The Science Of Mating Ft. Nuri Muhammad

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  • Опубліковано 11 жов 2024
  • On this session of Counsel Culture, Nick is again joined by author, activist, and life coach, Nuri Muhammad. The topic of this session is proper partnership and the tools for a successful relationship. Why is the commitment so difficult? Are gender roles in relationships healthy? Is marriage possible without God? These questions get answered, and many more, here!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 169

  • @Road2Wholeness
    @Road2Wholeness 5 місяців тому +52

    Self discipline is my favorite of the fruits of the spirit. Nuri is great at giving simple concepts. Excellent guest.

  • @lanafranklin8568
    @lanafranklin8568 5 місяців тому +71

    In my 56 years, I’ve learned that self discipline is how you truly feel about yourself.

  • @mcbrideinstitute
    @mcbrideinstitute 4 місяці тому +16

    Nick couldn’t comprehend truly loving someone like that. That’s why character and personality matters more than physical attraction.

  • @NickMintz
    @NickMintz 5 місяців тому +50

    Nuri stay with more gems 💎 than a jewelry store

  • @frannygochi
    @frannygochi 5 місяців тому +24

    A man cannot be monogamous UNLESS THEY HAVE THAT DISCIPLINE FROM GOD.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 5 місяців тому +82

    One thing about Muslim men they respect themselves!

    • @bostonrap2039
      @bostonrap2039 5 місяців тому

      🧢. The “honorable” Elijah Muhammad(whom he gets his information or studied) cheated on his wife and fathered multiple children with underage girls. Malcolm X was marked for revealing such information to the people.

    • @nureshmihassim1759
      @nureshmihassim1759 5 місяців тому

      As a former Muslim I beg to differ. Most of the Muslims men I know are arrogant and
      Mysoginistic to another level. Maybe Black Muslims raised in US

    • @themandinkafamily
      @themandinkafamily 4 місяці тому

      No not all of them. Especially african men

  • @SheriRose-sk4kk
    @SheriRose-sk4kk 5 місяців тому +15

    I was raised in the way that Mr. Nuri talks about. It was called “ Respect!” For self, and your relationships. Great guest.

  • @Reesie101
    @Reesie101 5 місяців тому +6

    This needs be a viral video! He said so much that was note-worthy🔥

  • @SammyDavis353
    @SammyDavis353 5 місяців тому +7

    I'm in my mid 60s, so Nick, in several respects, is from another planet, not to mention the money aspect. But my hats off to Nick for the courage to air his laundry on such a public stage. Yeah, it sells, but the courage to sell it is no small thing. Nick, much respect young Brother. You're going to help a lot of people, if for nothing else, dealing in truth.

  • @CAL0725
    @CAL0725 5 місяців тому +8

    Best episode thus far. So many nuggets of wisdom. The man was preaching the Gospel without trying to.

  • @sno_gush44
    @sno_gush44 5 місяців тому +17

    This is a very informative conversation, I subscribed!
    My husband and I were talking yesterday about how to restore balance in the home. As Africans we lost the balance, due to past atrocities done to men and women, a purposed dissolution of structure in Black families. The chaos and instability in the world today can be opposed by fixing the families first, educating Mom and Dad so they can have the skill to empower their children to be well rounded individuals who conduct themselves well in society. Nowadays men and women are equally vulnerable, they easily succumb to idealistic standards.

  • @heatherro9989
    @heatherro9989 5 місяців тому +18

    Real talk, sir. Love anticipates need. Very instructive.

  • @shaverse8626
    @shaverse8626 5 місяців тому +10

    Agree. Im taking accountability as a now fully grown woman that i was not raised to respect myself but i have the ability to. I seek to learn about self respect for my unborn daughter to have a foundation of Respect for herself so that a King will treat her as a Queen by default.
    His approach is concerning towards the people not fed up towards the people. He can get his point across. Great teachers make great future teachers. Thank you.

  • @heatherro9989
    @heatherro9989 5 місяців тому +17

    He always dish out wisdom!! Great interview as always.

  • @driven24djackson
    @driven24djackson 5 місяців тому +10

    Man brother Nuri spoke some powerful advice on this episode.. thanks brother.

  • @aaronstewart4556
    @aaronstewart4556 5 місяців тому +7

    Damage control cost so much in many ways. I love you brother and I’m praying for you and your family.

