me trying to flirt with my best friend for 12 minutes straight

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  • @koga477
    @koga477 2 роки тому +9985

    This was a unique way of Joma telling us he's not with his girlfriend anymore

    • @TheShiroWing
      @TheShiroWing 2 роки тому +472

      That’s sad, didnt he moved to NYC mostly cuz of her?

    • @koga477
      @koga477 2 роки тому +340

      @@TheShiroWing yeah but he has a lot more reason to stay besides her now

    • @sheexcel7134
      @sheexcel7134 2 роки тому +548

      Did you really believe his gf story? I didn't at all, LoL.

    • @jamietim7265
      @jamietim7265 2 роки тому +456

      maybe his best friend is his girlfriend

    • @jarrellidk
      @jarrellidk 2 роки тому +300

      I feel like this video was just a bit and she’s actually his girlfriend. I think she just has really good acting tbh

  • @heavyDriver320
    @heavyDriver320 2 роки тому +2316

    After Joma started flirting with his wife, she became his best friend.

  • @rajchinagundi7498
    @rajchinagundi7498 2 роки тому +635

    This was Joma's smart move for saying everything he wants to his best friend and knowing what she feels about him.This guy is a genius :)

    • @sethaldrich6902
      @sethaldrich6902 Рік тому

      yeah she feels nothing but friendzone, her panties are drier than the Sahara desert

  • @anassabidar3453
    @anassabidar3453 2 роки тому +88

    I felt like a third wheel in an awkward date which is even more awkward.

  • @Kingx_NGT
    @Kingx_NGT 2 роки тому +2908

    That moment “you haven’t really tried though…”
    Joma’s absolutely blank stare in response

    • @betaman2009
      @betaman2009 2 роки тому +86

      Translation: You were trying? Omg.

    • @andistraum2972
      @andistraum2972 2 роки тому +80

      "i didn't?" "i brought u fuckin' ice cream.."

    • @ethanhodge3208
      @ethanhodge3208 2 роки тому +89

      @@andistraum2972 "I gave you water"

    • @dreamaster9000
      @dreamaster9000 2 роки тому +12

      When she said that I actually lost it!!! OMG so funny.

    • @syamkumarkaturi9761
      @syamkumarkaturi9761 2 роки тому +2

      FOR HYDROGEN PLATINUM IS NEEDED.sell gold .

  • @carloscampo9119
    @carloscampo9119 2 роки тому +3767

    I don't mind if this is 100% just acting, but make this a series and make her a recurring character Joma. The sheer awkwardness and friendzone-like pain is just too good to be wasted. XD

  • @williamlu5278
    @williamlu5278 2 роки тому +65

    10:43 "u havent really tried though." come on Joma, thats a clear sign!

    • @peterchin7796
      @peterchin7796 2 роки тому +2

      mmhmm, can't be more obvious than that 🤭

  • @mnmldev8636
    @mnmldev8636 2 роки тому +393

    I laughed way too loud at his inability to cook right after she mentioned her attraction towards men who can cook 6:05 🤣

  • @artemisfowl127
    @artemisfowl127 2 роки тому +4006

    This video was hilarious but seriously I still can never tell if Joma is ever being sarcastic or not. I guess that’s what makes him hilarious. 😂

    •  2 роки тому +16

      Agree

    • @JointSnipe
      @JointSnipe 2 роки тому +70

      I'm pretty sure 98% of the time he's being sarcastic lmao. It's his greatest power!

    • @hoola_amigos
      @hoola_amigos 2 роки тому +5

      Omg trueee 😂😂

    • @eberhwang23
      @eberhwang23 2 роки тому +5

      its an art

  • @Thenextphasemusic
    @Thenextphasemusic 2 роки тому +734

    The awkwardness is palpable... and I love it.

  • @yeehyphensum
    @yeehyphensum 2 роки тому +100

    Sunmi is adorable. I'm so glad this is the first video of yours that I'm watching because it's hilarious

    • @aperture0
      @aperture0 2 роки тому +7

      You need to watch both the channels. They're really good. Make sure you watch the startup series. It's one of the joma's best work.

