (With something too intricate to explain in full detail here.) Especially if I knew better that my heart wanted to speak up from the very beginning. Since it can be painful to cause a misunderstanding. So then, what if the same person wants to make amends years later due to knowing deep down they can still be friends with that person?
      So, even if it's not your job to fix other peoples confusion, it can still be their own fault (self-blame) for causing a misunderstanding to the other person if it went against their own values or true self. I personally believe seeking redemption and forgiveness can be possible even years later and possibly even reconcile. People can change.

    • @EspritArkitekt
      @EspritArkitekt 17 днів тому +3

      ​@@markvd1008but those ppl like ur self never actually step out of the shadows to make amends, it just stays as a fantasy in their heads & the rest of us just continue harboring negative feelings whenever we remember someone like u.
      I'm on the receiving end for the 2nd time in a row with someone at my new job & I WISH he would just be clear & honest about whatever is going on with him instead of him tryna start something with me & now behaving like an ass

    • @jayvee1387
      @jayvee1387 7 годин тому

      @@EspritArkitekt this! And for the record, hun.... Dont shit where you sleep. Dont ever date or pursue someone you work with. That is so fkn stressful to deal with if it doesn't work out. Leave dude alone and focus on getting that paycheck. You deserve better and you deserve to pursue someone who reciprocates and makes a conscious effort to pursue you back. 💜💙

  • @rycoreco633
    @rycoreco633 24 дні тому +576

    1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0:25
    2. Surface level conversations 0:50
    3. They joke about potential relationships 1:10
    4. They use metaphorical language 1:58
    5. They might avoid direct contact 2:43
    6. They put up a facade of confidence 3:18
    7. Obvious body cues 3:59
    8. They display hot and cold behavior 4:37
    9. They seek information about you indirectly 5:20

    • @ozbornn3
      @ozbornn3 24 дні тому +12

      @rycoreco633
      1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0:25
      2. Surface level conversations 0:50
      3. They joke about potential relationships 1:10
      4. They use metaphorical language 1:58
      5. They might avoid direct contact 2:43
      6. They put up a facade of confidence 3:18
      7. Obvious body cues 3:59
      8. They display hot and cold behavior 4:37
      9.They seek information about you indirectly 5:20

    • @rycoreco633
      @rycoreco633 24 дні тому +5

      @@ozbornn3 forgot that's how you normally do it , thanks

    • @ozbornn3
      @ozbornn3 24 дні тому

      @@rycoreco633 no problem 😄 glad to help 😁

    • @Little_Neo
      @Little_Neo 23 дні тому

      I’m number 9. Lol

    • @_asantesana_squashbanana_
      @_asantesana_squashbanana_ 23 дні тому

      Lol wish me luck.

  • @ck-gc1zy
    @ck-gc1zy 24 дні тому +337

    I'm watching this to know how to fight my feelings.
    edit: nvm guys, we're dating now : ))

    • @Pleh911
      @Pleh911 24 дні тому +11

      real

    • @MAPELOfps
      @MAPELOfps 24 дні тому +3

      same ngl

    • @nunahovy
      @nunahovy 24 дні тому +11

      Relatable, like bro, I have been in this shit since years 😭

    • @user-wv6rn6eh8p
      @user-wv6rn6eh8p 24 дні тому +3

      Same here.

    • @Little_Neo
      @Little_Neo 23 дні тому +1

      Woah I just realized how big pysh2go has become lol I think I’ve been here since under a million lol

  • @bartholetbay412
    @bartholetbay412 22 дні тому +342

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

    • @paulinebricks3441
      @paulinebricks3441 22 дні тому

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 22 дні тому

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Shelly Renee White

    • @paulinebricks3441
      @paulinebricks3441 22 дні тому +1

      thank you, but how do i reach her?

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 22 дні тому

      look her name up online, you will find all you need to know about her. she is definitely going to help.

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 22 дні тому

      Its wrong though. Everyone around me have what seems like a perfect, flawless, sunshine and rainbows type of relationship. Everyone around me can walk up to a woman, or a man for that matter and BOOM. You got a solid couple in an instant.

