My Abdominal Hysterectomy journey 3 weeks post-operation

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @NolaHomeGirl
    @NolaHomeGirl 2 місяці тому +7

    I am having mine next month after 3 c- sections and fibroids. Pray for me in JESUS name as I pray for you all.❤❤

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 місяці тому

      Hey friend! We have a few things in common. I pray for your speedy recovery. Keep us posted on how things are going.

  • @Roques-rage1706
    @Roques-rage1706 3 місяці тому +5

    Thank you so much for this testimony. I am 5 days out of my abdominal hysterectomy. I already feel better. I have more energy. It feels so good to not bleed. I can't wait to get rid of panty liners and pads. I'm excited for my belly goes down. Best decision I've ever made. I thank God for the relief.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому +1

      So glad that you are doing so much better Friend 🎉 Let’s get it!!

    • @Roques-rage1706
      @Roques-rage1706 3 місяці тому +1

      @@gurldede God bless you. Thank you🙏🏽❤️

  • @feliciahunt6729
    @feliciahunt6729 5 місяців тому +8

    I'm 3 weeks post op from an abdominal hysterecttomy and I feel great!! My hospital experience was great, my physician did an amazing job, and I've done exceptionally well with my recovery! Your story is similar to mine, in particular as it relates to your pre-op symptoms...bloating, fullness, and the belly that measured at the equivalent of 16 weeks gestation. I too had several fibroids and when I saw the pictures after surgery, I could not believe what had been growing inside my body. Our recovery experiences were also very similar...better BM's, weight loss, loss of appetite, etc. Overall, I'm thankful for the experience and looking forward to what is to come. I wish you continued good health and strength and a great recovery! Thank you for sharing your story!!

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  5 місяців тому

      Thanks for sharing your experience as well! It is so helpful when we share much needed knowledge. Glad you’re feeling better friend.

    • @diamondsandlipgloss
      @diamondsandlipgloss 5 місяців тому +1

      thank you sharing... how long did it take to remove the gas after surgery? what did you take for gas & bloating POST surgery? (my surgery is next month😮)

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  5 місяців тому

      Surprisingly I never had gas after surgery. I think taking Miralex before surgery help out alot

  • @shanelleworrell8663
    @shanelleworrell8663 2 місяці тому +5

    Thanks so much ,iam 3 wks post surgery ,my quality of life before was not good ,heavy flow ,pain, etc now its over and i feel so much better!!

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 місяці тому

      I am sooooo glad you are feeling better my friend.

  • @BkVincy
    @BkVincy 2 місяці тому +4

    I'm at my 3 week mark myself. I was a happy patient as well 😂😂 they said the same thing to me when they wheeled me into the room. I also had endo carcinoma. My period also came before surgery 😂 i was like bruh.
    I had a hard time deciding on doing the surgery because I dont have any children, but I ultimately decided that life was more valuable than having children.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 місяці тому

      Friend, thank you for sharing your journey. So funny about our periods not wanting to leave us 😂 Every journey is different but I am so glad you have found peace. I pray that you have fulfillment in things you are passionate about.

  • @shirvantesr
    @shirvantesr День тому

    I’m currently at the three week mark today. Thank you for the update. It’s hard finding information on abdominal hysterectomy.

  • @jonathanhoney9274
    @jonathanhoney9274 2 місяці тому +6

    Im going tomorrow my abdominal hysterectomy,pray forme❤

    • @Kimema-yt2dq
      @Kimema-yt2dq 2 місяці тому +2

      🙏🏾 🙏🏾 🙏🏾

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 місяці тому

      Praying for you Friend ❤

  • @linellwilliamsadams4276
    @linellwilliamsadams4276 3 місяці тому +6

    Thanks for sharing. Your story sounds like mines with the excessive bleeding etc. We have to choose carefully who we talk to because some people are negative and we only need positive energy. Prayers also helps us stay calm.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому +1

      I agree Friend! Let’s have a positive mindset. It will ultimately help us stay healthy.

    • @linellwilliamsadams4276
      @linellwilliamsadams4276 3 місяці тому +1

      So very true. Women go through so much

  • @TareonandCo
    @TareonandCo 5 місяців тому +4

    I’m 3 weeks post op my vaginal hysterectomy and also shared my journey on my channel. I’m so glad more and more women are speaking on this so it’s not taboo especially with the recent passing of Jessica Pettway who was misdiagnosed. Women’s health has to be taken more seriously and the only way to make that happen is by us women taking control of our bodies and asking the right questions while being insistent on the care and direction they feel they need. I truly hope anyone considering this surgery to imagine their lives without all the suffering you’ve done in silence and imagine what your life will look like without that monthly fear of that time coming again. It’s been a blessing for me so far. I’m a 43 year old Mom of 5 ages 10-23 for reference.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  5 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience. I will definitely check it out. We do need to stand together and support each other and it starts with sharing our stories. Praying for your continued recovery success and wellbeing.

