Psychotherapist REACTS to XXXTentacion Revenge

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 578

  • @TherapistReactsOfficial
    @TherapistReactsOfficial  6 місяців тому +114

    XXXTentacion Reaction Playlist ua-cam.com/play/PLuDseweo69qckk6c98gJD37jorhoQLal4.html

    • @HDC_3874
      @HDC_3874 5 місяців тому +4

      You did know he was dead when you recorded this right? 🙏 Rip Jahseh Onfroy 1998-2018

    • @rosebridger2660
      @rosebridger2660 5 місяців тому +3

      I'm pretty sure the "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is like that thing "if we go down then we go down together"

    • @Jack_Savage4
      @Jack_Savage4 4 місяці тому +2

      2:57 is real confusing to me on why you’re confused, he legit says for him and who ever broke him-

    • @grxpe3627
      @grxpe3627 3 місяці тому +4

      incase you dont know the song joceyln flores by x is named after a girl he flew out for a buisness trip she and her freind were very excited but due to some stuff x had to fire them and fly them back out to a hotel so joceyln flores ended up hanging herself and the freind that was there sore the bathroom light was locked so she just left it but the next morning it started to smell so she got the hotel people to open and they found her body... this song revenge.joceyln flores,remedy for a broken heart,everybody dies in there nightmares, most of the 17 album was about her im pretty sure but revenge and joceyln flores are 100% about jocelyn and incase you didnt know XXXTentacion has been dead for 6 years he also has a son who was born a few months after x was shot

    • @ryangames20YT
      @ryangames20YT 15 днів тому

      xxx is dead

  • @BabyRogerCDR
    @BabyRogerCDR 9 місяців тому +3491

    When you said " To answer your question X " like he was still here with us I started crying It hurts so much man

    • @creeperyoda4163
      @creeperyoda4163 9 місяців тому +277

      people say he got famous cause of his death but he was a really talented kid ? was one of the best albums I've ever heard

    • @brianstablein3248
      @brianstablein3248 9 місяців тому +17

      Same

    • @tommasomansueto9346
      @tommasomansueto9346 9 місяців тому +15

      same fucking thing

    • @BabyRogerCDR
      @BabyRogerCDR 9 місяців тому

      I never got this, I was a fan since day one but ppl hate so much for no reason..@@creeperyoda4163

    • @KrupekXD
      @KrupekXD 9 місяців тому +8

      So sad 😢 🕊️

  • @deanheins9092
    @deanheins9092 6 місяців тому +927

    To really understand X's music, you have to experience something like how he has experienced. Whether it's a bad break-up, depression issues, or the loss of a loved one. Anything that has permanently scared you. Physically, like me, or mentally.
    To me, X helped me through a hard time, and I wish I could've said thank you.
    I'm not the therapist here, but to me music is the most powerful thing, and X's music just hits different during certain times in life.
    Goodbye X. Goodbye Juice. Goodbye Peep. Goodbye, Mac. Fly high guys, you changed lives 🕊
    Edit: Thank y’all for so many likes! It’s hard coping with these emotions and it’s a bittersweet feeling that so many people can relate.

    • @Brownchickenfr
      @Brownchickenfr 4 місяці тому +2

      Fr man

    • @Lil_Man344
      @Lil_Man344 3 місяці тому +3

      Yo you forgot pop smoke but yeah rest in peace X, juice, peep, Mac, and pop smoke

    • @tktv12
      @tktv12 3 місяці тому +1

      Your right I can understand it I also do have trama

    • @solarist648
      @solarist648 3 місяці тому +2

      No you dont, just need human emotions.

    • @Yuki.Airsoft
      @Yuki.Airsoft 2 місяці тому

      amen

  • @KHABlB
    @KHABlB 10 місяців тому +1036

    “Before you embark on your journey of revenge, dig two graves “

    • @BrokenNat
      @BrokenNat 9 місяців тому +88

      This isnt a song about revenge, despite the name being that. This song is about how he dug a grave for a relationship. He feels guilty, its literally his first words... Why would someone who feels guilty about doing something wrong want to take revenge? I feel wronged but i also did wrong, will i act on my revenge. He says all of this in the song. That is the whole moral of the story he is trying to tell.

