I approached a veteran girl I liked and really really looked up to in college once. We exchanged numbers. I tried making short talk to get to know her better (in all fairness I was a bit insistent, but I had that kind of crush that makes you somewhat of an idiot). She gave only short meaningless answer like 'ok', so I give up after a while. A few months later I find out she told everyone in a groupchat I was a creepy weirdo and told people to avoid me, and for that reason no one invited me the the social activities our course usually does, essentially killing any chance of me having a social life during my college years. Still hurts to this day. So yeah, it gets a lot worse than 'no'
ah shoot im sorry bro. i had a similar experience. i was friends with a guy and he had a sister around my age. i tried talking to her and it went fairly smooth. i asked for her number but she declined. later i found out she told her brother and stuff i was weird and ever since he's been distant. idek what i did tbh.
@@SpiritualAscentOfficialI’ll help u out. You hit on his little sister, that’s a no no. It’s different if she comes on to you & is all over you, but you basically went after his little sister. I’m confused why your confused that he’s mad at u
I am in gen alpha, and I can confirm that the kids are getting more antisocial. I was lucky to get through my developmental years before all the major brain rot however some kids weren't so lucky
This stops the moment you all join me in shaming promiscuity again. But you're more likely to call me an ist or a phobe, because you're ideologically captured.
I honestly hate social media because when I got into a relationship with my girlfriend I thought it was going to be like social media, but then we had an argument and it made me realize that arguments mean that the relationship is healthy as long as you both talk about it
That's not as much a social media, but just media. As someone who is over 40... It hasn't changed a lot I think. Now there is just more Orange Peel Tests, but Cosmopolitan magazine existed for the same purpose.
Just to share my small positive story, I recently met a girl while I was out walking. We started talking, I asked her on a date, and she said yes!! We went on our first date today, and are planning a second!!
Do you live in some lavish inner city? I live in the suburbs of Texas & it's impossible to encounter girls like that. We're stuck in traffic wherever we go
@@FriendlyNeighborhoodDisaster i hear the towns there are more old fashioned. But the McSuburbs of Texas are horrid. Way too much driving for the tiniest things
I've said this before but I need to say it again: NEVER date a narcissist. They will treat you like trash and you'll be less happy than if you were just single. And if they're a female narcissist then she'll probably gonna play the victim a lot which can be dangerous for you!
That’s the thing I feel doesn’t get talked about enough today, people think preference and deal breaker are the same thing, they’re not, a preference has room for compromise, a deal breaker doesn’t, a lot of these “Icks” aren’t just mere preferences but legit deal breakers and that’s scary
@@RyanGledhill-hs1yk See, that is why you shouldnt trust women saying they generally want to date their friends. Just get it done fast for both of your sakes cause usually you'll be accused of manipulating her for a chance for sex instead of just resolving it like damn adults
Ikr! Like, i can’t date someone i don’t know! I need to get to know them, befriend them, form a bond and connection, then if i feel like i vibe with them I’ll date them.
Dating is so fucked in our culture. Primarily for girls, the whole “ick” thing is terrible. Breathing? Ick. The way you talk? Ick. It’s gotten really bad. I know girls who only get with guys for the “fun times” them immediately break up. Also, more girls have gone lesbian which also decreases the dating pool. For guys, OF has ruined a lot. Lots of guys have given up on dating and have turned to OF thinking it will satisfy their needs. It’s just really sad.
"More girls have gone lesbian" uhm, no. Lesbian girls represent only 1% if not less of the population. Most of them are 5s or lower anyway, so we aren't missing much.. If anything, the dating pool has been made bigger thanks to the internet.
@@wormfood83 5:35 That yawning ick is ridiculous. Basically, that girl just told everyone that she is dull and boring AF if men are yawning while with her and talking to her.
I'm actively working through my social anxiety so I can be comfortable interacting with folks in person because AIN'T NO WAY AM I GOING ON A DATING APP. I'll stay single for life before I do it because there's either bots, Scammers, OR people who are SINGLE FOR A REASON. To hell with that!
You forgot the nonmonogamous looking for meatbags, women so used to being flooded with matches they never bothered upgrading their desertlevel dryness of communication, and people who at best case just want a hookup. Too bad the old methods are even more based on luck these days with all the ick bs and genuine fucking stunted folks
I mean… you’re single for a reason. Don’t think it’s fair to sit there and grandstand cuz you don’t wanna use Tinder. You’re no better than anybody lol everybody gets anxious in public, how much you listen to It and allow It to control you and your actions is the issue.
That stuff you said about promiscuous people is so true its common now in men and women. I wasn't on that type of thing so i put off dating for years. now I'm talking to this decent young woman, another thing that helped was never following social media for what a relationship should be or advice that stuff will corrupt your mind. Also date in your own means.
