How To Be A Womans Priority, Not An Option
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- How To Be A Womans Priority, Not An Option
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Do you ever feel like you're just the backup plan in a woman's life? If so, you're not alone. In this video, we explore the common problem of being someone's Plan B and how to turn the tables. From setting boundaries to becoming the prize, these steps will help you go from being optional to being indispensable. Don't settle for being an afterthought, subscribe now and learn how to become her priority.
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Hi Guys... I've been making content like this since 2015 and I want to thank all of my supporters. Especially the ones who have been there from day one.
What's up with all these red pill women youtubers give men pep talk with no man in sight?
Thanks for putting it out there.Appreciated
🔷I love you Girl!!! Thank You for what you do!!! 1 day we will meet in Heaven!!!!
FYI there is a typo in your watermark
@OliviaAlexa I want you
If they don’t want your attention don’t fight to give it to em’. More than likely you’ll be spending time and money and they wouldn’t even appreciate it.
Well said sir salute 🫡.
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Definitely 💯.
Absolutely agree.
Factz
“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.” Maya Angelou
Works only for men not women ! Women need to make a man in their priority Even if she’s an option for him.
Exactly
Where said my friend
That's just common sense really
I'm 70 now. When I was around 12 or 13 my mom told me," Never let a girl know how much you like her." I didn't follow her advice and I suffered for it. Ouch!
Lol..I doubt it
The right woman is the right woman and you'll just be able to be yourself. If you have to fake it or follow some type of protocol is a fake foundation and it won't last.
Mom was right
You are the only one!
Tell her you can't stand her.
I speak for all men, prioritize pursuing your purpose and becoming the man you desire to be. Leave the situation for good if a woman disrespects you. Long as you prioritize your purpose and bettering yourself you will eventually attract the right woman. It’s all about your dignity and respect.
This… is the correct answer 💯
Correct brother. Fiending to be enough was never the natural state. That is actually Inadequacy within man’s own soul. It’s simply you are or you aren’t for that woman. That was never meant to be taken as a blow of pride. It only became weaponized by deceitful women who are then able to gain further, without the full interaction that should be present.
Man stands at the highest of the high, opposed to where we place women. We are the shield they bear, but the bearer must be worthy of that shield to begin with.
Therefore, we live in suffering made to temper our own steel. While the steel does not actually need tempering, it solely needs a better wielder. It’s become common place reverse psychology.
Agreed
fr man ,my bad i even tried after the break up to be with her together.didn`t work out obv.
ye, thanks for this advice, I really feel like this is what I have to do in order to improve.
Any woman who puts her friends above the person that they supposedly want to have a relationship with is someone that you should not waste your time with and I learned this personally the hard way and I cannot stress this enough. My ex-girlfriend was changing plans just so she could spend time with her friends and some of those friends were guys. I eventually got fed up with it and immediately it was turned around on me which was another sign that the relationship was not going to work out. I found out later on that she was actually cheating on me with one of those guy friends and the worst part was that her best friend knew about it and didn't care at all that she was lying and being unfaithful to me. Another lesson from this for all of you is always pay attention to the company that you're partner keeps because that is also a clue as to the kind of person that they are..
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Absolutely true. I was in the same situation as yours before, and the worst part of it was the fact that you know you used to be 'that guy' to her, but the moment her friends sensed it, they brainwashed her and turn her into a bad girl like them. The reason for this is most women today are not happy with the guy they are with. By extension, they can't see their friend having a happy life with a man they truly like. As they say, misery loves company. Believe me when I say this, women are far more evil than men.
@@naturalbornkiller361 Same here man, she mostly made time for her friends but not a lot for me. The odd thing is that during the breakup, one of her friends (some fat white girl) was listening to the conversation we had hiding in a corner
Ain't no way in the world I would EVER accept my woman picking friends make it females over me to go out with. Call me insecure or whatever. I'm not going for it... never have and never will
@@whowho1769 Believe me as soon as I see that again I'm bailing a lot sooner..
The first time a woman says she's unavailable, stop calling her and ice her out. If she calls and wants to get together, say you're busy and ask her to call back in a few days. This will put her in her place.
Exactly
Facts
1. Read the room
2. Reciprocate
3. U come first
4. Novelty factor
5. Be a puzzle
6. Be the prize
7. Mental engagement
8. Tactical brilliance
9. Be mysterious
Make them feel your absence! This definitely works.
Exactly
No, it works on those with attachment issues who don't even know they have them. Unless they are working to make themselves better its best to just move on.
