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Literally i face massive issues of comparison and i have inconsistent confidence levels.. where somone better than me makes me feel terrible and unworthy and vice versa.. this is really helpful and your content never disappoints.. but one issue is that being lonely also perpetuates this issue for approval and validation and winner effect
Whatever you are chasing identify it and meditate to ask yourself how to fill that within. Each time you do this you improve a little bit... I walked from hell into this confidence. It's amazing to be unshakable, give it a try.
Gooood stuff!!! Even though it makes sense, I still don't truly believe I can have confidence outside of my looks or accomplishments. But, I'm taking small steps.
I believe ANY human will see value in this. We are so conditioned since day 1 (birth) to allow what you have or what you do define themselves. Authenticity is KING. I see myself and others reviewing this message again and again.... and again and again...LOVE it.
nice dude!🔥 almost everything he talks about is legit, i would advice you to also rewatch videos after a certain time, because your ras focus on different things and you resonate with other stuff he talks about stick to julien and owen they are great mentors!❤🎉
So powerful! Great! When I am in the nightclub talking to people I sometimes recognise that I put on a fake persona just to make people believe that I am super cool and fitting the cool niche. I just have to drop that front and just be me and say what I feel/think, do what I feel/think and be as I am
What i love about this guy, other than his maxed out wisdom and charisma, is that he's a living embodiment of how much a person can change just from working on themselves - from the obvious self consciousness of the old days, and challenges and humiliation most of us will never have to face.
this blew my mind, cause i finally talk freely with women in public and feel more confident everyday of my journey buuut all my life i was told i kinda walk like a duck when im too relaxed and people stare at me most of the time ( cause im 6,3 and pretty :') ) and sometimes when im walking i try to control the duckiness and gets even worse so i start thinking yea, guess im not that confident yet..but the secret was always to embrace the duck walk and not literally respect the confident body language..feel it I love you Julien
I'm far less shy than I used to be. But definitely situationally. At work around everyone, I feel pretty safe to be pretty authentic to who I am. But who I am is useful there. I definitely take almost all my self-confidence from doing for other people. I feel like nothing most of the time. I hate that that feels like me. I want to be better, but my negative thoughts, I guess, just feel better. I'm not sure why. Maybe it seems easier? But being miserable isn't easy?! It's horrible. I really am trying every day, but I can't help but think I'd rather die than continue.
I been following you for about a month and I really love your approach on how you dissect things!! You're Awesome My Brother and I Love You! Thank you for All That You Do For Humanity! 💖💎🙌∞
I have a question about this. You say, we should be confident "just because". How is this achievable? I think every human being defines himself over something, which gives him value and comfidence. Often by the things you own or do as you said, maybe by your family, friends, your religion, or your experiences in life. The things that influenced you the most when you grew up. Is it really possible to go back to that child-like state, where you can say "I am confident" at any time without any reason behind it? How do you get there? PS: That talk was amazing by the way. Spoke right to my heart.
It is like your dream is to be a millionaire, does it mean that you need to be rich (achieve your dream) to be happy? No. So you don't need to achieve anything or have anything to be confident, just like you don't need to be rich and you can still feel happy now. He said the method, just let go.
Thank you so much Julien, thanks to you I am increasingly closer to my best version, my authentic self, and this is thanks to you helping, me ask myself the necessary questions to find myself
question : when you meditate and get your awarness to the base of your spine how does it feel like in your experience ?? ( take your time and try to be precise ) tnx
Julien your handwriting is awesome LOL On another note... another eye opener really teaching us something so real and simple so easily overlooked! I thank you big time!
I'm an introvert and for me being a confident person means not being driven by unconscious dynamics,as long as we are not aware we are not free. In order to truly trust yourself and be confident, you must heal all the dynamics of your subconscious. Many teachers teach their followers to let go, but you cannot ask that of someone who has not healed all the subconscious dynamics because they will not be able to let go, that is why it is necessary for each individual to be aware of his own unconscious dynamics in order to transcribe them and let go of the old one. There is a saying: if in a maximum of a year and a half you have not evolved, then the problem is with your mentor.