    • @theminime3574
      @theminime3574 9 місяців тому +14

      Fire quote for a tattoo ngl

    • @e9xr93
      @e9xr93 8 місяців тому +8

      @@theminime3574 but too long tbh

    • @2kyoshi
      @2kyoshi 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@@BrokenNatthey said if your going to seek revenge start by digging 2 graves

    • @ucproductions9455
      @ucproductions9455 4 місяці тому +3

      @@BrokenNat You missed the point mate

  • @williusmac891
    @williusmac891 9 місяців тому +322

    The I've dug two graves is a reference to the quote "before you embark on the journey of revenge, dig two graves" basically meaning that trying to get revenge will be bad for you as well

    • @rwaddleofficiall8414
      @rwaddleofficiall8414 4 місяці тому +7

      I thought the quote was “He who seeks revenge digs two graves”

    • @rwaddleofficiall8414
      @rwaddleofficiall8414 4 місяці тому +5

      Damn. You right. I just searched it up

    • @WorLCommunity
      @WorLCommunity Місяць тому

      Knowing this hits even harder. Damn what a prophet

    • @Ritvik_Nair
      @Ritvik_Nair 19 днів тому

      stolen

    • @katsatena
      @katsatena 8 днів тому

      isn’t that about jocelyn flores who k1lled herself while at X’s house?

  • @WKeyCxctus
    @WKeyCxctus 3 місяці тому +73

    “Ive dug two graves for us my dear” basically saying he doesnt want to be seperated from this person even in death.

  • @Abe_spytime
    @Abe_spytime 9 місяців тому +834

    im not a Psychotherapist but like I feel there is a deeper meaning to this song then he explains here

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  9 місяців тому +302

      I imagine so. Sometimes I think it’s easy for us to try and over analyse which I don’t feel is fair having never met him etc based on some song lyrics

    • @Max-ez7jx
      @Max-ez7jx 9 місяців тому +41

      thought the same he didnt even understand the line ive dugged to graves for us my dear

    • @n.f.lcobra6878
      @n.f.lcobra6878 8 місяців тому +41

      As a musician there’s always a deeper meaning sometimes the artist don’t see it either

    • @zuly_yt1172
      @zuly_yt1172 8 місяців тому +5

      @@Max-ez7jx exactly 😂😂

    • @desmondkaczynski8190
      @desmondkaczynski8190 8 місяців тому +13

      It does have a meaning, it’s about his ex and him not being ok with letting her go but she is hurting him and he’s saying he’ll rot but she’ll come with him, also it’s about his uncle who killed himself while x was in the house and x found his body

  • @nickskateandlove
    @nickskateandlove 3 місяці тому +24

    He’ll rot in his grave because he’s waiting for her. He’s dug two graves after all. He could act on revenge and be with someone else. Some kill some steal and some break your heart. In his heart he’s so in love it feels guilty to want to move on, he doesn’t want to, he doesn’t want to hurt her or show her. He rather lay in his grave and rot, still he wants to act on his revenge out of anger. His pain is her freedom, she’s free while he’s in pain. This song calls to me and is jarringly overwhelming. One of my favourite melancholic melodies.

    • @kalexyx556
      @kalexyx556 Місяць тому +4

      this. i believe "is all of my pain your freedom?" is referring to the fact he is in pain when seperated from her, but the seperation is her freedom from him.

  • @Obanaiiguros1fan
    @Obanaiiguros1fan 27 днів тому +4

    Everytime I hear this song I can’t help but burst into tears. I’ve loved X for so long and his death shook me and everyone that knew him. Rip Jah💔

  • @The999thFilip
    @The999thFilip 9 місяців тому +235

    X was one of the most talented artists i've personally ever seen wich shows in his music
    some of fav songs by him are "Depression & Obssesion","Fuck Love" and especially "What Are You So Afraid Of" wich is like a comfort song to me i always come back to when i feel giving up on everything

    • @itsjello8815
      @itsjello8815 8 місяців тому +4

      Since you like a lot of the guitar songs of him i recommend “before I close my eyes” it’s one of my comfort songs

    • @iheartabis
      @iheartabis 5 місяців тому

      right bro out of the 15 best songs ever imo like five of them are x

  • @JJKJaffa
    @JJKJaffa 4 місяці тому +16

    When you said “well to answer your question X” i just started thinking that if X was still here he would’ve appreciated it. R.I.P X, we will all miss you forever. Fly high 🕊️❤

  • @repnotic4550
    @repnotic4550 9 місяців тому +79

    “Before You Embark On A Journey Of Revenge, Dig Two Graves” - Confucius

  • @umbertofabrizi5390
    @umbertofabrizi5390 9 місяців тому +25

    X was such a poet

  • @aidentrivett8302
    @aidentrivett8302 7 місяців тому +32

    If you didn't know the actual meaning behind the song is obviously to forgive yourself and move on for the mistakes you've made in the past and the song is explaining how tentaction is willing to accept his punishment in the grave if his ex can move on and enjoy her life without pain or having to worry what he has done in the past

  • @b1ten
    @b1ten 9 місяців тому +234

    This song was dedicated to Jocelyn Flores after she committed suicide. Jocelyn along another girl were involved in a photoshoot with x for his clothing brand, someone stole from x and he didnt know who to thrust, so he decided to fly them back. The girls were supposed to stay in their room until the were flying back. One of x's friends was accompanying Jocelyn in the room when she went to the bathroom, he ended up falling asleep, and the next day the light in bathroom were still on. They contacted the hotel staff to open up the bathroom door, to find her dead body. After Jocelyn's death, x was pretty devastated, it was second person that he found after suicide. First one was his uncle when x was younger, he came back from school to find his uncle hanging from the balcony.

