How I KILLED Almost All MY Fish

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  • Опубліковано 13 лис 2023
  • We all have terrible experiences at one time or another regarding our fish. I was hoping it would never be this bad. I'll show you what went wrong with my 240 gallon African cichlid tank, Alcatraz -- the HUGE mistake I made and how I am dealing with it. Please be kind with any comments. Thank you.
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  • @CichlidBros
    @CichlidBros 7 місяців тому +41

    Really sorry to hear about the losses. Always a very tough part of the hobby. You’ll get back at it soon I’m sure! 👊🏻

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much. I not discouraged, but just very, very sad. I hope you guys never go through this!

  • @CichlidCharmer
    @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +39

    This is so difficult for me. I feel like I’ve lost some family members. If you feel like shaming me, I will appreciate any kindness during this terrible time for me. Thank you ❤
    UPDATE: I have 12 remaining inmates, and I have moved them back to Alcatraz. Zeke and Gary, my two favorite fish included. I love them all though. Some are still breathing rapidly, so I am hoping I didn’t permanently damage their gills with the short time they were exposed to the chlorine. Thank you all for the incredible support - I did not expect to receive such a huge, positive response, and it has really helped to encourage me during this terrible time. ❤️ And special thanks to Ryan, from Squatch’s Cichlids here on UA-cam for helping me figure out the best way to handle this after I moved everyone to the 75. You are an outstanding fishkeeper and friend.

    • @SADUTTAQUARIUM
      @SADUTTAQUARIUM 7 місяців тому

      Semoga masa sulit anda cepat teratasi. Dan saya akan membuat akuarium cichlid juga saya tertarik dengan video anda

    • @dannyaquatics
      @dannyaquatics 7 місяців тому

    • @SoberBangBangVeteran
      @SoberBangBangVeteran 7 місяців тому

      Sorry broski. I get it.

    • @andyjackson682
      @andyjackson682 7 місяців тому

      No shame, just human error, it happens to all of us.

    • @HUNTERHUNTER806
      @HUNTERHUNTER806 7 місяців тому +1

      I feel sorry for you dear brother... I completely feel what you must be going through...
      I felt the same too bro. Fish dying makes me feel like I lost my family members 😢😢😢
      I hope you will recover soon... I wish you good luck and I pray that none of your beautiful fishes will die anymore.... Best wishes brother 🙏

  • @mtkremer
    @mtkremer 7 місяців тому +2

    So sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing the story as difficult as it may be. This can happen to any of us, and hopefully this will help all of us think through our own process. Hang in there, rebuild and keep sharing great content!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you! I think it’s helpful to share these nightmares without getting too graphic, especially when it happens to someone else.

  • @juliekaewest
    @juliekaewest Місяць тому

    Thank you for sharing this. As a relatively new fish keeper it’s refreshing to see someone like you show how mistakes happen, and should be treated as learning experiences. I’ve lost fish and shed tears because of it, but each loss has taught me a valuable lesson. I am sorry for your loss, truly.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much. I’ve rebounded nicely and have some cool things going on. I appreciate you!

  • @scotp6362
    @scotp6362 7 місяців тому +2

    What a devastating loss! Love and hugs to you! Thank you for sharing the journey!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Definitely, and I feel it’s good to share the good and the bad.

  • @oscardean6351
    @oscardean6351 7 місяців тому +1

    Mate, I’m welling up and I’ve never even seen your channel before although I am now a prescriber. I really feel for you. The fact all your fish had names shows how much you cared for them. I wish I could give you a hug😢

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      I can’t tell you how much that means to me. Thank you, Oscar!

  • @bstewgigworks
    @bstewgigworks 7 місяців тому

    Just wanted to say I love you videos. I’m very sorry for your loses I can say you very tough cause of how many you lost I would of been in tears just because these guys grow on us and become family. I feel your pain and I hope you can grow from it. Hang in there bud! Good luck to ya!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you so much. It was VERY hard. I’ve never been so impacted by a loss of fish before. These Africans are so much more than just plain fish. They have personalities! Anyway, now that I have 12 new guys that is taking all my time and energy, which I am grateful for. Thank you again!

  • @DjPosey3
    @DjPosey3 7 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss keep your head up, you'll bounce back, It's like you said we've all made mistakes and we'll grow and learn from it

  • @acerholics
    @acerholics 7 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss. Same happened to me after a water change. I know the feeling. Hoping you bounce back from this! Definitely happens to the best of us. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Charmer!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Thanks! So you know the feeling. I’m already bouncing back. Super sad though. I didn’t think this would hit me this hard.

  • @tjautocross
    @tjautocross 7 місяців тому +2

    You don't deserve any shaming. None of us is immune from making a mistake and losing fish. It's very sad when this happens. Sending positive thoughts your way!!