Young people are so anti social now , and ironically it makes it hard to make friends. I’m 25, gay man, and when I try to be friends with people they act like I’m insane and it’s very apparent people around my age are really really lacking in social skills. They are all so lonely and wanting friends, but when given the chance they have no idea what to do. It’s so sad.
I'm 26 now and all that stuff about being alone but wanting friends though still doing the opposite of that is so true. I once won concert tickets for Mike+The Mechanics, 80s/90s pop rock group, and I asked out at least 10 people only to go there with my dad few years ago. And I often have that with concerts and stuff. I often end up going alone. This year, with everything that's planned, it will be 7 or 8 times at least.
It’s things like this that make me so glad that I stayed off social media as long as I did because I cannot imagine how ruined my views of everything would be if that wasn’t the case
True.. true. I deleted pretty much all of them about 4 years ago. UA-cam is the only one left. I can honestly say, it improved the quality of my life. Cured my anxiety aswell. There's no going back anymore. I'm a free man.
Sometime ago, i heard a story of a guy that was going on a date, he got super happy, and it was in the cinema. When he got there, his girl wasn't. He called her and heard her laughing with her friends saying stuff like "he fell in the prank". Poor guy.
Have you noticed how a big part of that group also thinks the world is overpopulated, humans are a plague to the earth, etc? Makes sense to divide genders apart
@paridhaxholli that's been proven false, today's youth cheat the least of any recorded, boomers show to have the highest cheating scores, but the difference is so small it's irrelevant to the topic at hand
Dating is super easy but also super frustrating. It’s just that people can’t commit anymore but desperately want to at the same time. It’s a result of how society has evolved. It’s very hard to find someone with the right mindset.
What’s crazy is that asking a girl for her number just 6 years ago or so was normal and expected and now it’s creepy, if I showed my dad this he’d be like how do people show interest anymore
Well, mate, it's like this: Social media turned dating into a game of 'swipe left, swipe right' and forgot that real connections aren't made in a split second. Now, we're all just profiles chasing likes and validation instead of actually getting to know each other. It's like romance got traded for algorithms and filters. Remember when a date meant eye contact, not just emojis? Social media killed the thrill of the chase and turned it into a digital window shopping spree.
And that's why I stopped using dating apps. But I also have been searching for places to talk to girls in person but I live in the suburbs of Texas. Every place sucks!
Just want you to know that I have really enjoyed watching your videos for a while now! They never fail to cheer me up if I'm having a bad day and I'm so happy that I have finally found a good non-problematic UA-camr.
@@gsst6389 Because I feel weird about it. I’m out of college already and by that time a lot of people are already “experienced” or have a partner, I am none of those. But at the same time I don’t want it to be with some random girl but with a gf.
There’s too many options today. Before social media you were only gonna meet people through coworkers, friends, family, or you met out somewhere. Today you complete with every single person in town.
the only options these people on social media have are catfishers, trolls, and spammers. i use instagram, but only to keep in contact with my friends and families.
People in social media are just giant babies going back and forth saying how one gender is toxic than the other, even though both genders are like that…
Men and women are both equally toxic, I agree. But when it comes to modern dating its obviously women that are contributing more to the problem, everybody knows that 😂 nowadays if its cold outside and you shiver, girls will get the ick 🤣 y'all need to get off tick tock, thats the problem. Men are contributing to alot of other societal problems, but their approach to dating hasn't changed. But for women it has. I work with a bunch of old ladies and even a couple of hours ago they were telling me that the young girls behavior nowadays is so strange. Even they don't understand whats going on 😂
I met my current bf on a dating app, as cringey as it is to admit that to people, I was originally looking for more people my age in my area who play music like I do, and when I met my current bf, we hit it off and had music but like SO much more in common, and I actually set the boundary of just staying friends for a while, and where :) best friends. He’s a wonderful person, and I love my bf, eventually after being friends for many months, we took the relationship to an official dating level, while we where still friend, he still took me on dates and we did stuff together, but he never pestered me to change the arrangement, he’s always been there for me! So I consider myself one of the few lucky ones, to actually have found a great match, and a loving healthy committed relationship :3 I think a lot of people struggling in the dating scene could make more progress if all parties where more honest about what they where looking for and what they are comfortable with!
yk, Back in my day. Gender wars as a kid was fun and we all got to compete in a game of dodge with buys vs girls who would win? (the girls mostly won so sad for me.) then when we grew up, it stopped. idk what these ppl are fighting about
I had 4 gfs, fat more than people only a few years younger than me. Dating is just about building the other up. Now everyone wants finished product, without no investment. Nothing works that way except fucking products you buy in an eshop.
I'm a man with a developmental disabilities. I am mentally challenged I have been labeled as a problem no matter how hard I try not to be. I get labeled as making excuses, being intentionally harmful and the list goes on. It got so bad I emotionally snapped and so fk this. I deleted all my social media so I could finally have peace.