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  9 місяців тому +70

      Thanks for sharing, the gives a lot more context

    • @ItsKennedy
      @ItsKennedy 9 місяців тому +43

      Revenge was dedicated to his Ex girlfriend Genevea not Jocelyn Flores, but The song Jocelyn FLores By X was.

    • @b1ten
      @b1ten 9 місяців тому +25

      @@ItsKennedy nope, both Revange and Jocelyn Flores were dedicated to her. As for songs dedicated to Geneva from album 17, that was the Ayala (outro).

    • @boredasf17
      @boredasf17 9 місяців тому +7

      bro its so sad that he had to see such horrifying and heartbreaking things while growing up

    • @damroyaltyxxii
      @damroyaltyxxii 8 місяців тому +12

      Jah previewed this song 3 days before Jocelyn passed away brotha, it was originally written for Geneva, the the whole situation with Jocelyn happened days after

  • @craiglovessonar6547
    @craiglovessonar6547 9 місяців тому +25

    6/18/2018 was a horrible day. Losing this young am at the age of 20 when he has his whole life and career ahead of him. He was already a legend. And he never got to meet his son. Losing him is one of musics biggest tragedies. I can only imagine the beautiful music we would have gotten. So happy his killers were caught and will rot in jail forever

    • @robloxgaming2720
      @robloxgaming2720 18 днів тому +1

      And he died 7 months before he got to meet his son 😢

  • @Duva_
    @Duva_ 10 місяців тому +301

    if i may recommend some more songs by him: depression & obsession, jocelyn flores, sad, the remedy for a broken heart, changes
    list might go on for a while so this is it for now, i appreciate you and what you are doing here

    • @wastyd
      @wastyd 9 місяців тому +16

      these are like the worst recommendations you could give sad is like one of his worst song imo get him on some older shit like 777, I spoke to the devil in Miami or in the end

    • @jhdyyn
      @jhdyyn 9 місяців тому

      @@wastydBro, it's not about his best songs, these are the easiest songs to give a reaction to as a therapist reaction channel

    • @coldsun29
      @coldsun29 9 місяців тому +10

      ​@hurricaneyouth4227 I love all those songs but nah bros list is better for the psyche. The songs you listed are lyrical but the only one I can see being good from yours is 777. The others aren't songs you can really analyze from psychiatrist perspective. Another recommendation I would suggest is slipknot because he's talking about how his uncles death fucked him up.

    • @wastyd
      @wastyd 9 місяців тому

      @@coldsun29 that means you don’t understand i spoke to the devil in miami properly look into it more

    • @Duva_
      @Duva_ 9 місяців тому +6

      @@coldsun29 that is exactly what i went for with this list, thank you.
      if it wasnt specifically to analyse the psyche this list would look a whole lot different, trust

  • @d1amond6513
    @d1amond6513 24 дні тому +2

    noo bcuz i almost started crying when he said “well, to answer your question X,” because it made it feel like hes still here..

  • @user-hq3sc3te4e
    @user-hq3sc3te4e 2 місяці тому +2

    X didn’t deserve to die bet his music would be so good for rn and his music still hits after 6 yrs

  • @wuastbrot8360
    @wuastbrot8360 4 місяці тому +6

    It's crazy how fast time goes by. I just realized it's been about half a decade since X's death and with Juice it's a bit less, but still it feels like it was not THAT long ago.
    🕊️ RIP

  • @Yo_isthatskippy
    @Yo_isthatskippy 9 місяців тому +27

    i take the end as a message to his fans struggling with pain, he knew he was helping people

  • @sxkyfx7697
    @sxkyfx7697 10 місяців тому +360

    get them juice wrld reactions in 🙏🏽❤

  • @notarealcolor5620
    @notarealcolor5620 6 місяців тому +3

    i just love his reaction
    "Yeah X forgiving yourself it's pretty helpful"
    I've dug two graves for us my dear
    "oh god"

  • @MrSpazzy.
    @MrSpazzy. 6 місяців тому +4

    There is so much more to X's music, you really have to understand what he has been through to listen to his songs to realize their all mainly about the same topic of his ex leaving him and telling him that he rot in hell with X saying he dug two graves for them both saying as she will rot with him.
    X has really gotten me through some tough times.
    Fly high X

  • @songgoodgoodgames
    @songgoodgoodgames 12 днів тому +1

    X still tries to help and speak to us through his music.

  • @chrisgrim1904
    @chrisgrim1904 9 місяців тому +11

    thank you so much Stu! hearing you validate his emotions in these songs is so relieving. especially when you react to Juice WRLD, my favorite artist. Would love to hear you react to Sometimes - Juice WRLD, and Feel Alone - Juice WRLD. i know you get many suggestions but these two are gold !!

