The Warning Sign of a Dangerous Man | Jordan Peterson

[@mediterraneandiet2483]

Don’t think about who you want to go to bed with. Think about who you want to wake up with.

[@jmp01a24]

They can't fight their wetspot if they are drunk and reply to a man's verbal encouter. AI reply.

[@Jeff_the_ApocalypticGameCat]

Or… aim for the woman or man you want to raise children with.
There are plenty of people out there nice to wake up to and live life with, *for a while.* That don’t mean you’ve found one worthwhile. Or maybe you’re the one that’s not worthwhile and you need to stay single and finish developing into the person you wish to be (a wise man or woman aims to become who God would have them be), before wasting part of your life and theirs.

[@jmp01a24]

@@Jeff_the_ApocalypticGameCat These things may be unveiled and discovered under a hot steamy moment of sexual intercourse. In the moment of climax you see a persons true self. If you know your stuff ofc. Not treat it from a egoistic hunt for instant pleasure

[@redneckarmy6]

Wise

[@harrysalt5277]

Bro cooked nothing 😂

[@Iamsam-jl5fn]

I love that the men here are encouraging women to respect themselves. Respect back, guys. We really do appreciate you, and we do need you!

[@DwyaneWadeCounty]

Women are still the biggest threat to other women.

[@Nigel-ry1po]

NIGEL in Canada🇨🇦
the women DO NOT NEED ADVICE
is he running for some 'office' ?
in our western culture ? they run us now anyway !

[@LofiJamzAndMore]

uh huh and meanwhile a man who waits and is kind you're getting some on the side from that type of man.

[@SusanLanier-fz3vn]

I'm glad you said this. We DO need men!!

[@smoly37]

Of COURSE we do! We need both sexes, equally. I don't even want to THINK about a world without men. I mean: we've only got two flavours, and the children 's versions of them. Why should ONE sex try to have power and control over the other?? Were we supposed to f*ck even THAT up?

[@jeffreybarkley8735]

This is what every dad wants his daughter to be aware of!

[@übermensch_dadaista]

Peterson is making this point about men and not women, like if only men did ONS when in reality much more women, especially gen z and millenials, are doing it than men.

[@übermensch_dadaista]

this is what every mom should say to her son! this discourse nowadays is much more realistic at the contrary

[@user-sq3jd8ku9s]

What.? Himself in his younger years that spat at anything with a pulse, before maturing, exercising control and adopting that ol' school CLASS.

[@YoureNotChristyImChristy]

@@user-sq3jd8ku9sthere is absolutely NOTHING wrong with learning from your mistakes, changing, and sharing with the world! #GoJP 💪🏼🤍

[@PinkytipsByAstride]

But show their sons how to deceive that 🥴

[@daybyday2496]

I once went on a date with a guy that was going on heavy trying to kiss me and make his moves on our first date when he dropped me off ... I politely told him it was time to call it a night, thanked him for the evening... He proceeds to say "what's wrong with you? Are you afraid of how far you'll let me go?
Needless to say that was the last date we went on. Gross. 🤢

[@yulinng]

Absolute puke 🤢

[@zonefreakman]

It's hard for me as a guy to understand other guys like that. I get anxious over saying the wrong thing or making a wrong impression.

[@leighburville2717]

Me. "Yes, you mucked up date, it's me I'm afraid of, I'm afraid I'll kick you whare it might kill you.

[@KortovElphame]

You do realize there are also guys that will date you for months get what they want and dip.
The guy in your story is more honest.

[@Zeebo216]

@@KortovElphameYup…that’s why it’s best to stay single…y’all are untrustworthy…

[@KristelViljoen]

If people show you who they are, believe them.

[@jessepinkman8847]

Terrible advice

[@ptyh27]

Very true

[@stringbender3]

Unless they are drunk or on drugs

[@KristelViljoen]

Research has repeatedly confirmed that what a drunk person says or does accidentally bring to light a subconscious part of them.

[@joecobb5520]

Yea i get it. Someone says some wise stuff everyone in the comments becomes a poet, but this advice is weak. People especially bad people like to exploit people using your logic here by wearing a mask.

[@SharedPhilosophy]

I love Jordon’s use of adjectives so much 😂 instead of saying the guys a horny mf he says “untameable, primordial, malevolent, beastliness.” Gotta love this man 😂❤

[@ClaytonTheCracker]

I feel like he's also saying it's a red flag and if he's pushy like that he may be likely to take it 💀

[@bozanatomic3478]

Haha

[@Twistedpeppermint99]

He surely has a way with words!