I love how you explain it so well in an understandable way for everyone. I've been trying to find who i am these past few months but i kept on feeling like i was chasing something i could never reach. The having - Doing - Being model really helped putting into perspective why i felt that way. Alot of the things i tried involved Doing and Having. Interpreting who i am as something i would have to get a hold of. With this i'm going to focus more on shadowquestioning and unraveling the parts inside me holding me back. I'm truly thankful for your videos and i hope you will keep inspiring others to become whole again! :)
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 💡 The foundation of confidence is activating your "winner effect," where you feel confident when you perceive yourself as winning in a situation. 02:29 🔄 People often chase the winner effect through external validation, such as putting others down, seeking money or approval, but this approach is temporary and does not address the root cause of a lack of confidence. 03:30 🌱 True confidence comes from internal approval and self-love, not from external validation or achievements. 07:05 🧘♂️ Achieving core confidence involves moving from focusing on what you have (material possessions) or what you do (actions) to simply being confident in who you are. 14:44 🎭 True confidence is about letting go of societal pressures and being authentic, rather than adding or compensating with external attributes or behaviors. Made with HARPA AI
I am getting over the whole confidence thing I am exhausted trying to be someone I am not. It is a shame this society is so geared around social confidence and not whether or not someone is caring. Trying to be confident has basically destroyed my life I am done with the whole trying to be someone I am not. I think I will just hang out with my dog 😂. I have done 1000s of challenges for myself and I have only made myself worse. I think maybe I could have Aspergers or something
I can really relate to what you said. Most of the time I would rather be with my dogs than most people. To me it sounds like you might be really hard on yourself. Give yourself a break. We live in a sick and selfish society. Maybe you aren't meant to fit in.
I feel the same as both of you. Its hard to fit in this society, theres to much egoccentrism, sometimes feels like if you wanna make friends with someone you gotta deny yourself. Better be authentic and not expecting anything from anyone. But im not saying thats not frustrating
Being confident doesn’t mean u need to be loud and expressive, u just gotta do what u feel like and not care what others think. It’s that simple, but it’s not easy
Having, Doing & Being from a humans perspective is past, future & present. It encompasses all that is to be a human living in any moment. I can understand you not concerning yourself with status and possessions, whilst still perusing "social intelligence"...but if all you posses and strive to be is grounded in maintaining social intelligence (Another human). Would that then not make you a slave even more so, as you are now no longer a slave to possessions but a slave you another or group if individuals. Possibly slave isn't the right word? I reckon, all though subjective. Setting goals for yourself and meeting them is the only way to form confidence. You don't learn how to fly a plane by removing all aircrafts and materials on that subject that you possess. And you defiantly don't know how to fly a plan when you are born. With that same logic the optimal method of movement for a human would be crawling. 🤣 In all seriousness though, you have to go out of your comfort zone regardless. Apply force or pressure on that initial step and learn confidents through reptation and tangible evidence of self progression. Soz for the, splurge but you gotta admit it was quicker than 20 mins to learn and hopefully more affective. GL y'all.
I hate to tell you, bud, but shy people are certainly born shy in many cases. My daughter was shy from birth. No one taught her that. It's been her natural disposition since before she could talk. You are presupposing that your limited perspective is indicative of the entire human experience... It's not 😂 Telling a naturally shy person to "just be confident" is a lot like telling someone to quit drinking water.
It's strange that you write off 'competence' and suggest simulating the feeling that you are succeeding at your goals. That won't work. Our 'confidence' is a set if beliefs and attitudes that are built up over a very long time. Think of a fine wine. It cannot develop its depth and value in a few weeks or years. The point is, if you don't feel confident now, you have a LOT of work to do and only you can do it. Ouch. That's not the quick fix you wanted
Julien would you do an event in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania or Cleveland,Ohio? I've seen you twice in L.A. and would to see you again live in either 1 of those two cities. Thank you 👌
it’s almost like, I’ve been conditioned this way for so long, I don’t even have energy to speak loud or yell anymore. I’ve been walking on eggshells my entire life. I feel stifled and my growth came to a halt faster than ever. Now I’m stuck not able to grow. I’m 26. If I can’t grow now I’ll never grow. And being aware of time running out sucks.
Amazing, you are pure truth, pure emotion, pure inner child, im looking for you a lot of time, in certain moment when i learn english better, i would like to get your knowladge and wisdom
Any other tips on authenticity? I constantly feel like I’m not good enough and then I start putting a facade on to what I believe others will like. It creates awkward interactions
Here's a nuance though: Let's say you only somewhat let go and you unleash the authentic winner effect a little bit. You then question it's validity and might think that my winner effect is a fake one or say it's not coming from a good place. What's the definitive way to make sure it's coming from the right place so that I don't beat myself up even if I'm totally on right path?