    • @Chococat_Ariana
      @Chococat_Ariana 2 роки тому +1

      Same!! 🤗

  • @tanujagarwal3225
    @tanujagarwal3225 2 роки тому +111

    Joma u do a lot of things so effortlessly and that comes out to be such a good comedy ...like ur blank or indifferent expressions , ur silence...u really nailed it at some parts of the video. You can be a great comedian globally if u really take this forward. Kudos to you bro !

    • @aperture0
      @aperture0 2 роки тому +2

      Fr!!! Joma needs his own show on Netflix

  • @excessorizeme
    @excessorizeme 2 роки тому +2307

    This has Between Two Ferns vibes.

    • @amizan8653
      @amizan8653 2 роки тому +10

      Exactly what I thought

    • @careem3463
      @careem3463 2 роки тому +2

      Shit mate I was about to write that lol

    • @rogerthegreat6381
      @rogerthegreat6381 2 роки тому +1

      Love your vids brother!

    • @JoeARedHawk275
      @JoeARedHawk275 2 роки тому +4

      @@rboapaudfs8SkE2h Nah Tren Black actually said that Joma improved in a later video but nothing about Tech Lead improving

    • @mkmgauri
      @mkmgauri 2 роки тому +1

      Haha so true 💯

  • @byslo
    @byslo 2 роки тому +720

    I really liked how the absence of music made the conversation feel so raw, intimate ... and awkward 😂

  • @mathdelvert4394
    @mathdelvert4394 2 роки тому +14

    Please continue 🙏 doing videos like this
    It's not only overly creative but it brings in that side of reflection and down to earth stuff, seeing the obvious and realizing things, and you really do help do that kind of, interpreting it in quite an original way fashion actually.
    Keep up the good work/great content.

  • @cgme9535
    @cgme9535 2 роки тому +47

    Great video!
    This is very insightful for everyone. Especially so for software-developer, nerdy, introverted guys.

  • @ithinktechnologies
    @ithinktechnologies 2 роки тому +2130

    This man is badly addictive.

  • @HJEvelynha
    @HJEvelynha 2 роки тому +2797

    Wait I love your new hair

    • @JomaNYC
      @JomaNYC  2 роки тому +386

      You saw me with that hair… when I fixed your white balance

    • @anotheruser7848
      @anotheruser7848 2 роки тому +7

      sameee

    • @john5545
      @john5545 2 роки тому +17

      @joma outta boy go gettem’

    • @ogitakasi3030
      @ogitakasi3030 2 роки тому +2

      ikr

    • @__umbra
      @__umbra 2 роки тому +8

      @@rboapaudfs8SkE2h she married right?!

  • @mujibulhaquetanim
    @mujibulhaquetanim Рік тому +1

    that was a relief for me, thanks, Joma for making the time enjoyable.

  • @yatinazad8294
    @yatinazad8294 2 роки тому +78

    I really loved this video. Super awkward and weirdly funny, yet sweet.

  • @Guopher
    @Guopher 2 роки тому +737

    when you realize Joma got a haircut so he could get one more shot with Sunmi

  • @anikevin
    @anikevin 2 роки тому +200

    I've been waiting for this collab for years
    Sunmi is so charismatic. She should post on youtube more.

  • @lunaeclipse5768
    @lunaeclipse5768 2 роки тому +16

    This was a unique way of Joma telling us how to get a girlfriend and also at the same time
    what sunmi is up to.

  • @nguyenangthang7473
    @nguyenangthang7473 2 роки тому +3

    I watched your two videos of this type, it feels like more of a good conversation when guesses ask the interviewer back with maybe just simple questions

  • @ARM3LO
    @ARM3LO 2 роки тому +268

    one thing I do have to say is Joma's ad transitions are top tier.

  • @vishnupriyaramesh1634
    @vishnupriyaramesh1634 2 роки тому +55

    Make this into a series.. I wud live for this..!!

  • @antebp98
    @antebp98 2 роки тому +6

    This is great stuff. Hope to see more things like this.

