Their need to drag you down to their level & switch identities means that they need to take everything you had & make you envious of them. Which shows you how envious they really are of you.
@@ladyvirgo9514 let him run himself into his wall. Be happy and tell him to kick rocks if he ever tries to come back. They are con artists. That’s why your saying he got you good. Now make a better version of yourself since you now understand this. It will be okay. Just stay strong and never forget these empty vessels so you know how to spot these demons. XO
@@thirstonhowellthebird I’ve been researching people that died and came back to life. A lot of them say hell is like living during all the bad things you did to people then dying and then waking up and doing it all over again. They never have peace and harmony and go into the afterlife. The relive all the bad done to good people. If that really is true, sucks to be them. Nothing to look forward to.👈🏻
😅 like I said before I will cut my right arm off before I get back on that hellish rollercoaster ride.😅 There is nothing that he can say to me. And if there's anyone reading this comment and you still straddling the fence. You better run for the hills and don't look back. You got to love yourself more❤ because they do not love you. They hate you.
I was brutally discarded by my husband of 12 years, he blindsided me. He had been grooming the secretary from his work. They both deserve what they have coming. Evil, Malicious Beings😈
Just imagine...the thing that restores your sanity in addition to zero contact is the best benevolent revenge. That being self care, especially of whatever the soul was deprived of during capitulation. To advance the speed of repair, realize without doubt it was all a mirage of a relationship. Once you really know this, would it not be embarrassing to still serve supply. It would make me throw up.
😂 Anywho. I’ve been saying that a lot lately. Thanks for the laugh Joe. Yeah! Once you cross the line from cognitive dissonance, pain, acceptance, healing, then forward upwards movement…there’s a change in the aura and it ripples through the universe. Reverse polarity as the grin forms like Jack Nicholson as the joker “wait till they get a load of me!” as you now could give 3 three shits 2 fucks and 1 damn about the Devil who once tried to take you and failed. If, paths ever cross again, then it will be a shift death. I have spoken. 😂
Thank you for this video Joe! Enjoyed this one a lot. It makes me feel better that I'm in control of my life now. I need to hear this. I don't need him anymore and I'm not that upset about him being away since the discard/break-up. Even though at once I cared a lot for this individual. He knows He didnt break Me and I don't reach out anymore. I been doing a lot healing and moving forward. Not going back to him over & over and being trauma-bonded. He lost control awhile ago. I know who He is now. He is a very distrubed, confused person. Thank God I got away.
He told me he will never let me go and drag me to hell with him. we were married 10 years. i had the final discard. all i feel is disgust im happy healing thriving and i know he will be hating it. He will never see my face again. Thanks for this lv ya💙
I see everything now😅. He tried to come at me crazy the other day about some nonsense. I just GREYROCKED the shit out of him😅. I just be looking at him like he stupid 😅 crazy and stupid 😅.
Right just leave it at that you do not want to mess with them. No matter the “fun” it might be, we have seen them for their real selves. That never goes away for them. Bye to you! Happy Sunday and pray its a funday.❤
Insightful video. Thank you. Please make one about Narcissistic Collapse? It’s a term that’s used a lot but I doubt many people understand what it is, me included 😅 thanks!
It's so strange. Unlike anything I have ever been through. She cheated on me with a coworker which she never admitted too so I left after 5 years and an engagement. Now with the occasional hoover she acts like I broke up with her. It's really confusing.
My narc has reappeared after almost 15 years of solid no contact. She is trying to provoke a reaction and I am enjoying ignoring her. I'm not the least bit worried about her hoovering me, I will ignore her in all situations no matter what she does. She has been driving past my house, trying to get me to wave to her. I'm curious whether she will eventually crack and try contacting me directly. She would have to be really desperate to do that, and boy will I get a kick out of it! I know its immature and shows I haven't completely healed, but I'll never let her into my life and I may as well get some enjoyment out of it. To be honest, I have wondered if the perverse joy I get at knowing she is suffering is similar to what narc supply feels like. If it is, I can see why they get addicted.