  • @ulyana_schen
    @ulyana_schen 24 дні тому +52

    Watch this to find out if someone has a hidden crush on you: ❌
    Watch this to find out whether or not you're hiding your feelings correctly: ✅

  • @SMAnthonyW
    @SMAnthonyW 21 день тому +14

    POV: You are the one fighting your feelings about someone

  • @mkanyam
    @mkanyam 24 дні тому +250

    Click accidentally... 💀

  • @8MinutesExplainer
    @8MinutesExplainer 24 дні тому +225

    1. They seem to light up whenever you enter the room, their eyes lingering on you a beat longer than necessary.
    2. You catch them stealing glances at you when they think you're not looking, a shy smile playing on their lips.
    3. They go out of their way to help you or be near you, even for the smallest of tasks.
    4. Their body language speaks volumes - leaning in when you talk, finding excuses to touch your arm or shoulder.
    5. They remember the little things about you, like your favorite coffee order or the book you mentioned wanting to read.
    6. There's a subtle nervousness in their demeanor when they're around you, as if they're afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing.
    7. They mirror your actions or adopt similar interests, trying to create a connection between the two of you.
    8. They become more attentive and supportive, cheering you on in your endeavors and offering a listening ear when you need it most.
    9. They express genuine concern for your well-being and happiness, going above and beyond to ensure you're okay.
    10. Their friends might drop hints or tease them when you're around, indicating that they've confided in others about their feelings for you.

    • @copperdingus759
      @copperdingus759 24 дні тому

      4’s something I casually do all the time with my friends-

    • @jayvee1387
      @jayvee1387 22 дні тому +2

      These seem like they are moreso things that someone who is fighting feelings for you exhibit. The things in this video are very avoidant and emotionally immature and i cant think of a reason why ANYONE would tolerate them. 🤷🏽

    • @LeifTunteri-lm6un
      @LeifTunteri-lm6un 21 день тому

      Well now you've got me overthinking!

    • @teefrankenstein4340
      @teefrankenstein4340 14 днів тому

      💯

    • @Jennxe_27
      @Jennxe_27 5 днів тому

      woah u helped me thanks

  • @SnailTrailJay
    @SnailTrailJay 24 дні тому +60

    Gotta love a situationship, I know he likes me but some days he’s all over me and other days we barely talk except for a hi or 2. It’s confusing

    • @jayvee1387
      @jayvee1387 24 дні тому +17

      why waste your time then? Being alone is better than being played...🤷

    • @matthewheipp749
      @matthewheipp749 22 дні тому +1

      ​@@jayvee1387good point

    • @nategubbins8871
      @nategubbins8871 22 дні тому +3

      I'm in one too. It's been a long while as she's been "figuring out how she feels" but after a bit, enough is enough. Avoidant or not, people deserve honesty.

    • @Cthreeoh
      @Cthreeoh 22 дні тому

      @@nategubbins8871 Just ended things as well with a girl because of this, after the date she said she loved being around me and I make her feel loved and cared for, texts slowed down I asked what’s wrong she said she’s going through a depressive episode then 3 weeks pass and still haven’t seen her

    • @Cthreeoh
      @Cthreeoh 22 дні тому

      @@nategubbins8871Just ended things with a girl as well because of this, After our date she said she loved being around me and I make her feel happy, loved and cared for but the texts slowed down I asked what’s wrong and she said she’s going through a depressive ep. But 3 weeks go by and I haven’t seen her, as well as 1-2 texts a day.

  • @targetkittyfive
    @targetkittyfive 24 дні тому +90

    I'm staying single for the rest of my LIFE!! I hate games! And this is definitely game playing! 😢

    • @jayvee1387
      @jayvee1387 24 дні тому +19

      agreed on the games thing. this doesn't sound like they're fighting feelings. this just sounds like someone whos emotionally unavailable and not ready for a relationship

  • @brienna224
    @brienna224 24 дні тому +65

    when i’m thinking that im learning about others, i just learn more about myself. This is me 😭 need to do more inner work

    • @danyelleorr-mcneil4711
      @danyelleorr-mcneil4711 24 дні тому +8

      Actually, no, it's a beautiful thing. The more you learn about others, the more you learn about yourself. The more you learn about yourself, the more you learn about others❤ Self-awareness is what you seem to be in the process of discovering. You got this😉

