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Short But Incredibly Wise Japanese Proverbs and Sayings | Quotes, aphorisms, wise thoughts.

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  • Japanese proverbs

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  • @quotesofthegreat3970
    @quotesofthegreat3970  2 роки тому +16

    Follow me on instagram:
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    • @natherahkarim7146
      @natherahkarim7146 2 роки тому

      Dahapsygawkdapatawkselesaikanmasalah. Dansysymintaawkblkje. Tlg. Masingmqsingtakperlutundingjarisorry. Masingmasingsedarkesilapan sendiridahcukup. Sorryandthanku

    • @lakinagh6366
      @lakinagh6366 2 роки тому

      Kli

    • @lakinagh6366
      @lakinagh6366 2 роки тому

      @@natherahkarim7146 lik

    • @priyoyoyo924
      @priyoyoyo924 2 роки тому

      @ 6:41 in this generation if a husband have mistress he will never have freedom 🤣🤣🤣

    • @pennyanderson760
      @pennyanderson760 2 роки тому +1

      This is my quote..When we do wrong no one forgets When we do right no one remembers .

  • @aura3337
    @aura3337 2 роки тому +435

    My favorite quote:
    “The best math you could ever learn is how to calculate the future cost of current decisions”.

    • @revertingthemoldways
      @revertingthemoldways 2 роки тому +5

      Oooo, I really love this! Thanks for sharing.

    • @rachelattwood4069
      @rachelattwood4069 2 роки тому +2

      That’s Deep

    • @charlesgregory6848
      @charlesgregory6848 2 роки тому +2

      thats not japanese, thats a tweet by Wesley Snipes

    • @sew_gal7340
      @sew_gal7340 2 роки тому +5

      So true, I have so many regrets especially when i was younger i really wasted my youth...i know i can never go back and make better choices/decisions to better my life. Please folks if you are young make sure not to fuck up your life with bad decisions! Life gets much much harder later on, all the right choices will pay off with time. Just my view

    • @gloriacato7761
      @gloriacato7761 Рік тому

      Yep. I've heard many quotes; wish i knew this one from the get go..

  • @listennowbreath
    @listennowbreath 2 роки тому +18

    Between a Wife and a Mistress
    A Man
    Will always choose
    Himself

  • @jolenemarie6876
    @jolenemarie6876 2 роки тому +2170

    If there’s a wife, then there shouldn’t even be a f ing mistress. Period!

    • @justinfoo5628
      @justinfoo5628 2 роки тому +113

      You're missing the point.

    • @secondtimearound4732
      @secondtimearound4732 2 роки тому +362

      @@justinfoo5628 No, she gets it.
      All women get it.
      It's you that missed the point

    • @elenal2012
      @elenal2012 2 роки тому +42

      No there shouldn't but there you are.

    • @graybeard9942
      @graybeard9942 2 роки тому +107

      A wife who forgets why she was made a wife is in grave danger.

    • @naturalbornthreat1456
      @naturalbornthreat1456 2 роки тому +110

      Tell the husbands that. It's them who bring them around.

  • @Shiva_Ani
    @Shiva_Ani 2 роки тому +85

    2:52 Life lesson for all people pleasers:
    " The good fellow to everyone is a good friend to no one."

  • @williamspell5692
    @williamspell5692 2 роки тому +682

    "Love without friendship is like a shadow without the sun."
    That is the dating and marriage advice everyone needs to hear.

    • @shivanshgarewal2833
      @shivanshgarewal2833 2 роки тому +3

      But then again there are girls who set up boundaries and leave those who are once their friends but started to fall for them

    • @TwinTails100
      @TwinTails100 2 роки тому +21

      "Friends are known first in hardships."
      Soulmates are not found; they are forged.

    • @anusooyakothandam3933
      @anusooyakothandam3933 2 роки тому

      Please visit Aria QC - quotes Creation
      Very interesting too

    • @auritanatividad1268
      @auritanatividad1268 2 роки тому +7

      Love is sacrifice

    • @annfryer4048
      @annfryer4048 2 роки тому +12

      You have to be friends before you can be anything else. Relationship develop, they don’t just happen

  • @clarhck6
    @clarhck6 2 роки тому +276

    6:41 is what you came for

  • @mapleacer9925
    @mapleacer9925 2 роки тому +47

    Never reveal everything about your life to people. Only say what is needed to be said, even to keep the peace as a sharp tongue can destroy in seconds. Silence speaks volumes.

    • @danieallen5609
      @danieallen5609 2 роки тому +2

      Hmm for me it's the opposite. I want to get to know the real you so I don't waste time figuring out that you are a waste of time. For me it's a sign of confidence. Hesitation to be who you are is a sign of weakness to me.

    • @leannevdc4679
      @leannevdc4679 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah leave something for yourself.

    • @dotpace7284
      @dotpace7284 2 роки тому +1

      "There is power in Silence" .......

  • @peggyoneill9933
    @peggyoneill9933 Рік тому +5

    I would never be someone's mistress someone's second choice and I would never destroy a marriage for my happiness because that's just evil and like I say I only have one feeling left and it's love and God is with me and that's all I have to say have a great day carry on move forward God bless

  • @ansheerk6380
    @ansheerk6380 2 роки тому +140

    "There are old men of three years old and children of a hundred". That hits hard💥

  • @goliathonscave9834
    @goliathonscave9834 2 роки тому +72

    "The reputation of a thousand years may be determined by the conduct of one hour."
    Will Smith has left the chat.

