HIS STORY: TIMING, SEASONS & CONVICTION FOR MARRIAGE | How God Chose My Spouse Part 2
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- Опубліковано 11 лип 2024
- This is part 2 of our marriage story.
Sam shares his own journey to receiving a witness and conviction about his marriage. He details his preparation process and God's kindness towards him in that time.
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The year of the bride #TYOTB
Links:
How God Chose My Spouse Part 1
• HER STORY: GATHERING C...
How God Chose My Spouse Part 3
• OUR STORY: THE PROPOSA...
Need For Interpreters
By Prophet Babs Adewunmi
• The Need for Interpret...
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Filmed and Edited by @TheDelphinator
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Time codes
The Beginning. 00:00 - 02:30
The attack - "Nigeria, your marriage". 02:30 - 05:20
Meeting my divine timeline. 05:20 - 09:07
Meeting Delphine for the first time. 09:07 - 13:37
"The Weight of Glory". 13:37 - 15:54
I knew I was supposed to marry the next year. 15:54 - 20:53
Letting go of preferences. 20:53 - 25:17
Praying about Delphine. 25:17 - 27:07
The template. 27:07 - 29:27
The dream and its cycles. 29:27 - 35:40
"in that same moment, I loved her" - The Chase. 35:40 - 37:58
The decision to ask Delphine. 37:58 - 44:03 - Розваги
If you have any questions kindly leave them here. Sam and I will film Part 3 together.
1) Del: How did you trust/know that the clues you received on your husband were from God?
2) What would advise someone who struggles to hear from the holly spirit in her personal life (i.e., discerning between people that seem right on paper and true God-sent prospects)
3) Although I am past the "hopeful" age for a fertile marriage, after yet another misleading connection, I feel that I need to shut that door and focus on my assignments and friendships instead. It feels
as if my interest and just trust in men has melred doen. I would like support in prayer for me to receive a clear direction.
Thank you for sharing your incredibly timely story with us, 🙏🏾I am amazed that your video (part 1) and channel was suggested for the 1st time today!
Thank you both so much for your obedience to God and for sharing your testimony. I would like to ask:
1. Did you encounter any opposition and if so, how did you deal with it?
2. Now you have been together for a year, are you noticing things about yourselves that still need work, or would you say God dealt with those things in the waiting season?
3. Did you have premarital counseling and do you think it's necessary?
Thank you and God bless 🙏🏽
What if you are not attracted to the person. Do you force it because it's God's will?
What if you pray and you are not hearing anything?
When God showed you Sam was the person, did you have feeling for him immediately or when did you know that you had feelings for him?
What you guys are doing is sooo timely, Nathaniel Bassey, Victoria Orenze and Tiphani Montgomery released a prophetic world around the end of August 2023 about kingdom marriages, this would help to give clarity to a lot of people in the body of Christ who are currently trying to figure things out. Thank you Delphine and Sam for shining your light in the dark, the body of Christ really needs this at such a pivotal moment that we're in❤❤❤❤. Both your testimonies have blessed me. God bless you both, may your love grow sweeter like good wine. I love you both❤❤❤
Yesss this!!!
It’s so timely for me as it’s coming after concluding the fast with Tiphani Montgomery
I’m believing that prophetic word too 🎉
Yees...and I receive my Kingdom Marriage...this is the season of Kingdom Marriages and I love to see it
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@Alexandra_Ighodaro Girl!!!!! Me too. So timely. So you won't believe this, after TYOTB fast, I came back home for Christmas and I was told we'll be having some prayers to repent and deliver our bloodline. I am so grateful. It's all falling into place.
So powerful. The Bride who humbly waits and the Bridegroom who chases. The SPIRIT and the BRIDE have to bekon the Bridegroom. What a picture of Jesus and the Church!
So good! ❤
Amen 🙏🏽❤
Now this comment deserves a million likes 🥹🙌🏾💍🔥❤️🔥
The spirit and the bride says come. Wow you just picked the right scripture to describe them
@@nikkisummer6016exactly 💯
Lord i will share my love story before the end of 2024. I don't know how you will do it but I trust you 💯
I really hope that when I find my husband, I will say “ what took you so long”😢😊❤
I pray for you my sister that, this would be your case.