    • @brienna224
      @brienna224 23 дні тому

      @@danyelleorr-mcneil4711 awww thank you for the encouragement! You got this too! ❤️

  • @doloressingletary1502
    @doloressingletary1502 24 дні тому +79

    The fact that this guy has been showing all of these signs for yearssssss is insane 😭😭. At some point we have to be honest with ourselves and with the people we have interest in. The idea of forcing away emotions and feelings towards a person… sounds like torture 😬

    • @ltdino21
      @ltdino21 24 дні тому +5

      It is but you get used to it

    • @akanehakashima5114
      @akanehakashima5114 24 дні тому +6

      Yeah true... It us torture but foe my case... I'd rather fight those feelings and push them away cause she will never take an interest in me and my friends hates her and her friends and I have to pretend that I hate her too, bad mouthing her when I think she is such an amazing person🥲

    • @donotreadmyprofile9373
      @donotreadmyprofile9373 24 дні тому +1

      same. ipIt happened to me for years with a person

    • @nunahovy
      @nunahovy 24 дні тому +4

      ​@@akanehakashima5114 I think you should just be honest. Don't bad mouth her.
      Not even as a romantic interest, just stop it! You are hurting her!

    • @nunahovy
      @nunahovy 24 дні тому +1

      I mean. If you have a valid reason for hiding them is worth it.

  • @zari9109
    @zari9109 24 дні тому +20

    Not me watching this to see if I truly like him or just his company.

  • @gracetwang6139
    @gracetwang6139 24 дні тому +23

    0:25 they tend to avoid emotional intimacy
    0:49 surface-level conversations
    1:09 they joke about potential relationships
    1:42 they use metaphorical language
    2:43 they might avoid direct contact
    3:19 they put a facade of confidence
    3:58 obvious body cues
    4:37 they display hot and cold behaviour
    5:17 they seek information about you indirectly

  • @PrinceOfDawn55
    @PrinceOfDawn55 24 дні тому +11

    When you realise you’re the one showing theses signs and not ur crush 😅😂

  • @Gisellenid
    @Gisellenid 24 дні тому +7

    This art was one of the cutest I've seen in your channel! Congrats to the artist!
    Also, I have noticed these signs with my closest friend, but it should remain like this in order to keep our friendship healthy.
    He has a SO, but can't avoid me, nor do I, because of our job. It's sad.

  • @danam7172
    @danam7172 22 дні тому +5

    i started the video hoping to see signs he likes me back
    i ended the video realizing it just described me when im around him

    • @0stkreuz
      @0stkreuz 5 днів тому +1

      HAHAHHA same here

  • @fatboyoficiale
    @fatboyoficiale 22 дні тому +7

    Sorry but if someone is playing Tsundere with you DON’T PURSUE THEM. They will either manipulate you or do not want your advances

  • @Polar_Bear_2007
    @Polar_Bear_2007 24 дні тому +11

    As much as I want to hate him, it's not that easy.

  • @cashordeals3672
    @cashordeals3672 24 дні тому +24

    So any single homies here that can't relate 💀

    • @jayvee1387
      @jayvee1387 24 дні тому +1

      me asf..... Im single and celibate and NOT looking. Not only because the dating scene is a literal warzone rn but also because people just give me the ick in general now. And because all people want nowadays in relationships of ANY kind is the entertainment and games or the instant gratification or the ego boost, everything is transactional.... Very stale boring stuff imo 🤷

  • @user-sp8sr1my6e
    @user-sp8sr1my6e 24 дні тому +9

    Please kindly continue posting your much appreciated videos

  • @JLDREAMS
    @JLDREAMS 24 дні тому +7

    orrr they dont like you :)

  • @noobzito2
    @noobzito2 24 дні тому +15

    Timestamp!
    -0:24 They tend to avoid emotional intimacy
    -0:51 surface-level conversations
    -1:09 They joke about potential relationships
    -1:42 They use Methaphorical language
    -2:44 they might avoid direct contact
    -3:21 They put on a facade of confidence
    -3:58 obvious body cues
    -4:37 They display hot and cold behaviour
    -5:19 They seek information about you indirectly

  • @nevergonnaendvideos
    @nevergonnaendvideos 20 днів тому +3

    I miss the old character with the leaf on his head😭

  • @arundumbon4033
    @arundumbon4033 17 днів тому +1

    Out of every video this channel uploaded, I related to this the most!