  • @duedate2811
    @duedate2811 2 роки тому +23

    My favorite reminder of all times.
    Never lend money to a friend you might lose both

  • @qualityquotes229
    @qualityquotes229 2 роки тому +86

    Great job! "Experience is an expensive school" is my favorite quote of all

    • @LA_HA
      @LA_HA 2 роки тому +1

      "But, a fool will learn from no other"
      Don't forget the second part

    • @kellywade8275
      @kellywade8275 2 роки тому

      And the most painful.

  • @eduardochavacano
    @eduardochavacano 2 роки тому +272

    “Nothing is more expensive than free”, now that is a scary thought.

    • @brendabernier5096
      @brendabernier5096 2 роки тому +5

      It probably means it's worth alot bcoz they cared enough to give it for free

    • @eduardochavacano
      @eduardochavacano 2 роки тому

      Brenda Bernier My cleaning lady and her boyfriend, the doorman agrees with you.

    • @smithrr6
      @smithrr6 2 роки тому +26

      my interpretation is that you now have to return the favor as paying for it instead of cash, and that favor could be much more costly than the item itself was worth.

    • @jsjuggad4488
      @jsjuggad4488 2 роки тому +3

      Air, water do not misuse the planet is my interpretation

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 2 роки тому +2

      @@eduardochavacano Nothing is free without a high cost.

  • @mosesmunyua7988
    @mosesmunyua7988 2 роки тому +70

    With this quotes you learn alot about japanese culture... beautiful...

    • @kellywade8275
      @kellywade8275 2 роки тому +1

      I still wonder why many commit suicide and have so much work related stress.

    • @LA-ly1nt
      @LA-ly1nt Рік тому

      @@kellywade8275 well, not one place in the world is perfect. But you may be surprised to know that the suicide rate in Japan is not the highest. It's just more well known because of the highlight of the Suicide Forest in Japan. India and Russia actually has higher counts than Japan. Recently, South Korea's number shoots way up. We can say Japan's number is now in the middle.

  • @rad-guidance7
    @rad-guidance7 2 роки тому +112

    If you believe everything you read, you shouldn't read.
    Yes, especially in the media.

    • @donnaengelman1171
      @donnaengelman1171 2 роки тому +1

      I’LL JUST DO OR LIVE WITH IT, WHAT I KNOW IS GOD’S LAW. 🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️

  • @patriceb2846
    @patriceb2846 2 роки тому +20

    We learn little from victory, much from defeat !!!
    Deep but true

  • @ShebaSung
    @ShebaSung 2 роки тому +78

    A gem cannot be polished without friction, nor a man perfected without trials. 👍

    • @sabrinaclayton8432
      @sabrinaclayton8432 2 роки тому +2

      Curious...precisely what type of trials would make a Man perfect?

    • @wandahastings8470
      @wandahastings8470 2 роки тому +1

      @@sabrinaclayton8432 Spiritual for one...

    • @brianl8481
      @brianl8481 2 роки тому +1

      What if one doesn’t desire perfection?

    • @sew_gal7340
      @sew_gal7340 2 роки тому

      @@brianl8481 "Perfection" doesn't imply literally, it just means be the best that you can be for your sake and the sake of others. If you just wanna be a douche then enjoy being lonely

  • @ktstevens0
    @ktstevens0 2 роки тому +37

    Jobs that are available now won't always be available but men who won't compromise will always be.

  • @francesjordan9954
    @francesjordan9954 2 роки тому +21

    No room or reason for a mistress... if there is, then he doesn’t love you to begin with.

    • @dagmar7120
      @dagmar7120 2 роки тому

      Agree. It can also mean that there is a lesson to be learned or therecis a break in love - and both is extremely painful. Although, there mihgt be a chance to restore love.... atbleastca chance. The pain remains....

  • @cherylsaccoccia5544
    @cherylsaccoccia5544 2 роки тому +44

    The wife wins but most times doesn’t want him I didn’t after my ex husband cheated he said he was never going to leave me hit her but I didn’t care after 20 years I don’t believe it is love if you cheat and for me after it was not the same so I moved on it was a long time before It was ok aNd felt good about my self again and really it was not me that was a problem I learned I was not guilty of being the one with something wrong about me it was him who had problems it took years to realize there was nothing wrong with me or I was not to blame

    • @detced1
      @detced1 2 роки тому +6

      Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story

    • @cherylcapps8319
      @cherylcapps8319 2 роки тому +6

      You said that perfectly. I went through the same.

    • @barbarawebb7185
      @barbarawebb7185 2 роки тому +5

      Please put the periods in.

    • @cherylcapps8319
      @cherylcapps8319 2 роки тому +2

      @@barbarawebb7185 yeah, it's running all together. My name is Cheryl also, but it was the other one.

    • @necoragha65
      @necoragha65 2 роки тому +2

      There is a purpose for punctuation.

  • @nightmaresandbutterflies1058
    @nightmaresandbutterflies1058 2 роки тому +18

    If it all boils down to choosing freedom in the end..then both should choose freedom ..not one chooses freedom and the other suffers.