  • @scottwalmsley3393
    @scottwalmsley3393 7 місяців тому

    sorry for your loss,one of the reason i never put water in straight from the tap,i use a ibc in the garage,but on a brighter note think about all the new fish you can now have...all the best scott

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thanks, Scott. Yep, I already have a list.

  • @MakoyUnggoy
    @MakoyUnggoy 7 місяців тому +3

    A tank full of tetras is sad but a tankful of cichlids that have personality, character etc is on a whole other level...me and the wife were hoping our favourite big fella survived and were gutted when you put him up last...Keep going, mistakes happen, we are human. Keep us updated please

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Making me cry all over again here. I loved that guy. So cute. Thank you so much!

    • @seansmith6372
      @seansmith6372 7 місяців тому

      You're right I have tetras and their personality is generic nothing close too cichlids or Oscar's for that matter but I still tear up if my tetra die because I feel like they depend on me to keep them alive, their life is literally in my hands and responsibility and I don't like feeling like I let them down.

  • @Aredubu
    @Aredubu 7 місяців тому

    Very sorry for your loss.❤ Thank you for sharing it with us and making it a teachable moment.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you as well. I sure appreciate your kindness.

  • @makiarn777
    @makiarn777 7 місяців тому

    So so sorry for your loss. I’ve lost a bunch of fish recently and it sucks. The music made this video even sadder. 😢

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you. Yeah I cried over and over when I made it. And you’re right - the music made it even worse for me too 😢

  • @johnnygiddo4617
    @johnnygiddo4617 7 місяців тому

    Brand new subsriber from Australia. Mate i feel for you. Hoping to watch you rebuild your stock, looks like you have an amazing set-up.
    Best of luck.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Australia - awesome! I appreciate the sub and kindness. Definitely Already working on getting new boys. Some familiar faces and some new. Gonna be exciting and sad as I continue to remember my old boys.

  • @antoinettevanaswegen8988
    @antoinettevanaswegen8988 7 місяців тому

    I just want to thank you for sharing as well. We have only just gotten our African Cichlid tank, so this information is so helpful to us. It can all happen so fast.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      You’re just staring the journey - exciting times. Use a checklist for any type of maintenance.

  • @jayharreld3542
    @jayharreld3542 7 місяців тому

    So sorry to hear this. I feel your pain, as I have been there too. Got distracted doing a water change while dealing with a family situation and forgot to dose the tank with Prime. Had a very similar outcome where I lost half of my fish. Felt absolutely terrible. Caused me to alter my water change routine. I’ve always premixed my replacement water in Rubbermade garbage cans. Adding Prime now is my FIRST step, in that I add it before drawing any water. I also always use a double dose just in case the city bumps up the chlorine level. This has worked well for several years. Again, I’m sorry it happened. It was some type of mistake. We live and we learn-and the pain will eventually go away. Hang in there and keep creating your awesome videos.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Sorry you had to go through this too. Adding Safe is my first step too. However, when I make videos while doing my ordinary tasks, it’s easy for me to just focus on the video and forget important stuff. I will be using a checklist now. Thank you!

  • @michaelmcclendon3220
    @michaelmcclendon3220 7 місяців тому +1

    I dont know if I'm getting soft or what but man im tearing up over here. This channel was slowly becoming my favorite mainly because of alcatraz and the amazing narration that you provide us. I've even tried to scape my tank to mimic yours. Man im sorry this has happened to you.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you, Michael. I am going to really miss those guys. I am placing an order for new inmates tomorrow that will hopefully bring some new wonderful characters.

  • @bpthakshak2166
    @bpthakshak2166 7 місяців тому

    So sorry to hear about the loss😢
    I too have come across this and couldn’t digest the loss for some days
    Watching your loved one’s die is the worst nightmare none should experience

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, and it sure is. Fortunately I can be sad and still move forward with a positive attitude.

  • @rantsandreviews
    @rantsandreviews 7 місяців тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Over the last 40+ years in the hobby I have lost some fish here and there; including some that were very special to me. Keep your head up friend. It's all you can do.

  • @josiahbounderby3169
    @josiahbounderby3169 7 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss. I just went through this losing almost 2 complete tanks to parasites and my own stupidity of not using a quarantine tank. It was very painful to watch them all suffer and die. Hang in there.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      That is so sad. I feel for you, man. I hope you’re doing okay. I’m hangin in there and moving on. Thank you for your nice comment 🥰

  • @MrMrHassan
    @MrMrHassan 7 місяців тому

    Sorry for you loss, as i watching this I was praying that Furrc ll would not be on this list made me tear up up when i saw him. Again sorry for you loss I can only imagine what you are going thru

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      I’ve cried so many times for Furc including right now. I’ve called him so many names for missing his huge pellets I hand fed him, but he was such a good boy. Thanks brother 😍

  • @gianbarmanable
    @gianbarmanable 7 місяців тому

    Im so sorry for all your losses.its really sad when this happen..stay strong and positive..and sorry for that.