  • @jacobgullicksen4626
    @jacobgullicksen4626 9 місяців тому +20

    It was THIS song that REALLY put me onto Jah. I thought he was just a delinquent before this song. He showed his talent for singing and brought up deep questions that are usually only asked by the sub-conscious and later recognized consciously in what he says. But he was insanely troubled. I dont think he would of lasted long anyways if it wasnt for his strong morale. Sadly he was murdered and a legend was stripped from us before it was born.

  • @da3va
    @da3va 8 місяців тому +4

    personally i think the ending asking about his pain being your freedom relates to how we as a community we consumed his content
    alot of us looked to him to help regulate the emotions we felt in our darkest times through his music
    this couldve been his realization of that

  • @JoeyVanwinkle-lk8fh
    @JoeyVanwinkle-lk8fh 8 місяців тому +9

    X is truly a genius. May he rest in peace🕊️🙏

  • @user-pw4ht5ik8p
    @user-pw4ht5ik8p 17 днів тому +1

    My pain is your freedom. it basically means his pain gets put into a song for us to enjoy and free our minds. Something for us to relate to ig.

  • @ShadyDogg
    @ShadyDogg 6 місяців тому +7

    The song is not about "I cant have you, so no one can" - its actually somewhat simple.
    Its just about being hurt & wronged and then carrying the anger, because you cant let go of the feeling. He knows he's suffering because of it but cant help that he cant let go of the pain & bitterness, therefore he'll rot.
    Hes even saying he doubts he'd act on any revengeful feelings, reinforcing the anger is totally pointless and serves only as poison to himself. The song is supposted to be cathartic for people going through the same, hence the ending.
    The digging 2 graves things is only there because he thinks that he wronged her as well - or maybe also because of his failure to let go.

    • @CelestialStar46
      @CelestialStar46 4 місяці тому

      tentaction is willing to accept his punishment in the grave if his ex can move on and enjoy her life without pain or having to worry what he has done in the past

  • @gurrag1234
    @gurrag1234 16 днів тому +1

    you seem like a genuine dude keep doing what ur doing!

  • @virgo212
    @virgo212 9 місяців тому +7

    Even if he's dead, he's still alive, this is Gekyume. Don't cry bacause he died, smile because he existed

  • @74moorey
    @74moorey 2 місяці тому +1

    17 has always had a special place in my heart because some of his experiences are not too different to some of mine and the lyric from revenge which I always think of is ‘broken hearts break bones’ bc that has been a recurring theme every time u have a breakup whether it’s from my time in drugs and I got worse or self harm or what but I always end up with something broken

  • @damroyaltyxxii
    @damroyaltyxxii 8 місяців тому +3

    thank you so much for keeping his name alive bro

  • @LilmeMusic
    @LilmeMusic 5 місяців тому +1

    You are overthinking the two graves thing. There is this famous quote- "before you embark on a journey on revenge, dig two graves". X just means he's gonna take revenge on whoever hurt him. "In my grave I'll rot" is just a testament of his dedication to take vengeance

  • @mr.cleans.father397
    @mr.cleans.father397 Місяць тому +1

    i think the point x was trying to convey here was that instead of revenge he has learned forgiveness he mentions he dug two graves which is his seeking revenge and then states he will rot in his grave which is a kind of change of heart he isnt talking about a past relationship but could be about his mother that couldnt do as much as she or he wanted to as a kid and instead of him hating his mother he accepted and knew the entire time that he should love her and respect the decision and way his life hw was brought up and let his past not change but make him who he was before he passed away

  • @shoshia.996
    @shoshia.996 9 місяців тому +16

    I have a different way of interpretate eh song, on a way more of like; him burying a part of him alongside of his partner, as if everything remains in the past kind of thing... But he's introspective tells that he's probably the only one that couldn't get out of the misery that break up left him. "You thouht that I would let it go and let you walk", talking about her being on his mind, he could not let it go, he trapped a memory in him... "In my grave I'll rot", he burried all of himself in his grave, symbolising that he couldn't move on from there, he got stuck in the sadness.

  • @kevinuntainted1547
    @kevinuntainted1547 8 місяців тому +2

    The song is about revenge and there's a japanese saying that goes like " before you go seeking revenge you should dig two graves" or atleast that's what I think

  • @Kezvin-fj9lq
    @Kezvin-fj9lq 18 днів тому +1

    Yooo great job TheRapist

  • @dbscollector5639
    @dbscollector5639 4 місяці тому +1

    When he Said to answer your question X fr it hurts so bad that his no longer with us but will Stay in our hearts

  • @GrizzlyBS
    @GrizzlyBS 10 місяців тому +15

    I cant wait anymore for those Juice Reactions. Im checking every single day if they are out.

