Ya Allah, I pray that whoever reads this message shall have your comfort, joy, peace, love, and guidance. I may not know their troubles but you do. Please keep protecting us, Ameen🤲
Aameen🤲🤲🤲someone dearest to me suffering from a terrible marriage life....please make dua for them that no matter whatever happens may Allah protect us from all harms
Thank you for this message... as Christian I’m learning so much from you through these videos that I feel inspired and comforted every single time I learn more from you. My children are Muslims anyway and I’m trying to learn specially for them as I promised to my ex husband who does not want to take care of us anymore because of our mixed marriage. It’s very sad story... I asked him many times to teach me but he roughly abused me emotionally, psychologically and sometimes physically for almost ten years for not ‘rushing’ on it and being ‘different’ even if I always open my heart for him and his religion. I hope to find a way of healing through your teaching Mufti Menk... really thank you from the deep of my soul.
Subuhaan'Allah, it's good to know your r learning n your children are Muslims....if you slightly have an idea of reverting, kindly do it now don't waste time mother. May you n your children unite in Jannah.....Aameen
Me and my three brothers raised my single mother 💕 she did amazing job raising us going to Islamic school, memorization of Quran , I used to not like my dad but she always said to me (no matter what it's your dad and no one can change it except him and pray for him to change.
Mashallah not only he speaks to Muslims but any departed parents can benefit from this. I absolutely love his sessions. May Allah make it easy for the parents and children going through this.
I really appreciate how you do councilling to all members in a family from kids to elders through Qur'an.....its easy to understand, thank you brother. May ALLAH(SWT) reward you here n in the hereafter....Aameen
Astagfirullah..... may allah ease your situation sister.....allah please make things easier for this sister....one of my dearest is also suffering from the same pain.....after realizing her situation i decided that only one can solve that is allah and keep relying and keep trusting allah and the evils never can last long
please make dua for my brother Akram and my sister inlaw, May Allah bless happiness in their marriage and bless them long, happy and prosperous life together Ameen🤲🏻
It's great when both Parents take an active part in the up brining of a child, and not was the case of my child's father and I prayed for my child and did the best that I could to fill in the void but I haven't had my child want to be in his father's life either way I found it strange later I was grateful that I didn't have to worry about losing my child in a custody battle thinking,and thanking Allah for the positive, and though it's not a good thing to have a parent not take an active position in your child's life we are good my child and I.
The truth is that we’re selfish as humans. If the children were an important priority, divorce won’t happen in the first place. It’s only in few cases children are raised well after divorce. May Allah help us all in our marriages/relationships.
Assalama Aleykum to all my Muslim brothers and sisters let's not forget to send Salutations to our beloved Prophet Muxamad PBUH tonight until tomorrow insha'Allah and read Surah Al Kahf insha'Allah.
Allah answers everything. Thank you. I am going through this right now in my life. There was abuse and substance abuse in our marriage. I left and the substance abuse is still happening. I was allowing visitation until it got to be bad during the visits.
Sheikh im a fan of you!!! I not have the best islamic capacity to raise my children and I dont need that! The love for the parents should be unconditional!!!
What about where a father has emotionally and verbally abused the mother, has not provided for the child in any way and has not practiced the sunnah at all? What happens in that situation?
My ex used to sometimes turn up sometimes cancel last min, we had set times and he would never call whenever he pleased … my child would wait hrs on end and cry bitter tears but make excuses. … now my child wants nothing to do with the father … and of course I’m blamed for it. It took me years to fully cut him of as it mentally effected my child. With no contact for a few years my child hasn’t mentally broke down anymore, sometimes it is important to cut the toxic parent off… I wish I realised sooner as this sort of yo-yo contact is very draining for both mother and child
Exactly. ! Do courts even recognize this ? The mental damage of an inconsistent spouse ? There's so many testimonies that ALL draw the same conclusions: an absent spouse is better than an inconsistent one Also with such a toxic behavior its impossible for the custodial parent. Cutting off a toxic spouse should b legally possible. I'm glad you and your son got out of that vicious loop. It's horrible being forced to see a parent who doesn't care about you, and horrible to be forced to see this.
