How can anyone truly belive that looks don't matter. Throughout all of human history ugliness has been seen as a bad thing, and beauty a virtue. Are things suddenly different now because we're "enlightened" in some way? Of course not, in fact I'd argue looks are more important now than ever before, with the rise of social media and dating apps.
Nobody said that looks don't matter at all. But even in ancient Greece and all civilization Beauty with no other skill or depth was considered arrogant and deceptive. And someone who can't stand imperfections at all or people only based on their look was considered a bad thing. Hating and disowning yourself entirely based of rejection or beauty was considered a foolish action cause you always to accept some basic elements of yourself and have some basic respect or self value for yourself. And a society that cared only for looks was considered a hidonistic deceptive dystopia.
Nobody said that looks don't matter at all. But even in ancient Greece and all civilization Beauty with no other skill or depth was considered arrogant and deceptive. And someone who can't stand imperfections at all or people only based on their look was considered a bad thing. Hating and disowning yourself entirely based of rejection or beauty was considered a foolish action cause you always to accept some basic elements of yourself and have some basic respect or self value for yourself. And a society that cared only for looks was considered a hidonistic deceptive dystopia.
Nobody said that looks don't matter at all. But even in ancient Greece and all civilization Beauty with no other skill or depth was considered arrogant and deceptive. And someone who can't stand imperfections at all or people only based on their look was considered a bad thing. Hating and disowning yourself entirely based of rejection or beauty was considered a foolish action cause you always to accept some basic elements of yourself and have some basic respect or self value for yourself. And a society that cared only for looks was considered a hidonistic deceptive dystopia.
Don’t let anyone ever gaslight you into thinking they don’t matter. Also pay close attention to the things people will forgive gl people for, and the seemingly innocuous things bl people will get punished for. Bring it up at your peril, you will encounter denial and more gas lighting though, especially if you yourself are not gl, you will seem “Bitter”, however if you are gl you will seem “Humble”. Take it easy man.
@@fuzbeatboxern5714 that’s a shitty bleach job you can see his natural dirty blonde brownish hair in the before pictures. When you bleach if you done use the toner proper it turns that yellow orangish also can happen from some shampoos. I never dyed mine but dated plenty of chicks who did theirs the same.
It wasn't just women for me. Literally the entire world seemed to start opening their doors for me and strangers were much more likely to be altruistic towards me. I wasn't happy about this one bit...
i went from unattractive to average and i have a similar story. i had an insane overbite and a receding chin, but when i got braces, my jawline fixed and i looked normal. suddenly people considered me trustworthy and acknowledged when before they would belittle me and treat me like a kid. i feel like all looksmaxxing does is make you realize how two-faced humanity can be.
I agree with everything you say. For me it’s the reverse. I was a good looking guy with a neat jawline. But due to my unlucky past with a terrible single mother, I got unhealthy teeth and had to extract some. And if you didn’t know yet, when you extract teeth and don’t replace them with implants, you lose almost of bone over time and your jawline shrinks a lot and you are not as attractive anymore. Since then, not only women, but also guys stopped being as good of friends to me than before. It’s really weird how looks dictate so much socially.
@@rlae3584 Right side of the face on the lower row the last, on the top row the 3. last and on left side, on the top row the 3. last. All in all probably 3. my single mother didn’t really cook much and just bought candy and other stuff, which I ate a lot of henceforth and ofc she didn’t care about my teeth hygiene all that much, so I didn’t know any better as a child. Still to this day I have to avoid sugary stuff, even Tomate sauce, because my teeth are very sensitive now. That I can deal with but the difference in my face shape has taken me a really long time to accept. Hopefully I can afford surgery some time in the future, to rebuild the lost bone in my jaw and be able to smile again properly and speak. Yeah, you also lose the ability to smile properly with the bone loss, it looks kinda forced and weird and also you can’t pronounce words correctly, because of the gaps in your mouth. Living life on a higher difficulty mode than was necessary thanks to mothers neglect I guess. 😅
Get bone drafts and implants brother. I just got them yesterday. I had to extract too teeth from upper left and had to get implants so I doesn't mess up my maxilla because I have good cheekbones. Got two implants for about 300 dollars
This is true but also, hollywood and women being surveyed on the street have gaslit us into thinking looks don't matter for men. I don't blame women for answering the way they do because they probably have somewhere to be, are possibly concerned about slut shaming or harassment from the interviewer, someone she knows irl could see it and not be her friend bc of it but I used to play mental gymnastics for the longest time thinking that looks weren't my problem when they were the biggest problem. That's not to say my personality is flawed or that my social skills can't improve but I saw men around me get more for less.
thats so real, my white but average looking friends get a lot more attention from girls then my better looking ethnic friends for some reason. being white is overpowered
Improving your looks is a game changer and unless you have a genius level IQ, its a must to advance in your career. I wish I knew sooner how important it is for career development. It actually makes sense because everyone you are competing with has a comparable level of education as you and are probably around the same IQ. You know you are in the right path when women become touchy.