  • @idris7901
    @idris7901 24 дні тому +8

    I needed it so much❤❤ Thank you❤❤❤

  • @biggbossgyann
    @biggbossgyann 20 днів тому +2

    8 out of 8,i wish i would have worked on my academy's like this.

  • @ZacharyTheGreat896
    @ZacharyTheGreat896 23 дні тому

    I've been watching you for a while now but hadn't had my own account to sub. This advice, per say, has helped me.

  • @miffylover850
    @miffylover850 24 дні тому +8

    Wow this is timed well😳

  • @franchottwoodjr6181
    @franchottwoodjr6181 24 дні тому

    Thank you very much for all of your informative videos,sir.

  • @jayceegutierrez5051
    @jayceegutierrez5051 24 дні тому +6

    Im still watching this even tho I know they just dont like me and probably hate me because of ruining our friendship

  • @JoeyKottman
    @JoeyKottman 12 днів тому

    thank you so much Psych2go, on my journey and losses to finally establish this win in my books, i'm so grateful you helped me do this. much love, best channel for advice. ❤❤❤

  • @PaoMeetang
    @PaoMeetang 24 дні тому +5

    Yayyy a video 🥳

  • @sleepy_owlie4547
    @sleepy_owlie4547 24 дні тому +8

    watching after knowing he likes someone else, and hasnt moved on
    i think he confessed recently a week before the exam date, his been hinting about how he was kind to her and she broke his heart on fb and well i guess i understand why he likes her, shes been his friend for 2 years na.
    i know i dont have a chance, im not his type, im rowdy, playful, loud, touchy and unexperienced when it comes to love, im a kid in other peoples eyes but i keep having feelings, the way he looks when his concentrating, when his smilling and laughing, and how kind, thoughtful, and respectful he is but i also kind of like how cute he is when his mad as long as its not directed on me, and his random actions like petting my head or reasuring me just keeps my feelings for him alive, its been 8 months since i realized i had feelings for him but i know my feelings were slowy developing a year ago, i even said that he was my type to ny best friend before really realizing i liked him.
    alot of my friends keep telling me to move on even myself, but its hard, whenever i see him i know my feelings are still there

    • @saraireyes8678
      @saraireyes8678 23 дні тому

      I think you should tell him when the time is right it sounds like you genuinely like this person and it’s not just a subtle crush, if u can’t tell him irl write him a short letter or note n prepare urself mentally for rejection n if ur afraid of losing ur friendship express to them that you will respect their feelings n just appreciate the friendship u have ( n who knows maybe one day this person will come to like u too) 😊

    • @LeifTunteri-lm6un
      @LeifTunteri-lm6un 21 день тому

      Talk to him once he's recovered from the heartbreak, and speak with your heart. Be honest and vulnerable. It sounds like you genuinely love him and it's not fair to yourself to keep supressing those feelings. Even if you get rejected you'll at least have the closure of having tried and you'll be able to move on much easier. Stop overthinking about whether you're his type or not and just go for it!

  • @LovelyBunny-uv7gx
    @LovelyBunny-uv7gx 22 дні тому +2

    Hi Psy, I just noticed that subscribers have reached 12 million. Yay, congrats 👏 💖 💕 💓 😊

  • @Pretzelman718
    @Pretzelman718 20 днів тому +2

    I'm seeing about 5/8 of these from the person I'm interested in. This is driving me crazy.

  • @itsmeeandrea
    @itsmeeandrea 22 дні тому +1

    This is so me 😮 but also the animations in this video are soooo cute and pretty 😍😍

  • @gatorssbm
    @gatorssbm 23 дні тому +1

    This sounds a bit like fearful avoidance but its about half of these that are usual behaviors. tbh there can be a good chance that some of these can be false alarms because even my partner who dragged out a situationship still tried being somewhat emotionally vulnerable. This is the only video on this channel Im a bit dicey on but overall keep up the good work.