  • @Aquafinity
    @Aquafinity 7 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss. Just know that things will get better soon. I will miss Ray for sure. I’ll be here to talk whenever you need it.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Oh Ray…. I will sorely miss that guy. Thank you 🥰

  • @LeeBo318
    @LeeBo318 7 місяців тому +1

    Sorry for your loss brother...stay strong! I would say hit the tank with some aquarium salt, it should help draw out anything that's within them. It won't hurt to try it, the tanks could use the salt from time to time anyway. I hope this helps and wishing you the best with the rest! 🍻

  • @robc5520
    @robc5520 7 місяців тому

    I feel for you mate. i lost 1 fish last week. That hurt me... I cant imagine how hard it was for you to loose almost 2 dozen.. Head up... dont change... Love your content

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Yep even one is hard. This was unbearable, watching them die and being helpless to prevent it. Thank you so much for the kindness ❤️

  • @BrokeredWithAloha
    @BrokeredWithAloha 7 місяців тому

    Such a bummer, man. As tragic as the loss was for you, I am looking forward to seeing what you decide to do with that tank moving forward. I heard you mention the idea of going a different direction with that tank altogether. I suppose this incident makes that tough decision a bit easier for you. Again, so sorry for your loss!😢

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Thanks. I am sticking with my boys and if I do an American tank, it will be a brand new one. I’m trying to figure out how it could work. It’s a little tougher now, since the new fish are over $600.

    • @BrokeredWithAloha
      @BrokeredWithAloha 7 місяців тому

      ⁠Yeah, I watched your follow-up video and was glad to hear that you are sticking with your Africans. I wish I could get my wife on board with the size of tanks you run. I managed to get her to agree to a 180g for my Black Widow Frontosas, various Synodontis Cats, and my Clown Loaches. I also have a 75g South/Central American tank, but my stocking options are more limited than I'd like. Thanks for putting out the content you do! Keep up the great work!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      @@BrokeredWithAloha Thanks, Ben. Yeah I'm pretty fortunate. I think my wife is even going to let me go one up on the 240, actually. Oh yes. Your tanks sound great!

  • @dbrown4752
    @dbrown4752 7 місяців тому

    Im so sorry to hear that I can't imagine what I would do if this happen to me. Your doing a great job keep it up. Don't let this get to you.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      I miss them terribly, but I will carry on! Thank you 🥰

  • @nandhubt90
    @nandhubt90 7 місяців тому +1

    I am sorry for your loss. We learn from our mistakes and sometimes it costs us more. Don't be sorry or be guilty for what happened, perhaps it's time to stream line the process for example having a printed checklist and maintaining a log to avoid repeating it in the future. I wish you luck for the remaining chaps.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you, and you are absolutely right!

  • @davidolsen3209
    @davidolsen3209 7 місяців тому

    Sorry for your loss. You always had the gorgeous fish and the gorgeous tanks. Hopefully you can bounce back from this

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Oh I will bounce back. I can be sad and not let it alter my course. Thank you!

  • @michellethorpe8700
    @michellethorpe8700 7 місяців тому

    Super sad for you! You had amazing fish and I really enjoy watching your channel all the way from Australia 🇦🇺 … I hope you come back soon with more fish 🐠

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you. I will definitely restock right away. I just need to make sure my water is good. Good new is that the best fish who ever lived is acting like nothing happened.

  • @andyse2008
    @andyse2008 7 місяців тому

    I'm sorry for your losses, I've experienced it too, almost 20 cichlids died because of the water, so I know how it feels, and thank you for sharing

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Oh man, that’s sad to hear. Thank you, Andy.

  • @anthonypride1302
    @anthonypride1302 7 місяців тому

    I'm sorry this happened to you brother! We all have experienced something like this and it sucks

  • @nickzinne7103
    @nickzinne7103 7 місяців тому

    oh my goodness. I am so so sorry! you’ll bounce back! keep your head up.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you so much. I can’t believe how hard this is.

  • @Sampennyyyy
    @Sampennyyyy 7 місяців тому +1

    Hey man, so i actually can relate to this, because the same thing happened to me, i lost a lot of my African Cichlids during a water change, and it was because i forgot to put declorinator in the water. Long story short i left the hobby for a few years because it just killed me. However today, i now have a tank full of African Cichlids that me of a few years ago, could only dream of. Keep your head high, and know mistakes happen and being forgetful happens to the best of us. This is an amazing opportunity to educate everyone watching, You will bounce back, and in the long run, unfortunate events like these, make you all the wiser. I hope you are able to recover the fish who were still alive in this video, best of luck!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Aw thanks so much. So you know the pain. I’m glad you’re back in it. I lost a few more of those that were questionable, so now I have just over ten, but one is still having a hard time. Again, thank you for the kindness!