Ngl, I've used to be open minded about a relationship like 5 years ago, but now in my 30's, I prefer my peace and quiet I've had this whole time. Im focused on enjoying myself, my hobbies and my family to spend time with them while I can. Stay safe bros and remember to take care about thyself. 💪
Thanks man for the vid I realy needed someone to say this i am kinda in a low point or something and you gave me a refreshed view of relations I had some really toxic girls around me recently
Social media has really made people delusional on how a relationship works. Videos on Tik Tok showing relationships through rose tinted glasses where there are no problems, no hardship and a magical experience. No, relationships take a lot of work, communication, compromise and the occasional clash but it is worth it in the end. People who grew up on social media will now find it difficult to deal with real relationship issues so when it happens they’ll often end up leaving because they don’t know how to handle it. Before social media, you had to go up to someone you liked and actually talked to them and find out who they are and if you like them. Dating apps has created a lazy and less authentic experience where you don’t have to put effort to create a conversation.
With the couple pranks, icks, and gender wars combined, I don’t think I’m ever gonna achieve my goal of being a father. Gender wars alone are already bringing us back to preschool when we thought the opposite gender had cooties. What a time to be alive. Our ancestors fought for this 🥲
You ask them out and they tell you they ain't ready to start dating again and then two days later they are dating someone else. This has been my experience like 15 times over the last decade. I just assume I'm not attractive, so I just rot in loneliness.
This is why I'm not picky for people I date. The only requirement is that they care about me and that I know them well enough to date them. And also I don't online date which has probably saved me from a lot of creepy situations.
Im in high school and this has gotten so bad that im afraid to look in any direction where people could be cause they might think im staring at them Also on the last day of school my English teacher was talking to us in her class and she said "you just have to talk to people" yeah but what if they hate you for one reason and tell there friends not to talk to you for being creepy when you can change but i guess you cant anymore once a creep also a creep apparently Sorry for the rant
nah bro its not that bad i was in the same situation and i was hella akward but once i got out of my comfort zone and started talking to ppl i realized most people dont care. There are gonna be some jerks but from my personal experience a majority of people hate them as well they just dont talk abt it. so chin up king, its only highschool anyways.
The reason for most dating is to fit in. People want to be like celebrities and they think that will make them socially acceptable so they fake it and then it becomes their real personality.
I deleted all my social medias recently and decided to stick to youtube… unless a girl comes into my life and wants to form a meaningful connection with me and give me flowers made of gold… yeah. i’m good for right now.
The dating apps used to be great. I’m 48. Zero issues getting dates / laid. I’m fat, broke but I can talk to women. I used to get tons of matches. Now I only get matches in the first 48 hours of install of app. I delete and remake my profile every couple weeks if I want matches. It works. However I’ve been flying solo for about a year. Working on me
I'm 13 and I agree with all these things I just don't understand why people have some weird icks. like I get that having an ick is putting up your standard a lil "like they have to shower" but these girls be having icks that they have like acne is an ick but they might have ance themselves (sorry for how long it is he made a whole video on paragraphs lol)
Dating is about going out with the people who you love, because of their personality , not love cause of looks and shit, most children don’t understand love isn’t about looks, and shit, gen alpha and gen z don’t understand that sadly,
Looks play a role cause unless you wanna attract folks by wearing a wedding ring or shitting out money your ass is gonna need looks as the actual first impression cause personality can only ever do so much
to me a relationship is a deep meaningful friendship where you have sex, I have around five friends who uplift my soul that I have no intention of sleeping with. that's not to say sex is a means of resolving conflicts and such but looks matter to everyone and they might matter more to you than you realize so just control what you can and make the most net gain progress you can sustainably
There will always be someone who fits and pushes a stereotype, and there will always be someone who fits and pushes another stereotype judging that person for being stereotypical. Eventually these stereotypes get recognised less as stereotypes and more as normalisations, until they become normal and what was once normal will be a stereotype. You get me?
The "ick" that impresses me is "have a mother" as if you need to be an orphan. Evidently they want you to be hatched from a celestial egg that floated down to Earth from heaven.
People seem to mistaken infatuation for true love. I personally don’t mess with the dating scene these days, it’s just too much drama and emotional turmoil.
yeah, I feel the same, even though I remember my last gf pretty well (but I had to break up not to be her free-of-charge psychologist), I guess it's not that bad to live alone and not give a F to all those "icks", "dating trends" and all that "social" media crap.