  • @sheanrobinson5072
    @sheanrobinson5072 Місяць тому +3

    Hi, thank you so much for sharing your story!I am getting ready to have an open hysterectomy on July 31st. Im so nervous but excited at the same time. My uterus is measuring as if I were 20+ weeks pregnant. I have multiple fibroids measuring 9-10 cm. My surgeon says he'll probably have to do a verticle cut because my uterus is so big. I'm so uncomfortable, I look like I'm 5 months pregnant. I'm praying for a safe, successful surgery and recovery. Thank you so much for justifying how I'm feeling. God bless you in your recovery!

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  Місяць тому

      @@sheanrobinson5072 Hello Friend! Yes, your feelings are valid. I am so proud of you for prioritizing your health. You matter! I’ll be praying for your successful and speedy recovery. Please keep us posted. We have the most supportive community.

  • @scorpio0037
    @scorpio0037 4 місяці тому +5

    Amen I just had a total Laporscopi ....I'm on day 2 and is feeling wonderful...I had fibroid and a large uterus that weighed like 3lbs. I have my ovaries... my stomach is smaller than when I went in... I was told by my primary dtr to exercise my stomach muscles prior to surgery.. and I did, I think that played a Hugh part with my healing...day 2 post I feel good...

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  4 місяці тому

      I am so glad your surgery went well. Great advice on pre surgery exercises.

    • @r-jproductions1343
      @r-jproductions1343 2 місяці тому

      What kind of stomach exercises did you do?

  • @fayvallie1170
    @fayvallie1170 3 місяці тому +7

    Hi honey thank you so much I was a little worried because I'm booked for the 3rd of July please pray for me as well I just want to Thank God for you your such a blessing do enjoy the rest of your recovery and God bless you thank you very much for sharing your details ❤❤❤😊

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому +1

      Hi Friend! I will definitely say a prayer for your success surgery and complete healing. Keep me posted on how you’re doing.

    • @suburbangardener.6457
      @suburbangardener.6457 3 місяці тому +3

      Please pray for me also mine is July 9th

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому +3

      @@suburbangardener.6457 Will do. Praying that you will have a successful surgery and quick recovery.

    • @suburbangardener.6457
      @suburbangardener.6457 3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you. My name is Tisure

    • @r-jproductions1343
      @r-jproductions1343 2 місяці тому +1

      How was your surgery? Seems like it was today. Hope you are doing ok and recovering well.

  • @Juah86
    @Juah86 6 місяців тому +13

    I’m having mine next month. You all pray for me.🙏🏿

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  6 місяців тому

      I will definitely be praying for you.

    • @Juah86
      @Juah86 6 місяців тому +1

      @@gurldede thanks love

    • @nadinethomas8743
      @nadinethomas8743 4 місяці тому +1

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 місяці тому

      @@Juah86Hey Friend! I hope all is well with you. Keep us posted

  • @annabelledarku3790
    @annabelledarku3790 2 дні тому +1

    Thank you,my daughter had the same surgery done..The same things was happening to her..Thank God,,she is ok now

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 дні тому

      @@annabelledarku3790 Hi! I’m so glad she is doing better!

  • @ThelittleNurseRN
    @ThelittleNurseRN 4 місяці тому +4

    Im having an abdominal hysterectomy on Monday and I’m so very nervous. The closer I get to the day the more anxious I feel. As a nurse, I’m fully aware of all the possible risk and I’m so afraid of the possibilities!

    • @scorpio0037
      @scorpio0037 4 місяці тому +1

      Stay connected to your doctor...

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  4 місяці тому

      It normal to be nervous but keep the Faith. I pray that all goes well. Be sure to communicate how you are feeling to your team every step of the way.

  • @heyadriennewright5874
    @heyadriennewright5874 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for this video. I’m in the process of getting ultrasounds, blood work and other information before my Obgyn decides what I really need to get done. I’m just watching so many videos to get me ready for my next steps.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  5 місяців тому

      Hi Friend! I know this time is stressful but you’re doing the right thing to seek out the information. Best of luck to you.

    • @scorpio0037
      @scorpio0037 4 місяці тому +1

      Hello, your healing process differs for most...ot all depends on the condition of the abdomen such as amount of scar tissue etc..but I was a great thing for me..

  • @kimmi815
    @kimmi815 2 місяці тому +2

    You put me through all the feels!! Thank you for this entire vid and was so helpful. You are wonderful!!!

