This year for Christmas, instead of buying our grandchildren a lot of toys and things to clutter their homes, we purchased each family an annual pass to their local city zoo. We decided to give them a years worth of memories instead of things. That way when Nana and PopPop come visit we can go too!
That is SO wonderful! I WISH we could convince all the grandparents/aunts&uncles to do this, but they get too much pleasure out of watching the kids open stuff. Sometimes it feels like the gift is more for their sake than the kids, lol.
We put money in our granddaughter's college fund, and then give her a little gift to open, such as craft supplies. She is five and has no idea who gives her what. She is inundated with toys. Now we have a great grandson and we are doing the same thing. They have a small house and he will get a gazillion toys I am sure. They have opened him a MOST 529 college fund. That is where my gift will go. He is only 6 months old so he will not know the difference. lol.
Great video, an yes to categorizing… EXCEPT scissors! I keep 3 in the kitchen alone, one in each bathroom, one in the laundry room, one in my nightstand and then my sewing only scissors with my sewing machine. Scissors must be accessible everywhere. 😂
I used to have a linen closet in the hallway. Now the hand towels live in a drawer right below where they hang, in the bathroom. Wash cloths are in another drawer, Bath towels are elsewhere. Seems weird, but all of those things are exactly where I need them and look for them first. And, my toilet paper lives in a drawer that is reachable from the toilet!
I don't have room in my bathroom to do that. I have 3 tiny drawers and only one hand towel would fit in a drawer. My husband has one drawer, and I have two (one for grooming tools and one for cosmetics). I have zero sympathy for people in big houses who can't find a place for their stuff.
I actually live in a small one bedroom apartment with little storage, except there is a clothes closet in the bedroom and a small closet (was for linens) by the front door. And what would be the linen closet I now have my vacuum and mop, you know anything that’s tall, my plunger, the dog’s stuff, and my rug steamer and Dustbuster, which sit on the top shelf. So I basically turned it into a utility closet because I didn’t have a space for those things and I was sick of staring at them out in the main area. I only have one set of sheets that I wash weekly and put right back on and I have a couple extra blankets that I can squeeze into the master bedroom closet when not in use. So a lot of it’s down to decluttering the excess, but I do get that I’m only one person and it’s totally different for those of you with families. I think the key is really just figuring out what works for you with the space you have, as Dana, and everybody else always says. I need stuff to be really easy to put away otherwise it becomes visual clutter in main living spaces.
I was the one that got grandma's second set of China (large family). Since I don't have an kids, I gave my Target dishes away and now use the China as my everyday dishwear. And every time I pull out a plate or bowl I think of holidays and special occasions at my grandparents house. ❤
Whenever I hear people tell me I “should” keep something I offer it to them and say “it sounds like it means more to you than it does to me”. I offer it to them to take home and if they don’t, I get rid of it.
Awesome idea! For me, it's often my boyfriend who asks me not to get rid of things though. "You wore that shirt when we met", "That suits you so well", "That one always reminds me of when we..." etc.
Dawn, The first time I saw one of your videos, I immediately cleaned off 80% of my kitchen counters (it looks SO much better, and that night when I came out to the kitchen my son (19yo) had unloaded the dishwasher and put everything away. Normally, he would leave some things out on the counter "to continue to air dry". He actually put everything away because "he didn't want to mess up the kitchen"! Cleaning up can really be contagious, I am still working on my decluttering muscle, but I just watch some of your videos for encouragement and then remind myself that it feels really good! Thank you for making if, finally, click in my brain!
That's awesome. My teen is the type to wait for dishes to be done and then come in while you are draining the water with all the dishes from his room. 😅
I LOVE how you don't say a minimalist house but a simplified house! I can't be a minimalist but I CAN simplify! Thank you, Dawn. ❤️ I'm sooo like Dana and you help my brain think differen
I feel like saying "minimalist" implies there is a place you have to reach before you have been successful, but "simplified" sounds like a gradual process of improvement where you are successful with every step you take.
You are absolutely spot on about the cell phones and internet! Children do Not need a smart phone! Youre right, they dont have to go looking for bad things, bad things on the internet are looking for them. Truth!
I found when I spend time declutterring & organizing, that going shopping isn’t what it used to be, not really interested in adding to the nice, clean, newly organized place…..where will I keep it? Is this a good use of my $$? I feel I’ve already been shopping right in my own basement/garage/closets/nightstands etc😂 you’ve inspired me to clear out the ‘under the kitchen sink area’🙈, threw out so much, bought things I already had, it’s shameful really. But I feel great!!
When my daughter was small, I wrapped up a box of bandaids for her. She had other presents too, but that was her very favourite-a whole box that she could use however she wanted! I thought of this when someone mentioned the box of macaroni and cheese present!
Ahaha I do the same thing for guilty treats for my kids. They love hot chips, sugary cereal or rice crispers etc and I say no all year but will wrap a box for Xmas or bday, they are always thrilled😂
When I was a renter years ago, I learned from the various kitchen configurations I had to deal with that I’m really a drawer person. When I had the opportunity to design my kitchen I added two cabinets with 4 drawers each. Made me so happy!
Drawers are far more efficient, easier to view what you have. Ergonomic, single pull action to open, and they are now available in deeper drawers as well. Many high end kitchen designers only do drawers, and vertical pantry, and specific cupboard for baking sheets and misc.
I'm also a drawer person, but our rented apartment only has 1 TINY drawer that I use for cutlery (USA: silverware). As a work-around tactic, I took Cas' advice to use baking/roasting tins as pull-out drawers. The double win is that I only use them at Christmas, so it's useful storage for them the rest of the year too 😊 Hope that tip helps others too!
@@HannahRainbow88 That's a great idea! We bought our house 30 yrs ago, and we were 1st-time buyers, so we were clueless about a lot of stuff. One (of the many lol) things that bother me about our house is the lower kitchen cabinets, with narrow shelves in the back. It wasn't a problem 30 yrs ago, but in this season of life (much older), crouching down to root around down there is not easy. I use large hard plastic bins now, & they slide out so it's kind of like drawers. And of course getting rid of a lot of stuff helped too :)
@@JamieM470 We moved into a house 20 years ago that had *pull-outs in every lower cabinet*! Such an epiphany! Our current kitchen is twice the size but with only those narrow shelves you're talking about, and they're so useless! (Although my thighs are benefitting from all the squats.) If we replace the cabinets, we'll go with all drawers on bottom, and if not, we'll add pull-outs all around!
Time stamp 55:20 is the stage I’m at now. I just tossed childhood Christmas ornaments that gave me that UGH feeling. I’ve wasted so much time mourning what could have been regarding relationships with my parents. I feel lighter at 51 years old. Thank you for being you Dawn.
I forgot the pest man was coming today. But since we have decluttered and do daily tidying I had the house pulled together in less than 10 minutes. He did the outside and I was ready for him. So love minimal living!
Since I've started listening to you, I've noticed how many duplicate things I have in my kitchen... 3 sets of salt and pepper shakers, a pen jar on both sides of my kitchen, TWO knife blocks, over 10 sets or types of measuring cups. 🤦 I've started letting go!