I don’t think you a achally want be single forever at least I think you’ve just given up my interpretation know one wants be single it’s just relashonships and stuff hard
I approached a veteran girl I liked and really really looked up to in college once. We exchanged numbers. I tried making short talk to get to know her better (in all fairness I was a bit insistent, but I had that kind of crush that makes you somewhat of an idiot). She gave only short meaningless answer like 'ok', so I give up after a while. A few months later I find out she told everyone in a groupchat I was a creepy weirdo and told people to avoid me, and for that reason no one invited me the the social activities our course usually does, essentially killing any chance of me having a social life during my college years. Still hurts to this day. So yeah, it gets a lot worse than 'no'
ah shoot im sorry bro. i had a similar experience. i was friends with a guy and he had a sister around my age. i tried talking to her and it went fairly smooth. i asked for her number but she declined. later i found out she told her brother and stuff i was weird and ever since he's been distant. idek what i did tbh.
Damn dude, I am sorry to hear that. I hope it got better after college for you. Remember, you are a king and people like that are worthless trash.
WTF bro sorry to hear that, stay strong stay healthy.
Nah bro she a b*tch. You dodged a bullet, hope you get better moments than that
@@SpiritualAscentOfficialI’ll help u out. You hit on his little sister, that’s a no no. It’s different if she comes on to you & is all over you, but you basically went after his little sister. I’m confused why your confused that he’s mad at u
Social media has made younger people more antisocial in public settings. That's why I barely be on it half of the time.
I am in gen alpha, and I can confirm that the kids are getting more antisocial. I was lucky to get through my developmental years before all the major brain rot however some kids weren't so lucky
@@BricksTasteSoGoodsame here!
yes
@@BricksTasteSoGood yeah same
Me too
People nowadays don't take dating seriously. They break up and get attracted on a whim
They also block on a whim & I hate how I can just be blocked out of nowhere without a shred of drama ever occuring
Y'know, dating is a relatively recent concept. Before it was either arranged or you had to at least have the parent's permission before going forward.
Yeah, women and attractive men do that because they can afford to.
People like me just rot in loneliness.
@@RadicallyGreenwomen only THINK they can afford to
This stops the moment you all join me in shaming promiscuity again.
But you're more likely to call me an ist or a phobe, because you're ideologically captured.
People gotta start learning how to distant themselves from internet while staying connected
Fr
True
So basically being normal again? Yeah, we need that bad.
Yeah people need to learn to smoke crack casually and not get addicted
I honestly hate social media because when I got into a relationship with my girlfriend I thought it was going to be like social media, but then we had an argument and it made me realize that arguments mean that the relationship is healthy as long as you both talk about it
That's not as much a social media, but just media. As someone who is over 40... It hasn't changed a lot I think.
Now there is just more Orange Peel Tests, but Cosmopolitan magazine existed for the same purpose.
Just to share my small positive story, I recently met a girl while I was out walking. We started talking, I asked her on a date, and she said yes!!
We went on our first date today, and are planning a second!!
Do you live in some lavish inner city?
I live in the suburbs of Texas & it's impossible to encounter girls like that. We're stuck in traffic wherever we go
@@SlashinatorZ surprisingly no! I live in the suburbs of Illinois, but there’s a pretty popular walking trail right by my house
@@FriendlyNeighborhoodDisaster i hear the towns there are more old fashioned.
But the McSuburbs of Texas are horrid.
Way too much driving for the tiniest things
Congrats!!!
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I’ve noticed the quality increase of this video well done
Like the moving of the wings in the beginning
So true if you watch an older video from like over a year ago there is so a drastic change in the quality of burdies videks
Don’t date someone on social media
Exactly! Don't do that, and date someone irl instead!
Don't date be asexual
Facts bro
literally everyone is on social media idiots
yeah it doesn’t even last. the person is most likely taken (based on experience). you end up being their side piece.
‘Why don’t I have a boyfriend?’
*boy asks her out*
‘Ew, you creep!’
fr women be like that.
Literally 80% of the girls at my school are like this.
Women are only attracted a small amount of men
Luckily, I haven’t been rejected like that :)
Anyone who isn't over 6 Foot and not good looking = Creep
Anyone Over 6 Foot and good looking = Not a Creep
I've said this before but I need to say it again: NEVER date a narcissist. They will treat you like trash and you'll be less happy than if you were just single. And if they're a female narcissist then she'll probably gonna play the victim a lot which can be dangerous for you!
Girls: OMG he is such a creep.
Also Girls: So I stalked his instagram.
Actual conversation that I witnessed.
this is another example of gender wars?
irony
nahhhh frrrrr I've has girls stalk my ig till a guy told me about it 😂😂😂 like brooo w tf
It might seem crazy but I'm 1 of the nontoxic girls
I've actually been stalked by people accusing me of being the creep over anime girls.
back in my day, we used to ask people out in person!
me to my children, 2035
me fr and im not even an adult
Yeah
Absof*ckingloutly bro
🗿
That’s the thing I feel doesn’t get talked about enough today, people think preference and deal breaker are the same thing, they’re not, a preference has room for compromise, a deal breaker doesn’t, a lot of these “Icks” aren’t just mere preferences but legit deal breakers and that’s scary
Back in my day we actually knew people before dating them.
