This Mixed-Gender Grappling Match Ended In Tears… 🥋
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- Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
- This boy and girl were matched up together in a jiu-jitsu tournament. Although it ended in tears was it was of a difference in skill level rather than it being about a difference in gender?
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This aint no jiu jitsu
Street fight jiujitsu like I do is 10X more scary af there are hybrids such
Karate-jiujitsu
Boxing-jiujitsu
Im a "Win with logical fighting or other terms win with anything near you"
I trained jiujitsu everyday
Train 2 times a week of boxing because I was a boxing prodigy before I found jiujitsu that fits my build
I have never met my opponent,Im not a black belt but Im an expert at street fighting
Number one street fighter
Number four professional fighter in my region
There 3 better people who are blackbelts
1 karate blackbelt the silent white jade
2 judo blackbelt the tiger
3 Speedy Star(I dont know who the F named this Luth kid who likes to dodge Speedy Star but that is the nicknames)
4 Im The Smartest Fighter but some may call Me No Honour(I also placed second in math and biology in my city competetion)
Oh yea I have fought the jiujitsu hybrids only twice
@@ZRGaming4 yo equal rights equal fights
@@mrlava4141 it is 100% Brazilian Jiu-jitsu
she was over match she wasnt mentally ready from the start. she played the passive role from the gate. when her guard didnt work she should have immediately move to her side facing him pulling half guard. she laid flat on her back.
It actually looks like he was taking it easy, trying not to hurt her
She was outmatched
@@user-mk8lx6ov7o I agree
"Nah, he'd win."
@@user-mk8lx6ov7o I agree
@@user-mk8lx6ov7o because he was a boy and he was younger and still won?
“Who’s at fault?”
Whoever signed her up for that fight.
Exactly...
So her if she said yes to doing it
@@DizzyAintRight if she signed up for the fight like bro said, yes. Otherwise probably a parent.
A 90lb women can take on 20 200lb men in hand-to-hand combat. You know it's true because you see it in the movies and TV shows all the time and Hollywood never lies. Weight classes and biology are just discrimination.
No one is at fault? This whole video and comment thread are weird. No one did anything wrong here, mixed gender matches are commonplace with children that young. She did her best, she lost, and she got upset. She's a kid, it's good for her to learn to lose and she'll be stronger because of it. I think people are trying to turn this isn't something it's not. There's nothing sinister going on here.
It was a lose lose situation for the boy.
If he wins: "as expected" or "you beat up a girl"
If he loses: "you got beat up by a girl"
The girl was bigger and probably stronger than him
I agree, my daughter wrestled and beat a boy in a meet, he got bullied mercilessly. He was new and I think he quit. My daughter doesn't understand, and most women will probably never understand, and that's ok cause it goes both ways. I think the experienced boys knew it was a lose lose and never volunteered. One time a boy volunteered then saw her and changed his mind.
@@zugdawg She's bigger than him and probably stronger too. He won because he was better
thats the nonwoke take.
both are true, the boy better win, and if he lost he's really a weakling. if you believe otherwise, you're part of the woke crowd.
Well said, if boy win= Ugh expected, if boy lose= he got b ully girl get praise
The boy seemed very respectful and considerate, he didn't even celebrate the victory like the way people do!
people in jiu jitsu usually dont celebrate like a lot of other martial arts
The boy didn’t even look happy at the end, if anything he was sad he won
She took her beating like a man 💪
He beat a girl nothing celebrate it ridiculous he has to face girls
@@abhaygupta3915 men don't celebrate after beating a kid they celebrate after defeating an opponent they think was better than him
He wasn't aggressive at all. He was using skill
I have been in many fights. The aggressive ones broke my nose.
He said aggressor as in the boy was making the first move
He is the aggressor. Over whelming and using skill to outsmart her. In other words, he I'd indeed the aggressive.
Yeah. Didn’t look like he put a lot of effort into it.
@@hypercrizotanuimformulache11he's not aggressive is just beating the gurl
I feel more pity for the boy, who is in a lose-lose scenario. How much fun did he have? Worrying about humiliation should he lose, holding back so he doesn't hurt her, being extra-careful not to accidentally touch her inappropriately, and ultimately feeling no sense of achievement for beating her and feeling bad for making her cry.
Facts
Well put
Damn… 😢
@@thelastredcoat1662 fr
Exactly! Women and men need to be seperate period. Men are in a lose lose situation and women are in a he let her win lose or just plain lose scenario.
Yea I'm not surprised that the boy looks upset too. Doesn't seem like a bully. Normal people don't feel good about making others cry and feel terrible.
"Doesn't seem like a bully" is unnecessary, like how could he possibly seem like one?
@@Ollepellekasper I don't know. Someone who gets joy from harming or hurting others; both physically or mentally. Doesn't really matter, point was just agreeing that the boy also looks upset about the situation. Either because his actions left a girl crying or just the whole situation in general.
@@StonnedFoxx Alright👍
@@Ollepellekasper Caviler.
@@StonnedFoxxYou do know what martial arts are about, right?
No one is at fault
We fight we cry we adapt
This is the way. We should let our kids try a million different things. I think one of the defining features of Gen X is that it was pretty much the last generation where people thought that doing really dumb shit, like climbing and falling out of trees, was a great idea. We lived (OK, some didn't) and learned. We should let our kids do the same.
Learn that it's OK to get an ass whooping from time to time but learn from it that it will happen. Learn it's OK to be the nail but better to be the hammer. Learn how to become the hammer.
She may forever get her ass handed to her in competition but on the streets, after years of training, she'll be able to hold her own against guys that think they're all that.
Bullshit; it IS someone's fault.
@@DroGodina Unless she specifically didn't want to be there and didn't chose to fight, no-one is at fault here.
If both of those kids wanted to be there and fight, let them fight, let them learn.
You never know, if we let this generation go through some rough and tumble like Gen X and those before used too, we may finally get a new generation that isn't full of whiny f***s that complain all the time.
@@Swampster70 the boy still lost, it's a lose lose situation which he was forced into
we fight we cry , the adapting part will take at least 10 million years for women to evolve to be as strong as men physically
The boy looked confused and upset a bit too. They never talk about that side either
It’s a lose lose for the guy. Either he beat a girl, not seen as a real victory from some men. Or he lost to a girl, he will be teased about that by everyone who knows.
As his father i would tell him don't be upset this is what a open mix competition is as her father i would tell her going against a guy is not like going against a female you have to know more then him and willing to use it first,fast and never giving up
@@certifiedfnhater4038 we finally getting the equality we wanted
@@certifiedfnhater4038there is no such thing as girl.. Social construct... 😅 Right?
You speculating is just a sign of defeat and bias. Grow up
My man doing everything in his power to not get in a certain position, or hurt the girl, he was showing her much care and respect.
no he wasn't lol they're just kids, stop overanalyzing it
@@greg77389 I don't like emotional people with no knowledge or substance. The young man was clearly avoiding her attempt to pull him into her closed guard. Could it have been strategic to not get into her full or closed guard? Possibly. I think it was more out of respect. Because if he was rolling with another male, I believe he would have shot right in between the legs. I say this only because he entered the guard above her hips and started doing control tactics with the hands, wrist, arm, head (that he would have done in the closed guard possibly switching to the half guard) until he submitted her. You can even see her clearly trying to pull him into her guard at the beginning.