[@Jason-cn5vo]

If you put them in the order of beastly, untamable, malevolent, leaving out primordial, you have an acronym.

[@2bituser569]

@@Jason-cn5vo
Unfortunately, for women they love ❤️ those BUM’s 😂. That screams confidence and competence to them. It aided in survival in the past.

[@r4tgl]

I could not imagine doing the most intimate thing you can with a stranger. Just meet and right off to bed. Gross and alarming on both parties involved.

[@Iamsam-jl5fn]

Yeah and they could kill you too. Ever seen Looking for Mr Goodbar? Disturbing and real.

[@madriver2202]

So true. Those who do often never connect the dots that feeling of disconnect within themselves and this is when it was created. Those of us with an inate fear of this I think Are very lucky indeed!

[@thexorode]

This is purely a religious perspective. Sex isn't that bad

[@Iamsam-jl5fn]

@@thexorode I’m an atheist and I agree with OC. OC isn’t saying sex is bad - she is saying sex with a stranger is GROSS. Do you struggle with reading comprehension or listening?

[@thexorode]

@@Iamsam-jl5fn we're both saying the same thing a different way 😂 idk why you're looking to argue

[@theycallmethewhiterabbit]

Its crazy how most of my life, our culture taught us that men who are successful at being selfish players are the ones we should put on a pedestal. But Jordan Peterson changes that culture

[@alexforce9]

Selfish and balls deep into a woman is better than altruistic and alone at your home lmao.

[@thename5069]

People are too careless with their DNA.

[@davidmc...80]

Wow, that's an amazing way of putting it.. I never thought of it that way..❤

[@joellemartin4466]

Facts!

[@malasi888]

But men are always at fault and women are the victims

[@SonofSolomon]

And health

[@tabindasahar8828]

True bro💯

[@jadegreen1554]

True. Men like this are BRUTAL. They WILL chew you up and spit you out and never even look to see where you land. And to think you can tame them is stupid. And yes, they’ll be charming as anything to catch you.
Real “charm” is actually genuineness that is patient, kind and consistent over MONTHS/YEARS.

[@sebastiancervantesll]

Bullshit you are projecting a fairy tale. That is what JP carefully points to. It is not time. You are or you are not. And you better be dangerous with your own control. Now or never! Men like this are BRUTAL….they better be…

[@hereforthecomments258]

He described every man alive lol. You will NEVER find a man who wants to date you but not have swx with you lol. Other than a gay friend.

[@arbiter8246]

Over months .. years. I’m sure that’ll mean she wants you.

[@dimitrijekrstic7567]

​@@hereforthecomments258 you missed the point completely 😂 he said one night stand, not a man who also wants sex.

[@Levi-wk2hg]

Yeah, nope. No one is waiting months before intimacy.

[@marionmarcetic7287]

I Love The Way That You Talk To Women Like Their Your Own Daughter's! Doctor Jordan Peterson Your Truly An International Treasure 🪙💪💪💪‼️✝️✝️🛐🛐😇🌟🤗🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦🇮🇱♾️🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🗽🦅❤❤❤‼️

[@MielaMaze]

The real malevolent ones don't tell you upfront, they act as if you are the one they've always been looking for

[@newusernamehere4772]

Coming from a guy, some of these guys are pretty open about it if you pay attention. It's just that because of superficial looks and charm desperate women are willing to overlook the fact that these men fundamentally hate them and everything that they are. Although there is another type that is just genuinely cowardly and just as toxic and destructive but women generally recognize it and these ones end up in the friend zone. Unfortunately a lot of these same women end up in relationships with men who are genuinely intentionally committed to making them miserable.

[@simonacland9028]

Can't lie I cracked up when he said "C'mon let's get it on babe, it's a one night stand" .. perfect delivery 😂😂😂😂

[@ColetonCampbell-sv8us]

Lol my pick up line

[@miker4430]

Same as this is funny but sadly accurate

[@meriemcullen8510]

I CANT BELIEVE PETERSON SAID "BABE" LMAO

[@sonias9722]

I clicked on the video just to see what "babe" in the thumbnail was about

[@soadscars4527]

And women love that. They don't know it but get victimised.

[@anc974]

Temperance is a quality of a good man.

[@Aubatron]

I'd argue it is the quality of a good woman in this context. There's way less drawback for a man to engage in casual hook-ups than a woman. If a specific woman is willing to sleep with a guy on the first date, that says more about her character than it does his. If that's all she can provide to him, that's all he wants from her. It is that simple.

[@deered1149]

Amen❤

[@tonyquicklaps4347]

It is not. Temperance is chosen when a man’s true nature is exposed to the world when he drinks, and he knows it.
Liars don’t drink, for it makes them tell the truth.