  • @minglittle970
    @minglittle970 2 роки тому +32

    I just can't hide my smile when I watch this video.

  • @TheAugustusV
    @TheAugustusV 2 роки тому +123

    Seriously this channel is going places. Even if the attraction isn’t.

  • @geraldist88
    @geraldist88 2 роки тому +208

    The one who is sick of Joma’s face is damned for the rest of their lives

  • @cclingdev
    @cclingdev 2 роки тому +4

    love the humor. Great job. And your videos are great.

  • @alefratat4018
    @alefratat4018 2 роки тому +8

    Great chemistry between these two.

  • @welovfree
    @welovfree 2 роки тому +4191

    Her: Are you single?
    Joma: Do you want me to be?
    Her: No!
    She insulted and complimented Joma in one sentence. 😂

    • @vn7512
      @vn7512 2 роки тому +78

      One word

    • @nikhilgunaware5448
      @nikhilgunaware5448 2 роки тому +42

      she tried joma not to end his current relationship. thats what she mean

    • @LoSpotItaliano
      @LoSpotItaliano 2 роки тому +54

      If she said yes it would be the same 😂 compliment and insult at the same time 😂

    • @phantasy8921
      @phantasy8921 2 роки тому +82

      wait thats literally what i was thinking. If she says "yes", you can take it as "yes I want you to be single so I can take you out". If it's "no", you can take it as "No I don't want you to be single, cause you're going out with me"

    • @tynyshtyqov
      @tynyshtyqov 2 роки тому +4

      Joma's sad FACE🤣

  • @Unowhoooo
    @Unowhoooo 2 роки тому +51

    This video just popped up on my field and I loved it lol
    You and your friend are hilarious, also the tips are pretty useful too🙌🏼

  • @avibhatt2013
    @avibhatt2013 8 місяців тому

    Can you please make more of these, this is one of the best videos I've ever seen!

  • @besknighter
    @besknighter 2 роки тому +24

    "In the end, it's all about if it's mutual attraction. Because, when there's mutual attraction, no matter what you do, it'll work out. If there isn't mutual attraction, whatever you do, it it will not work out."
    Ouch oof owie

    • @sam3524
      @sam3524 2 роки тому +1

      Sometimes people like eachother but don’t know, or are too awkward about it

  • @chua_ni
    @chua_ni 2 роки тому +157

    love when Sunmi laughs or being very serious when answering questions, hope to see her more in your videos hehe

  • @sunmimilee
    @sunmimilee 2 роки тому +1011

    12:26 Sorry Joma, that girl you're hitting on, she doesn't like you

  • @melbaylon
    @melbaylon 2 роки тому +3

    Love seeing Sunmi again!

  • @Jay15523
    @Jay15523 2 роки тому +16

    I hope this becomes a series on the channel. Complete gold Joma 💰

  • @hibaricgg
    @hibaricgg 2 роки тому +26

    Great to see Sunmi back!

  • @nemanjatomanovic8810
    @nemanjatomanovic8810 2 роки тому +126

    I must say you do create content that is rare on YT. I can just imagine all the hard work and complicated process of finding good ideas for videos. Really good job man. 👍

  • @user-jx1go3bf8k
    @user-jx1go3bf8k 2 роки тому +2

    I love this video. I love you guys talking.

  • @sebastiantianciyin1221
    @sebastiantianciyin1221 2 роки тому +92

    Dunno why, but I kinda enjoy this kinds chatter a lot 😂 hope you'll keep'em coming~

  • @omarzaifulizan3064
    @omarzaifulizan3064 2 роки тому +792

    Only the OG's remember Sunmi

    • @vansh8638
      @vansh8638 2 роки тому +39

      And the girl from 3:04 too

    • @khz2172
      @khz2172 2 роки тому +5

      @@vansh8638 yeah yeah , her name is arielle, low key everyone got cursh on her

    • @khz2172
      @khz2172 2 роки тому +2

      @Kevin Huaricallo watch joma's day in the life of silicon valley engineers, and you will understand

    • @martinsurovy427
      @martinsurovy427 2 роки тому +24

      Tru that. But only the real OG' s remember that Joma has no girlfriend because he's gay

    • @megaraph5551
      @megaraph5551 2 роки тому +10

      @@martinsurovy427 only the real og's remember that Joma's married to python

  • @davocarli
    @davocarli 2 роки тому +6

    Uuf, I relate. I have a history of me trying to flirt with people I really like and (later on) being told they couldn't even tell, or they thought I didn't like them romantically.

