31 Things I Quit to Reduce the Overwhelm & Simplify My Life

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  • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
    @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  18 днів тому +35

    NOTE: MY APOLOGIES FOR THE CLICKING SOUND IN A SHORT PORTION OF THE VIDEO. MY NECKLACE WAS CLICKING MY MIC AND I WAS UNAWARE OF IT UNTIL LATER. OOPS!
    Onward...😀
    What have you QUIT that has made something simpler in your day. I've enjoyed reading your tips and questions in the comments. Thank you for watching and sharing! 😊💖

    • @Eve181dublin
      @Eve181dublin 15 днів тому +2

      Hi there, I’m new to your channel. Are you related to the teacher Ms Chang?! You have same positive energy!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  15 днів тому +2

      @@Eve181dublin Hi Eve. No, I'm not. But I had to look her up. 😄 What a fun person! I guess we both like positive energy. 😁

    • @Flieder9
      @Flieder9 15 днів тому +1

      Thank you. It is hard for me to listen to your tips while the necklace pendant is hitting the microphone. Talk about HSPs….

    • @Eve181dublin
      @Eve181dublin 15 днів тому +1

      Absolutely! And it’s appreciated - you’re both great pick me ups with useful advice 👏😻 happy vibes 😀

    • @deborahgraham3972
      @deborahgraham3972 14 днів тому

      #31 Yes, yes, yes! 🙌🏼👑

  • @carolgomborone6034
    @carolgomborone6034 17 днів тому +86

    "NO" is a complete sentence...no explanation needed! Period. Amen.😇

  • @RockerProf
    @RockerProf 9 днів тому +75

    The problem with using debit cards is that debit cards are not as protective against fraud as credit cards. Trying to get your money back on fraudulent debit card purchases is much more difficult than getting your money back on fraudulent credit card purchases. My son, who is a vice president of risk assessment at one of the largest banks in this country, told me that I should never use my debit card because the way that debit card purchases are dealt with where fraud is concerned are not as efficient or consumer- friendly as credit cards.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  9 днів тому +2

      I appreciate your input. Thank you for watching and commenting!

    • @HopefulEmpath
      @HopefulEmpath 8 днів тому +10

      You’re right. I never use my debit card for purchases either online or in person. Your bank account could be emptied if the card info was part of a data breach. I use a separate CC that I pay off before the statement end of cycle. I keep my credit utilization below 5%.

    • @flohough1870
      @flohough1870 8 днів тому +8

      100% accurate. Your liability limit on a credit card is $50. On a debit card, it could be everything you have in that account and worse yet if your savings account is attached to your checking for overdraft protection. My debit card is strictly used to withdraw cash from an ATM, and only ones owned by my bank.

    • @RodiniAuguste
      @RodiniAuguste 7 днів тому +5

      An FBI agent told me the same thing: never use your debit card for purchase and only use a debit card at the bank ATM network only.

    • @faithrada
      @faithrada 7 днів тому +3

      I never use my bank debit card... that would put my bank savings at risk... plus other issues.
      As far as check writing.. I keep that acount fairly low just in case it gets stolen, "washed", and the amount changed. I ALWAYS mail any check payments DIRECTLY into the Post Office fir better security. Plus, I use a special pen where the Ink can not be "washed" and altered.
      I DO use credit cards for Safety reasons.. carrying a lot of cash around makes me WAY too nervous. Of course.. ALWAYS pay cards OFF.. in FULL.. ASAP. 😊

  • @lindahassell9711
    @lindahassell9711 6 днів тому +32

    I’m a first-time listener. I really appreciate the tip to worship before reading the Bible!

  • @Ruthie843
    @Ruthie843 11 днів тому +56

    The tip that resonates the most with me is the idea that I don't have to be productive all day. What a relief and thank you!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  11 днів тому +1

      You're so welcome! Realizing that takes pressure off of us that we just don’t need. Lol!
      I appreciate your watching and commenting!

    • @vivienlee610
      @vivienlee610 4 дні тому

      Same here and I didn't realise it until I heard this just now!

  • @janetstonerook4552
    @janetstonerook4552 11 днів тому +47

    I'm retired and have learned to pace myself as I too cannot be productive all day long. I get up at 5 a.m. and I try to do at least 3 of the hardest tasks first by midmorning. This a.m. it was cleaning up my kitchen, laundry room and sanitizing the kitty litter area. Then i reward myself with a great lunch and a little me time ( which usually means a warm bath and a wee nap!). By mid-p.m. my energy is mellow and I do less demanding, more creative stuff. And I enjoy my evenings with reading, music, catching up with friends in person or on line. No heavy duty late night work. Befure I go to bed, I do write a list of my 3 big tasks to do the next morning 😊.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  11 днів тому +2

      I like the way you structure your day. I don’t do any heavy work in the evening either. I’m just done by then. Lol
      And sometimes I’ll have a midmorning nap myself. Lol.
      Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you.😊

  • @bananie2383
    @bananie2383 3 дні тому +10

    Hi Gwen! I quit being with people who are not kind to me or others. I surround myself with joyful, happy and loving friends. 😊

  • @SharonDLorse
    @SharonDLorse 9 днів тому +44

    We never answer unknown calls. If it is a valid call they will leave a message and we can return call.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  9 днів тому

      That's how I see it
      I appreciate your watching and commenting!

    • @paularose847
      @paularose847 5 днів тому

      Me too!

