29:44 I really needed to hear that, I've stopped dating for almost 2 years now and not because of emotional reasons but because I just assumed it would just be another hassle. I think it's time to start back up again. Steve really has some nice gems he be dropping.
Joe, in December of 2018, I got out of a very toxic almost 6 year relationship. And not to play the victim role but it was 90% my ex’s fault because of how she dealt with issues. She cut everyone out of her life, friends, cousins, etc and made me the only person she could talk to. So when she would have problems, of course I was the only one there to help her through them. however when I would tell her why she was in the wrong she would lash out at me because I didn’t tell her what she wanted to hear. Anyways, what I’m trying to get to is that I was miserable, but I too thought, well shit isn’t this what relationships are supposed to be? Getting through issues together? But I started to notice that at the time, I felt depressed and stressed and I felt like a middle aged man at the age of 21-23. It was rough. And because of that, I wasn’t romantic, I didn’t have a sex drive. I just wasn’t living. But after I finally broke up with her, I started dating a new girl and let me tell you, now I know what a REAL relationship is. Sometimes we have to go through a very very dark time to get to a much brighter side of life. I’m now on that brighter side of life. I can see you are as well. I’m happy for you.
Honestly, depending on what her troubles were, you really might have been in the wrong for not understanding her/empathizing with her. Many tough situations are hard to understand, let alone express to others. It takes many years even for people to fully process what they went through. So to just bail when she's having trouble too is understandable, but she's potentially not really at fault. The truest (ideal) relationships would work through those things, no matter how long it takes, to rebuild when all the baggage is over and dealt with. However that's unrealistic and expecting a lot out of the other party. That's why they say true love doesn't really exist.
Un1234l you’re right. Sorry, there a whole lack of information in my one post here. I didn’t want to go on and on but trust me, I put so much effort into helping her and understanding her. But like I said, when I knew she was in the wrong for something she did or said, I would let her know and that would make her angry. She couldn’t take any feedback unless it was putting her in the right. If that’s makes sense.
"Now I know what a REAL relationship looks like". Thats the problem I have right now. What is a real relationship supposed to look like? I can only base that off the people around me or what I see in social media. But even then I don't know if those are "real" good relationships either.
I love that Steven and Nikkie are apart of the JK friend group it's like they are the therapist getting you to understand relationships as well as yourself.
@@zzdesolatezz dont know about the details of joe's relationship, neither do you. Fact remains: jknews became dead when they joined, steve only talks about himself and cuts people off
13:57 Wheat gives me headaches too. Fatigue, anxiety/shortness of breath. Foggy brain. Bleeding from shitting (bright blood). You mention having IBS too Joe. It may be due to wheat/gluten allergy.
Listening to all your podcasts from oldest to newest, and not sure if something was uploaded on the list by accident? Between episode 107 and 108 - there is a UFC video for McGregor vs "Cowboy" Cerrone.
In Paris, we just use Instagram to search the good spots. We also got a website called "Le bonbon" but I don't think there is an English version, so if you don't speak French a little, it will be hard to understand. We don't really care about TripAdvisor unless we are searching for hotel reviews...
Love hearing you two! Which episode was it where Joe mentioned how there's no healthy debate-culture in Japan; our elders only perceive it as a challenge of their seniority? I can SO relate Also, how he tried schooling his mom about the Renaissance and the art of discussion and how Asian cultures dont prscrice that. His mom then assumed he was embarassed to be Japanese for stating that.
17:00 Dunno if you wanna deal with those people. Never know if they're only with you because of your clout etc or because they genuinely think you're interesting/cool and would've hung out with you before knowing that about you.
Poisson isn’t chicken @davidso it’s fish and they do cook it perfectly àd have different ways of doing so ... chicken is good but only roti nothing else is that special
these topics have been really captivating lately
David... My guy.... Poisson is fish in French 🤣
Poulet is Chicken
My thoughts literally lol
I appreciate how honest this is, and it's so lovely hearing about Joe's growth and heart journey. I'm so excited for him to be at this place now!
29:44 I really needed to hear that, I've stopped dating for almost 2 years now and not because of emotional reasons but because I just assumed it would just be another hassle. I think it's time to start back up again. Steve really has some nice gems he be dropping.
@16JAM77 I hear that
Joe, in December of 2018, I got out of a very toxic almost 6 year relationship. And not to play the victim role but it was 90% my ex’s fault because of how she dealt with issues. She cut everyone out of her life, friends, cousins, etc and made me the only person she could talk to. So when she would have problems, of course I was the only one there to help her through them. however when I would tell her why she was in the wrong she would lash out at me because I didn’t tell her what she wanted to hear. Anyways, what I’m trying to get to is that I was miserable, but I too thought, well shit isn’t this what relationships are supposed to be? Getting through issues together? But I started to notice that at the time, I felt depressed and stressed and I felt like a middle aged man at the age of 21-23. It was rough. And because of that, I wasn’t romantic, I didn’t have a sex drive. I just wasn’t living. But after I finally broke up with her, I started dating a new girl and let me tell you, now I know what a REAL relationship is. Sometimes we have to go through a very very dark time to get to a much brighter side of life. I’m now on that brighter side of life. I can see you are as well. I’m happy for you.
Honestly, depending on what her troubles were, you really might have been in the wrong for not understanding her/empathizing with her. Many tough situations are hard to understand, let alone express to others. It takes many years even for people to fully process what they went through. So to just bail when she's having trouble too is understandable, but she's potentially not really at fault. The truest (ideal) relationships would work through those things, no matter how long it takes, to rebuild when all the baggage is over and dealt with. However that's unrealistic and expecting a lot out of the other party. That's why they say true love doesn't really exist.