To help our kids get used to the idea of less presents, we gave them a budget for giving away presents. We specifically talked about how blessed we are and we don't need more stuff, but there are lots of people in the world who actually need things. So each kid would get a set dollar amount and we would pick a charity (many of them have fun gift catalogs that you can use to guide your giving), and they had just as much fun picking out chicks to give a family in South America or sports equipment to give to children in Africa or backpacks of school supplies to give to children in our community as getting the gifts themselves.
34:14 about vitamins and supplements. I am a visual person, but I found a "less ugly" way (in my opinion) to have them out. Bought one of those 7 day large cell pill trays with snap lids. Fill all 7 days and keep that tray out on the counter and the bottles are on the cabinet.
I saw somewhere on a video, someone had put their supplements on a pretty tray with pretty little cups on it. I'm thinking if I would like it or if I'd get annoyed...still on the fence
I made a space for the medicine/ supplements in the cupboard. Then they went into two baskets ( containers). Then into the weekly box. I am finding it helps me to remember. Once less chore per day.
For older stuff from relatives or things that "are still good" and you still like - try using those items as flower pots, pen cups, jewelry tea cup down in your underwear drawer for your daily rings and earrings.... things like that. I have nice plant saucers on my front porch because they're mix and match pieces of the plates I got about 20 years ago but don't like anymore for eating off of. My dad's handmade pottery pots and bowls are here and there holding my pens and pens, holding Lego I find on the ground...and my grandmothers fiesta ware plate is my main platter I use for dinners and parties, my husbands grandmothers milk glass pitcher is what I use for a vase so I got rid of all the others I had. I got rid of TJMaxx finds and have replaced everything with sentimental pieces serving the same purpose and actually being USED and now I get to see them. Just an idea to pass along if you have a bunch of random sentimental items in a drawer somewhere not being used. It helps you get rid of the other things that can't be used practically or that you wouldn't choose to use!
I love the idea of 2/3 full is full. I am trying this in my home and now when I open a cabinet it'a an "Ahhh moment" not an "Ugh moment" and so much easier to put things away.
I love your channel! In the last month I have decluttered SO much that was weighing myself and my family down. It’s changed my life. I am feeling more peace and joy. Mostly because I am spending less time cleaning and putting things away. Thank you!!!
Great parenting advice! It’s hard but remember you are the parent. If your kids whine about chores don’t give in! Be firm! Be the parent! They are looking for you as the parent to set the boundaries and expectations.
Leading by example is also very important. Keeping your own room clean while telling them to clean theirs works a LOT better than if your own room is trashed lol
Thanks, Dawn! As a stay at home mom, it’s always a treat when I see a new video from you pop up! You’re always so encouraging and I feel like you’re a friend even tho we’ve never met. Blessings!
My decluttering journey began when my husband died almost two years ago. I kept a few items of his because they were precious memories. Otherwise, everything else was donated. I've begun on the LR/DR because I spend most of my time there. I follow your advice of focusing on one shelf or one corner. It makes me happy to see improvement in my space. Thank you for all you do.
I'm on the same journey my partner of 44-years passed away a year ago, I'm finally at a point I can declutter his possessions without feeling like I'm getting rid of him. Selling wasn't an option; I'm just donating to a hospice thrift store and a battered women's thrift store. I don't want his things just sitting gathering dust when someone can make use of them.
@AZHITW I'm sorry for your loss. I went through the "getting rid of him" phase because I was angry that he left me so soon. I am more resolved now to create a calm space. It means decluttering my own stuff, a lot of sentimental stuff too.
We have a 2 storey house and I hate storing cleaning things in just one place. I store cleaning items in the rooms I use them most kitchen and bathrooms.
Stuff that can represent a hard season emotionally is a concept that really hits home for me. We shouldn't have to hang on to baggage like that. It's okay and GOOD to let ourselves forget the hard things if we're able to.
YES! I went through a VERY traumatic, bitter, hateful divorce about 6 years ago and lost a LOT (family, friends, material stuff, you name it, I lost it), so for a while I held on to EVERYTHING that reminded me of happier times, thinking it'd make me feel better. I realized about 6 months ago, that by keeping ALLthe stuff, I was holding onto things that not only reminded me of all I'd lost, but that a lot of things made me have resentful or bitter feelings now, instead of making me happy the way I wanted them to. I slowly started getting rid of stuff from my past life, beginning with what was causing me the most pain or regret. I truly don't miss ANY of it, and now I can focus on making my space a place where I am happy with my life, as it is NOW! I decided to quit living in the past and to start making my own new memories and being happy with the season I'm in NOW! I feel relief and am beginning to feel joy in my home and life again, finally! ❤
I'm always amazed at Americans who say they don't have big kitchen or house when they do! You're kitchen is big compared to many. Thanks for the ideas, as usual they are gold! Love from Australia 🇦🇺
I watch multiple different decluttering gurus, of course Cass too! Cannot tell you how many times I've gotten inspired to do a light decluttering or actually fold my laundry instead of letting it languish on the chair in a pile instead while watching ya'll! Can't believe how much stuff I've gotten rid of this past year thanks to ya'll keeping me held accountable!
I disagree with Marie on having all of one category in one place. The item is scissors. Scissors live in my knife drawer in the kitchen, a tray in the bathroom, a tray in my desk in my office, in my glove box in the car, and on the peg board in my garage. Each one is used at least once a week and is handy to where I use it.
So many of the things you mentioned give me permission to declutter the remaining things left from my decluttering journey. First on the list is things from old hobbies, quilting projects, craft supplies. At my season of life, I don’t see myself returning to them. I may still keep some tools and my sewing machine, but fabric pieces and quilt patterns, etc. are going to be donated. I’ve already donated oil painting supplies, now I am ready to part with the acrylic paint, that I have not used it in a few years. I draw and do watercolor only. That’s enough to satisfy me. As for the questions about sentimental items, one daughter does not want ggma’s China, the other daughter is a bit of a hoarder. The best thing I did a few years ago was donate it to our library for their annual auction. It’s been years and neither one of them ever asked about it and I never mentioned it. I did the same with my collection of green depression ware. I kept only a cake plate and a couple small serving pieces that I use. I’ve been on this decluttering journey for years now, life is so much simpler and I continue to think of things that lived the “time will tell” period and are ready to go. A project for the upcoming year is photographs. I will look at them, choose the few I want and pass the whole bunch to my kids and let them decide what they want. They are all from the pre-digital era. I have a lot of art work, this year I want to try harder to market it, give it away etc. I’m in the Swedish Death Cleaning season of life. Clearing things out feels so good. But I also don’t want to burden my kids with stuff they don’t want. When someone admires a piece I did, I give it to them for Christmas or birthdays…..
I identify with much of what you're saying. I'm 68, and am decluttering for the same "Swedish Death Cleaning" reasons! What Dawn says about seasons of life is so true. It's funny how we fantasize about what we will do when we have more time (ie. retire). I'm now there, and have no desire to get the knitting needles or sewing machine out. Probably can't see to thread the needle! (Actually, that's not true as I do still do the mending that my daughters bring me!) Best wishes with the photographs. That's my current project. Don't forget to write on the back who they're of and the date. 🙂
I have interesting news: after Marie Kondo happened for a few years, she got married and had toddlers. And you guessed it! She says she has given up on organizing everything and keeping everything totally tidy for a little while until the two toddlers are older because trying to stay ahead of the toddlers in a tiny Japanese home is just hopeless! So if Marie Kondo adjusts for the toddler stage, we can feel okay about Toddler Overwhelm too! Its a Mommy thing for young families. Give yourself a break! I loved finding out about this. Flexibility is a lifesaver, isn't it?! LOL! Keeping it real! Thank 🙏you for everything, Marie Sensei!
