Thanks for sharing your story. You are strong and admirable for what you had to endure and not breaking your father's heart. I may forgive you had you married your ex but he will always be heartbroken. Sorry your family went through this. I do not blame your dad for standing his ground. I hope your family will find peace with the traumatic event that happened in the past. So good that you are happy!
You made the right decision. There’s no way I would ever forget and forgive that family. There are plenty guys out there for you. Your dad and your boyfriend’s dad will never able to look at each other. You want to marry and build relationships between the two sides in order to prosper. Life is not just having a job and money. Your life is around people not just yourself. That’s the reason people live together in village or city. I’d rather live around people than have one billion but alone in the forest by myself. That billion doesn’t mean much without people. You want to live a life with your husband’s side and your parent’s’ side get along and happy. All youngsters should follow your footsteps if they fall in the same situation like yours. Some cases can be forgive but not like yours.
Thankk you sharing your story about cov niag tib neeg phem lim hiam heev rau koj pog lawv cas tsi tuag kom tunoob es tseem tshuav ib tus nyob qab roob thiab yom...Yog li ces tsi tag yuav lawv li nawb tseem tsi tau npam los txoj lawv xwb yeej los txog ib hnub mog pab koj txiv tu siab kawg li mog.
Niam tais aw!! Cas koj pheej hais lub npe sib xyaws tas lawm naj? Cas cov niag hmoob pluag, tub nkeeg khwv es ho nim muaj2 plhus tuaj txhav luag teej luag tug yuav! Zam tsis tau txim nawj! Vim twb tsa tsis tau koj yawg sawv rov los lawm mas yeej tsis kam zam txim ib zaug li nawj! Daim av nplog zoo ua noj haus npaum li ntawd, cas tseem muaj ib co niag neeg tub2 nkeeg khwv, tsuas npav nyiag luag, txeeb luag tug, tseem muaj plhus tua luag pov tseg!
Me ntxhais koj yuav kom koj txiv zam txim tsis tau rau koj tus hluas nraug lawv tsev neeg nawj. Txoj kev ntsim siab tua yus txiv lawm ces yeej tsis muaj hnub zam txim tau li. Yog nyiag yus ib yam khoom xwb ces zam tau kawg mas tab sis tua yus txiv lawm ces tsis muaj hnub li nawj
The pain of losing a bf is nothing compared to the pain of losing a parent and growing up suffering and struggling bc of that loss. Bfs come and goes. Broken hearts heal. But the revenge of your parent being murdered lived on in your heart. Look how fast and easily Neng moved on. If u had chosen him over your dad, Neng wouldn't have loved u and will leave u just as quick and at the end u will be the fool. But u did the right thing and made the right decision by not choosing Neng.
First kuv ntseeg tsis tau tias twb tau ntau xyoo peb hmoob tuaj mus nyob puv qab Ntuj coob li coob, cas koj txiv ho yuav xwj thiab paub t tseeb tau yooj yim npaum li ntawd.2 yog li koj txiv hais thiab , yog tias tsis yog nws txiv lawv ces nej tej minyuam pheej ho ua lus xaiv mus cob cops tias yog nws tsev neeg ces lawv yeej hu cov took nrov les tuaj mus nrhiav koj txiv lawm thiab hos 3 ces lawv yeej yuav ua tej ywm tsis lees paub lawm xwb vim tuaj nyob lub teb chaws loj dav lawm , muaj nom tsev miskas ua tus kav lawm ces lawv tsis ntshai tej nyuag plaub qub2 puag thaum ub lawm. Nim no yog nim no lawm lol. But kev Noam muaj tseeb yog lawv tua koj yawg es koj pog tsu foom lawm ces kev npam muaj tiag hos.
I believe the daughter of the age gap between her father and her boyfriend father doesn’t up. It’s hard to believe it. Her father was a younger boy and just got married in the USA and her boyfriend father was a grown man.