[@Hovss]

Shit that’s me, what’s up girl

[@jomarilo.]

​@Aubatron can't really say that. Like you said a man will take what's given. Your point is basically saying a rich person who denies money is more honorable than a broke person who denies money. Many women have an abundance mindset when it comes to sex so denying sex wouldn't be as honorable regardless of the fact they bare the child. A man can go to jail if he doesn't pay child support. But instinctively its in a man's nature to impregnate multiple times. Compared to a woman who might not be able to bare another after one. So while her reason would be more for "survival factors"... His restraint would be more honorable because his choice stands more for values than against risks. Ofc a mans vitality goes down after ejaculation but not really a value or something that most men consider when choosing to or not to have sex but that's my take ^

[@sarahpelletier2339]

I wish my father would have taught me about men. I just took too long to understand this. I thought it was some guys were just passionate. But I grew to understand if the first night he was passionate, he would be with any other woman

[@christinee24]

Guys like that just using you and are players. Not trustworthy or respectful. Run from disrespect

[@tenletters6772]

I'm a guy who was a DJ in a bar for six years. Women do this too. Make no mistake.

[@Ingisen]

Former security/bouncer here, can confirm.

[@TheJoan48]

I disagree with him sometimes, but he’s perfectly correct on this one. Don’t let yourself be alone with a man if you don’t know him very very well because there’s no telling what he’ll do. I speak from experience.

[@edennis8578]

That's no joke, even when the guy has the highest recommendation of a friend or even your brother. A guy as your brother's friend can be entirely different with you on a date. I, too, speak from experience.

[@Scarletraven87]

For all of you in the comments saying that it depends on the woman, not the man: that's precisely what Jordan is doing here. He's teaching her how to better evaluate.

[@JosephPerrotta-db9xp]

I think that is pretty self explanatory don't need him to tell me that and maybe their both in it for primal reasons so everything he said afterwards is redundant if they both mutually want to get it on

[@jeanettebillings3616]

Absolutely 💯 correct. Be with the guy who has the right character. No more reliable marker than a man with good character and morals.

[@emeraldlight4727]

🎯

[@emeraldlight4727]

For one’s own self respect too

[@tarayan400]

He is like a father to everyone who is listening.

[@JosephPerrotta-db9xp]

We need to be told this

[@joanneanderson3725]

Sometimes if you don’t learn in your youth, you pay for it in your maturity and still have to learn what you didn’t learn early on,😢✨”

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

🔥🔥🎯🎯🎯🎯‼️‼️

[@joyc9323]

There's no skipping classes in life!

[@smokeykitty6023]

I saw a panel of 5 women discussing women's issues about 10 years ago. Don't even remember who they were but what they said has stuck with me. They all agreed that in large percentages the Number 1 thing a woman can do to screw up her life was to become an unwed Mom.

[@tammylaronde8593]

This is part of the reason why I left the dating scene. If it’s not one night stands, it’s the offer of friends with benefits or open relationship, none of which can you build a healthy relationship upon. I don’t want any of that.
It’s instant gratification that is being sought which both males and females are engaging in.

[@iluxa-4000]

Friends with benefits can be healthy, as long as you both respect the boundaries. The other 2 - yeah, there's no hope

[@janiecepoush1904]

There are Good People with Morals out there: Maybe put yourself into better Atmospheres for Higher Quality Individuals; pre-qualify, & Look for Signs… The Masks… Love-Bombing, & Etcetera. Plan for Shorter Investigative Dates. Pretend you’re JOB HUNTING! 🙏🏻☀️🌸🕊🍃

[@improvisedsurvival5967]

Why is he picking on men. It’s far easier for women to do this and they do it.

[@hiannahgus574]

@@iluxa-4000Few people can do it in a healthy way. Usually someone develops feelings, as orgasms produce oxytocin, the bonding hormone. So often one or the other gets hurt.

[@tranquility9325]

Tell it!

[@Thregh]

I’ve met women like that, and I get very insecure around them. I don’t know how to behave.

[@nicolamustard7232]

Just say, no thanks. And move on to someone who understands her own dignity.

[@MaureenHenry-bb2if]

Build your confidence....so you are confident saying to her it's not what I'm after....I'm worth more than a one night stand.....and tell her she is worth more than that.... smile politely and walk away.....or you can stay away from these environments......

[@dharmadharma3960]

They are actually insecure. Maybe that's why you feel insecure.