Ive ordered courses before and never used them, however, this course I revisit and update every year for only $10.00 [after initial first fee}. we tend to do what we put in front of our face. I watch it after the live day and I have pause and go clean an area and come back and continue listening and watching... this works best for me. I would HIGHLY recommend this course!!! plus if you can only do a drawer at a time, you are creating a habit and this may sound strange, but it's fun. if you have ever cleaned and organized an area, can you remember how many times you went back and open the cupboard or drawer just to look at it. also, don't think about how much work it will be, think about how you will feel when it's done. oh yeah and STOP bringing more stuff in your house. once you have thoroughly decluttered... then it's the 2 items coming it has to be followed by 2 items leaving...this is how I maintain. I LOVE cleaning off my surfaces when I'm done....so much easier to clean!!!!
“Set up my kitchen to serve me in this season of life…” LOVE this quote! My kitchen is not here to impress random people who I never invite over anyway. It exists to serve me (my family) in this season of life. Dishes and tools will be stored where it makes the most sense to US, not where other people who do not live here think stuff is supposed to go.
Watching the replay. I just went through my house from one end to the other. Not the kids bedrooms though. I got a bag of trash and a box for donations full. It feels so good!
Happy to see this today, we switched bedrooms this weekend and wow, the clutter under beds, in drawers and closets that I completely missed in my decluttering!
Exactly! I got myself one year for decluter my house…but didn’t get where I wish, so I am on the course now. I believe it will help to achive my goal in 2024 🙏
I have found you in the midst of a move. Our 2400 sq ft home is decluttered and on the market. Meanwhile, I moved to an 800 sq ft furnished apartment to start my new job in a new city. I'm motivated to make my new home much more minimal. Empty nesters looking to let go of the sentimental stuff.
Actually there is a built-in crumb tray in most modern toasters that either slides out from the bottom or has a clip and swings open. Unless you have the very old toaster that the sides fold down and only toasts one side of bread at a time ... with no timer to pop up the toast so it doesn't burn! My Mom is 92 and still uses this old toaster! Lol
I really like the way you giggle, Dawn. It relaxes me and motivates me somehow. I just cleaned out a drawer and I know I need to do it again. But I made the first pass!
She said you can get 2x as much done in the all day declutter as you can on your own NO WAY! You can get EASY 5x or 10x more done in the all day declutter then you can on your own. It’s wild. BUT you have to plan. Premake a quick breakfast, lunch and dinner, sleep good the night before have supplies ready. But whoa the amount of stuff people gets rid of is WILD. Blows my mind every time.
We recently moved into a larger home so that my mom could live with us. I keep telling people that if I hadn’t started watching your videos 1.5 yrs ago and simplifying my home that I would’ve lost my mind during the move. Although we have no actual storage space other than the garage, I don’t miss it. The mindset shift is huge and it’s helping me help my mom as she downsizes.
Thank you so much for the great session Dawn. I love your content and listening to you. You are my most reliable source, when it comes to decluttering and even just turning on a video from your channel gets me into the work flow. 💜
I don't always agree with your decisions, but then I don't live in your house :) You've given me so many great ideas that I am implementing in my own home, bit by bit, room by room, even if I just have 5 minutes.
Everything of a category in one place works for supplies, for example screws, command strips, light bulbs, but if it's something that is used daily it should be where it is used. For example the scissors, if I need scissors in my kitchen (which can be multiple times a day) I'm not going to go upstairs to our study where I also need a pair of scissors. I also keep a small pair of scissors in our walk-in-robe to cut off pulled threads or tags.
Love love your advise Dawn. I have been decluttering for years and yes it is an ongoing process. I like to tune in to your channel regularly to keep me accountable and most importantly motivated. Your tips always remind me of what I can do. I will be decluttering today. Thank you, thank you.
When I look at inventory, it seems like too much stuff. But, day to day living, I use what's in my kitchen for cooking, hosting, etc. My clothing is for home, also working outside the home, church, and work out clothes. I can't pare back that far in this season, but what I take from this is to apply what works in my home, which for us is probably more living a simple life rather than a minimalist life. I know that's okay, everyone is different, but there are times I wish there were a happy medium, I feel that our society has increased expectations of what people present themselves to be and it's not conducive to simple living. I like your approach and it helps me attain that mindset that seems healthy to me.
Something you want, something you need, something to eat and something to read❤️for gifts. I never did it but I thought it was a great idea (not my idea)
One more thing - I LOVED what you said about different levels of sentimental items. That was really helpful as I see items that only belonged to certain relatives, but were not used while I spent time with them.
I let go of a book that had a bad memory to just rebuy a different version. That might seem silly but my heart and home were better for it. It was like a hidden nasty smelly in my living room and when it was gone the air was clear. I dont know how else to explain it. But get out the stuff that is bad feeling. Bad memories tied to objects can be haunting
I agree with putting things like light bulbs and command hooks all together. However, things like scissors and staplers are used in many places, so I have those all over the house where I use them.
I would store things near where they are likely to be needed. That way you have a pen where you need it instead of going across the house to a drawer far from the place where it's needed. Have a pen or two in any rooms that you may need them at, by way of example.
That was great, Dawn! I was decluttering my belts, bathroom cupboard, organized my son's stuff in tote for him to take his items when he visits, brushed the dog, and put items in tote for donation! Thanks for the length of your post. I'm on a roll now! ~GRINNING~
Dawn you are always so positive and present in that way. I do love hearing your views and how knowledgeable you are. Thank you for your gift of explaining thoroughly. 😊
Sara Perkins...use those dishes! There is a set that belonged to my grandmother that stayed in a box for decades. No more. They are our everyday dishes now. I'm 61 and they were given to her when I was about 5.
But maybe you need scissors ✂️ for things done in different spots using scissors.? Like feed bags , nicotine patches. I think in these circumstances scissors should be kept near those things. But if your scissors are all used for sewing, it makes since to have a scissors caddy. Or paper crafting probably too
Im disabled and also suffer from anxiety and depression. I REALLY struggle with decluttering and even general tidying. I have a goid friend who understands but takes no nonsense. She came up last week and we made a start on my bedroom. I have continued to do bits and will through the next couple of weeks, until she's able to come and help again. I have to make a little progress myself in order for her to help me a lot.
Thanks Dawn, you always do a great job at inspiring others just by being you. It's really nice to see. Hope you, Tom and all the kiddos are safe and warm.
Dawn, I wanted to mention when I do the 5-10 minute declutters, it can motivate other people in the house, great for them to see how much can be done in a short time!
I'm so glad you said to aim for 1/2 to 2/3 full on cabinets. I have not heard that rule of thumb before. I've been through my kitchen, but I need to pare it down some more. Seeing space between things would be amazing.
I love the "work along side me" instead of "help me, or I need help." I need to do that with my husband. He only "helps" if I ask. It is only my husband & myself at home now.
