₱299 Engagement Ring | Yes or No?

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
  • Finally discussing the most requested topic from the SkyFam, Kryz and Slater talk about their feelings on the viral ₱299 Engagement Ring post, oversharing online and how to avoid projecting our own biases when forming opinions.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 214

  • @hhcbco
    @hhcbco 8 місяців тому +252

    People nowadays put situations in boxes. Pag ganito dapat ganyan. There's always nuances, contexts, backstory, perspectives kaya you can't say something is absolutely true or eto lang ang dapat. You can share your opinion pero don't say it as something absolute or yun lang ang dapat na sagot. Life is not a mathematical equation.

  • @crystalkring
    @crystalkring 8 місяців тому +84

    I totally agree with Kryz! To be honest, price of the ring doesn’t really matter, it’s just a symbol of the engagement and relationship. My husband proposed to me on the plane when we were in Phils going to Australia. He handed me a ring box secretly under the blanket lol. He told me that he bought it from Amazon. He was a nurse in Los Angeles and because the cost of living was high and had a lot of travel expenses it was the only one he can afford, it was $200+ US dollar from Amazon it was the perfect ring cut that I wanted white gold with simple stones. Definitely it wasn’t expensive but it was the thought that counts. Now we are still married for almost 10 years with 2 young kids ❤

    • @miyakakizakiseiro1723
      @miyakakizakiseiro1723 8 місяців тому +5

      that’s thousands tho

    • @bonibeldaan2259
      @bonibeldaan2259 8 місяців тому +2

      @@miyakakizakiseiro1723 exactly. It is different when you are in the PH fighting poverty and doing your best everyday. Then, on the other hand, your supposed to be partner in life can't prep a decent ring as a symbol of his love and the engagement. 299 pesos vs $200 while laying on a plane is totally different. 😄 There are decent 3k-5k pesos ring which makes a lot more sense. Just saying.

    • @abegeilradima1279
      @abegeilradima1279 7 місяців тому

      0

  • @胡金獅-h6o
    @胡金獅-h6o 8 місяців тому +65

    This world become so “MATERIALISTIC”.
    If the guy is helping his family it’s understandable.
    I agree with Kryz.✌️❤️

    • @jerometumaliuan6843
      @jerometumaliuan6843 8 місяців тому +3

      pero gawa gawa lang yung respond kasi kasal na sila last year hahaha

  • @xplore8163
    @xplore8163 8 місяців тому +44

    You're so level headed and such a good example to all the viewers out there. You do not judge nor speak words irresponsibly. You express your opinions with caution and are mindful of others and of their feelings because you do not know why would someone act the way they do. More power to you both!!!

  • @janebernabe2373
    @janebernabe2373 8 місяців тому +33

    Same kryz 😊
    My boyfriend of 8 years, asked me beforehand kung ano gusto ko na ring, he made me choose Kasi Wala syang sense of surprise, he's very dependent to me, sa mga decisions nya. It wasn't big of a deal but I will get hurt parin if he would give me a 299 ring 😅.
    He's an engineer also and we're both breadwinners. Though nasabi ko before na it's okay if walang ring or mumurahin na ring, but to be honest with myself, masasaktan ako sa 299 😅. And alam nya Yun. Binili nya di Naman worth thousands. I appreciate it so much, mahirap lang Sabihin na "mag effort ka sa ganito ganyan".

  • @luv07478
    @luv07478 8 місяців тому +29

    same thoughts with sir slater. 8yrs. na sila pero parang di pa rin nila kilala ang each other...

  • @Taraview.channel
    @Taraview.channel 8 місяців тому +18

    This is the reason why I love this couple. they are open minded and not judgemental. They are being mindful of what they might gonna say. Coz honestly speaking in this generation a lot can be show off anytime and anywhere in the world b'coz of socmed. That's why criticism are also vulgar and uncontrolled.

  • @kynbpp2526
    @kynbpp2526 8 місяців тому +12

    Honestly, pagbinigyan ako ng worth 299 na ring as an engagement ring feeling ko magtatampo ako ng very light. Totoo na in a span or years being together, you should know each other na tlga. Allergy ako sa mumurahin na alahas, nangangati at mag rarashes ako ng malala. Kumabaga madedetect ng body ko un. 😅😅 di kami mayaman na tao. Pero Noong nagpropose sakin ang asawa ko, he made an effort and save some of his salary to buy me a decent ring that I can wear for special occasions na din or everytime I want. After asking my hand to marry him, nagconfess sya na nagpatulong sya sa friend nya to buy ring sa binondo. 😅😊 di sya super mahal pero pawnable at he make sure na di ako mag allergy everytime I wear it. Super thoughtful ❤😊 So I would say that it really depends on the situation. ❤❤❤

  • @lugsentertainment5090
    @lugsentertainment5090 8 місяців тому +5

    I propose to my wife with the ring in the same kind of amount. And she's Ok with it, after I admitted the real price of the ring. Because for her the value of the ring is not a price but my true love.
    For me I'm so grateful with my partner cuz we have the same kind of perspective and mindset on how we valued things. Receiving a gift from someone you love or someone you idolize is a precious one and some are priceless. No matter how cheap or expensive it is, what matters most is the significant value of it.
    If the president of the USA gives me a 1 dollar price of towel, that price dont really matter, what matters most, is, it came from a very important person in the world. It came from the president and I'm so very much overwhelmed, honored and very much happy to receive that gift. Because for me it's a rare gift which came from a very important person.

