Mashallah this was so beneficial! And mufti saheb is so humble and well spoken mashallah. Please continue interviews with scholars in the UK. If you need suggestions, happy to share ☺️
@@IFGuru In the UK: Shaykh Abu Eesa Niamatullah, Dr Sohail Hanif, Shaykh Zuhair, Mufti Liaqat Zaman, Mufti Zahir Mahmood, Shaykh Sajid Umar, Prof Tim Winter, Mufti Muhammad Ibn Adam, Shaykh Tabraze In the US: Mufti Abdullah Waheed, Shaykh Omar Suleiman, Shaykh Yasir Qadhi, Shaykh Yasir birjas
The western standard of pursuing happiness is at the core of the marriage crisis as some may call it. The mentality of a Muslim shouldn't be, "I need to be happy." It should be, "I need to do my best for Allah, and to learn to be happy with what Allah gives me."
Secret marriages although has its consequences but it's not haram, it's not necessary to take permission from the wife, but you have to be a man enough to suffer the aftermath
😆 Goes against the spirit of Islam and many fornicators are using it as trick. But in an age of radical feminism best not to legally marry the first then she can't complain about the second.
One of the necessities of nikah is to make it known in the community so that people don't think you're committing zina and normalise zina in society. So if you're making it public, how is the first wife not going to find out? Or is she supposed to find out from your neighbour. Craven behaviour.
Prenuptial agreement: can include what is known as "khiyarul Talaq" where the authority of divorce is taken away from husband and given to a 3rd person @30:50 Ladies take note!!
My biggest issue and I wish a Muslim scholar would address this: let's say a wife gives up her career to be a house wife and dedicates herself to husband. Husband starts to do well financially and decides to marry a 2nd wife and becomes distant for 1st wife. 1st wife now not happy I relationship and wants a divorce but can't because she has dedicated her life to husband and has no financial security. What then? How does islam protect her? This is sadly a very common scenario (maybe different versions of it). But basically what is being asked of a Muslim wife is that she becomes completely under the mercy of her husband by being a "good housewife" with no source of income of her own to the point that she is stuck and has no way out when the relationship breaks down. How is this fair?
If you look into the Quran, Allah Himself says "And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hands possess [i.e., slaves]. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice]." A husband has the responsibility to be fair among his wives and if he can not, and he oppresses his other wife, then Allah himself will question him on that on the day of judgement and perhaps due to this, the wife will be forgiven and be granted into Jannah whereas the husband will be punished. Islam is the most fairest religion, even when people think they are being smart and taking advantage of the right Allah gave them, they are deceiving only themselves because they will have to answer on the day of judgement about their responsibilities that came with the right. So do not fall into the trap that non muslims fall into, the trap of only seeing the unfairness in the dunya. Truly on the day of judgement, justice will be served and those who were oppressed and taken advantage of will be rewarded and be given high status, they will be happy they were oppressed because now they will be sitting in the Jannah while those who oppressed them will be suffering. I do encourage encourage you to speak to scholars and ask them about this for they have the right knowledge and will explain things to you nicely. Hope what I said was of some benefit and May Allah forgive me if I said anything wrong.
This is exactly the situation women fear and is becoming something more and more expected. In this situation, they should agree beforehand, either no polygamy or he will have to give her a specific amount to set her up after divorce so that she isn't destitute. If women are aware of potential bad situations, they should discuss and tie up these loose ends before getting hitched.
It's a shame that when looking at the husband's faults in a marriage, there was no pre-emptive talk about being careful to avoid offence, like the Mufti did when talking about wives faults. No equality in this society :(
I know where he lived “مدينة البعوث" it’s literally like down the road from my home 13:33 😅 My Teachers also from Azhar University who happened to be living in my neighborhood too 15:57 I didn’t know that 😅 I know all those places “That’s exactly Egyptians Education Ethics here 😂” it’s funny but really respectful for elders. 18:30 عايز ايه يا عم 😂😂😂❤ I really felt like hanging around with my bros after prayers walking home together Sidenote I also believed that we waste a lot on weddings “اسراف" و "تبذير" with a potential intention of “Bragging” which something I don’t feel comfortable about but I’m not qualified for that! Unfortunately Dar Iftaa of (Egypt) is Politically Biased in Martial Fatwa, We totally avoid them, it’s useless unfortunately and irrelevant for most of the time with Islam teachings judging martial situations unfortunately and becoming favorably supporting feminism in really odd ways! I’m sad to say that, but as A Muslim man I feel betrayed by Dar Iftaa of Egypt and I’m not the only one unfortunately, it’s almost norm now.
Mashallah this was so beneficial! And mufti saheb is so humble and well spoken mashallah. Please continue interviews with scholars in the UK. If you need suggestions, happy to share ☺️
Yes, please do share suggestions! We’re always open to recommendations
@@IFGuru In the UK: Shaykh Abu Eesa Niamatullah, Dr Sohail Hanif, Shaykh Zuhair, Mufti Liaqat Zaman, Mufti Zahir Mahmood, Shaykh Sajid Umar, Prof Tim Winter, Mufti Muhammad Ibn Adam, Shaykh Tabraze
In the US: Mufti Abdullah Waheed, Shaykh Omar Suleiman, Shaykh Yasir Qadhi, Shaykh Yasir birjas
Can you please interview the Imam who was driving the Porsche GT3 please?