After watching a handful of your videos, I just purged 3 toiletry totes in my bathroom, plus the overflow toiletries in the hall. Wow! I almost filled a trash bag & small donation box. Thanks for helping me recognize that throwing away a 10 y.o. half full bottle of baby lotion is OK!!😜 FACT over feelings was a great tip! Thanks for your help!
I am thankful for you, Dawn. I just thought I’d let you know. You’ve made an impact on my life for the better. I am feeling freer by the day and life is getting easier. You’re so right on so many things. God bless you! ❤
Loved this! And i highly recommend the "Time will Tell" bin or basket. That has been the best tool for my home. I keep a nice basket from Target by my front door, lined with a trash bag. So I'm always looking for things to get rid of, and it goes in waves. Like, suddenly I'll see 5 things that i no longer need. I loved a few concepts in this: assets becoming a burden, and "it should be easy to maintain your home".
This year I realized that Christmas time is a rude reminder that I have too much stuff. I had to move kid toys to make room for the tree and now I feel so cluttered and it is giving me such big anxiety! And now I have to figure out where we will put the new things too.
I have been faithfully following you and made the goodwill folks happy,, i did have a party this year and realized i wanted to wear a sweater but i had donated it(haven't worn it in 6 years) lol,, my other sweater worked just fine 😂
I just wanted to say thank you for being real. “Lazy parent” with chore charts here. I’ve got upset many many times wondering what’s wrong with me because I cannot stick to the chore chart monitoring…you gave me lighter shoulders when I heard you say that. Reminded me that we are all different and we need to find things that work for us.
Thank you. Every video gives me motivation. I play them again when I declutter 😊 and it helps me. Still have a long way to go - but my house is much better than when I first started this journey!❤
Just bought a set two Bundt cake pans (for $3 at the bin store!!) after my auntie gifted us a kitchenaid stand mixer, and I had no idea about your Bundt cake book and I’m so excited
It is late and I am finishing watching today's video! You were answering the mom who can't let go of her children's clothes! I was that mom but now my oldest is 35, middle 34, and youngest is 28. I kept so much....because I was THAT mom. The problem I had was that some of the clothes ended up being ruined...those cute adorable memories were not useable. Some were and in the last year my oldest two have taken things home for their babies. If I could do it again, I would have the memory bin with special pieces because I could manage them. Obviously I could not manage all that I kept. A mom who understands the need to hold on but the experience of losing so much of those things I clung to.
Bless you! Grandmother, 68, here! My children are 40, 38 and 35. I didn't keep clothes because in my circle of friends we swapped clothes and I was able to give stuff away at the time. My problem is with their artwork, etc. Until just a few months ago, I'd kept every single piece of artwork, craftwork, stories, etc; that they had ever produced. It filled 4 huge boxes (and I mean huge). I've now tackled it, and am down to a medium sized box (which also includes the grandkids' stuff). It's been a traumatic thing for me to do. It's a letting go of their lost childhood, which has always been very hard for me. It has to be done, and I'm glad I've nearly done it, but I sob as I do it. The mantra that has kept me going is this: If EVERYTHING is special/important/a treasure, then NOTHING is. Once you've got down to the things you really want to keep, then you can give those items the space and honour they deserve. Otherwise the "treasures" are lost in the chaos. Best wishes. EDIT: Oh, I DID keep their first shoes!
@@supergran1000 (I am 68, also) "Once you've got down to the things you really want to keep, then you can give those items the space and honour they deserve." Perfectly said! You can't manage physically or mentally too many memories stored away! You will never remember you have those memories! We moved from South Dakota to Illinois and 12 years later moved back to South Dakota. I remember so well sobbing as I went through "stuff" also! We did swap clothes, also, but I kept even clothes that were "new to us" because I could remember those precious days! I kept toys which my grandkids are using but I need to go through those now! I did go through sometime ago and whittle down to a shoebox some memories. I am so sentimental that I once kept a note with my mom's writing (while she was still alive). I showed her and she said that's a grocery list!!! We both laughed at my silliness! I have come far but still a ways to go!
When I bought my place 18 years ago, I got my mom to unpack the kitchen because she'd know where things go best. LOL! I agree with keeping some things together of the same category, I do prefer to have scissors in the kitchen and my office. I had 5 adults in my family stay with me the last few days and I don't regret simplifying my kitchen. The first 4 people to get in line to eat had regular plates and the last two had paper plates. This is the first time I've had that many people in 10+ years and I'm not getting more "just in case". We ran the dishwasher after breakfast so we had things to eat with and on for dinner. :)
I keep scissors in the kitchen for cutting paper or whatever( these are not meat cutting scissors). This prevents using my good fabric scissors from being used.
I am doing a declutter pre Christmas. Come the time I need more free space for guests and their coats, present, the tree and all the pans etc for the big meal. It’s a great time to go through the cutlery etc and see what you actually need at full house and let go of extras from that.
I’ve started using my grandma’s handmade quilts. I have no one to leave them to so I’m going to enjoy them
Good for you!!
Quilts should be used! Absolutely
This year for Christmas, instead of buying our grandchildren a lot of toys and things to clutter their homes, we purchased each family an annual pass to their local city zoo. We decided to give them a years worth of memories instead of things. That way when Nana and PopPop come visit we can go too!
That’s a great idea! We ask similar from my parents for the kids!
That is SO wonderful! I WISH we could convince all the grandparents/aunts&uncles to do this, but they get too much pleasure out of watching the kids open stuff. Sometimes it feels like the gift is more for their sake than the kids, lol.
We put money in our granddaughter's college fund, and then give her a little gift to open, such as craft supplies. She is five and has no idea who gives her what. She is inundated with toys. Now we have a great grandson and we are doing the same thing. They have a small house and he will get a gazillion toys I am sure. They have opened him a MOST 529 college fund. That is where my gift will go. He is only 6 months old so he will not know the difference. lol.
Love that!
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Great video, an yes to categorizing… EXCEPT scissors! I keep 3 in the kitchen alone, one in each bathroom, one in the laundry room, one in my nightstand and then my sewing only scissors with my sewing machine. Scissors must be accessible everywhere. 😂
And reading glasses, everywhere 😅
I sooooo feel this.
Same here! Kitchen, bedroom, bathroom, desk, sewing area, washing machine...need scissors within immediate reach.
And there's the types of scissors....no one touches my sewing scissors😂
Same here! My sister even keeps a small pair in her tiny purse!
I used to have a linen closet in the hallway. Now the hand towels live in a drawer right below where they hang, in the bathroom. Wash cloths are in another drawer, Bath towels are elsewhere. Seems weird, but all of those things are exactly where I need them and look for them first. And, my toilet paper lives in a drawer that is reachable from the toilet!
I don't have room in my bathroom to do that. I have 3 tiny drawers and only one hand towel would fit in a drawer. My husband has one drawer, and I have two (one for grooming tools and one for cosmetics). I have zero sympathy for people in big houses who can't find a place for their stuff.
What's in the linen closet now?