Yes they are only kids, but they are also trained. And I believe the young man (out of respect) did not want to put her, or himself, in a compromising position. Let me guess, you didn't know any of this, and made a comment from pure emotion.
@@nothingtoseehear5012 You seem to be the one getting emotional and making stuff up 🤣
I'm simply going by the cold hard facts--Two kids were grappling, both trying to win, and one lost. That's it. Next time just go by the facts instead of projecting your speculations onto the situation. And especially stop projecting your emotional issues onto others.
@@greg77389 Oh my. You're the one liking your own comments. And I have made up nothing. It takes the most minimal research to see what I've said is informed and correct. And yes, sorry, you are incredibly emotional. Ignorance and lack of emotion regulation is quite ugly my friend.
@@greg77389 I think you forgot the fact that kids have gender? Pretty sure that both of them looked old enough to differentiate themselves apart. I know that you have a point where 2 kids are trying to win and one lost, but @nothingtoseehear5012 has a point too, little guy have upper hand but have reservation going for a compromising positions that's what I think he is pointing out. Both points can be seen in the video.
#1... he was smaller than her. #2... he was DEFINITELY holding back.
He looked to be stronger and had more training. She seemed to be stuck on not sure of herself and being timid which makes me think he has more training
@sostrucking 1) Males are stronger than females
2) They both were on the same belt so it's impossible that 1 of them was less trained despite the boy being younger
@@maq2.o624 Women are given the same rewards for less work because we have to give them those things or these stable strong beings will start screeching, crying and shouting wolf.
Edit" A female black belt is equal to a man purple-black belt. You just take their status, divide it by 2 and you get something resembling reality.
@@ionutbadea7915 Not in all cases. We had one blackbelt in our dojo, a woman, who was absolutely insane. At one point we were doing tests to see how far we could jump, we lined people up on the floor in a line side by side. She jumped over 12 people.
None of the guys could do this. We also had a rule, if you fought outside the dojo, you spar one of the black belts. People prayed that it wasn't her.
@@Neasel. And I know a gyspie that dosen't steal. Exceptions reinforce the rule.
Boys and girls should not be competing against each other.
Don't women want equality?
Yes i totally agree
@@FeryBatalevic there’s no reason sport should be separated by sex, so you are wrong to agree.
@@princesssoupy741 You have no knowledge of biology and as such have no value in your opinion. Science and biology deal in hard facts, not feelings.
@@princesssoupy741 lake that ...thé girls Never win
That boy showed great restraint. His parents should be proud.
Agree
I'm a MMA fighter and instructor. I'm proud of him and he ain't my student
You hate the woman... All of them...
no they should not he shou8ld always go all out not matter what training boys to be weak is wrong
@@michaelbrown8441 Demonstrating self control shows great strength, not weakness.
They put this poor boy in an awkward position, the biggest struggle he had was not hurting her 💯😥😥
I would let rip..
How does this have one reply
That's the problem with training with women, to let them do stuff I have to let them do it
@@jediknight1294 Well yes we are a fair bit weaker by nature, I was the only girl in a class of muay thai and I had to spar with guys, and it was pretty much me hitting them and them not really feeling it.
*At that point I am not gonna fight I honestly rather surrender.*
My sons wrestled in Middle School & had to wrestle girls. My sons were uncomfortable, and a bit skittish when it came to it. I told them that those girls were just like any other opponent and to treat them like one. My son shrugged, still a bit unsure about it. The match started, my son threw an arm bar and pinned the girl in about 25 seconds. The girl instantly threw a tantrum, ripping off her head gear crying for a rematch because " it wasn't fair". The ref docked her team a point for unsportsmanlike conduct.
My son felt a little sorry for her because he knew it wasn't a fair match.
The whole situation was a lose-lose scenario: the girl was upset bc she lost so readily- never really had a chance on the mat. My son won the match, but he wrestled a girl, but he took no satisfaction in the victory.
I wrestled in middle school and in my first year of high school. This is my first year not wrestling. I never had to wrestle a girl thankfully, but I’ve seen them wrestle. I don’t know if it’s just the ones I saw or what, but it was crazy. I remember there was one I saw at a meet who wrestled like 3 times and won all of them. She was the only girl at that meet. Some of them can’t wrestle dudes, and that’s understandable, but the ones who can go big or go home
“threw an armbar” in wrestling? From on their feet? Or are you saying threw a head and arm?
Arm bars aren't used in wrestling. Your story sounds made up
@@lanehenkle6400 There is an armbar you can use from top position to pin and or get near fall positions but it’s much different than a bjj armbar. What this guy said makes no sense though since you wouldn’t do it from standing.
its no satisfaction us beating girls we protect them not hurt or defeat them. its going against the natural grain..its uncomfortable for us because wrestling taps in on deep instinct and fight abilities.
we can't get there with girls.
This fairness bs is handicapping champions.
He went way smoother than I would’ve tbh, I support gender equality these women ask for
There has never been a separation of gender in martial arts. Omg, I'm losing my mind. MA is paired by SKILL. Always has been, always will be. People have lost their minds!
It's also obvious that he's holding back, the struggle there was not on taking her down but on not harming her.
You could even see he's like "and I can't touch her there, and there......can't touch her there.....sooo" as he calculated how to take her down.
It’s not about brute force
What?! I get it, a lot of you don’t know about BJJ tournaments and rules. I was a ref for kids divisions and I’ve seen tons of girls sub boys. Boy was not holding back but was strategic about his next moves.
@@joeqb5992 who asked
You can tell she thought he'd do nothing too. As soon as he's not afraid, she's holding back tears, she starts crying when she's on her feet. Someone needs to talk to whoever told her she could actually compete against males in a grappling sport. Karate could go well enough, but BJJ or wrestling, seems the WORST idea for young girls. Let's not ignore she has 2 or 3 inches in height over him, wider shoulders, and it looks like a few pounds, she's probably older. Also that HE IS REAALLLLLLLY holding back. From hair, to clothes, to figure, you can tell which of them is committed to the sport. She's either got no father or her father wanted her to wake up.
If she wouldve won and he wouldve cried they wouldve cheered her on and told him to man up
The fact that this is true makes it even more unfair to the boy, he had no choice 😢
This whole article clearly sympathizes with one side more than other. There is no "fault" as a match is a match. Fault only even enters a conversation when something is unfair or wrong. Everything these days is unfair but only when ONE side is winning. If other had won, words like "fault" would never be part of discussion
Yes, although maybe in words encouraging the loser to practice more to win next time, its less relevant between kids but we have to acknowledge if a healthy boy loses against a same size girl, then he likely simply needs to practice his technique, and when they hit puberty there's even less excuse
that's how a real man deals.
And this fight wouldn't be on UA-cam JS
He did her a solid...
Physical recovery: 7 minutes
Emotional recovery: 10 years
Oh, that poor little princess should have dominated over the mean bad man 😆😂😆
this killed me😂😂😂😂😂
For real , she knew what she was signing up for , at first thought this was a Olympic style wrestling match . Oh well , now she knows , females should be in competition with other females .