If you know them to much before tryna date you get friendzoned now in days which is some bullshit fr
@@RyanGledhill-hs1yk See, that is why you shouldnt trust women saying they generally want to date their friends. Just get it done fast for both of your sakes cause usually you'll be accused of manipulating her for a chance for sex instead of just resolving it like damn adults
Fr. I can't stand dating culture. How do you expect to be with someone you barely knew
Ikr! Like, i can’t date someone i don’t know! I need to get to know them, befriend them, form a bond and connection, then if i feel like i vibe with them I’ll date them.
@@RyanGledhill-hs1ykyeah and my mom tells me i’d be more better with people who i knew in high school because it would last longer
Social media be like : If hE HAs aStHma iTS aN IcK .The OnLy oNe tAkiNg hIs breatH is ME.
💀💀💀💀
😢😢 I got asthma 😂😂
@@brydenpklemmer1401Same, brother
@@brydenpklemmer1401Me too, sorta
bronchale hyperreactivity
... bY cHoCkInG hIm
........ edit: its a joke.
Dating is so fucked in our culture.
Primarily for girls, the whole “ick” thing is terrible. Breathing? Ick. The way you talk? Ick. It’s gotten really bad. I know girls who only get with guys for the “fun times” them immediately break up. Also, more girls have gone lesbian which also decreases the dating pool.
For guys, OF has ruined a lot. Lots of guys have given up on dating and have turned to OF thinking it will satisfy their needs. It’s just really sad.
"More girls have gone lesbian" uhm, no. Lesbian girls represent only 1% if not less of the population. Most of them are 5s or lower anyway, so we aren't missing much..
If anything, the dating pool has been made bigger thanks to the internet.
@@backup_almeknassi9824 I've seen some studies showing that Lesbian relationships are more toxic than Gay relationships. I decided not to ignore that.
What's hilarious is most of those icks contradict the other icks.
@@wormfood83 5:35 That yawning ick is ridiculous. Basically, that girl just told everyone that she is dull and boring AF if men are yawning while with her and talking to her.
By more girls you mean like 5 lmao
I'm actively working through my social anxiety so I can be comfortable interacting with folks in person because AIN'T NO WAY AM I GOING ON A DATING APP. I'll stay single for life before I do it because there's either bots, Scammers, OR people who are SINGLE FOR A REASON. To hell with that!
You forgot the nonmonogamous looking for meatbags, women so used to being flooded with matches they never bothered upgrading their desertlevel dryness of communication, and people who at best case just want a hookup.
Too bad the old methods are even more based on luck these days with all the ick bs and genuine fucking stunted folks
I mean… you’re single for a reason. Don’t think it’s fair to sit there and grandstand cuz you don’t wanna use Tinder. You’re no better than anybody lol everybody gets anxious in public, how much you listen to It and allow It to control you and your actions is the issue.
That stuff you said about promiscuous people is so true its common now in men and women. I wasn't on that type of thing so i put off dating for years. now I'm talking to this decent young woman, another thing that helped was never following social media for what a relationship should be or advice that stuff will corrupt your mind. Also date in your own means.
Young people are so anti social now , and ironically it makes it hard to make friends. I’m 25, gay man, and when I try to be friends with people they act like I’m insane and it’s very apparent people around my age are really really lacking in social skills. They are all so lonely and wanting friends, but when given the chance they have no idea what to do. It’s so sad.
I'm 26 now and all that stuff about being alone but wanting friends though still doing the opposite of that is so true.
I once won concert tickets for Mike+The Mechanics, 80s/90s pop rock group, and I asked out at least 10 people only to go there with my dad few years ago. And I often have that with concerts and stuff.
I often end up going alone. This year, with everything that's planned, it will be 7 or 8 times at least.
It’s things like this that make me so glad that I stayed off social media as long as I did because I cannot imagine how ruined my views of everything would be if that wasn’t the case
True.. true. I deleted pretty much all of them about 4 years ago. UA-cam is the only one left. I can honestly say, it improved the quality of my life. Cured my anxiety aswell. There's no going back anymore. I'm a free man.
Sometime ago, i heard a story of a guy that was going on a date, he got super happy, and it was in the cinema. When he got there, his girl wasn't. He called her and heard her laughing with her friends saying stuff like "he fell in the prank". Poor guy.
Jesus Christ…
And then people ask: why is no one into me?