@@edennis8578I feel the same way when I see peoples enormous kitchens in these videos . With soft closing drawers and walls of cabinets
I actually live in a small one bedroom apartment with little storage, except there is a clothes closet in the bedroom and a small closet (was for linens) by the front door. And what would be the linen closet I now have my vacuum and mop, you know anything that’s tall, my plunger, the dog’s stuff, and my rug steamer and Dustbuster, which sit on the top shelf. So I basically turned it into a utility closet because I didn’t have a space for those things and I was sick of staring at them out in the main area. I only have one set of sheets that I wash weekly and put right back on and I have a couple extra blankets that I can squeeze into the master bedroom closet when not in use. So a lot of it’s down to decluttering the excess, but I do get that I’m only one person and it’s totally different for those of you with families. I think the key is really just figuring out what works for you with the space you have, as Dana, and everybody else always says. I need stuff to be really easy to put away otherwise it becomes visual clutter in main living spaces.
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I was the one that got grandma's second set of China (large family). Since I don't have an kids, I gave my Target dishes away and now use the China as my everyday dishwear. And every time I pull out a plate or bowl I think of holidays and special occasions at my grandparents house. ❤
Whenever I hear people tell me I “should” keep something I offer it to them and say “it sounds like it means more to you than it does to me”. I offer it to them to take home and if they don’t, I get rid of it.
THIS!! Give it to the person telling you that you should keep it
That is genius.
Awesome idea! For me, it's often my boyfriend who asks me not to get rid of things though. "You wore that shirt when we met", "That suits you so well", "That one always reminds me of when we..." etc.
Brilliant, Pamela! G Ire
“The stuff we use every day should get the prime real estate.” Yes, thank you!
Dawn, The first time I saw one of your videos, I immediately cleaned off 80% of my kitchen counters (it looks SO much better, and that night when I came out to the kitchen my son (19yo) had unloaded the dishwasher and put everything away. Normally, he would leave some things out on the counter "to continue to air dry". He actually put everything away because "he didn't want to mess up the kitchen"! Cleaning up can really be contagious, I am still working on my decluttering muscle, but I just watch some of your videos for encouragement and then remind myself that it feels really good! Thank you for making if, finally, click in my brain!
That's awesome. My teen is the type to wait for dishes to be done and then come in while you are draining the water with all the dishes from his room. 😅
I went through a divorce and moved to a tiny apartment and watching the videos gave me permission letting stuff go.
I LOVE how you don't say a minimalist house but a simplified house! I can't be a minimalist but I CAN simplify! Thank you, Dawn. ❤️ I'm sooo like Dana and you help my brain think differen
Me too!
I feel like saying "minimalist" implies there is a place you have to reach before you have been successful, but "simplified" sounds like a gradual process of improvement where you are successful with every step you take.
👏👏👏Yes because THIS is the goal!
You are absolutely spot on about the cell phones and internet! Children do Not need a smart phone! Youre right, they dont have to go looking for bad things, bad things on the internet are looking for them. Truth!
You show so much kindness, humility, transparency, compassion, and a desire to help others.
My new focus is to organize my home as if it were an Airbnb 🤩
I found when I spend time declutterring & organizing, that going shopping isn’t what it used to be, not really interested in adding to the nice, clean, newly organized place…..where will I keep it? Is this a good use of my $$? I feel I’ve already been shopping right in my own basement/garage/closets/nightstands etc😂 you’ve inspired me to clear out the ‘under the kitchen sink area’🙈, threw out so much, bought things I already had, it’s shameful really. But I feel great!!
I just realised when I simplified my eating habits, my food, and my recipes my life got so much easier, healthier and more fun.
When my daughter was small, I wrapped up a box of bandaids for her. She had other presents too, but that was her very favourite-a whole box that she could use however she wanted! I thought of this when someone mentioned the box of macaroni and cheese present!
That's SO cute ! Love it !
Cute! Mom buys plain bandages. Santa puts cute ones in stockings.
Dollar Tree has different fun ones every few months (like camo, crayon, character ones, etc.)
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So cute!!!
Ahaha I do the same thing for guilty treats for my kids. They love hot chips, sugary cereal or rice crispers etc and I say no all year but will wrap a box for Xmas or bday, they are always thrilled😂
Paused the video and simplified several kitchen drawers!
When I was a renter years ago, I learned from the various kitchen configurations I had to deal with that I’m really a drawer person. When I had the opportunity to design my kitchen I added two cabinets with 4 drawers each. Made me so happy!
Drawers are far more efficient, easier to view what you have. Ergonomic, single pull action to open, and they are now available in deeper drawers as well. Many high end kitchen designers only do drawers, and vertical pantry, and specific cupboard for baking sheets and misc.
I WISH I'd added more drawers when I redid my kitchen.
I'm also a drawer person, but our rented apartment only has 1 TINY drawer that I use for cutlery (USA: silverware). As a work-around tactic, I took Cas' advice to use baking/roasting tins as pull-out drawers. The double win is that I only use them at Christmas, so it's useful storage for them the rest of the year too 😊 Hope that tip helps others too!
@@HannahRainbow88 That's a great idea! We bought our house 30 yrs ago, and we were 1st-time buyers, so we were clueless about a lot of stuff.
One (of the many lol) things that bother me about our house is the lower kitchen cabinets, with narrow shelves in the back. It wasn't a problem 30 yrs ago, but in this season of life (much older), crouching down to root around down there is not easy.
I use large hard plastic bins now, & they slide out so it's kind of like drawers. And of course getting rid of a lot of stuff helped too :)
@@JamieM470 We moved into a house 20 years ago that had *pull-outs in every lower cabinet*! Such an epiphany! Our current kitchen is twice the size but with only those narrow shelves you're talking about, and they're so useless! (Although my thighs are benefitting from all the squats.) If we replace the cabinets, we'll go with all drawers on bottom, and if not, we'll add pull-outs all around!
I love that Tom moved that shed for you. ❤ You are both very blessed.
Time stamp 55:20 is the stage I’m at now. I just tossed childhood Christmas ornaments that gave me that UGH feeling. I’ve wasted so much time mourning what could have been regarding relationships with my parents. I feel lighter at 51 years old. Thank you for being you Dawn.
I have done the same thing. Regretful is not the Christmas vibe I’m going for. Only happy memories allowed!
I forgot the pest man was coming today. But since we have decluttered and do daily tidying I had the house pulled together in less than 10 minutes. He did the outside and I was ready for him.
So love minimal living!
That was me yesterday 😂😂
Since I've started listening to you, I've noticed how many duplicate things I have in my kitchen... 3 sets of salt and pepper shakers, a pen jar on both sides of my kitchen, TWO knife blocks, over 10 sets or types of measuring cups. 🤦 I've started letting go!
To help our kids get used to the idea of less presents, we gave them a budget for giving away presents. We specifically talked about how blessed we are and we don't need more stuff, but there are lots of people in the world who actually need things. So each kid would get a set dollar amount and we would pick a charity (many of them have fun gift catalogs that you can use to guide your giving), and they had just as much fun picking out chicks to give a family in South America or sports equipment to give to children in Africa or backpacks of school supplies to give to children in our community as getting the gifts themselves.
34:14 about vitamins and supplements. I am a visual person, but I found a "less ugly" way (in my opinion) to have them out. Bought one of those 7 day large cell pill trays with snap lids. Fill all 7 days and keep that tray out on the counter and the bottles are on the cabinet.