Well shit I am doomed, I haven’t even started my career. It’s been setback after setback. Especially at my age where women are looking for…provider/stability. I ain’t got that.
@@Blinkster93 u don't have to provide shit, western women are spoiled, that's why a lot of guys are marrying women from 3rd world countries and bringing them to the US, I recommend doing that
Finally someone that understands me. I was fat when I was a little kid, but I lost a lot of weight when I started high school. Tbh, my appearance changed drastically, and so the girls attitude towards me. When I was ugly they saw me as an enemy but changing my appearance alone made them respect and admire me. This sudden change in women's attitude towards me made me lose the little respect that I had for women. Many women are really simple and narrow, they only care if you look good or not. If you don't suit their taste, then you are a joke to them. But unfortunately, explaining this to other guys feels impossible. It looks like you need to have this specific experience in order to see women's true nature. And then you wouldn't respect them anymore.
Online and cold approach yes amongst non strangers no. Women generally have higher standards for people they do not know well which is typically about 2 points higher than the standard for say a friend of a friend. You gotta get into the weeds of how the psychology actually works to understand how a mid guy will be with a pretty girl that thinks he is awesome while simultaneously only 8’s succeed online on average
I noticed the same with me. I’m a naturally assertive masculine man. I’m 165cm and was weighing 200lbs. I dropped my weight to 135lbs and now I notice woman will size me up all the while violating my personal space. It’s like they’re curious about what a little guy can do to them. 😂😂😂😂
@@Halo4beatsB02 135lbs is my natural weight, after a bad breakup 8 years ago I was drinking heavily and eating poor quality foods. Wasn’t looking to good then I got tired of looking bad so I exercised, ate clean, and lost the weight.
When you work in an environment with a high amount of women, they pretty much gossip about hot guys they've met. I always overhear them saying is he tall, is he hot, can I see what he looks like, etc. Almost never do I hear them ask what does he do for a living. Edit: i also hear women make jokes about a man's height.
I’ve literally seen middle school girls ball out in tears to having her boyfriend get a “bad” haircut and all her friends coddling her and empathizing 😂 Nothing changes for the rest of their life
I am a good looking dude. Good facial characteristics, good hair genetics, 6'1'' and naturally big. I spent many years being obese (though did make sure to build muscle after a point), some overweight, some slightly overweight and now I am almost shredded with quite a bit of muscle. So, I have been in different modes over the years. The difference in how women treat me now vs back then is astonishing. Going from kind of average to jacked has made even more of a difference than going from obese to normal. The men of course treat you differently too. You get respect, admiration and sometimes hate because you make them feel insecure and they know they cannot compete. Attention from women skyrockets once you get an even remotely decent physique, unless you are really ugly. I cannot believe that it is 2024 and we still need to debate the importance of looks. Your appearance is largely what will determine actual attraction. A woman can choose to be with man if he ticks certain boxes like money, status, humour etc but those things do not cause raw, animalistic attraction and she will never give you 100%, especially in bed. A woman being with a man and really being attracted to the man are two very different things. There are way too many sexless relationships out there that prove this.
If you never change you won´t believe nothing about this vid and still thinkin money is all. Is not about being a Chad, is about look better than the average/invisible/weak/dirty men around. I start my LOOKSMAXXIN journey (unconsciously at the begginin)l at 47yo, and the results are so good, that I been keeping in good shape till my 52yo. I don´t get Stacies (I am consious I still a Sub5), but sometimes stranger women approach me, they pay for the datin and of course, I get extra bodycount when I think everything is over due to my age. That would never have happened if I had stayed a fat, unstylish guy. JUST DO IT!