  • @ft_ph
    @ft_ph 8 місяців тому +4

    I love Kryz. I don’t know her but I feeeeel her. Oo 299, mura, mapapaisip ka na mura pero honestly, mas important na alam mo mahal ka. ❤

  • @sept.m9458
    @sept.m9458 8 місяців тому +33

    In my own opinion, as a guy kng nkikita mo sa sarili na mag aasawa at bumuo ng family, as u start earning save a small portion kahit na 1% sa income mo for that specific significant moment of ur life.. who ever will be that girl/woman.. she maybe ur 1st, 2nd, or 3rd relationships.. it only shows how u value ur future partner.. cuz marrying someone in this generation kailangan talaga may Plano in terms of financial aspect.. it doesn't mean na bongga as long as according to ur capacity...

    • @aGCNsh
      @aGCNsh 8 місяців тому +11

      true! or better yet of you cant afford a decent engagement ring, then dont even plan on getting married now. MAG-IPON muna pra kaya mong magprovide for your future family.

    • @kei4261
      @kei4261 8 місяців тому +8

      I agree. If hindi mo pa kaya financially, wag nalang muna mag pakasal. Marami ka na ngang responsibilities sa fam mo, tapos magdadagdag ka pa. For me, kelangan muna maging FINANCIALLY STABLE bago magpakasal or bumuo ng family kasi yan ung kadalasan ang nagiging away/problema ng mag asawa now a days. It’s not about the price of the ring though, pero i think it reflects din sa financial capacity mo to build a family. If you can’t buy a decent ring, pano pa kaya ung future needs ng bubuoin mong family?

    • @hacyyy
      @hacyyy 8 місяців тому

      Fr👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @undefeatable7028
    @undefeatable7028 8 місяців тому +2

    I think they need to talk na masinsinan talaga they know each other more than anyone else. Lahat naman nadadaan sa mabuting usapan☺️

  • @mariloupadrejuan4893
    @mariloupadrejuan4893 8 місяців тому +10

    dapat i discuss yun between the couple hndi n ikinalat sa kung saan saan

  • @Furaway
    @Furaway 8 місяців тому +7

    Pinagiipunan at ginagastusan talaga yan. Because your getting somethin special in return. A good wife and great companion for a lifetime❤️
    For me lang dapat indi tinitipid✔️

  • @damakoallosada3180
    @damakoallosada3180 8 місяців тому +17

    In my pov, no one was wrong in that scenario. We have different reactions and opinions about that 299 engagement ring but the culture, standards, norms, etc, affects our opinion, thinking and our feeling. The fact na Minsan lang naman mangyari sa Buhay ng Isang babae Yung makatanggap nang singsing sa taong mahal nya mapapaisip talaga sya kung bakit ganun lang.and that's ok walang mali don at magiging Mali lang sya sa pananaw Ng iBang tao na iban rin Yung experience, standard, at kultura na kinalakihan.
    If that ring para sa iba nagsisimbolo Ng status mo, Ng kakayahan mo bumuo Ng pamilya at pagmamahal mo sa isang tao. Ang iban naman, it really doesn't matter pagmahal mo sang Isang tao may singsing man o wala.uulitin ko biktima lang Tayo Ng iba't iBang kultura at kinalakihan sana mangibabaw Ang pagmamahalanbsa huli....

  • @paolovemiczchannel4178
    @paolovemiczchannel4178 8 місяців тому +2

    A ring is ring for others but for me i was married at young age 18, and wala ako engagement ring kc wala kmi work super bta pa nmen non nagpksal kmi,but the point is now that we are in the present and still in happy and going strong marriage life for 19 yrs❤..siguro mapapisip ako now na ok lng khit wala tlga khit my mga work na kmi and in living here in europe..siguro depende n lng tlga sa tao... kmi mrmi ng expensive gifts s isat isa pro un ring not a big deal tlga never ako nbigyan ahaha but as i say not so improtant for me ,depende nga tlga

  • @bikpineda9127
    @bikpineda9127 8 місяців тому +2

    quick summary for those lazy to watch
    The podcast is about a couple who got engaged, and the woman posted a picture of her ring on Facebook, which cost 299 pesos. The podcast hosts discussed whether or not it was appropriate for the woman to post the picture online, and whether or not the cost of the ring is important.
    The podcast hosts agreed that it is not appropriate to judge people based on their social media posts, and that there is always more to the story than what we see online. They also discussed the importance of communication in relationships, and how couples should talk to each other about their feelings and expectations.
    Overall, the podcast is about the importance of understanding and respecting each other in relationships. It is also a reminder that we should not judge people based on their social media posts.