I don't recommend to play jokes on her, she may become even more evil towards you. I mocked at my narc when she tried to communicate, and then went total no contact. I did it being in deep resentment at that moment. I kind of tied her to myself even more, I believe. Besides, back at the time I wasn't thinking that she actually has mental disease. I wouldn't do it if I was aware. It's unethical.
Their need to drag you down to their level & switch identities means that they need to take everything you had & make you envious of them. Which shows you how envious they really are of you.
Well said 👏
Precisely, it is the Dual Mothership model, as per Sam Vaknin!
Damn 😮😮😮
Karma is a BITCH, everyone that went through this please remember that.
Thank you, I needed the reminder. My husband of 12 years got me good💔
@@ladyvirgo9514 let him run himself into his wall. Be happy and tell him to kick rocks if he ever tries to come back. They are con artists. That’s why your saying he got you good. Now make a better version of yourself since you now understand this. It will be okay. Just stay strong and never forget these empty vessels so you know how to spot these demons. XO
They are such a demonic force. Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord.
@@thirstonhowellthebird I’ve been researching people that died and came back to life. A lot of them say hell is like living during all the bad things you did to people then dying and then waking up and doing it all over again. They never have peace and harmony and go into the afterlife. The relive all the bad done to good people. If that really is true, sucks to be them. Nothing to look forward to.👈🏻
@@emmamonroe3311 I really hope it’s true. They’ve destroyed so many lives it’s nice to know they will be held accountable.
Yep. Hey the ultimate goal here is just to get back to being ourselves. If that triggers them, let that be their problem 🫠
😅 like I said before I will cut my right arm off before I get back on that hellish rollercoaster ride.😅 There is nothing that he can say to me. And if there's anyone reading this comment and you still straddling the fence. You better run for the hills and don't look back. You got to love yourself more❤ because they do not love you. They hate you.
Yea...that's it!! 😮That's why he looks irritated when I see him. He hates that I'm not falling apart like before that I'm OK😅
I was brutally discarded by my husband of 12 years, he blindsided me. He had been grooming the secretary from his work. They both deserve what they have coming. Evil, Malicious Beings😈
Misery indeed loves company! Stay smart & strong, folks. Blessings from Austin ❤️🔥
Thank you! Blessings to you as well from ❤
Blessings right back at you-- I'm one of your neighbors from Bastrop. 😃
@@scooterpatooter9484 Howdy Neighbor! 😃
This was the first big red flag I couldn’t ignore with a new friend. My success caused him to act like I was twisting a knife in his gut.
That's coz ENVY is an inherent trait of narcissism.
Two new videos today ??? !!! It's always great to find on UA-cam a new videos from you ! Thank you so much Joe !!! 🤗❤ 11.9K 👏👏👏
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Just imagine...the thing that restores your sanity in addition to zero contact is the best benevolent revenge. That being self care, especially of whatever the soul was deprived of during capitulation. To advance the speed of repair, realize without doubt it was all a mirage of a relationship. Once you really know this, would it not be embarrassing to still serve supply. It would make me throw up.
😂 Anywho. I’ve been saying that a lot lately. Thanks for the laugh Joe.
Yeah! Once you cross the line from cognitive dissonance, pain, acceptance, healing, then forward upwards movement…there’s a change in the aura and it ripples through the universe. Reverse polarity as the grin forms like Jack Nicholson as the joker “wait till they get a load of me!” as you now could give 3 three shits 2 fucks and 1 damn about the Devil who once tried to take you and failed.
If, paths ever cross again, then it will be a shift death. I have spoken. 😂
Facts
My devil phoned me at the very moment of this aura shift. I hysterically laughed and cried.
Didn't respond, of course.