  • @kbmblizz1940
    @kbmblizz1940 2 роки тому +64

    The problem with proverbs is fools never feel the need to learn from them. Dunning -Kruger effect.

    • @rebekahrobbins1340
      @rebekahrobbins1340 2 роки тому +1

      That can hardly be a problem of the proverbs, nor even of the foolish, but a problem for someone that doesn't use them to distinguish a foolish one from a wise one, and subsequently deals with both people in an equal manner.

    • @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything
      @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything 2 роки тому

      @@rebekahrobbins1340 but a problem for someone that doesn't use them to distinguish a foolish one from a wise one,
      ......right thanks

  • @joeGuizan
    @joeGuizan 2 роки тому +62

    😂😂😂😂 2:21😂😂😂 Sake reveals the real heart.
    🎉🎉🎉Sake (pronounced sa-ke), Japanese rice wine since ancient time.🎉🎉🎉

    • @dessiemalone8315
      @dessiemalone8315 2 роки тому +5

      Hahaha. For goodness sake, I was laughing at that! 🤣🤣

    • @colleenann772
      @colleenann772 2 роки тому +3

      Alcohol reveals….what the heart conceals.

    • @johnnydill3846
      @johnnydill3846 Рік тому

      And it's a whole different drunk buzz then any other

  • @beenapandey6447
    @beenapandey6447 2 роки тому +6

    🙏🙏🪔Thank you for spreading light to the world of darkness.
    Gratitude!

  • @Dziricani
    @Dziricani 2 роки тому +53

    "Between a wife and a mistress, a man always chooses both."
    Just adding the second part to the quote ya'll came to see.

  • @BobbyIronsights
    @BobbyIronsights 2 роки тому +68

    Thumbnail 6:43, I wish people would learn from DDOI and put the teaser in the beginning.

  • @dannymeyer3256
    @dannymeyer3256 2 роки тому +48

    If you marry for love and have children and cheating causes a end to the marriage the damage to your children is the cheater’s fault man or woman. Don’t marry if you want to be with other men or women spare your children the painful loss of their family. Put them first they deserve it. If you need marriage counseling seek it wise counsel is beneficial to your life.

    • @iceprincess5933
      @iceprincess5933 2 роки тому +4

      I agree 💯

    • @michaelsharp8393
      @michaelsharp8393 2 роки тому +6

      If you cheat on your partner you never loved them to begin with and yes I concur

    • @crjjain5837
      @crjjain5837 2 роки тому +4

      It’s ultimately the cheaters fault. He/She has a choice and …. Sadly didn’t make the right decision and was selfish.

  • @sharminshaikh816
    @sharminshaikh816 2 роки тому +16

    Fall 7 times, getup at 8. Moral of the story, never ever giVe up, not to become weak.

  • @Martin-xn2wq
    @Martin-xn2wq 2 роки тому +13

    When one's character is unclear to you, look over to his friends

  • @SlowWalkingMohairSam
    @SlowWalkingMohairSam 2 роки тому +81

    Husband and wife have the freedom to choose if they want a lover or a mistress. Having that free choice doesn't mean it's honorable like this quote makes it out to be.

    • @mw8142
      @mw8142 2 роки тому +13

      The grass is not always greener. My ex left my son and myself for another woman. Even though he had 3 daughters with the one he left us for. He came back looking for us

    • @lorieesqueda9727
      @lorieesqueda9727 2 роки тому +40

      Men create hell and expect angels to live there

    • @lemonspica
      @lemonspica 2 роки тому +5

      The second wife probably didn't take his crap like the first wife did. It doesn't mean the first wife is better.

    • @karajeanbriggs9312
      @karajeanbriggs9312 2 роки тому

      Thankyou👏Wisdom

    • @karajeanbriggs9312
      @karajeanbriggs9312 2 роки тому +3

      Maybe, maybe not. The father of my kids left for about three days to be with his 'mistress', a prostitute, then changed his mind. I could not take him back but I think I can safely say I'm better. I have a small farm, work full-time as an artist, and she is a crackhead who abandoned her child in another state so she could strip and sell herself. Often people leave each other for people with lower standards, and that goes for both men and women, but the novelty of having no challenge wears of quickly it seems. Don't jump to be so defensive of someone, just because you relate to them on the level of your anatomy.

  • @globaltips168
    @globaltips168 2 роки тому +13

    Nothing is better than knowledge

  • @evelynacido8951
    @evelynacido8951 2 роки тому +2

    There are so many challenges, trials and burdens as we go along the way we all learn from mistakes because we’re human and we are not perfect.

  • @cgt7881
    @cgt7881 2 роки тому +9

    If I keep seeing this..... imma keep thinking something & change my whole mindset about everything!!PERIOD

    • @verawhitelock711
      @verawhitelock711 2 роки тому

      Remember the quote (if you believe everything you read you should not read at all.)Meaning dont take everything you read too serious.

  • @larisacocioaba7319
    @larisacocioaba7319 2 роки тому +43

    Never trust a beautiful morning and a mother in law’s smile! 😂 yes, indeed!