And the single most important thing to remember for men is to never be afraid to lose that woman. Keep this in mind and act in accordance with that mindset and things will get better. Respect yourselves.
I'm starting this from right now. I'm tired. I'm putting me first
Want her to be crazy about you? Act like you don't want her and you're better off without her. Take care of yourself. Get cleaned up, fix your outfit, your smile etc and go work out and she'll get concerned. Treat her like the option instead and she'll be crazy for your approval, but you gotta be a man, don't be a doormat stand confident in yourself and make yourself unavailable.
facts
Real talk bro
Luv'n it luv'n it😊!
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Don’t even act , you just gotta be about it
Do not ever become plan b. If you see they put their phone or work first yet find time to take off work to do the things they want, but never the things you want, don't try to win her. Dump her. It's on her to figure out why she's f'd up. Trust me. You'll become Plan A immediately. Just stay the course. Either she'll confess her idiocy and apologize or she'll just whine over you being gone. The only true apology is, I will never do x again.
Yea, because plan b is your abortion.
If a chic is making excuses she clearly is not interested in you. You must have common sense. I guess a lot of people just don’t have it. How could you not know that a chic ain’t feeling you? Dating isn’t supposed to be hard. It’s supposed to be easy as hell. If a chic is too difficult it’s better to quickly move on to the next chic until you find the one who actually likes you back.
Simple but most of the time we want those who do not want us at all costs.
not all women are the same. some are gay and have gf's but they still want to have children. often they won't show interest in men
Lol...Let us know when you LEAVE FANTASY LAND
Relationships aren't supposed to be easy... they are supposed to be worth it. Nothing worth having is not worth fighting for.
This is why it seems like people aren't getting married and divorce is at a high rate. These games are child's play. From what I've seen, women don't do well with too many options... all that said, I can sum up what Olivia said in one sentence.... if you're not a priority, don't even make that person an option...cut them out completely. Not appreciating people that show you care is a character flaw...
That last sentence - that's the elephant in the room that nobody talks about. Spot on
I like the way this lady explain things. She is like a good mother who teaches her sons how to handle women
Strongly Agree 😂
To simply, focus on yourself, level up and only give your time to those who truly like you/deserve it 💯
If she's not giving the energy back it's time to let her go bruh live ya life.
Guys NEVER let a woman know you're down for her. Let her know she's always competing to keep her spot. Also, NEVER pay to play, if you're paying to get affection you're a SIMP and she will walk all over you. I let them treat me first before I open up my wallet. Remember you're the prize as a man you add value to their life as a woman they take value from your life. Get your skills and talents in place, I work on cars, I worked construction, I build guns, engines and know financial aptitude... I have a retirement, I'm 30 and I retire in 2 years. I know my worth and value, but I don't chase. I disassociate when someone shows me signs that in not a priority, if they can't see it I won't show em.
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@@ecash30 okay SIMP 😂
@@Noel127Ok CAPtain 😂😂😂
Show me how to get my money together!
She is right. I have been ignored and ghosted before so I know the feeling.
I have been ignored and ghosted, too. When she came back, she begged me to fck her. I was so not feeling her anymore, I didn't! That DROVE her insane 🤣
"Be the driving force that elevates her life from ordinary to extraordinary"...basically be unforgettable.
Any man who puts in that much effort instantly loses her respect and any desire she might have had for him.
Wrong you have to go for the broke bitches and anything you do around her elevates her life. Going all out is for suckers and SIMPS.@@chrisandsneaky2453
Why df do we have to do all that.. For some pussy? What will she do for me? Ask yourself that question fellas.. Remember, you have the power. The wealth, the status. Don’t do it for women. But do choose the woman that will be there for you through the good and through the bad.
Exactly
I made a female a priority in my life & got played like a fiddle 😂. I'm grateful to have God's 3rd eye mentality. I quickly moved on with my life, I didn't argue or go back & forth with her, I just told her about it & how I felt. It's ashame when folks, women & men can have something decent who will bend for them & they take it for granted. She did apologize, and I accepted, but that's all. Now she out here lookin' goofy asf hopping around with that different man baggage & a bad reputation. I don't wish this on anyone, but we as a society need to stop embarrassing ourselves & others on quick come ups cause it always ends badly ✌🏾
Lol..bs
God don't do third eye.
@@adrianb714 God do intelligence if that's better for you Ma'am. I could of worded that better, but I'm pretty sure God know what I meant. I hope all is well for you & yours.