    • @arabellalunkes4532
      @arabellalunkes4532 4 дні тому +1

      I don’t even have an answer service anymore. If I recognize the number I call back, otherwise no worries.

  • @sandyd2527
    @sandyd2527 3 дні тому +8

    Thank you for the tips. No coincidence that I came across your video, today I woke up thinking that I need to declutter and get rid of things I don't need. Four months ago I became a widow. I live alone and I need to simplify my life. It's only me and Jesus now. My spiritual life and natural living have to be at peace.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  2 дні тому +3

      Sandy, I'm so sorry you became a widow 4 months ago. I am happy that God sent you my way. I don't think it's by accident either. I will do my best to create content that will be helpful to you as you simplify your life in this new season. I said a prayer for you as I sent this reply. Love and prayers to you. 💖

  • @candacechapman4689
    @candacechapman4689 6 днів тому +20

    Not explaining myself is one that resonated with me. I've been working on this. It's ok to just say "I'm not available". You don't owe anyone explanations.
    Another is feeling like I need to be productive all day. This is a big one for me! Even when I'm sat down I'm making notes in my notepad for what's next or going through emails on my phone. I've been trying to teach myself that if I'm feeling burnt out, taking some time to just do nothing and recharge is actually a form of being productive. Hear me out! For me to be functioning at my optimum level, recognising when I need to recharge and not wasting mental energy feeling guilty about that overall leads to being more productive. I hope that makes sense!

  • @meriawakened
    @meriawakened 12 днів тому +25

    I quit getting manicures. So freeing. I also stopped painting my toenails. I stopped doing an errand each day. I just pick one day in the week to get all the errands done.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  12 днів тому

      Running errands is one of the things I dislike the most. Lol. My husband will often run errands on his way home from work.
      I'm not a fan of getting my nails done because I don't like sitting for it or paying that much. Lol. When I'm sitting there I'm thinking of all the other things I could be doing. And I kind of like painting my own nails.
      Now if I can just get past coloring my hair... Lol.

    • @ingegaasbeek296
      @ingegaasbeek296 3 дні тому

      ​@@simplifyyourlifewithgwenWhat a wonderful life you live... so much LOL Your husband married a teen! LOL!! Get real.

    • @bethweiss229
      @bethweiss229 3 дні тому

      ​@@simplifyyourlifewithgwen That's one thing I'm working on: quit fighting with my hair. It's crazy naturally curly and probably all white under there somewhere. Trying to wash and go, and come to grips with it's real color! 👩‍🦳

  • @whatsonmymind3366
    @whatsonmymind3366 19 днів тому +61

    #9 turning the storage containers upset down to see what’s in it. Brilliant

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  19 днів тому +5

      @@whatsonmymind3366 You can probably imagine how much food I wasted until I figured this out. Lol. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654
      @judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 16 днів тому +1

      ⁠ I put posted notes on lids
      With my luck, the lid would fall off if it’s upside down

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  16 днів тому +1

      @@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 that's a great tip.

    • @virginiabaker4471
      @virginiabaker4471 7 днів тому +1

      I just went to my fridge and turned things over! It also seals the top so air can't get in. Brilliant indeed!❤

    • @yvonneschermerhorn866
      @yvonneschermerhorn866 3 дні тому

      This makes such good sense! What a concept! Thanks.

  • @aleithea2715
    @aleithea2715 12 днів тому +37

    Wonderful video. Loved no. 31. We can never lose out by remembering how awesome our God is.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  12 днів тому +1

      @@aleithea2715 I agree! I appreciate your watching and commenting! 💗

    • @rondaellison2955
      @rondaellison2955 8 днів тому

      I’m happy to hear another sister in Christ likes to worship the Lord before settling in to Bible study 💕

  • @laurennguyen1008
    @laurennguyen1008 17 днів тому +36

    I love the idea of not cleaning all at once. I'm retired and there's no reason I can't just do 1 thing I don't like to do a day (bathrooms, floors, etc.)

  • @beverlyjones3657
    @beverlyjones3657 8 днів тому +15

    I think the last one is probably going to be the most influential overall the rest. So often I try to tackle my life and daily chores without touching base with the Holy Spirit first. I’ve also found that if I pray the Lord’s prayer, reminding myself I only have this day to be responsible for, it puts things into a better, more balanced perspective. This is the first time I’ve listened to any of your videos and I’ve enjoyed every single suggestion. Thank you for sharing. You are inspiring me.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  7 днів тому

      You are so kind. Thank you. 💖
      #31 has definitely made the biggest impact on my life. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

  • @melissamoore9764
    @melissamoore9764 12 днів тому +19

    Hi Gwen! Thank you for telling me about Dave Ramsey. I just paid off 2 small debts. I put everything I owe on paper and added it up . I was shocked at how much I really owe. Way more than what I thought. Besides 2 credit cards I have other companies that I make monthly payments too. Today Saturday August 31st I made an intentional plan to pay off all of my debts. I have my mind set that this will happen and make happen paying my debt off. I made budget for September and up to March 2025. Did all of this - this afternoon. I feel God had your video pop up to meet you and get help and motivation in different areas in my life. God bless you Gwen. 💜Have a Happy Labor Day weekend. 💜

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  12 днів тому +2

      Way to go Melissa!!! I'm so proud of you!!! You are going to feel so great to have these debts paid off. You can do it. 🙌🏼
      I'm thankful God brought you to my channel and I'm so happy I could help. You comments made my day! God bless you and thank you for watching! 💖

  • @jennifergarbett96
    @jennifergarbett96 11 днів тому +24

    I like to know what's in my freezers, so I can meal plan & budget. I have 2 tips to share: I label all the containers that go in and second I keep a paper list of what's in the freezer. So much easier to plan off the paper than standing by the cold freezer.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  11 днів тому +1

      Great tips. If I don’t label freezer items I’ll have no idea what something is. Lol.
      I appreciate your watching and commenting!