@@rishabhprajapati8423Yes. Just say what you think and then judge whether it was valuable after. Was it more valuable than silence? Do you know something that others don't? or see things in at least a slightly different way? Is what you say a little funny to you? Are you raising the mood or putting them in their place? Are you setting a good example? There are many ways to add value with speech. What you have to say should be valuable to you. If it's not valuable to you then it's probably not going to be valuable to them. Not everything you say has to be valuable, just don't make things/the situation worse. *What you're referring to in the initial comment is called imposter syndrome. The part of you that is doubting it doesn't want you to be a winner. Beating yourself up is for losers. He says towards the end of the video to not draw confidence from anything even the content of your speech!! A truly confident person wouldn't care about such things. I've fallen into that trap of value myself. Being quick witted is a skill to develop and so is decisiveness. Asking a question is adding value. If you personally know these people then automatically what you say holds more value than a random. Your intention can be to say things that provide value but that CANNOT be where you draw your confidence from.
What you are referring to is relying on doing something as a source of confidence. You need to provide value in order to be confident. Probably because of the red pill shit you see online.
I love the way this video is presented. It's so positive and encouraging. I feel like I can really do anything after watching this video. Thank you for creating such a helpful and inspiring resource!
Thanks man, thx to your videos I accepted my weirdness and wrote my first song and even showed it to my family P.s. AlterRizz- Broken Wing is the name if you wanna check but be aware im just a beginner!
Here is a link to a great video of Julien explaining this precisely for the people that want to learn how to start actually letting go! ua-cam.com/video/k4Ya1BsygXQ/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared
i think i needed to hear this 🔥🔥🔥 also the part where he mentioned confidence and was like “what happens if i took my clothes off half run away half runs towards me” 😂😂😂😂 so funny
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Why do you wear sunglasses when you’re inside?
If you can wear pants like that in public, you're confident.
It looks like he just got done playing a baseball game
Especially if you wear it in Russia 😉
In that case you better know how to fight or run fast@@oleksandrhrebeniuk2676
😂😂😂😂
I actually came back to look at the pants.
It is easy
Literally i face massive issues of comparison and i have inconsistent confidence levels.. where somone better than me makes me feel terrible and unworthy and vice versa.. this is really helpful and your content never disappoints.. but one issue is that being lonely also perpetuates this issue for approval and validation and winner effect
Whatever you are chasing identify it and meditate to ask yourself how to fill that within. Each time you do this you improve a little bit...
I walked from hell into this confidence. It's amazing to be unshakable, give it a try.
This one hit different. Thanks Julien, you make assumed complicated things so simple 🙏🏾
Never was it so clear than that. Good job on this one, Jules.
love your speech and feel sorry for those who leave the speeh😂
Iam glad I came across this channel. Following from Kenya
this is a deep deep stuf, thanks for putting it there for free!
Gooood stuff!!! Even though it makes sense, I still don't truly believe I can have confidence outside of my looks or accomplishments. But, I'm taking small steps.
Great content man ❤🎉 thank you for sharing 🙏
Thankyou so much Julien😊
You're welcome!
Omg 😂😂 that body language thing was so funny. That just made my day! ❤
Duck you for getting me over thinking while I’m high 😂❤
thanks❤
Damn, this is solid advice
Thanks! Glad this resonates!
Hiding? That'd imply I have any confidence at all.
Good stuff, Julien. Thanks!
More vibe focused content
I believe ANY human will see value in this. We are so conditioned since day 1 (birth) to allow what you have or what you do define themselves. Authenticity is KING. I see myself and others reviewing this message again and again.... and again and again...LOVE it.
OMG, the winner effect is so real, I just got flashbacks when he was explaining it.
Yes! Glad this resonated with you! 🔥👊
nice dude!🔥
almost everything he talks about is legit, i would advice you to also rewatch videos after a certain time, because your ras focus on different things and you resonate with other stuff he talks about
stick to julien and owen they are great mentors!❤🎉
@@JulienHimselfI also have flashbqcka I am 16 kinda confident but not enough, thanks Julien for what u doing.
Facts me too
So powerful! Great! When I am in the nightclub talking to people I sometimes recognise that I put on a fake persona just to make people believe that I am super cool and fitting the cool niche.