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Probably shouldn’t have even told her how you felt. I’ve heard way too many girls laugh with her friends about making their boyfriends upset.
@nickthompson1812
Update on that! Someone just told me she's pregnant with baby #2 & baby daddy #2....Thank you, Lord Thank you, Jesus
I avoided that pothole 😂 but you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT on what you said bruh!.....✌🏾 👑 💯
I broke up with my ex. We had several fights along the way...but i always felt as though i was a place -holder. She told me she felt the same way coz i still have a plethora of girls following me on social media and access to exes. We then drew lines on boundaries, but i still felt from her side she was not honest about things and was always Advertising herself for male validation. She has the tendency of coming late from clubs and would not call to let me know she's home safe --I figured, a lday that makes you question her every move is not a lady to build a family with. So i ended things.
There's an atmosphere of competition between men and women in videos like these, although they all have great advice. Once you find a woman who works with you and not against you, you'll be fine. Yes, they exist. The easiest way to find them is to just to tell her you're not f*cking around and you don't play games. Be you, be real, don't flirt. And after you're together for real, don't bloat like a keg. Keep working out. Keep being confident. Be responsible. You don't need her, you want her. If you can't do this, just don't date, you're not ready. Stay on your couch playing video games and eating potato chips. If you don't love yourself no one else will.
Modern women switch their minds constantly with the endless options they’re presented with. The grass is always greener because if you don’t do it, she’ll find someone else who will.
Sad but true. Then I see these women getting beat on and sticking around.
Or....just stand on business and take care of you. Thank you, Olivia.
Maya Angelou May her Soul Rest. Never keep someone as an priority when to ‘them you’re just an option’
Damn!!! Our parents, grandparents and the ones before them didn't have to play these games. 😮😢
The first time I saw one of your videos, I subscribed immediately. Have been a fan of yours ever since. Went through this same situation a while back, and finally decided to make my exit. My only regret is not having watched this video when I was experiencing it. I would have departed the relationship a long time ago. You have a lot of wisdom and we appreciate you immensely. Looking forward to your book. Infinite Blessings!!!!! ✌️♥️🙏
Timeless Classic for the man with purpose
no girl is worth this much stress
That's why I block and move on lol
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Great job, Olivia. That advice was spot on. I'm 64, have been divorced for many years, and hook up with many young women. It always entails what I learned in sales training as a young salesman. (He who cares less, always wins.)
Can you advise me .. how do you hook up with these young women ?? 😢
The issue I have with all of this is that once I mentally check out, no matter what you do as I women, I really won't care anymore then I'm the bad guy 💀.
Words of wisdom from a wise woman. Thanks queen ❤
I always said that about myself and one of my exes agreed with me. “I am nice but I’m nobody’s doormat.”
I had to learn how to stop putting these type of women on pedestals just because they were a challenge. You don't have to try and cuff every woman you see as special she could just be a friend, a business partner, she might be your inspiration to help you creatively put something into words that before you couldn't and whether you get her or not now you'll be even smoother when you talk to the next woman.
It was a hard lesson for us all to learn bro. Now I haven’t been more happier Being myself, Focusing on myself, and knowing my worth 🧘🏾 💲🎧
Yes!!! Great advice. Women that want you will be extremely strategic in getting near you. I only date people who like me more than I like them. Those have been the best situations for me.
@@goseemekahThe way I see it is I got big things in the works and some women value what I have to offer and others will just have to come around after they see me doing big things. I consider myself a leader and source of wisdom in general so I don't always fully cut my losses every time. If she come correct and make it worth my time and show she's not the same liability she was in the past.
"these type of women on pedestals" so there's a certain type of woman you want to put on a pedestal si mps.
@@shaunoffrange8122😂 So you just gone ignore the first part of that sentence huh?
Have self respect if she doesn’t respond positively to your pursuit then treat it like she is not interested
Exactly
"Have you ever felt like a woman's plan B when you should have been her first choice?" ... I've never even been on a woman's radar, let alone her plan B.
"Be the prize." ... That would begin with society no longer saying that the woman is the prize.
Good for your cousin. Once someone shows us how they REALLY feel about us, that's when it's time to forget all about them and move on, even if they come running back to us. Good for your cousin for moving on from Maria.
You deserve 1M+ subs. You helped me identify the manipulations my ex used on me for the past 2 months and cut loss in time. While feeling traumatized, you helped me regain confidence. Can't thank you enough.