  • @ladyjohaineed.banocag8313
    @ladyjohaineed.banocag8313 7 місяців тому

    I really love this episode. It's not just about the engagement ring issue but also about looking at many things in life in different angles to understand them more.

  • @mochimazing8636
    @mochimazing8636 8 місяців тому +3

    value is subjective, if you love the person the engagement ring that worth 299, is still acceptable cause it's the thought that count and the sincerity on how the person you love can give that to you.

    • @michaelt334
      @michaelt334 8 місяців тому

      I’m 100 % with that message.

  • @serena1725
    @serena1725 8 місяців тому +4

    Don’t give me 299 please. I prefer you be a good provider financially and a good family support emotionally. Yes, if you can afford burger then please don’t give me a 299 ring. It’s not even about the effort and the feelings you put in there anymore. Buying a 299 ring is not an effort at ALL and I don’t think he put feelings in there but just bought the ring for the sake of having a ring to propose. So you went ahead online to order it, took your time to choose which one, oh well , anyone can do that effortless in the comfort of their chair. I would appreciate maybe on your proposal give me a pdf of your plan for the future 😉 I don’t even care if we don’t have a church wedding because for me that’s just a waste of money. Chapel wedding is fine for me. Just close family and friends. So please por favor don’t give me a 299 ring. We’ve been together for 8 years I hope so far after those years you know me and you take pride of having me in your life. Know the meaning behind why you’re giving me a ring and from there think if am I really worth 299. I’m not even asking for an expensive ring. If you can’t afford then don’t give me any, I don’t care. Don’t undervalue me.

  • @Bianx-be4qy
    @Bianx-be4qy 8 місяців тому +7

    Thats what I said when my colleagues asked me about it, I know my worth, I won't let a ring determine my value

  • @PaulineDizon-m7s
    @PaulineDizon-m7s 8 місяців тому +2

    There is really a problem sa relasyon ng magjowa na yan. For a start, if the girl felt about the price of the ring, may something wrong given an 8 years na sila.

  • @lynnice9379
    @lynnice9379 8 місяців тому +1

    My husband gave diamond rings as engagement rings for his ex-fiances. They never got married. He gave me a ring with my birthstone as engagement ring. Their's is more expensive but mine is more sentimental

  • @SharonPacheco
    @SharonPacheco 7 місяців тому

    I just watched your vid today and can i just say, 17yrs ago my bf then gave me an engagement ring worth like 250php which is bought from unisilver, i still have it, i did not mind if its just that cheap, i used it. What matters is that our love for each other doesnt tarnish. Now we have 2 kids and he later on upgraded and gave me a white gold ring with tiny diamond in it to make up for the silver ring then, i always tease him of giving me a silver before and he always laughs😂 We are happily married for 17 yrs and in a relationship for almost 20yrs😊

  • @JaniceSenorinDelacruz
    @JaniceSenorinDelacruz 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this issue. Btw kasal na sila last year pa pala late lang lumabas ang post.
    In my opinion this is for more of a communication issue than money.

  • @pintados3041
    @pintados3041 8 місяців тому

    Love don't cost a thing. Mas masaya na makasama mo yung tao kesa sa materyal na bagay. Yung mga tunay na nagmamahal talaga at hindi yung obligado at masyadong standardized ang relasyon sa isang tao. May mga babae kasi na ang ganda lang ng proposal, ang luxury ng proposal at gara ng takbo ng relasyon nila ang importante sa kanila. And women expected a lot. Dahil hindi pa sila tunay na nagmamahal. But once nakita nila ang lalaking yaon, nothing matters. Nothing is valuable as him. Nor her.

  • @MarkNamuag
    @MarkNamuag 8 місяців тому +1

    alam niyo big deal sa iba kung gano kaahal o kung saan galing ang sing sing now a days as long as he loves you and he is honest with you faithful to you that ring symbolize commitment and respect di nasusukat kung gano kamahal ang isang bagay kasi kung sususkatin mo sa materail ang isang bagay tanga ka! meaning di mo din kaya ivalue yung taong nag bigay sayo ng mahabang pag iintindi at pag unawa s ugali na pinapakita mo. Remember ang pag mamahal ay di kahit kailan nasusukat ng isang materail bagkos nakikita eto kung gano mo minahal ang isang tao simpleman, pangit man eto sa paningin ng ibang tao pero minahal mo yun eh siya yun, siya yung taong pinangakuan mo.