Istg my bfs ex broke up with him because he was wearing a banana suit on Halloween. But this is just a whole other level 😭
I did that once
respect for the banana suit
women 💀
Your bf is a king
@@joresslesbian beahvuorb
Yeah that stuff with gender wars is so stupid it’s just strange to me that people say that and we need both genders to keep people alive.
fr like genders NEED each other for reproduction
Have you noticed how a big part of that group also thinks the world is overpopulated, humans are a plague to the earth, etc? Makes sense to divide genders apart
Honestly people need to be more serious about relationships and need to have a good and faithful one
Tell that to gen z/alpha
@@somber087dude gen x has the highest devorce rate of any in history 😂
@@jtowensbyiii6018yeah bc in gen z they cheat instead of divorcing
@paridhaxholli that's been proven false, today's youth cheat the least of any recorded, boomers show to have the highest cheating scores, but the difference is so small it's irrelevant to the topic at hand
"Eww you're talking about dating? Such a massive ick"
-imaswiftie2091
Who
Typical swiftie
protip: if she's a feminist, RUN!!!
Dating is super easy but also super frustrating. It’s just that people can’t commit anymore but desperately want to at the same time. It’s a result of how society has evolved. It’s very hard to find someone with the right mindset.
People don’t think for themselves anymore due to it sadly only demanding the glitz and glamour they see even tho it’s not sustainable in most cases
What’s crazy is that asking a girl for her number just 6 years ago or so was normal and expected and now it’s creepy, if I showed my dad this he’d be like how do people show interest anymore
Well, mate, it's like this: Social media turned dating into a game of 'swipe left, swipe right' and forgot that real connections aren't made in a split second. Now, we're all just profiles chasing likes and validation instead of actually getting to know each other. It's like romance got traded for algorithms and filters. Remember when a date meant eye contact, not just emojis? Social media killed the thrill of the chase and turned it into a digital window shopping spree.
And that's why I stopped using dating apps. But I also have been searching for places to talk to girls in person but I live in the suburbs of Texas.
Every place sucks!
Who uses dating apps anyway
@@somber087 not me. but i know a lot of people who do and they say they dont get matches. i tell them "get off the dating app".
Dating apps are a hollow affair. Never ever forget to ask yourself first who you want; like a company, know what your target "audience" is.
@@somber087 everybody keeps telling me to use dating apps like they're the most perfect thing ever invented
Just want you to know that I have really enjoyed watching your videos for a while now! They never fail to cheer me up if I'm having a bad day and I'm so happy that I have finally found a good non-problematic UA-camr.
I hate dating culture now because of Social Media and I am 16 and never have been on a date.
I get you. I’m 24 and I didn’t even get my first kiss 😐
Idk how anyone gets dates in this culture & bad city planning
@@joresswhy need to rush it? It come when it will come and when it those, it be a dollar compare to pennies
@@gsst6389 Because I feel weird about it. I’m out of college already and by that time a lot of people are already “experienced” or have a partner, I am none of those. But at the same time I don’t want it to be with some random girl but with a gf.
Same, 16 and I've never dated before but I kind of Admire that
There’s too many options today. Before social media you were only gonna meet people through coworkers, friends, family, or you met out somewhere. Today you complete with every single person in town.
the only options these people on social media have are catfishers, trolls, and spammers. i use instagram, but only to keep in contact with my friends and families.
People in social media are just giant babies going back and forth saying how one gender is toxic than the other, even though both genders are like that…
Men and women are both equally toxic, I agree. But when it comes to modern dating its obviously women that are contributing more to the problem, everybody knows that 😂 nowadays if its cold outside and you shiver, girls will get the ick 🤣 y'all need to get off tick tock, thats the problem. Men are contributing to alot of other societal problems, but their approach to dating hasn't changed. But for women it has. I work with a bunch of old ladies and even a couple of hours ago they were telling me that the young girls behavior nowadays is so strange. Even they don't understand whats going on 😂
I met my current bf on a dating app, as cringey as it is to admit that to people, I was originally looking for more people my age in my area who play music like I do, and when I met my current bf, we hit it off and had music but like SO much more in common, and I actually set the boundary of just staying friends for a while, and where :) best friends. He’s a wonderful person, and I love my bf, eventually after being friends for many months, we took the relationship to an official dating level, while we where still friend, he still took me on dates and we did stuff together, but he never pestered me to change the arrangement, he’s always been there for me! So I consider myself one of the few lucky ones, to actually have found a great match, and a loving healthy committed relationship :3 I think a lot of people struggling in the dating scene could make more progress if all parties where more honest about what they where looking for and what they are comfortable with!
And THAT is the reason why I don't talk to people...
yk, Back in my day. Gender wars as a kid was fun and we all got to compete in a game of dodge with buys vs girls who would win? (the girls mostly won so sad for me.) then when we grew up, it stopped. idk what these ppl are fighting about
Same as any internet fight. Attention and the privilege to claim you've "won"
Same but the boys shitted on the girls it wasn’t fair so they stopped doing that
I had 4 gfs, fat more than people only a few years younger than me. Dating is just about building the other up. Now everyone wants finished product, without no investment. Nothing works that way except fucking products you buy in an eshop.