Yep, Looking above average is enough to slay. People just don't realize that chads aren't common and they are not your competition.You probably won't get Stacie's but it's enough to win in life
I can relate to this very much. I lost a ton of body fat these past few months, and women treated me differently right away. I think it's because I have JBW and good facial genetics. I also wear fake color contacts and 3 inch shoe lifts (now I'm over 6ft) It kinda made me depressed witnessing firsthand how superficial people can be :(
@@riccardodiluca6862Man, don’t treat a woman badly just because she’s unattractive. We’re talking about how people treat each other. Women do it based on how a guy looks this is the difference.
The thing is, when we as a society say that it's bad to not find someone attractive because they're unattractive. Then in order to feel like they're not a bad person, people will justify that by saying "oh I don't find them attractive because I dislike them as a person" even though they have made up reasons to dislike them as a person rather than saying "I don't find them attractive because they're not attractive". It's not shallow to want there to be an element of physical attraction. It's shallow to only want that. It's just an inescapable aspect of our biology, we are hard wired to find certain things physically attractive and to pursue that. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. If people were more willing to accept that fact as a whole, then people would be more willing to treat people that they find ugly with some basic level of respect and decency. This was much less of a problem in the past when obesity and unhealthy diets were very rare. It was hard to find someone who was objectively unattractive even 30 or 40 years ago. The funny thing is, women are more susceptible to this problem because women are more likely to be agreeable. This is one of the downsides of that. They care so much about being a good person that people like, that they will lie to themselves in order to feel like a good person that people will like. I know that seems counter-intuitive. But it makes sense when you think about the fact that they need to believe that they're a good person, so they will convince themselves of things in order to justify something about themselves to themselves. When we as a society have decided that being realistic about whether people are physically attractive or not is a bad thing, people who want to see themselves as good people will lie to themselves about people and treat them accordingly in order to feel as though they are still good people. When morals are twisted and based on idealism rather than reality, this is what happens. This is why morals shouldn't be based on how you want the world to be, they should be based on how the world is.
I'm assuming you did this: 1. healthy lifestyle 2. get to low body fat % 3. New haircut 4. Clean shaven for youthful look 5. Thickened your neck 6. Changed your style for the better. 7. Dyed hair and thickened and dyed eyebrows? I'm gonna personally hop on fin, gym for frame & lower bodyfat, whiten teeth, and keep healthy lifestyle to get health markers up. Please tell me what you did for your eyebags? Mine are pretty wild sometimes Anyway good job it looks like you went from 28 to 17 :D
are you still living in thailand? it should probably be mentioned for context so guys dont expect to get the same attention in the west by looking like you do.
That would definitely explain the thousands of likes. In Canada and the US, women are so picky that it doesn't matter if you're good looking and tall, you're still not getting anywhere near that many matches. You can still get good success if you really commit to it and work on your physique and overall looks but it's a lot of effort and it takes a lot of time so it basically becomes like a part time job to try to get dates.
This guy’s eyes literally separated 😂 anyways, I used to be skinny my whole life, but then I started buffing up with weights. Everyone always comments on my appearance now. I getting annoyed by it.
Just wanted to comment that you're really good at speaking to your audience as if you were having a live 1-on-1 conversation with them. At 5:46 when you said, "Does that make sense?" I automatically said, "Yeah." I'm one of those people who used to view videos as background noise but am making a conscious effort to watch mindfully, and it felt like you were talking to me directly. Eye contact, hand gestures, body language. Impressive because I've tried speaking to a camera before, and it was hard not to feel awkward. Kudos to you!
I went through the same transition (working out and losing weight). Agree with everything 100%. One additional thing I'll add is that when I went out with an "uglier" (according to him... and I guess others...) friend, the women were ruder to both of us. In one case, the girl straight up pretended to not hear me when I was with the "ugly" friend. I wasn't even mad, I was straight up confused... like is this chick deaf or something?
You definitely ascended, but there is so much more you can do to improve your looks further. I hope you don't stop at your current form and you consider surgeries, and other things
I improved my looks drastically and now women/people in general treat me better.. But, I still not good looking enough for sex/dating. I can feel the rope getting tighter around my neck every passing day..
04:46 Edvasian has it so fucking wrong. People improving their looks don't hate average looking people, people improving their looks were hated by the outside world for being average or below average looking.