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  10 місяців тому +6

      Oh okay, I’ll get one uploaded in the next few days! I’ve got a few reactions that I’ve filmed but I need time to edit the video screen record and my camera etc. I’ll prioritise the juice wrld ones !

    • @GrizzlyBS
      @GrizzlyBS 10 місяців тому +3

      @@TherapistReactsOfficial jes dont stress jourself, take your time to make the best video possible

  • @MommyAngel.
    @MommyAngel. 4 місяці тому +1

    The lyrics of “Revenge” touch upon themes of regret, heartbreak, and the desire for revenge. In the opening lines, X acknowledges his past mistakes and attempts to forgive himself. It’s a vulnerable admission that many of us can relate to-the struggle to come to terms with our own flaws.
    X sings, “I’ve dug two graves for us, my dear / Can’t pretend that I was perfect, leaving you in fear.” These lines convey a sense of guilt and an acknowledgement of the pain he may have caused someone he cared about. The repetition of this verse emphasizes the weight of his regrets.
    The chorus, “In my grave, I’ll rot,” serves as a metaphorical expression of the pain and suffering he carries within himself. It’s a haunting reminder that our actions have consequences and can leave lasting scars.
    “Revenge” is a song dedicated to X’s late friend, Jocelyn Flores, who tragically took her own life while visiting him. Through the song, X reflects on the profound impact her death had on him and explores his own feelings of guilt and grief. It’s a deeply personal and cathartic piece that allows him to process his emotions.
    The release of “Revenge” as the single to promote his debut album, 17, highlights its significance to X’s overall artistic vision and the importance he placed on honoring his friend’s memory.
    As a listener, I find solace in the vulnerability and honesty of this song. It serves as a reminder that we all have our own battles to fight and that music can be a cathartic outlet for processing our pain. “Revenge” will forever hold a special place in my heart as a testament to the transformative power of music.
    Rest in paradise, Jahseh Onfroy, known to the world as XXXTentacion. Your impact on music and the lives of many will be remembered. Your raw talent and emotional depth resonated with countless fans. Though you may have left us, your legacy lives on through your music and the profound influence you had on those who connected with your art. You will be dearly missed, but your voice will continue to echo through the ages. -With love, Angel.

  • @luau9
    @luau9 3 дні тому

    I feel like the term "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is him saying that he's planned death for him and his s/o in the relationship, but since something happened, he'll rot in grave alone.

  • @residentofabox9037
    @residentofabox9037 10 місяців тому +5

    Really enjoying your reactions. I’m looking forward to seeing more Juice Wrld and Xxxtentacion! It’d be really great to see you react to Yungeen ace he has a lot of content for you to break down, his song “Pain” would be a great one to start with. Excited to see more videos from you

  • @boredasf17
    @boredasf17 9 місяців тому +8

    The worst and most heartbreaking part about his death was that he suffered immensely from depression and wanted to take his own life but someone else took his life when he was on the road to recovery...

  • @TylerB1318
    @TylerB1318 10 місяців тому +87

    mother I sober by Kendrick Lamar is absolutely perfect for what you do. It is a very deep and personal song that talks through Kendrick’s trauma that he had to deal with growing up and how it effects him now. Really hope you can get to this song it is so important for people to hear especially with how healing the song truly is. Would love for you to check it out, appreciate the videos

  • @Coldzone
    @Coldzone 5 місяців тому +1

    I interpret the ”I’ve dug two graves for us my dear“, more as in that his issues pulled his significant other down with him, due to the follow up ”can’t pretend that I was perfect leaving you in fear“.

  • @Shadow-driftairsoft
    @Shadow-driftairsoft Місяць тому +1

    The slow version made me cry

  • @user-qk3bt4vu7z
    @user-qk3bt4vu7z 4 місяці тому +1

    nah man this song made me cry when he said i've dug two graves for us my dear' man that hurts me so much
    R.I.P. legend

  • @glavniyshaman752
    @glavniyshaman752 9 місяців тому +23

    rest in peace X i'm sure that if you keep this channel up you will have more subscribers really soon. goo luck man

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  9 місяців тому +3

      Thanks. To be honest I just enjoy doing it, and people seem to like it so I’m gonna keep doing it.

  • @epixccisbetter
    @epixccisbetter Місяць тому +2

    I think think that in this song X is trying to express how he wants to be together with a loved one forever but they together seem to have some difficulties.

  • @Zeebrum
    @Zeebrum 7 місяців тому +2

    “Is my pain your freedom” his meaning behind it is her making him suffer makes her happy

  • @TydeFN
    @TydeFN 2 місяці тому +2

    I Believe this song is a reference to his Jocelyn Flores who committed suicide. He speaks about broken hearts because of his her passing. He says is my pain your freedom because he is in pain on the earth while his she supposedly gave herself freedom from life. The line "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is saying he might take his own life in his grief. And finally he is talking about revenge because he is mad at her for taking her life.