    • @user-rb4ki6ew9g
      @user-rb4ki6ew9g День тому

      This is a great idea! Index what’s frozen in that deep abyss especially when the labels wear off and I have to de- thaw to figure out what is in that mystery package😂

  • @TubeYouLena
    @TubeYouLena 7 днів тому +17

    first time i met a person who does not like dishwashers. i hate that automation as well. Ialways wash dishes fast as soon as i have them, dry them with a towel, put back where they should be and that's it. done. thanks for mentioning this, now i know i am not the only one.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  7 днів тому +4

      There are a few of us that don't like dishwashers. 😁

    • @maureengalusha3172
      @maureengalusha3172 5 днів тому +2

      First time listener as well. This is funny, I always wash pots and pans after dinner and I don't do dishwasher for a couple of days because there are just two of us but I will rinse everything. I hate putting away dishes from dishwasher but I do not even think, just wash the dishes and put them away!! Oh my word! And, no is a complete sentence, perfectly said. 😉 worship before prayer and Bible reading. So many ahas but those are the ones that stand out. Thank you for sharing 😊

    • @vivienlee610
      @vivienlee610 4 дні тому +1

      You're not the only one!

    • @ellenhofer3343
      @ellenhofer3343 2 дні тому

      Dishwashers save water.
      Hand washing really does waste water.. first washing, and then rinsing

    • @TubeYouLena
      @TubeYouLena 2 дні тому

      @@ellenhofer3343 i personally do not use water when ‘washing’, only wet rug and dish soap involved. Then i rinse. And this process is much more enjoyable to me. Not everybody would like this practice and agree with reasoning behind it. Totally agree on that. :)

  • @skaycgoldenridge
    @skaycgoldenridge 15 днів тому +45

    My own, personal quote I made for myself and that I have lived by for many years..."Organization is the key to sanity."

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  15 днів тому +4

      Oh, sister, I agree 100%. I cannot live in an unorganized environment. It doesn't have to be perfect but it does need to have order.

    • @skaycgoldenridge
      @skaycgoldenridge 15 днів тому

      @@simplifyyourlifewithgwen Agreed :)

    • @blackswan5756
      @blackswan5756 3 дні тому +2

      Love your quote. It's going on my wall ! :)

  • @pearljames5838
    @pearljames5838 6 днів тому +10

    I am 64 and I identify with so much of what you are doing. I have quit doing so much and really simply my life.

  • @eleanorbenner1885
    @eleanorbenner1885 16 днів тому +23

    I love "can't good be good enough?" It can!

  • @marietroutman4584
    @marietroutman4584 12 днів тому +16

    First time I ever saw your video. Loved number 31. I am going to love your videos. I am a 75 year old Christian.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  12 днів тому +3

      Maria, welcome to my channel! I am so blessed that you are here and I appreciate your watching and commenting. You have blessed me. 💖
      #31 is my absolute favorite! 🙌🏼

  • @debkincaid2891
    @debkincaid2891 8 днів тому +10

    I'm with you on the credit cards: I never feel like I own the thing I bought on credit card until the bill is paid. It takes the joy out of the purchase for me. Whereas, if I pay cash, the joy is NOW. 😊

  • @TarmoAlholinna
    @TarmoAlholinna 3 дні тому +3

    I like that! No random places!! I decided to put my phone always on the charger… I always get rid of my mail now everyday. Either pay the bill or shred the junk mail.. ❤each bathroom has its own cleaning supplies.

  • @naturalwitchery
    @naturalwitchery 5 днів тому +5

    Our rule of thumb on clothes is I have to LOVE it. Like, I put it on and say, I LOVE THIS! or it's a no.

  • @leeanneshaw1899
    @leeanneshaw1899 19 днів тому +25

    Oh the explaining myself hit home and feeling like I have to be productive everyday

  • @margrose5
    @margrose5 9 днів тому +12

    Some good ideas. I’m not giving up my dishwasher, though!!

  • @ernie9071
    @ernie9071 14 днів тому +21

    #32 Every two years give away 4 or 5 box’s of things that you thought would make you happy. Give it to someone who recently had a tragedy in their life. Thing’s don’t bring you happiness but, blessing other’s will. Don’t be a pack rat, no one brings a thing with them when it’s all said and done.

  • @HelloThere12341
    @HelloThere12341 3 дні тому +4

    I did many of these from my early 20s and more so now in my 30 I’m just lazy and found doing stuff like these living life easier 😅😅😅 good to know I’m not alone.

  • @lynnmeade1669
    @lynnmeade1669 15 днів тому +14

    These are great. My shopping mantra, that began with my teenage daughters, If you don’t LOVE it at the store, you won’t LIKE it when it’s in your closet. This helped them to decide whether or not they should buy it. They are around 30 now, and still use this.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  15 днів тому +1

      That's a great mantra. I have found the same to be true.