I just have to drop that front and just be me and say what I feel/think, do what I feel/think and be as I am
Yes, authenticity is ALL! 🙏
What i love about this guy, other than his maxed out wisdom and charisma, is that he's a living embodiment of how much a person can change just from working on themselves - from the obvious self consciousness of the old days, and challenges and humiliation most of us will never have to face.
this blew my mind, cause i finally talk freely with women in public and feel more confident everyday of my journey buuut all my life i was told i kinda walk like a duck when im too relaxed and people stare at me most of the time ( cause im 6,3 and pretty :') ) and sometimes when im walking i try to control the duckiness and gets even worse so i start thinking yea, guess im not that confident yet..but the secret was always to embrace the duck walk and not literally respect the confident body language..feel it
I love you Julien
I'm far less shy than I used to be. But definitely situationally. At work around everyone, I feel pretty safe to be pretty authentic to who I am. But who I am is useful there. I definitely take almost all my self-confidence from doing for other people. I feel like nothing most of the time. I hate that that feels like me. I want to be better, but my negative thoughts, I guess, just feel better. I'm not sure why. Maybe it seems easier? But being miserable isn't easy?! It's horrible. I really am trying every day, but I can't help but think I'd rather die than continue.
You don’t wanna die until it’s time. You are here on purpose. Don’t take it for granted!
Real confidence is those pants he's wearing 😂😂😂
How can you dress like this my man? Why? 😂
I been following you for about a month and I really love your approach on how you dissect things!!
You're Awesome My Brother and I Love You! Thank you for All That You Do For Humanity!
💖💎🙌∞
Thank you so much! 🙏
I have a question about this. You say, we should be confident "just because". How is this achievable? I think every human being defines himself over something, which gives him value and comfidence. Often by the things you own or do as you said, maybe by your family, friends, your religion, or your experiences in life. The things that influenced you the most when you grew up. Is it really possible to go back to that child-like state, where you can say "I am confident" at any time without any reason behind it? How do you get there?
PS: That talk was amazing by the way. Spoke right to my heart.
It is like your dream is to be a millionaire, does it mean that you need to be rich (achieve your dream) to be happy? No.
So you don't need to achieve anything or have anything to be confident, just like you don't need to be rich and you can still feel happy now.
He said the method, just let go.
Thank you so much Julien, thanks to you I am increasingly closer to my best version, my authentic self, and this is thanks to you helping, me ask myself the necessary questions to find myself
question : when you meditate and get your awarness to the base of your spine how does it feel like in your experience ?? ( take your time and try to be precise ) tnx
Julian is awesome, thx man for all the advice❤
You're so welcome! 🙌
I get the winnner effect of using the bathroom
Julien your handwriting is awesome LOL
On another note... another eye opener really teaching us something so real and simple so easily overlooked! I thank you big time!
I'm an introvert and for me being a confident person means not being driven by unconscious dynamics,as long as we are not aware we are not free. In order to truly trust yourself and be confident, you must heal all the dynamics of your subconscious. Many teachers teach their followers to let go, but you cannot ask that of someone who has not healed all the subconscious dynamics because they will not be able to let go, that is why it is necessary for each individual to be aware of his own unconscious dynamics in order to transcribe them and let go of the old one. There is a saying: if in a maximum of a year and a half you have not evolved, then the problem is with your mentor.
I love how you explain it so well in an understandable way for everyone. I've been trying to find who i am these past few months but i kept on feeling like i was chasing something i could never reach. The having - Doing - Being model really helped putting into perspective why i felt that way. Alot of the things i tried involved Doing and Having. Interpreting who i am as something i would have to get a hold of. With this i'm going to focus more on shadowquestioning and unraveling the parts inside me holding me back.
I'm truly thankful for your videos and i hope you will keep inspiring others to become whole again! :)
you have to be pretty confident to rock that outfit I’d say. Solid advice though 🤝
This guy was definitely stopped developping at the gucci shirt and shoes; rolex watch level! He needs to upgrade his shit!
What comes from outside is also destroyed from outside.
"Non-attachment does not mean owning nothing but being owned by nothing"
You've changed my life, thank you thank you THANK YOU!!
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 💡 The foundation of confidence is activating your "winner effect," where you feel confident when you perceive yourself as winning in a situation.
02:29 🔄 People often chase the winner effect through external validation, such as putting others down, seeking money or approval, but this approach is temporary and does not address the root cause of a lack of confidence.
03:30 🌱 True confidence comes from internal approval and self-love, not from external validation or achievements.
07:05 🧘♂️ Achieving core confidence involves moving from focusing on what you have (material possessions) or what you do (actions) to simply being confident in who you are.