  • @Anita-vc8nb
    @Anita-vc8nb 24 дні тому +6

    Remember everyone, you deserve someone who is sure about you, knows your worth, and enhances your life. There can be a point in which this hot and cold behavior can be exhausting and make you feel bad, so take care of yourself, really analyze if you want to continue pursuing this person (if they make you feel this bad), and love yourself first.

  • @bongobiggoose
    @bongobiggoose 24 дні тому +2

    I have this person that's a friend, and I don't want to act like I have a crush on them because I only want them to be a friend and nothing else.

  • @syirahohsem
    @syirahohsem 20 днів тому +2

    bro is describe my situation right now.. i'm the one with avoid emotional intimacy 😭😭

  • @whoisbriannab
    @whoisbriannab 24 дні тому

    Yeah....I'm in similar situation. I have shared my feelings. She says she doesn't feel the same but she exhibits all of these signs. Some more than others, but they are all there. To complicate things even more she's my bestie. So decoding becomes murky.

  • @MegaManNeo
    @MegaManNeo 24 дні тому

    Interesting pieces of information in that regard if I ever experience this situation.

  • @eijil.
    @eijil. 24 дні тому +6

    HIm and I have a very complicated friendship. He watches me and my details. He jokes with me and we push each other and laugh together, but the next day he ignores me completely. We always quarrel and do not correspond at all except on special occasions. Sometimes I say that the matter is over and that he no longer likes me, but the strange thing is that until now he still looks at me. He still follows all my details. He is very conflicted and tries to fight his feelings

    • @Anita-vc8nb
      @Anita-vc8nb 24 дні тому +5

      I gave the same reply to somebody else but here it goes: I think that if someone is being hot and cold with you and this person's actions (leaving you on seen, avoiding you, etc) are making you feel bad, get away from this person. You deserve someone who knows your worth, is sure about you, and enhances your life. Really ask yourself what you want from this relationship, and if this person isn't it, then bye, I say this from experience, playing games is exhausting and it usually never ends well. Much love and support to you

    • @eijil.
      @eijil. 24 дні тому +3

      @@Anita-vc8nb Thank you for your words, and yes, what you said is true, because these relationships greatly destroy a person’s mood. I felt exhausted by him, because one day he was always teasing me, scolding me, and the next day smiling at me. I see him treating everyone kindly and treating me harshly, so I got tired of taking the initiative and left the matter. By ignoring ..

    • @jayvee1387
      @jayvee1387 24 дні тому +4

      @@Anita-vc8nb I second this wholeheartedly! Very well said

  • @niasiamack9333
    @niasiamack9333 24 дні тому

    This video helps a lot

  • @veronicaferguson8548
    @veronicaferguson8548 24 дні тому +9

    I chose for him by chosing someone else who was direct and honest.

    • @YoonchiYa
      @YoonchiYa 24 дні тому

      YES! 🙌

    • @jayvee1387
      @jayvee1387 24 дні тому +3

      THIS!!!!!!! Thank you for standing up for yourself cuz gotDAMN do i have shitty news for the people waiting for their emotionally unavailable "SOs" to wake up and notice them..... 🙄😒

    • @Shay4YourMind81
      @Shay4YourMind81 24 дні тому

      Yep, that’s how you do it! 💯 I had to do the same thing with someone who wanted to play games. Then he had the audacity to be upset with me for not playing his game. You snooze, you lose.

    • @jayvee1387
      @jayvee1387 24 дні тому

      @@Shay4YourMind81 "gotta be quicker than that!" 🤣😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 23 дні тому

    Interesting thanks ❤️😊

  • @aellalee4767
    @aellalee4767 23 дні тому +1

    Pretty sure this is the way my interactions go with people I'm interested in.
    Unfortunately they still say no when I ask them out. Probably because I can't comprehend why you'd say no if you're interested. I have no fear of emotional pain.

  • @makotohan166
    @makotohan166 23 дні тому +1

    This shows up hours after asking my friend’s cousin on why they believe her & I still have some sort of romantic connection years later

  • @moppot456
    @moppot456 23 дні тому

    Thank you for this video now that I can become alone by myself

  • @huaping7266
    @huaping7266 22 дні тому +2

    this vid made me realize that I've done this to the guy I liked 4 years ago. Now, I feel bad for myself because I could've been in a relationship with a person that I resonate with.