@@steelesharpensteele6252 Head up! Shoulders firm! Move forward! Peace ✌️
@@BifidokKefir stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
Thank you for this video Joe! Enjoyed this one a lot. It makes me feel better that I'm in control of my life now. I need to hear this. I don't need him anymore and I'm not that upset about him being away since the discard/break-up. Even though at once I cared a lot for this individual. He knows He didnt break Me and I don't reach out anymore. I been doing a lot healing and moving forward. Not going back to him over & over and being trauma-bonded. He lost control awhile ago. I know who He is now. He is a very distrubed, confused person. Thank God I got away.
He told me he will never let me go and drag me to hell with him. we were married 10 years. i had the final discard. all i feel is disgust im happy healing thriving and i know he will be hating it. He will never see my face again. Thanks for this lv ya💙
Disgusted been there with it.
I see everything now😅. He tried to come at me crazy the other day about some nonsense. I just GREYROCKED the shit out of him😅. I just be looking at him like he stupid 😅 crazy and stupid 😅.
They're all "I can't believe I let that one go!!"
In reality the panic is because they see that they no longer have access to the supply you provided. And they want to regain control over our minds
Right just leave it at that you do not want to mess with them. No matter the “fun” it might be, we have seen them for their real selves. That never goes away for them. Bye to you! Happy Sunday and pray its a funday.❤
Poetic
Thank you
Yes they do feel like they own you even though they've been gone a long while!
Insightful video. Thank you. Please make one about Narcissistic Collapse? It’s a term that’s used a lot but I doubt many people understand what it is, me included 😅 thanks!
Nice suggestion, I'll see what I can do 😉
@@joebhouseyes please, that be a good one
See Sam Vaknin.
Thank you this made the loop in my mind to stop now in enrolled in further study to progress my career and live independently
It's all about learning to not need them ❤
Sooo TRUE EXACTLY what they did, EDUCATED MYSELF SOO MUCH ON NPD thst his tricks DONT WORK FOR LAST FEW YEARS. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO.
It's so strange. Unlike anything I have ever been through. She cheated on me with a coworker which she never admitted too so I left after 5 years and an engagement. Now with the occasional hoover she acts like I broke up with her. It's really confusing.
My husband discarded me for a coworker as well. They can't even go to work without cheating. So gross
Spot on brother. If you know, why do they watch you sleep?
They are absorbing your essence, so they can then try and carry your best traits
@@joebhouseVery disturbing...
Yes, Joe, "mentally fucking with you"
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You're pretty right about the "having fun" part my guy
Spot on video, thanks. Yes very strange how they plant these seeds and we water. Wish I knew how they do this psychological warfare.
When you no longer submit or care… is when Karma comes their way!
my karmic debt is paid in full after this shit.
My narc has reappeared after almost 15 years of solid no contact. She is trying to provoke a reaction and I am enjoying ignoring her. I'm not the least bit worried about her hoovering me, I will ignore her in all situations no matter what she does. She has been driving past my house, trying to get me to wave to her.
I'm curious whether she will eventually crack and try contacting me directly. She would have to be really desperate to do that, and boy will I get a kick out of it! I know its immature and shows I haven't completely healed, but I'll never let her into my life and I may as well get some enjoyment out of it.
To be honest, I have wondered if the perverse joy I get at knowing she is suffering is similar to what narc supply feels like. If it is, I can see why they get addicted.
I don't recommend to play jokes on her, she may become even more evil towards you.
I mocked at my narc when she tried to communicate, and then went total no contact. I did it being in deep resentment at that moment.
I kind of tied her to myself even more, I believe. Besides, back at the time I wasn't thinking that she actually has mental disease. I wouldn't do it if I was aware.
It's unethical.
I'll never break no contact and I would not respond if she contacted me.
I've played that card before. It's hard, they're seasoned and can play that card pretty hard too.
What you say makes sense. Thanks for sharing.
Joe…I love your vids!!!
**blushing**
Thank you ❤
So true!!! Preach!! 🙌
I told him I was his grade A supply😂 then blocked him!
Yes they dismissed you and you were out of their life and they didnt want anything more to do with you, and then they get offended hurt and triggered!
Im their karma
Be mature and use common sense.
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Anywho? You must be from the west coast.