  • @krenzrodriguez3858
    @krenzrodriguez3858 8 місяців тому +1

    Sakin, wag nyu ituloy ang proposal at Kasal kase di nyu pa kilala ang isat Isa ng totoo.
    Dapat di guy inisip nya ang damdamin ni girl. At Alam nya na masasaktan ung pagbibigyn nya. It means di nya kilala ung girl o di sya tlga nag eeffort to understand the feeling ni girl. Kase lifetime nya makakasama yan. It means s simpleng bagay na to, di sya aware sa personality ng balak nya pakasalan
    Same Kay girl. Wag na wag nyu babaliwalain ang gut feeling nyu. Sabihin man ng iba na material lang yan... It is not the material thing. It means di kayu magkakasundo dahil di kayu tugma sa isat Isa...
    Try to date more pa. Try to know more each other. Ipon pa. Check kung totoong compatible ba kayu at parehas kayu ng pinapangarap na future. Laser if not. Hiwalay nlbg. Sayang lang pera , energy at damdamin..

  • @cherryred5106
    @cherryred5106 8 місяців тому +6

    8 years na silang mag-jowa tapos ‘di pa rin sila “honest” sa isa’t-isa. My gosh! I hate kuya for the 299 peso ring kasi like duh? Pang-fast food chain levels lang yan, pero kainis rin si girl dahil ‘di niya talaga ma-confront si kuya about diyan sa issue na yan? Paano pa pag bigger issues? Socmed to the rescue? Imbes na kayo parehas mag-solve together, dinadamay pa buong mundo.

  • @jmar6015
    @jmar6015 6 місяців тому

    I went to imono recently. And I asked magkano yung nakikita kong engagement ring nila. It was less than 1k mga 500 ata. The ring looks really nice. But knowing imono kahit mura lang siya the materials on the ring they sell is so nice quality na surgical steel ring. Kahit maghugas ka ng pinggan, or maligo ka, basta may sabon na involved, the ring from imono will not have any negative effects on your finger nor will it tarnish. I bought rings from them multiple times and they were all good. I’m a ring person and yung iba nawawala haha. But the last one I bought lasted me atleast 5 or 6 years halos no removing and I wash hands with soap no issues. I don’t remember cleaning it but it’s still good as new until now.

  • @lliennejas2155
    @lliennejas2155 6 місяців тому

    I think if he told me first that the ring wasn't so expensive and gave me the explanation that I deserved so I wouldn't overthink, then we won't have any isssues. Instead of me finding out and over thinking if I deserved this type of treatment, especially if there's a plausible reason behind it. Then I wouldn't mind. Again, there's so much reason as to why we do things that we do, and it can be hard to understand, but if you truly love the person, you would, try to understand. Because love knows how to compromise , but only when communicated properly.

  • @jeckquiatchon8729
    @jeckquiatchon8729 8 місяців тому

    I agree with you guys. Tinanong din to sa akin ng pinsan ko,and we have deff takes on it. And main concern ko na lng now after all of this is,i hope they are still together. I hope na hnd nalamatan yung relationship nila after ng incident na to. Sana naging lesson na lng to fer them.

  • @EuphoriaXdemisE
    @EuphoriaXdemisE 8 місяців тому

    agree to kryz 110%!!! stop daw sa bare minimum. dude mas okay maging praktikal kesa maging materialistic! i would be happy kahit pritos ring or sinulid nga lang yung gamitin as proposal ring. mas importante na mahal mo at handa kang pakasalan or ikaw yung naisip na pakasalan ikaw yung naisipan kasama bumuo ng pamilya. kesa ibili ng mamahalin na engagement ring mas better na ilaan na lang for future plans! sa hirap ng buhay ngayon mas pipiliin ko yung magiging kaginhawaan ng future family ko kesa sa mga personal na gusto kong ako lang masisiyahan.

  • @jamirkuhn5206
    @jamirkuhn5206 7 місяців тому

    The issue for the guy he doesn't prioritize her GF because he still supporting his family, what more if they are married, what will be their marriage life

  • @izzyoboionidz6875
    @izzyoboionidz6875 8 місяців тому

    Nabasa ko yung post ng guy and he said that meron naman siya money allocated for engagement ring na 5 figures from what i’ve remember. And i agree with Kryz na it depends on the status in life ng tao na dapat kung alam naman na di well off yung guy and bread winner pa, dapat intindihin nung girl yun.