14:44 🎭 True confidence is about letting go of societal pressures and being authentic, rather than adding or compensating with external attributes or behaviors.
Made with HARPA AI
I am getting over the whole confidence thing I am exhausted trying to be someone I am not. It is a shame this society is so geared around social confidence and not whether or not someone is caring. Trying to be confident has basically destroyed my life I am done with the whole trying to be someone I am not. I think I will just hang out with my dog 😂. I have done 1000s of challenges for myself and I have only made myself worse. I think maybe I could have Aspergers or something
I can really relate to what you said. Most of the time I would rather be with my dogs than most people. To me it sounds like you might be really hard on yourself. Give yourself a break. We live in a sick and selfish society. Maybe you aren't meant to fit in.
I feel the same as both of you. Its hard to fit in this society, theres to much egoccentrism, sometimes feels like if you wanna make friends with someone you gotta deny yourself. Better be authentic and not expecting anything from anyone. But im not saying thats not frustrating
Being confident doesn’t mean u need to be loud and expressive, u just gotta do what u feel like and not care what others think. It’s that simple, but it’s not easy
@@kevinmd1974 thanks 🙏
Summary at 20:23
I love how you wait until a few seconds in for your pants to show on screen. The pop of color adds an unexpected surprise.
🕺🕺
i think this is exactly what she was doing to me
Really liked the part on us being pre verbal beings. Vibe over content. Really enlightening
Having, Doing & Being from a humans perspective is past, future & present. It encompasses all that is to be a human living in any moment. I can understand you not concerning yourself with status and possessions, whilst still perusing "social intelligence"...but if all you posses and strive to be is grounded in maintaining social intelligence (Another human). Would that then not make you a slave even more so, as you are now no longer a slave to possessions but a slave you another or group if individuals.
Possibly slave isn't the right word?
I reckon, all though subjective. Setting goals for yourself and meeting them is the only way to form confidence. You don't learn how to fly a plane by removing all aircrafts and materials on that subject that you possess. And you defiantly don't know how to fly a plan when you are born. With that same logic the optimal method of movement for a human would be crawling.
🤣
In all seriousness though, you have to go out of your comfort zone regardless. Apply force or pressure on that initial step and learn confidents through reptation and tangible evidence of self progression.
Soz for the, splurge but you gotta admit it was quicker than 20 mins to learn and hopefully more affective. GL y'all.
isn't winner effect Pride?
This man is pure love ❤
I hate to tell you, bud, but shy people are certainly born shy in many cases. My daughter was shy from birth. No one taught her that. It's been her natural disposition since before she could talk.
You are presupposing that your limited perspective is indicative of the entire human experience... It's not 😂
Telling a naturally shy person to "just be confident" is a lot like telling someone to quit drinking water.
It's strange that you write off 'competence' and suggest simulating the feeling that you are succeeding at your goals. That won't work. Our 'confidence' is a set if beliefs and attitudes that are built up over a very long time. Think of a fine wine. It cannot develop its depth and value in a few weeks or years. The point is, if you don't feel confident now, you have a LOT of work to do and only you can do it. Ouch. That's not the quick fix you wanted
Julien would you do an event in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania or Cleveland,Ohio? I've seen you twice in L.A. and would to see you again live in either 1 of those two cities. Thank you 👌
it’s almost like, I’ve been conditioned this way for so long, I don’t even have energy to speak loud or yell anymore. I’ve been walking on eggshells my entire life. I feel stifled and my growth came to a halt faster than ever. Now I’m stuck not able to grow. I’m 26. If I can’t grow now I’ll never grow. And being aware of time running out sucks.
21:54
Im from bit conservative country, and for the first time i hear forthoseamazing beliefs
So what are yall hiding from everyone by being perfect?(put a 15minute timer on and wait until the answer comes and start writing down)
Amazing, you are pure truth, pure emotion, pure inner child, im looking for you a lot of time, in certain moment when i learn english better, i would like to get your knowladge and wisdom
Any other tips on authenticity? I constantly feel like I’m not good enough and then I start putting a facade on to what I believe others will like. It creates awkward interactions
Something tells me this video is low key aimed at Southern California. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Inner approval = winner effect. SO TRUE. 🏆
I couldnt imagine someone if true emotions would be a person that would be you. I would like to learn from you
What are you to willing to say or do? What are willing to lose? What are you willing to gain? Peace in the Lord my friends!