[@keddy5627]

Where were you JP when I was growing up without a father???? I learned this lesson so many painful years later…you are spot-on! I love you and your family…God blessed humanity through you…🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

[@sarahtaylor2121]

Once I went on a date with a guy and he offered me his ARM. Like a freaking Jane Austen movie!!!!
Needless to say I married him.

[@phenitagomes1292]

Did he ask you to marry him

[@annehunt787]

Love it!

[@allanhood4397]

What a simp

[@macca7941]

Absolutely love this

[@justinmcglumphy445]

Book*

[@kerryduggan5601]

It’s good to see some morality is back in fashion

[@PinkytipsByAstride]

Underrated comment

[@heidiclayton8706]

Nature is truth and safety is true currency . Money just created the chaos and entitlement

[@Maxsumms]

She this is why I troll on the topic of sex either have one night stands but then don't cry men and women about groomers or sexual assault, the hypocrisy is outstanding , you wreak gods design then I wreak you 😂😂😂

[@AnimosityIncarnate]

You don't understand morality. You're just filled to the brim with shame. That's it 😂

[@leesadexter7187]

I absolutely love this guy

[@vennettegloud3128]

And that applies to even the "nicest guys"!

[@GloriaHall-ph9ln]

We as women must value our self when it comes to that red flag

[@edheldude]

You won't value yourselves. It's over already. Look at the marriage rates and birth rates.

[@DwyaneWadeCounty]

Stop gossiping about your friends. Stop trying to steal boyfriends and husbands. Stop backstabbing each other. Can't you girls just get along?

[@sensuscommunis2526]

@@DwyaneWadeCounty Plus, stop ruining men's lives, falsely accusing them whenever things go wrong, stop lying and crying to manipulate others. Yeah, there are some good advices for women to become better - but not even JP sees the problem.

[@wiczus6102]

If you don't like sex don't have it. If you do, you're not debasing yourself by having it. Logic much?

[@QuietlyPeaceful]

As a woman, to women - Respect yourself ladies to find a respectable man. There are many good men who are getting passed over for "bad boys".
And to the good men - Salute!

[@newbeequilter]

Hear! Hear!

[@improvisedsurvival5967]

😂they will still drop em for the bad boy. Nice guys are boring.

[@edheldude]

They won't respect themselves, and won't choose a good man. It's over.

[@Kayprofessor]

Many is an overstatement

[@josephstewart3061]

True. For the most part, I see women going for men that turn them on and that present a means of excitement rather than choosing a man based on character, values and good sense, all of which are determining factors for a stable and blessed future! If choosing based on excitement, that will wear off and then it's on to someone else who can bring that "feeling" back.

[@juliesheard2122]

You are a good man Dr Peterson

[@didijy8007]

When women say exactly what Jordan is saying we're shamed and gaslit

[@Vindicador01]

Oh come on babe, if you let me I promise we will do what you want and the way you want

[@spencerconnelly4165]

I used to be this type of guy to a T. The more i lived dated (seriously) and educated myself, the more i jst wanted to be a respectful, honorable, and reliable man. A lot of my values came from Dr. Peterson.

[@thomasupton2664]

According to him, it's untamable... total horseshit

[@koolaid3010]

@@thomasupton2664 nah he’s 100% correct. A man who sleeps with woman a lot is a psychopath. Literally. He is dangerous and he has no regard for the well being of other people.

[@kuenringeling]

I was like that when I was drunk. Since I didn't drink any alcohol I'm not like that.

[@LAmourDeJesus]

Good for you Brother… it’s hard to overcome our animalistic desire but it absolutely can be done and the devil definitely flees from you more and more the stronger you get. Congratulations and Godbless in Jesus Holy name amen

[@duttydreadd]

Exactly. More times you simply grow up, I know many skanks (men and women) who are in honest and Loving long term relationships, this is just bs. No one is perfect.

[@marleysankor]

Exactly , 💯
The "chase" is *over*
He will go to his next *free meal*
You just fed him for the night!

[@LARA-sg4bt]

Making a mountain out of a molehill sweetie. Having sex is not bad.

[@troythemighty3683]

Woah woah woah… I’d like to think that he at least paid for the meal. So it wasn’t COMPLETELY free

[@MichaelWaisJr]

You fed him pusssaaaaayyy!! 😂

[@jmeds94]

Men don’t actually like the chase. It’s an obstacle to maneuver around.

[@marleysankor]

@jmeds94
Then, those men are just lazy.
Real men love the chase and real women, loved to be chased.
You must be the type to pick up & eat the nasty apples on the ground instead of, climbing up the tree to pick the best ones.