I didn't go through this looksmaxing per say, I wouldn't called that way. But I definitely transformed my looks going from 110kg guy to a 80kg muscular one in almost 2 years. I can 100% agree what he says. I've gone through exact same transformation when it comes to woman and their behaviour towards. I already had same thoughts he's describing in video, I just randomly came across this video and confirmed what I already believe. I knew it wouldn't be only be seeing these patterns
imagine if a girl went from being a plank w a flat ass or fat. To being curvy with small waist and natural DD's. Would you treat her better? probably... That's the difference women see when males improve looks from dougy/fat to being lean and muscular with a nice styling
Sometimes this eye contact happens with me and start to talk with no reason, even though im not even in 10% body fat, im like 30% trying to improve it, bur like, i dont look like a nerd or something like that, some people that doesnt know me, saied to me that they thought i was "agressive and angry, and they didnt even talked to me
yea bro i'm gonna say it this thing made me hate women , even i get attantion from time to time , i went from obese to average and sometimes fit and even i saw the difference in the way people treat me and specially women and i'm not attractive at all still a lot of improvement to make specially in my face and hair because i can have a decent body when i pay attention ( i don't do it always because it's a lot of work ) , and the difference is huge , makes me think about the quotes of schopenhauer on women and he was spot on.
@@MarioMario-vy4bi shows how superficial and evil they actually are , while being like this they virtue signal others , peak evil on top of being undeserving of the stuff they have.
So you put in all that energy to looksmax plus maintaining it just to attract a bunch of fake people; ultimately blackpilling yourself even harder. Well if you think it was worth it.
There is a point, once you cross it, you go from little to no women interested in you to almost all women interested in you. However, I have to say although I have been fit but skinny my whole life, that A LOT more women were into me when I had a bloated face, no haircut and a neckbeard, because I had an indisturbable quiet stoic confidence and an unhinged, carefree charisma. When my mental health suffered for a few years because of exes stalking me, I really noticed a downturn in attention despite me mogging my younger self in every aspect.
i dont think he'll revert even if he does play again its not that hard to maintain, look at old vids of thelazypeon he was also a classic fat gamer but ascended, and still makes mmorpg vids
Rarely talk about money with women you’re dating bro, at best just say we can’t always be going out and buying shit… or being up saving money if u notice she spends abit. Gotta be upfront overtime, first 3 weeks can be rough. We’re always doing the fxkkng work, while they sit there and think there doing a lot. But I assure you good women exist
Even at 300 lbs I was still generally considered attractive by most girls (at least with a shirt on). I was built more like a tight end than a discord mod and I’m pretty tall and despite being 300 lbs I had relatively small waist. I looked pretty good: Full thick head of hair, strong cheek bones, full and forward cheeks, strong chin and jaw despite the fat, thick eyebrows, strong eye area, very nice skin. Now being much much less heavy I feel I’m even more attractive and healthier. Like a bonus on a bonus. So I kinda get what you’re saying.
Hey I have a question but right now I’m 15 years old and I have a diamond face shape but I do some soft features. Almost looking like a roundest face shape but not fully. Will my face shape grow more shaper and more developed as I order or will I need to get plastic surgery in order to change my to face and jawline to get a more chiseled look
you never have to get plastic surgery as long as u are not disfigured. just continue breathing through your nose 24/7 (extremely important) and the babyfat in your fat will go away as you mature and later on cut your bodyfat lower. but for now focus on growing.
Yes your face will still develop, but one thing that is more important than anything is sleeping on your back. trust me learn from my mistakes and you will have a symetrical face
ok fine, rude girls now want to talk to you, fine. Bro trust me, not sure i'd like to talk with a neglected girl myself... So can we hate them for rejecting a bad look, bad hygiene dude? Anyway, explain me now, will it help you to find the woman of your life, or just childish women to hit?
I 100% agree with you on this im suffering this atm about my looks im quite skinny now but tbh no girls have changed have not changed how they treat me yet.... but my face is pretty chubby even though i've lost weight but i'm hoping i can change my face even more the more weight i lose. but im like 13stone 8 atm and i'd say get 17-18% bodyfat. honestly considering get fillers in my face to see how my face would look with a chin augmentation. i'd say im 4.5/.10 and i'd love to go to 6/10
Im a nosepicker its my own fault, women stopped fucking their noses up by stopping nose picking in the 90s, thats why you rarely get a woman with stretched out nostrils
Women approach YOU first at times??!! Alright, I'm sold on the power of looksmaxxing. I will never bother trying to pursue anyone again. If I ever achieve a great look, I'll just let them come to me 😊
That hair color is very draining for your skin tone - it washes you out. It also needs more shape, Book yourself in with a proper hairstylist. That bright red is too much of a contrast when you don’t have a tan. A tan and an analysis of Colours that suit you- that red is a no-no. Small changes would bring you up so much (even higher than already)! . Cool video. 👍
look is important but not as mutch for guys if you are at least 5,9 or 175 cm and fit without acne with charisma then you are good to go women find good looking guys who can bring them emotion and make then laught (im a 6ft guy with 6pack but broke as fuc*)
I'd like to improvemy looks significantly but it feels like so much work, and it may not be enough if you are not very tall anyway and you are already in your 30s. I guess porn is the way until I fall dead in my apartment or something.