You put so many things into perspective"A woman's insight speaking to men In a way"That men don't feel discarded"Into situations,"That are totally unnecessary,Causing distress and failure to a man's ego and self-esteem!! You are one of the few who speak about this dynamic!
No matter what you do, they won't appreciate it, so it's better to just be happy, enjoy yourself
Just focus on your purpose and obtain value. The answer to all things
When your 30 - 40 women will throw themselves at you
Stay cold my bois. Sacrifice your 20s and 30s by putting in the work it WILL pay off TRUST
Women are the LEAST of your worries.
Like my pops told me “women will ALWAYS be around, never chase.”
I am only 30 and dang near tired of dating already. I could see myself building attraction and getting bored in the process and walking away.
@@mateaukalua4426yeah it gets worse more and more. Too many games and traps
@@mateaukalua4426So you want to accept those women who hit the wall between 30 and 40 after being run through in their 20s and rejecting you while they could still choose and even consider that a win?
@@kralexprofill4571 What do you mean bro? Also usually women who are 35 to 45 usually give me the least resistance. Any younger and they're playing a ton of games.
Thanks, sis! This is fucking amazing coming from a strong woman herself. It's rare you get a woman talking about women (in a man's favor). 👊✨️🙏💯
Like your self help vids you put out . I was raised by my Mom ( strong lady ) my dad was the BOOT CAMP & he spoke only one time . Well back to your topic my mom would preach there's gal's , broads & then the lady . Only be a priority to a lady therefore I don't walk this earth attempting to win over street chick's , pass around gal's , a lady knows how to make me her priority , if she cannot accomplish that , I'm ghosting her , she wasted My time . That trying to impress female's stopped when I turn 13yrs of age . I know my strength
I think this is a problem that the world makes people believe they supposed to have “ options”. If you thinking about options you’ll never be fully committed with your entire brain and heart to the person your with. This is why America is so unhealthy everyone wants more than one option 🤦🏽♂️. Focus on God first and he’ll fill in the blanks. If a woman views you as an option move on from her rapidly!! Pure LOVE will never be a chest match.
Great word Sis ! Thx for watchin out for us guys like a good Sis would.
Another thing Is to get her sexually and emotionally addicted. u can bypass alot of bs if u are able to do that, not to say that not being on your purpose or anything like that is not a part of it because it is but getting her sexually and emotionally addicted does so much and hit so many emotions in her! Once u figure that out start to ration it. What some women will not tell average men is that the guy she desired is the guy that's always on her mind. Why?
Because that guy got her emotions stirred up and that turns her on. That's why there's tons of women that still chase the guy she always complain about. Be a man, be masculine and develop that sexusl and emotional energy with her. And no you don't have to be toxic...
Absolutely flawless advice for us men. You are professional, always getting better, and what you do could single handily help the world. Really good video. Your ability to explain is unparalleled. You are the best I've ever seen in this area.
When you launch the book, because you will, I had an idea you should go on some interview shows. Some panel shows or such. I'm not sure how that would work for you, but if you can do those and express your thoughts in real-time responses and dialogue it would definitely reach more and put you on the map where your insight belongs.
Good work. Always impressed with your quality.
So much depth in this. You can break this one down more and continue so much more. A lot of wisdom not just talk in this...hope you start your momentum again and put more out more frequently. It's much appreciated and hopefully this channel can become valuable $ for you. I've heard a lot from others....you stand out. Keep going.
We must protect this woman at all times. She’s preaching.
Lol..WTF is WRONG with you
I saw the caption and fell back I'm just here for the class.
Remain firm and may God's peace be with you.
Since watching your videos, it really made me think about everything that I missed during my marriage and then divorce.
The Law of Reciprocity! Good deal Olivia and great content as always. Keep doing your thing and I will catch you on the next one. Peace
That's dope!! Absolutely on the money! If they treat you like an option treat them the same. You teach people how to treat you. Guys only deal with women with a high interest in you and know your worth. Peace ✌
I'm so thankful for his video. It's ice to know that they're people out there to help us. Thanks Olivia Alexa.
I appreciate your content you keep me awake 🙏🏾
While I do think you had the best intentions in making this video, hearing this makes me want to avoid such women all together. I get it, there's always the thrill of the chase when the relationship is new. But someone like this is not worth 2 minutes. To think, if the goal is to find a lifelong partner, would someone that needs mind-chess all the be worth the effort? Bottom line, if I know I'm de-prioritized, I'm de-prioritizing her, first by deleting her number and then moving on.
Thank you, sis... I needed this blueprint.
