Winners Always Quit | Zahid Azmi Ibrahim | TEDxUniversitasIndonesia
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
- Once upon a time, a well-known educational content creator on UA-cam, Zahid Ibrahim made a super big decision in his life. In a world where most people agree with the quote said 'winners never quit', with his faith, he chose to quit. Once upon a time, a well-known educational content creator on UA-cam, Zahid Ibrahim made a super big decision in his life. In a world where most people agree with a quotes said 'winners never quit', with his faith, he chose to quit. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
"Successful people is quiting all the time when something isn't working and they find another way to go where they've been aiming for"
So *NOT* quitting actually, just finding an alternative route.
@@DarlikaDor quitting the wrong route
we are sometimes busy to being successful and forgot the way to feel content and happy
when GoogleMap heading you to the wrong way, just quit that route, find another route
cause if you insist, the river ahead will stop you
He's not exactly quitting, he finds out the way isn't leading to his destination, so he takes another way.
Exactly
Yeah he is not quitting, the experience from english debate, building youtube gaming, and being in itb make him can delivering english pretty good in this talk, gaing many followers in new youtube channel, and accepted in japan.
With his privilege i think his quitting is fine, even he is mentioned it
yas,unrelateable , some aspects should be taken into it and it can be relateable
HE JUST USING ANOTHER WORDS BUT CONFUSING
orang-orang yang berani ngambil keputusan besar untuk diri mereka sendiri tanpa mencampur adukkan pendapat orang banyak itu absolutely keren. kita ga akan pernah tahu kalau kita ngga mencoba. orang-orang banyak yang mau mempertanggungjawabkan setiap keberhasilan, tapi enggan menanggung kegagalan. i hope could be brave and confident as you Kak, you're so inspiring for me
Either we quit or not, we are sacrificing something. Choose the decision that fulfilling our heart :)
I never know that i need this quote. but now i do, thanks
Zahid Azmi berhasil membuat pilihan agar arah hidupnya menjadi lebih baik dari sebelumnya. Namun, masih tetap banyak orang-orang di luar sana tidak seberuntung Zahid. Konsep "keluar" disaat yang "dikira" tepat belum tentu tepat, ada banyak pengaruh-pengaruh lain semacam efek kupu-kupu yang lebih kompleks meliputinya.
your parent should be really proud of you zahid. kebanyakan orang merasa takut akan perubahan, namun itu hak masing-masing manusia. semoga video ini dipahami anak muda Indonesia, dan menjadi motivasi untuk memiliki tujuan yg lebih baik
Life is a series of choices. We can never know exactly the outcome of each options. Let's just try our best to analyse and choose the 'right' decision.
His English is so good... super easy to understand, and straight forward. Ofc the content was outstanding, but it is the way he delivers his story that really grasp my attention
Cannot believe it. Zahid in TED Talks, but in few years ago, I knew it he has potential talent on his soul
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This story is very related to my experience. As a civil engineer student at one of the prestigious uni too, i failed to graduate in 4 years because I am to afraid to quit an organizational activity outside campus that turns out have a very bad impact to my life and study. I am afraid about what other people in the organization think about me if i quit. Like Zahid said, we have to think reasonably about this kind of problem and what other people think is not a reasonable reason to stay.
One big thing that i learned from this story and my story is our life, time, future is in our hand, we are the one who have to determine our life not somebody else. Doesn't mean that we ignore everyone's opinion, but that's not the purpose of the decision that we make for our lives.
Good luck for your next adventure Zahid :) such as an inspiring talk you shared in this video. 3 lessons I gained when I decided to quit my old job:
1. The courage to start new
2. The strength to move forward, and
3. The ability to value myself better :)
For everyone who is in the middle of making an important decision in life: trust your gut feeling. Wishing you all the best.
" If you don’t like where you are, move!
You are not a tree. "
- Jim Rohn
last week, I have withdrawn my credentials from a well-known university in my country. I'm in third year architecture, but I guess I chose this major for the wrong reason: being hyped with the drawing and presentation aspect. (I didn't see myself in the profession). I couldn't take the toxic learning environment anymore since it was already costing my sanity (esp sleepless nights and peer pressure)
Right now, I signed up for a university where I know I would fit in. also, I ventured into a science major, BS in Biology.