  • @NBnNC
    @NBnNC 5 місяців тому +8

    Truth delivered in such a graceful way… Nick did better this go round and just took it 👏🏾

  • @TheDopestChick
    @TheDopestChick 5 місяців тому +4

    He came out the gate dropping 💎💎💎💎

  • @mg_streetkandi
    @mg_streetkandi 5 місяців тому +3

    Nuri is really trying to help Nick.. Nick felt that pressure but he was 100% accountable..I can respect that..Good Interview..👍🏽

  • @JohnJones-uc5mj
    @JohnJones-uc5mj 5 місяців тому +4

    This was an interview that we all could learn something from, men and women, not just Nick.

  • @JG-dy2hk
    @JG-dy2hk 5 місяців тому +8

    Woooooo!! “The downfall of too many men has been the upkeep of too many women”!!

  • @OfficialMNIB
    @OfficialMNIB 5 місяців тому +17

    - Let's geaux Brother Nuri - ☀️ 🌙 ⭐️

  • @marianaya5824
    @marianaya5824 Місяць тому

    Love this so much! What a great teacher and example, especially as it relates to his marriage and service to our people. peace.

  • @Tubbsmuzik
    @Tubbsmuzik 5 місяців тому +2

    This was so informative. I love it.

  • @janaec5248
    @janaec5248 4 місяці тому +2

    “The downfall of too many Men has been the upkeep of too many Women.” This right here!!!!!
    I hate that these type of messages don’t go viral!!! Need to be on Billboards! Commercials on sports channels! At the pump!

    • @byn1qween553
      @byn1qween553 4 місяці тому

      Exactly. Instead of b/s from industry plants such as KS and AT!!

  • @BetterMe001
    @BetterMe001 5 місяців тому +1

    I’ve truly enjoyed both conversations and learned so much where I at a different view

  • @lynRen0
    @lynRen0 5 місяців тому +12

    An undisciplined Man is truly a DANGEROUS MAN. Nick is so undisciplined 😢 Truly having money is keeping him safe. Without the comforts of wealth Nick would be absolutely lawless. He is exposing himself and should not be able to influence any Black Man with his thoughts 💔💔

    • @jamonit9479
      @jamonit9479 4 місяці тому +1

      Perfectly said! Sadly Nick represents so many black men right now especially the entertainers.

    • @JosiahPeterkin
      @JosiahPeterkin Місяць тому

      It takes discipline to maintain wealth. You just may not agree with him in which I don’t even hear him say anything crazy

  • @hopecarter1147
    @hopecarter1147 5 місяців тому +1

    Greeting Bro Nuri. From Sister Hope from Indianapolis. Now from NYC.

  • @cahlothedj
    @cahlothedj 5 місяців тому +5

    Felt ever word ✊🏽 Thank you 🌞

  • @lamontg6619
    @lamontg6619 28 днів тому

    This your best session and episode! Thank you !

  • @BiGGCaiN24
    @BiGGCaiN24 5 місяців тому +2

    Great conversation, great gems were dropped by Brother Nuri. I’m not Muslim but I do have his book Before I Say I Do. I wish more would listen to what he says, he’s a great speaker with great insight, he’s a great teacher that people can learn something from.

  • @debbiehilton2614
    @debbiehilton2614 5 місяців тому +6

    Love this brother Nuri! Wisdom and knowledge looks good on the black man!!!

  • @amason8636
    @amason8636 5 місяців тому

    Talk about IT!! I love to hear this man speak.

  • @moneyymanbanks1
    @moneyymanbanks1 5 місяців тому +1

    Great interview felt this deeply!

  • @mosimamokgonyana1578
    @mosimamokgonyana1578 5 місяців тому +6

    Hey Nick Hey Nick, This was too close to home for you my brother ❤❤

  • @RevolutionaryRAYRAY
    @RevolutionaryRAYRAY 5 місяців тому +3

    🙏🏾🙋🏾 Question for any of you Brothers. I am not a hypocrite with saying "we have no missing books". In Business, how would you explain Psalm 141:2 with Revelation 22:2-3 knowing Revelation 8:3-4+Revelation 5:8? Blessings for your words beyond the Old Testament.

  • @shmayisraelhomez8160
    @shmayisraelhomez8160 5 місяців тому +1

    This was excellent!