  • @dohrirhri
    @dohrirhri 5 місяців тому +2

    Love how he vibes to it😂

  • @tezzah94
    @tezzah94 8 місяців тому +2

    I know nothing about X but my take from this song has always been that he was in a toxic, volatile relationship, maybe violent (i left you in fear, broken hearts break bones so break up before that happens) but he cant let it go, so he'll "rot" over it now its over. But the intro shows the hope that hes moving on and forgiving himself for his own toxic behaviour. I find it really nice actually, sometimes people just arent good for each other and it doesnt mean they are inherently bad or can't grow.

    • @MGZ.Twostep
      @MGZ.Twostep 7 місяців тому

      His friend took her life in a hotel bathroom. He fell asleep and she went into the bathroom, and the next day she was still in the washroom, they found her dead in the bathroom. Jocelyn flores and revenge are about that girl who committed suicide.

  • @SoulSentMe
    @SoulSentMe 10 місяців тому +12

    I think when he says is my pain your freedom he is talking directly to us …….asking if him sharing his pain allows us freedom from our own then almost as a response he says enjoy

  • @Kgames2783
    @Kgames2783 3 місяці тому +2

    When in the song he says “I’ve dig two graves for us my dear” he saying if I’m going to take my life I’ll also take yours

  • @anthonysalinas969
    @anthonysalinas969 4 місяці тому +1

    I think Jah is speaking to his fans and listeners when he says "is my pain your freedom", for me his music gave me conform that I wasn't alone, many of you may agree to this being true, especially with X's music. then he says enjoy LLJ🕊

  • @DaddyTyrone892
    @DaddyTyrone892 11 днів тому

    I sadly only discovered a love for x's music after his passing, when he died I was just too young to really understand the meaning and importance of this music.

  • @143ba
    @143ba 2 місяці тому +1

    from what i know X felt very alone and depressed for much of his childhood and would fight and get into trouble on purpose to get attention from his Mom, and in terms of trauma at an age no older than 15 he came home from school one day to see his uncle hanging by his neck… fucking brutal to say the least. i really wish he had a longer life to prove that he could become a positive person to spite the conditions from which he came from. Rip Jahseh, i still miss you dearly

  • @ninjameko5636
    @ninjameko5636 2 місяці тому +3

    Im not dead till im forgotten.
    ~X

    • @deanheins9092
      @deanheins9092 Місяць тому

      And that’s why real legends never die

  • @viloxetic
    @viloxetic 9 місяців тому +10

    “in my grave i’ll rot” means to sit and dwell on the past that mollified you and to grow onto it and learn, expressing and learning about life and how to avoid these things instead of being petty and seeking out revenge to harm the individual in mention to the most of his capabilities.

    • @viloxetic
      @viloxetic 9 місяців тому +3

      X, was quite the character and philosopher despite him not having experience in the job.

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  9 місяців тому +2

      Thanks, that makes sense.

  • @johnmoderie2000
    @johnmoderie2000 4 місяці тому +1

    No joke I cry sometimes when i think about X, I never knew him personaly but his music was always something that hekped me, Hurts to think about him

  • @omgwind5217
    @omgwind5217 8 місяців тому +2

    This makes me want to listen to X again

  • @RileyMacc
    @RileyMacc 9 місяців тому +1

    to myself, "ive dug two graves for us my dear" means he felt the hole he dug for himself directly effected the other person, jocelyn flores took her life around the time this music was made

  • @TXAng3l
    @TXAng3l 2 місяці тому +3

    you are so underrated you earned a new subscriber

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks so much for taking the time comment - made my day!

    • @TXAng3l
      @TXAng3l 2 місяці тому +1

      @@TherapistReactsOfficial thank you for replying to my comment that made my day

  • @JuliusStrong-vx2hj
    @JuliusStrong-vx2hj 6 місяців тому +1

    The way u said “ to answer your question X” I broke down because you said it like he was still with us and if he was but he’s not 😔

  • @costthebro1242
    @costthebro1242 10 місяців тому +5

    Face to face by Juice wrld is a song that, i personally believe explores some interesting and common struggles with sleep paralysis and it would be cool if I could hear your take on the song. Just found the channel and think the vids are awesome. Keep up the awesome content!

  • @all_praise_is_for_Allah
    @all_praise_is_for_Allah 9 місяців тому +3

    You should hear "Orlando" or "save me" by xxx tentacion those are a must to listen to since ur a therapist

  • @alxka.f40
    @alxka.f40 5 місяців тому +1

    It takes a lot to be able to understand these lyrics, either from being a fan of Jah, or going through something similar to him. Usually the people would listen to his music is people who can relate to his songs and the things he says.