Assalamu Alaikum, Sheikh. I came to know that Maryam (AS)'s mother and Isa( AS) 's grandmother was a God fearing and righteous servant from an Islamic lecture. Then I decided that if I had a daughter I would name her Hannah (which is the name of Isa's (AS) grandmother that I learned from the lecture) InshaAllah. Although many say the name is Christian. I want your opinion on this matter, whether it would be right to keep that name. Alhamdulillah I recently found out that I am pregnant. Please keep me in your prayers..... You're one my most favourite Sheikh I learned a lot about Islam from you , May Allah Reward you for your good work ...Ameen
Thank you Mufti Menk for educating us on this. May Allah continue to bless you for sharing your knowledge and spreading the wonderful and blessed way of life (the religion of Islam). Allahuma aameen.
When you have lost both parents like me then you would wish you had 1 of them to give them love even if it was the worst parent ever lived!!! Peace and love to all mothers and fathers! Love your parents in sake off love for God and after that your brothers and sisters!! This is my answer to who say they love their children and wife!!!
My wife left me a Year ago When she left me she was pregnant But she not told me about this. she also had custody of my daughter 1.5 Years Old. Whenever I go to meet my daughter they misbehave with me and Never Allow me to meet my daughter. Now my Son has born but she again never allow me to see him 💔 The reasons for her left /her demands 1 Leave Your Parents alone 2 You are enemy of Your own kids 3 Name a Properity on my Name 4 Always Obey me in every Condition 5 kids will not meet his Father Parents 6 Your Sisters will Not come at Your House There are many More ill-logical reasons she said. I am not a Drug addict I never abuse her in any way. I am against Domestice voilence. I cared her alot. But she left me. I Love You Sooooo Much My Daughter Naimal and My Son Moosa But I cant Take your Custody as there is no law. A Voice of Non-custodial father.💔
Try to settle the issues. A Muslim lady has right to stay alone with you and kids. Care your parents from distance. May be you can stay at the next house to your parents. Sometimes you have to show your love to prove yourself.may allah make it easy for us
THERE IS POWER IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THERE IS POWER IN THE NAME OF ALLAH WHEN YOU PRAISE ALALH HOLY NAME IN EVERY CIRCUMSTANCES YOU INVITE HIS PRESENCE AND LOVE AND GOODNESS INTO UR LIFE AND THAT SITUATION PRAISE OPEN UP THE WAY AND LIGHT FOR ALLAH GOODNESS AND LOVE AND BLESSING TO BE POURED OUT OVER YOUR LIFE PRAISING ALLAH PAVES THE WAY FOR ALLAH ALMIGHTY POWER TO BE DISPLAYED IN YOUR LIFE IN A MIGHTY WAY PRAISE ALLAH IN EVERYTHING AND UR BREAKTHROUGH WILL COME LIKE A MIGHTY EARTHQUAKE AMEN ALLAH BLESS YOU ALL 🙏
I am in processs of divorce and my ex wife has blocked me access to my children. I havent seen them for 4 months and it is the most painful thing I have ever experienced. Please make dua for me.
This is what my narcissist wife is currently doing. I video called her to talk to my 4-year-old son, but she never answered. It's been 2 weeks now, and I haven't seen or talked to my child. I miss him so much. I don't care much about my narcissist wife because she is absolutely self-centered and has no empathy at all. I only fear for my son, as my wife has mood swings and sometimes yells at him over small matters. This would damage my son's personality.
What if the father abandoned children then tries to come back after a year. He is narcissistic so it's better for the children until they are older and can decide for themselves
@@muftimenkofficial He is a criminal. He made his kids homeless. Very arrogant how he did things. Now Allah has taken away his peace he thinks its because he is not seeing kids thats why. It won't change anything. Kids cried for him he didn't care. Now they don't care. Family are in support. Someone like him shouldn't even get to see the shadow of his kids. Good luck to him and his path of young girls.
@@muftimenkofficial i divorced longtime but i cannot let the father he always never care he left me& my kid,he like flirt so i dont trusted him& he dont paid alimony,Alhamdulillah me& my kid is ok
What happen to that mother who don't allow the father to meet his child.and then put false allegations on father to separate the child from him.... what is the punishment in Islam for such mother.... kindly reply mufti menk
Wa alaikum wa salaam wa rahumathullahi wa barakathuhu. MASHA ALLAH Excellent guidance. ❤❤❤👏👏👌👌👍👍🙏🙏🙏 MAY Almighty ALLAH SWT make it easy for those who are struggling n suffering silently in their toughest times of family issues and guide n ease their affairs and grants ease n peace to everyone of us. Aameen Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen. 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🙏🙏🙏🙏🤲🤲🤲🤲
In name of God! The job of every kid is being good for the parents!!!! Me myself if I had the baddest parents I would give them the most love!!! Sure now I have lost both parents!!!! I wish only I had still parents to give them love even if they where beating me everyday!!