  • @BeCarefulWithAI
    @BeCarefulWithAI 2 роки тому +1

    More Sunmi! We want more!

  • @berbatovfan27
    @berbatovfan27 2 роки тому +505

    The comedic timing at 6:02 is just perfect

  • @ShaferHart
    @ShaferHart 2 роки тому +19

    8:45 getting denied two dates in a row from a girl is the maximum any guy should tolerate. She said it herself: if she likes you she'll be eager to go on a date with you, barring exceptions of course (use your best judgment) but too many girls get a hard on from leading guys on that they will never have a date with and us guys are too willing to see the silver lining on any excuse girls give. As a rule, I ask for a date once, if her excuse is good/plausible I might try a second time. If it's also a no I just thank you next her.

    • @canobenitez
      @canobenitez 2 роки тому +3

      2 is the magic number, indeed. 27 years old guy here, no need to make the same mistakes folks.

  • @jaswanthnelam
    @jaswanthnelam 2 роки тому

    her voice is so calming

  • @myice-creamdreams3421
    @myice-creamdreams3421 Рік тому +3

    awww you two are cute i hope you all make it happen and live happily ever after

  • @levifig
    @levifig 2 роки тому +70

    Alternate title: “Watch a Man Be Friendzoned for 12 minutes”

  • @luchogusta
    @luchogusta 2 роки тому +366

    I feel like Joma is a youtuber that will some day have 10M subscribers

    • @ashiksaleem360
      @ashiksaleem360 2 роки тому +7

      Amen

    • @Noelson
      @Noelson 2 роки тому +33

      He might prefer Sunmi over 10M though

    • @julobie
      @julobie 2 роки тому

      Owyeah

    • @vn7512
      @vn7512 2 роки тому +3

      I doubt it, prob bc he doesn’t care

    • @xali2008
      @xali2008 2 роки тому

      @@Noelson what's Sunmi?

  • @goodvybe679
    @goodvybe679 Рік тому

    This was the funniest video I've watched in a long time, props dude

  • @bubbatheg
    @bubbatheg 2 роки тому +25

    "You haven't really tried though". When guys hear this is really heartbroken xD

    • @lucianoconde1814
      @lucianoconde1814 2 роки тому +4

      I think Is quite the opposite. She is giving him a sign, a clear one. Otherwise she would laugh or say something random.

  • @darkbrowniris9643
    @darkbrowniris9643 2 роки тому +33

    This video was somewhere between awkward, hilarious and putting Sunmi on the spot

  • @bolzol306
    @bolzol306 2 роки тому +49

    Another title's "Joma being himself for 12 minutes straight"

  • @bernardmasambaji466
    @bernardmasambaji466 2 роки тому +2

    Bro, I just found and subbed.. Man she likes you, and I guess you should go for it since you are already friends, which would be a plus (from a married guy perspective)

  • @keshavnathoo1218
    @keshavnathoo1218 2 роки тому +55

    Joma: A girl wouldn't want a guy to be lingering around for years thinking he has a chance...
    Me: 👀

  • @nitinpanwar5320
    @nitinpanwar5320 2 роки тому +86

    Joma is hands down the most hilarious dude I have found on UA-cam.

    • @ufcknockouts07
      @ufcknockouts07 2 роки тому +4

      New to UA-cam? Hope you like it. Haha

  • @nikhilmishra7224
    @nikhilmishra7224 2 роки тому +2

    I swear this is my most favorite video on UA-cam
    I just like sunmi's personality and i think I have a crush on her😅
    This is my favorite channel

  • @thiagobassguitarable
    @thiagobassguitarable 2 роки тому +1

    the awkward moments are so cool. you can see they look at each other and think wtf are going here

  • @muditbhutia405
    @muditbhutia405 2 роки тому +14

    How can he be so smooth and awkward at the same time ?!