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Me too. Amen
Me too
Be patient
Yesterday night I was praying for my dream spouse,I kept on wondering what God is really doing ,my friends and cousins are all married and have children 😢😢😢I felt am lagging behind . So this morning I have been scrolling on UA-cam ,then boom I bumped into your videos 😭😭😭Isn't God so amazing.In my waiting season I still trust in you my Lord🙏🙏 please Lord keep on showing me signs
Same too, i just find this video so relieving
@@Jay-zj3dm it shall be well 🙏🙏
Hmmm😂 God is good all the time. I'm 33yrs , my life is full of disappointment from some many person's. I told myself not to marry anyone's husband, but married people keep coming while the single ones seems to be send from the pit of hell to destroy me. But Lord this evening u let me come across this? May ur will be done and ur name be glorify in my life too and let me testify one day.
How has things been hun?
This story makes me love the holyspirit more and moreee
Right.😊😊
Lord please send me a man that will be intentional and pursue me the Godly way
Amen.
Amen 🙏
Amen
Amen
Amen
Tiphani Montgomery shared the revelation that we are in proximity with our spouse but they just might not see it yet. The light hasn’t shined on his sight yet to see who his wife is. So to lean on the scripture He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing is not to say that your husband will find you per se. The word findeth means to discover, to encounter or to find out. And this story really just shows how the husband wasn’t really “searching” for his wife. He just prayed that his eyes be enlightened to the discovery of his wife, and as a result in a dream had an encounter with a revelation of her. So let’s not think our husband’s will “find” us, rather God will lead us into the good circumstances where we will meet and in HIS timing will allow our eyes to be opened to the revelation of our spouse❤.
Amen
So deep, thanks.
Amen
Beautiful Story, I have never heard it like these
Kingdom marriages is key to the work the lord has given us as ambassadors.
In all these I saw the heart of a child even though a man was speaking. Anyman that must be led by God must have the heart of a child. Always running back to the father
It is not enough that Christ speaks to just one person but to the other, there is always a confirmation of that which He has spoken. The Angel appeared not only to Mary but also to joseph.
This is a lovely story and i pray the Lord continues to grant single christians the patience to wait on Him for their halves
This good 🙏🙌🔥
Yesterday,i had a dream concerning my marriage stuff, and work up this morning to operate my phone i was directed to UA-cam.The story of your wife captivated me,i cried when she said and Ruth stayed.
God has a purpose of bringing me to see this and he will complete my beautiful love story.
Kingdom marriage is beautiful.❤
Lol.. I thought I was the only one Sis.. we'll definitely get it right by God's grace and direction 🙏
Amen
It is Kingdom marriage or nothing 🥰🥰
This story is about obedience
What intrigues me the most is how much he prayed. I don’t know if anyone noticed this. And he didn’t make a move until his heart was settled despite the pressures around. I love me a praying man. I believe when the time is right God will make it happen
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Hahahahaha.
Del was not kidding when she said he spoke on measurements and the weight of glory!!!
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I was like "Oooohh, the weight of glory 😂"
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Literally 😂
Honestly 😂😂😂
Me I wondering maybe she didn’t hear him properly but fr😅😅😅😅
In that moment i loved her ....After coming out of an abusive marriage....i will keep seeking and waiting for God's choice of husband for me❤
Same 😢
Amen 🙏🙏 waiting on God's Kingdom spouse for me.
God already told me who my husband is ..I'm just waiting for God's timing to bring him to me on His perfect timing
Same
I can relate to so much of your testimony. That instant love for the person God gives.. when I felt it, I was so cautious because it felt like it came out of nowhere literally. God indeed can choose your partner, I can testify to that too. Got married November last year as well. Thank you guys for sharing your story, Kingdom singles need to know God not only cares but has a plan for that area of our lives.
I and my husband would share our God written love story also. Amen
Amen.
Amen
Amen
Amen
“Does she know Theophilus Sunday, John Piper…where is she with Arome” ? 😂😂😅
This was too gooood! Thank you Jesus for this beautiful God-ordained home. Many other supernatural marriages would be birth through this testimony.
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Hehehe
What is it with Theophilus and daddy Osayi ?
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😂 AMEN
Been divorced 2 years with 3kids.2days ago my 7year old daughter told me mummy God is real and he answers prayers and he will answer you at the right time.Been having the verse popping up every where which says when the time is right I the Lord will make it happen.
2nd april 2024 my daughter says mummy i want to see a picture of you in a wedding dress,i photoshop and show without paying much attention.3rd april 2024 i am having my morning prayers with pastor jerry eze below is a video,"How God help me to chose my Spouse watched part 1 i cried and said oh God i wish i had listened and waited now look i am divorced,i go into part 2 now thinking this is not a conicidence that i am watching this.I have just been praying for spiritual consecrection and financial breakthrough now i dont know what God is trying to tell me but his will be done.