Don't listen woman's advice,,, it is based on her personal feelings
Whats the point of forcing someone to take you seriously by being tactful, the moment you sense such behavior you should start finding someone else right away and start planning to dump her ass because it is just a matter of time before things become sticky again.
First thing ,create your self worth and then start meeting lot of women at once, second thing, choose the one who sees your value all by herself . My point is unless you truly have value you don't have leverage in the dating market, so pre-selection starts before dating phase even begins.
Great stuff Olivia, sent a Super Thanks🙏
Thank you queen for giving game. I run into this too often. I have some things to improve on. Lately I've been focused on myself leaving some women on read. Taking time to respond to calls, text. So far I have found my peace in not chasing, working to improve my value before dating another woman
Queen? Lol
OMG! THANK YOU, your videos make sense. Its not what I wanted to hear but its all I NEED TO HEAR. thank you for sharing so openly and editing so consicely. You are a great person. this openness is next level. Appreciate your content sooo much.
So what I been thinking. I am glad you covered.
Instead of being straight up, we have to play these childish games. It's not even worth it
Thanks Ms. Olivia Great video!!! 🎯🎯🎯💯💯
Everything you said is pure facts. Great for Olivia💯
Never struggle for importance. It rarely changes.
Thank you for this...As I have always said...Be no one's second choice or go to when all options are gone for the woman. Let them wallow in their misery, and just find another that fits all check marks. Do not take any disrespect! I could say more...But... Peace
Your awesome! Blessings sis
Awesome..thank OA..God bless u n your program
Clearly on point Lov!🎯💯😎
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 PREACH!! Thank you this Love ! ❤️
By far the best advice!!!!! Thank you!
Look, I love you.
I love your energy and I love that you're helping people here but if it takes this much work then I'm sorry I don't want a second job thats about to fire me at any second.
Thank you, ma'am. You are literally saving humanity!
I just saw this. Great teaching!
So true, I agree with this!
Very good on point coaching.
This video is needed 🔥
Thank you I needed to hear this today
I'll be honest I don't use any real trucks or games. Once a girl shows she is interested be nice but not readily available. The longer you make her wait the more they want to go out with you. I was flirting with my gf for weeks but never asked her out. One day she came over, sat down and said Ok when?" I said in a couple of weeks your too busy for me right now. Once a girl likes you it never ends. It's men who lose interest in the unattainable.
Er, that is a trick/game bro'
Its not a trick if you just dont rush in and make sure the girl is legit and not just playing with you.@@countdowntorevolution9986
Yo providing this type of insight just made you the official Wonder woman, my hat is off. I solute you, your 💯
On point ❤
If she's not interested then none of these steps are really going to matter. Even still these are good for men to implement to get emotional leverage on themselves and focus on finding a woman who will see them as 1st place winner. But these steps are not primarily about seeing what effect it will have on the women who treat him as 2nd place option.
At the end of the day I think it's about learning not to take women personally either on the positive or negative side. Don't be too excited if she shows interest and don't be too disappointed if she doesn't otherwise she will own you forever even if on a conscious level she is not interested in controlling you.
I can definitely say that All of these tips work, very vital for creating a strong foundation of Respect the Relationship
Phenomenal video. Thanks.
❤ Awesome insight indeed
I agree with oliva 100%.
Great video and knowledge ermosa lady.
Yes ma'am. Realtalk 👑 👍🏾 💯🎉
Thanks!
Wow this was great!
Wow thanks for the info
I’ve been listening to you and you give great advice. 👍🏾
Ima always flip the script and keep em guessing! yes. Thank you 👏
Great video thank you 👍🏻
This video is insightful ...really helpful
This is exactly what happened to me last week, for the last time I'd say. On Dec 17 she flaked 2 hours prior to our first date, saying she was sick, so I said that's okay.. we rescheduled for the following week. Then she flaked 30 minutes before meeting with our mutual friends for dinner. Then she flaked again last week 1 hour before taking her to a very nice Bistrot. That was it, even if she asked for forgiveness, saying something about work came up (again), and even if she asked if we could reschedule for the weekend, I said NO.. "I'm sorry but you're not excused, this can happen 1 time, not 3 in a month, and it could happen again."To which she only replied: "I wish you a good evening". What the hell is this? She didn't text me since then. I certainly won't, I'm mad.
God bless you Girl 👍🏻
You made some really good points in your video . I especially liked the one that you mentioned
about boundaries. It's important to have them to acknowledge your on self worth.
Keep up the good work Olivia. 😮 2: 28. Pm