I saw somewhere on a video, someone had put their supplements on a pretty tray with pretty little cups on it. I'm thinking if I would like it or if I'd get annoyed...still on the fence
I made a space for the medicine/ supplements in the cupboard. Then they went into two baskets ( containers). Then into the weekly box. I am finding it helps me to remember. Once less chore per day.
For older stuff from relatives or things that "are still good" and you still like - try using those items as flower pots, pen cups, jewelry tea cup down in your underwear drawer for your daily rings and earrings.... things like that. I have nice plant saucers on my front porch because they're mix and match pieces of the plates I got about 20 years ago but don't like anymore for eating off of. My dad's handmade pottery pots and bowls are here and there holding my pens and pens, holding Lego I find on the ground...and my grandmothers fiesta ware plate is my main platter I use for dinners and parties, my husbands grandmothers milk glass pitcher is what I use for a vase so I got rid of all the others I had. I got rid of TJMaxx finds and have replaced everything with sentimental pieces serving the same purpose and actually being USED and now I get to see them. Just an idea to pass along if you have a bunch of random sentimental items in a drawer somewhere not being used. It helps you get rid of the other things that can't be used practically or that you wouldn't choose to use!
I love the idea of 2/3 full is full. I am trying this in my home and now when I open a cabinet it'a an "Ahhh moment" not an "Ugh moment" and so much easier to put things away.
I love your channel! In the last month I have decluttered SO much that was weighing myself and my family down. It’s changed my life. I am feeling more peace and joy. Mostly because I am spending less time cleaning and putting things away. Thank you!!!
Great parenting advice! It’s hard but remember you are the parent. If your kids whine about chores don’t give in! Be firm! Be the parent! They are looking for you as the parent to set the boundaries and expectations.
Leading by example is also very important. Keeping your own room clean while telling them to clean theirs works a LOT better than if your own room is trashed lol
Thanks, Dawn! As a stay at home mom, it’s always a treat when I see a new video from you pop up! You’re always so encouraging and I feel like you’re a friend even tho we’ve never met. Blessings!
My decluttering journey began when my husband died almost two years ago. I kept a few items of his because they were precious memories. Otherwise, everything else was donated. I've begun on the LR/DR because I spend most of my time there. I follow your advice of focusing on one shelf or one corner. It makes me happy to see improvement in my space. Thank you for all you do.
Every blessing to you, Sally. G Ire
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I'm on the same journey my partner of 44-years passed away a year ago, I'm finally at a point I can declutter his possessions without feeling like I'm getting rid of him. Selling wasn't an option; I'm just donating to a hospice thrift store and a battered women's thrift store. I don't want his things just sitting gathering dust when someone can make use of them.
@AZHITW Every blessing to you. You've come a journey to this point. XG Ire
@AZHITW I'm sorry for your loss. I went through the "getting rid of him" phase because I was angry that he left me so soon. I am more resolved now to create a calm space. It means decluttering my own stuff, a lot of sentimental stuff too.
We have a 2 storey house and I hate storing cleaning things in just one place. I store cleaning items in the rooms I use them most kitchen and bathrooms.
Me too!
A small portable tote with handle can move most items where needed
“Our brains love boundaries.” I needed to hear that!!
Stuff that can represent a hard season emotionally is a concept that really hits home for me. We shouldn't have to hang on to baggage like that. It's okay and GOOD to let ourselves forget the hard things if we're able to.
YES! I went through a VERY traumatic, bitter, hateful divorce about 6 years ago and lost a LOT (family, friends, material stuff, you name it, I lost it), so for a while I held on to EVERYTHING that reminded me of happier times, thinking it'd make me feel better. I realized about 6 months ago, that by keeping ALLthe stuff, I was holding onto things that not only reminded me of all I'd lost, but that a lot of things made me have resentful or bitter feelings now, instead of making me happy the way I wanted them to. I slowly started getting rid of stuff from my past life, beginning with what was causing me the most pain or regret. I truly don't miss ANY of it, and now I can focus on making my space a place where I am happy with my life, as it is NOW! I decided to quit living in the past and to start making my own new memories and being happy with the season I'm in NOW! I feel relief and am beginning to feel joy in my home and life again, finally! ❤
I'm always amazed at Americans who say they don't have big kitchen or house when they do! You're kitchen is big compared to many. Thanks for the ideas, as usual they are gold! Love from Australia 🇦🇺
I watch multiple different decluttering gurus, of course Cass too! Cannot tell you how many times I've gotten inspired to do a light decluttering or actually fold my laundry instead of letting it languish on the chair in a pile instead while watching ya'll! Can't believe how much stuff I've gotten rid of this past year thanks to ya'll keeping me held accountable!
I disagree with Marie on having all of one category in one place. The item is scissors. Scissors live in my knife drawer in the kitchen, a tray in the bathroom, a tray in my desk in my office, in my glove box in the car, and on the peg board in my garage. Each one is used at least once a week and is handy to where I use it.
So many of the things you mentioned give me permission to declutter the remaining things left from my decluttering journey. First on the list is things from old hobbies, quilting projects, craft supplies. At my season of life, I don’t see myself returning to them. I may still keep some tools and my sewing machine, but fabric pieces and quilt patterns, etc. are going to be donated. I’ve already donated oil painting supplies, now I am ready to part with the acrylic paint, that I have not used it in a few years. I draw and do watercolor only. That’s enough to satisfy me. As for the questions about sentimental items, one daughter does not want ggma’s China, the other daughter is a bit of a hoarder. The best thing I did a few years ago was donate it to our library for their annual auction. It’s been years and neither one of them ever asked about it and I never mentioned it. I did the same with my collection of green depression ware. I kept only a cake plate and a couple small serving pieces that I use. I’ve been on this decluttering journey for years now, life is so much simpler and I continue to think of things that lived the “time will tell” period and are ready to go. A project for the upcoming year is photographs. I will look at them, choose the few I want and pass the whole bunch to my kids and let them decide what they want. They are all from the pre-digital era.
I have a lot of art work, this year I want to try harder to market it, give it away etc. I’m in the Swedish Death Cleaning season of life. Clearing things out feels so good. But I also don’t want to burden my kids with stuff they don’t want. When someone admires a piece I did, I give it to them for Christmas or birthdays…..
I identify with much of what you're saying. I'm 68, and am decluttering for the same "Swedish Death Cleaning" reasons! What Dawn says about seasons of life is so true. It's funny how we fantasize about what we will do when we have more time (ie. retire). I'm now there, and have no desire to get the knitting needles or sewing machine out. Probably can't see to thread the needle! (Actually, that's not true as I do still do the mending that my daughters bring me!) Best wishes with the photographs. That's my current project. Don't forget to write on the back who they're of and the date. 🙂
I have interesting news: after Marie Kondo happened for a few years, she got married and had toddlers. And you guessed it! She says she has given up on organizing everything and keeping everything totally tidy for a little while until the two toddlers are older because trying to stay ahead of the toddlers in a tiny Japanese home is just hopeless! So if Marie Kondo adjusts for the toddler stage, we can feel okay about Toddler Overwhelm too! Its a Mommy thing for young families. Give yourself a break! I loved finding out about this. Flexibility is a lifesaver, isn't it?! LOL! Keeping it real! Thank 🙏you for everything, Marie Sensei!