  • @adityapandey9049
    @adityapandey9049 2 роки тому +45

    These are some strong quotes.. 🔥🔥

  • @abigabaangel7782
    @abigabaangel7782 2 роки тому +82

    Never trust a beautiful morning and a mother in law's smile. That's deep I thought only African mother in laws are difficult to handle

    • @testcitsl1468
      @testcitsl1468 2 роки тому +25

      You should meet Indian Mother in law's 😉😉😉 or may be just watch some Indian TV series you will know 😂😂😂😂

    • @PebblesPeachy
      @PebblesPeachy 2 роки тому +21

      I think mothers-in-law's are quite difficult to deal with all over the world. I had a difficult one and promised myself I will be good to my daughter-in-law...

    • @abigabaangel7782
      @abigabaangel7782 2 роки тому

      You're right

    • @brendabernier5096
      @brendabernier5096 2 роки тому +4

      All races all countries

    • @deepanaidu9072
      @deepanaidu9072 2 роки тому +2

      It implies to all ,

  • @xzer007
    @xzer007 2 роки тому +12

    "Perceive that which cannot be seen with the eye."
    Miyamoto Musashi

  • @narcosblack9321
    @narcosblack9321 2 роки тому +3

    “Unless he dies, a fool may not be cured” sick burn lmao

  • @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything
    @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything 2 роки тому +47

    継続は力なり。 (keizoku wa chikara nari) English Translation: “Continuing on is power,” or “don’t give up.”
    Even when things get hard, pushing through leads to power and strength. That’s why this Japanese proverb means, “There’s strength in continuing on. Don’t give up.”
    七転び八起き (nana korobi ya oki) English Translation: “Fall seven times, get up eight.”
    This is definitely one of the most famous Japanese proverbs. You’ve probably heard the English version: “If at first you don’t succeed, try and try again.” It’s another phrase that means “don’t give up!”
    猿も木から落ちる (saru mo ki kara ochiru) English Translation: “Even monkeys fall from trees.”
    If monkeys can fall from trees, even the great can fail. This phrase means, “nobody’s perfect, but keep trying anyway.”
    It’s perfect to tell a friend if they’re struggling with failure to encourage them to keep trying.
    *明日は明日の風が吹く (ashita wa ashita no kaze ga fuku*) English translations: “Tomorrow’s winds will blow tomorrow.”
    This Japanese saying means, “tomorrow’s another day” and to not worry about the future. I love this beautiful proverb - it’s so much more elegant than the English version!
    三日坊主 (mikka bouzu) English Translation: “A monk for 3 days.”
    This expression describes someone who’s an inconsistent worker or lacks the determination to see something through. They’re like the person who chooses to be a monk and gives up after only 3 days.
    石の上にも三年 (ishi no ue nimo san’nen) English Translation: “3 years on a stone.”
    If you stay consistent and stick with it through hard times, eventually things will change. That’s the meaning behind this Japanese proverb.
    Think of the stone as your strength and perseverance foundation. If you continue to sit there and stick with it, things will slowly get better.
    雨降って地固まる (ame futte chikatamaru) English Translation: “When it rains, earth hardens” or “Adversity builds character”
    This one especially sounds like a proverb you’d find in Avatar: The Last Airbender. In English, we have a couple of similar proverbs: “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” and “the calm after the storm.”
    This has a similar vibe. When you weather the storm, you become stronger for it. The earth hardens after a rain, and so you will grow stronger through a difficult situation.
    Japanese Proverbs About War and Anger
    四面楚歌 (shimensoka) English Translation: “Surrounded by enemies.”
    A yojijukugo phase, which can also have a nuance of “being betrayed by everyone around you.” Talk about being in enemy territory!
    あほに取り合うばか (aho ni toriau naka) English Translation: “Only a fool deals with a fool.”
    Have you heard the English saying, “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me”? Well, this Japanese saying has a bit of nuance like that.
    The word aho in Japanese is stronger than the word for baka, but they both mean “idiot.” So it’s saying you’re a greater fool for trying to fight with a fool.
    相手のない喧嘩はできない (aite no nai kenka wa dekinai) English Translation: “You can’t fight without an opponent.”
    This proverb means basically the same thing as “it takes two to tango.” There can’t be a fight without both parties, so neither party is innocent.
    悪戦苦闘 (akusenkutou) English Translation: “An uphill battle.”
    This idiom can also mean “a hard fight” or “struggle” - anything where the odds are against you, and it’ll be difficult to overcome!
    猪突猛進 (chototsumoushin) English Translation: “Charge headlong.”
    It’s funny because this saying is calling someone a “wild boar”. But that’s how boars act, isn’t it? They’re stubborn and charge head-first.
    You may hear this one, too: 猪突猛進ガール (chototsumoushin ga-ru), or “headstrong girl.”
    因果応報 (inga ouhou) English Translation: “Bad causes, bad result”, “karma” or “what goes around comes around”
    The meaning of this Japanese proverb is literally “cause and effect retribution.” So, when you do something bad, bad things will happen. You know what they say about karma.
    負けるが勝ち (makeru ga kachi) English Translation: “To lose is to win.”
    Ever feel like it’s a lose-lose situation? Well, that’s where this proverb comes in. The wisdom it shares says that it’s sometimes better to lose and avoid worse conflict than to continue foolishly fighting.
    弱肉強食 (jakuniku kyoushoku) English Translation: “The weak are meat” or “survival of the fittest”
    Hardcore! This one means the same as the English saying “survival of the fittest”, but it sounds way more diabolical.
    Speaking of diabolical…
    極悪非道 (gokuaku hidou) English Translation: “Villany” or “diabolical”
    If you break down the kanji, it literally means “very evil and outrageous.” And so, you get… Diabolical! I can hear the evil laugh now. Mwahaha…
    一刀両断 (ittouryoudan) English Translation: “One stroke, two halves.”
    A more natural translation would be “cut in two with one stroke”. As an idiom, it’s used to describe someone who takes decisive action.
    Japanese Proverbs About Death
    馬鹿は死ななきゃ治らない (baka wa shinanakya naoranai) English Translation: “An idiot can’t be cured of idiocy unless they die.”
    Talk about harsh! This saying more or less means “you can’t fix stupid” but… more intense.
    自ら墓穴を掘る (mizukara boketsu wo horu) English Translation: “Dig your own grave.”
    There aren’t many idioms that both Japanese and English have that translate perfectly together. But I’m sure you know this one well. Like the English saying, “to put your foot in your mouth,” or to say something stupid that gets you in trouble. “Dig your own grave” is the same way and Japanese has an exact equivalent.
    安心して死ねる (anshin shite shineru) English Translation: “Die in peace.”
    This could be used to talk about someone who passed away at ease. Or it could describe a release of worry, like the English phrase. When a lifelong wish comes true or a big worry is solved and puts you at ease, you say “Well, now I can die in peace.”
    死人に口なし (shinin ni kuchinashi) English Translation: “Dead men tell no tales.”
    Someone who’s been killed can’t reveal big secrets, so that’s where this phrase comes in. Sounds like something the yakuza (Japanese mafia) might say, huh?
    危機一髪 (kiki ippatsu) English Translation: “A close call” or “in the nick of time”
    Almost got in an accident? Phew! “危機一髪!” That was a close call.
    This has the nuance of “a close call with death” or “a close shave” but it’s also used like “just in the nick of time,” too.
    疑心暗鬼 (gishin’angi) English Translation: “Suspicion will raise bogies.”
    Feel like someone’s watching you? Are you “jumping at shadows”? That’s where this Japanese saying comes in. If you’re looking for demons in the dark, you’ll find them.
    九死一生 (kyuushin iishou) English Translation: “Nine deaths, one life” or “near-death experience”
    Like “a close call” above, this one is where you see your life flash before your eyes.