Dr Watson would agree 👊🏾
Women can totally without question compete with men. There is always going to be a final result be it win lose or draw. As an educator i have had roughly 5 or 6 students who happen to be female varsity wrestlers and 1 of them in particular is very highly revered as a top wrestler in the state. I happened to have a male student about a year later around the same size who had mentioned that he had missed the state championship tourney by 1 match and in later conversation i asked if he had known the female wrestler i previously mentioned simply out of curiosity and hope that she was Still doing well. He then told me that not only did he one get but she was the last match he had and beat him to advance. knowing both of them i knew there was no way he would ever hold back in an honest match regardless of the opponent and she had no perspective of anything other than she would be victorious. His telling of the story is he held nothing back ave she was simply a better wrestler. Anyone shield be able to compete with anyone. That being said when entering competitions or any other situation don’t cry gender , weight class, years of training or anything else. If you agree to compete against another person regardless of anything else then you should try your best and live with the results.
It’s fair they’re taught the same. It’s just who has more skill.
He is NOT aggressing or being aggressive, he simply dominates and dominates simply, he is hardly even trying.
GIGACHAD
Correcto
You understand that a male carries the risk of embarrassment. Of course, he's not going to let her win. Have people forgotten that children are assholes? They'll make fun of you for having cancer. Maybe his dad said, "You better not lose to that girl."
@@harrytoms90 that boy was not a simp its that simple
@@harrytoms90 the boy was real gentle with her
Calling children assholes is kinda asshole by itself
If you want equality this is it. He wasn't rude he wasn't disrespectful. He released on the tap. This is equality
Its not equal though, he was hesitating the whole time😂 if it was equal this would have been over a lot quicker
Yeah why is this video making so big deal about it. It's sports, kids cry when they lose. There is videos of boys crying when they lose to girls. Nobodys fault, kids grow this way.
@@wiresculptor5951So because he took longer, went slower, she experienced frustration more fully. I know nothing about the sport but it appeared he was very methodical in his approach.
@@Beezlie727 well in society its wrong for a man to hit a woman yet women think its fine for them to be in contact sports with men, let me guess if he accidentally hurt her you would be screaming misogyny
@@wiresculptor5951You can tell he’s holding back. Y’all wanted equal rights for boys and girls, here you go
Who`s at fault? Idiots who allowed them to fight against each other.
Why are they an idiot? She's taller than him.....girls that age are more developed.
Most sports are inter-gender at that age.
Can you explain why they are an idiot for matching these two? Just because one of them lost?
So anyone who makes a match between two where one loses is an idiot? I seriously don't understand what your feeble mind is trying to say?
They are 2 kids learning stuff. There is no fault.
@@danielcox7629 Weirdo.
Yeah, I don't know. Just because she cried doesn't mean it was bad for her. She's trying to learn to defend herself.
@@danielcox7629what I would have written if my phone allowed me to directly reply to comments.
I have two separate points of view on this.
Con to mixed gender matches: I think mixed gender matches should not be allowed because of the compromising situation you are putting your kids in, especially in BJJ. You could accidentally touch or grab something you’re not supposed to and could be labeled as a “predator” (yes even as a child).
Pro mixed gender matches: I think it is a good thing to put your daughter up against a boy in a controlled environment like this. It teaches them to fight through exhaustion and not to give up fighting. The reason being is on the off chance she is walking by herself and gets grabbed from behind or put into a compromising situation she will have the knowledge and know how on how to defend herself because most attackers are male (unfortunately).
@@usmc5185
You are wrong because you are saying that women should compete against men just to be safe when attacked by men on the street. Sports are sports and attackers are useless human beings. Why put a female against a male in a sport where she will never win a medal, lose her confidence and maybe try steroids so to compete destroying her body from ever having babies. You put a woman to fight a man you lose the woman forever.
Boy knew to hold back and win without excessive force. That's a good mindset to have, no matter the situation. Whoever signed that girl up for the fight is the one at fault here.
Yes. She was over matched. She wasn't ready.
@@Rhaspun You don't always get a perfect match. That's life. Deal with it.
I give the boy respect for not going all out
There's no "fault" it's just a dumb clickbait title. She competed in a match and lost; end of story.
Yes they should deal with it by they we mean the loser in said situation correct?@bow_wow_wow
Lots of younger and inexperienced kids cry when they lose in front of a crowd. She wasn't hurt, the boy didn't overdo anything.
True story, I was 14, TKD, I cried in my 3rd tournament 2nd round after suffering a complete defeat, my hits felt as it did no damage and I couldn't even counter as all my opponent hits sent me back shock after shock. 3rd round different opponent, I couldn't contain my anger and rash decision led me get a really good hit sent me out of ring. Before the tournament i was arrogant and egotistical, after the tournament, I was mocked, laughed, failed promotion to black belt, and literally used as an example in classes.
But, one of the black belt from China, Hoi Meng literally took me under his wing and trained me to control the anger, he will kick my stomach repeatedly until I stopped crying, it went on every week until I stopped shaking as well, during that time I learned more combos, more movements to increase force, pressing the advantage or follow through on defence and offence. End of the year, I was paired against the best in our class, I lost by small margin, gave me the confidence I needed, I was progressing. At 15 end of the week I took boxing lessons and Silat and promoted to black belt. At 16, entered a tournament after the teachers approval, of course some remembers me as the cry baby, I won 2nd, beaten by a really fast counter opponent, that shut them up.
17 years of age I started teaching black and red, I was ridiculed by them for being the longest and among the rare to fail miserably as red and black. I remember not caring as it is true. However majority of kids are thin, me on the other hand are more fit and sturdy, got the muscles working. Hoi Meng sometimes comes by to oversee the progress, twice a month and said I'm better suited to teaching than fighting. To prove him wrong, I entered an open under 21 tournament at 17, once a year event, I've past the preliminaries rounds, all through semi finals, I've beaten Muay Thais, kickboxing, Silat, other black belt TKDs and some Chinese martial arts, but I lost the semi final to a kickboxing opponent, that feint a hard side kick and as I sidestep away from his right, he just jumped and straight hard heel to my left kidney, couldn't continue.
So I thought I proved a point to Hoi Meng, after a few months, in a training spar, big circle, Hoi Meng told me to spar against Sarah, one of my own student, after some back and forth, I was actually reducing my strength and focus more on speed and technique because she is a girl, she focused on speed more, so I thought I should just match it, but she got closer, evading my counter left kick, and using her quick left side kick which forced me to immediately land my extended left so I'm stable when she hits my block, but when it hits, it felt light, I have no clue why, in an instance a felt a huge weight on my left knee, and I got kneed in the face. She freaking jumped on her right leg, landed on my knee, used it as a stepping stone, and jumped agained with her entire weight shifting from right to left. I got a small concussion.
I can say overconfidently, overconfidence is dangerous. I literally went through, overconfident > shattered > confident > overconfident > shattered. But Hoi Meng was right, I was better as a teacher than a fighter. As I can go so far with hardwork, but those who also put in hardwork, with the right aptitude, can make quick decisions on instinct, changing their stances and follow through on the opportunity, always get the leverage they need. Yes I lost to Sarah in TKD rules, 2 minute spar each round, but how many actually out there taking defence classes and how many put in the work, how many got great teachers, and how many actually got aptitude for it? Never underestimate anyone, even a girl.