2:22 but even as a fat dude, your face was pretty chiseled, we even could see your chin definition clearly, and there were a lil bit of shadows below your cheekbones beside your lips/nose tip area. And you pretty much didn't have a double chin, so you prolly already have a really nice base under those fats, you had it way better above the avg man. You were just fat. You weren't fat and ugly. Almost all your glow up could be credited to losing weight alone
it's strange your body is not that lean, but your face is very lean. Im the other way, lean body, moon face. I have to get 8% bodyfat to even get sunk in cheeks
How can anyone truly belive that looks don't matter. Throughout all of human history ugliness has been seen as a bad thing, and beauty a virtue. Are things suddenly different now because we're "enlightened" in some way? Of course not, in fact I'd argue looks are more important now than ever before, with the rise of social media and dating apps.
Nobody said that looks don't matter at all. But even in ancient Greece and all civilization Beauty with no other skill or depth was considered arrogant and deceptive. And someone who can't stand imperfections at all or people only based on their look was considered a bad thing. Hating and disowning yourself entirely based of rejection or beauty was considered a foolish action cause you always to accept some basic elements of yourself and have some basic respect or self value for yourself. And a society that cared only for looks was considered a hidonistic deceptive dystopia.
Nobody said that looks don't matter at all. But even in ancient Greece and all civilization Beauty with no other skill or depth was considered arrogant and deceptive. And someone who can't stand imperfections at all or people only based on their look was considered a bad thing. Hating and disowning yourself entirely based of rejection or beauty was considered a foolish action cause you always to accept some basic elements of yourself and have some basic respect or self value for yourself. And a society that cared only for looks was considered a hidonistic deceptive dystopia.
Nobody said that looks don't matter at all. But even in ancient Greece and all civilization Beauty with no other skill or depth was considered arrogant and deceptive. And someone who can't stand imperfections at all or people only based on their look was considered a bad thing. Hating and disowning yourself entirely based of rejection or beauty was considered a foolish action cause you always to accept some basic elements of yourself and have some basic respect or self value for yourself. And a society that cared only for looks was considered a hidonistic deceptive dystopia.
People can’t accept that humans aren’t paragons of goodness that descended from heavens
Don’t let anyone ever gaslight you into thinking they don’t matter.
Also pay close attention to the things people will forgive gl people for, and the seemingly innocuous things bl people will get punished for.
Bring it up at your peril, you will encounter denial and more gas lighting though, especially if you yourself are not gl, you will seem “Bitter”, however if you are gl you will seem “Humble”.
Take it easy man.
The yellow hair ain’t doing you favors. But otherwise I support the journey.
I'm pretty sure it's called blonde hair not yellow hair. And it's probably his natural hair anyways
Look at his eyebrows@@fuzbeatboxern5714
That sht is yellow looking mate.
If it was less vibrant he'd look even better.@@fuzbeatboxern5714
Makes him look like a Silky Chicken
@@fuzbeatboxern5714 that’s a shitty bleach job you can see his natural dirty blonde brownish hair in the before pictures. When you bleach if you done use the toner proper it turns that yellow orangish also can happen from some shampoos. I never dyed mine but dated plenty of chicks who did theirs the same.
It wasn't just women for me.
Literally the entire world seemed to start opening their doors for me and strangers were much more likely to be altruistic towards me.
I wasn't happy about this one bit...
i went from unattractive to average and i have a similar story. i had an insane overbite and a receding chin, but when i got braces, my jawline fixed and i looked normal. suddenly people considered me trustworthy and acknowledged when before they would belittle me and treat me like a kid.
i feel like all looksmaxxing does is make you realize how two-faced humanity can be.