    • @ilovelife6214
      @ilovelife6214 2 роки тому +2

      Thanks dude. U did a whole book! Grateful

    • @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything
      @Thank-u-so-much-for-everything 2 роки тому +1

      @@ilovelife6214 Your precious/great comment means a lot to me ......
      really thanks being grateful hope that it can help to improve many people minds....👍🏻

    • @boywhohasl1vedhascometodie469
      @boywhohasl1vedhascometodie469 Рік тому

      Thank

    • @pursukoon
      @pursukoon Рік тому

      Very beautiful quotes!❤

    • @miacastillo355
      @miacastillo355 Рік тому

      I had fun reading your small lecture. Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your effort🙏.

  • @Seebzters
    @Seebzters 2 роки тому +26

    Between a wife and mistress, a man always chooses freedom

    • @samkc3423
      @samkc3423 2 роки тому +5

      I didn’t get it

    • @crjjain5837
      @crjjain5837 2 роки тому +4

      Neither did I …. You’re not ALONe

    • @Blue_22511
      @Blue_22511 2 роки тому +2

      @@samkc3423 he chooses either to leave them both or to stay in the marriage and have more mistresses.

    • @samkc3423
      @samkc3423 2 роки тому +1

      @@Blue_22511 oh my. So its more of freedom of choice they're taking about

    • @saggiteightyfour8367
      @saggiteightyfour8367 2 роки тому +7

      @@samkc3423 As someone who knows people who have dumped their wives to marry their mistresses, it means this:
      A marriage should be joyful, it should not feel like a trap. The guy is gonna be selfish and decide who he feels happiest with.

  • @brandstyle3639
    @brandstyle3639 2 роки тому +6

    A women with no love is like a flower with no smell

  • @mercytdembetembe4222
    @mercytdembetembe4222 2 роки тому +34

    The husband will choose the one with whom he feels most free

    • @Myself_Megha
      @Myself_Megha 2 роки тому +9

      Then why the hell he got married??

    • @MrEvldreamr
      @MrEvldreamr 2 роки тому +5

      @@Myself_Megha family, arranged, pressure, politics, shotgun (meaning got someone preggo).... theres literally a million reasons why ppl get married that dont love each other

    • @Lumosnight
      @Lumosnight 2 роки тому +3

      Then don’t cry when your husband leaves you for a younger woman. Honestly, defending cheaters…

    • @Myself_Megha
      @Myself_Megha 2 роки тому +6

      @@MrEvldreamr it is not always forced or pressured but many times the character of the husband is loose so he gets into extramarital affair.

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 2 роки тому +4

      Nobody EVER has to be a cheating spouse. If you aren't 100% certain you love your partner, don't marry them. Even if you're in love, if you have wandering tendencies (and you are the premiere world expert on you) DON'T. GET. MARRIED.
      Very simple advice given the devastation averted by taking it.

  • @leoblum0631
    @leoblum0631 2 роки тому +73

    FGS: "Sake reveals the real heart" refers to the alcoholic beverage not to some unspecified "thing"!!!