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 21 день тому

      aww thats just too fucking bad. But hey, congratulations. You have succesfully, and just like all other women, hurt a guy. Are you happy???

  • @anderstermansen130
    @anderstermansen130 21 день тому +1

    having a crush require human feelings. Something i quitted having. It only got weaponized against me at all time.

  • @Torriotorres
    @Torriotorres 24 дні тому

    I watched this channel about 2 years ago. I'm not the same guy. I don't wonder. I don't doubt myself.

  • @drunkphysicist
    @drunkphysicist 23 дні тому +3

    We got busted

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n 24 дні тому +2

    Timestamps
    1). They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0:24
    2). They joke about potential relationships 1:08
    3). They use metaphorical language 1:40
    4). They might avoid direct contact 2:42
    5). They put a facade of confidence 3:17
    6). Obvious body cues 3:57
    7). They display hot and cold behaviour 4:35
    8). They seek information about you indirectly 5:17
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @knacksahne202
    @knacksahne202 24 дні тому +1

    She shows like 5 1/2 of these, these videos really are fuel for overthinking

  • @shin_chan3074
    @shin_chan3074 24 дні тому +4

    I WANNA CONFESS SO BADLYyyyy but im so scared of his response or the others s reactions 🥹😭😭😭

  • @alicialeong1993
    @alicialeong1993 24 дні тому +2

    this all sounds just like me but with my BFF who is a boy I confessed to before but got rejected and I still feel the same way and idw to feel them no more and T.T

  • @godknows3082
    @godknows3082 24 дні тому +1

    Psych2go you just broked me in million parts😭😭

  • @N192K001
    @N192K001 23 дні тому

    Oh, d-! This has been my playbook for pretty much most of my life, but this is the 1st time I've actually seen it actually laid-out in an explicit listing. (Others just thought I wasn't being honest with my emotions. No, I was fighting it. Duties come 1st!) Still, good job, P2G!

  • @kassoullye
    @kassoullye 22 дні тому +1

    watching this knowing all too well that it's me. I'm the one who's fighting hopelessly

  • @LeifTunteri-lm6un
    @LeifTunteri-lm6un 21 день тому +1

    Lmao this video has me overthinking. Pretty sure it's nothing, but a part of my brain keeps going "what if?". I think I'm just longing for love again though.

  • @ribeirojulhia
    @ribeirojulhia 24 дні тому +1

    I knew he had crush on me, but as he didnt tell me i respected his decisions and i didn't know him neither so it was complicated

  • @matthewheipp749
    @matthewheipp749 22 дні тому +1

    These tips should be useful for me (so that i can fight it)

  • @crochet_gurl3725
    @crochet_gurl3725 22 дні тому +1

    My best friend is somewhat matching with these infos...(I only see him as a brother)

  • @Caspher.92
    @Caspher.92 19 днів тому

    it's me! I am that someone, fighting my own feelings🥲

  • @its_miafrancalanci6620
    @its_miafrancalanci6620 23 дні тому +1

    HI! I need your help! Can you recommend a program to make animations like these? I would need it for a university project

  • @BeaAdelineManlangit
    @BeaAdelineManlangit 20 днів тому +1

    I've been all of that in the past to my highschool crush

  • @artsydog
    @artsydog 24 дні тому +27

    here too early for the timestamps

    • @ozbornn3
      @ozbornn3 24 дні тому +2

      @rycoreco633
      1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0:25
      2. Surface level conversations 0:50
      3. They joke about potential relationships 1:10
      4. They use metaphorical language 1:58
      5. They might avoid direct contact 2:43
      6. They put up a facade of confidence 3:18
      7. Obvious body cues 3:59
      8. They display hot and cold behavior 4:53
      (Edit)
      9.They seek information about you indirectly 5:20

    • @ChronarAutomaton
      @ChronarAutomaton 24 дні тому

      ​@@ozbornn3great

  • @crystalulerio9251
    @crystalulerio9251 24 дні тому

    Yea.. 😌 sounds about right

  • @EClair1019
    @EClair1019 19 днів тому +1

    Instead of clicking this video to see if my crush MIGHT like me back, I ended up being everything the video suggested.