    • @Sampennyyyy
      @Sampennyyyy 7 місяців тому

      @@CichlidCharmer The good thing is you didn't lose everyone, and im sorry to see some of the unwarranted abuse you've had to take as a result of this. Accidents like these are never done intentionally, its a shame people have no heart...

  • @aqua.scape69
    @aqua.scape69 7 місяців тому

    Man, I am so sorry for your losses. Accidents happen man. You will bounce back. Thank you for your honesty. God Bless you brother. 😢

  • @user-tm9kq2ry7s
    @user-tm9kq2ry7s 7 місяців тому

    It isn't easy to witness the breaking of a bond. Sorry for your loss and I wish you'll have wonderful new collection

  • @DonAlcombright
    @DonAlcombright 7 місяців тому

    So sorry to hear. Stay strong. I had a smaller but similar issue this weekend. I moved my 125g tank to the basement and lost 3 from toting them in the process of the move. I think my totes were too small so I felt awful.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Man I’m sorry to hear that, Don. It sure helps though to commiserate with others who have gone through something like this.

    • @DonAlcombright
      @DonAlcombright 7 місяців тому

      @@CichlidCharmer absolutely. It’s tough but you move past it and learn.

  • @Jake-ur2wf
    @Jake-ur2wf 7 місяців тому

    I am so sorry, best wishes in getting the system back up.

  • @thenelsonbruhs722
    @thenelsonbruhs722 7 місяців тому +1

    Man this is rough. Even losing 1 fish is enough to kill me.
    Really sorry to hear about this bro

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thanks man. Yeah one is tough, but it doesn’t stick with you like this. I feel like I’m living in a daze.

    • @thenelsonbruhs722
      @thenelsonbruhs722 7 місяців тому

      @@CichlidCharmer I get it bro. Just remember that all you can do now is everything possible to preserve your surviving fish. That’s the best you possibly can do right now

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      @@thenelsonbruhs722 I’m definitely doing that. Thanks man ♥️

  • @reneeroberson189
    @reneeroberson189 7 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss 😢

  • @loki8686
    @loki8686 7 місяців тому

    I’m so sorry for the loss! I have lost an entire tank of juveniles to heater malfunction even though I knew I shouldn’t have used the untested used heater. I lost half my fry fish when I forgot to put dechlorinator. It is truly sad to see fishes go. We are human and make mistakes! I’m hope you bounce back soon and get back at it again.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      So hard isn’t it. Especially when you don’t follow your own rules. I’m just plowing forward. Holding onto the pain but using it to make me a better fish keeper.

  • @yeoh22
    @yeoh22 7 місяців тому

    So sorry for your loss. I hope and pray that you bounce back from this. 🙁🙏

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      I will definitely bounce back. Thank you!!

  • @brucecroft9262
    @brucecroft9262 7 місяців тому

    Hey my friend I just saw this video I'm a little bit late watching it, but listen everybody has tragedy and fish keeping and you absolutely are a very passionate fish keeper ,I love your videos you just keep your head up high we all make mistakes in life we learn from them. we do love our fish very much but things do happen you hang in there, I think you're an amazing fish keeper and keep making the videos and good luck in the future and I'm sure that is the only time that'll ever happen. Good luck to you and your fish tanks in room is amazing

  • @mowfast7463
    @mowfast7463 7 місяців тому

    Aww man, I sure am sorry to hear this. Stuff can just happen in an instant. And you're exactly right no poing in beating yourself up but to learn from our follies

  • @lisak3931
    @lisak3931 7 місяців тому

    Man, I'm so sorry for your loss. It happens, but that doesn't make it better really. Praying for your peace.

  • @ranjit5212
    @ranjit5212 7 місяців тому

    Sry for ur loss big brother.I m also hurt for u.I always watched them through u.Few month ago i lost my all fishes except 1.due to my mistake.so can understand ur situation.stay strong.rebuilt A beauty like them to pay tribute .

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Never more encouraging words were spoken.

  • @dadthings167
    @dadthings167 7 місяців тому

    Dang man... This cuts deep. Sorry for your loss but can't wait to see your bounce back. Ray was my favorite... I have a yellow lab that I bought from petco for 3.99 my girls named him bumble bee... He's still with me six years later... My first cichlid. Ray was the mbuna hanging in there tough with those open water peacocks and haps. The Mrs loved alcatraz

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Aw thanks man. I can’t believe Ray is gone. So weird how they become much more than just fish. I’ve kept fish since I was a kid and never felt loss like this. These guys are/were special. Thank you, sir 🥰

    • @dadthings167
      @dadthings167 7 місяців тому

      ​@@CichlidCharmer just showed the Mrs the video and she teared up. Know we appreciate you for all the excellent content you put out there. Oxymoron I know... But get some rest... Keep us posted 🤦🏿‍♂️ hope the 75 is going well.