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 2 роки тому +2

      Lol 😆 I caught that too 😆😆

    • @lola.cruz916
      @lola.cruz916 2 роки тому +4

      In Latin it's "In Vino Veritas" meaning, 'in wine there is truth"

  • @karlopeternel7685
    @karlopeternel7685 2 роки тому +10

    Love them all
    Spot on 👊

  • @youneedtohearthis5485
    @youneedtohearthis5485 2 роки тому +8

    Not everyone is lucky to get marrued to the person they love and so are the people who don’t fall in love with their respective partner no matter how hard they try to, it’s not their fault love happens you don’t do it
    Also mistress doesn’t always mean the woman you sleep with for pleasure it also means the one you love and is not your wife

    • @nanaserwaa5560
      @nanaserwaa5560 2 роки тому +4

      Couldn’t have said it any better! People are married to wrong partners and it’s very sad

    • @susanmckee9743
      @susanmckee9743 Рік тому +2

      This is sad to say but I have witness it there are some people that don't know what or how love works they do not know the meaning of love so Falling in Love can they just the kid game or it could be forever

  • @Voodoomaria
    @Voodoomaria 2 роки тому +2

    From the Hagakure:
    "When you walk in the rain, be resigned you are going to get wet"
    Western Proverb:
    "It's the squeaky wheel that gets the oil"
    Japanese proverb:
    "It's the nail that sticks up, that gets hammered down"

  • @Zwei22
    @Zwei22 2 роки тому +8

    "Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves."
    Ah I understand. One for the man you're going to kill and someone to keep him company. Preferably a family member.

    • @rumana7302
      @rumana7302 2 роки тому

      No one for the man you will kill and one for yourself as u will be killed too

    • @MeganVictoriaKearns
      @MeganVictoriaKearns 2 роки тому +1

      EXACTLY!

  • @jaymays4482
    @jaymays4482 2 роки тому +13

    Good thing I have neither a wife or mistress!!

  • @rysbul6456
    @rysbul6456 2 роки тому +32

    Great quotes. Keep up the good work.

  • @sreeyadatta6223
    @sreeyadatta6223 2 роки тому +1

    Freedom is the absolute thing. Be with the one who is comfortable with your freedom. No body really need many.

  • @babiesdreamworld4208
    @babiesdreamworld4208 2 роки тому +1

    Nothing is more expensive than what is free- nice quote.

  • @leighg6343
    @leighg6343 2 роки тому +4

    Loved the wisdom🦋

  • @melistermint
    @melistermint 2 роки тому +4

    The way I remember it. He always chooses the mistress. Yup. Thats right I got cheated on. Weve all been cheated on.

  • @keepmyexpectationsongodnot4039

    Khalida’s wise quote
    Between a wife and a lady is always Allah the eternal love,attachment,connection and expectations and blessings and miracles
    Many thanks ❤️👍❤️👍
    Love from a beautiful timeless bellissima lady full of class and elegance and grace ❤️❤️

  • @inspirabliss7081
    @inspirabliss7081 2 роки тому +9

    "Friendships ae known first in hardships"

  • @theashdey9383
    @theashdey9383 2 роки тому +59

    When it comes to the Japanese saying something, I pay attention !!

    • @thoskel1
      @thoskel1 2 роки тому +3

      Would love to visit Japan some day

  • @marilynlarosa7449
    @marilynlarosa7449 2 роки тому +14

    A honorable woman chooses Love Truth not vengeful trustworthy and patient

  • @victorinedempsey3969
    @victorinedempsey3969 2 роки тому +4

    When you completed 95 of your journey, you halfway there. 04:09 04:39 05:37 06:13 06:41 (cut both ways, don't marry if you can't stay faithful) 07:13 (Victory belongs to everybody being saved by Jesus Christ) 07:38 🙏🏻✌

  • @aycaaltay9929
    @aycaaltay9929 2 роки тому +6

    In our home country, we say “Starting is halfway to finishing”.
    And the Japanese say “When it’s 95, you’re halfway”.
    I love proverbs, they’re the best way to navigate the nuances in different cultures.

    • @nursevanhelsing4413
      @nursevanhelsing4413 2 роки тому

      Begin…the rest is easy.

    • @stevewoodson4635
      @stevewoodson4635 Рік тому

      Methuselah queen know further information from the Chattanooga choo choo train station

  • @bethbluett4211
    @bethbluett4211 2 роки тому +6

    Read Proverbs and you'll see thousands

  • @dibelgelo
    @dibelgelo 2 роки тому +5

    between a wife and a mistress a man always chooses... his mother.

  • @farahuskysadi
    @farahuskysadi 2 роки тому +3

    Hahahhaa I trust beautiful morning..,,but never my mother in law smiles.
    Thanks for sharing.

  • @darlagail56
    @darlagail56 2 роки тому +4

    Love this 💕

  • @tinachristinelesch385
    @tinachristinelesch385 2 роки тому +13

    I could literally listen to this Man present this Japanese Wisdom

  • @graybeard9942
    @graybeard9942 2 роки тому +44

    She who is desirous of being a wife knows the subtle arts and wiles of a mistress, and being a wife abandons them to her detriment.

    • @magnatehaghighi6967
      @magnatehaghighi6967 2 роки тому

      Who's quote is that?