  • @archvault
    @archvault 9 місяців тому +1

    I would imagine that "revenge" may not be for another person but towards himself as in the song lyrics he is constantly blaming himself for the "break up", he is willing to do things to himself saying things like "is my pain your freedom" as well as "enjoy". We can imagine that maybe he blames himself so much for it that he is willing to do things just for the other person to feel a sort of release from him.

  • @Names_Tragic
    @Names_Tragic 7 місяців тому +1

    When he says “in my grave I’ll rot” the line before he says “I don’t want to let it go”. So I think he is being aware of his two beings, his soul and his body. I think he is saying that he (his body) will rot away and he will stay (his soul) on earth. A lot of times it is said souls stay on earth due to a held on grudge. Maybe this is what he is referring to in his song ? Because this girl broke up with him and broke his heart but apparently she led this relationship on for a long time because he says “broken hearts break bones so break up fast”.

  • @ceaserdom
    @ceaserdom 2 місяці тому

    To answer your question, sir, "I've dug two graves for us my dear" means "We'll go together beyond death" or "we go down together." And "broken hearts break bones" is a metaphore which means "broken heart break you entirely" which means you're fallen after a heartbrake.

  • @Pacmanpro321
    @Pacmanpro321 23 дні тому +2

    rip XXXTENTACION fly high 🕊🕊😭😭🕊🕊

  • @seba9150
    @seba9150 8 місяців тому +2

    from my point of view hes is not singing to a broken relationship hes talking about the thought of having revenge against someone or something and about the mixed feelings hes going through while he contemplates hes decision making. again this is my point of view nice reaction !

  • @underratedszn6549
    @underratedszn6549 9 місяців тому +1

    The line where he said “I’ve dug two graves for us my dear” is believed to be a reference to the famous Chinese philosopher Confucius quote “before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves”

  • @NothinVR
    @NothinVR 9 місяців тому +2

    if only x was still here to see this vid, rest easy king.

  • @sheloveslost
    @sheloveslost 10 місяців тому +10

    xxtentation JOCLEYN FLORES OR REMDEY OF A BROKEN HEART !

  • @user-sm7dk2dh3t
    @user-sm7dk2dh3t 8 місяців тому +2

    My intake when listening to revenge iv dug two graves for the pain we go thru together ride or die feeling due to Aquarius's value very much friendships and relationships

    • @mamakass4132
      @mamakass4132 8 місяців тому

      ofc he’s an aquarius (as an aquarius i should’ve known ❤)

  • @dxrks-226
    @dxrks-226 3 місяці тому +1

    Revenge is just something else

  • @ksy1111
    @ksy1111 3 місяці тому +3

    X was a really interesting individual and currently still my biggest idol. I would recommend you watch the "look at me" documentary (about his life). It's here on youtube and offers great insights, especially on his toxic, abusive relationship

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  3 місяці тому +2

      Oh I’ll certainly check that out. Didn’t know that was a thing so thanks for sharing

  • @bigg-tasticbrothers1783
    @bigg-tasticbrothers1783 2 місяці тому +1

    I think you have a great point with if your neighbor is playing music too loud you ask them to turn it down 4:40 my friend was playing music at 7:00 pm and his neighbors called the cops on him so I agree act with respect before acting violent

  • @TydeFN
    @TydeFN 2 місяці тому +1

    The line "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is speaking about his friend who committed suicide

  • @xZyvon
    @xZyvon 4 місяці тому +1

    Long story short:
    X flew over 2 girls for a photo shoot, one of those 2 stole quite a bit of money that was laying around, neither girl confessed and so X cancelled the shoot, then one of the 2 killed themselves (Jocelyn Flores) this song (Revenge) and the song "Jocelyn Flores" (named after the girl) are both about her & his thoughts after those events

  • @snuggles3240
    @snuggles3240 Місяць тому

    this song sums up heartbreak. revenge is pretty much just that.
    "two graves for us my dear" is best explained by him and his ex having a breakup and the relationship is, to put it simple, dead.
    "can't pretend that i was perfect leaving you in fear" possibly implying he's done something that scared his ex.
    "in my grave i'll rot" cause he's obviously feeling like shit about the whole ordeal.
    "some kill some steal some break your heart" basically, there first to are explanations to the last one, a broken heart. cause it feels like there's a hole where your chest is. and your heart was stolen just for it to be shattered.
    "and you thought that i would let it go and let you walk" the last part is saying that he wont let said person just leave without paying for what they've done.
    "well, broken hearts break bones" implying that his heart was broken and that breaks bones. either implying a fight or a suicidal thought.
    "so break up fast and i don't wanna let it go so in my grave i'll rot" possibly implying that he got cheated on(?) and he doesn't want to let go what they had so it'll stick with him cause again. he feels like shit cause of it.
    "oh man what a world the things i hear" is implying way too much, a logical explanation would be that he heard of his ex cheating(?)
    "if i could act on my revenge, oh, would i?" asking himself if he wants to commit to something he really shouldnt. knowing its wrong.
    X was an awesome kid. amazing talent. and overall a cool person. never knew him but i knew he had a loving family, his music has more meaning than one might think.
    Rest in peace. Jahseh Dwayne Ricardo Onfroy. for you were a legend to us all. gone too soon.