    • @Aioooo981
      @Aioooo981 18 днів тому

      No fr which is me as well 💀

  • @NataliahRose7
    @NataliahRose7 24 дні тому +4

    I accidentally fell down the water slide stairs onto my crush 😭
    Hes the one who made me fall on him tho

  • @imanbb2669
    @imanbb2669 24 дні тому

    Pls do more vids about how do i know if ny shy crush likes me or just sth about love and crushes i need these tips plss

  • @TheNonameHousehold
    @TheNonameHousehold 22 дні тому +1

    Realizing I did that as a kid
    towards the cute curly haired girl with glasses and didn't even realize it 😳🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Luna_this_handle_is_taken
    @Luna_this_handle_is_taken 24 дні тому +2

    Why am i here, i dont even talk to them and i only see them in the hallways

  • @ukchamp7k
    @ukchamp7k 24 дні тому

    a few girls in my coaching seemed like they liked me so this video helped me confirm something. thanks psych2go

  • @crow3370
    @crow3370 23 дні тому

    This is how I'm acting right now about someone i like

  • @enyacorneliasoderberg
    @enyacorneliasoderberg 22 дні тому +1

    Feeding my delutions fr

  • @egg9831
    @egg9831 24 дні тому +3

    i feel very called out lol

  • @sherrifjenkins9229
    @sherrifjenkins9229 21 день тому +1

    Dude, don’t expose me like that! 😅

  • @kaitlynabboud3395
    @kaitlynabboud3395 24 дні тому +4

    Pov: you do all those things…..

    • @wisteria1739
      @wisteria1739 24 дні тому +1

      And do you think you are fighting your feelings for them?

    • @ichibear4395
      @ichibear4395 24 дні тому +1

      Damn, 100% accuracy

    • @kaitlynabboud3395
      @kaitlynabboud3395 24 дні тому +1

      @@wisteria1739 definitely, I’m trying to fix it though lol

  • @ribeirojulhia
    @ribeirojulhia 24 дні тому +1

    Now I know why can't never tell my feelings i was doing this indirectly

  • @cosmist8207
    @cosmist8207 24 дні тому

    Oh nooo..how did I end up here? Well, guess I have to stay and watch the video now

  • @kdramaloverboy6223
    @kdramaloverboy6223 24 дні тому +1

    I do all this honestly😭😭😭, i find it easier. When I see them with someone else(even just smiling), I tell myself that I cant have them cause they belong to soneone else and i cant have them

  • @dycedarg19
    @dycedarg19 23 дні тому

    I found out I’m mostly this person. We’ve both been hurt by bad relationships, but I’ve developed some feelings. I want to think that they also have feelings, but we both do a good job of avoiding confessing. But who knows, maybe all this time I’m the only who has these feelings! 😂

  • @xxtimeisthefireinwhichweburnxx
    @xxtimeisthefireinwhichweburnxx 24 дні тому

    I watch these women on the internet play games and do stuff in their lives, and I like them. I don't know how I feel about the woman who showed me who they are. I know it's wrong for me to think of her the way I do because I'm married. I love spending time with her though...