[@untoldhistory2800]

I used to be that man. Thanks to God that changed my heart

[@tigertruth543]

Thank you for this pep talk. I never had help from my dad. These things are important to know..as now im borderline. Cant prove a thing.

[@Jen-je3jo]

Never had a one night stand, never will. It's disrespectful to yourself and you deserve better.

[@rhighan4357]

I wanted to let you know how special you really are. This message touched me. You should really feel good. I am going to read this again and remind myself how disrespectful it is. Kudos you seriously are amazing I mean it

[@tammysims6853]

Same I won't do it either

[@finlaymackay9975]

Your a lady of respect and love xx

[@Jen-je3jo]

@@finlaymackay9975 xo

[@nicolab2075]

I don't see it as a mark of a lack of self respect at all, but it's just not much fun usually.

[@Jay-rf3kj]

Do not forget that those adjectives apply to more people than it makes me comfortable to admit. Not only men. The world is a scary place to be a human.❤

[@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370]

lol..literally the safest time in history to he alive. we live longer than ever and most people will even help strangers and here you are scared of living with humans...gtfoh bro😂

[@alanh7247]

you're so right... probably best if you never left your house again.

[@robinlaszlo]

​@@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370that doesn't make anything safe... you're basically saying something like "well people used to get stabbed and now they get shot why are you scared of being shot, in history it was stabbings" or something like that. It's braindead.

[@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370]

@@robinlaszlo ok let me repeat. we live in the safest time that has ever existed in history. this a straight up fact. I do not cower in my home or go out in fear. I am good at situational awareness maybe due to my military training and also I was in Iraq. I am American and now I live in West Africa the country of Cote D'ivoire. is it safe...um reasonably so but my point is that saying the world is a scary place is a little childish. I'm not going do stupid risky behavior of course but you just mitigate the dangers by using situational awareness and not walking around looking at your feet and hands in my pockets. I'm not stupid

[@NinaDreams81]

​@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370 it is the safest time compared to more brutal eras, but it isn't a safe world by a long shot. Trauma and abuse are common.

[@whitewolf6730]

I agree! So many people are out of control. No morals.

[@user-wu2wi8wn7i]

Keep Speaking Truth Brother!

[@promisedjubileedaniels]

The way Dr. Peterson looks into the camera like he's speaking to his own daughter 😶 I want to listen to that.

[@justinelliott3529]

Since she got super railed by Andrew Tate 😂

[@TheGiantMidget]

He basically is.....think about it 😂

[@user-ck4df6hl3v]

I like that you noticed that. He’s talking to all the daughters in the world … and the fathers so they can take notes like me. Good job princess ❤ I’m proud of you.

[@Silverstreak7878]

So true. Any guy who can’t wait at least a few dates to get to know you is not worth wasting your time.

[@jalanmcrae]

Not always true but in most cases yes. I’m the type that doesn’t like wasting time. If I like you and we agree on my core values then I’ll marry you in a month.
I’m like that because all the other little things don’t matter. Who cares if your favorite artist is j-lo. Blast your music while I drive you to work, idc lol.
Just be loyal, respectful, and caring, that’s all I ask.

[@cWvp80GEDg]

​@@jalanmcraedo you think that one month is enough time to be absolutely sure that you agree on your core values? Just asking, not judging.

[@rattgod]

@@jalanmcraeonce you live with someone, then you see how they really are. Seems like you’re desperate and have low expectations if you’re willing to marry someone after just knowing them for a month. People’s true colors show once you’ve lived with them and especially having kids shows someone’s true nature more often times than not.

[@rattgod]

@@cWvp80GEDgofc he does lmao, he’s so ahead of himself and doesn’t even seem to realize how risky and stupid that is on his part.

[@adrianaadnan9958]

I dont think the speed is similar for each person. .. i think we only focus exclusively or move fast when we are absolutely smitten..
​@@jalanmcrae

[@karenhoward2983]

Agreed ! Excuse yourself. If I were dating, I'd meet at the place agreed upon, driving myself there. That way I can leave when I want to. Much safer that way. People need to get to know each other well to see if they are relationship material.

[@yakarin]

More people should see this and listen carefully.

[@user-tt2pj2vb9v]

I wish someone sat me down and told me this when I was younger 😢

[@Cute__Noob]

Same🥲

[@karamlevi]

They did. You ignored them ruthlessly.

[@user-tt2pj2vb9v]

@@karamlevi they didn’t….im no liar thank you sir!

[@RRRoll-np5sg]

​@@user-tt2pj2vb9vit's common sense also self respect so basically morals

[@user-tt2pj2vb9v]

@@RRRoll-np5sg yes morals are taught! If you don’t have a teacher…….what happens?