From today I allow GOD to break all the walls in my Heart.
Thank you servant of GOD.
I loved that Sam is honest about his spec (physical and spiritual) and how that influenced his ability to discern. We underestimate how our inner biases can affect our choices, even as Spirit-led people. I'm with Sam, I've been guilty of wanting my future spouse to know and love all the kingdom generals that I know and love, speak prophetic, be a dreampreter and all the rest.... and maybe my future spouse is doing same, wanting something specific that I may or may not be--WILD!🤣🤣🤣🤣 I also love how important prayer was in this story tooo--prayer was important in shifting Sam's "pallets", in creating an urgency in him for a spouse, and in ultimately imposing God's choice over his human will. It's convicted me/us to take this praying for our future spouse thing a bit more seriously (whether they are revealed to us yet or not), because they might be on a continuum of healing/revelation and our prayers can literally be the difference between "battered to whole". Thank you both for being honest with your story, and for sharing it so beautifully. I can't wait for part 3.
So good!!!
Love that everyone is catching different important things like discernment, prayer, etc and not just "marriage"
hmnnnn❤
"The pure in heart will see God."
These testimonies are so timely. God bless you and Del.
Amen.
Your testimonies gave me hope, I believe my husband is coming my way very soon.
@@zionhopemukisa780a
😂 Oh God I am just listening to this and I'm like what is my husband desiring right now 😂 am I even close to what he prefers, but trust God to package me well for him 😂😂😂
Hahahaha I thought of this
I came at the right time. God really writes the best love story.This thing really works. Amen
You can say that again😊😊😅❤
@@rowoli the waiting is hard but I don't want to make that mistake the 2nd time
In the place of prayer especially when it is done consistently and fervently, you will see a lot! This is what 2023 has taught me & it’s something I wish I knew before my mum passed on.
All of it is in God’s timing so don’t beat yourself up my beloved sister ✨🤍 what matters is you’re here now!!!!
My dear sister, I learnt this too by end of 2023. I'm glad. It's never too late to do better.😊
The matching fits 🥹❤️🫂
We make Linen fits - Family Business 😉
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GOD IS THE BEST MATCHMAKER! HIS TIMING IS ALWAYS PERFECT! TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!! 🙏🏽💙🙌🏿✨🎊(EVERY GOOD AND PERFECT GIFT COMES FROM ABOVE).🎁
Amen. I just quoted this scripture after watching Del's testimony ❤. TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY!!!
It's so heartbreaking when youths have a negative mentality on God being a match maker 😢😢
Patiently waiting unto the lord
Oh my gosh! I literally watched the “her story” video today and thought “how amazing would it be if we could hear Sam’s perspective?” and then I log onto UA-cam and see this video!
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He said I have been talking a lot , I am tired 😂😂🤣🤣😭🤧.
God bless you all 💞🤎
The way I quickly clicked the “Like” button before watching😂
Sameee😂
same🤣🤣
Same here 😂
Me too😂😂😂
Same here
24:49 You see this part right here?
Man sees the outward appearance and God sees the heart. And if you let him, he will give you the grace to see the heart of your spouse.
Beyond everything else, it is an honor to witness the heart of the one that you love. 😊
This is soo good sis so help us God
@@margretsamba4124 Amen 🙏🏻🥺
God can put emotions (love for a person) in our hearts to the degree that we let Him... He will eliminate the "spec" barrier we have... Thanks for sharing
My brother once informed me about the “7 years” timeline as pivotal moments of our lives. 7 means completion.
This is so hilarious!!😂😂
The part he said “does she even know Theophilus Sunday, John Piper..."
God help my unbelief 🙏
Sam’s perspective is both funny and annoying at the same time 😂😂😂😂😂😂Del really deserves accolades ❤😂😂😂I’m happy for you both ❤❤❤❤😅
“Does she even know Theophilus Sunday and John Piper?”😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Agnes.shines🤣🤣🤣
@@Agnes.shines does she know Paul Washer, where is she with Arome. 🤣🤣. Can someone say the weight of glory!!😁
@@omonefedavies2356 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂
@@omonefedavies2356 The weight of glory has me crying 😭😂
Wow this was the best kingdom marriage testimony I've ever heard
Nothing beats Kingdom. Nothing!!! ❤️🙏 Thank you for this Sam and Del. This has to be one of the most wholesome, spirit filled and instructive videos I've seen relating to Kingdom marriages in a long while. God bless you both ❤️
You said it! Very wholesome and spirit filled.🥹❤️
Guy, pray for your future husbands ooooooooo Thats all I could think about while watching his story, like your prayers were actually interceding for this man - protected him the day he was attacked and led Him to pay attention to and prioritise his marital future and even stay in his place of assignment. WOW thank you Jesus for this awakening!