Please pray for me.I was married before we had two boys later we got divorced he took the first child now I have the second one but he want have the child that’s stays with me. Please y’a allah i told him to keep one and I keep one but he don’t want do it’s he want the two boys. 😢😢 5 years today Thursday January 19 2023
Allah bless you & family. My Ex totally denied my access to my 3 years son (evidence available), court allowed me 1 hour meeting in court in month with my son at my own expense. At 7 years of age court will ask my son's decision and locked it till 21 years of his age all at my expense. A very simple question of mine, is it according to sharia? jazakallah.
What about little girls, babies and toddlers. They want to take my daughter for 4 days a week. It was an abusive relationship and also he had serious mental health issues
Assalamualaikum how are you sir yes it's true my mother is Alon gronup we are 2 sister's and 2 bother my fother is going very arly age we to youg and my mother only 20 in age she makes a jobs and stching teaching because give us good fucher and I am a special kid she take care of my self Alhamdulillah now I am a very good kundishna I can do everything by my self she give all of us good live My All brother and sister are married and thay have kids Alhamdulillah she is super good mother and she look after my fother also my passdaway fow eary before we should thanks for every month Allah bless all mother's Ameen sumeen 💐
Yes you are right we should thank about kids before taking any stap please every presents look at your kids what they feel they whent both parents so please don't disrtoy your kids be sensible for your own part of your sole don't distry your sole and 3 our 4 life's thanks
Don't be depressed 😔😔 on that ok, God Almighty Allahu Rahman knows the best for you,. Same things to me many years back but now,am fully having them in my custody presently
Good morning Shake I'm going through a divorce and my wife want to keep all the kids should I let her keep the kids even though I want to see my kids and I want to view my kids I want to be around my kids
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Assalamualaikum, mufti mink, I have a question regarding child support. If I receive child support from my ex spouse, is it haram to receive child support for the child? And my second question is if it is not Haram can I also use my child support money to donate to charitable causes? Also, of course taking care of the child as well?
Your child's money is for your child and your child only. If you do a sadaqa on behalf of the child, in the hudud set by Allah subhanah I guess that's good and the ajr will go to the child inchaallah. But as a general rule I feel you should not touch the child's money. If you don't want to spend it on him then open a bank account in his name and give him that money at his other majority inchaallah. And if you did a good job as a mother then maybe he or she will want to spend (part of) it in charity, inchaallah. And Allah knows best.
Allah bless help support uplift us all in matters issues problems sihr Health issues financial issues imaan baraka'h noor karamm rizq amann waqt khayr muhaba'h so we become charity sadaqa jariya for children of Adam & Havv'a/Eve regardless race culture colour nationality . Ameen..
I met my wife she did not have any kids I did go for kids two boys two girls take my kids away what should I do in this situation. I want to be in my kid's life so what should I do
Assalamu alaikum I'm a single mother of baby girl My daughter is is 4 years My husband divorce me for small family issues For his ego He left us Now he's married to another He never cum or asked about the baby He gives very little money That also for court rules Alhamdulila my brothers help me to take care of my daughter Please reply me Wat he doing to his daughter is acceptable in Islam?
Thank God. That's a royal way He subhanah made for you and you don't have to b afraid he takes your daughter or anything. Allah is the provider as for his punishment that is not your problem. You have your child and help. ALHAMDULILLAH.
It is not related to this video but I'm asking anyways because It's been uploaded a few hours age so hopefully i can get my answer. My question is related to divorce. I know the correct way of divorce. But if the husband divorces his wife 3 times in one sitting out of anger, is it over? Are they divorced? But then they made up but they don’t know anything about the correct rules of divorce. So they don’t know that they are divorced. And continuing living their life together as husband and wife. So is their relationship haram now? I know that if the guy wants to remarry her, she has to marry another guy first and if they get divorced then they can remarry if both of them are willing to do it. But as i said they don’t even know that they are divorced (if saying talak 3 times at one sitting considers divorce) and they love each other. So even if they know now that they are divorced then how can the woman get married to another guy when she loves her husband? Can they not be sorry and make istegfar from pure heart and continue living together as husband and wife?