  • @tamiasmith5883
    @tamiasmith5883 5 місяців тому +7

    Hey 👋 MR Cannon good conversation

  • @tawanamazyck84
    @tawanamazyck84 3 місяці тому

    ❤ I really enjoyed this, thank you

  • @TheChannel-t6l
    @TheChannel-t6l 5 місяців тому

    Good counsel and nourishment for the mind and spirit.

  • @thekemeticmuslim
    @thekemeticmuslim 5 місяців тому +1

    Shukran Brother Nuri Muhammad.

  • @tamiasmith5883
    @tamiasmith5883 5 місяців тому +5

    I love you ❤️ mr cannon and have a great Friday

  • @FalaqX
    @FalaqX 5 місяців тому +2

    Peace to my #74 family. Love all of yall.

  • @ant7440
    @ant7440 2 місяці тому

    I've slowly transitioned to listening to him more than the Honorable Louis Farrakhan much love to both

  • @nikishiaallen1408
    @nikishiaallen1408 5 місяців тому +1

    The last minute need to be a short!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @aminamuhammad4578
    @aminamuhammad4578 5 місяців тому +3

    Very deep conversation, Nick, im rooting for you but i feel like your straddles the fence alot, truth is hard to accept for many of us. I want you to win, all our people to win, but Bro. Nuri is speaking factz and lord we definitely appreciate 🤲🏽

    • @Nicolesmith-en2uz
      @Nicolesmith-en2uz 5 місяців тому +3

      Nick isn’t ready. But he has the tools to do right when he’s ready. He has to APPLY himself.

  • @Ladiesfirst321
    @Ladiesfirst321 5 місяців тому +3

    It’s not all men and women that treat men and woman like they are an “IT”but This is good 80% in the black community. Real is rare.
    Women don’t set rules and don’t want in standards then want to yell, “Men ain’t s**t.” When in fact they are all that and a bag of chips 🤴🏽🥰

  • @Kemosabe_International
    @Kemosabe_International 4 місяці тому

    Yes Brother Nuri Muhammad always has the best gems. Friendships is the key! The problem is the women love men but don't respect their ways and men don't love or respect women.

  • @Anthony2X19
    @Anthony2X19 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you!

  • @CreatingLife-sc4le
    @CreatingLife-sc4le 5 місяців тому +8

    I don't think Nick Cannon is good at these serious interview roles although he tries, but He should just stick with Wiling Out or hosting those talent shows. That is where he seems most comfortable and successful. Not everyone is meant to host a podcast. Nick it's ok, you're going to be ok it's not too late bro...🙏🏿🙏🏿 12:33

  • @NappyChronicles
    @NappyChronicles 3 місяці тому +3

    Heard this from a man "Men only do what women allow".

  • @TeniqueSpeaks
    @TeniqueSpeaks 5 місяців тому +105

    Idk if it was just me but seemed like Nick wasn’t ready to go too deep into into the interview because it would showcase himself

    • @ashleyw9852
      @ashleyw9852 5 місяців тому +9

      Bingo! He no when to talk less

    • @Light-qv2ey
      @Light-qv2ey 5 місяців тому +9

      I was thinking the same thing. He was great at asking questions like an interviewer, but he wasn’t as interactive as in other interviews. He kept saying, “hmm, right, and yea.” Everyone is ready at their own time though.

    • @ashleyw9852
      @ashleyw9852 5 місяців тому +9

      @@Light-qv2ey smart people know that Nuri exposed him but others maybe not so much

    • @raegray8768
      @raegray8768 5 місяців тому +7

      No nick wasn’t ready and them demons was making him itch! 😂 it was even hard for him to listen. Fame is a hell of a drug.

    • @themofomayor
      @themofomayor 5 місяців тому +2

      You mean like EVERY conversation he has??

  • @j1223aw
    @j1223aw 5 місяців тому +1

    POWERFUL

  • @LeonGenesis
    @LeonGenesis 5 місяців тому

    Incredible session! 🤲🏾

  • @kendellbrown9185
    @kendellbrown9185 5 місяців тому +2

    Love both you kings keep us in the know kings

  • @raegray8768
    @raegray8768 5 місяців тому +2

    All I have to say is Got Em!!!!