Question to owner of the story so when u said you want your father to forgive them, so you are pretty much saying it was ok for them to murder your grandpa? That’s sad. 🤦♀️
Okay, first, Forgive. Moving on requires this so very important concept. Let me tell you something about mating. It isn't fate or some divine intervention. You will choose the one that best suites you among the ones that you have encountered. If you have never met the one that you are with, you would have chosen another. Don't get so wrapped up in what could have been. It is a natural part of being a human being. We are designed and naturally biologically motivated to carry life forward. :)
Me ntxhai koj puas paub hai tia koj tus phoojywg neeb lawv yauv tau txai txoj kev khaum kev npam ntawm li peb los yog 7 tiam ntawm mas mam tas yog muaj tseeb li koj txiv hai tiag nawb.- yog koj mus yuav lawv ce koj thiab koj cov me nyuam tseem yuav tau txai tej kev khaum kev npam ntawm thiab nawb.twb yog tibneeg tshem tsi tau tej kev khaum ntawm es cov niag lau thiaj ntiav muamphauj cem thaum muaj ib tus tuag lawm tiag tiamsis tsi yog lawv ua txhaum ce tus tuag ntawm yuav tsi kam ev lawv tej kev txhaum thiab os.tsua yog VAJTSWV tib leeg thiaj yuav tshem tau tej kev khaum kev npam ntawm xwb.twb yog li ntawm es cov ntseeg VAJTSWV thiaj yuavtsum tau nyiag lee nyiag rau VAJTSWV xwb tiag.yog leejtwg ua txhaum ce npam tus ua txhaum ntawm xwb os.
Thanks for sharing your story. You are strong and admirable for what you had to endure and not breaking your father's heart. I may forgive you had you married your ex but he will always be heartbroken. Sorry your family went through this. I do not blame your dad for standing his ground. I hope your family will find peace with the traumatic event that happened in the past. So good that you are happy!
Me ntxhais koj yog ib tug ntxhais hmoob mloog lus kawg thov qhuas koj nawb
You made the right decision. There’s no way I would ever forget and forgive that family. There are plenty guys out there for you. Your dad and your boyfriend’s dad will never able to look at each other. You want to marry and build relationships between the two sides in order to prosper. Life is not just having a job and money. Your life is around people not just yourself. That’s the reason people live together in village or city. I’d rather live around people than have one billion but alone in the forest by myself. That billion doesn’t mean much without people. You want to live a life with your husband’s side and your parent’s’ side get along and happy. All youngsters should follow your footsteps if they fall in the same situation like yours. Some cases can be forgive but not like yours.
Thanks for sharing your story. You did the right thing by letting go of your boyfriend. His family is your family’s biggest enemy. Good luck to you.
You made the right choice. Neng moved on pretty fast. The one with less love will always move on faster. You made a choice that you could live with.
You're a super strong lady and daughter. You made the right decision. Bless your heart.
Thankk you sharing your story about cov niag tib neeg phem lim hiam heev rau koj pog lawv cas tsi tuag kom tunoob es tseem tshuav ib tus nyob qab roob thiab yom...Yog li ces tsi tag yuav lawv li nawb tseem tsi tau npam los txoj lawv xwb yeej los txog ib hnub mog pab koj txiv tu siab kawg li mog.
Ntxhaus ntxhai kawg os miv ntxhais aw koj txiv hais yog kawg os
Thanks for sharing. I won't let my children marry to that family either.
Nyob zoo tuaj koom koj os
Kj yg poj niam ces kj kom zam txim tab sis yg peb cov tub ces nws yg yeeb ncuab txog 100 tiam los g zoo siab li nawb.
Peb ua neeg nyob yog lwm yam mas yuav zam txim tau tab sis yog kev tua neeg npog nroj ntsuab lawm mas yeej zam tsis tau txim kiag li nawb.
Tu siab kawg.
Niam tais aw!! Cas koj pheej hais lub npe sib xyaws tas lawm naj? Cas cov niag hmoob pluag, tub nkeeg khwv es ho nim muaj2 plhus tuaj txhav luag teej luag tug yuav! Zam tsis tau txim nawj! Vim twb tsa tsis tau koj yawg sawv rov los lawm mas yeej tsis kam zam txim ib zaug li nawj! Daim av nplog zoo ua noj haus npaum li ntawd, cas tseem muaj ib co niag neeg tub2 nkeeg khwv, tsuas npav nyiag luag, txeeb luag tug, tseem muaj plhus tua luag pov tseg!