    • @graybeard9942
      @graybeard9942 2 роки тому +7

      @@magnatehaghighi6967 it's mine, do you agree with it. I'll try to get youtube to give me the patent🤣

    • @mjennifer142
      @mjennifer142 2 роки тому

      Beauti

    • @KikiGreen
      @KikiGreen 2 роки тому

      @@graybeard9942 excellent

    • @graybeard9942
      @graybeard9942 2 роки тому +1

      @@KikiGreen Grace, intelligence and beauty may not all at once be gifted, but each employed effectively is sufficent to achieve the status of wife. Once elevated improve those areas of deficiency.

  • @jennifern.5305
    @jennifern.5305 Рік тому +1

    Once met a man who wasn’t sure about wanting me as a wife, then tried to turn me into a mistress, when in truth I never wanted to be either 😒. How interesting to find this in my algorithm 🙃

  • @lindak8307
    @lindak8307 2 роки тому +12

    If there’s a mistress the wife has to get out and find someone who’s not a cheater!

  • @luzvimindayamashita3237
    @luzvimindayamashita3237 2 роки тому +11

    The deepest rivers flows slowly. 🤔

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 роки тому +3

      Do everything slowly with patience it will make you wise. That's deepest river.

  • @debiconner6377
    @debiconner6377 2 роки тому +29

    "If you believe everything you read, you shouldn't read." The same thing can be said about watching television & what we find on Utube, etc.
    "We are fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance." The one who said this must have been a Sagittarius or born in the year of the Monkey!

    • @ScottishLeo
      @ScottishLeo 2 роки тому +1

      "Life is a shipwreck so we must remember to sing in the lifeboat" (?) Voltaire

    • @polysugar1153
      @polysugar1153 2 роки тому

      Lol, so generalized ...I am a Sagittarius.....and your point is?

  • @djgeol3892
    @djgeol3892 Рік тому

    love is about a heart and soulmate is about destiny so dont be stress out about this matter , just go with the flow .

  • @ma7608
    @ma7608 2 роки тому +3

    A wife is a foundation in a home. A homewrecker will never succeed in life!!!

  • @msotil
    @msotil 2 роки тому +66

    At 2:19 "sake" refers to the Japanese rice wine (sɑːki, ˈsækeɪ/ SAH-kee, SAK-ay). This is not the English noun "sake" like in "for goodness sake"....

  • @carolinas1792
    @carolinas1792 2 роки тому +18

    All married women are not wives……….wow true!

  • @maryamHayaly
    @maryamHayaly 2 роки тому +32

    🙏🏻”nothing is more expensive than free “ 2 times

    • @Haider45G
      @Haider45G 2 роки тому

      powerful

    • @jh5588
      @jh5588 2 роки тому

      Everything is more expensive than free

    • @mfanimpelamaseko2946
      @mfanimpelamaseko2946 2 роки тому +1

      @@jh5588 you need to be careful of free things you will pay double the a long the way.

    • @fc872e1
      @fc872e1 2 роки тому

      People like me needed to hear it twice, as it’s the most important proverb in this list

    • @jh5588
      @jh5588 2 роки тому +2

      @@mfanimpelamaseko2946 yeah I get that … I’ve always looked at it more as “nothing is free”

  • @thinishot
    @thinishot 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you. 🙏

  • @joesphbegley3088
    @joesphbegley3088 2 роки тому +4

    A mistress is what comes between a mister and a mattress !

  • @AllIn1Studio
    @AllIn1Studio 2 роки тому +8

    Please tell me what BACKGROUND MUSIC you have used here. Please! It is so beautiful. Thank you for your post!

    • @clarkclarke
      @clarkclarke 2 роки тому +2

      Look in the description ....
      The info it's right under the video....

    • @AllIn1Studio
      @AllIn1Studio 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you!! 🙏❤️🌲

  • @smilingontime
    @smilingontime 2 роки тому +7

    5:45

  • @Becky936
    @Becky936 Рік тому +2

    Sometimes people are married to their professions. Then the best wife can be a mistress. Then the marriage can be one long honeymoon.😊

  • @Godfathertoa
    @Godfathertoa 2 роки тому +8

    Between a husband and a toy boy the wife always chooses. It works both ways. Don't be fooled and be loyal to your partner

  • @okmmauh
    @okmmauh 2 роки тому +20

    When someone offends you, you haven’t given him enough love

    • @dagmar7120
      @dagmar7120 2 роки тому +15

      Not really. You can give lots of love to anyone, but they still may cheat on you. This is THEIR decision, not yors.

    • @estebanb7166
      @estebanb7166 2 роки тому +6

      This is fairly backward.

    • @s.b.7121
      @s.b.7121 2 роки тому +6

      In some cases, it might be true. It definitely isn't with a narcissist, though

    • @sonofthebearking3335
      @sonofthebearking3335 2 роки тому +4

      @@s.b.7121 Amen.

    • @Unknownplsyer
      @Unknownplsyer 2 роки тому +1

      A human's greed is endless

  • @aiyoooaiyooo5359
    @aiyoooaiyooo5359 2 роки тому +12

    Marriage is an "emotional contract" meaning bound to breach, change 😔 that's a fact ! 😪

  • @minokawa9958
    @minokawa9958 2 роки тому +1

    @6:41 this is why you're here

  • @starr4490
    @starr4490 2 роки тому

    "The reputation of a thousand years may be determined by the conduct of one hour." "When someone offends you, you haven't given him enough love." ❤️‍🔥

  • @carolyndonald5184
    @carolyndonald5184 2 роки тому +15

    A MAN WILL ALWAYS CHOOSE HIS WIFE.