  • @kentstabilit9541
    @kentstabilit9541 7 місяців тому

    Sorry about this terrible tragedy . Your video homage to each fish was amazing and put fish on a whole other level of pets we love.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you. They are more than just fish to me.

  • @razinfishes1918
    @razinfishes1918 7 місяців тому

    So sorry to hear about your fish Your tank and fish are so beautiful. I fully understand the pain a few years back I lost and entire tank full of fish and totally my fault I was so upset with myself.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Oh no - I hope you didn’t quit. Thank you for the nice comment!

    • @razinfishes1918
      @razinfishes1918 7 місяців тому

      No sir never give up. Still running 4 tanks. Had 5 but gave my 100 gallon to my son.

  • @lukepransey7161
    @lukepransey7161 7 місяців тому

    Sorry about that dude it’s tough but please don’t beat yourself up. I had something similar happen when I added my bristlenose fry to a grow out tank, added a cycled sponge filter and it ended up not having enough beneficial bacteria, 1 day later so much ammonia and most didn’t make it. Also Getting some new fish will hopefully give you some joy that can help you heal! All we can do is learn and be better so keep ur head up !

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Good to hear that - thank you for the encouragement 🥰

  • @HapiPETSWM
    @HapiPETSWM 7 місяців тому +1

    Last month I had a carbonate spike that I couldn’t control, saved 4 fish out of 17… broke my heart, but I’m happy I was able to save the few I have and very happy now to see them healthy.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Wow that is such a good thing to hear. Your positive attitude is awesome. I have moved through the sorrow and am applying my energy to saving the remaining 11. I am very grateful to you!

  • @ethanfriedersdorf
    @ethanfriedersdorf 7 місяців тому +1

    It happens man keep your head up only thing we can do is try to learn and do better. If you are on city water sometimes they change things up and it can definitely kill off fish

  • @TIMOTHYJAMES-wk2yk
    @TIMOTHYJAMES-wk2yk 7 місяців тому

    Man,that truly sucks....very sorry to hear it.

  • @GardenGuy1967
    @GardenGuy1967 5 місяців тому

    So sorry to hear this. It can be a brutal hobby at times!! 😢😢

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  5 місяців тому

      Thank you. I have since rebuilt and I love them even more. I still miss my old friends though 🥰

  • @dascudder
    @dascudder 7 місяців тому +1

    Oh man that is devastating. So sorry to hear about this, honestly it's beyond gut wrenching. WOnder if your water source got contaminated some how? You can usually get away with a number of minutes til you add the dechlorinator (I recall seeing KG mentioning it on one of his videos). If it helps bud, on water change day, I line up all my bottles on a table to be used: Tapsafe, Cichlid trace, Salts, Buffer... all of it. And as I use it, I put it away in the tank cabinet. May be the system to adopt. You have the most amazing tank fella, and the fish have a great home. Sucks, but overcome and adapt. Stick at it

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      I sure appreciate that Paul. It was definitely chlorine. Safe is usually my first step, but I started doing a time lapse and totally forgot. I will be using a checklist and your idea with the bottles is a wonderful one. I’m sure gonna miss those guys.

  • @DonnaDiane74
    @DonnaDiane74 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm so saddened by what happened to your fish. You obviously take great care of your collection. Please don't beat yourself up. If there is a silver lining, it's that other fish will get to have a real home, whenever you decide to restock. 💙

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Aw thanks. That sure makes me feel better. Already ordering new fish 🥰

  • @hanginwithsing1118
    @hanginwithsing1118 7 місяців тому

    Furc was my favorite and definitely hard to see them go. We all have lost fish. It’s what comes with fish keeping. Take time to mourn them but know they’re in fish heaven now.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      He was definitely a fan favorite ❤️ I will really miss that guy.

  • @jrawles87
    @jrawles87 7 місяців тому +1

    @CichlidCharmer, just now seeing the video. Been a long work week for a truck driver. So, so sorry to hear about what happened. When you started the video tribute, the first thing I said was "I hope my man Ray made it" I guess being I have my Mbuna tank I'm kind of tight on my man Ray. When he came up there I slumped in my chair. He kept the bottom tier of Alcatraz in check. If you decide to get more fish, get another Mbuna in memory of my main man Ray and call him Sonny. I'm sure you'll build Alcatraz back up. You were talking about changing Alcatraz over in one of your videos. Maybe this is something to look into. Whatever you do, I'll be pulling for you. Peace my Brother

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      This was an awesome comment to read. First of all, thank you for that! I was so sad for everyone that died, but the two hardest hitters were Furc and Ray for me. I stil can’t believe they’re gone. So I am going to put this in your hands - I was thinking of naming my new yellow lab (yes I am getting one for sure) Icarus, after the guy that flew too close to the sun. Do you prefer Sonny?

  • @mshayden091
    @mshayden091 7 місяців тому

    So sorry for you're loss❤

  • @nghiatruong6071
    @nghiatruong6071 7 місяців тому

    Very nice set up .