  • @expeditenow3664
    @expeditenow3664 5 місяців тому +1

    Good stuff 🎉

  • @SaidAmilion
    @SaidAmilion 5 місяців тому

    Thank you kindly

  • @suzanabraha5942
    @suzanabraha5942 5 місяців тому

    Great insight

  • @squeak905
    @squeak905 Місяць тому

    It's funny how Nick is listening and not jus hearing. There"s a difference. Nick needed this. He's realizing how broken he is. This man said the same thing Dr. Bryant did. Funny how Nick wasn't receiving her but is receiving it comin from him.

  • @butterflyblessbless5836
    @butterflyblessbless5836 4 місяці тому

    🖤Love & Respect Bro Nuri

  • @r.o.bdaczar8979
    @r.o.bdaczar8979 5 місяців тому

    What a way to wrap that one up. 👏🏿

  • @thehoneydeev
    @thehoneydeev 5 місяців тому +1

    « Love anticipates needs. » powerful. Thank you for orchestrating this conversation Nick. Where I challenge Dr Nuri is the underlying message that men’s missteps are the responsibility of women that need themselves to elevate their standards. Honestly, let’s hold men ACCOUNTABLE for their behaviors as we hold women accountable for theirs. 🙏🏽

  • @kimmysback6003
    @kimmysback6003 4 місяці тому

    Nick with those socks you would be a tea drinker. Lol 😆

  • @charles_el_gwapo
    @charles_el_gwapo 5 місяців тому +10

    As I’m watching,nick truly don’t have any disciple. He distracting me with all that movement. Sit still brother.

    • @face6264
      @face6264 4 місяці тому +1

      I mean just so unprofessional.. no eye contact and constant movement like he withdrawing from a perc 30 🥴

    • @butterflyblessbless5836
      @butterflyblessbless5836 4 місяці тому

      He has ADHD

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 5 місяців тому +12

    Nick there ARE MEN who respect their bodies and don’t sleep around with multiple women! It’s NOT true that men can’t respect themselves. Sleeping around with multiple women against will or bc you lack self control is a lack of respect

  • @zevan6147
    @zevan6147 5 місяців тому

    I'll tune in

  • @africanbj
    @africanbj 4 місяці тому

    Nebraska Tappin In

  • @Createasteadyhustle
    @Createasteadyhustle 5 місяців тому +1

    All facts 🥂

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 5 місяців тому +11

    But it’s not on women to make men behave! Men need to treat themselves with respect

    • @thehoneydeev
      @thehoneydeev 5 місяців тому +1

      Was looking for this comment because I didn’t want to write a whole paragraph ! I like everything I hear, but I challenge that once more we as a society has to make women accountable for men’s actions. That’s too much

    • @orellmuhammad1106
      @orellmuhammad1106 5 місяців тому

      It’s on women to set high standards which will result in an advancement of civilization. Wherever women are in the gutter, so is its civilization. The problem is women don’t know their role in the world and don’t want to take responsibility for the power they hold.

  • @ruthmolaquewaweru8715
    @ruthmolaquewaweru8715 5 місяців тому +5

    You can't win if you keep saying you can't.

  • @JAHKINGGOD
    @JAHKINGGOD 5 місяців тому +4

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @johnscott9318
    @johnscott9318 Місяць тому +1

    Yalll don’t see it ???? Nuri checking nick .. he talking about how nick moving & how nick settling & can’t make decisions like a man of god! He exposed nick demonic ways . Nick was feeling it too!

  • @Lovabledrgodymann
    @Lovabledrgodymann 3 місяці тому +1

    😂 @ the end…

  • @tshephomnguni-gw1jh
    @tshephomnguni-gw1jh 5 місяців тому

    "Avoid pain and seek pleasure"...love and lust

  • @Lightness.
    @Lightness. 5 місяців тому +2

    Handling human beings as its... 🤯

  • @rickbeastrandolph
    @rickbeastrandolph 3 місяці тому

    Organic truth

  • @najahcare
    @najahcare 5 місяців тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @show691time
    @show691time 5 місяців тому +1

    💪🏾💯❤️‍🔥

  • @emmanuelogua3685
    @emmanuelogua3685 5 місяців тому +1

    Does anyone have tbe sources for the 1867 congressional meeting that he spoke about?

    • @darleneclayton2958
      @darleneclayton2958 Місяць тому

      Read the history of Morgan state. That meeting g comes up.