Yog kawg xwb tsis tau yog kawg koob pob
Me ntxhais koj yuav kom koj txiv zam txim tsis tau rau koj tus hluas nraug lawv tsev neeg nawj. Txoj kev ntsim siab tua yus txiv lawm ces yeej tsis muaj hnub zam txim tau li. Yog nyiag yus ib yam khoom xwb ces zam tau kawg mas tab sis tua yus txiv lawm ces tsis muaj hnub li nawj
npam sai tiag2.😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉tuaj tsw tau txog thaib teb twb tuag yuav tas.tshuav cov niag tub fuab noj fuab haug. ua neej txom nyem nruav rau teb chawg me kas.😂😂😂
Why do I feel like I"ve listened to a version of this story???
Neeg siab phem tub nkeeg tsis muaj peev xwm mus nrog luag khwv es npav nyiag npav kaus txeeb luag ntiag tug ces ntuj yeej tsis pab
Coj mus tua nas xwb.
😂 😅...eh, let karma does it work so there will be no more revenge & curses.
The pain of losing a bf is nothing compared to the pain of losing a parent and growing up suffering and struggling bc of that loss. Bfs come and goes. Broken hearts heal. But the revenge of your parent being murdered lived on in your heart. Look how fast and easily Neng moved on. If u had chosen him over your dad, Neng wouldn't have loved u and will leave u just as quick and at the end u will be the fool. But u did the right thing and made the right decision by not choosing Neng.
First kuv ntseeg tsis tau tias twb tau ntau xyoo peb hmoob tuaj mus nyob puv qab Ntuj coob li coob, cas koj txiv ho yuav xwj thiab paub t tseeb tau yooj yim npaum li ntawd.2 yog li koj txiv hais thiab , yog tias tsis yog nws txiv lawv ces nej tej minyuam pheej ho ua lus xaiv mus cob cops tias yog nws tsev neeg ces lawv yeej hu cov took nrov les tuaj mus nrhiav koj txiv lawm thiab hos 3 ces lawv yeej yuav ua tej ywm tsis lees paub lawm xwb vim tuaj nyob lub teb chaws loj dav lawm , muaj nom tsev miskas ua tus kav lawm ces lawv tsis ntshai tej nyuag plaub qub2 puag thaum ub lawm. Nim no yog nim no lawm lol. But kev Noam muaj tseeb yog lawv tua koj yawg es koj pog tsu foom lawm ces kev npam muaj tiag hos.
I believe the daughter of the age gap between her father and her boyfriend father doesn’t up. It’s hard to believe it. Her father was a younger boy and just got married in the USA and her boyfriend father was a grown man.
Question to owner of the story so when u said you want your father to forgive them, so you are pretty much saying it was ok for them to murder your grandpa? That’s sad. 🤦♀️
I believe the daughter of the age gap between her father and her boyfriend father doesn’t up. It’s hard to believe it.
Okay, first, Forgive. Moving on requires this so very important concept.
Let me tell you something about mating. It isn't fate or some divine intervention. You will choose the one that best suites you among the ones that you have encountered. If you have never met the one that you are with, you would have chosen another. Don't get so wrapped up in what could have been. It is a natural part of being a human being. We are designed and naturally biologically motivated to carry life forward. :)
Me ntxhai koj puas paub hai tia koj tus phoojywg neeb lawv yauv tau txai txoj kev khaum kev npam ntawm li peb los yog 7 tiam ntawm mas mam tas yog muaj tseeb li koj txiv hai tiag nawb.- yog koj mus yuav lawv ce koj thiab koj cov me nyuam tseem yuav tau txai tej kev khaum kev npam ntawm thiab nawb.twb yog tibneeg tshem tsi tau tej kev khaum ntawm es cov niag lau thiaj ntiav muamphauj cem thaum muaj ib tus tuag lawm tiag tiamsis tsi yog lawv ua txhaum ce tus tuag ntawm yuav tsi kam ev lawv tej kev txhaum thiab os.tsua yog VAJTSWV tib leeg thiaj yuav tshem tau tej kev khaum kev npam ntawm xwb.twb yog li ntawm es cov ntseeg VAJTSWV thiaj yuavtsum tau nyiag lee nyiag rau VAJTSWV xwb tiag.yog leejtwg ua txhaum ce npam tus ua txhaum ntawm xwb os.