⚠🛑⚠Mufti Menk please speak to these brothers online to show how to have a good character like yours. Shame on Mohammad Hijab side, Shamsi side, Dawah man side, Saajid Lipham side, Daniel side, Spubs side etc for causing harm to the Muslims and Non Muslims. Remember a day when Allah (SW) will judge you for every soul that your speech and actions entered either to benefit them or not. If you destroyed their soul be careful of Jahanam Hell fire. If you still think you haven't done anything wrong then do your job to unite the Muslims. Feeamanillah. ⚠🛑 ⚠
Like hoblos said!!! Hell with the wifes when it stand between family. Keep the children!! We win the love off our by putting parents number one!! Thats what God teached me!
It must not have been God who taught you but Satan. God doesn't speak ill of women and certainly not mothers. Your first phrase that I can't even reproduce here sou ds like the words of chayatin. You say "to hell " and you think you are guided by God? You are guided by Satan wa zayyana laka chaytan qawlik. Lahawla wa la quwata illa billah, wa Hasbiyallah wa nima lwakeel. 🙏
So a dad cannot have custody of his kids full-time? 🤔 This is anti men I love mufti but I think he's pandering. And I'm disappointed. Ever mom is not mentally capable of raising children. There's so much I can say but I'll leave it where it's at. This is not a good thing to tell men and not also tell women.
Some of this is just plain ole sexist misinformation brother. A woman doesn’t have much rights past the age of 7. You however; said that a child can start spending nights away from the mother at this age. A boy needs to be with his father primarily, at this age. Father is number one, always. An we all know that the effects of an absent father are far greater than the effects of an absent mother.
You apparently don't know ANYTHING. I urge you to stop speaking from a place of insane sexism and mysoginy , a place of emotion since you visibly have an issue with women and their God given rights as mothers, even Janna is 'tahta qadami l ummahat ', are you going to rebel against Allah subhanah? Astaghfirullah. Father is always the first ? SAYS WHO? Even Allah subhanah has given a higher place to mothers and its logical since you come from her womb ! Now do a reality check and some research. Don't talk like an ignorant person. What you said is simply FALSE and actually single mothers households are doing g GREAT. You even have a metaphor in the Quran with Maryam ra and sayduna Issa. There's so many great men you probably admire who were raised by single mothers. Maybe the pilot who takes you to your next Destination. Or the doctor who saves your life Allah willing. Or just a gentle soul who lent you an ear when no one else did I urge you to seek help for your prejudice against women especially single mothers before you come before Allah subhanah on the day of judgement.
Ya Allah, I pray that whoever reads this message shall have your comfort, joy, peace, love, and guidance. I may not know their troubles but you do. Please keep protecting us, Ameen🤲
Pls do pray for Indian hijab issue.... We really need all u r support... 🤲
Aameen Thumma Aameen Yaa Raab
Aameen🤲🤲🤲someone dearest to me suffering from a terrible marriage life....please make dua for them that no matter whatever happens may Allah protect us from all harms
Ameen
Ameen 🤲🤍
Thank you for this message... as Christian I’m learning so much from you through these videos that I feel inspired and comforted every single time I learn more from you. My children are Muslims anyway and I’m trying to learn specially for them as I promised to my ex husband who does not want to take care of us anymore because of our mixed marriage. It’s very sad story... I asked him many times to teach me but he roughly abused me emotionally, psychologically and sometimes physically for almost ten years for not ‘rushing’ on it and being ‘different’ even if I always open my heart for him and his religion. I hope to find a way of healing through your teaching Mufti Menk... really thank you from the deep of my soul.
May Allah grant you ease🤲🤲
@@aishahassan3892 Ameen
May Allah protect you
Subuhaan'Allah, it's good to know your r learning n your children are Muslims....if you slightly have an idea of reverting, kindly do it now don't waste time mother. May you n your children unite in Jannah.....Aameen
May Allah strengthen you
Me and my three brothers raised my single mother 💕 she did amazing job raising us going to Islamic school, memorization of Quran , I used to not like my dad but she always said to me (no matter what it's your dad and no one can change it except him and pray for him to change.
Mashallah not only he speaks to Muslims but any departed parents can benefit from this. I absolutely love his sessions. May Allah make it easy for the parents and children going through this.
Ameen 🤲🤍
May Allah prevent my son from being used as a pawn in a dirty game of revenge. Allahumma Ameen
Ameen
Amin
I really appreciate how you do councilling to all members in a family from kids to elders through Qur'an.....its easy to understand, thank you brother. May ALLAH(SWT) reward you here n in the hereafter....Aameen
My husband use to hit me abuse me for over 15 years now giving me hard time in divorce case . Please dua for me please 🙏
Oh I am so sorry. May Allah make it easy on you guys.