  • @leehowson440
    @leehowson440 2 роки тому +22

    "drunken life, dreamy death"
    That's the one I'm going for 😁

    • @B0ssMom
      @B0ssMom 2 роки тому +4

      Seeing someone die of cirrosis isn’t a dreamy death at all.

    • @reginaldwilson5995
      @reginaldwilson5995 2 роки тому +3

      Could you explain what this quote is saying

    • @susanmckee9743
      @susanmckee9743 Рік тому

      This one here made me laugh the ones that do these things don't even realize what's going on in this century it is too easy to become this dead way too many in the world run forest run

  • @abhinavchauhan7864
    @abhinavchauhan7864 Рік тому +1

    Most of these things are Sanskrit quotes which made their way into Japan through Buddhism

  • @HH-rz2qw
    @HH-rz2qw 2 роки тому +2

    Wow!! Beautiful !!

  • @harjinderkaur9647
    @harjinderkaur9647 2 роки тому +32

    Partners that cheat in a relationship means they are not currently happy or satisfied in their current relationship so they find someone that makes them happy/wanted. In most cases that I have witnessed is that they go towards the new partner, they don’t come back.

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 роки тому +3

      That's why religious said never cheat anyone. Married life is warriors life they always fight to win even they lose every day single living is dirty living like still water gets dirty day by day according to religious. Husband's house wife's real house. Divorce doesn't allowed in religious.

    • @caroldavis9398
      @caroldavis9398 2 роки тому +23

      A cheater will always be a cheater

    • @winniejohnson5559
      @winniejohnson5559 2 роки тому +7

      @@caroldavis9398 unless he or she changes..

    • @SummerBaby731
      @SummerBaby731 2 роки тому +25

      And then usually it also turns out that the grass is not greener on the other side and that person tries to return. I’ve seen this many times as well.

    • @andreamessiasgomes7118
      @andreamessiasgomes7118 2 роки тому +2

      @@gurgurgur there are only 2 religions in the world Christianity and Islam! The rest are all Dharmas! And societal marriage is bullshit ! Religion was made to control people unfortunately in India even Hinduism is highly manipulated! The True Sanatana Dharma is understood by very few people who have a unique perspective of life.

  • @lindajarvis9965
    @lindajarvis9965 2 роки тому +4

    Spring night refers to intimacy between a couple, if I’m not mistaken.

  • @ronmesser9091
    @ronmesser9091 Рік тому +1

    Not all married women are wives . Not all married men are husband's . Not all men with children are true father's, not all women with children are true mother's.

  • @infiniteinspiration1628
    @infiniteinspiration1628 Рік тому

    #love this ❤️ #Australia

  • @tttyuhbbb9823
    @tttyuhbbb9823 2 роки тому +10

    I wish you had used a much bigger font...

  • @sintakoh7179
    @sintakoh7179 2 роки тому +15

    Choose a Godly person because they cannot have a MISTRESS in their lifetime coz they fear God.

    • @iamsuccess6634
      @iamsuccess6634 2 роки тому +1

      Say it louder. My dad always warned me.

    • @willowmai
      @willowmai 2 роки тому +7

      Not all Godly persons have the fear of God. Some can cite Chapters and Verses without fail, and then commit adultery as soon as they are at a safe distance from the pulpit, adoring congregants, prying eyes of the press, and of course the wives. You may have heard of Jim Bakker, Jimmy Swaggart, Marcus Lamb and so on. Let’s not forget about Falwell Jr who was able to set aside the fear of God to watch his wife and Poolboy doing the horizontal Tango for his entertainment. Fear of God surely did not deter these men’s desire to have sex outside their marriage.

    • @blackforest_fairy
      @blackforest_fairy 2 роки тому +1

      @@willowmai a person who has no fear of God is not a godly person. Having fear of god and living a godly life is THE definition of being a godly person. Someone who claimes to live a godly life and has no fear of god is a fake and not a godly person.

    • @willowmai
      @willowmai 2 роки тому +1

      @@blackforest_fairy You’re right, and it’s frightening to know that the individuals listed in my previous comment were or are still religious leaders to millions of people across America.

    • @ChilufyaKatunasa
      @ChilufyaKatunasa 2 роки тому

      Women also cheat. The same goes for them. If she fears God she will not get a side man. Even if she does the inner witness will convict her.

  • @cde4875
    @cde4875 Рік тому

    “When someone offends you, you haven’t given them enough love”? Naw, fugg that!

  • @pinkfabulous248
    @pinkfabulous248 2 роки тому +1

    Great video 🌸🌸

  • @jdee4956
    @jdee4956 2 роки тому +3

    I think you will find that 'SAH-kay' reveals the real heart ...

  • @wdobni
    @wdobni 2 роки тому +7

    famous japanese saying: ...fish are at home in the water but sushi is a garment that is cold and clammy when worn during a blizzard

  • @spiritofkem
    @spiritofkem Рік тому

    Thank You! :)