  • @tinabankston9599
    @tinabankston9599 7 місяців тому

    I lost 13 of my Fancy Goldfish to Epistylis in October. Been keeping fish 30 years and just didn’t know how to treat it. So sorry for your loss! Your fish were beautiful!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Oh no - epistylis is a deadly killer. Haven’t saved a fish from it yet. Thank you!

  • @joel11211974
    @joel11211974 7 місяців тому

    I’m really sorry for your loss, I feel your pain, I’ve been there too

  • @The_Mothzz
    @The_Mothzz 7 місяців тому

    Sad to hear , i can relate lost mine to ph crash . Hope it gets better best regards.

  • @haythame78
    @haythame78 7 місяців тому

    Really sorry about what has happened - must be devastating

  • @Gilsfishroom
    @Gilsfishroom 7 місяців тому

    Sorry to see this mate. Good on you for having the guts to make this video.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Thanks, Gil. I only did video when there was no need for me to do anything else.

  • @dannyaquatics
    @dannyaquatics 7 місяців тому

    Oh my goodness I'm so sorry to hear about your fish loss. It can happen to everyone. Still I'm so sorry. I'll miss them also.

  • @DiscusNT
    @DiscusNT 7 місяців тому

    I almost lost my Discus like this. My city randomly doses our water system with extra spikes of cloramine in the spring and fall. You never know when it is coming. Then this happens. Now I use a pretreated 70 gallon reservoir for my water changes to be safe.

  • @HapiPETSWM
    @HapiPETSWM 7 місяців тому

    My heart and strength go out to you during this time

  • @bbaerga518
    @bbaerga518 7 місяців тому

    So sorry brother, keep your head up!

  • @adleonard7056
    @adleonard7056 Місяць тому

    Summed it up perfectly. If you make a mistake, grow from it! We're all still learning! I've kept fish for 30 odd years, Africans for about 20 and I still make mistakes. Recently I turned my heater off with the intent to clean it in about 15 minutes. I forgot about it, wasn't until the next morning I remembered I'd turned it off! Luckily big tanks don't lose heat very fast, and our house is really well insulated. Phew!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  Місяць тому +1

      That would be so easy to do. I’m a big “oh I’ll remember that later” guy, and then I forget every time lol. I have to do it now!

  • @gmass1gilbert
    @gmass1gilbert 6 місяців тому

    Sorry for your loss😢

  • @SlimTim_dirty_aquatics
    @SlimTim_dirty_aquatics 7 місяців тому

    So sorry for the losses, not just pets. I understand the pain. In words of Rafiki “either you learn from it or you run from it”

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you @SlimTim. Not running from it.

  • @WillsAquarist
    @WillsAquarist 7 місяців тому

    Just wanted to add my sympathy with everyone else here you’ve given these fish phenomenal care while you’ve had them and things like this happen as tough as it is! Looking forward to seeing you rebuild.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Most appreciated. Thank you for the encouragement 🥰

    • @WillsAquarist
      @WillsAquarist 7 місяців тому

      @@CichlidCharmer no problem it’s the least I can do for all I’ve learned from you and your content

  • @nutmeggs
    @nutmeggs 7 місяців тому

    ❤😢 So sorry for your loss. Things happen and we are all human.

  • @90sbabyD
    @90sbabyD 7 місяців тому

    Stay strong brother!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Always. We must carry on - thank you 🙏

  • @SWIFTPASSAGE
    @SWIFTPASSAGE 7 місяців тому

    Oh man! I have a big cichlid tank like this. I'm really bummed I've been enjoying looking at them. My heart is broken for you. I'm so sorry. Non fish keepers don't understand their family.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! You are so right. Talk to a normal person and they think oh, dumb fish. These fish are incredible and I really am sad they’re gone.

    • @SWIFTPASSAGE
      @SWIFTPASSAGE 7 місяців тому

      @@CichlidCharmer Agreed! I have cameras on my tank when I leave to make sure everything is functioning.

  • @JBenitezReptiles
    @JBenitezReptiles 7 місяців тому

    Sorry for your loss.

  • @taylorhale1035
    @taylorhale1035 7 місяців тому

    Was there any redness around their gills or were any swimming at the top gasping for air? All I remember you saying from the video was lethargy and falling over at the bottom...
    I just wonder if it was from something else like shock. Was the water temperature matched/is your heater still working? Hope you find solace and get to the bottom of the situation!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Yes some were gasping at the top. I believe I did briefly mention that in the video, but I could be wrong. No redness of the gills though. However, I added dechlorinator and put them back later and it didn’t affect them. I could smell chlorine out of the tap. I know that’s what it was. Thank you!