Astagfirullah..... may allah ease your situation sister.....allah please make things easier for this sister....one of my dearest is also suffering from the same pain.....after realizing her situation i decided that only one can solve that is allah and keep relying and keep trusting allah and the evils never can last long
May Allah make it easy for you dear.
May Allah continue to forgive our sins Ameen 🤲
please make dua for my brother Akram and my sister inlaw, May Allah bless happiness in their marriage and bless them long, happy and prosperous life together Ameen🤲🏻
May Almighty continues to forgive as our sins
Jazakallah khair Mufti 🤍 May Allah make it easy for us
Thank you for teaching with patience and wisdom. As a Christian I appreciate this.
May ALLAH make it easy for us. Aameen
It's great when both Parents take an active part in the up brining of a child, and not was the case of my child's father and I prayed for my child and did the best that I could to fill in the void but I haven't had my child want to be in his father's life either way I found it strange later I was grateful that I didn't have to worry about losing my child in a custody battle thinking,and thanking Allah for the positive, and though it's not a good thing to have a parent not take an active position in your child's life we are good my child and I.
That's amazing. God bless ans blessed you. 🙏
I welcome and encourage everyone to read and listen to the Holy Quran. Subhan Allah!!
The truth is that we’re selfish as humans. If the children were an important priority, divorce won’t happen in the first place. It’s only in few cases children are raised well after divorce. May Allah help us all in our marriages/relationships.
Ya Allah I Pray that you will prtect all of our Muslims brothers and sisters that are suffering
Assalama Aleykum to all my Muslim brothers and sisters let's not forget to send Salutations to our beloved Prophet Muxamad PBUH tonight until tomorrow insha'Allah and read Surah Al Kahf insha'Allah.
Allah answers everything. Thank you. I am going through this right now in my life. There was abuse and substance abuse in our marriage. I left and the substance abuse is still happening. I was allowing visitation until it got to be bad during the visits.
Aameen Allah SWT answers all. N is just...
Going thru the same right now ..
Allah forbid any harm to us
Inshallah
@@marlenetasneem9509 amin
Sheikh im a fan of you!!! I not have the best islamic capacity to raise my children and I dont need that! The love for the parents should be unconditional!!!
Thank you brother. You saved my daughter's Life
What about where a father has emotionally and verbally abused the mother, has not provided for the child in any way and has not practiced the sunnah at all? What happens in that situation?
I want to know too
May Allah grant you the highest place of Paradise
My ex used to sometimes turn up sometimes cancel last min, we had set times and he would never call whenever he pleased … my child would wait hrs on end and cry bitter tears but make excuses. … now my child wants nothing to do with the father … and of course I’m blamed for it. It took me years to fully cut him of as it mentally effected my child. With no contact for a few years my child hasn’t mentally broke down anymore, sometimes it is important to cut the toxic parent off… I wish I realised sooner as this sort of yo-yo contact is very draining for both mother and child
Exactly. ! Do courts even recognize this ? The mental damage of an inconsistent spouse ? There's so many testimonies that ALL draw the same conclusions: an absent spouse is better than an inconsistent one
Also with such a toxic behavior its impossible for the custodial parent. Cutting off a toxic spouse should b legally possible. I'm glad you and your son got out of that vicious loop. It's horrible being forced to see a parent who doesn't care about you, and horrible to be forced to see this.
May Almighty Allah grant you success in hereafter
Assalamu Alaikum, Sheikh. I came to know that Maryam (AS)'s mother and Isa( AS) 's grandmother was a God fearing and righteous servant from an Islamic lecture. Then I decided that if I had a daughter I would name her Hannah (which is the name of Isa's (AS) grandmother that I learned from the lecture) InshaAllah. Although many say the name is Christian. I want your opinion on this matter, whether it would be right to keep that name. Alhamdulillah I recently found out that I am pregnant. Please keep me in your prayers..... You're one my most favourite Sheikh I learned a lot about Islam from you , May Allah Reward you for your good work ...Ameen
Thank you Mufti Menk for educating us on this. May Allah continue to bless you for sharing your knowledge and spreading the wonderful and blessed way of life (the religion of Islam). Allahuma aameen.
When you have lost both parents like me then you would wish you had 1 of them to give them love even if it was the worst parent ever lived!!! Peace and love to all mothers and fathers! Love your parents in sake off love for God and after that your brothers and sisters!!