Dr mahmood Chandia
Mufti Saheb is my teacher
What a legend MashAllah 👌
MACHALLAH! So profound and beneficial talk
i have been to masjid mu'aadh ibnu jabal in leicester and i prayed jummu'ah solaah behind mufti saab
The western standard of pursuing happiness is at the core of the marriage crisis as some may call it.
The mentality of a Muslim shouldn't be, "I need to be happy." It should be, "I need to do my best for Allah, and to learn to be happy with what Allah gives me."
i agree
Amazing podcast, keep it up
Wow ma sha allah, what a nice talk!
May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!
Amazing effort to bring Ulema to front and providing us opportunity to learn from them
Secret marriages although has its consequences but it's not haram, it's not necessary to take permission from the wife, but you have to be a man enough to suffer the aftermath
Nice take
The real question that needs to be asked is WHY secret marriages are being conducted
😆
Goes against the spirit of Islam and many fornicators are using it as trick. But in an age of radical feminism best not to legally marry the first then she can't complain about the second.
One of the necessities of nikah is to make it known in the community so that people don't think you're committing zina and normalise zina in society. So if you're making it public, how is the first wife not going to find out? Or is she supposed to find out from your neighbour. Craven behaviour.
@@ZM-et7zt that's not in accordance with the spirit of the Shariah but it is valid!
جزاك الله خيرًا
Prenuptial agreement: can include what is known as "khiyarul Talaq" where the authority of divorce is taken away from husband and given to a 3rd person @30:50
Ladies take note!!
Amazing MashaAllah, would be great to do with more ulema.
My biggest issue and I wish a Muslim scholar would address this: let's say a wife gives up her career to be a house wife and dedicates herself to husband. Husband starts to do well financially and decides to marry a 2nd wife and becomes distant for 1st wife. 1st wife now not happy I relationship and wants a divorce but can't because she has dedicated her life to husband and has no financial security. What then? How does islam protect her? This is sadly a very common scenario (maybe different versions of it). But basically what is being asked of a Muslim wife is that she becomes completely under the mercy of her husband by being a "good housewife" with no source of income of her own to the point that she is stuck and has no way out when the relationship breaks down. How is this fair?
She can agree pre-hand what her minimum financial requirements are. She can keep her own savings etc.
What's your solution?
@@ezzeldinalgazzar4642 who is you comment addressed to?
If you look into the Quran, Allah Himself says "And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hands possess [i.e., slaves]. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice]." A husband has the responsibility to be fair among his wives and if he can not, and he oppresses his other wife, then Allah himself will question him on that on the day of judgement and perhaps due to this, the wife will be forgiven and be granted into Jannah whereas the husband will be punished.
Islam is the most fairest religion, even when people think they are being smart and taking advantage of the right Allah gave them, they are deceiving only themselves because they will have to answer on the day of judgement about their responsibilities that came with the right. So do not fall into the trap that non muslims fall into, the trap of only seeing the unfairness in the dunya. Truly on the day of judgement, justice will be served and those who were oppressed and taken advantage of will be rewarded and be given high status, they will be happy they were oppressed because now they will be sitting in the Jannah while those who oppressed them will be suffering.
I do encourage encourage you to speak to scholars and ask them about this for they have the right knowledge and will explain things to you nicely. Hope what I said was of some benefit and May Allah forgive me if I said anything wrong.
@@ezzeldinalgazzar4642 👍
This is exactly the situation women fear and is becoming something more and more expected. In this situation, they should agree beforehand, either no polygamy or he will have to give her a specific amount to set her up after divorce so that she isn't destitute. If women are aware of potential bad situations, they should discuss and tie up these loose ends before getting hitched.
جزاک اللہ خیرا
It's a shame that when looking at the husband's faults in a marriage, there was no pre-emptive talk about being careful to avoid offence, like the Mufti did when talking about wives faults. No equality in this society :(
iFG please respond to me
Regarding how do you protect your properties.
Your wife in the UK can take it if you divorce
I wished you had touched on dowry and splitting of assets in the event of a divorce
What did I just hear at the start: Leicester sharīf???
I know where he lived “مدينة البعوث" it’s literally like down the road from my home 13:33 😅
My Teachers also from Azhar University who happened to be living in my neighborhood too
15:57 I didn’t know that 😅
I know all those places “That’s exactly Egyptians Education Ethics here 😂” it’s funny but really respectful for elders.
18:30 عايز ايه يا عم 😂😂😂❤
I really felt like hanging around with my bros after prayers walking home together
Sidenote I also believed that we waste a lot on weddings “اسراف" و "تبذير" with a potential intention of “Bragging” which something I don’t feel comfortable about but I’m not qualified for that!
Unfortunately Dar Iftaa of (Egypt) is Politically Biased in Martial Fatwa, We totally avoid them, it’s useless unfortunately and irrelevant for most of the time with Islam teachings judging martial situations unfortunately and becoming favorably supporting feminism in really odd ways!
I’m sad to say that, but as A Muslim man I feel betrayed by Dar Iftaa of Egypt and I’m not the only one unfortunately, it’s almost norm now.