  • @GennieCo
    @GennieCo 7 місяців тому

    My husband gave me a silver engagement nabili pa nya sa. uni silver na pinagiponan pa nya even our wedding ring also silver made and 5k budget namin wedding at take note pinag iiponan nya Rin Yun pero happy ako kasi alam ko pinag iiponan at super effort Ang Asawa ko pero in 17 years of marriage now may husband giving me happy family , loving me so deeply and our children good life we have own house , car, business and sapat na money to provide our children education kaya di need isukat or I judge Ang Isang relationship sa 299 na engagement ring importante yung relationship nyo to be strong and your family bubuoin nyo to be come happy , lots of loves and kuntento ka sa pamilyang binuo nyo dalawa 😊❤

  • @dj8177
    @dj8177 8 місяців тому +2

    Be grateful na lng pg mi binigay na engagement ring...ung iba nga wala 😂

  • @Kimmystory_0927
    @Kimmystory_0927 8 місяців тому

    I so love this topic and open my mind na I should not react right away

  • @margauxchu2194
    @margauxchu2194 8 місяців тому +1

    well 299 engagement ring is okay for me personally if he's a minimum income wager but if hes earning 7 digits a year, that would be offensive

  • @jerwincanlas8086
    @jerwincanlas8086 8 місяців тому

    Incomplete kasi yung post, Sana sinama yung 8 years nila. ❤

  • @therealandes
    @therealandes 8 місяців тому

    It's true, it really depends on how you would like it to be perceived. The price of the engagement ring isn't important to me.
    First, I won't sell or pawn it because it's sentimental regardless of value. Second, I don't show off things, especially on social media. Lastly, I'd rather invest the money in our future for long-term benefits specially we're not well off.

  • @GunneJC0614
    @GunneJC0614 8 місяців тому

    For me a Ring is a Ring. Weigh it in any way you want. If it's the monetary value or the sentimental value of the ring.

  • @cherrymaedc19
    @cherrymaedc19 8 місяців тому

    It's really depends on situation. Kung couple lang kayo, wala pang anak or ibang binubuhay. Hindi okay yung 299 ring.
    Pero kung may binubuhay, may anak na or bread winner at di talaga afford yung mamahalim, it's okay.

  • @babsirants
    @babsirants 7 місяців тому

    Ofcourse different people have different budget.
    But at the same time, the ring reveals what is yet to come. Is he ready for a marriage, family, children? Being in a marriage includes so many responsibilities and if people are not ready it will only turn into a disaster.
    Take care everyone of your loved ones ❤

  • @amilissaaraneta215
    @amilissaaraneta215 8 місяців тому

    For me, dapat talaga may communication and kung gaano mo kakilala ang partner mo, kase kung alam mo gf mo maarte, hard working and gumagastos ng skincare na kamahal etc, or say si guy mahilig bumili ng pc games/parts na pgkamahal mahal, so alam mo talaga na di papayag gf mo sa 299 na engagement ring, pero kung sabihin ni guy na "299 lng ang ring kase ganito ganito nagiipon pa ako pero gusto na kita pakasalan" etc anong reasons... mas maintindihan ni girl and hindi siya maconfuse sa feelings nya kahit pa na alam ni guy na sa si gf di papayag sa 299 na ring at least nag communicate sila about it, baka masolve pa and mas maintindihan nila ang isat isa kung saan sila nanggagaling. Yun langs. Cheers

  • @dianelepasana6037
    @dianelepasana6037 8 місяців тому

    Nice Kryz! Correct mindset!! 😍

  • @mimisy9300
    @mimisy9300 8 місяців тому +5

    for me, yun 299 na ring speaks more of the person na nagbigay than the one receiving it. either kuripot or nagtitipid sya or walang wala talaga sa buhay😅 kasi kung kaya mo naman bakit 299 lang? basta kung ako magppropose, dahil minsan lang ako magpropose at based sa income and savings ko, siguro mga 100k-300k hehehe pero kung ako naman tatanggap, bilang mahal ko naman tatanggapin ko kahit 299, ang cheap mo ha pero sige dahil love kita its a yes!

  • @dj8177
    @dj8177 8 місяців тому

    Love dis couple.....love you guys..happy listening n watching here in Spain ❤❤❤.....

  • @camillefajardo4281
    @camillefajardo4281 8 місяців тому +1

    For me
    If I know the guy's situtation like sya ung breadwinner sakto lng ung kinikita nya then I would understand kung bkit 299 lng ung afford mong ring and I still accept it. But if I know you are capable of buying you have a good life then I will question my worth to him.

  • @lailanimamaril7684
    @lailanimamaril7684 8 місяців тому

    Like I would always say, it's the person you are going to marry and not the ring. Your value does not depend on a ring.