This is my answer to who say they love their children and wife!!!
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
Save yourself from hell-fire even by
Giving Half a Date-fruit in Charity.
Source:- Sahih al-Bukhari 1417.
My wife left me a Year ago When she left me she was pregnant But she not told me about this.
she also had custody of my daughter 1.5 Years Old. Whenever I go to meet my daughter they misbehave with me and Never Allow me to meet my daughter.
Now my Son has born but she again never allow me to see him 💔
The reasons for her left /her demands
1 Leave Your Parents alone
2 You are enemy of Your own kids
3 Name a Properity on my Name
4 Always Obey me in every Condition
5 kids will not meet his Father Parents
6 Your Sisters will Not come at Your House
There are many More ill-logical reasons she said.
I am not a Drug addict I never abuse her in any way. I am against Domestice voilence. I cared her alot.
But she left me.
I Love You Sooooo Much My Daughter Naimal and My Son Moosa But I cant Take your Custody as there is no law.
A Voice of Non-custodial father.💔
Try to settle the issues. A Muslim lady has right to stay alone with you and kids. Care your parents from distance. May be you can stay at the next house to your parents. Sometimes you have to show your love to prove yourself.may allah make it easy for us
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Your doing a great work for young generations. As we all know now a days the divorce are increasing, so kindly do a speech on the same
Doing it right...requires developing a good character in all the years before marriage.
Always most important to develop your character.
THERE IS POWER IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THERE IS POWER IN THE NAME OF ALLAH WHEN YOU PRAISE ALALH HOLY NAME IN EVERY CIRCUMSTANCES YOU INVITE HIS PRESENCE AND LOVE AND GOODNESS INTO UR LIFE AND THAT SITUATION PRAISE OPEN UP THE WAY AND LIGHT FOR ALLAH GOODNESS AND LOVE AND BLESSING TO BE POURED OUT OVER YOUR LIFE PRAISING ALLAH PAVES THE WAY FOR ALLAH ALMIGHTY POWER TO BE DISPLAYED IN YOUR LIFE IN A MIGHTY WAY PRAISE ALLAH IN EVERYTHING AND UR BREAKTHROUGH WILL COME LIKE A MIGHTY EARTHQUAKE AMEN ALLAH BLESS YOU ALL 🙏
Alhamdulilah, may Allah ease our suffering, Ameen.
I am in processs of divorce and my ex wife has blocked me access to my children. I havent seen them for 4 months and it is the most painful thing I have ever experienced. Please make dua for me.
Be patient brothers
This is what my narcissist wife is currently doing. I video called her to talk to my 4-year-old son, but she never answered. It's been 2 weeks now, and I haven't seen or talked to my child. I miss him so much. I don't care much about my narcissist wife because she is absolutely self-centered and has no empathy at all. I only fear for my son, as my wife has mood swings and sometimes yells at him over small matters. This would damage my son's personality.
A mother's love is much deeper than that of a father ,don't worry about your son ,he's in safe hands or I would say in a better place
What if the father abandoned children then tries to come back after a year.
He is narcissistic so it's better for the children until they are older and can decide for themselves
I would think the father still has a right to see the children.
If Allah can forgive, we are just mearly humans.
Unless he is a criminal, try to get family involved and give the children their right to access to their father.
@@muftimenkofficial He is a criminal.
He made his kids homeless.
Very arrogant how he did things.
Now Allah has taken away his peace he thinks its because he is not seeing kids thats why.
It won't change anything.
Kids cried for him he didn't care.
Now they don't care.
Family are in support. Someone like him shouldn't even get to see the shadow of his kids.
Good luck to him and his path of young girls.
@@muftimenkofficial i divorced longtime but i cannot let the father he always never care he left me& my kid,he like flirt so i dont trusted him& he dont paid alimony,Alhamdulillah me& my kid is ok
What happen to that mother who don't allow the father to meet his child.and then put false allegations on father to separate the child from him.... what is the punishment in Islam for such mother.... kindly reply mufti menk
Wa alaikum wa salaam wa rahumathullahi wa barakathuhu.
MASHA ALLAH Excellent guidance. ❤❤❤👏👏👌👌👍👍🙏🙏🙏
MAY Almighty ALLAH SWT make it easy for those who are struggling n suffering silently in their toughest times of family issues and guide n ease their affairs and grants ease n peace to everyone of us. Aameen Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen. 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🙏🙏🙏🙏🤲🤲🤲🤲
my allah my Ethiopia sister and brothers in Saudy Arebiyan 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏
Can you please talk about the problems in India and the hijab ban now?