    • @proudmoon3
      @proudmoon3 14 днів тому

      Unfortunately, if I followed that rule, I'd be running around naked! lol Never can find anything that's "just right." 🤷‍♀

  • @Star-333
    @Star-333 9 днів тому +9

    Just found your channel-
    I like cleaning and doing laundry over time rather than all in one day.
    Separately, laundry is never ending. Today even though I need to do it I won’t because I have other things to do that I have been putting off that are important- if I start the laundry I’ll get caught up in it. You can get sucked into all the recurring tasks and not have time to do other things like get your pantry ready for winter, clean out /organize your closets, etc. One thing I’ve noticed is I always think the next week I’ll have more time to do those kinds of things and I never do. I am dedicating a day off to those tasks that never seem to get done. Sometimes that’s all you can do.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  9 днів тому +2

      Oh I get it. Next week always seems like it has more time... until you get there. Lol.
      I appreciate your watching and commenting!

  • @maryannpapandrea3086
    @maryannpapandrea3086 18 днів тому +21

    Not being a perfect teacher sounds good. Teachers are always told, by administrators, how their lesson could have been better. It’s a never ending battle. I’ll do my best.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  18 днів тому +6

      I think our best is the most reasonable thing to give. Thank you for being a teacher. You are a blessing to your students.
      Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you. : )

    • @Jennifer-nz2ss
      @Jennifer-nz2ss 5 днів тому

      You should transfer to another school where they respect and encourage their teachers. Not make them feel bad. Teaching is a dieing art and most are retiring or going into another profession. They are lucky to have you! Resect yourself and move on!😊

  • @CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom
    @CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 15 днів тому +15

    .I use to force myself to finish watching movies I was not enjoying or finishing a book that is boring. I no longer do this

  • @user-vz8mi6vc5w
    @user-vz8mi6vc5w 14 днів тому +11

    When you said your done in the afternoon because I too struggle with this. Thank you for making feel like I'm not the only one.❤

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  14 днів тому

      There are many of us. 😀
      I appreciate your watching and commenting. 😀

    • @kassandramcpherson2839
      @kassandramcpherson2839 День тому

      You’re not the only one! This goes for the gym, too. If I don’t get there by noon, forget it, it doesn’t happen!

  • @dr8nkw0t8r
    @dr8nkw0t8r 4 дні тому +5

    When we say "yes" to one person or group, we are automatically saying "no" to someone else. Too often, by default, that "no" is to those we care about the most.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  4 дні тому +1

      @@dr8nkw0t8r you are so right.

    • @kassandramcpherson2839
      @kassandramcpherson2839 День тому +1

      THIS!! and the “no” is usually to my precious family bc I’m running around fulfilling my “yesses” to everyone else

  • @arabellalunkes4532
    @arabellalunkes4532 4 дні тому +4

    One thing I don’t do anymore that has been one of the best is having friends who were too demanding … I feel so relived and hardly even even remember them, while 6 months ago I considered them almost best friends. What a waste of my time they were. Sadly, but happily!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  4 дні тому

      @@arabellalunkes4532 sometimes that’s necessary.

    • @ellenhofer3343
      @ellenhofer3343 2 дні тому

      I have found out who my real friends are by stopping to send them messages first or calling them. Some I've never heatd from again.

  • @tmonaghan9
    @tmonaghan9 4 дні тому +3

    For years I couldn’t say no. I remember when I started saying no, my life became much easier and I didn’t feel bad for doing it.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  4 дні тому

      @@tmonaghan9 exactly. People hear no all the time. It’s really not as big of a deal as we think it is.

  • @margaretfrise8047
    @margaretfrise8047 19 днів тому +14

    I really think the dishes are more sanitary when they are put through a dishwasher, especially cups during cold season.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  19 днів тому +10

      @@margaretfrise8047 I have a friend who feels the same way. And it’s probably true.
      I wash in the hottest water possible and figure people have been handwashing since the beginning of time so we’re probably okay. 😁
      Thank you for watching. I appreciate you.

  • @lollettealipe9363
    @lollettealipe9363 13 днів тому +5

    I’m a senior and it’s wonderful to find another person who does a lot of things the same way as I have been doing. #31 is exactly what I do for my morning devotions…and my favorite song to start worship is “Goodness of God” by Cece Winans! Isn’t this amazing? I totally agree with your #22. We haven’t had a credit card for the past 30 years and we’re doing fine. May I add one more thing? I have pairs of scissors by the kitchen sink, coffee station, in the drawers of tables in the dining room and living room, beside my desk, my vanity table, and the counter of the bathroom. And I have a small one inside my purse. This way I don’t have to keep looking for one when I need it. God bless your heart for sharing these tips. When we simply our lives we can focus on what really matters.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  13 днів тому

      I love Goodness of God! It's one of my favorites.
      I agree with having scissors where you need them. Good point. I have them in my office, three in the kitchen (one for cutting up chicken which I never do anymore) and one in the bathroom.
      Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you!

  • @vondasmith8715
    @vondasmith8715 18 днів тому +11

    Love #31! Going to do that! Great idea! After all, that’s what we all do in church. We worship and praise first and then receive the Word of God! I have been doing the opposite in my devotion time. Thank you for sharing this! Have a Blessed Day!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  17 днів тому

      #31 is my favorite and has made the biggest impact on my life. Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you! 😊

  • @sarajean671
    @sarajean671 4 дні тому +3

    I like the worship before reading the Bible. It helps change spending time with God from being just one more chore to check off the list to putting it back into being a part of my lifestyle. I can worship anytime, anywhere!