@ajstyles5704 I was in TKD when I was younger. My opponent kicked me in the face 3 separate times, never got warnings or nothing. By that 3rd kick, I was crying and ready to hurl. Another girl got disqualified for kicking a girl in the face. 3 out of 4 of them were from the same school, and the ref was their instructor. I'm thankful they were all girls, a teenage males kick to the face would have put me in the hospital with a broken jaw.
@@kovanightshade I applaud you for standing your ground, but I'm a bit confused, why high kicks aren't allowed in tkd spar at your place?
so this happened a while ago, it's too bad refs like that exist but its just reality. If you were my student back then, first i would praise you for being tough, but I would tell you one thing you don't want to hear, that was shameful display. You must be capable to block or evade, especially from high kicks, with or without ref, even if your opponent breaks the rules, its no excuse. Not all tkd teaches the same thing, the same way. At my place, you get big points if you hit the face, in a spar it's automatic a lost. I would proceed by teaching you how to improve your reflexes and improving movements through repeated exercise of back stepping and side stepping until you are light on your feet, I would want to see you being able to predict when high kicks are coming, I would show you how a leg requires a steady foothold on the ground for high kicks, how it would look like from the front.
About the boys thing, it's why I will always recommend ladies to take tkd over any other martial arts, most tkd training increases reflexes and speed, the coordinated routine is actually just to make your body memorise the movements, make it a muscle memory, many and I mean many, don't train properly, I also didn't in the beginning. It's also a reason why I praise ladies that works hard, i want them to work harder, because they have to, there is only one attribute that closes the gap between a woman and a man, and that is Agility. I genuinely would look at a tomboy with no flexibility and say "this is going to take a lot of work" to their face, you ain't oulasting a man in a direct brawl unless they are drunk, high or exhausted.
I cried in my judo tournament I lost in 6th grade and I’m a dude 💀
Called a sore looser
the boy got my respect he was obviously holding back trying not to harm the girl his parents must be proud
What? He literally choked her out.
@@anderslarsen4412
What? Was he supposed to give her a cookie in a grappling match?
@@anderslarsen4412 i said *trying* not to harm the girl
@anderslarsen4412 you don't watch a lot of grappling huh
@@JO-pi8lsyeah normally he would twist her like a towel 😂
never apologize for giving a female what they asked for.
Did she really ask for it? That was a child. The adults in charge should've known better. You don't say, "Ok, sweetie," when a child asks to do something stupid. That said, I don't know the whole story, so this is only based on the clip.
I'd say, if anyone was in the wrong, it was whoever pitted the two together. Girls and boys are built differently, and pretending otherwise is nonsensical
No it’s by wait if someone is the same weight they put them together
Ju Jitsu is a style that equalizes gender and strength...It's about Skill. I've watch many Blue Belt+ women completely destroy white belt Males that weighed more than the women. Look up Grace Gundram. I've personally watched all 90Lbs of her choke out 180Lb men. In this video the boy is simple more experienced.
@@melissamccolligan1763 🙄
true female bodies were mad for pregnancy adpations i only know cuz i smurt
Nonsense? is just what the Left wants, destabilizing.
That boy CLEARLY held back. "Who's at fault?" All the people who ever told her that males and females are equal in strength.
In fighting for sports your ment to hold back in a 1v1 you go for the kill
At this age, there is not much difference if they are about the same size. This boy was just a lot better.
@@deavyhick6803 what? 😂 he is heavier and have already more muscle as her. Boys at his age are more rough to each other. They are training on differents levels. its like you learning history for a math test.
@bluestreck1343 girls train hard too, there are plenty thay would smash this kid. They are in the same weight class. he might be heavier, adults weight classes are seperated by like 16 lbs or something. Pre pubescent kids that are in the same class are all the same. This kid won because he had a better gym and coaches.
@@bluestreck1343 he's in the same weight class. Girls train hard too and there are plenty that would smash him. The difference is in training. This boy has better coaches and a better gym
That young boy was being as gentle as he could to her. A great sportsman.
boys and girls before puberty are fairly evenly matched. the only difference here is that the girl has a feminine emotional reaction and the boy has a logical masculine approach
@@LiquidSnakeSSJ4yea, I wouldn't be sure he outmatched her in strength, but the girl was either not mentally ready for a fight, or simply lacked the skills. Whoever "trained" her and let her fight should be held accountable for any physical or emotional damages the girl suffered from.
@@MikaeruDaiTenshiyea he was just better skill wise. Children cry literally all the time. It's not like it's much better when it's a boy crying instead lmao
To me a great sportsman is one that gives his opponent his all, holding back is disrespect
I hear this when people loses their common-sense and their sense of right direction, in other words I often hear this when people thinks and behaves like animals who cannot tell right from wrong...
I don't see the problem here. She didn't prepare and she lost.
No one was at fault. It was a fair competition, and children need to learn that there can only be one winner.
That kids self control is admirable.
Only way they learn is if we don't. In her mind she will be like oh I had him.
Tf bro
whachu mean by that? 🧐
They ought to have separate boys and girls teams. Feminists love this cause no matter who wins, the males are always brought lower. Anyone who thinks they aren't man haters is a fool.
@@ShadowsK.Y he restrained himself from hurting her
Anyone watching can see he’s being gentle. Contrary to feminist rhetoric, men instinctively try NOT to hurt women. This boy is already a man.
@@codywyatthicks dont project your personal bs on these children💀
@@adar1873 lol. the kid was actually holding back and was trying to not hurt the girl. She is weak it is fact. In the same belt
@@adar1873 Your attempt at controlling behavior is abusive.
feminism would support this fight because it stands for everybody to have equal rights. you failed to understand this then decided to hop online to shade them you so embarassing
@@acemaster1682 you seem to know more about that fight than those two kids
Everyone is screaming equality and inclusion. There it is. That girl was much taller but the boy showed amazing restraint. He only went 50%.
Not even 50%
49.6% imo
Probably only 25%. It literally looks like all he did was apply his body weight.
No more than that.
No mate. You've got it all wrong. Equality and Inclusion is only a fair thing when those calling for it get an advantage.
I’m glad she got the opportunity to understand defence against a male opponent. Might save her life one day.
Boy was younger, respectful and yet holding back, it was a lose lose situation for him, poor boy.
@ArvindSingh-mo6ts empty win for the boy, he sits to meditate.
@@mangostickyrice9781 what do you mean empty win? Boys are around the same strength as girls at that age if not girls are a lot stronger than boys up until puberty.
@Salinassss " if boy loses to girl, teased by class. If boy wins, so what? You beat a girl." E M P T Y
Also even if they are evenly matched, the boy cannot use certain positions/pins or movements/holds.
The left destroys everything
@mangostickyrice9781 you consider it empty because you have a disgusting world view. Not everyone thinks women are beneath men quit projecting that shit onto kids that's beyond gross.
She is learning an important lesson at a young age as opposed to f*cking around and finding out as an adult.
You do realize kids fight each other all the time at this age, boys attack girls with fists and vice versa. And what lesson should she have learned there, I wonder, considering she was set up for this fight by adults?
@@tihonannenkov4114 don't know where the fck are you from but it never even crossed minds of me and all my friends to hit a girl..
