I think that after married, he's domestic abuse the wife, forced her to stay? Or somehow she have kids with him and they end up chosing to mary each other, just my thoughts, cause i have seen those situation pretty common in real life.
Tbh, those are likely the reasons he is married. With enough manipulation he can look more like a man many women desire (multiple affairs) that is willing to do whatever it takes to win and is exciting(criminal record). He’s a bad boy. He ticks off the daddy issues box to many of them too probably. Sad but true. Lastly, sometimes the person that has had the same life for the last X amount of years, wants something completely different
Yeah... there's a reason why, if police wants to talk to you out of nowhere, use your right to remain silent and have a lawyer. Sometimes they're just as bad as the criminals they fight, if not worse.
I was thinking about that news story that came out about 4 months ago. Were they told a guy they were going to kill his dog unless he confessed to the murder of his father. Turned out his father was still alive they just hadn't found him and assumed he did it.
So much shit just fell on OP. 1. His wife cheated and he learnt in possibly one of the most traumatising ways 2. He's a criminal suspect in something absolutely horrific 3. He had to live in fear that someone dangerous could be coming for his family 4. Learnt his son had been emotionally abused by his wife 5. She cheated with possibly the worst human being she could find 6. Her whole workplace knew about the affair and didn't say shit (Must've felt soul crushingly humiliating to OP that a lot of people knew but not him) 7. Learning his Ex was doing drugs 8. The slap in the face garbage letter he got. "I know I abused drugs and our kid but I love you :C:C:C" Right on OP for fighting for his kid to be taken care of with therapy and being proactive about teaching son different ways to stay safe. Because damn I would've been too damn broken to do shit.
As for 4 and 7, if OP's ex-wife gets full custody of their son, and someone notices that she abuses and neglects him, she'll lose custody, when social services takes him away from her, and places him in the foster care system, and then, with a kind adoptive family.⚠️
The end is a prime example of, "I can empathize without giving a shit." You can understand how someone ended up doing what they did without forgiving them for it. An explanation isn't an excuse, especially when it doesn't explain everything like the abuse.
Agreed. Broke up with my ex recently because of something she did. She wanted to get back together. I understood why she did it but i wasnt going to let it happen again. She blew it
This channel sometimes uploads the same stories when a new update has been added since the time the original video was uploaded, so maybe this is one of those situations.
The officer lied to you in hopes of you hulking out on your wife so they could arrest you and get you to confess. (They didn’t have solid evidence so they hoped he’d give himself up)
That last comment. It could be that the uncle is paying for the services and just did a "don't worry about the bill" to the nephew. But I'll admit a good chunk of that is a little far fetched.
8:23 so everyone in the office knew but not a single one of them told the husband? So that’s what no religion nor strong father figures does to a society
As an ex drug addict... don't forgive till your ready... cause despite the people I wronged forgiving me... I haven't yet but with time it's gotten easier... so do what you think is fair cause even I'd you forgive her doesn't mean she will forgive herself or that she will actually change
Because cops didn't care if he's really guilty. They just want a confession. Meaning if he was innocent and they showed it he would just freak out and they'd lose their chance to get one
@@Zeni_ye I prefer the stories where the wrong doing is still redeemable and the people involved make a genuine effort towards a happy ending. While revenge stories involving cheating are entertaining, it gets a bit depressing when you listen to so many of them. The fact that there are so many people that are vile like this can really cause some trust issues too.
@@arcadius3257 it's really hard to justify cheating. I just don't believe in love and cheating. If you love, you dont cheat. If you cheat, you don't love and don't deserve tittle of husband/wife.
so i have my theories about those cops 1. i think they showed you that video to first prove that his wife cheated on him so he cant deny it 2. i think they lied to you because they didn't catch the person who attacked ap so if you would have went their things could have ended real bad and maybe blame you for it then
Has a criminal record that printed for 5 minutes STRAIGHT & had *MULTIPLE* affairs… HOW TF IS/DID HE STILL/GET MARRIED?!
I think that after married, he's domestic abuse the wife, forced her to stay? Or somehow she have kids with him and they end up chosing to mary each other, just my thoughts, cause i have seen those situation pretty common in real life.
Tbh, those are likely the reasons he is married. With enough manipulation he can look more like a man many women desire (multiple affairs) that is willing to do whatever it takes to win and is exciting(criminal record). He’s a bad boy. He ticks off the daddy issues box to many of them too probably. Sad but true. Lastly, sometimes the person that has had the same life for the last X amount of years, wants something completely different
Yeah... there's a reason why, if police wants to talk to you out of nowhere, use your right to remain silent and have a lawyer. Sometimes they're just as bad as the criminals they fight, if not worse.
I was thinking about that news story that came out about 4 months ago. Were they told a guy they were going to kill his dog unless he confessed to the murder of his father. Turned out his father was still alive they just hadn't found him and assumed he did it.