One way they try to be confident is by wearing sunglasses indoors and pretend to be cool 😎
When you realised how to let go, instead of compensating?
This has inspired me to share my knowledge and wisdom on this subject. Batel Skater is very wise
aslong you keep giving your power away to other, change will never be possible ever and u'll stay in downward spiral forever
Here's a nuance though:
Let's say you only somewhat let go and you unleash the authentic winner effect a little bit. You then question it's validity and might think that my winner effect is a fake one or say it's not coming from a good place. What's the definitive way to make sure it's coming from the right place so that I don't beat myself up even if I'm totally on right path?
I would actually focus on letting go of the self-doubt and self-attack around it... 👌
@@JulienHimself is it self doubt if I second guess on whether it is "giving value" for others on what I'm going to say ?
@@rishabhprajapati8423Yes. Just say what you think and then judge whether it was valuable after. Was it more valuable than silence? Do you know something that others don't? or see things in at least a slightly different way? Is what you say a little funny to you? Are you raising the mood or putting them in their place? Are you setting a good example? There are many ways to add value with speech. What you have to say should be valuable to you. If it's not valuable to you then it's probably not going to be valuable to them. Not everything you say has to be valuable, just don't make things/the situation worse. *What you're referring to in the initial comment is called imposter syndrome. The part of you that is doubting it doesn't want you to be a winner. Beating yourself up is for losers. He says towards the end of the video to not draw confidence from anything even the content of your speech!! A truly confident person wouldn't care about such things. I've fallen into that trap of value myself. Being quick witted is a skill to develop and so is decisiveness. Asking a question is adding value. If you personally know these people then automatically what you say holds more value than a random. Your intention can be to say things that provide value but that CANNOT be where you draw your confidence from.
What you are referring to is relying on doing something as a source of confidence. You need to provide value in order to be confident. Probably because of the red pill shit you see online.
I must say it's a genius revelation! It fits what I've observed along my life.
This is what "be yourself" means, but in 4D
As a suggested idea it would be great if you could upload some solo videos where you talk directly to youtube audience.
you can tell he knows what he is saying about confidence just by his pants
I dress exactly like Julian here at my warehouse job
Fun fact
Chasing something implies that something is constantly running away
Pure gold
I am in middle of video I couldn't stop me to write this comment
If you fade is easy but if you take your stupid games with you it’s harder
You are so confident with your yellow pants.
You know he's the most confident in the room when he wore those pants XD. Great seminar btw
Awesome presentation. Thwnk you 👍
I love the way this video is presented. It's so positive and encouraging. I feel like I can really do anything after watching this video. Thank you for creating such a helpful and inspiring resource!
Its so true about feeling inferior when you're outside of your league 😂
Okay that’s nice and I get it, but how do I do that?
Thanks man, thx to your videos I accepted my weirdness and wrote my first song and even showed it to my family
P.s. AlterRizz- Broken Wing is the name if you wanna check but be aware im just a beginner!
Tbf it would take a lot of confidence to get up on stage with that fit
This video alone solved many of my problems thank you
How do you let go? How does that work?
Here is a link to a great video of Julien explaining this precisely for the people that want to learn how to start actually letting go!
ua-cam.com/video/k4Ya1BsygXQ/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared
ua-cam.com/video/COz4cYvCh7k/v-deo.htmlsi=7l5Dkn4VgSlvTAi7
I'm sorry but those pants!!🤣
i think i needed to hear this 🔥🔥🔥 also the part where he mentioned confidence and was like “what happens if i took my clothes off half run away half runs towards me” 😂😂😂😂 so funny
Breathe, stand outside the circle, and just be. We're all channelers of the infinite. 💫
you doing this sober ???
Yep 👌
@@JulienHimself dang bro nice
Nice to see that you are a cult member, welcome to the log cabin and sharing ideas in the tall grass. I'll see you in Milan next year
See you in Milan! 😂
You are wonderful sir
Best video so far
I don’t think the guy stuttered one time. This was great, thank you!!
What if he did stutter, would you dismiss his message? Just in case you would, please don’t ever let ‘a stutter’ distract you from a truthful message.
This is Gold
Negative mindset=Negative Vibes
Excellent style choice! Lol
Man this dude gets it.
You are brilliant!!!
This guy is hilarious with his examples 😅😅
Thanks! 😂
Why does he wear sunglasses when he is actually inside 😂
Maybe he had surgery ❓
All lights are pointed at him, it's exhausting for eyes after some time