[@bensnyder6965]

That's the way you devalue yourself!

[@edheldude]

The ladies love it!

[@sarahpelletier2339]

Exactly. This took me a while to understand.

[@lucasley20]

Excellent observation!❤

[@atoms1014]

I came..I heard... I listened and i learned

[@BarriosGroupie]

Thank God for Jordan bringing some healthy sanity back into the world

[@Susan-lf2hl]

Beautifully said

[@JoAnnChamness-xf8lq]

Absolutely 💯 Correct 👍🏻 I concur with this assessment 💯‼️💥

[@shahearnest5320]

He has really hit the nail on the head, here.

[@tomdebevoise]

Show that you provide safety emotionally and physically, even if it takes many dates. An influencer once said, boundaries are very sexy.

[@karamlevi]

Oh yeah. Super 😂

[@lauramapani3627]

Yes that is the way! ❤

[@tylersmith9942]

"Untamable" is the key word here ladies

[@minkamariseiter1793]

Aka so THERES NO TRYING TO TELL OR CONVINCE OR NAG HIM OTHERWISE !?💯*UNTAMABLE*

[@edheldude]

That's what they like.

[@al9636]

“Old habits are hard to break”
If that is his expectation of you, then that is his personal life style !

[@jadegreen1554]

@@edheldudemany women are out of your league. You only know that type of women. Of course. You can’t be with anyone else.

[@edheldude]

@@jadegreen1554 My last relationships have been with university educated smart & sensitive women. They were all identically programmed to be modern women, in the end.
Same values, same beliefs from media, no ability to reason for themselves.

[@npbella7649]

Agreed. My body is MY TEMPLE! It belongs to me and I will choose when to share my intimate self with a man. Preferably after marriage!! God's way

[@petrescue2093]

Its THE red flag of permanent disrespect.

[@speakeasy7248]

It's funny to see all the people getting offended in the comments😂. Understand, no one cares if you agree. This man is a professional psychologist. He studied theses things his whole life. What makes you think you know more? Put your pleasures aside and stop trying to justify your poor characteristics.

[@dituri3127]

Agreed 👌🏼👌🏼 you seem to have a better understanding than the rest of the people in the comments

[@claytonrobertson4999]

Is it impossible for him to be wrong???
It certainly IS NOT!!

[@mrbritisher9748]

It's called thinking for yourself my friend & not taking every thing Dr Peterson says as gospel, on this issue he is wrong, it's funny people who think they think for themselves just follow everything they get told by a 'professional'.

[@pantsenfuego9986]

By vilifying men and victimizing women on promiscuity? Ridiculously unbalanced perspective.

[@MaxEdge-pf3pp]

"He studied this thing his whole life"
Now that's a red flag that someone's about to be wrong on this thing.

[@Nadezhda476]

Yes please listen to him so you don’t have to learn the hard way and get hurt and regret later

[@patriciagraham222]

Love Jordans's way with words...

[@jadrienflores8814]

People act like sex is evil. Makes no sense. I think an abusive or violent person is evil not a sexual one.

[@RummanaMoledina]

And women who choose that kind of liberation too are primordial beasts so no point guys whining that they are materialistic and manipulating

[@pinoniks]

For this one I agree 100% I'm sick of these fairy tales how we slept 1.night and married. Most of the time it will end up there.

[@SvenDettman]

It ends with STD's and out of the wedlock pregnancies

[@carmenrosario5539]

Do I love this man or what??!! Thank you, Dr. Peterson!

[@meverlyallen4009]

💯 AGREED DR. JORDAN SAY IT LOUD📢🔊📢🔊📢🔊📢📢🔊

[@teamginger6359]

Truth. Ladies, respect yourself. ❤

[@BarriosGroupie]

And guys

[@xxChacaronXX]

Bunch of ladies fall for these times of assholes then the girls who fell for it become the female version of that asshole. They start justifying it decayed they were burned so they think it’s ok for them to do it.

[@RRRoll-np5sg]

They don't that's the thing that's why they're half naked and begging for attention

[@Raynecolwell]

He is talking about men and somehow you turn the focus to women. Men who lack impulse control are gross. Period. Funny enough, men who care about body count are the first to try to sleep with you within the first 3 dates. 🤢

[@pantsenfuego9986]

Are you kidding me? Women are easier than ever.

[@richarddavid4183]

Its not just men...there are plenty of women with the same regard for sex

[@destinyneal1904]

#jordanpeterson i absolutely ❤listening to this man’s wisdom! He’s always so meticulous with the words he chooses to speak. Wish more people could do this.