I agree with everything you say. For me it’s the reverse. I was a good looking guy with a neat jawline. But due to my unlucky past with a terrible single mother, I got unhealthy teeth and had to extract some. And if you didn’t know yet, when you extract teeth and don’t replace them with implants, you lose almost of bone over time and your jawline shrinks a lot and you are not as attractive anymore. Since then, not only women, but also guys stopped being as good of friends to me than before. It’s really weird how looks dictate so much socially.
which teeth did you get extracted?
@@rlae3584which one?
@@rlae3584 Right side of the face on the lower row the last, on the top row the 3. last and on left side, on the top row the 3. last. All in all probably 3. my single mother didn’t really cook much and just bought candy and other stuff, which I ate a lot of henceforth and ofc she didn’t care about my teeth hygiene all that much, so I didn’t know any better as a child. Still to this day I have to avoid sugary stuff, even Tomate sauce, because my teeth are very sensitive now. That I can deal with but the difference in my face shape has taken me a really long time to accept. Hopefully I can afford surgery some time in the future, to rebuild the lost bone in my jaw and be able to smile again properly and speak. Yeah, you also lose the ability to smile properly with the bone loss, it looks kinda forced and weird and also you can’t pronounce words correctly, because of the gaps in your mouth. Living life on a higher difficulty mode than was necessary thanks to mothers neglect I guess. 😅
Get bone drafts and implants brother. I just got them yesterday. I had to extract too teeth from upper left and had to get implants so I doesn't mess up my maxilla because I have good cheekbones. Got two implants for about 300 dollars
u mustve lost a lot of teeth for that too happen. ive had 2 tooth pulled and 20 years later it hasnt changed my jawline
The same thing happens with the fat girl becomes skinny/fit all the guys who’s didn’t notice her start to make a move
😕
yeah but it's still far easier for fat chicks than for fat guys
This is true but also, hollywood and women being surveyed on the street have gaslit us into thinking looks don't matter for men. I don't blame women for answering the way they do because they probably have somewhere to be, are possibly concerned about slut shaming or harassment from the interviewer, someone she knows irl could see it and not be her friend bc of it but I used to play mental gymnastics for the longest time thinking that looks weren't my problem when they were the biggest problem. That's not to say my personality is flawed or that my social skills can't improve but I saw men around me get more for less.
All else being equal women have 10x-100x more options than men do. Dating is entirely leveraged in their favor both culturally and legally
infinite smv vs Infinite smv
+JBW phenotype = unstoppable
thats so real, my white but average looking friends get a lot more attention from girls then my better looking ethnic friends for some reason. being white is overpowered
@@dre583 Its truly OP lol. brutal to know there isnt phenotype maxxing for ethnics.
@@dre583 Why do so many powdercels exist then?
Jbw is exaggerated cope.
Most people are white JBW is cope
Improving your looks is a game changer and unless you have a genius level IQ, its a must to advance in your career. I wish I knew sooner how important it is for career development. It actually makes sense because everyone you are competing with has a comparable level of education as you and are probably around the same IQ.
You know you are in the right path when women become touchy.
Well shit I am doomed, I haven’t even started my career. It’s been setback after setback. Especially at my age where women are looking for…provider/stability. I ain’t got that.
@@Blinkster93 u don't have to provide shit, western women are spoiled, that's why a lot of guys are marrying women from 3rd world countries and bringing them to the US, I recommend doing that
Finally someone that understands me. I was fat when I was a little kid, but I lost a lot of weight when I started high school. Tbh, my appearance changed drastically, and so the girls attitude towards me. When I was ugly they saw me as an enemy but changing my appearance alone made them respect and admire me. This sudden change in women's attitude towards me made me lose the little respect that I had for women. Many women are really simple and narrow, they only care if you look good or not. If you don't suit their taste, then you are a joke to them. But unfortunately, explaining this to other guys feels impossible. It looks like you need to have this specific experience in order to see women's true nature. And then you wouldn't respect them anymore.
I don't get it. You believe they should have found you attractive when you were a gluttonous kid.
No matter how much I starve myself, watch my diet and grooming, I am not considered human.
Because its all down to having good genetics. I see many attractive people abusing their health but still look great.