Ive ordered courses before and never used them, however, this course I revisit and update every year for only $10.00 [after initial first fee}. we tend to do what we put in front of our face. I watch it after the live day and I have pause and go clean an area and come back and continue listening and watching... this works best for me. I would HIGHLY recommend this course!!! plus if you can only do a drawer at a time, you are creating a habit and this may sound strange, but it's fun. if you have ever cleaned and organized an area, can you remember how many times you went back and open the cupboard or drawer just to look at it. also, don't think about how much work it will be, think about how you will feel when it's done. oh yeah and STOP bringing more stuff in your house. once you have thoroughly decluttered... then it's the 2 items coming it has to be followed by 2 items leaving...this is how I maintain. I LOVE cleaning off my surfaces when I'm done....so much easier to clean!!!!
“Set up my kitchen to serve me in this season of life…” LOVE this quote! My kitchen is not here to impress random people who I never invite over anyway. It exists to serve me (my family) in this season of life. Dishes and tools will be stored where it makes the most sense to US, not where other people who do not live here think stuff is supposed to go.
Watching the replay. I just went through my house from one end to the other. Not the kids bedrooms though. I got a bag of trash and a box for donations full. It feels so good!
Happy to see this today, we switched bedrooms this weekend and wow, the clutter under beds, in drawers and closets that I completely missed in my decluttering!
I love “maintain not gain” for December.
Exactly! I got myself one year for decluter my house…but didn’t get where I wish, so I am on the course now. I believe it will help to achive my goal in 2024 🙏
Further ahead than you were.❤
"Let's be realistic about our distribution of resources and where we want to be spending our time and energy" so much truth in that statement!!!
Needs to be a plaque but then I would have to declutter it
I have found you in the midst of a move. Our 2400 sq ft home is decluttered and on the market. Meanwhile, I moved to an 800 sq ft furnished apartment to start my new job in a new city. I'm motivated to make my new home much more minimal. Empty nesters looking to let go of the sentimental stuff.
5 minutes is awesome... it exercises those decluttering muscles Especially this time of year
Place a small tray under the toaster and always keep the toaster on top to keep a clean counter. That way you only clean the tray once a week.
Actually there is a built-in crumb tray in most modern toasters that either slides out from the bottom or has a clip and swings open. Unless you have the very old toaster that the sides fold down and only toasts one side of bread at a time ... with no timer to pop up the toast so it doesn't burn! My Mom is 92 and still uses this old toaster! Lol
"You live here so you work here." And "Every member contributes." "We all serve each other."
I really like the way you giggle, Dawn. It relaxes me and motivates me somehow.
I just cleaned out a drawer and I know I need to do it again. But I made the first pass!
It’s like she is saying “I know where you are and I’m rooting for you”
Dorothy’s story is so inspiring. God will use anyone at any age ❤
She said you can get 2x as much done in the all day declutter as you can on your own NO WAY! You can get EASY 5x or 10x more done in the all day declutter then you can on your own. It’s wild. BUT you have to plan. Premake a quick breakfast, lunch and dinner, sleep good the night before have supplies ready. But whoa the amount of stuff people gets rid of is WILD. Blows my mind every time.
You made me smile! ‘Not everyone understands why you’re getting rid of all your stuff’. 😆
We recently moved into a larger home so that my mom could live with us. I keep telling people that if I hadn’t started watching your videos 1.5 yrs ago and simplifying my home that I would’ve lost my mind during the move. Although we have no actual storage space other than the garage, I don’t miss it. The mindset shift is huge and it’s helping me help my mom as she downsizes.
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I received my cookbook yesterday. It warms my ❤️ to help Dorothy’s House.
Thank you so much for the great session Dawn. I love your content and listening to you.
You are my most reliable source, when it comes to decluttering and even just turning on a video from your channel gets me into the work flow. 💜
I don't always agree with your decisions, but then I don't live in your house :) You've given me so many great ideas that I am implementing in my own home, bit by bit, room by room, even if I just have 5 minutes.
Thank you. This was fun to listen to other people’s questions, and hear your answers.
Time to look through Christmas decorations not being used this year again. Someone else may enjoy them more than our basement does.
We love you Lou Ann! ❤ So much! Thank you for raising such MIGHTY daughters for us and the planet!
Everything of a category in one place works for supplies, for example screws, command strips, light bulbs, but if it's something that is used daily it should be where it is used. For example the scissors, if I need scissors in my kitchen (which can be multiple times a day) I'm not going to go upstairs to our study where I also need a pair of scissors. I also keep a small pair of scissors in our walk-in-robe to cut off pulled threads or tags.
Love u SO much, Dawn❣️
Love love your advise Dawn. I have been decluttering for years and yes it is an ongoing process. I like to tune in to your channel regularly to keep me accountable and most importantly motivated. Your tips always remind me of what I can do. I will be decluttering today. Thank you, thank you.
When I look at inventory, it seems like too much stuff. But, day to day living, I use what's in my kitchen for cooking, hosting, etc. My clothing is for home, also working outside the home, church, and work out clothes. I can't pare back that far in this season, but what I take from this is to apply what works in my home, which for us is probably more living a simple life rather than a minimalist life. I know that's okay, everyone is different, but there are times I wish there were a happy medium, I feel that our society has increased expectations of what people present themselves to be and it's not conducive to simple living. I like your approach and it helps me attain that mindset that seems healthy to me.
Something you want, something you need, something to eat and something to read❤️for gifts. I never did it but I thought it was a great idea (not my idea)
One more thing - I LOVED what you said about different levels of sentimental items. That was really helpful as I see items that only belonged to certain relatives, but were not used while I spent time with them.
I have been watching you for 4 years. Always watch on TV so I can’t comment. Thanks for everything. You are an amazing woman. Blessings
I let go of a book that had a bad memory to just rebuy a different version. That might seem silly but my heart and home were better for it. It was like a hidden nasty smelly in my living room and when it was gone the air was clear. I dont know how else to explain it. But get out the stuff that is bad feeling. Bad memories tied to objects can be haunting
So true. I think Marie Kondo helped me realize this when she suggested asking if an item brings me joy.
I’ve been gone for a while and never knew about the ministry in Mexico! Subscribing again.
I agree with putting things like light bulbs and command hooks all together. However, things like scissors and staplers are used in many places, so I have those all over the house where I use them.
I would store things near where they are likely to be needed. That way you have a pen where you need it instead of going across the house to a drawer far from the place where it's needed. Have a pen or two in any rooms that you may need them at, by way of example.
I love the way Dawn pronounces the word "always." It sounds like "Ow-ees."
It’s our MN accent because I say it that way too. Go Vikings.
That’s really funny! 😂
I noticed that years ago. I love it.
I didn't notice that, but now i am intently watching to hear that "always".
I love her accent, the way she talks, her giggle. Total cutie 💓
Aw-monds is how my teacher from the twin cities pronounces almonds (I still say almonds that way now from her).
oooo the tray under the toaster is a super idea
When my husband died I donated his tools to the local men’s shed except a tool box for myself
Oh my goodness, I was most impressed by you sweet and detailed mention of your Mom LouAnne! God bless you and keep up the kind and encouraging ideas.