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 місяці тому +1

      Hey Friend! I’m so glad you found it helpful 🎉

  • @saadatuabu448
    @saadatuabu448 4 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for sharing. I am also 3 weeks post op, and I have been worried about my incision not closing completely yet. Your video has reassured me that I am on track with my recovery, I am off pain meds now. It's well, sisters.😊

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  4 місяці тому

      Glad it was helpful! I am about to drop another video to give an update on Friday how it’s going. Best of luck on your recovery❤️‍🩹

    • @saadatuabu448
      @saadatuabu448 4 місяці тому

      @@gurldede Thanks 😊.

  • @nikeishasemien2005
    @nikeishasemien2005 Місяць тому +2

    You are so right, I’m 3 weeks post op now and there wasn’t a lot of information to help me prep for the abdominal hysterectomy. This is way more common than I ever anticipated, and you’ve inspired me. Maybe I will share my experience as well.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  Місяць тому

      Yes! Please share your link so that we can support you. We all have unique journeys and perspectives.

  • @organizedandblessedmom
    @organizedandblessedmom Місяць тому +1

    Appreciate your perspective. I’ve had 2 c-sections and will have my hysterectomy in 2 weeks. I always wondered how it felt from a person who has had c-sections. I agree with how this surgery does improve our quality of life. I’ve had 3 blood transfusion in the 4 years that I’ve had this fibroid and I’m am ready to get this thing out. Thanks for sharing this.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  Місяць тому

      @@organizedandblessedmom Hello Friend! I’m praying relief comes to you soon. Blood transfusions are no joke. I’ll will keep you in prayer. Please keep us posted on your recovery.

  • @TheShanel05
    @TheShanel05 5 місяців тому +2

    Thanks so much for sharing. I didn’t have a hysterectomy but I’m 3 weeks post op from an abdominal myomectomy with a c section incision as well and I can so relate to your experience. During the surgery a condition called adenomyosis was discovered however, which I had never heard of even with all my prior research, and the only cure for that if it causes complications is hysterectomy so it is still so very helpful to be informed. I agree that there was so much peace in preparation prior to my procedure just making sure things were done and in order and yes we need to talk more about these things, because knowing is half the battle. Happy Recovery & Best Wishes! 😊

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for educating me as well. Sharing your experience is gonna help someone too. Best of luck on your recovery and thanks for your support. ❤

  • @sheanrobinson5072
    @sheanrobinson5072 Місяць тому +1

    God bless you!! Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story with someone like myself, your story will be an inspiration to many. So nice to have a fellow friend in Jesus, he can do anything🙏!! Thank you for your kind words and prayers! I'll keep you posted.

  • @camesaparker84
    @camesaparker84 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for you blog. I have 4 huge fibroids in and out of my uterus. I know I’ll have to have a hysterectomy. I wanted to know if you can do a post op surgery supplies list? TYI

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  Місяць тому

      Hey Friend! Yes I absolutely will. I did a 4 week post op with a lot of that information. Check it out ua-cam.com/video/o7_mIX3-594/v-deo.htmlsi=pOyqdSpJlm36cIuX More post to come soon.

  • @AnaS-fy5iu
    @AnaS-fy5iu 3 місяці тому +2

    Wow I was eating ice all
    Day long until I go blood transfusion.Same story here,Tube ligation lots of bleeding and blood clots,having my open hysterectomy June 17th.I totally relate to your experience.Thank you for sharing!

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому

      Hey Friend! So glad you’re having surgery to relieve your pain. Please keep us posted and best wishes on your recovery.

    • @s.gulston-davis738
      @s.gulston-davis738 3 місяці тому +1

      I am also having my hysterectomy on June 17th.

    • @reneethompson8099
      @reneethompson8099 3 місяці тому +1

      Gods willing I am scheduled for surgery 15 June🙏🏾🙏🏾 Even now I'm a bit nervous, but I trust God . I have had two previous myomectomies, and the last one, the dr told me if the fibroids came back, this would have to be the likely outcome, so here we are. I'm a single 56 year old, no kids. I'm just so tired of not feeling well, hence my decision. Thanks to all the voices of information and encouragement. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @TrinaMOlucci
    @TrinaMOlucci 5 місяців тому +5

    On the 25th of this month, I will undergo abdominal surgery. I want to share my story since it has been a long journey to get here.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  5 місяців тому

      Yes, please share your journey. It will help us all. Best of luck of your surgery. Praying that all goes well.

  • @sharikjohnson5820
    @sharikjohnson5820 6 місяців тому +2

    Your Theme music is everything!! Great Video. Thanks for sharing your experience

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  6 місяців тому

      Thank you! My theme music is a vibe...lol

  • @cristinacabilin7814
    @cristinacabilin7814 5 місяців тому +2

    Wow! Thank you for sharing, same with my self, i am now 25days abdominal hysterectomy

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  5 місяців тому

      All the Best🎉Good luck with your complete recovery.