Don’t starve yourself, eat healthy. Frail is not a good look
"Looksmaxxing community hates average looking people" No, no we dont. The majority of women do, we just adapt🙃
Online and cold approach yes amongst non strangers no. Women generally have higher standards for people they do not know well which is typically about 2 points higher than the standard for say a friend of a friend. You gotta get into the weeds of how the psychology actually works to understand how a mid guy will be with a pretty girl that thinks he is awesome while simultaneously only 8’s succeed online on average
@@badart3204 Yes. "Social proof" is very important.
@@CaptJackAubreyOfTheRoyalNavy Just be neurotypical, bro! Just time travel back to school and get a social circle, bro!
There's some that do, but they're a minority of looksmaxxers that are waaaay too into it.
Bro looksmaxxing community really hates average looking i guy I have seen this in all over discord
I noticed the same with me. I’m a naturally assertive masculine man. I’m 165cm and was weighing 200lbs. I dropped my weight to 135lbs and now I notice woman will size me up all the while violating my personal space. It’s like they’re curious about what a little guy can do to them. 😂😂😂😂
Interesting
Getting to 135 weight improved your looks drastically?
@@Halo4beatsB02 135lbs is my natural weight, after a bad breakup 8 years ago I was drinking heavily and eating poor quality foods. Wasn’t looking to good then I got tired of looking bad so I exercised, ate clean, and lost the weight.
>165 cm
My condolences, truely. Life is not fair!
Chicks quickly change minds...
I notice that im getting glances when i stroll on public because im fit and look way way better compared to when im overweight
Are they good glances?
You're hallucinating.
When you work in an environment with a high amount of women, they pretty much gossip about hot guys they've met. I always overhear them saying is he tall, is he hot, can I see what he looks like, etc. Almost never do I hear them ask what does he do for a living. Edit: i also hear women make jokes about a man's height.
I’ve literally seen middle school girls ball out in tears to having her boyfriend get a “bad” haircut and all her friends coddling her and empathizing 😂
Nothing changes for the rest of their life
I am a good looking dude. Good facial characteristics, good hair genetics, 6'1'' and naturally big. I spent many years being obese (though did make sure to build muscle after a point), some overweight, some slightly overweight and now I am almost shredded with quite a bit of muscle. So, I have been in different modes over the years. The difference in how women treat me now vs back then is astonishing. Going from kind of average to jacked has made even more of a difference than going from obese to normal. The men of course treat you differently too. You get respect, admiration and sometimes hate because you make them feel insecure and they know they cannot compete. Attention from women skyrockets once you get an even remotely decent physique, unless you are really ugly. I cannot believe that it is 2024 and we still need to debate the importance of looks. Your appearance is largely what will determine actual attraction. A woman can choose to be with man if he ticks certain boxes like money, status, humour etc but those things do not cause raw, animalistic attraction and she will never give you 100%, especially in bed. A woman being with a man and really being attracted to the man are two very different things. There are way too many sexless relationships out there that prove this.
If you never change you won´t believe nothing about this vid and still thinkin money is all. Is not about being a Chad, is about look better than the average/invisible/weak/dirty men around. I start my LOOKSMAXXIN journey (unconsciously at the begginin)l at 47yo, and the results are so good, that I been keeping in good shape till my 52yo. I don´t get Stacies (I am consious I still a Sub5), but sometimes stranger women approach me, they pay for the datin and of course, I get extra bodycount when I think everything is over due to my age. That would never have happened if I had stayed a fat, unstylish guy. JUST DO IT!
What about having kids ?
@@darkvader8963 ...Ask biology about that
@@darkvader8963 no kids for your face
Yep, Looking above average is enough to slay. People just don't realize that chads aren't common and they are not your competition.You probably won't get Stacie's but it's enough to win in life
You sub 5? Must be smoking bro you def above average. In your age group basically a chad
I can relate to this very much. I lost a ton of body fat these past few months, and women treated me differently right away. I think it's because I have JBW and good facial genetics. I also wear fake color contacts and 3 inch shoe lifts (now I'm over 6ft) It kinda made me depressed witnessing firsthand how superficial people can be :(
Its nature. Its normal. You are also attracted to pretty girls, right?
@@riccardodiluca6862Man, don’t treat a woman badly just because she’s unattractive. We’re talking about how people treat each other. Women do it based on how a guy looks this is the difference.