Too bad he couldn't sue the ex-spouse workplace for withholding the information and embedding marital neglect (since they knew).
So much shit just fell on OP.
1. His wife cheated and he learnt in possibly one of the most traumatising ways
2. He's a criminal suspect in something absolutely horrific
3. He had to live in fear that someone dangerous could be coming for his family
4. Learnt his son had been emotionally abused by his wife
5. She cheated with possibly the worst human being she could find
6. Her whole workplace knew about the affair and didn't say shit (Must've felt soul crushingly humiliating to OP that a lot of people knew but not him)
7. Learning his Ex was doing drugs
8. The slap in the face garbage letter he got. "I know I abused drugs and our kid but I love you :C:C:C"
Right on OP for fighting for his kid to be taken care of with therapy and being proactive about teaching son different ways to stay safe. Because damn I would've been too damn broken to do shit.
As for 4 and 7, if OP's ex-wife gets full custody of their son, and someone notices that she abuses and neglects him, she'll lose custody, when social services takes him away from her, and places him in the foster care system, and then, with a kind adoptive family.⚠️
The end is a prime example of, "I can empathize without giving a shit."
You can understand how someone ended up doing what they did without forgiving them for it.
An explanation isn't an excuse, especially when it doesn't explain everything like the abuse.
Agreed. Broke up with my ex recently because of something she did. She wanted to get back together. I understood why she did it but i wasnt going to let it happen again. She blew it
You can also forgive someone without taking them back as well
So the guy died and now she wants her backup back.
Well she needs some dummy to cough up the cash for her dope.
wasn't this one already covered on the channel before? i've definitely heard this one before
same
This channel sometimes uploads the same stories when a new update has been added since the time the original video was uploaded, so maybe this is one of those situations.
Damn that ending really just made it sad. Doesn’t excuse the ex but man.
Unequivocally never talk to police without a lawyer present. State your name and ask for an attorney.
The officer lied to you in hopes of you hulking out on your wife so they could arrest you and get you to confess. (They didn’t have solid evidence so they hoped he’d give himself up)
That last comment. It could be that the uncle is paying for the services and just did a "don't worry about the bill" to the nephew. But I'll admit a good chunk of that is a little far fetched.
Op’s uncle is actually awesome
Never trust a junkie.
Never talk to the cops. Ever.
you know this story reminded me of the time a man said
" Bricksquad, I say fuck 'em "
" Wuga World wit' 'em so fuck 'em "
8:23 so everyone in the office knew but not a single one of them told the husband? So that’s what no religion nor strong father figures does to a society
You'll take anything to reinforce your views.
As an ex drug addict... don't forgive till your ready... cause despite the people I wronged forgiving me... I haven't yet but with time it's gotten easier... so do what you think is fair cause even I'd you forgive her doesn't mean she will forgive herself or that she will actually change
Ending question: the cops wanted to pin the assault on OP because of the tape, so why wouldn't they have it prepped?
They was trying to talk him into a confession
@@HeoBaby24 agreed. Which is why I was confused why the question was asked.
Because cops didn't care if he's really guilty. They just want a confession. Meaning if he was innocent and they showed it he would just freak out and they'd lose their chance to get one
@@macrons593 I agree and that would support, not disprove, my point.
@@Maninawig how? he's not going to confess to it if he is shown the tape
so many cheating story's lately
I mean, I’m not really complaining, they are quite entertaining.
Also, W pfp
also not from reddits. couldn't find anything similar on reddit. so i think AI generated. Edit: remember this story, but this is not the title.
@@Zeni_ye I prefer the stories where the wrong doing is still redeemable and the people involved make a genuine effort towards a happy ending.
While revenge stories involving cheating are entertaining, it gets a bit depressing when you listen to so many of them.
The fact that there are so many people that are vile like this can really cause some trust issues too.
@@arcadius3257 it's really hard to justify cheating. I just don't believe in love and cheating. If you love, you dont cheat. If you cheat, you don't love and don't deserve tittle of husband/wife.
Old story
very
Not only old it is also a reupload @@moxee33
Very
do you know the original title of the reddit story?
You and your son should get self defense classes together
Obvi a repost
so you changed the title and reposted.
U didn’t include the aftermath where the guy died
can you tell me original title of story?
So, where's the part where the AP died?
This isn’t full story
Does anyone know what subreddits he pulls these stories from?
Really where were you when all this happened?
so i have my theories about those cops
1. i think they showed you that video to first prove that his wife cheated on him so he cant deny it
2. i think they lied to you because they didn't catch the person who attacked ap so if you would have went their things could have ended real bad and maybe blame you for it then
2nd reposted today the heck???
There were other UA-camrs who posted this story, the full story. Don't know where the videos are.
She deserves nothing. No c9nsideration ot concession.
Is there an uodate ?
Is this another repost??
Another repost 3 in a row
I once again think this is a reposted video…. Hmmmm
It would of been great to add the letter as a record of her infidelity and substance abuse.
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