That’s the thing . No one wants to weather the storm and build . It takes time and it’s a process
But you had 4 gfs, I am not sure I trust you on how to build up someone else. It is easy to get into a short term relationship.
@@sheeplord4976 All of them lasted 1-4 years though.
@@sheeplord4976 I am a bit older, the profile pic itself is almost 10 years old lol.
Ick list number 757: "don't have fun"
(You can see if you pause)
I'm a man with a developmental disabilities. I am mentally challenged I have been labeled as a problem no matter how hard I try not to be. I get labeled as making excuses, being intentionally harmful and the list goes on. It got so bad I emotionally snapped and so fk this. I deleted all my social media so I could finally have peace.
Damn, I feel bad for you man, hope you do well
Deleted Instagram and honestly life is much more peaceful and less superficial nonsense. As someone with high functioning Autism I get you brother
I like that burdie is moving the wings more keep it pushing
Ngl, I've used to be open minded about a relationship like 5 years ago, but now in my 30's, I prefer my peace and quiet I've had this whole time.
Im focused on enjoying myself, my hobbies and my family to spend time with them while I can.
Stay safe bros and remember to take care about thyself. 💪
Social media is made to "connect" people, even though at the end it makes them disconnect.
Don’t worry, I ain’t got no bitches either and I fucking jam out to FNAF songs
Amen brother
An individual of culture, I see.
Now that’s a vibe!
Culture, a man of culture
real mf
Thanks man for the vid I realy needed someone to say this i am kinda in a low point or something and you gave me a refreshed view of relations I had some really toxic girls around me recently
Keep on playing clash man. Women aint worth it right now
@@IluvOppForThis is what Burdie was talking about. Cut the crap and stop blaming the other gender.
I'd like to meet a girl and fall in love. But I'm 32 years old and never even held a girls hand. Pretty sure I'm broken.
That's pretty sad bro
I’m 24 and I know how I feel I don’t think people realize how lonely it is for regular guys
Social media has really made people delusional on how a relationship works. Videos on Tik Tok showing relationships through rose tinted glasses where there are no problems, no hardship and a magical experience. No, relationships take a lot of work, communication, compromise and the occasional clash but it is worth it in the end. People who grew up on social media will now find it difficult to deal with real relationship issues so when it happens they’ll often end up leaving because they don’t know how to handle it.
Before social media, you had to go up to someone you liked and actually talked to them and find out who they are and if you like them. Dating apps has created a lazy and less authentic experience where you don’t have to put effort to create a conversation.
Bro the quality skyrocketed with this one 👍🏾
Noticing the quality went up in animation. His wings actually move now. Keep them coming.
With the couple pranks, icks, and gender wars combined, I don’t think I’m ever gonna achieve my goal of being a father. Gender wars alone are already bringing us back to preschool when we thought the opposite gender had cooties.
What a time to be alive. Our ancestors fought for this 🥲
You ask them out and they tell you they ain't ready to start dating again and then two days later they are dating someone else. This has been my experience like 15 times over the last decade. I just assume I'm not attractive, so I just rot in loneliness.
Why do I see that specific profile picture everywhere
This is why I'm not picky for people I date. The only requirement is that they care about me and that I know them well enough to date them.
And also I don't online date which has probably saved me from a lot of creepy situations.
well done. this is the way.
Im in high school and this has gotten so bad that im afraid to look in any direction where people could be cause they might think im staring at them
Also on the last day of school my English teacher was talking to us in her class and she said "you just have to talk to people" yeah but what if they hate you for one reason and tell there friends not to talk to you for being creepy when you can change but i guess you cant anymore once a creep also a creep apparently
Sorry for the rant
nah bro its not that bad i was in the same situation and i was hella akward but once i got out of my comfort zone and started talking to ppl i realized most people dont care. There are gonna be some jerks but from my personal experience a majority of people hate them as well they just dont talk abt it. so chin up king, its only highschool anyways.
High school has always been hellish for no good reason, as someone who went when people were sane 😂 Just look where you want to and don't give a fuck
Literally you have to walk eggshells just to score 😭 it’s rare to find a normal person
(I’m on social media rn but ignoring that)
This is too real bro. I'm 22 and i'm TIRED..
0:21 OML THAT WALKING CYCLE IS SO CLEAN
You know it's a good day when burdie uploads 🔥
editing skills are getting better every single vid❤
your right
Social media girls be like "iF hE bLInKs iTs aN iCk beCause hE shOUld alwAYs bE looKIng aT mE
Men (& women!) with sense: “Your list of stupid ‘icks’ gives *_ME_* the ick; no wonder you’re still single.”