  • @kyahjohnson4007
    @kyahjohnson4007 6 місяців тому +2

    Great video ! Truly inspiring how you embrace this moment in your life and be the change you want to see i love that. More power to you and your healing journey❤

  • @shaimatt826
    @shaimatt826 5 місяців тому +3

    This is a beautiful testimony, thank you so much for sharing ❤

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  5 місяців тому

      Thank you Friend! I’m glad it was helpful to you.

  • @funmiadenekan9223
    @funmiadenekan9223 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks God Bless you 🙏 for sharing much needed information and support .

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому

      You are so welcome Friend

  • @BeckyDenise
    @BeckyDenise 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank You For Sharing! 🥰

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому

      You are so welcome!

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤

  • @r-jproductions1343
    @r-jproductions1343 2 місяці тому +2

    Did they not put a tube down your throat for anesthesia? Glad you're doing well and getting better.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 місяці тому

      If they did, I have no memory of it 😅

  • @simplyayallah9226
    @simplyayallah9226 6 місяців тому +4

    i love this mom!!!!❤❤🎉🎉

  • @lasaundrabarnes7266
    @lasaundrabarnes7266 6 місяців тому +2

    Great video! So inspiring ❤

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  6 місяців тому

      Thanks so much Frenn!!

  • @irmareyes6966
    @irmareyes6966 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks.very helpful...

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 місяці тому

      @@irmareyes6966 Awesome to here 🤩

  • @cristinacabilin7814
    @cristinacabilin7814 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤,similar on my self
    3wks post op.now

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  5 місяців тому

      Hang it there ❤ Speedy recovery

  • @amiverene7139
    @amiverene7139 4 місяці тому +1

    Pray for me I’m having mine next week.🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  4 місяці тому

      I am praying for your speedy recovery. Let me know if you have any questions

  • @nikitagracias7267
    @nikitagracias7267 2 місяці тому +2

    Can we drive next day after abdominal myomectomy. I'm afraid that I have to go through this alone :(

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  2 місяці тому +1

      Hey Friend! Thanks for sharing your question. You are so strong for taking the next step. Please consult with your doctor about driving after surgery. Perhaps you can schedule a ride share to get you there and pick you up. I wasn’t able to drive because I was on medication so it was no for me. We are praying for you. Please keep us updated on your progress.

    • @nikitagracias7267
      @nikitagracias7267 2 місяці тому +2

      Thank u so much sista 🙏🏾
      U're beautiful and keep lightening others 💐💜💚💙💐

  • @ayesha-q6x6y
    @ayesha-q6x6y 6 місяців тому +1

    love this 😊

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  6 місяців тому

      Thank you 🙏

  • @funmiadenekan9223
    @funmiadenekan9223 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤ 🙏 God is Good .

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому

      All the time ❤

  • @nic12902
    @nic12902 4 місяці тому +1

    May 31st is my date. Open abdominal. So nervous😅

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому

      Praying for you Sis 🙏 Please keep us posted and how you’re doing after surgery.

    • @celinewaweru7497
      @celinewaweru7497 3 місяці тому +1

      Prayers for you dear...

  • @shaylove7843
    @shaylove7843 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your story. GOD is soooo awesome! You have a great testimony! I have just two questions to ask if you don't mind answering. Was your stomack small before the fibriods? What kind of exercises can I do for my stomack before surgery? I'm praying that my stomack gets flat. I know I will need a girdle.

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому +1

      Hi Friend! GOD is amazing! Thanks for your awesome feedback. Okay, so my stomach definitely got bigger before my surgery so I really didn’t feel comfortable working out. After my surgery it got so flat. 3 months post surgery I can exercise a bit more but decided to try my waist trainer again. I am focusing on getting back to the basics of walking and stretching. Just listening to your body and focus on healing. The rest will fall into place. You’ve got this!

    • @shaylove7843
      @shaylove7843 3 місяці тому +1

      @@gurldede thanks 🙏

  • @amorales015
    @amorales015 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m having mine 6/21 🤞🏽🙏🏽

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому +1

      Okay Friend! I will be praying for you. Keep the community posted on how you’re doing.

    • @amorales015
      @amorales015 3 місяці тому +1

      @@gurldedethank you!! I will. 😅

  • @ayesha-q6x6y
    @ayesha-q6x6y 6 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @user-wk7fg6ip3g
    @user-wk7fg6ip3g 3 місяці тому +1

    The catheter was the worst part. After that, was bk to work in a wk

    • @gurldede
      @gurldede  3 місяці тому

      So glad everything went well for you.