Will the narcissist ever get what is coming to them?
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Behind closed doors, they are internally miserable. They are forever critical and never satisfied. Knowing they have to live with themselves is closure.
A very wise Sicilian once gave me the best advice: “ Use your sharpest tool,” when I asked what that was, he said, “Indifference. It cuts the sharpest & the cleanest.”
They treat people worse who trigger their shame....is that why a narcissist treats their partner or spouse worse than everyone else?
Living your best life is the best “revenge.”
Isn’t that similar to the line in the Bible (Galatians 6:7) “Whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap”
The LAW OF SOWING & REAPING STILL STANDS! GOD is not MOCKED! The Narc will be punished, when the time is right, Jah will take care of them.
“They are not psychologically well put together enough to get it”. I love this!
That has been my solace in decades of narc abuse: He still has to be him. He cannot escape the ever present angry, frustrated, attacking, dissatisfied, life -sucks mindset.. I can't imagine living inside that scribble of emotions ALL THE TIME! I have escaped, and don't even play the mind game of hoping "he gets his." He gets his every day. Others may still believe he's charming Mr. Wonderful, but I know better. That healing feels like freedom Thank you Dr. Ramani! ❤ Praying that same sense of relief/peace for all your listeners.
Financial domination is one of their favourite games. This alone has them everyone submit to them.
I was around narcissists for most of my life but now I am retired. Today I saw a beautiful moment in a care home for people with dementia. an 85 young lady holding the hand of a 102 young lady guiding her along the corridor it was like seeing 2 small children as friends I saw so much beauty in this very special moment
They’re already getting it. They’re miserable, envious people.
A word of caution: Obsessing over a narc’s outcome kinda keeps you in the vicious cycle, doesn’t it? NO CONTACT means NO CONTACT! Do not get bogged down in this as TEMPTING as it is! Break free my little peeps! Break FREE!!!
My leaving him was the biggest revenge for me! He who thought I’d never leave…
My Mother is a narcissist and is highly abusive.
I like to see the "What Comes Around, Goes Around, " for the person that was in the relationship with the narcissist; meaning that thier decisions to move away from the circumstances and heal will come around to them by having the benefits of no more abuse. Thank you Dr. Ramani.
Sounds a lot like Sisyphus. Causes lots of nasty drama, then spends their time forever pushing a rock uphill (seeking supply) but just when the rock gets near the top (they are close to realising their goal of wonderfulness), the rock rolls down again (the goal is not enough) and so they are forever seeking supply.
Determine your boundaries, set you boundaries, and most of all, honor and stick to your boundaries.
I guess they are unhappy and can't ever become truly happy cause they can't ever get enough. Be happy as surviver, feel good, build your life on your terms, show them how you live your best life without them. That's most hurtful for them.
We always wish people get what they deserve after all the hurt they cause, but I know a Narcissist who has trouble sleeping at night, no peace, at least that's something, for now.
My ex always used to say that he “didn’t believe in stupid expressions”. Once I told him, “you’ll get yours” & he rolled his eyes & said he doesn’t believe in any of my stupid expressions. Funny thing, years later, I find my “stupid expressions” are actually proverbs based on centuries of wisdom.