  • @dd0669
    @dd0669 2 роки тому +19

    I don’t really know what I just watched, but I loved it.

  • @HDArtzy
    @HDArtzy Рік тому

    love ur channel maye

  • @nebiyudawit4133
    @nebiyudawit4133 Рік тому

    you're really best joma keep it up i always going to see your videos entire my life

  • @kidstagram354
    @kidstagram354 2 роки тому +16

    This video makes me so relaxed after school!! Love it! 🤩 Also their conversations, so interesting to listen. 👏👏

  • @Aidan_Au
    @Aidan_Au 2 роки тому +46

    This is the classic, "Can men and women be friends?".
    Sunmi should return to Joma's next reality dating show.
    Joma, please bring back more old faces.
    Bonus video: full length video of Sunmi reacing Joma's Blindr video

  • @juanxpress285
    @juanxpress285 2 роки тому

    I haven't seen a video like this in ages , love the nervous water sip

  • @tonythvch3500
    @tonythvch3500 2 роки тому

    This video showed up in my recommendations. This is hilarious Bro, subscribed.

  • @leonisadonis
    @leonisadonis 2 роки тому +39

    Joma is giving me moist critikal early collage years vibe

  • @jefferyosei101
    @jefferyosei101 2 роки тому +4

    Joma has a great sense of humor! Love your videos!

  • @foreseenrunner4174
    @foreseenrunner4174 2 роки тому +1

    For da boys! lol We see it to big bro. Suave composure, and as always brilliant! Thanks for donating the video to the research, engineering, and science community for da boys 😂

  • @BotondKuti
    @BotondKuti Рік тому +2

    This was awesome. That is the type of flirting I would probably do too. Sadly not everyone gets it and appreciate it. It's ok, it's just incompatibility, as you mature you'll understand it more. And don't feel sorry, you'll be a lot happier with someone compatible. Keep up the good work! 🙂

  • @rainysuggest4247
    @rainysuggest4247 2 роки тому +16

    2 software engineers, sitting, flirting, one drinking milk i something you will never see.
    Most of the time I see: Computers scientist print(“do you like me?: ”)

  • @jingyuzhang2478
    @jingyuzhang2478 2 роки тому +3

    Always like the video before I watch!

  • @krishnateja1518
    @krishnateja1518 Рік тому +2

    Wow that’s 95% better than those stupid shortfilms they make everyday. Really engaging and entertaining ❤️.

  • @dominiclim0601
    @dominiclim0601 2 роки тому +13

    Hey joma,
    This video is perfect and beautifully made. It's so nice and enjoyable to watch... though some parts were quite awkward and uncanny but it's real.. which helps a heaps. Hopefully there will be more videos like this :) Cheers!

  • @purpleskies1709
    @purpleskies1709 2 роки тому +147

    tfw u realize 50% of this is a joke by 50% of this is also Joma having a crush on Sunmi and in some strange, unorthodox way, give her a reason to like him or at least consider him

    • @LightningWrath
      @LightningWrath 2 роки тому +30

      He actually has a girlfriend living in the same building.

    • @dodo-dh4ob
      @dodo-dh4ob 2 роки тому +18

      @@LightningWrath i still confused that was a joke or not. I mean, “same building” part. 😎

    • @purpleskies1709
      @purpleskies1709 2 роки тому +12

      @LightningWrath really? Seems like a weird video to make if that were the case lol

    • @cosmic_rat7315
      @cosmic_rat7315 2 роки тому +2

      @@dodo-dh4ob yeah he said that on a different video.. They live in the same building..