  • @allyapril5819
    @allyapril5819 20 днів тому +1

    Yeah I can’t talk to my gym crush but I have been giving him signals

  • @kittygent9612
    @kittygent9612 24 дні тому

    here we go again

  • @alexidk1863
    @alexidk1863 18 днів тому

    and here i was thinking i was hiding it super well 😭

  • @Whos_unknownfr
    @Whos_unknownfr 22 дні тому +1

    Hey Psych2Go just wondering in what you think of this and please reply on what are you’re opinions on this, So i met this girl online and we started talking a lot until my friend (well call him E) met her and I introduced them, the eventually started talking & had many similarities and became bf/gf don’t get me wrong I’m very happy for them but there’s one thing that makes me feel weird, so my friend (the gf) recently gave me her discord and she was talking to me about if I would visit where she lives for a sleep over (she lives very very far away from me) and so I said yes and she started asking more questions like what would you todo at my house & where would you sleep, I answered the first question by asking what’s at the house that she lives at like if thiers a pool, swing, trampoline ext and so she said there are all of those things but before that asked the same question and I replied “scroll through TikTok or yt shorts” and she said what about with no internet, I responded with going outside and going in the pool, now she asked where I would sleep and I said on the floor just by getting a mattress blanket and a pillow, then she said why not with me on my bed and I said because it’s you’re bed then she said that what if u we’re to get hot there (I live in a very hot area so I’m fine with it) and then I feel I was obliged to say sure and then one more thing, she always goes to me instead of her boyfriend which always concerns me, she’ll go to me if bored wants to play talk ext and yeah. Sorry for making it really long just wanted you’re thought on this thank you (I’m 13 by the way)

  • @adibmirza3755
    @adibmirza3755 23 дні тому +1

    But if someone talked about hypothetical relationships with others I’ll just think they don’t like me lmao

  • @Bruffs-poopy
    @Bruffs-poopy 23 дні тому +1

    Guys what should I do? I had a crush on this one girl 2 years ago and she liked me back but I was too scared to do anything. I’m not sure if she likes me anymore but I was at a dance and thought about asking her and chicken out there are 8 days left of school! Do you guys have any advice? Oh also we’re going to different schools after this summer

  • @spacecat8511
    @spacecat8511 23 дні тому

    Well at least I’m not crazy, but it still hurts, and will it ever resolve.
    …at least my own repeated and increasing insistence to be friends seems to finally be heard…because admitting Yeah I DO Like You (Too) can…only do harm right now. What IS apparently “safe” but often gets that described hot/cold is…us trying to get through to the other how much we respect them but.
    And this has been going on for YEARS now. Despite a literal year of not interacting at all in an attempt to protect eachother, then me pushing the issue for a friendship, then the people we were literally trying to shield the other from through avoidance lit the fuse…which left a LOT of repair work to do ontop of the already Not Great start
    And…now the air’s as clear as it can be but. The method I thought was fine, wasn’t, so…literally haven’t seen them for. Literal months. And it’s “are they avoiding me, or do I continue to choose to trust that they’re not and want to be my friend like they insist.” And to maybe see them again…is apparently dependent on whether or not I can get preexisting plans to work as well as face down my own traumas getting stirred up by environments-which they at least acknowledge isn’t fair to the point of distress.
    …I wish we could just say we liked eachother already. And I still don’t understand what’s so difficult to just agree to “hey are you free at __” once a month or whatever.
    Or. Have my feelings just DIE already instead of keeping me miserable.

  • @setareh5888
    @setareh5888 23 дні тому

    I know someone with this signs. At first I thought they like me, there was mixed signals but I decided to came out of my comfort zone and start to talk to them more and do deep conversations, but at some point I felt like he sees me as nothing, he doesn't act aroundme as a friend nor lover. And I was like then what was those behaviors?! Now that I see this video I found what's going on. He use metaphor, he seek info indirectly, he doesn't contact me out of school but in school he has body language toward me like seeking to say hi when he doesn't have to, wait for me or let me pass first always,... makes jokes about having relationships with others. I know now what he is doing but like I overcome my crush toward him but why when he is still struggling, he didn't put step towards me?

  • @royxl9506
    @royxl9506 22 дні тому

    Can u do one on how to end a relationship

  • @aidanpendleton7366
    @aidanpendleton7366 21 день тому +1

    Bunch of other ppl have shared their story so ig I will too why not
    There's a girl I like but I'm repressing my feelings for her despite I think I had a chance w her simply cuz I won't be staying in this country for uni and she will most likely, or at least not even end up in the same country so I can't really see a relationship tgt working out *sigh* dunno guess I just can't have a relationship till uni at least there won't be anything distracting me from studying

  • @user-fc2tj8lf2m
    @user-fc2tj8lf2m 24 дні тому +1

    I have a girl that keeps telling me she likes me a lot and she kissed me last time we saw each other, yet I still can't stop telling myself that its not real.

  • @arjaymartin0701
    @arjaymartin0701 24 дні тому +2

    Is pretty like really make feeling great like see