Yeah, this girl willingly agreed to this.
It seems that women are always trying to "outmatch" men in ways that men are physically superior, instead of capitalizing on ways they're superior over men. (Sometimes endurance, even pain levels tolerated, but that's not absolute.)
This is the end result.
So, why was she crying?
Did she REALLY think there was "no contest," that she would win, no matter what?!
In my opinion, the boy was holding back.
I saw no reason for her to cry and be dramatic, but girls are always taught to do that when they don't get their way.
That's been happening for ages!
"Who's fault is this?!"
It's the fault of every woman who ever taught this girl any of the lessons that resulted in her expectations, as well as her response to the outcome.
Starting with her mom and including every female "role model" she's ever had.
(Mostly informed by Mom in all likelihood.)
It was a good lesson to be learned, I just hope she gets the right lessons out of it!
@@jeffro. you are making stuff up lol. From experience, children at this age cry after losing in front of an audience, girls as well as boys. Its completely normal. And mix gender competing is also normal. Most likely she was simply told that her next opponent is this boy and all she could do is fight or forfeit. I honestly doubt the girl was sure of her victory, she seems to be a beginner in jiujitsu, the boy isnt.
I honestly wonder how exactly you feel like you know what the girl is thinking :D I always find it funny when some people believe they can read other peoples thoughts.
@@tihonannenkov4114 Never in a million years did a girl ever have a chance if she even tried to fight me, no matter what age.
And I think the same can be said for the vast majority of boys.
I don't know what world you live in, but in this one, girls find out very quickly that they are no physical match for a fight with boys.
She's finding out here that she is no match for boys, and will never be a match against men when she grows up.
Her parents have taught her that lesson by putting her there.
They shouldn't have done, but on her own accord without her delusional parents, she won't want to do this again.
This boy held back, he cared more about his opponent's well being over winning the match. He's got more character and respect than the people who decided to make this match up a thing and the parents of that young girl.
I had watch the video a couple times to see the boys technique, and from my point of view as an MMA fighter and instructor. He did very well.
He wasn't overly aggressive at all. I've seen heaps of boys in mixed matches in jiu-jitsu comps were DQ for having no self control no respect and stink of ego.
A few girls too. My daughter and I grapple mostly with men because in our dojo, we are the only two females in jiu-jitsu. We had to work with whoever available and we are now elite fight team fighters.
Undefeated in our jiu-jitsu divisions. Beaten both female and male.
The girls shows no skills to be in a tournment
She was overmatched.
He was actually being extremely respectful in this.
Also
This isn't the first time they grappled. This is the pair where the girl got the body triangle sinched in, and he trapped her ankle and forced a tap.
She was trying it again and he saw it coming.
I think the tears were simply out of frustration.
He focused more on trying not to be sentenced for sexual assault rather than winning 😂😂😂
Yeah that’s what your are supposed to do
That's what was going through my mind I wouldn't be able to do that without it looking like that because if I'm fighting I'm gonna fight
Same, that just looks uncomfortable and when she fell on the floor, that just made me feel even more uncomfortable.
@@AGZhark yeah matches and the same gender usually
Uh no just no shut up
The boy cared more about her well being than the person who signed her up.
Agreed with others, kid def looks like he was taking it easy on her trying not hurt her or embarass her. He probably could have finished the fight in a few seconds based on watching his technique. Kid had great skills
And they say that they're as strong as men 💀
@@doge_shorts1 yeah if they was a fella before 😂
@@doge_shorts1 to be fair the skill difference was really high, she looked clueless on the ground
One or both of her parents are just angry people I bet. That's what I noticed the kids who easily got beat and cried always had in common. She won't continue unfortunately.
Here's a fun fact that will surprise alot of people on here. Boys don't have any physical advantage over girls athletically until age 12-13. So if the age was lower in this division than he just beat her with skill.
He pressed her throttle,is a banned move in most grappling tournaments because hurts as hell
@@marcionhoPW I respectively disagree, I know pushing someone throttle hurts a lot but is not banned enless your an in age less then 5/7 depending on the place
Good job to the boy for being respectful
Why should he be Respectful, it's a fight. If the woke parents, teachers and society say, women and men are equal, why is the boy expected to be respectful to the girl. Ain't they equals?
@@jobcreationmaster no men are naturally stronger so for him to not pick her up and throw her around possibly breaking her arm. He carefully executed a clean takedown and held her down to a submission. If it was a street fight and she was some crazy bitch then yeah I would say equal rights and he can put her into the fucking ground.
If hes being respectful he will let the girl win in the end win or lose doesn't matter
@@d3monCyborg That's being fistespectful to himself.
@@jobcreationmaster I was just going to say something like what you said. What if that was a transgender boy? Hmmm
He is a clear winner and he even took care of himself to not use excessive force, a true master of his craft.
Mixed gender is the worst thing we could ever do. Men can have men's sports, and women can have women sports. Nothing against women. They are just genetically different. I love and respect women. Just like I love and respect my wife.
But that is something some women today refuse to accept. And those "some" few women are the loudest one spreading fake and outrageous agendas in the name of feminism..
You need to stop writing fake stories and go touch grass
@@yasminaunicorn3735 You need to eat grass and stop talking.
@@yasminaunicorn3735 Your IQ is showing, and now we know why your boyfriend's boyfriend can't stand you.
I totally agree
This is 110% the parents/judges fault, also 50% for the girl maybe not backing out
She's not crying because she lost. She's crying because she was lied to and has just realized it.
That would have to be the hardest part to get over. Giving it your all and *knowing* he was taking it easy on you.
There's a generation of girls who think they are just as strong and physically capable as boys. It's unfortunate!
They haven't hit puberty yet. She had just as much a shot as him. Get over yourself and your fear of woman...😂😂😂😂
This is why men who have younger women and girls that they care for need to BE REALISTIC WITH THEM. They don’t have a chance and they never will. And that false confidence will get them killed in real life situations
Equalitears.
The funny part is, how gentle this guy is, he didn’t even need to use all his power
He would have to used all his power against me 😂
He was smaller than the girl too
@@cs77smith67ok smith, you’re bragging about being able to take down a 10 year old
@@hell5457 he was much strongert than her, jiu jutsu is all about strenght once u have skills
@@3rr1k_ she lost to a small boy HAHAHA thats embarassing !
Who's to blame? The adults that let boys and girls fight instead of having separate divisions.
That match was not a boy vs girl thing. She was bigger than him. Watch him move, he is just better. That's the great thing about bjj is that skill can really mean the match much more than size or gender.
Tho this channel obviously exists to get people upset and fighting for engagement...
@@simonm1233My man, I can guarantee you that no woman with any amount of skill will ever beat a man with even half that skill in a fight. It is a physical impossibility. Biology and stuff, you know? That science thing.
@@psykobananado not be so sure about that... I've seen young women tear down big brutes with nothing but skill and technique...
@@sabre2-724as a former boxer (im a woman) im here to say you are full of 💩!! Ive been around all types of fighting styles while training. Men are stronger. Plain and simple!!!
@@sabre2-724 "I've seen"... with all the videos and men beating women, where are the videos of women beating men who train in the same event? The truth is, there is a difference between the genders. Without a doubt. Why is so hard for some people to admit that men are generally and overwhelmingly stronger than women. There is no shame is this.