  • @blessedgracepillas3036
    @blessedgracepillas3036 8 місяців тому

    This is why I love the skyfam. ♥️

  • @yoururbanchic
    @yoururbanchic 7 місяців тому

    With my mindset before - no it’s not ok. But after 6 years of marriage and with the mindset of FIRE - yes I would’ve been okay with a 299 ring

  • @hannaliza2221
    @hannaliza2221 8 місяців тому

    Kami nga wala kaming engagement ring 😂 but we’re married na for 31 years na ♥️🙏

  • @bhengrevilla1627
    @bhengrevilla1627 8 місяців тому

    May point ka Kryz, hindi pwede ilagay ang worth sa ring lang. Parang sinasabi lang na mas mahalaga ang material thing kesa sa bubuuing nilang familia..

  • @lanyferpelingon2683
    @lanyferpelingon2683 7 місяців тому

    I agree that the price of the ring shouldn't matter. The woman should know if she should YES or No sa proposal based on her experience for 8 years with the guy. The value of the ring is not her value to the guy, and she should be the number 1 person to know that for 8 years. If she thinks that she is not valued, then she should have walked away from that relationship. What makes her stay for 8 years in the first place.

  • @Yami-l5j
    @Yami-l5j 8 місяців тому

    May learning sa podcast na ito and deep.

  • @Cappuccinocream
    @Cappuccinocream 8 місяців тому

    My answer was since I was asked about my take to this issue before.. "It's ok so long as there is a house waiting for me after the wedding." 😂😂😂😂 I even joked na ok lang basta may 5M na bahay.. In short, i should see that my guy really has a plan for a great future for us and these plans are transparent cause apparently if I get an engagement proposal tapos nakita kong hindi ka naman ready, 299 man yan or more expensive, I will refuse you if I feel like you are not ready or I am not ready too.😊😊😊😊

  • @thegrigas6708
    @thegrigas6708 8 місяців тому

    I agree with you Kryz!

  • @ireenblyther2379
    @ireenblyther2379 8 місяців тому

    Opinion ko lang to ha, kung ako hindi ako mag matter sa 299 ring,. Ang importanti nagmahalan clang dalawa. Or 299 for engagement and sa huwes nalang pagpakasal para ang sa mamahalin na ring at panghanda sa kasal e save nalang para sa future nila. At wala pang utang pagkatapus ng kasal

  • @yes-hm2ym
    @yes-hm2ym 8 місяців тому

    the thought is the boy have a plan to marry a girl..kaysa mayaman or have all the resources ang boy but walang plano na pakasalan ka..for example some celebtrities they have money to buy an engagement ring but don't have plan to marry a girl..

  • @marjorycosmod5950
    @marjorycosmod5950 8 місяців тому

    Hahaha same here Kryz but I lost it just hours after my husband proposed and nahanap din naman within that minute I found out i lost it. 😂😂😂

  • @dawnjuliennesison6692
    @dawnjuliennesison6692 7 місяців тому

    Me 7yrs he proposed with the ring pandora ring im shocked wow pandora sosyal na siya for me and then after a weeks nakita ko may kalawang na and nalaman ko sa messenger niya online lang niya nabili natuwa pa ako kc nabudol siya hindi totoo yung pandora ring nabili niya so its ok for me and sinabihan ko siya sayang yung pera at mahal pa niya nabili like 800 ata yun and then sabi ko ok lang palitan nlang naten na totoong silver pero mas mura so nabili nmin yung engagement ring ko sa unisilver lang worth less than 400 i think .. im not a person judge my partner and sometimes yung mga lalaki wala sila idea how to buy ring or choose kc first time lang nila gagawin at nakakaba so we dont know all the men’s how to buy rings and don’t post it because social media today is toxic …

  • @rabbitannikimoy3210
    @rabbitannikimoy3210 8 місяців тому

    I like your comment about this 299 unlike sa ibang mga influencer na maka confirm sa kaning comment na parang feeling tama talaga. Rational kaau sila hindi hahaha

  • @charsysupermom1355
    @charsysupermom1355 8 місяців тому

    people nowadays, the sad thing, kahit ako guilty din paminsan.lagi natin iniisip ang opinion ng iba.. parang gusto mo lagi ng validation sa ibang tao at binabase nlng doon. kung iisipin hindi nila alam ang whole story, one sided lng.

  • @FlyingEagle1712-xv6es
    @FlyingEagle1712-xv6es 8 місяців тому

    For me kung nasa sitwasiyon na yun lang ang nakayanan i would really appreciate it kahit nga wala na lang para makatipid at maidagdag na lang sa pangkasal. Pero kung alam mong madatung yung bf mo tapos 299 lang yung binigay sayong singsing parang feeling ko tinipid ako e afford naman niya 😂 it depends sa situation talaga walang tama at maling sagot.

  • @macandcheese82
    @macandcheese82 7 місяців тому

    Sa totoo lang..kaya lang naman ang daming nagiinarte ngayon about engagement rings is because they want something to flex about on socmed

  • @jake880
    @jake880 8 місяців тому

    Question lang. Okay lang ba mag propose na hinde muna ipaalam sa mga circle friends ng gf ko at family na magpropose na ako?