I find this video very comforting since it validates the idea that Quitting is for Winners. For others out there who are feeling lost, I wish us all good luck and hopefully will have the opportunity to bring out our narratives.💓
you're amazing! congrats for being one of the people that choose to get out of their comfort zone instead of staying in for the sake of others' oppinion. wish you the best for your future endeavors
I actually relate to your situation very much . I was in my first year architecture but by the second semester I had the exact same realization as you had. I couldn’t handle the toxic environment as well as realized that I couldn’t see my future in the career so I changed my department in the university and instead went into industrial engineering. It was a big risk at the time and I am still dealing with the adjustments but truly it was the best decision that I took.
Omaigodddd. Is it.... Is it.... Is it zahid? How come you get here :) so proud of you. Hope more talented Indonesian youth come here to motivate world's youth
The uncertainty of choosing a path to take in our life is something that will and always be haunting us. Eventually, we can only react to present task that is in front of us. With that said, I couldn't stress my self to create a 'masterpiece' rather I have to focus on what I am facing today and work on my self to become a better person.
We are not wasting time by learning new things or studying subjects that we don't really feel into it, because it is part of the journey and the journey will always continue throughout our life. What I get from Zahid's perspective, choosing to quit means you want to focus on specific purpose which lead the direction to your goals.
His storytelling skill is outstanding. Thankyou for sharing, Zahid!
I really love the part about how we tend to attribute positive values to past decisions as if they're absolutes
I like his talk... it's encouraging..
Only that not many people's stories relate to that kind of privilege or leverage.. people fall into some sort of delusion... great talk anyway!
I have quitted from school for two times because I was not happy and got depression, but right now I have my own path. I embarassed my parents at that time, but I promised them that I would find the right way to live my life.
When the lad says "this has been Zahid Ibrahim," it gave me goosebumps. Proud of you!
Indonesian here, I graduated med school a year ago and just failed my licensing exam. Back in high school I was lost and didn’t know what to become, I did not receive the guidance I needed as a teenager. My parents wanted me to become a doctor and as the eldest child I pursued medicine to make them happy. 7 years later I’m not the happiest I’ve ever been, I can’t quit because the many years my parents invested in my studies. I’ve tried to like medicine all these years but just couldn’t and constantly trying to find a reason to keep going. Being on meds for my depression and anxiety is not worth it, but in our culture parents would always be first. Please pray for me to find my way, thank you x
thanks for sharing this, hang in there, I hope and I pray you will find your way anytime soon.
how about now ? do you find it yet ?, I'm a medical students myself and currently struggling in my 2nd year, I just hope that I actually in my right path so I could work it all out until the end
"Quitting is some of the best decisions you can make." 👏👏👏
this video appeared on my youtube homepage so i decided to watch it. you know? I was blown away by how inspiring the video was. I love the courage this guy has. it wakes me up to start my own journey 🤎🤎
thank you tedx talks, and thank you for your powerful message kak zahid ✨. guess i should watch this kind of video right now..
Thank you, Zahid. Choosing those difficult decisions, that's very brave of you. I hope I'll be as brave as you.
Can't believe it, you're so amazing Zahid. Biasa liat orang" dunia, dan Orang Indonesia masuk dichanel internasional ini kereeeeeeen bangeeeeeeet
"we need to accept that the short-term reality of confronting other people and confronting other stakeholders may be horrifying but this is a necessary step in hopes to win us long-term fulfillment."
thanks, zahid! those words are so magical.
what a bold & brave young man ... bravo!
I'm 18 yo and I kinda have some situations like you, the feeling that losing interest in something like some time comes to my mind word like "what would I achieve at the end of the journey", I feel terrible I feel burnout I feel loosing I feel I can't take it anymore, and thanks to your video, after watching it I search for your name on YT and I found a lot of stuff that actually helps me a lot.
A lot of respect to him. Gua selama ini nyari apa yang gua mau dan belum ketemu *mungkin udah tapi belum sadar* dan bisa dibilang terlanjur masuk ke perguruan tinggi yang bahkan setelah gua jalanin 2 semester masih belum dapetin minatnya. 😢
it never hurts to quit doing something with the right analysis at the right time. quitting is necessary and does not mean failure. quit with the right analysis and no need to listen around and find your way. Be yourself, find your happiness for your life.