  • @Akhi_Fins_and_Felins_
    @Akhi_Fins_and_Felins_ 7 місяців тому

    Im so so sorry for your loss buddy and believe me i know how you feel as we all must agree as fish keepers we have had these incidents happen to us all i guess its part of the hobby. But yes buddy we all must move on as these do effect us in our day to day lives and the only thing we can do is learn and move on. Hopefully you can get the same ones that you have lost. You take care of yourself buddy ❤

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Aw thanks man. I’m moving on and have new fish coming soon.

    • @Akhi_Fins_and_Felins_
      @Akhi_Fins_and_Felins_ 7 місяців тому

      @CichlidCharmer nice to hear that buddy. Just getting my things ready is well on my fish channel. Will be sending you a video so you can show it on your channel of other people's fish tank. Can't wait to see your new fishes from Ron Cichlids. He has some of the most amazing malawi that I know, and on top of that, the sizes that he gives are amazing. It's so sad he is based in the US as if he were based here in the UK he wouldn't even have time to sleep 🤣😂 take care, buddy

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      @@Akhi_Fins_and_Felins_ thank you - look forward to seeing it!

    • @Akhi_Fins_and_Felins_
      @Akhi_Fins_and_Felins_ 7 місяців тому

      @CichlidCharmer thanks Buddy please help by supporting the channel. This is what's missing in humanity nowadays. If everyone learned to love and care for one another, then we all would be living a living, peaceful life. I have shared your channel with a lot of people who love malawi, and they love your channel just like us all here. Keep up the excellent work and superb videos 💯♥️👊🏼

  • @cipriancoada1284
    @cipriancoada1284 3 місяці тому

    Sorry for your loss brother

  • @oscarlindvall1053
    @oscarlindvall1053 7 місяців тому

    Sad, been fortunate enough to not have a mass death in recent memory(did have a catastrophy 15 or so years ago). It is what it is just hope the rest makes it. Nice montage of the fish at the end.

  • @user-zs8fo9us3w
    @user-zs8fo9us3w 7 місяців тому

    Brother I am so so sorry You've inspired me with your videos and I have purchased four fish just because of your videos I'm so sorry for your loss it's very informative thank you God bless

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      That means SO much to me. It’s people like you who are giving me strength. 🥰

  • @pranav2526
    @pranav2526 7 місяців тому

    Sorry for your loss😢 but keep up the hopes

  • @MamboGuy914
    @MamboGuy914 7 місяців тому

    That sucks sorry to hear that. I recently read a guy that lost 20 expensive piranhas because his City changed something with their tap water

  • @hugoboss213
    @hugoboss213 7 місяців тому

    Sorry for your loss. I had the same thing happen to me! Lost 6 big African Cichlids we are only human

  • @dennispeleg7843
    @dennispeleg7843 7 місяців тому

    I'm sorry you had to go through this brother. All we can do is learn and work through it pal. I learned in a similar matter with the heater with 24 fish. My venustus also survived. But you'll pull through this pal!
    I know it's a bad time, but have you been able to check water parameters afterwards to see if the cycle crashed also?

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you - sorry to hear about your tragedy as well 😢. I did check them and they are fine. I thought for sure it would have killed off my BB. Ryan, from Squatch’s Cichlids, told me the BB would be fine, and he was right.

    • @dennispeleg7843
      @dennispeleg7843 7 місяців тому

      @@CichlidCharmer that's good to hear you're doing good. Hey I know it's too soon but imperial tropical is having the black Friday sale. It'll put you in a better spirit to get back at it. Trust me, I went through it

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      @@dennispeleg7843 thanks! I have some fish coming from Ron’s Cichlids, but it’ll be fun to look anyway.

    • @dennispeleg7843
      @dennispeleg7843 7 місяців тому

      @@CichlidCharmer keep us updated brother.

  • @pauldavis5184
    @pauldavis5184 7 місяців тому +1

    You wouldn’t think a 20% water change even containing chlorine would cause that . Sorry for your loss

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      It was a 75% water change. Thank you ♥️

  • @MightyMoran
    @MightyMoran 7 місяців тому

    I cried when I watched this... I'm so attached to my African cichlids that I couldn't imagine. I have a shipment coming in that got delayed, and I had nightmares last night because of it. I am so, so sorry for your loss... 😢

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Oh that is so endearing - thank you. I still tear up when I think about my boys who didn’t make it. I hope your shipment was okay!

  • @pollylewis9611
    @pollylewis9611 7 місяців тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss, this must be so hard, never feel you need to be shamed, no you love your fish, and I can't think of another person who takes better care of them. Can't wait to hear if you get any strange results on the condition of your water. Oh, I typed a longer response but the Gremlins must have taken it......Just know don't feel shamed, we in this hobby understand, Hugs......Polly!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Thank you, Polly. It is extremely hard, but most of the comments have been very encouraging. I still don’t know if I missed the dose.