This fight should not happen. As a boy it's very disappointing fighting with girl. If he wants easily break her 2 hands and 2 legs. Respect him he ended the match without major hurting her
he was more technical, he restrained himself and didn't show any signs of aggression. This young man was a good sport.
Are we still pretending that women can match men physically?
No...we're stating common knowledge.
At this age, absolutely. There's no strength difference between the sexes at this point and they're matched in weight classes. What you saw was a skill difference.
@@nelus7276that’s definitely not true no matter what year, a generation will not change a man’s physical structure and how he was built
@@nelus7276Males will always be stronger than females.
@@nelus7276u think so? After watchin this boy easily overpower this girl like that? And I know what the voice over said, but that’s nonsense. That boy grabbed her legs and controlled them. That wasn’t “technique,” it was someone being more powerful than someone else.
Yes, ur much less likely to have an imbalance of strength at this age, but this clip is not a good example of that.
he didn't even enjoy his victory because she was crying and made him feel like a bully.
I said the same 🫵😏
Nothing changes as they get older thinking tears excuses their failures.
And we wonder why men and women don’t spare more often, it’s hard to want to be competitive when your opponent cries legitimately
The good old water-type technique that girls use way too often.
@@Seifer1228spar? Or spare change?
She is a child, no one is to blame. Emotions will steam out and that’s it. Some motivation talk and focus. Kid should be fine after a few moments.
He was more worried about accidentally touching the wrong spot or hurting her badly than he was about the match itself
Exactly 😂 if opposite was a boy sure he would focus on the fight rather than where to touch not touch processing 😂
💀@@toonsrookie9420
Was also hoisting his nephews off her. Male on male that would lose you so much room
And if the girl was against another girl they would be pressing on each other's chest area, which the boy tried to avoid doing here.
I didn't get that impression at all. It looked like he just did as he would always have done, respectfully of course.
They shouldn't be doing mixed gender matches. Whoever set the match is at fault. Neither the boy or girl's fault
At that age they can fight because boys haven't gained their strength they get when they're older
@zombiewarrior225 America. Where we think about gender equality and that it's okay for natural men who turn woman should use the girls bathroom lol. I'm woke.
@@Chris-em1bcyou have to understand this doesn't look like America to me
Errr guys……. It’s not just America, anyone been watching the Olympic boxing matches…?
She's crying because she lost, not because she got hurt.
Someone attacking her in real life wont have the 'kindness' he had
nothing any girl can do about that
That’s what I keep saying
@@luisthelegend313there’s actually a lot a woman can do about it if trained properly. But as men we should make the world as safe for our women as we can.
@@AlexGomez-hd7jionly way we make it safe for them is if we want to get stabbed or shot for a woman that could have started a situation in the first place and expected no consequences
@@AlexGomez-hd7jiand none of us are Batman so making the world safe for them rather than ourselves won’t do a thing if they’re sitting around disrespecting the wrong men or people
The students are not "wrestling". That boy treated that girl like they were in the same belt class. He was not trying to go easy on her. Brazilian Jujitsu is a ground art. The first UFC was a 42 minute fight. These students look like that at the end of the fight (NOT MATCH) because it's labor intensive. I gotta get out of these comments. Ya'll are not seeing the forest for the trees
Boys and girls have their own divisions for a very good reason.
BJJ, especially lower ends, is just simply coed. it has nothing to do with whatever imagined "woke" whatever people want to make this about.
You guys understand that boys and girls dont really have that much of a muscle difference PRE PUBERTY. Fucking stop this bs that boy has very good skills and has nothing to do with size because guess what.... the girls is bigger you see that right? And prepuberty she might even be stronger slighty as well but she is bad at this sport.
Yep.
Not at their age. Boys and girls under 11 or 12 compete against each other in jiu jitsu.
@@777Justin That should change.
The boy was a champion and a gentleman at the same time.
Fuck that noise!
No one is at fault
They both probity consented to the Mach
Two different levels of jiujitsu, two different levels of confidence. The boy was not even using force or pushing too hard. No one is to be blamed here, apart from her coach, she was not ready for the level of pressure of a tournament
Might also be two different ages she is taller so she could be older which would give her the advantage in reach.
She seems way to defensive but she's young and can learn, hopefully she has the mind set to not quit at her first defeat or struggle
@@jamesalexander8193 Exactly, her mindset was the problem, at your first tournament it is 90% mind and 9% body, 1% technique😅. She was not ready for the pressure of a competition and a coach should have known it. Or probably he thought it could have been a good idea to shake her a bit.
It’s a boy vs a girl that simple
No the couch just following the parents who allowed this so bad parenting 😢
No child is ever ready for full contact combat sports, almost every match ends with a crying child, mostly because it's overwhelming for them.
Full effort minus aggression/emotion/stress is an alien concept to children.
Who is to blame????? I am 5’9” and my mother told me when I was a teenager that no matter how short, small or thin any man was that he was stronger than me - so she said to be careful. Words full of wisdom. No girl or boy, man or woman, should ever compete against one another. It is not natural or healthy. No girl should be made to believe she is stronger than any man and no man should EVER be put in a position to physically dominate a woman. It is not natural and should not be encouraged.
She's not crying from physical pain. She's crying because her feelings are hurt.
Uh no. She was coughing pretty hard for a second. And face full red. That was more of a fear or pain cry.
Uh no.@@robertwrenn656
Probably started as a fear cry and turned into sorrow over the loss... but that's yet another sign that she's not trained very well... a big part of training is losing and knowing you're okay, learning from the experience, and moving on.
I don't think this is a huge strength or gender mismatch... it's clearly a skill and experience gap.
She might not be used to competition, or just new in general. She’s a young kid and being choked out isn’t fun, practice tends to be more laid back and controlled. Looks like he just did a forearm choke where he essentially crushed her windpipe to block air. They arent really something that is used in high level or even mid level, but if you don’t know how to stop it, it definitely sucks. It’s a learning experience and as she continues to train she will be more comfortable. Competing for the first time is scary for anyone. Give this girl more credit for stepping up agains a boy that looks bigger than her, despite her lack of experience. These are children dawg
@@liltilt9484she’s like 3 inches taller? She will never beat a normal male wrestler. This kid is holding back just imagine in five years when he has 100 pounds on her.
The boy used 20% of his strenght
How can you assess that ?
@@IdeasandInventionshave you ever watched a tournament? He went very slow and was very gentle compared to when 2 boys are in the ring.
*strength
You've never done jiu-jitsu and it shows 😂
Even less 😂
The boy showed mercy throughout whole fight .
There are sports where genders should be separated. Fighting sport is definitely one. Its the fault of people pushing this as ok.
That boy just give the girl gender equality they want
*She was bigger too.*
That's a child. Children don't want gender equality. She's there because girls aren't usually in Jui jitsu. There's most likely not another girl to compete with.
Take this argument to that female boxer or MMA fighter, I can't remember which, who cried on the Internet about being beaten in the ring by a man after boasting about how she beat up men in the gym all the time.
Lmaooooo exactly!! Lol like isn't this what you wanted ladies? You can do anything a man can right?