Assalaamu'alaykum mufti today my wife took away my child and her parents also was happy about she is not letting me see my child
In name of God! The job of every kid is being good for the parents!!!! Me myself if I had the baddest parents I would give them the most love!!! Sure now I have lost both parents!!!! I wish only I had still parents to give them love even if they where beating me everyday!!
May Allah Almighty Guide us all.
Assalam alaikum wa Rahamtullah wa Barakatu
Wa alaikum Salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakathahu 🤍
Please pray for me.I was married before we had two boys later we got divorced he took the first child now I have the second one but he want have the child that’s stays with me. Please y’a allah i told him to keep one and I keep one but he don’t want do it’s he want the two boys. 😢😢 5 years today Thursday January 19 2023
Ya Allah Forgive Us
Mufti my husband is not giving the custody of my daughter
Please Pray for me I'm in a big Trouble💔😓
Allah bless you & family. My Ex totally denied my access to my 3 years son (evidence available), court allowed me 1 hour meeting in court in month with my son at my own expense. At 7 years of age court will ask my son's decision and locked it till 21 years of his age all at my expense. A very simple question of mine, is it according to sharia? jazakallah.
What about little girls, babies and toddlers. They want to take my daughter for 4 days a week. It was an abusive relationship and also he had serious mental health issues
May allah guide us all
Assalamualaikum how are you sir yes it's true my mother is Alon gronup we are 2 sister's and 2 bother my fother is going very arly age we to youg and my mother only 20 in age she makes a jobs and stching teaching because give us good fucher and I am a special kid she take care of my self Alhamdulillah now I am a very good kundishna I can do everything by my self she give all of us good live My All brother and sister are married and thay have kids Alhamdulillah she is super good mother and she look after my fother also my passdaway fow eary before we should thanks for every month Allah bless all mother's Ameen sumeen 💐
Yes you are right we should thank about kids before taking any stap please every presents look at your kids what they feel they whent both parents so please don't disrtoy your kids be sensible for your own part of your sole don't distry your sole and 3 our 4 life's thanks
Please pray for Afghanistan
What should I do if they don’t let me see my children despite me being fully well Alhamdulilah and none of the criteria applies?
Y they are not letting you
May God Almighty Allahu Rahman will guide n protect all your children, inshallah Rahman Amen bihithinilahi tahlah
Don't be depressed 😔😔 on that ok, God Almighty Allahu Rahman knows the best for you,.
Same things to me many years back but now,am fully having them in my custody presently
Very difficult but do not stop making duas.
I deleted my previous comment because I commented BEFORE I got the message
Good morning Shake I'm going through a divorce and my wife want to keep all the kids should I let her keep the kids even though I want to see my kids and I want to view my kids I want to be around my kids
Thank you so much
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏽
Fact talk
Jazzakallahu khayr…for addressing this.
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Wa'alaikum Salam Warohmatullohi Wabarokatuh.
Assalamualaikum, mufti mink, I have a question regarding child support. If I receive child support from my ex spouse, is it haram to receive child support for the child? And my second question is if it is not Haram can I also use my child support money to donate to charitable causes? Also, of course taking care of the child as well?
Your child's money is for your child and your child only. If you do a sadaqa on behalf of the child, in the hudud set by Allah subhanah I guess that's good and the ajr will go to the child inchaallah. But as a general rule I feel you should not touch the child's money. If you don't want to spend it on him then open a bank account in his name and give him that money at his other majority inchaallah. And if you did a good job as a mother then maybe he or she will want to spend (part of) it in charity, inchaallah. And Allah knows best.
Sorry you asked mufti but I wanted to answer. I hope you don't mind 🙏
Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu
I know that 🤘 sign is prohibited but I just confused whether to use✌️ sign.But after seeing this thumbnail I confirmed✌️✌️✌️😅
Masha Allah 🌺
Allah bless help support uplift us all in matters issues problems sihr Health issues financial issues imaan baraka'h noor karamm rizq amann waqt khayr muhaba'h so we become charity sadaqa jariya for children of Adam & Havv'a/Eve regardless race culture colour nationality . Ameen..
After khula woman keep the kids according to sharia
Naw if ya child all
Of sudden dont wanna see you 9 out of 10 it’s the other parent.