Un1234l you’re right. Sorry, there a whole lack of information in my one post here. I didn’t want to go on and on but trust me, I put so much effort into helping her and understanding her. But like I said, when I knew she was in the wrong for something she did or said, I would let her know and that would make her angry. She couldn’t take any feedback unless it was putting her in the right. If that’s makes sense.
"Now I know what a REAL relationship looks like". Thats the problem I have right now. What is a real relationship supposed to look like? I can only base that off the people around me or what I see in social media. But even then I don't know if those are "real" good relationships either.
chowjr honestly man, when you know, you know.
@@FrancoTech Alright man thanks, hopefully I can remember this.
I love that Steven and Nikkie are apart of the JK friend group it's like they are the therapist getting you to understand relationships as well as yourself.
They're toxic
They were the piece the group was missing. It's as satisfying as putting in the final piece of a very large puzzle.
jknews became dead when they joined. they were part of the reason why joe broke up with jessica. steve only talks about himself and cuts people off
@@zzdesolatezz dont know about the details of joe's relationship, neither do you. Fact remains: jknews became dead when they joined, steve only talks about himself and cuts people off
@@TheAsianDude888 ok technically that's an opinion but I definitely think that person needs some personal growth lol. 🤣
This was a great convo honestly
You cant just drop that you were on big mood podcast before it comes out now I'm hella hyped for it to come out
Joe is REALLY selling France well in this ep damn
I'm Korean-German, I have travelled to almost every European country and the States and I must say that I personally don't enjoy French food lol
Joe's thinking 🤔 the best 👍💯 does anyone else think like him I know I do 😂
I don't but Joe has been my favorite JK member.
Claymore007 chill Julie is the best
@@martinzheng7764 who is Julie? Julie Zhan the og JKN guest? Lol
I love these 2
Them sofas look comfy.
Excited for Joe's Euro trip vlogs
Poisson is fish lmaooo
Poulet is chicken 😋
This festival called winter wonderland 😂😂😂
13:57 Wheat gives me headaches too. Fatigue, anxiety/shortness of breath. Foggy brain. Bleeding from shitting (bright blood). You mention having IBS too Joe. It may be due to wheat/gluten allergy.
He seems a lot happier now, both of them
Dance partner example is spot on! If your energy matches man it’s sooo good!
Glad you had a great time with your friends and had time to relax welcome back!😎
Listening to all your podcasts from oldest to newest, and not sure if something was uploaded on the list by accident? Between episode 107 and 108 - there is a UFC video for McGregor vs "Cowboy" Cerrone.
I'm so happy for Joe! Shit I gotta go to Europe now. 😂
Wait... Did I hear David is gonna be getting into some girl talk on Big Mood?
That's when my ears twitched too
YOU HEARD IT HERE FIRST DAVID IS GONNA BE IN THE BIG MOOD PODCAST 😍
2020 goal is to do what Joes doing. It’s a lot harder than it looks!
Joe's hand looks humungous
nice to see Joe doing better :)
Poisson = Fish. Wassup from Montreal!
David gotta stop saying "an inch deep" when he is talking about sex hahahaha
In Paris, we just use Instagram to search the good spots. We also got a website called "Le bonbon" but I don't think there is an English version, so if you don't speak French a little, it will be hard to understand. We don't really care about TripAdvisor unless we are searching for hotel reviews...
Solène Olivia same for Germany!
Come to Bay Area for da deep convo
Joe why you gotta keep doin us like that with the blue jean jacket, circle glasses and the slicked back hair!
PurelyMotivational haha same thought
Shout out from the Netherlands
I’m so upset rn I frickin LIVE in Austria and I missed tracking down Joe to pay my respects💔
LedTha Neko yep felt same way when I found out he is in London
Damn this was a good one!!
i was waiting 😎
Jess watching this with a clenched 👊
People want to have deep convos but they are afraid of being judged
saem aneras getting drunk helps
I feel like Joe would love nyc everything he is looking for is here
Love hearing you two!
Which episode was it where Joe mentioned how there's no healthy debate-culture in Japan; our elders only perceive it as a challenge of their seniority? I can SO relate
Also, how he tried schooling his mom about the Renaissance and the art of discussion and how Asian cultures dont prscrice that. His mom then assumed he was embarassed to be Japanese for stating that.
David.. please keep the condecending accent in french you really nail it
we went to Europe too! but i think we just missed ya
Why are you guys acting like the U.S doesn't have Christmas markets 😂😂 come to the East coast where I guess we really celebrate Christmas lmaoo
Everyone's friendly when you're a tourist.
idk listening to this .... jess did ALOT of work.
pre-jess Joe doesn't sound like a decent boyfriend
Also at our ages, I expect you to be mature enough to have worked through or actively working through your baggage.
Be yourself after you made a name for yourself first.
17:00
Dunno if you wanna deal with those people. Never know if they're only with you because of your clout etc or because they genuinely think you're interesting/cool and would've hung out with you before knowing that about you.
PSA: Read the book 'Models' Trust this random stranger on the internet, its great.
I'm everyone's therapist lol
oh man im hellllla late haha - Joe :'( is with Hannah now
Poisson isn’t chicken @davidso it’s fish and they do cook it perfectly àd have different ways of doing so ... chicken is good but only roti nothing else is that special
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did not realize how toxic Jessika was to Joe. Joe is going Nelly Furtado right now.
The more racist the country is the more cleaner it is.
Those literally have nothing to do with one another. There's zero correlation.
lol chill guys
@16JAM77 made you laugh tho. Lol
@@zzdesolatezz I need to add lol end of my comments if im makin a joke.
You guys talk too much .....less words next time....more standing still please
RastaChan Dolo stfu
Go watch pewdiepie