😂😂
The animation in this video is really great
Yo, I can see that your animation is definitely improved Burdie.
This animation is so SMOOTH
Get burdie to 1 mil 🗣‼️
Yes
BRO never disappoints! Nice vid❤
Hi birdie/tagswag you inspired me to make my own commentary channel thank you 😊👌
If someone thinks the worst rejection possible is just "no" they haven't experienced the worst possible rejection.
The reason for most dating is to fit in. People want to be like celebrities and they think that will make them socially acceptable so they fake it and then it becomes their real personality.
Now a days all people want sex other than actually wanting a relationship with someone, it's sad😮😢
Someone once said: 'Modern girls are afraid of having a baby more than HIV'.
cool vid. but i just find it so cool how high of quality your vids have become
This man is so real u earned my sub
Burdie your editing and animation is super awesome in this video.
This new movement style is nice keep it up
I deleted all my social medias recently and decided to stick to youtube… unless a girl comes into my life and wants to form a meaningful connection with me and give me flowers made of gold… yeah. i’m good for right now.
Icks be like: if your boyfriend breathes to live, it's an ick you should break up immediately 💀
The dating apps used to be great. I’m 48. Zero issues getting dates / laid. I’m fat, broke but I can talk to women. I used to get tons of matches. Now I only get matches in the first 48 hours of install of app. I delete and remake my profile every couple weeks if I want matches. It works. However I’ve been flying solo for about a year. Working on me
I'm 13 and I agree with all these things I just don't understand why people have some weird icks. like I get that having an ick is putting up your standard a lil "like they have to shower" but these girls be having icks that they have like acne is an ick but they might have ance themselves (sorry for how long it is he made a whole video on paragraphs lol)
Being single with this one🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥🥶🥶
Wow i like the more attention given to the animation! Well done
Your content got me through some tough times
Dating is about going out with the people who you love, because of their personality , not love cause of looks and shit, most children don’t understand love isn’t about looks, and shit, gen alpha and gen z don’t understand that sadly,
Looks play a role cause unless you wanna attract folks by wearing a wedding ring or shitting out money your ass is gonna need looks as the actual first impression cause personality can only ever do so much
to me a relationship is a deep meaningful friendship where you have sex, I have around five friends who uplift my soul that I have no intention of sleeping with. that's not to say sex is a means of resolving conflicts and such but looks matter to everyone and they might matter more to you than you realize so just control what you can and make the most net gain progress you can sustainably
Burdie dropping some words of wisdom fr
There will always be someone who fits and pushes a stereotype, and there will always be someone who fits and pushes another stereotype judging that person for being stereotypical. Eventually these stereotypes get recognised less as stereotypes and more as normalisations, until they become normal and what was once normal will be a stereotype.
You get me?
Everyone at this point just hates each other. Everyone. No one can be different from one another.
the animation has gotten so much better
Once you realise that relationships are worthless, life becomes much more enjoyable.
I agree with you.
yeah its over for dating... also the quality has gotten better good job
The animation quality is amazing ngl 🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
Ur animations getting better
The "ick" that impresses me is "have a mother" as if you need to be an orphan. Evidently they want you to be hatched from a celestial egg that floated down to Earth from heaven.
Burdie never fails to say the truth
Burdie is always speaking facts
@@jscmcc glaze
@@MacdaddyMacon ts 3 months ago gng 💀
WE BE SLEEPING ON THE COUCH WITH THIS ONE🔥🔥🗣️🗣️
we're absolutely cooked man
People seem to mistaken infatuation for true love. I personally don’t mess with the dating scene these days, it’s just too much drama and emotional turmoil.
This is why i wanna be single for the rest of my life
yeah, I feel the same, even though I remember my last gf pretty well (but I had to break up not to be her free-of-charge psychologist), I guess it's not that bad to live alone and not give a F to all those "icks", "dating trends" and all that "social" media crap.
@@RooiGevaar19 i feel you
I don’t think you a achally want be single forever at least I think you’ve just given up my interpretation know one wants be single it’s just relashonships and stuff hard
the gender wars are so annoying like “all women are the same” or “men are stupid” like bro what they’re just a different gender than you chill
Rare occasion where someone with a fnf profile picture has a functioning brain stem
😂😂🤣🤣 3:45 bro that’s so accurate because you expect to meet the pretty girl/handsome guy and you meet a creepy old guy.
“He took a breath”
“It’s giving the ick”
“Well darn💀”
The girls who dont even have 1 ick : 👁👄👁
*Frrrrrr*
Who else rlly wants burdie to upload again
nice animation in the start man
ngl its all just online, i have literally never heard anyone talk about it or experience it unironically in person lmfao
Oh it’s there. Just have to interact with them