That was great, Dawn! I was decluttering my belts, bathroom cupboard, organized my son's stuff in tote for him to take his items when he visits, brushed the dog, and put items in tote for donation! Thanks for the length of your post.
I'm on a roll now! ~GRINNING~
Dawn you are always so positive and present in that way. I do love hearing your views and how knowledgeable you are. Thank you for your gift of explaining thoroughly. 😊
Sara Perkins...use those dishes! There is a set that belonged to my grandmother that stayed in a box for decades. No more. They are our everyday dishes now. I'm 61 and they were given to her when I was about 5.
But maybe you need scissors ✂️ for things done in different spots using scissors.? Like feed bags , nicotine patches. I think in these circumstances scissors should be kept near those things. But if your scissors are all used for sewing, it makes since to have a scissors caddy. Or paper crafting probably too
Im disabled and also suffer from anxiety and depression. I REALLY struggle with decluttering and even general tidying. I have a goid friend who understands but takes no nonsense. She came up last week and we made a start on my bedroom. I have continued to do bits and will through the next couple of weeks, until she's able to come and help again. I have to make a little progress myself in order for her to help me a lot.
Thanks Dawn, you always do a great job at inspiring others just by being you. It's really nice to see. Hope you, Tom and all the kiddos are safe and warm.
You are such an inspiration! I can’t sit still when I watch one of your videos. I always get up and declutter something. 💜
Dawn, I wanted to mention when I do the 5-10 minute declutters, it can motivate other people in the house, great for them to see how much can be done in a short time!
I'm so glad you said to aim for 1/2 to 2/3 full on cabinets. I have not heard that rule of thumb before. I've been through my kitchen, but I need to pare it down some more. Seeing space between things would be amazing.
I love the "work along side me" instead of "help me, or I need help." I need to do that with my husband. He only "helps" if I ask. It is only my husband & myself at home now.
After watching a handful of your videos, I just purged 3 toiletry totes in my bathroom, plus the overflow toiletries in the hall. Wow! I almost filled a trash bag & small donation box. Thanks for helping me recognize that throwing away a 10 y.o. half full bottle of baby lotion is OK!!😜 FACT over feelings was a great tip! Thanks for your help!
I am thankful for you, Dawn. I just thought I’d let you know. You’ve made an impact on my life for the better. I am feeling freer by the day and life is getting easier. You’re so right on so many things. God bless you! ❤
Loved this! And i highly recommend the "Time will Tell" bin or basket. That has been the best tool for my home. I keep a nice basket from Target by my front door, lined with a trash bag. So I'm always looking for things to get rid of, and it goes in waves. Like, suddenly I'll see 5 things that i no longer need.
I loved a few concepts in this: assets becoming a burden, and "it should be easy to maintain your home".
P.S. I love that you are doing this fundraiser for Dorothy. Every bit of caring helps make the world a better place.
This year I realized that Christmas time is a rude reminder that I have too much stuff. I had to move kid toys to make room for the tree and now I feel so cluttered and it is giving me such big anxiety! And now I have to figure out where we will put the new things too.
I have been faithfully following you and made the goodwill folks happy,, i did have a party this year and realized i wanted to wear a sweater but i had donated it(haven't worn it in 6 years) lol,, my other sweater worked just fine 😂
I love you too! You are amazing! You are a wonderful person! 'Air hugs!'
I just wanted to say thank you for being real. “Lazy parent” with chore charts here. I’ve got upset many many times wondering what’s wrong with me because I cannot stick to the chore chart monitoring…you gave me lighter shoulders when I heard you say that. Reminded me that we are all different and we need to find things that work for us.
I literally can't stick to any charts... at some point I stopped torturing myself. If my kids ask for a chart, they assume full responsibility for it
Thank you. Every video gives me motivation. I play them again when I declutter 😊 and it helps me. Still have a long way to go - but my house is much better than when I first started this journey!❤
Just bought a set two Bundt cake pans (for $3 at the bin store!!) after my auntie gifted us a kitchenaid stand mixer, and I had no idea about your Bundt cake book and I’m so excited
I think the 5 minute pickup
Will help ME to get motivated!
It is late and I am finishing watching today's video! You were answering the mom who can't let go of her children's clothes! I was that mom but now my oldest is 35, middle 34, and youngest is 28. I kept so much....because I was THAT mom. The problem I had was that some of the clothes ended up being ruined...those cute adorable memories were not useable. Some were and in the last year my oldest two have taken things home for their babies. If I could do it again, I would have the memory bin with special pieces because I could manage them. Obviously I could not manage all that I kept. A mom who understands the need to hold on but the experience of losing so much of those things I clung to.
Bless you! Grandmother, 68, here! My children are 40, 38 and 35. I didn't keep clothes because in my circle of friends we swapped clothes and I was able to give stuff away at the time. My problem is with their artwork, etc. Until just a few months ago, I'd kept every single piece of artwork, craftwork, stories, etc; that they had ever produced. It filled 4 huge boxes (and I mean huge). I've now tackled it, and am down to a medium sized box (which also includes the grandkids' stuff). It's been a traumatic thing for me to do. It's a letting go of their lost childhood, which has always been very hard for me. It has to be done, and I'm glad I've nearly done it, but I sob as I do it. The mantra that has kept me going is this: If EVERYTHING is special/important/a treasure, then NOTHING is. Once you've got down to the things you really want to keep, then you can give those items the space and honour they deserve. Otherwise the "treasures" are lost in the chaos. Best wishes. EDIT: Oh, I DID keep their first shoes!
@@supergran1000 (I am 68, also) "Once you've got down to the things you really want to keep, then you can give those items the space and honour they deserve." Perfectly said! You can't manage physically or mentally too many memories stored away! You will never remember you have those memories! We moved from South Dakota to Illinois and 12 years later moved back to South Dakota. I remember so well sobbing as I went through "stuff" also! We did swap clothes, also, but I kept even clothes that were "new to us" because I could remember those precious days! I kept toys which my grandkids are using but I need to go through those now! I did go through sometime ago and whittle down to a shoebox some memories. I am so sentimental that I once kept a note with my mom's writing (while she was still alive). I showed her and she said that's a grocery list!!! We both laughed at my silliness! I have come far but still a ways to go!
When I bought my place 18 years ago, I got my mom to unpack the kitchen because she'd know where things go best. LOL! I agree with keeping some things together of the same category, I do prefer to have scissors in the kitchen and my office. I had 5 adults in my family stay with me the last few days and I don't regret simplifying my kitchen. The first 4 people to get in line to eat had regular plates and the last two had paper plates. This is the first time I've had that many people in 10+ years and I'm not getting more "just in case". We ran the dishwasher after breakfast so we had things to eat with and on for dinner. :)
I keep scissors in the kitchen for cutting paper or whatever( these are not meat cutting scissors). This prevents using my good fabric scissors from being used.
A PLACE FOR EVERYTHING AND EVERYTHING MISSING
I have this problem too. Obviously I am not putting things in the first place I look for that item
I am doing a declutter pre Christmas. Come the time I need more free space for guests and their coats, present, the tree and all the pans etc for the big meal. It’s a great time to go through the cutlery etc and see what you actually need at full house and let go of extras from that.