Parenting Advice : How to Parent a Highly Sensitive Child
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2018
- We talk to family therapist and social worker - Talya Ressel
about raising a highly sensitive child.
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My baby boy is so sensitive and so am I. My parents always told me to stop being a baby and I never understood why I was like that. I'm so thankful we know now what this is. He's the sweetest kindest human ever. He's my favorite person and I support him just the way he is.
Im a highly sensitive dad and my daughter is highly sensitive... Sometimes I feel that being highly sensitive myself is an added difficulty because her feelings can overwhelm me, which makes me deviste from gentle parenting... :/
Thank you for this. It’s definitely hard to parent my son who is highly sensitive but so rewarding. His memory at three years old is astounding and he’s so creative and sweet
Mam i remember myslef being an hsp
1.Just make sure u r keeping a track of his school system.
I was bullied tht really damaged my emotions nd i eventually began to sturr
2 plz do teach him the coping strategies.
Being an hsp having so many emotions at a greater extensity can result in life long wounds.
3. Teach him how to meditate. This helps a lot to understand a situation nd then work throughlh with emotions....
@@plyme thank you for responding. I really appreciate the tips. I worry a lot about him in school, even now in preschool. My husband and I try to focus on meditation at least 4 times a week but I never thought about introducing it to our kids this early on. I will look into resources for kids meditation. Thank you again!
@@plyme excellent advice
So lucky both me and my husband are highly sensitive people. We don't have autism or other conditions related to sensory issues, but we are both extra sensitive to light, sound, scents, stimulation, itchy clothes, emotion, etc. we understand each other and make our home very calming space. It's very likely our children will be the same way, so I'm glad there is more information about it now.
Orchid child and dandelion child. Brilliant!
Describes perfectly the difference between my daughter and son. 💕
yes my son is really definitely empathetic and he is very self-aware. yes i know that i am a raising a great child. i have been close with a lot of healthcare professional and working in the field as a caregiver. I can really sense when he isn't feel his best. this is great news. i love being able to know my child well.
-Hien
I am a HSP which I think is a good thing. I have said that being an HSP is like watching a movie in an IMAX movie theater. It is like living life in high definition which has pros and cons. We feel everything more intensely: joy, sadness, anger, etc. Also, we can feel other peoples emotions. I can tell who is toxic and who is not by the energy they give off.
well aren't you special? Many are but don't flaunt it.
Omgosh this is so spot on!
Same. I can relate so much. Its a blessing and a burdon
Wish people wouldn't put acronyms to everything
I'm highly sensitive and so is my oldest child 💗
I came looking for this information because one of my twins is highly sensitive and I just want to make sure I’m doing everything in my power to guide and raise her the best way possible and give her the tools she needs to navigate life and the world. Thank you for this content!!
Same here. One of my twin girls is highly sensitive too.
I hate the word sensitive. Has such a negetive conotation. The word she be "attuned" or "perceptive". Deep thinkers, self-aware, intelligent, creative, thoughtful. Sensitive implies a subtle weakness, that one can't handle the world. Highly sensitive people and children are the most Genuine!
Yes, then the parent hits them and says, I'll give you something to cry about. At least mine sure did. LONG time ago.
Best quickest medicine
Damn im that kind of parent..
but without the hitting i just start yelling at her to shh it Fuc.. Im just tired i will stop doing that
Does anyone talk about how to survive parenting an HSC?
Good question
This is what I’m like
Me. Thankful finally abling to help rather the yrs of abuse so many have endured or turn into those bad adults.
Very informative
Hi, I was always fairly highly sensitive as a child, and now I'm highly sensitive as an adult. Unfortunately, I am also on the autism spectrum (very little delay in or loss of verbal communication or cognitive skills), which I was diagnosed with as a toddler or very young child, back in the '90s. Sadly, if you are highly sensitive, girl/woman, AND on the autism spectrum, you might be seen as 'mean,' when you're really not. At least, I'm not. This did not help when I was 8 or 9 and starting puberty, and beginning to focus more on fashion. For as long as I can remember, I have always LOVED all things cutesy and girly, and would have preferred a cute, stylish sundress to a baggy shirt and jeans or biker shorts any day. I would have preferred digging in the glitter over digging in the dirt.
Very informative, thank you!
I'm that child and my life was horrible as child my parents would neglect me as I'm a middle child I got bullied 😔 several time 🥺
This is me and my daughter
I was an orchid child and my parents ignored it all along.
So how you manage?
BRAVO
I’m the parent, who is struggling at 3:24am with my HSP son, only because he suddenly remembered his Venus flytrap plant he’ve forgotten for months.
👌🏻🙏🙏🙏🙏
How does an HSC differ from a child that has a SPD?
You have none og them, your just entitled and think is cool to have a label. Your completely A4 normal.
@@TheCriticalAnalyst actually no. It’s a legitimate question. Do you have a real answer?
I really would like to know if a HCC can be acting angry and spoiled and why is that is it because he is HCC ?
No son pura bondad pueden tener esos comoortamientos, pero te recomiendo averiguar el origen
That is my daughter down to a T
Same omg this lady is spot on!! I was in Tears cause this really gave me a perspective I never understood why my daughter sometimes acted how she did but this makes so much sense ! ❤
I think that children need to toughen up. I was a sensitive child and was yelled at, bullied, and mocked. It worked, now I’m not sensitive at all.
Please be careful with raising a HCC. Don't raise them to believe that everyone and everything must bend to their emotions. If you cater too much, you will raise a narcissistic personality type.
lol what you’re talking about? Both personalities are not compatible. A narcissistic is unable to overthink or feel.
If you’re too permissive with your child you’ll damage their resilience and tolerance to frustration but not narcisismo. So much bullshit 😒
Kids should not he exposed to tablets and phones below the age of 7 .
Why are the people white but there is a black child for the main thing. Is there any way you are supporting minorities with these challenges? That would be great. Okay second brown kid. Okay. Would love feedback about how your channel supports. Thanks
and if the kids had been white?
My oldest was very sensitive too, it took a lot of effort of “De-snowflaking”. He is finally acting like a normal kid now.
I started with “ This is how you become a man not a toddler”, and goes on to “ You will get a crap woman if you act this way”, and “ You see that family? You will have that far ugly wife and devil kids if you are not a man”.
Anti snowflake and anti wokeism helped.