  • @shinecruz100
    @shinecruz100 8 місяців тому

    For me, I really don't care. If my man afford to buy why not but if not its ok. What matters to me is yung him being responsible as a partner and a father to our future kids, hello? lifetime commitment yun wala ng mas hihingit dun yung maging responsible siya for the rest of your lives.

  • @oska4206
    @oska4206 8 місяців тому

    Louder ms.kryz..soo what...i dont care..its just a ring😊😊😊

  • @mykmendoza7335
    @mykmendoza7335 7 місяців тому

    The ring from your Grandma is worth than any ring in the world, imo.

  • @justinlozano4783
    @justinlozano4783 8 місяців тому

    Nowadays, it seems like there is a lot of TRUTH on every scenario/situation. How did it came to this? Because we became so TOLERANT and that makes everything TRUE.
    Which is bad because by not being "Judgy" or by being tolerant we cannot filter anymore which is TRUE and when does it end? This being tolerant? This being not judgy?
    I agree on kriz and my take on the 299 engagement ring is that the woman should be grateful that the man is deciding to settle to her. This truth is from the Bible that a woman should be under the domain of a man. E kung sa engangement ring palang ganyan na what more pag nag sama na sila. This is how i filter the truth to avoid alot of realities and by not being tolerant and PICKING THE SIDE THAT REALLY SHOULD PREVAIL.

  • @deaplazadams
    @deaplazadams 7 місяців тому

    the woman's emotion is valid but not the ranting on facebook. You should never humiliate your partner. communication is free y not use it.

  • @mindanaofatimakristel7949
    @mindanaofatimakristel7949 8 місяців тому

    Inaabangan ko 'to.

  • @SophiaBalmas
    @SophiaBalmas 8 місяців тому

    I'm waiting for this episode

  • @dearhon04
    @dearhon04 7 місяців тому

    sa pinas culture hindi naman talaga uso ang proposal basta nagdecide magpakasal ang lalaki mamamanhikan kasama magulang nya sa magulang ng babae.

  • @hannajpajimola6195
    @hannajpajimola6195 8 місяців тому

    Agreed to Slayter 100%

  • @ciscasaclang3378
    @ciscasaclang3378 8 місяців тому +4

    marriage is just formality, so those little things shouldnt matter much. for me 😁✌🏻

    • @janellasunch1648
      @janellasunch1648 8 місяців тому

      it's not the marriage , maybe what you meant was wedding ?

    • @ciscasaclang3378
      @ciscasaclang3378 8 місяців тому

      cuz of the legalities stuff? i mean if your dynamics is technically like a married couple you just get the label "husband" and "wife" so for me its just formality. *for me

    • @janellasunch1648
      @janellasunch1648 8 місяців тому

      @@ciscasaclang3378 what matters is how he'll treat you as his wife and how he is as a father to your future children

  • @reccaofns
    @reccaofns 8 місяців тому +1

    Dami ko natutunan kapag nanonood ako dito ❤

  • @juniferlhynnesunaz9922
    @juniferlhynnesunaz9922 8 місяців тому

    Super agreeeeeee. Loveyouuu guysssss ❤❤❤❤

  • @zowierevz
    @zowierevz 8 місяців тому

    tru why put your value to a ring..if u know your worth ug kabalo pud ka unsa imu worth sa laki..dli na mag matter😊

  • @samanthalee9839
    @samanthalee9839 8 місяців тому

    Si hubby ko nag propose sya sa akin 4k pesos lng yun pero wala akong pake kc natuwa ako na nagpropose sya haha kc matagal ko na hinihintay yun haha 4years n kmi mag jowa nun eh.. my husband can afford more than that pero di nmn big deal for me.. nung magpapakasal n kmi kmi dalawa pumili ng ring di din sya expensive 25k lng yun nasira pa ngaun nalagay ng asawa ko sa bulsa nya yung ring ko kc pinahawak ko sa kanya yun habang naghuhugas ako nasira sa washing machine so wala n kming wedding ring.. pero bumawi sya binilhan nya ako ng isang set ng gold pero di nman din ka expensive than other 14k gold lng nmn yun pero natuwa ako kc first time ko nagkaruon ng gold haha 😄 😅 pwede n pang sangla lol.. pero ayun wla pa din kming wedding ring since 2020 wala n kming sinusuot kc nasira nga.. at yung binigay nya na engagement ring di n din nmn kasya s akin kc nung nabuntis aq sa kambal ko laki ng tinaba ko haha .. khit wala kming ring okey nmn kmi ni hubby 10years n kmi in relationship 5years marriage may kambal n anak na girl and boy.. nakikita ko nmn na masipag si hubby nakakakain nmn kmi. Khit unti nakakabili kmi ng mga gusto nmin.. wala lng tlga kaming sariling bahay yan ang problem nmin lalo n ako kc na stress ako sa tatay nyang racist. Pero ugali ni hubby sobrang bait.. malas lng tlga sa inlaws haha

  • @purplearmy3462
    @purplearmy3462 8 місяців тому

    Engagement ring does not define the financial status of a man. Yung asawa ng kapatid ko 16,000 worth ng wedding singsing, after that toxic yung RELATIONSHIP nila. Nagbabantay ng kanilang anak ngayon at standby.