  • @danieldhardman5388
    @danieldhardman5388 5 місяців тому +1

    I like Brother Nuri bc he is someone that you can have a real conversation with. The episodes featuring him are just that--conversations. Having said that, I would push back a bit on his statement, "where there are no decent women there are no decent men." Doesn't that make women responsible for men's character? It reminds me of when I see women of a certain religion wearing coverings, sometimes head-to-toe, so they won't be a temptation for men. It's up to me to be a decent person regardless of there being any women around or not. It's not a woman's job to impart decency onto me. By this logic, a lack of decent men is women's fault. I just cant accept that.

    • @dpphotographyllc
      @dpphotographyllc 5 місяців тому

      I think it means that the lack of decent women reflects directly on the state of mind and the condition of men primarily because men have been the "leaders" of this world. Therefore, if men create a standard of debauchery, women will follow and, as a result, because the woman is the first teacher, they will pass it on to the children. And if no breaks the tradition, it will continue to carry on.

  • @michaelmuhammad5000
    @michaelmuhammad5000 4 місяці тому +1

    📣 Your problem is after 4‼️

  • @antoinepowell649
    @antoinepowell649 5 місяців тому

    How many of yah getting the book 📕

  • @TopSharC_43
    @TopSharC_43 2 місяці тому

    So many jewels in this I have to keep rewinding to catch and process. Amazing interview 💪🏾🤍

  • @SxCense
    @SxCense 5 місяців тому +1

    I just wish Nick would be vulnerable and open up about his pair bonding and reproductive mindset. He has had some powerful voices of our generation on his show and no one ever touch much on the topic. Perhaps this is a subject he doesn’t allow his guest to confront

  • @PamelaBates-op2qr
    @PamelaBates-op2qr 4 місяці тому +1

    These days they are not trying to get to know they are just f-ing and not getting to know.

  • @Chloe-us6fm
    @Chloe-us6fm 5 місяців тому

    Wow

  • @themandinkafamily
    @themandinkafamily 4 місяці тому +4

    Nick is nowhere near ready to receive this smh

  • @itstheiceman11
    @itstheiceman11 5 місяців тому +2

    I don’t think Nick Cannon has that problem.
    😂

  • @RubaJust
    @RubaJust 5 місяців тому +4

    Nick is he's own problem and nobody can save him but Jesus. Problem is he made money his god.

  • @byn1qween553
    @byn1qween553 4 місяці тому

    Of course this is all difficult for Nick to apply to his life. He may be past this point due to his life choices. Any woman is taking three backseats to his kids, mothers of his kids and his career.

  • @renewashington9119
    @renewashington9119 5 місяців тому

    According to the Bible a man commits **No Sin** if he chooses to marry. The man Who finds a wife is very fortunate indeed. However, **Singleness** is recommended for those who can make room for it. As a man will have **Tribulation** in the flesh if they marry. In contrast, if a man (or woman) remains Single, they can better FOCUS on their service to God and **Spiritual** things rather than minding the flesh.

  • @Moniqu333
    @Moniqu333 5 місяців тому +1

    Come on naw “Man cannot be monogamous unless he has that discipline from GOD.” 2:00

  • @themofomayor
    @themofomayor 5 місяців тому +3

    At least he has better posture this time. Maybe next interview, he'll be able to make eye contact while asking his BS questions. 2 mins in smh

  • @aaronstewart4556
    @aaronstewart4556 5 місяців тому +14

    I have love for you Nick but you have a problem. You are trying to fill a void with all of these families you’ve created and there is an obvious disruption in your relationship with God.

  • @peaceblessings7344
    @peaceblessings7344 5 місяців тому

    🇹🇷💪🏾✌🏾👑

  • @ludveltsaintolien188
    @ludveltsaintolien188 5 місяців тому

    Can someone tell me where to find the bikini documentary?

  • @tpeopleway
    @tpeopleway 5 місяців тому +1

    If lack of accountability and excuses was a meme….

  • @leslieransom9622
    @leslieransom9622 5 місяців тому

    No place on that list The Love Dare it quote scripture for healing, waiting, promising, giving compassion learning when to be logical when to be more compassionate in your relationship of your marriage

  • @silverbeautifullight
    @silverbeautifullight 5 місяців тому

    ☀️🙏🏾🌅😌