@@SquirtlePower809 FR
Lol fr as My top comment said STOP BLAMING YOUR GENDER FOR EVERYTHING
the boy is the real victim here. They don't mention the mental implications on the male of forcing or pitting him against a female.
Lol they are young, you guys way over think this shit, she lost, she cried so what lol.
@@flavadave86imagine being made to fight someone you know is weaker, society has taught you is weaker from the get go, your parents have raised you to never strike or aggravate yourself against.
You dont get it cause you dotn have those values set in your mind.
@@th4tp1nkybo18flavadave86 has no friends, he wants us all to suffer his pathetic life. He rejects Jesus cus he feels like he is suppose to be given happiness, not understanding he only has the right to pursue happiness.
@@flavadave86 nope, look at him, he is not going full beast, he is being careful so as not to step on a bug.
@@iaber1698You just proved his point can you not read?
This is the problem we have with equality, women demand to be treated the same as men but when women do get treated the same way that men do they cry and say they were mistreated. On another note mad respect to the boy for his restraint.
That’s a little girl not a woman, and children cry or have tantrums when they loose all the time when they aren’t disciplined in something or mentally immature.
@IndieMacTavish the same could be said abut adults they cry if they don't get their way
He shouldn't hold back. Give your all to your opponent. Anything less is disrespect. If they get obliterated, oh well. Reality will teach you better than to have delusions. We need more of these mixed gender matches with the men not holding back. That's the only way to get women back into their natural roles and stop competing with males. Nothing wrong with being a woman doing woman things or being the best woman athlete you can be in your division.
I used to compete in coed. It just seems like she thought she would win because of height, but was proven otherwise. She'll learn and grow, that's the point.
@@mgtocrateezspeaks3971"natural roles" buddy think about what u just said, yes women have less testosterone than men which gives them a disadvantage to some things, but there are no natural roles in the world, and before I hear anything from anyone about me being some woke trans or smth, I'm a 14 year old boy who has learned that everyone can do or try the same thing as anyone else if they want to
There is no point of mixed gender matches, that's always a lose-lose situation for male gender
This poor boy is a gentleman, it should be boys against boys girls against girls. You can see he feels bad but he won fair and square. And he seems to be a wonderful caring young man
Here's a fun fact that will surprise alot of people on here. Boys don't have any physical advantage over girls athletically until age 12-13. So if the age was lower in this division than he just beat her with skill.
@@jordanc9282Here's a fun fact. That's not true.
Men are more physically capable as a women the same size from the womb due to hormones.
@@jordanc9282there is still some minor differences, but generally yea
@@jordanc9282 Daym, I must of been a god at 9 something. Because I took on like 4 people at once.
@storiesbyperri-fullofphoni4568 People develop at different paces because of genetics, at that age it's the biggest factor.
There was a guy who was a few years older than me back when I lived in Oklahoma and he wrestled against a girl in 7th grade. He lost. People were still giving him crap his senior year. It’s not fair to the guy - either you win against a girl or you lose to a girl. Either way it sucks
Yeah best case is the boy wins but people say "Yeah but it was against a girl so it barely counts" so the boy doesn't get any recognition.
They could win and people could get mad at them for "beating up a girl" so that sucks too.
Then they could lose and they'll be mocked for it their entire life.
There's absolutely nothing for the boy to gain by fighting a girl, but a lot to lose.
He lost to a better wrestler. That better wrestler just happened to be a girl.
@@AVeryChillDude someone thinks they're an anime protagonist
I can guarantee you he lost, because he couldn't bring himself to get serious.
@@shinyafan72nah I think he just held back
10 seconds in and the boy realized this wasn't a fair matchup
YEAH MAN
GIRLS ARE NOT PHYSICALLY STRONG AS BOYS
WHY TO HURT SOME GIRL 🙏🙏🙏
@@aadi0018 because they sign her up
@@tepenking yeah man
Girls are beautiful not strong 🙏🙏🙏
Boys are not handsome, we are strong 💪💪💪
@@aadi0018, It’s silly to think that men can’t be handsome, or that girls can’t be strong.
@@r-171 you are beautiful 🏳️🌈
Listen to everyone on here pitying the boy. Who forced him to wrestle the girl? It was his choice.
@@cooganalaska3249 what do you mean, they were chosen to fight each other, weirdo 💀
@@cooganalaska3249 It was a lose lose situation. If he won, “You beat up a girl”. If he lost, “You lost to a girl”. If he stepped out, “You’re scared to fight a girl”. If the girl stepped out, “You scared a girl off”. So please think before you comment.
He is obviously the better grappler. She is bigger than him and she knows what she is doing, but his counter skills have proven to be much effective. Good win for him.
Its the difference between men and women. Men are just more aggressive and stronger, pound for pound.
Bigger? Maybe taller but that boy is denser.
The boy has the power advantage for sure. He's a better grappler as well, but her being slightly taller doesn't mean that much.
@@cameronl1859 Yeah, he showed her what her rightful spot should be.
@@michaell874 Ok my guy, she's like 10, can't we wait til she's an adult before pulling out the misogyny
She took the conscious decision of fighting him can't blame him
She's a minor, tho. We should blame her parents and whoever taught her she and the boy were in equal conditions.
She was simply outmatched regardless of the gender
Blame the parents, if she wasn't begging/bugging them to let her do this. It's either lesson learned for her or reality check for parents
If I were to apply that logic to something different… perhaps something more sinister.. Tsk tsk tsk
Regardless??? I think you'll find the fact he was a boy made him stronger even at that age. Regardless.... you know what that word means right? The match should never have happened.
Don't enter a match if you can't finish it with good sportsmanship
I feel that this shouldn't need to be pointed out, but crying isn't bad sportsmanship.
She was overmatched and maybe the choke hurt or scared her, but nothing she did was bad sportsmanship.
Sore losers and people that cannot handle adversity tend to cry like this. @YTEdy
@@YTEdyoh but it is.
Take the loss and be gracious to the victor.
If you can’t manage that, dont go into sport
@@user-bc3zs2wn5z crying from being choked is a bodily reflex, not sportsmanship. Idk why so many people don't understand that
Sportsmanship and grace in defeat are not things one is born with. They are learnt as a child grows up by making mistakes.
She didn't throw a tantrum or get mad at the boy or made any unfair moves during the match. Its not an entirely unreasonable response if someone isn't used to being under pressure and panics when being submitted/choked. It was a good learning experience for her.
Let's not hold children to the standards we expect from professional fighters. They were children too.
Oh the painful irony. If they're in the same school together, it's gonna be the OC, but martial arts.
Bro barely used 1% of his abilities
Oh? You're his coach?
@@mattmarzulaman shut the hell up
@@mattmarzulalmao people with eyes can tell that the boy hardly had to try to win.
Did he? 😂
@@KAG1776
No, people with eyes CAN'T tell he hardly had to try to win. lmao? 😂 You think you're smart because you wrote that? It doesn't show intelligence, pal. The people with eye problems that might have taken something that clouds their judgement "can" tell that just as they can tell it's safe to stay in front of a truck on a highway.
He was actually quite gentle. Meaning he has awesome self-control.
He is gonna be a good man and great fighter.