The sister get married the kids go with the father in general
I met my wife she did not have any kids I did go for kids two boys two girls take my kids away what should I do in this situation. I want to be in my kid's life so what should I do
As-salaam alaykum Sheikh!
Your voice isn't Normal. Are you fine??
Assalamu alaikum
I'm a single mother of baby girl
My daughter is is 4 years
My husband divorce me for small family issues
For his ego
He left us
Now he's married to another
He never cum or asked about the baby
He gives very little money
That also for court rules
Alhamdulila my brothers help me to take care of my daughter
Please reply me
Wat he doing to his daughter is acceptable in Islam?
Thank God. That's a royal way He subhanah made for you and you don't have to b afraid he takes your daughter or anything. Allah is the provider as for his punishment that is not your problem. You have your child and help. ALHAMDULILLAH.
It is not related to this video but I'm asking anyways because It's been uploaded a few hours age so hopefully i can get my answer. My question is related to divorce. I know the correct way of divorce. But if the husband divorces his wife 3 times in one sitting out of anger, is it over? Are they divorced? But then they made up but they don’t know anything about the correct rules of divorce. So they don’t know that they are divorced. And continuing living their life together as husband and wife. So is their relationship haram now? I know that if the guy wants to remarry her, she has to marry another guy first and if they get divorced then they can remarry if both of them are willing to do it. But as i said they don’t even know that they are divorced (if saying talak 3 times at one sitting considers divorce) and they love each other. So even if they know now that they are divorced then how can the woman get married to another guy when she loves her husband? Can they not be sorry and make istegfar from pure heart and continue living together as husband and wife?
Masha Allaah
⚠🛑⚠Mufti Menk please speak to these brothers online to show how to have a good character like yours. Shame on Mohammad Hijab side, Shamsi side, Dawah man side, Saajid Lipham side, Daniel side, Spubs side etc for causing harm to the Muslims and Non Muslims. Remember a day when Allah (SW) will judge you for every soul that your speech and actions entered either to benefit them or not. If you destroyed their soul be careful of Jahanam Hell fire. If you still think you haven't done anything wrong then do your job to unite the Muslims. Feeamanillah. ⚠🛑 ⚠
Ameen 🙏
Mufti menk team Kanye
What if the reason of divorce is wife affair and sexual relationship? Will child custody given to father
Mashallah
Sorry mufti menm if i accidenttliy backbait u☹
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Like hoblos said!!! Hell with the wifes when it stand between family. Keep the children!! We win the love off our by putting parents number one!! Thats what God teached me!
It must not have been God who taught you but Satan. God doesn't speak ill of women and certainly not mothers. Your first phrase that I can't even reproduce here sou ds like the words of chayatin. You say "to hell " and you think you are guided by God? You are guided by Satan wa zayyana laka chaytan qawlik. Lahawla wa la quwata illa billah, wa Hasbiyallah wa nima lwakeel. 🙏
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So a dad cannot have custody of his kids full-time? 🤔 This is anti men I love mufti but I think he's pandering. And I'm disappointed. Ever mom is not mentally capable of raising children. There's so much I can say but I'll leave it where it's at. This is not a good thing to tell men and not also tell women.
Some of this is just plain ole sexist misinformation brother. A woman doesn’t have much rights past the age of 7. You however; said that a child can start spending nights away from the mother at this age. A boy needs to be with his father primarily, at this age. Father is number one, always. An we all know that the effects of an absent father are far greater than the effects of an absent mother.
You apparently don't know ANYTHING. I urge you to stop speaking from a place of insane sexism and mysoginy , a place of emotion since you visibly have an issue with women and their God given rights as mothers, even Janna is 'tahta qadami l ummahat ', are you going to rebel against Allah subhanah? Astaghfirullah.
Father is always the first ? SAYS WHO? Even Allah subhanah has given a higher place to mothers and its logical since you come from her womb !
Now do a reality check and some research. Don't talk like an ignorant person. What you said is simply FALSE and actually single mothers households are doing g GREAT.
You even have a metaphor in the Quran with Maryam ra and sayduna Issa.
There's so many great men you probably admire who were raised by single mothers. Maybe the pilot who takes you to your next Destination. Or the doctor who saves your life Allah willing. Or just a gentle soul who lent you an ear when no one else did
I urge you to seek help for your prejudice against women especially single mothers before you come before Allah subhanah on the day of judgement.
Don't be ridiculous you know that's not true
assalamu alaikum sir i am hijas ahmed i from srilanka i send you email sir i hope you will give me a answer for my question and thank you
Mashallah
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