    • @snuggles3240
      @snuggles3240 Місяць тому

      To really understand X's music, you have to experience something like how he has experienced. Whether it's a bad break-up, depression issues, or the loss of a loved one. Anything that has permanently scared you. Physically, like me, or mentally.
      To me, X helped me through a hard time, and I wish I could've said thank you.
      I'm not the therapist here, but to me music is the most powerful thing, and X's music just hits different during certain times in life.
      Goodbye X. Goodbye Juice. Goodbye Peep. Goodbye, Mac. Fly high guys, you changed lives
      (COPIED THIS FROM @deanheins9092 BECAUSE ITS A GOOD EXPLANATION)

    • @snuggles3240
      @snuggles3240 Місяць тому

      (and personally i fully agree with his comment aswell. x also helped me in tough times, still does. Rest in peace.)

    • @snuggles3240
      @snuggles3240 Місяць тому

      AND FYI THIS IS HEAVILLY OVERTHOUGHT.
      99% OF THIS IS OVERTHINKING AND SEEING WHAT FITS RIGHT!
      im sharing theories. but it makes sense to me. or instead of an ex that a friend has passed. possibly Jocelyn. though there's another song for that aswel hence why i overthought. either way. dont take this as a 100% factual thing. im just sharing what i THINK

  • @Koala1_1
    @Koala1_1 5 місяців тому +1

    I was just whistling this song and couldn’t remember the lyrics or who made it and then I get on UA-cam and this is the first thing I see I kept thinking the lyrics where I’ve tried so hard to hide my pain

  • @samhuisman7192
    @samhuisman7192 8 місяців тому +3

    I think what he meant with dug two graves like, they werent perfect for eachother so kind of did bring eachother down, but then again they love eachother alot so they are burried together

  • @yngflow2889
    @yngflow2889 4 місяці тому +1

    We miss you down here x nobody has or will ever do what you did the way you did it🖤

  • @rosebridger2660
    @rosebridger2660 5 місяців тому +3

    I can't even imagine a therapist reacting to my playlist 😂

  • @frenchangerfist824
    @frenchangerfist824 7 місяців тому +2

    Rip X miss him so much, hope he is flyning high in heaven

  • @dayelinwhittaker8642
    @dayelinwhittaker8642 9 місяців тому +4

    Juice and x helped me make it thru 🙏🏽

  • @smu2752
    @smu2752 2 місяці тому

    He says “Then, oh would I?” Not “Then would I?” The “oh” implies that he 100% would act on his revenge, and that it’s not even a question.

  • @mercus01
    @mercus01 6 місяців тому +1

    i was literally crying and then he said in his wonderful british accent "Break bones"

  • @Illusion_Buddha
    @Illusion_Buddha 7 місяців тому +1

    That "in the grave ill rott" knowing you cant and would never get or would actually want revenge but wanting it, so you'll think about it and rott with it 😢😢 then the point is to break up what he said, "if I could act on my revenge.. ohhh would iiii" like most people it's a thought not reality , he can't but he wishes he could, even tho he knows it's painful so hurting him or the other party isn't right.

  • @GNXRLY.
    @GNXRLY. 2 місяці тому +1

    I honestly think he’s saying he’s enacting revenge on himself for her, he dug 2 graves one for him and one for her but he will rot in his so that she can live freely, his pain is her freedom

  • @nedsonsinyangwe-yu2fw
    @nedsonsinyangwe-yu2fw 17 днів тому

    I think he was talking about his ex and him not being together. X loved her, he even said that in an interview after he got released from prison, he said that he was so attacked to this girl, X also said "why am I so in love, I don't know why" in The Remedy For a Broken Heart......... Why can only think of wat it mean, it'll 4eva be a mystery coz he's gone now, if he was alive he'd have answered answer our question but he isn't....... Rip X. ❤

  • @Go_Damarquos
    @Go_Damarquos 10 місяців тому +13

    Juice and him is so alike but from x u should listen to 777 he talks about a lot and juice wrld listen to dark place very sad

    • @exoacehj
      @exoacehj 9 місяців тому

      777 is some real fan shit

  • @JJWolford
    @JJWolford 26 днів тому +1

    When you dig to graves it means that even if you get rid of your enemy you better be ready to bury yourself as well, or known that you won't make it out of the situation unscathed. The guilt will eventually consume you, someone that knows who you killed will eventually come for you, or the law will eventually come for you. In the end you too will be dead in one way, or another.

  • @snix2212
    @snix2212 3 місяці тому +1

    thats my fav song : )