  • @themurnane7
    @themurnane7 8 днів тому +13

    I would love to see your idea of a capsule wardrobe and I really enjoyed your video today great ideas

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  7 днів тому

      Awesome! A capsule wardrobe is on the list. Thank you for your kind words, and for watching and commenting!

  • @orobinson721
    @orobinson721 5 днів тому +5

    Trying to be perfect and feeling like I always have to be productive.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  4 дні тому

      @@orobinson721 those hung me up for so long. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 😊

  • @galejohnson8086
    @galejohnson8086 14 днів тому +12

    I agree with cleaning supplies in every space. I have them in both bathrooms and kitchen area.

  • @tammygarrett9261
    @tammygarrett9261 3 дні тому +2

    I quit everything.😁 I only do what I feel like. Some times I can go for days not doing nothing, and I'm fine with it. I hate when I tell hubby, DON'T answer the phone! He answers. Sometimes I DON'T want to talk to anyone right now, he STILL answers the phone. I swear at him cause he HAS to answer the phone. He retires soon. It's gonna be so much fun.

  • @ediewilson4043
    @ediewilson4043 14 днів тому +8

    What time-saving, mind-altering, straight up helpful advice. You are such a brilliant speaker. This was the first time I have seen one of your videos, but I definitely want to see more. My favorites were stop spending without a plan and stop keeping things you don’t wear.
    Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  14 днів тому

      You are so kind. 💓 Thank you for that. I appreciate your watching and commenting! 😀

  • @CMorgan-qy5qh
    @CMorgan-qy5qh 17 днів тому +9

    I'd love to hear about your capsule wardrobe

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  17 днів тому +2

      I made note of it. Thank you for your input. I appreciate you watching and commenting!

  • @sammybrown6703
    @sammybrown6703 9 днів тому +5

    I totally agree with 29 & 30. It was hard at first to say no to anyone. After many major health problems I learned very quickly that I had to learn to say no. Also, no explanation should be required.

  • @karenacox8932
    @karenacox8932 8 днів тому +5

    First video I’ve seen of yours. How cute. I like hand washing my dishes instead of using the dishwasher too. Love your tips. Yes, God is good. Thanks for the video.

  • @user-qt2sd4ws9m
    @user-qt2sd4ws9m 3 години тому

    I am in the process of decluttering my home. I get so stressed when I see too many things sitting around, and then I get overwhelmed and just don't do any of the housework I had planned on. The biggest challenge for me is fully completing our supper dishes. They will stay stacked in the dish drainer for days, while I play clean dish Jenga to dig out a bowl I need 😂
    I finished the closet and drawer clean out. Now I am working on buying a good set of bakeware to use and thay will last so that I can donate the random pieces and parts that I rarely even use! I have a aluminum cookie sheet that i accidentally put in the dishwasher and ruined it, I will not use it but yet I still have it for "what if" I am trying to do better but let me tell you, its a process 😊
    Dont even get me started on the unread books. If I see a Christian book and the cover looks good I get it, thinking Ill read it later then (you guessed it) I never do.
    One thing I did do is have my husband build me a hanging rack for my calphalon and cast iron and it's hanging on the wall.That way I canfind it easily, use it, wash it and put it away rather than have to dig it out of the cabinet.

  • @creativeman17
    @creativeman17 12 днів тому +5

    Great stuff Gwen. You could have entitled this "How To Live Your Life". I relate so much to many of your points but being male I can disregard all the the things mentioned for the ladies. Organization, yes; clothing issues, yes;credit card use, yes, and so on. I have a system I call the " X theory of organization ". Everything goes on the X! Keys, glasses, drivers license, back scrathers, body brush, etc. At 81, time is my most precious " thing". I don't want to waste a minute of it, hence the desire to make every motion count. Cleaning? I choose to be neutral in thought. Just do it! And love the result!
    Scissors? I have recently bought 4 more pair to place on X's where needed! One of my best ideas (I think) is my "door buddies". Boxes I have made that go beside main doors so that there is always a resting place for packages, groceries, miscellaneous items so that your hands can be free to open and close the doors. No bending over! I capture water when doing dishes in gallon jugs then I can use that waste water to water my garden. I have a gym membership and go every other day to shave, sauna, spa, and shower. Eliminates ALL cleaning. Enough for now, but there is more!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  12 днів тому

      You have a great system! It helps so much to stay on top of things. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

  • @victoryamartin9773
    @victoryamartin9773 3 дні тому +7

    I quit doing everything but feeding my animals, cleaning up their poo, walking my dog, reading my Bible, going to church, and watching UA-cam videos. That's my life. Oh ya, and I eat a little. And drink coffee in the morning.

  • @LadyLocksley
    @LadyLocksley 2 дні тому +1

    Your #31 is THE best. I will take that one and worship first and then read my Bible. Thank you!