God still writes love story ❤
The ending part of Sam’s side is so funny 😂 knowing the different feelings that Del was feeling in that moment. Ah! The process really is the process and may God guide us through because it really is something…
I'm personally blessed and enlighted with your testimony. One common thing that occurred in both of your lives in God gradually connecting you together was your personally conviction and relationship with God, where He had to prune you individually to be prepared spiritually, emotionally and physically for each other. Its really interesting that while Bel was frustrated with the WAIT God was busy working on her partner. It was very Wise with the help of the Holy Spirit that Bel behaved well in her waiting period. Im personally inspired my your union 😊
Wow! if there’s one thing I have taken from you and Del’s story is the importance of praying and seeking God over your future spouse. Thank you both I have been stirred up 😊
Got inspired by HER STORY, here for part 2, HIS STORY. Oh my God, isn't His ways higher than ours🇿🇦💝🔥❤️
Honestly 😊
Lord as you revealed my spouse to me ....reveal me to him if is your will for us..
My story is very similar to this one i trust you are working on my behalf.
This is a sign to be patient and surrender to God
Awesome story God is faithful it is good He confirmed it to you about your wife. I am encouraged to be praying for my future husband has I am believing and waiting on God, though waiting is hard. Sending love from Zambia 🇿🇲🙂❤️.
I hope I will share my story too some day😢❤
Amen 🙏🏾
Del you earned a new subscriber from East Africa, Kenya to be precise.
Just watching this too coincidentally first time.. From Ug
GOD WRITES THE BEST STORY
I had asked God yesterday that i needed stories of his matchmaking 😅and i saw this strolling through UA-cam.
This was really inspiring on both sides..
Thank you for yielding to God ❤
Questions for you part 3:
For Sam:
-From the time you were introduced to Del to the big revelation in Dec'21, what were some things going on personally that might have have hindered you from "seeing" her?
-Also, in this time, did you consider her romantically at all, or did you perceive that she considered you romantically? And did this affect how you showed up emotionally?. Because the people are trying to understand all the seemingly random dates, talks on the phone and concerts, and then the silence/disappearing act in between... haha
-It must have taken a lot of guts to know by Dec. 24th and ask Del on the Dec 26th (I hope I'm getting the timelines correctly, lol). What gave you such courage/confidence? Some men KNOW but are afraid to pursue because of many things including fear of rejection, financial insecurities, unknown uncertainties... Can you please speak into this to encourage the men who might find themselves in this situation as you..
For Del:
-Did you ever doubt that all those dreams about the manna Gad, were from your soul or the devil and not God, given the time it took and the reality that seemed nothing like what the dream was saying?
-Could you speak to knowing someone is the one but having to wait until they know... In retrospect do you advice that the one who knows just stows away the revelation until it manifests or pray into it until it happens? I have heard some arguments for and against, and I would love to know yours
-Sam talks about some biases surrounding his kind of woman, my question for you is this; when you knew for sure it was Sam, was he the man of your list? I know some Christian singles struggle with allowing God choose because they fear he wouldn't get it right (to the detail), haha. Can you speak into this based on your experience.
For both:
-What are some things you didn't expect but had to adjust to during your accelerated courtship/engagement process? Give the people tips
-What were some realities (joys and challenges) you faced at the beginnings of your marriage, given the accelerated nature of courtship/engagement. What made you succeed, what should we look out for, any advice/tips helps.
Hey @omasanonwaeze9150 could you please type your questions in Del’s post below. She has a comment below where she stated questions should be sent there.
I’m not able to copy your message to post. I fear she might miss this, you made some salient questions.
@faithidehen2144 Wow, thanks for bringing my attention to it. I just did. Even though I fear that this ship has sailed; she just recorded a part 4, and she touches on some of the questions asked. Thank you all the same
@@omasanonwaeze9150No worries
The Q & A is still coming.
Amen
😂😂thoroughly enjoyed both videos. It was very interesting to see the different perspectives - especially the weight of glory part 😂
Thank you for sharing this 😊
I was tumbling in the love. Please na. 😂😂😂
God bless you both. I am blessed, inspired and strengthened.