[@melissamontiel7976]

This is so true. It shows that he was a low caliber and has no self respect or control. They only go bit so far in life

[@dmiles8406]

Exactly…run from him and find a decent man.

[@shireenhendricks2194]

My Dad always warned us.....no sex before marriage🎉

[@lovetobe6118]

Best advice I ever followed. It automatically subtracted the men who just want use me for gratification and added in the pool of men who make ideal spouses.

[@MaxEdge-pf3pp]

Your dad sounds like a human "no smoking" sign.

[@ellengarcia4041]

Hahahahahahaahahahaha

[@johnnypheis8379]

He's got me pegged. This man knows what he's talking about, for real.

[@tennyc]

when people show you who they are .. believe them.

[@ShaareiZoharDaas]

Absolutely adore Jordan🎉

[@user-zh5fh2li9u]

Yes !!

[@user-zh5fh2li9u]

He is such an intelligent individual, and I enjoy listening to him speak.

[@GoddessTheOldeGodd]

"Untameable Primordial Malevolent Beastliness"...wheeww! So powerful!

[@smokeykitty6023]

I know a young lady who dated her H.S. boyfriend for three years. He called her stupid and it shocked her. She let it go but thought about it. Then he did it again in front of her family. I'm so proud to be able to say that she put on her steel-toed boots and kicked him past the curb and out of her life! She was hurt, but as she mourned their relationship she was doubly glad that she hadn't given him her virginity. She was raised by a single mom who did and still does do a great job. I'm just tickled pink to be able the call both mother and daughter my friends. Women like that are rare, but they're out there... just doing the right thing.❤ Those are the kind of ladies that I want in my circle of friends.

[@victoriaalgra3675]

Beware of these types.. get away asap😠It’s a definite warning sign, warning ⚠️ warning ⚠️ Listen to the Doctor 👏👏👏

[@Franatomy]

Women are more likely to listen to their feelings than JBP.

[@michalpowell3549]

This Dr.

[@DelCabron]

How are these type of men dangerous? Anyone care to explain?

[@victoriaalgra3675]

@@DelCabronThey are beasts that are only thinking with a certain part of their primitive brain and it’s dangerous because women think it’s Love.. and then they are dumped or hurt or get tangled with a basic undeveloped Neanderthal.

[@charlesbell5500]

@@DelCabron Well they just want to hang and bang. They're not dangerous, per se. But they won't stick around for a relationship and that sometimes causes women to be heartbroken. I think that's what he's referring to.

[@valsptsd814]

For the first time in my life I am going on a second date without having ever so much as holding his hand. It’s flattering.

[@WorksForMeBro]

Chad seed beta need

[@Ana-ty8sl]

Good for you ❤

[@RRRoll-np5sg]

Mine waited over a year for me and that makes him my prince charming

[@edheldude]

Everyone got a free ride and now this sucker has to pay.

[@edheldude]

@@RRRoll-np5sg That makes him unattractive and without options.

[@befriendingvulnerability]

Absolutely. If that’s where they are already it tells you everything you need to know about the interaction and expectations!

[@beccalove8791]

Thank God for Jordan to help us all know wrong from right!

[@karabomothupi9759]

And the women still fall for it so this is not going to change anything. "They love a guy who goes for what he wants"

[@A-man-ix4kz]

Well... sex is serious. People treat it in an amateur unprofessional way when it can men life or death for a potential baby or even the mother. Even birth control has unwanted side effects. So mature, wise, and kind man won't treat sex as mere amusement and will accept responsibility if a child results rather than trying to sign it up for death as the first option.

[@fruitytarian]

"..death as the first option" 🤯 wow, never heard it put like this before

[@tranquility9325]

Birth control is better than having kids you end up hating bec you weren't responsible.

[@A-man-ix4kz]

@@tranquility9325 I agree except in the case of abortion. In that case it would be better morally at least to put the child up for adoption. Because deciding a baby has to die when it is not absolutely necessary because people wanted pleasure is selfish and evil.

[@aprilbarter]

God didn't create the gift of sexuality so we could abuse it. He created it for marriage.

[@CatladyActionFigure]

Beautifully put. Cudos to the Professor.

[@marcellejane2298]

My orientation is he looses the best opportunity. Sad part is he never got to know me to know.❤

[@fnffnchfhc154]

It’s so great that Peterson is also Holding men accountable for hookup culture

[@karamlevi]

Yes. The 5% who have lots of women. And the 95% who are ignored? He just told them to be more simpish which will exasperate the problem. He caps on guys cus he won’t get canceled for that.
Also he caps on guys who go there own way and want to be left alone. He hates on both these ends of the spectrum.