  • @elainemonterio22
    @elainemonterio22 19 днів тому +9

    I enjoyed you so much. You are so honest, down to earth just like so many of us, but don't admit these things. You gave me so many ideas that make sense like the mail, when your a senior every organization thinks you can give to all. I wish I could. Thank you, I can't wait to tell my daughter. You. Are great and very helpful.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  19 днів тому

      @@elainemonterio22 Thank you so much Elaine. I’m glad these tips were helpful. And thank you for sharing with your daughter. 😊

  • @hopefulforhumanity5625
    @hopefulforhumanity5625 4 дні тому +2

    I think your advice to worship first before reading the Bible is excellent. I agree it would help to quiet the mind to be more receptive to God's word. I have found modern American life to be very fast-paced and a huge amount of work. I beat myself up for years for not being able to keep up with my own desires for perfection. I am trying to simplify everything these days.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  3 дні тому

      I understand completely. I think we are often just too hard on ourselves. I have lightened up quite a bit as I've gotten older. 😊

  • @sweetsarah9702
    @sweetsarah9702 9 днів тому +5

    First time seeing your channel - subscribed now. So many of these make so much sense and I have done many of them, but need to take care of several more!. I do have a tip for you - there is a way on your phone (at least there is on my iPhone) that any call coming in from a number that is not in my contacts will not ring, but go automatically to voicemail. If it is a legit call, they will leave a message and I can call them back. Also, all my appointments are kept in my phone calendar. I always have it with me, so I pull it out whenever I need to schedule something. No way could I remember all the "things". I am a retired widow, Bible study leader and prayer warrior - not necessarily in that order!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  9 днів тому

      Thank you for sharing you tips!
      I appreciate your watching, commenting, and subscribing!

    • @terricoach7119
      @terricoach7119 5 днів тому

      yes, just discovered this and it is great.

  • @ws6284
    @ws6284 9 днів тому +8

    Not only do I not answer unknown numbers, I no longer have a voicemail. It's life changing not to have to go in and delete all the spam messages.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  9 днів тому

      Great tip. I appreciate your watching and commenting!

    • @virginiabaker4471
      @virginiabaker4471 7 днів тому +3

      AND I don't answer the door unless I'm expecting someone. Family is different and I love my video door bell for this!!❤

  • @debrabenson4613
    @debrabenson4613 18 днів тому +16

    Wow! I love #31....I have experienced that worship puts me in a condition to receive deeper meaning from the preaching of God's Word. But I never thought about it in that way in my personal time. I am going to implement this in my personal time with the Lord. Thank you so much for the good advice.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  18 днів тому

      @@debrabenson4613 Your comment makes my heart so happy! 💗
      Thank you for watching and commenting. 😊

  • @johnnyritenbaugh1214
    @johnnyritenbaugh1214 4 години тому

    A capsule wardrobe is the very best. I wear exclusively black/white/red, and it's amazing how many compliments I get that I'm always coordinated. I thank them, knowing full well that I could get dressed in the dark and end up looking just as put together.

  • @dr8nkw0t8r
    @dr8nkw0t8r 4 дні тому +2

    I have 2 sets of sheets and 2 sets of pillow cases for each bed. I keep the extra set that is not on the bed in a nightstand drawer next to the bed. No more sorting through piles of sheets in a linen closet. Also, I love my QUICKZIP (brand) sheets. No more hassling with fitted sheets: You just zip off the top portion. Easy to wash. Easy fold. Easy to store. They cost a bit more, but they are so worth the ease of use!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  4 дні тому +1

      @@dr8nkw0t8r I haven’t heard of those. I’m going to check that out. Thanks!

    • @dr8nkw0t8r
      @dr8nkw0t8r 3 дні тому

      @@simplifyyourlifewithgwen You will love them! 🙂

  • @jennywaterswellness
    @jennywaterswellness 20 днів тому +13

    Great tip about turning the glass containers upside down!

  • @cindymcmurray9017
    @cindymcmurray9017 22 години тому

    Hello Gwen! So glad I found you today as a few things really hit home with me. 1. Clothing - only keeping what I wear and coordinating it all. I've procrastinated long enough on going through it. 2. Having one makeup (and toiletry) bag to grab and go! I'm often doing overnights with family and I spend so much time repacking each time. 3. I appreciate your take on worship and scripture reading. The heart and mindset is key to being open to listening and discernment. Thank you for sharing your wisdom here!🌼

    • @cindymcmurray9017
      @cindymcmurray9017 22 години тому

      I've learned to say "Thank you but I'll pass this time" to offers to eat out (or join in on an activity). I'm selective with the groups I spend time with, the menu/restaurant, and the expense I'll incur. Everything needs to align with my priorities at the present time and I don't feel one bit bad about it. Knowing when to say NO has been huge for me but it took me a long time to figure out it's okay!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  19 годин тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your comments!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  19 годин тому +1

      Thank so much for watching and for comments Cindy! You're very encouraging!

    • @cindymcmurray9017
      @cindymcmurray9017 19 годин тому

      @@simplifyyourlifewithgwen You're welcome! We all need encouragement in every endeavor!! Life is hard enough not to be positive and thoughtful toward one another, right? 😉🧡

  • @nancybenner2496
    @nancybenner2496 17 годин тому

    These are the things that you mentioned and have changed my life:
    1) I grocery shop on the Walmart website and have my groceries delivered.
    2)I presort my laundry in a three compartment sorter…white, black and colored.
    3)I have a limited clothing selection. All black items.
    4) I clean one area at a time when it needs it.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  4 години тому

      Nancy, this makes me heart so happy! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! I appreciate you!