The stirring of the river... Ha! This was one of the 1st responses I got from a friend when I asked her abt marriage and how you know. I wasn't born again then and even though I knew that story and it made sense true understanding was still far from me. It is not coincidence that Sam mentions it. Thank you for sharing Sam and Del. Your testimony is speaking to me. ❤
Now that I’ve listened to Del’s part, I can imagine the anger 😭😂😂😂😂😂
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"I wanna do your wiiiiiiiiiii" parttt😂
Like I laughed 😂😂😂😂😂
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Wow! Amaaazing testimony of the power of the Lord creating a supernatural marriage !! 🎉🎉🎉 one take away I take from this is the amount of prayer and consecration both of these brothers and sisters undertook to get their God Ordained spouse.
The footsteps of a good man are ordered by the LORD ❤
- God's words echo through time
- Love how you were serious about seeking and hearing from God for your marriage
- "From that moment, I loved her" that was deep!
- The dream telling you to follow your heart is beautiful
- You're right about being more flexible on criteria, and knowing to discern times and seasons
The statement about knowing the time to get in the river is insightful. Timing is everything!! 33:24
This your Sam is HILARIOUS 😂 God has an amazing sense of humour. Above all else, no matter our journeys, He sees the bigger blueprint and works with it instead of all our misgivings. One thing I have learnt about God is He WAITS FOR US. And When we do SEE and HEAR Him He moves mightily ❤
All I see here is the different ways God works with both genders.
What a testimony, a sign that when God is in it. He will prepare both and comfirm it to both. God's ways are indeed mysterious 🙏
God will do it EVERY SINGLE TIME! I love this for you guys! ❤
It’s encouraging to hear from a man of God’s journey 🙏🏾
Thank you for this ❤❤
"Does she even know Theophilus Sunday?" 🤣🤣 I love how God doesn't give us who we we want but who we need, He really knows us better than we think we know ourselves, your love story is so beautiful and may God bless you both immensely for how you've vulnerably shared, I've learned so much! 🤍🤍🤍
Hmmmm, this is actually scary!
Marrying someone you have zero interest or attraction
Thank you for sharing your stories. The main thing I learn from this so far is the importance of being willing to be led by God's Spirit. God has given us free will and while it's not necessary a sin to wield it, when we train our will to be Lorded over by the Holy Spirit, we always get the best results and save time and needless pains. (But Bro Sam, took you time oh! 😂)
This is so beautiful, watching both stories!
I laughed out so loud when you said "I wanted her to be someone who was going to be someone who plays Theophilus Sunday from morning till night...where is she with Arome?" 😂😂😂
Thank you for this sir
So timely!
Thank you 💕 for posting this.....
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
I love this…
❤❤❤❤❤ I’m so blown away to type
Wow thank you both so much for sharing! And may God bless your marriage! 🫶🏽🎄
What a blessing these videos are. Thank you Sam and Del
I slept and woke and viola! Sam's part is here 💃🏽🤭
Thank you for the promptness 🧡
Gosh!!! God is so faithful and good ❤
It's how you both are so yielded for me. I learnt so much from watching this! God really has a sense of humour! It's truly a beautiful story! What an intentional Father we have. As Uncle Theo always dey disguise, sis Del too dey disguise!!!
God bless you both. Thank you so much
Yeah!!!!! His side🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love this video! The moment you mentioned Theophilus Sunday- I knew I was in the right place and subscribed
Kingdom ❤
Thank you for sharing with us
I am more enlightened. Thank you for sharing.
Wow!!!!
Thank you Jesus for Sam and Del...13.03.24 I'm inspired by this union❤️
Here's a link to Part 1
My side of the story
ua-cam.com/video/kuTEohzSQMw/v-deo.htmlsi=RakNj2-zZyx_6P_w
It's the "I felt she was a soldier” for me 😂
I love your story tbh. What is it about “The New Nigeria?” It is a movement or something? Kindly share?
I will patiently wait
Just watched part 1, and I commented that I wasn’t even looking for this type of videos on YT, her video popped up for the 1st time on my feed, and I’m so glad it did! I’m here to watch all the parts, and thank you again for sharing 🙏🏾
This is very powerful, my God!
Beautiful testimony. 🙏🏾
Soo blessed by these videos thank you for sharing ,so help me God
Lovely video❤
This is my confirmation. Thank you for sharing. I will wait!
God's timing is the best!
Really enjoyed listening to your story. I love it!
This was so beautiful 😭😭😭