[@fnffnchfhc154]

@@karamlevi are those guys actually being ignorer by all women though? Or just the ones that they are attracted to. Maybe they should lower their standards just like they have been telling women to do

[@ar9214]

​@@fnffnchfhc154 My friend, a tiny percentage of men get the overwhelming majority of women. That means on a dating app, a guy who's a 9/10, will match all the women from 4-10/10. He'll sleep with them and discard. That leaves the 5-6/10 men (average) with literally nothing but severely overweight women, single mothers, and even after significantly lowering their standards are left with nothing.

[@fnffnchfhc154]

@@ar9214 average looking men also do this. The only men involuentary not engaging in hookup culture are the below average men

[@redhead8777]

​@@karamlevi"both ends of the "spectum"" are extreme and not normal thinking or behaving for anyone. It is not good for man (or women) to be alone - "Bible" by God.

[@iceage7576]

Me and this chick met awhile ago, I was about to get stationed in Guam.... I told her I don't want anything serious. She agreed. Now we are 9 years married, damn near. Love is amazing, and it helps a ton when you don't doubt it at all.

[@janscott602]

And that’s why they are so successful.

[@Sonic_Egg]

Spoken like a truly wise Dad ❤

[@shmataboro8634]

Yeah, I took Elvis off my dream list when he sang,"It's Now or Never, My Love Won't Wait". That ain't love, folks 😂

[@BWater-yq3jx]

Well he 'spent a lifetime waiting for the right time'...

[@Shortstacksandticktacks]

I was taught that basically all men are like this. It's not true, but I didn't recognize it as a bad quality. It seems like a lot of men get tired of it after awhile, and then claim they found, "the one", but really she wasn't different or better than any of the other ones.

[@TheGiantMidget]

All mem are like this it's just most know they can't get away with it so they play ball with then woman's demands

[@charlesbell5500]

There's no such thing as "the one".And that usually happens to guys when they're ready to settle down, which is also a BS concept.

[@Shortstacksandticktacks]

@@charlesbell5500 I agree. People who say they found "The One" to me are delusional or manipulative. They want you to believe THEY are part of some magical fairy tale, and if you question it you look cynical.

[@charlesbell5500]

@@Shortstacksandticktacks It's delusional and narcissistic, to think that only one person is good enough for you to marry in the whole world. People are not that idiosyncratic. The truth is there are probably half a million people who everyone would match perfectly with in the context of marriage. And that happens all the time when a spouse dies early and they remarry. Soul mates are created by a life-long bond, they don't just exist before meeting you.

[@craigdaubbeats-rapinstrume9185]

I mean you kinda gotta respect those people though. At least they aren't lying and telling you they love you and wanna spend the rest of their life with you while cheating behind your back. At least they're real and up front with their intentions.

[@deannag48]

Dr. Peterson you are my hero🩵

[@quillakiore3499]

This was me. Jesus met me at age 19. Married 25. MARRIED. 4 amazing kids by 28. I'm 54 1st granchild. God is good all the time, all the time.

[@glideappsecho]

Except when God allows pain and suffering.

[@ArmorofValor]

​@glideappsecho no, even then He is just and fair. He allows free will. We commit atrocities that lead to suffering. He can turn that suffering into resilience and strength. The truth is, if Jesus replaced all humans on Earth, there would be no more crime, suffering, war, a b u s e....

[@Natashahoneypot]

I wish jesus would meete and send me someone real.

[@quillakiore3499]

@Natashahoneypot ask him. It's called prayer. He won't disappoint.

[@quillakiore3499]

@glideappsecho forgetting God through Jesus is no stranger to pain and suffering, that's the point of the cross. Pain and suffering is a part of life, he gives us the power to overcome 🙏

[@thecompass1111]

Yes! If you treat yourself like his side chick, so will he! You are not a chick, you are a diamond.

[@ruhamahayle8048]

I love you Jordan, I always feel like you are an angel in a human form.

[@greghayes9118]

That's true Dr Peterson, however what you need to understand is that women do exactly the same thing when it suits them.

[@derekk2732]

I always found myself at odds with this type of thinking, I never wanted to be like this but a part of me felt like I was supposed to.

[@amydavis5917]

so many women are loose as a goose...makes it hard for decent women.

[@jasonmcdaniel1720]

The same rings true of women.

[@Lucida1818]

I love Jordan’s straight up truth speaking
Love him ❤

[@deepinsights707]

Guy: Let's get it on babe
Girl: There's no more reliable marker of your untamable primordial melevolent beastliness than that. 😮