Most boys at around that age, my guess about 13 are often mouthy and smarty pants, but I give that kid credit, he acted like a man there.
No being a good "man", he’s a fucking boy. What he is doing is being a good person and a good sportsman.
For those that don't understand, mix gender is pretty common for younger kids in Jiu jitsu. They put them together based age and rank. Depends on the tournament what age they split genders normally once they get to like 12 and up. As for the emotion, remember they are kids and a lot of times are very competitive. It's just a physical and emotional response from exhaustion and competitiveness. Not that uncommon in young kids sports in general.
makes sense for the age the physical strenght of boys and girls is pretty close till testerone kicks in.
and, for other reasons too...
And for adults that are so fucken angry that they want to hit someone, but they know that will make the situation even worse, so they gotta stuff that anger down.
Yes. I agree. My daughters wrestle boys all the time, and most of the time, whoop up on them. Through 11-12 years old, the boys and girls are matched up physically. The winner is usually a) the more experienced or b) the more aggressive.
@@ewaldstein712I've almost never seen a young girl beat a young boy.
"Overmatched by gender" bruh im weaker than most women 😭
This what "equality" gets us.
I believe this is equity, equality is having the same things but not boosted to the same level. Equality is having a girls wrestling league along with a boys league, equity is putting them on the same level or in this case the same league.
Equity.
@@slim7406 Equity and equality sometimes go hand in hand, and it's pretty apparent that it's a case in this too.
Both of them might have different backgrounds, pitted against the same level or league but nonetheless, they were given the opportunity to have a match, which ended in equality.
this is equity, not equality. equality would have seen her competing against other GIRLS, not boys.
@@josephusaquila5439 equity and equality are two totally different things. equity is having the same outcome. equality is the same opportunity minus the physical disadvantages women have against men
The girls parents are 100% at fault.
i'm sure the parents had a busy social media page showing her daughter training wrestlng
Whoever set this matchup put both those kids in an awkward situation.
My how times and values have changed in america.
Kids at that age are fine competing against one another. There's no huge mismatch in power. It might just not be the sport for her, or she may just be having a bad day. We see very little of the fuller context here.
@@johngleue I remember playing soccer when I was younger and it was all boys teams except for one game where they had a girl on the team and I was very uncomfortable cuz I didn't know if I should treat her like an equal and play as hard as normal or be careful not to hurt her.
@darganstanton yeah. It makes me think of my friend's daughter's soccer game i watched about a year ago. The girls were 11 and 12 year olds playing boys who were only like 8 years old. The boys were so aggressive and just not scared of intimidated by the ball at all. They destroyed the girls. And while there's no mismatch in physical power per se, there's still an aggression that comes along with being a boy in a very general sense. There can still be anomalies. So yeah, I think I agree with you. There were like two girls that could hold their own against the boys, though, but the entire boys team looked like they were on crack. 😆
@ johngleue
I don’t care what anyone says, there is a reason boys are stronger then girls, there is a reason that girls and boys sports are separate, it’s not right and is just terrible that ppl put theses kids together to fight, the boys have a very distinct and unfair advantage.(when comparing to a girl) it’s also has to be terribly uncomfortable, I for one would not be comfortable with fighting a girl, and I’m an adult I can’t imagine how uncomfortable for this boy it could have been.
Fight should’ve never happened
There’s a reason why men and women’s sports are separated.
And that’s so there’s no unfair advantage
In some sports yes, where there are unfair advantages, but not in this sport. Boxing, I would agree, but not a sport literally designed with this in mind. There are plenty of females that beat larger, stronger girls and boys. Give me a break, next time I grapple a guy twice my size I should say it wasn't fair. I'd get laughed at.
Bro was using 1% of hi’s strength 😂
And >200% of yours......even though he's like 8 years old.
@@anderslarsen4412bros mad he cooked her without trying, idk why y’all act like it’s even fair 😭
@@anderslarsen4412yapper know your place.
@@anderslarsen4412Bro even 300% of yours power can’t even take the boy down🖕🏾
@@anderslarsen4412you probably dont even know him your probably weak as well
Bro was going easy with her 😂😂😂😂
Lol
You can tell he was simply matching her cos if that was an OP? 😂😂
Mixed gender matches happen quite often in children's jiu-jitsu tournaments as there are less girls that compete. It didn't end badly because no one got injured. Hopefully she learns, fixes her mistakes and gets better. We learn by failing. Its ok to let your kids suffer defeat. Not everyone deserves a medal.
She shoukd stick to growing her nails amd hair and not get silly ideas like engaging in combat sports as a female
The level of responses shows the ignorance to the sport. The strength advantage doesn't really kick in til mid to post puberty neither of these kids looked "there" yet. The win was definitely based on skill
That's what participation medals have done though! They've made a defeat feel soo much worse than it ever needs to.
She lost. He was better. Unless you are at the very top of your game, there will ALWAYS be someone "better" than you. And, as you get older, "better" might/will be the people coming up through the ranks. Like David Beckham leaving Man U as Christiano Ronaldo was joining. (Sorry that's the only major global sport reference example that I could think of)
This young lady needs to pick herself up, dust herself off, get back into training, work on her mistakes, and learn from his win; what did _he_ do right? _How_ did he do it? Then, the next time she's in a comp, facing a boy, she will have a better chance at beating him _because_ of this loss. Failure isn't bad, giving up is.
@@leannes1083 there is no "hero's journey" for women
Nonsense.
It's sad that she got upset after the loss, but encouraging matches against any opponent is still a good way to develop skill.
That young man was a gentleman.
Practising for his first “rap”
@@oyvey304what is your problem?
How many times did daddy or mommy drop you
@@oyvey304that says more about you than you expected it to.
@@Pipizzakitchen I’m Jewish, what did you expect?
@@oyvey304bro fell on his head when he was in belly for sure
She looked like she was crying that entire match lmao
She learned the truth about equality at a young age. Bravo.
and she looks a bit older than him so she definitely felt the gap in raw power
@@Aerixes. She was just outmatched skill wise bro
@@PiethagorasTearemYeah it's not even so much a gender thing. She's basically just floundering on the ground 💀. My groundwork wasn't my speciality but the only thing she did was like spin in place lmao
This is nothing with men being stronger, men are of course stronger but at the age the look to be in it doesnt matter girls are actually often stronger then guys til puberty.
@@SureflameYeah for anyone who knows grappling it's pretty clear that she was just clueless and floundering. At that age the gender differences in strength don't really mean much, but the difference in aggression may matter.
I would NEVER allow my son to wrestle or fight a girl in any sport.Having said that.I also wouldn't allow my daughter to do the same.
Idc itll make him stronger
What about transman?
@haroldsimpson3308 Why? It looked like a pretty good match up. When I was a kid and played soccer, we had a few girls in the league, I can't imagine my dad saying he wouldn't let me play because of it. I would've so ashamed of my dad and family name.
Americans are brainwashed... or maybe just weak and insecure.
@@hartanto8432 that doesn’t change anything, either way their still a girl even if they have different pronouns, that doesn’t change your dna and what and who you are.
Not even chess or ludo?
The boy was as gentle as he could to get her to surrender.
Whoever decided mixed gender fights was a good idea is at fault.
Seems the Girl finally understood that being smaller doesn't mean being weaker!!