    • @pollylewis9611
      @pollylewis9611 7 місяців тому

      Wow that's a tuff one, not sure I ever have come across chorine poisoning, does it affect fish that fast? I lost yet another Ram that was perfect last night this morning gone, this leaves me with the original first 4. Dang, wish there were away I could help with your pain and loss, memories of those awesome dudes and their funny personalities will be with you, and also those wonderful pictures and videos. Hang in there, just hang in there.@@CichlidCharmer

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      @@pollylewis9611 yep. Very tough. Sorry for your loss too. I’m staying away from rams for sure. Now I have a blown cycle in the 75 of course, which I was expecting. I can’t move any bio media from the original tank in case it was something besides chlorine. So I stole a little media from my wife’s tank, added Stability, and 4x dose of dechlorinator to neutralize the ammonia. Lots of surface agitation going since Prime will reduce oxygen levels.

    • @pollylewis9611
      @pollylewis9611 7 місяців тому

      Sounds like you're doing all you can, how are the fish left doing any better, what a nightmare for you. As for me yup no more Rams for sure.@@CichlidCharmer

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      @@pollylewis9611 lots of them are swimming slowly, but breathing heavily. Not all at the bottom or top though. A few, like Zeke and the VC10 are acting like nothing happened. Eduardo was just strutting with one of the other tank’s OGs 😂

  • @antoinettevanaswegen8988
    @antoinettevanaswegen8988 7 місяців тому

    This is so sad, so sorry about your pets that you've lost, it's a very hard thing to go through 😥

  • @Zaotar1
    @Zaotar1 7 місяців тому

    Lifelong fish keeper here, I’m so sorry for your loss, I once lost a tank of fish due to somebody else turning off the power and it was terrible. It can happen to anybody, with just one glitch, so don’t beat yourself up and start anew.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      It’s tough isn’t it. Yep I will definitely carry on even though it’s hard to lose these guys.

  • @danielcaruana4896
    @danielcaruana4896 7 місяців тому

    Im gutted… im really sorry for your loss ! Unfortunately its part of hobby… make this experience make you stronger and better in fish keeping , im really sad about furc 💔 , hopefully your rebuild better then before !

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Thanks, Daniel. I'm really sad about Furc, also. I do have an order coming soon from Ron's Cichlids that will give a lot of new characters to us.

  • @pinedita08
    @pinedita08 7 місяців тому

    Well, lesson learned, add the dechlorinator at the same time the tank is filling up gradually, I am so sorry for your loss men, they were such a bunch of beautifull cichlids that had a lot of time with u, doing the things correctly we can make sure we do not commit this kind of errors again

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you. I always put the dechlorinator in before I start adding water. Just got distracted with the video. Now I will use a checklist.

  • @jc49fishniner4lif7
    @jc49fishniner4lif7 7 місяців тому

    I'm sorry to hear that 😢 I have no words brother

  • @PlainsPup
    @PlainsPup 5 місяців тому

    So sorry to hear about this. Here’s a related story: I remember years ago, I learned the hard way to use only specialty aquarium supplies. I used a brand new kitchen sponge, which turned out to be permeated with chemicals. At the time I had an established tank with an Oscar, Jack Dempsey, convict, jewelfish, and green sunfish. By morning, all the fish were lying on the bottom, and I instantly knew why. I did a 95% water change, and that got rid of most of the poison. The cichlids made a complete recovery, but unfortunately the sunfish died. Lesson learned, made me a better fish keeper. All the best to you and yours, and keep growing!

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  5 місяців тому +1

      Wow I can’t believe any of them made it, but I’m glad they did! Thank you for sharing that and for your encouragement 🥰

  • @picturegirl27
    @picturegirl27 7 місяців тому

    Oh my gosh this made me cry, this is heartbreaking and I'm so sorry. I lost a baby peacock I ordered from Florida (I'm in Oregon) the other day and I'm still upset. They really are our little babies and we do grieve when we lose them

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Oh no, sorry to hear about your loss as well. Thank you so much ♥️

  • @vickicoon673
    @vickicoon673 7 місяців тому

    Oh I just saw your video and I am in tears. 😢
    I’m so so sorry. I know how it hurts….💔

  • @KyKane
    @KyKane 7 місяців тому

    This was so devastating to watch. Thanks for sharing.. Everyone else still okay?

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      I lost a few more, unfortunately. Thank you for checking 🥰

  • @diegovaiasuso8535
    @diegovaiasuso8535 7 місяців тому

    I one time dosed my (neolamprologus multifasciatus) shelldweller tank with some algae killer chemical. I came home to all 100 of my shelldwellers dead. It shattered me. I felt like I just killed my dog. Took me a few months to get back into the hobby after that. I feel your pain 🙏 Don’t beat yourself up too much.

    • @CichlidCharmer
      @CichlidCharmer  7 місяців тому

      Ugh. Devastating. So happy to hear you came back though. I’m moving on. Still feel it, but it isn’t beating me. Thank you!