  • @carlamae15
    @carlamae15 8 місяців тому +1

    It matters to me kung 299.. sana gawin man lang 500 pesos para silver lol

  • @irinacrespo
    @irinacrespo 8 місяців тому

    Yes girls gossip all the time, but guys are a lot worse they just pretend they don’t but they do it too. ❤

  • @mamaandhabeeb
    @mamaandhabeeb 8 місяців тому

    basig mobawi diay sa wedding ring na...dvah?!

  • @franciscasapao7455
    @franciscasapao7455 8 місяців тому

    Next podcast po about having/making your husband as your best friend, while keeping your old/other best friends close
    -sharing/limitations

  • @katrinamariemangune1914
    @katrinamariemangune1914 8 місяців тому

    Love thiiiiis!

  • @leiram_1126
    @leiram_1126 8 місяців тому

    It shouldn't matter for me. Wala kaming engagement ring. Wedding ring yes meron. Hindi masusukat ang magiging buhay nyo sa isang singsing.

  • @juliefaithmaala1292
    @juliefaithmaala1292 7 місяців тому

    How about this :
    Girl: sugot rako sa tig 50 na ring katong murag gold ba pero fake diay
    Boy: ayaw sab to uy. Kana sab naay value. Kanang mahalon sab .
    So the girl expected .
    Reality: the ring cost only 274 ( dala na sa shipping fee sa shopee) 😢

  • @jonallynchentes1178
    @jonallynchentes1178 8 місяців тому +1

    BAWAL JUDGY TALAGA 📌

  • @totahsi
    @totahsi 8 місяців тому

    Sa aming nasa laylayan hindi kelangan ng engagement ring na yan. Pinagdedesisyunan yan ng dalawang party kung kelan magpapakasal. Hindi ang pagbibigay ring ang maghuhudyat kung kelan magdecide about sa kasal. Madaming older couple/generation nga na walang wedding ring eh. Aanhin pa ang engagement ring dba? #socmedsucks

  • @zoylabautista-silva6762
    @zoylabautista-silva6762 8 місяців тому

    It really doesn't matter. Me expensive engagement ring ka nga tas d nman natuloy kasal.

    • @michaelt334
      @michaelt334 8 місяців тому +1

      Yeah, and it could be expensive ring and during marriage they are not happy.

  • @positivity3677
    @positivity3677 8 місяців тому

    Basta ako, i'm like Taylor Swift coz i'd marry him with paper rings ohh ohhh...

  • @partosamarianeluisnicolet.5868
    @partosamarianeluisnicolet.5868 8 місяців тому

    ah memorableee

  • @fairylyntayag5046
    @fairylyntayag5046 8 місяців тому

    The guys pov na kumakalat is fake. The girl posted about 299 ring is already married. Hehehehe 😁

  • @Aizelyn
    @Aizelyn 8 місяців тому

    yes don't judge you're not a judge kidding char 😂😅

  • @LALISA-n1i17
    @LALISA-n1i17 8 місяців тому

    😊

  • @biboybenig2105
    @biboybenig2105 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @TheStellar16
    @TheStellar16 8 місяців тому

    I think the girl knew the guy better man sad may be that is why nasikatan sya, (tho the response seemed sketch kung from the guy ba talaga) I mean she has been with him for 8 years, and God knows want went thru those years sad.. pero given the benefit of the doubt nga mao jud tuy situation sa guy, no he is not ready for marriage jud esp super tied up pa sya sa iyang family… maskin kasalang bayan or civil wedding what will happen after the marriage? Suppose the wife will have an unplanned pregnancy na very critical and needs bedrest, can he financially sustain both? The husband and the wife is the foundation of the marriage but how can you build a strong stable family life if one of the foundations are unstable dba? I would rather receive that ring (or maskin cheaper pa gani, pakapin bobot) as a promise ring nga he will marry me after macompleto na nya responsibilities nya as a son. Kay in this day and economy, romance is thrown out the window once mukutoy na ang tiyan.

  • @rosiee_duhyang
    @rosiee_duhyang 8 місяців тому

    3:53 My partner: pili nalang imoha engagement ring, ako ray bayad hahahahahahahahahaha