    • @elvissierra1555
      @elvissierra1555 2 роки тому +6

      @@cosmic_rat7315 after that vid i just assumed he was lying

  • @lazypanda1493
    @lazypanda1493 2 роки тому +15

    All my attention was on those freaking keyboards, you are a lucky man Joma

  • @zhbitjean
    @zhbitjean 2 роки тому +2

    I can't tell which part is acting but it makes laugh. Good job, Joma.

  • @philosoraptorvi5309
    @philosoraptorvi5309 2 роки тому

    omg, the first 3 minutes you had me rofl! - The oatmilk bit was classic.

  • @liy1561
    @liy1561 2 роки тому +138

    alternate title: joma takin L after L for 12 minutes straight

    • @carloscampo9119
      @carloscampo9119 2 роки тому +1

      Its great hahaha

    • @dalmiseo6636
      @dalmiseo6636 2 роки тому

      L??

    • @SumriseHD
      @SumriseHD 2 роки тому

      @@dalmiseo6636 Loss
      Try urban dictionary next time

    • @dalmiseo6636
      @dalmiseo6636 2 роки тому

      @@SumriseHD oh thanks...
      I didn't it could be found in urban dictionary but thnx

  • @tiffmetcha
    @tiffmetcha 2 роки тому +29

    That smooth sponsor insert though

  • @mahee96
    @mahee96 2 роки тому +1

    Joma and sunmi saved my day !!

  • @PersonalGoliath
    @PersonalGoliath 2 роки тому +14

    This gave me an awkward vibe in an addictive way lol

  • @Lalit-yw2tb
    @Lalit-yw2tb 2 роки тому +51

    For real though, this is like true friends talking to each other, nothing awkard just plain friendship, because you know them well and your usual questions to them are: "Hey! What's Up?" and then awkard silence XD.

  • @Faramir7
    @Faramir7 2 роки тому +39

    Daaaamn, can relate to basically everything xD

  • @Geledek97
    @Geledek97 2 роки тому +3

    The bridging to sponsor is so smooth

  • @Embargo27
    @Embargo27 2 роки тому +1

    This was... legit... enjoyed all of it

  • @SurajSingh-pb4bs
    @SurajSingh-pb4bs 2 роки тому +17

    6:04 is one of funniest things I've seen in a while lmao

  • @aswinsajith6625
    @aswinsajith6625 2 роки тому +43

    Legends still thinks whether she went with Joma for Sushi 😂😂😂

  • @mzrmozar
    @mzrmozar Рік тому

    Omg.....this video totally genuine and funny...feel bad finding this video so late

  • @pismobiics825
    @pismobiics825 Рік тому +1

    This was the cutest and saddest thing at the same time.

  • @haananiiz725
    @haananiiz725 2 роки тому +37

    Heejin's deep voice, OMG!

  • @joeyaintwaffling
    @joeyaintwaffling 2 роки тому +20

    Still can never tell if he's being sarcastic or not, he has a superpower bro

  • @ryanj.3102
    @ryanj.3102 2 роки тому +20

    The awkwardness was palpable. Joma should put all his chips on the table and try.

  • @chickenphoenex3934
    @chickenphoenex3934 Рік тому +3

    I don't know their relationship, but i felt a very ambiguous atmosphere there which keeps me smiling the whole time.

  • @LuciferTyson
    @LuciferTyson 2 роки тому +68

    Joma might take L here, but we all know he living his best life.

  • @AssistantRegionalMgr
    @AssistantRegionalMgr 2 роки тому +235

    I think the girlfriend who made him moved to NY is Sunmi.
    This video is full of jokes and they are actually together.

    • @samuelfilipe31
      @samuelfilipe31 2 роки тому +36

      To the regional manager

    • @alexgg769
      @alexgg769 2 роки тому +1

      This is what I feel like too.

    • @SJ78910
      @SJ78910 2 роки тому +2

      Oh hail the assistant to the regional manager

    • @souljaunt3291
      @souljaunt3291 2 роки тому +2

      Assistant to the regional manager

    • @syamkumarkaturi9761
      @syamkumarkaturi9761 2 роки тому

      FOR HYDROGEN PLATINUM IS NEEDED.sell gold ..//