Bang Zahid, aku udah ngikutin abang dr lama, banyak pelajaran yang aku ambil dr Abang, bahkan aku sampe cerita ke mama tentang Abang. Melihat bang Zahid sudah sukses gini rasanya kek bangga banget
Thank you for your inspirational speech about quitting. It makes me ralize my last quitting must be motivated me to make a more beautiful happy ending than my sorrow to loose it after three years of struggle to get it.
Hope we have a great future together a good person that make their environment better place.
I quit my job"own", i knew it was wrong decision from the first days but tried to stick and hold on. I became more depressed and irritated until I did it 5 months ago. I felt sad and griefed for a month or two but definitely felt free. Going to abroad for studies its massive and uncertain move but i guess i will make it.
Quit is Brave and to be brave is awesome, cool, and amazing !
I highly value your thoughts, Zahid Ibrahim. I highly admire the book "The Long Game" by Dorie Clark during these long-term decision making. Our legendary poet in Bengal, Rabindranath Tagore, always raised voice in favor of self-learning, abiding by one's own nature.
Is that book has Indonesia translation?
@@kingki1953 I googled but could'nt find any.
This is what I want for long time, thank you so much
Pheww, this appeared in my suggestion, I had goosebumps at the end of your talk!
Thank you sooo much Zahid for such an inspiring talk! Wish u all the best in pursuing your next journey in Japan 🇯🇵
I was afraid to quit my engineering job because I worried so much about what will people talk about me. But, after a lots of thinking about my future and health, I did a big move this year. I quit my stable job. Honestly it was not an easy decision but I am proud of my own decision. Really looking forward to start my new life chapter 😀
Zaid ... i'm so proud of you! Waktu pertama kali aku lihat kamu di youtube aku gak ekspek kalau kamu lebih muda dari aku tapi kamu menunjukkan semangat yang begitu besar, semangat untuk terus belajar dan tetap produktif dan berkarya di usia muda. Wah. Bisa lihat kamu di TED wow banget sih!
Zahid, do you know that you have inspired many people?😭
Thank you for inspiring me, kak Zahid Ibrahim!🌟 I don't know if I don't open TEDX today, maybe I won't know when to stop and open my eyes wide to be brave maake decisions and take 100% responsibility for my choices without interference from other parties.
In a few years I will come back here and I will see myself in a different place and all of that is thanks to your contribution.
Let's see, hopefully
Criiieedd 😭😭😭 thank youu for speaking my mind in a better (than my mind ofc), logical, acceptable & convincing speech.. you're a lot younger than me but your speech enlightens me.. kinda look for this so looong, thank you for showing up in my yt home 😭🙏🙏
He is such a brilliant and calm speaker. Very impressive speech.
Thank you, Zahid, for this informative speech.
Wow, extremely proud of u, Zahid!
He did a great job on delivering such profound perspex. Great one Zahid!
It's a perfect reason, we don't have to stick to something that we already good at it. We can change. And when something is really not interesting anymore, we can't enjoy, quitting is somethig normal, or perhaps it's a must.
masyaAllah, you are so brave ka! thank you for sharing your life experience.., it is amazing.. I hope Allah SWT will always give you and all of us the courage that we need to make a decision in our life, the strength and power that we need to always go ahead in our life journey, and the happiness in every moment of our life aamiin allahumma aamiin..
omggg so proud u zahidd!! u're such a great inspirational influencer fr indonesian teens!! lookin u here makes a hope fr others youth !! best wishes fr u ❤️
i really like to watch Zahid's videos of giving us tips to learning other languages. Thanks, Zahid!
Thank you Zahid, Live is a choice, we will face struggle, we need another way not giving up.