  • @kimhanback1302
    @kimhanback1302 15 днів тому +6

    I quit cleaning the house all in one day as well. I did it out of necessity though. I physically cannot do it anymore but I like doing it this way far better. I should have done it this way all my life. I've cleaned my shower while I'm in the shower for quiet some time now. It just made sense to me. For the other two showers in the house, I still get in them and clean them. Makes it easier on my back to do it that way. I just leave my clothes on. 😂

  • @couponfirstlady2991
    @couponfirstlady2991 9 днів тому +2

    That LAST ONE worship BEFORE you read and pray-Excellent. I too wake at 4am Love this

  • @karent561
    @karent561 5 днів тому +2

    I read through most of the comments after watching this video. Your #31 made an incredible impact! I am a night owl, so hearing you get up at 4am blows my mind...lol. It might be 9am that I get my coffee and read whichever devotional I am on and then read a chapter or so of the Bible. I do tell God good morning from Florida when I wake up and remind Him that I want to say and do whatever He has for me to say or do . I ask that the Holy Spirit help me NOT to say or do what does not please God. Having my quiet time talking with Jesus before talking with anyone else is a day changer. I have purged 80% of our stuff of 40 years married and keep a bag going all the time for donation. Having a place for things we use everyday, like keys is essential. Process that mail and spend the extra few minutes to unsubscribe from emails that you don't want actually saves time overall. I use my phone's google calendar for any event, appointment and things I need to do. Girl, I like all of your 31 things...but using credit cards still works best for us. We all have to find ways to reduce the stress we put on ourselves. Thank you.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  4 дні тому

      @@karent561 I appreciate your watching and sharing your thoughts!
      I’m not a night owl at all. Lol I am definitely an early bird. Lol.

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 8 днів тому +4

    Hitting the UNsubscribe button on those unread accumulated emails is advice I practise and it feels so liberating too see 👀 those emails instantly dissappear 😅

  • @pjm101
    @pjm101 2 дні тому +2

    Your #1 is my #1...I have a dog and learned the hard way 3 times

  • @joanneblair2087
    @joanneblair2087 5 днів тому +3

    I need to quit saying yes, and I don’t answer unknown callers. Actually I need to take a number of these suggestions to heart. I really like #31. I need to do this.

  • @gailgriggs8914
    @gailgriggs8914 22 хвилини тому

    Thanks so much for the advice about Bible reading. I will put this into practice immediately.

  • @DanielleBatog
    @DanielleBatog 18 днів тому +7

    First time watching. Great tips❤❤ I don't tolerate a lot of clutter so many of these things are already in place for me but I totally love the idea of putting my food storage bowls upside down in fridge. I have never heard of that one and I love it!! Thank you for sharing.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  18 днів тому +1

      @@DanielleBatog Thank you for watching and comment Danielle. I appreciate you. 😊
      I came up with idea of turning the bowls upside after letting too much food go to waste. I FINALLY realized we forgot about it because we couldn’t see it. 🤦🏻‍♀️😉

  • @marthaivester7348
    @marthaivester7348 17 днів тому +4

    You hit so many things reading a book, reading the Bible makes a lot of sense to listen to music first appreciate all the items you talked about 🙂

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  17 днів тому

      Thank you, Martha.😊 I appreciate you watching and commenting. The worship before reading was life-changing for me.

  • @daniellem5175
    @daniellem5175 16 днів тому +5

    Great list but #31 is the best and what I needed to hear. Awesome idea!! Thank you!!!

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 18 днів тому +6

    Great tips (many of them I already do, so I know they work), but I'm not giving up my dishwasher :-)
    Not buying anything with a "but..." made me laugh.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  18 днів тому +1

      @@lindawilson4625 Enjoy your dishwasher. 😁
      Thank you for watching and commenting. I appreciate you. 😀

    • @katnap456
      @katnap456 15 днів тому +2

      Using the dishwasher saves water.

    • @virginiabaker4471
      @virginiabaker4471 7 днів тому

      Love that and I will def remember it!

  • @stacilanae74
    @stacilanae74 23 години тому

    My first time watching your videos and I thoroughly enjoyed and related to your ideas. I've been trying to simplify life since being laid off, not feeling so guilty if I don't want to be as productive as I used to. Things get done in their own time, the house will get cleaned, my family gets feed, and I'm not as stressed :).

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  19 годин тому

      Thank you! I appreciate your comments. I'm sorry you got laid off. Simplifying your life is a good place to put your efforts.

  • @debbiem6406
    @debbiem6406 10 днів тому +7

    You’re so right about worship before Bible. Otherwise my mind tends to jump to awaiting tasks. It’s part of “being still and knowing that He’s God,” as the Word tells us. The Lord communicates such sweet or vital insights or directives to me during that worship time.

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  9 днів тому +1

      You are so right. Worship is life-giving! I love how God reveals truths in His Word after I worship.
      Thank you for watching. Your comments blessed me. 😊

  • @debkincaid2891
    @debkincaid2891 8 днів тому +3

    I buy a roll of yellow painter's tape & label everything that goes in my fridge and freezer, including "use before" date. Cheap, takes a second, and tells you all you need to know.

  • @carlanash1028
    @carlanash1028 4 дні тому +1

    Best tip for me was #31! Worth the wait too.

  • @bjgoels
    @bjgoels 6 днів тому +2

    I like the idea of placing storage containers upside down so you can see what is in them. Clever. As for credit cards, I live in an area where not much is available and the merchandise that is available is very expensive; I have to shop out of town--a 2-3 hour drive for many items and for better prices. As a result, I buy many items online and a credit card is needed for that. Having said that, I use my card for only online purchases and never carry it with me. In-person purchases are always done with cash.

  • @9cats7
    @9cats7 3 дні тому +1

    I put almost everything on one credit card. I pay it off every month and I have the protection given to me by the credit card company, and I also have a record of my spending throughout the year. I understand not everybody can do that, it's just what I do.