It is always hard to quit what we have started...but you got it for better one
Semoga terus memberi banyak manfaat, ya, Zahid dan jadi pribadi bahagia :)
Omg ka zahid!! Keren I'm sooo proud of you❤🇲🇨
I want to leave my current major. I know my goals, but I'm just a human who can only try and pray to the god. When I made the decision to out of this major, my whole family were against me and even said I was an ungrateful. I was stressed almost depressed and almost secretly go to a psychologist. Your videos that made me better and helped me to make a very big decision in my life. I hope you can see my comment which is a mess of grammar. One word from me.. Thank you Kak Zahid🙏
What major
'to live is to suffer, to survive is to find meaning in that suffering.'
Nietzsche
Zahid you are here!! proud of you
Your story catched all my attention, so inspiring Zahid!..
Winners were losers at some points in life. The term "winners" itself is debatable. How do you claim yourself as a winner? Life changes, we win some and lose some. Quitting is part of seeking for an assumed better option. It takes courage which many lack of. Well, nice to see an Indonesian youth given a chance to share his life.
just dont quit to be a good human being
Keep going kak zahid!! You’re truly an inspirational person >
kereen! you never stop impressing me
Imagine my self can be like zahid in the future✨😇
dude i do relate to this, we do not quit, we just move on and discover new world out there
Just a video that i needed the most❤ the answer to my question.
a very much needed Ted Talk by my favorite youtuber ever.
When you want to quit, it's best to do it as early as possible. I'll take that words
You'r not quite bud, you'r just made a new path
Orang sukses mencari berbagi cara menuju kesuksesannya tetapi yang lainnya mencari banyak alasan untuk ketidaksuksesannya.
"One way or another"
Don't forget with Usaha dan do'a.
Semangat bagi yg lgi berusaha dalam proses!!!
couldn't say anywords for him but proud, goodluck for ur new journey, Zahid!
Truly enlightening and brave. Thank you for the talk
Omg... damn, so proud to see u dude in this channel.... unbelievable, wanna cryyyyy 😢😢
PROUD OF U ZAHID!!!!
OMG I'M GRATEFUL THIS VIDEO RECOMMENDED EARLIER
Thank you so much. You have helped me climbing up the hole of guilt.
So proud of this young man. I know him from couple years ago
Quitting is not for everyone.
Yeap Brother, Do what You Love!
Interesting talk! Thanks for sharing with us Zahid! Proudy Indo!
Well done bro. Proud of you. Your speak is very inspiring
Im so proud of you zahidd, you inspired more people
thank you zahid for this. it means a lot to me
Incredible message, Zahid. Lucky to know you!
SUPEERRR PROUDDDD OF YOU, ZAHID! 🌙✨
He has done a good Job...
Damn, I'm so frustrated bout my life if I look how he get what he want.
...
U're lucky person. Hope my damn life will be getting better.
I'm so frustraring right now.. May life get better. I hope. Thank you u've been here share what is ur mind.,.
Applause
We tend to pursue success and set it as our main goal in life, forget that there is other important things too, to feel content and happy.
The hardest thing is when your parents wont allow you...u wanna quit but they disagree with you...are you sure you're still going to choose to quit and also hurt your parents feelings ? What would you do?
How amazing u are!!!🤩I so proud of you ka zahidddd hehe, usually I am listening speakers from other countries except indonesia and now I am listening u from indonesia!!!
Beautiful! Thank you, Zahid 💖
Once Upon A Time......you got me envy how the way you talk "Quit", it sound damn good. inspiring talk.
Feeling blessing to watch this video
keren bgt bggggg!!!!!1!1!!!!11!1!!
So proud of u🥺💓
This person inspires me a lot
Proud of you bang zahiidd 🥳
Fortunately UA-cam brought me here when I'm in doubt asking what if I quit? What if I'm wrong in making decisions? Thanks TED, thanks Ibrahim
Well in my opinion, first of all I think you should not feel guilty, just like Seth Godin said.The feel of guilty is really bad, cause it's really holding you back. It's gonna waste your time, waste your energy thinking something that can't be repeat.
Secondly, you just need to analyze about what's really happening right now and think about what decision you can make
JIR DARI KAPAN JAHID ADA TED TALKKKKKKK, you're awesome bro keep it upppp!!
I have just seen the video, and you did great Zahid! Such an insightful video.
This is gold.
Proud of you zahid 🥺🤍
I love his voice and pronounce
zahid, i'm sooooooo proud of u!