  • @Shotleythinktank
    @Shotleythinktank 4 дні тому +1

    Re purse bags: I love clear vinyl zipper travel pouches (usually found in the make-up section at department stores). No rummaging to see the contents!

  • @PattyMiller-ub7lq
    @PattyMiller-ub7lq 5 днів тому +3

    THE CLICK IS A CROSS. (AND I LOVE IT)

  • @verlenefults2419
    @verlenefults2419 6 днів тому +1

    Worship first! I will absolutely incorporate this into my morning routine. I always start with my reading/study first.

  • @jenniferrice22
    @jenniferrice22 23 години тому

    I have incorporated almost everything on this list except the last one! Thank you for sharing- I have seen worship make a difference too - but I didn't put 2 and 2 together. I'll try it! I will share this with friends - so many positivesl changes that have blessed my life all put together in a succinct viseo ❤

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  19 годин тому

      Thank you so much for you comments! You have blessed me! The worship has made a big impact on my daily life. 💖

  • @chanelm.3145
    @chanelm.3145 19 днів тому +6

    Great tips! Please share your capsule wardrobe ideas please. Thanks!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  19 днів тому

      @@chanelm.3145 Thank you for watching! I’ll work on a capsule wardrobe video. Thank you for your input. 🙌🏼

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 8 днів тому +3

    If you dont love it Lose It 😉 TY Marie Kondo 👌🏼 you bring me Joy 😅

  • @jeanperdue346
    @jeanperdue346 17 днів тому +3

    Thank you for that last reminder. Yes, Lord !

  • @delicate1
    @delicate1 6 годин тому

    I love the turing the containers upside down to see in them hack

  • @ingegaasbeek296
    @ingegaasbeek296 3 дні тому +2

    Greetings from the Netherlands!!! We sure live a kind of nice life without those TIMEKILLING TIPS😂! And it is sooo easy!!
    When we're done not blabbering, we continue living normal lives. 😂 So not Sexy! We are, and clean & wholesome..😅😊

  • @heavenbound-1957
    @heavenbound-1957 17 днів тому +3

    Just found your channel and loving it. Yes for capsule wardrobe

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  17 днів тому

      @@heavenbound-1957 Thank you for watching and commenting! I appreciate you!
      Noted on the capsule wardrobe. 😀👍🏼 Thank you!

  • @ymh1683
    @ymh1683 11 днів тому +2

    Omg. That’s makeup bag tip is the BEST! Subscribing just cuz of that!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  11 днів тому

      That makeup bag made packing so much faster!
      I appreciate your watching, commenting, and subscribing!

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 8 днів тому +2

    I'm a visual person too and like clear or see through food storage in fridge, pantry, and freezer 👌🏼

  • @ireneroy8820
    @ireneroy8820 15 днів тому +3

    Thank You!!! You pointers are some I never thought about and believe me
    My mind is always running on how to make things easier! You took a lot of guilt off of me today!!
    Can you make a video showing your home? I love what I seen on this video so far! My first time here!
    Love this!!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  15 днів тому +1

      You are so welcome! I appreciate your watching and commenting. I will add a home tour to my list of videos. 😀

    • @marylynch2510
      @marylynch2510 14 днів тому

      Yes great video x

  • @brendaosteen4264
    @brendaosteen4264 16 днів тому +2

    Lots of great tips, some I am already doing or should I say "not doing". I must say #31 was the best! I have never considered worship BEFORE prayer or reading the scripture, love the idea.

  • @user-rm7uy9sc6j
    @user-rm7uy9sc6j 10 днів тому +2

    Absolutely love tip 31!! So true!
    I’ve been doing the 2 small bags in my purse to make it easy to change purse for a while now, so brilliant… working hard on not laying things down in random places and hav dedicated landing place for certain items… if only the fam will get on board lol ~ great video 💖

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  10 днів тому

      #31 is my favorite!
      Thank you for watching and commenting!
      💖

    • @virginiabaker4471
      @virginiabaker4471 7 днів тому

      I use clear bags (usually double zip locks!)for my purses to quickly transfer. Lipstick, lip balm, gum, etc in one, meds in another and so on. I need to see what's inside.

    • @les0101s
      @les0101s 7 днів тому

      @@virginiabaker4471 Thank you! I was just thinking hmmm now I need some small bags. You solved that one for me.

  • @robinr5669
    @robinr5669 5 днів тому +2

    Love her accent!

  • @ritablumer3611
    @ritablumer3611 17 днів тому +2

    I have found myself throughout the day remembering all the little tips. Love it!

    • @simplifyyourlifewithgwen
      @simplifyyourlifewithgwen  17 днів тому

      Awe! That makes my heart so happy! Thank you for watching and commenting! You bless me!

  • @user-rb4ki6ew9g
    @user-rb4ki6ew9g День тому

    Thank you, Gwen for sharing these tips from life. I’m doing most already but “No unplanned purchases” makes me pause my spending and helps check my anxiety-A.D.D impulsive purchases. Yep-also don’t trust my memory anymore. 😮

  • @charlenewuerch3608
    @charlenewuerch3608 День тому

    Great list !!! Especially the worship then read

  • @nicepeoplerock
    @nicepeoplerock День тому

    Something I quit doing is separating silverware into separate compartments. I realized one day that I've spent too many accumulated minutes of my life separating forks, spoons and knives and it made me mad. Now I just have one tray for everything and just dump all the silverware in it. Turns out no one minds finding what they need even if it's all mixed up.