@@bakdadiadi9153 I dont
How do you get the colored contacts
The thing is, when we as a society say that it's bad to not find someone attractive because they're unattractive. Then in order to feel like they're not a bad person, people will justify that by saying "oh I don't find them attractive because I dislike them as a person" even though they have made up reasons to dislike them as a person rather than saying "I don't find them attractive because they're not attractive". It's not shallow to want there to be an element of physical attraction. It's shallow to only want that. It's just an inescapable aspect of our biology, we are hard wired to find certain things physically attractive and to pursue that. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. If people were more willing to accept that fact as a whole, then people would be more willing to treat people that they find ugly with some basic level of respect and decency. This was much less of a problem in the past when obesity and unhealthy diets were very rare. It was hard to find someone who was objectively unattractive even 30 or 40 years ago.
The funny thing is, women are more susceptible to this problem because women are more likely to be agreeable. This is one of the downsides of that. They care so much about being a good person that people like, that they will lie to themselves in order to feel like a good person that people will like. I know that seems counter-intuitive. But it makes sense when you think about the fact that they need to believe that they're a good person, so they will convince themselves of things in order to justify something about themselves to themselves. When we as a society have decided that being realistic about whether people are physically attractive or not is a bad thing, people who want to see themselves as good people will lie to themselves about people and treat them accordingly in order to feel as though they are still good people. When morals are twisted and based on idealism rather than reality, this is what happens. This is why morals shouldn't be based on how you want the world to be, they should be based on how the world is.
I’m kind of overweight and have an unflattering buzz cut right now, it’s crazy how you just feel that anger/disgust emanating from people haha.
Congrats sir. You have one of the level up in looks I seen
been watchin you since zero waiting. good shit brother!
I had jaw implant surgery (to get that Brad Pitt look). And people DEFINITELY interact with me better. Expensive but worth it.
How much did it cost, roughly? How long did it take to heal?
@@christopherandrews9232 Usually around 6 - 8k USD
I dont believe you 😂
sucks yall fellas feel inclined to pay for cosmetic surgery so people will like you more
@@H41030v3rki110ny0u It's paying to make the game of life a bit easier. I definitely do not blame them.
I'm assuming you did this:
1. healthy lifestyle
2. get to low body fat %
3. New haircut
4. Clean shaven for youthful look
5. Thickened your neck
6. Changed your style for the better.
7. Dyed hair and thickened and dyed eyebrows?
I'm gonna personally hop on fin, gym for frame & lower bodyfat, whiten teeth, and keep healthy lifestyle to get health markers up.
Please tell me what you did for your eyebags? Mine are pretty wild sometimes
Anyway good job it looks like you went from 28 to 17 :D
I think stubble is better for guys over25 even with good jaw
@@rafaelamorim3527I think you need to worry about you, everybody should be original and go with what style they like.
@@neox9369 i already do that , shut up
@@neox9369 blablabla
keep in mind, fina can wreck your hormones and make sex drive less, as well as depression. If that happens you probably have to hop on test aswell.
are you still living in thailand? it should probably be mentioned for context so guys dont expect to get the same attention in the west by looking like you do.
This is a thing
haha fake blonde guy geomaxxing.
That would definitely explain the thousands of likes. In Canada and the US, women are so picky that it doesn't matter if you're good looking and tall, you're still not getting anywhere near that many matches.
You can still get good success if you really commit to it and work on your physique and overall looks but it's a lot of effort and it takes a lot of time so it basically becomes like a part time job to try to get dates.
lol if he is this video is a scam
You are encouraging rasce mixxxing
Whyte people going abroad is a disaster for the futur
Stay at home and breed your cousin or smth
I think for the vast majority of guys its really that simple
I mean of course people will treat you better if you look good. It's simple logic clear as day
You should try to paint ur hair black, the contrast between blue eyes and dark eyes, is amazing, might suit you
not black it looks unnatural or emo. and only a teenager gets away with emo look. Dark brown is the way to go.
@@PlebiteBaller no.
This guy’s eyes literally separated 😂 anyways, I used to be skinny my whole life, but then I started buffing up with weights. Everyone always comments on my appearance now. I getting annoyed by it.
Just wanted to comment that you're really good at speaking to your audience as if you were having a live 1-on-1 conversation with them. At 5:46 when you said, "Does that make sense?" I automatically said, "Yeah." I'm one of those people who used to view videos as background noise but am making a conscious effort to watch mindfully, and it felt like you were talking to me directly. Eye contact, hand gestures, body language. Impressive because I've tried speaking to a camera before, and it was hard not to feel awkward. Kudos to you!
I went through the same transition (working out and losing weight). Agree with everything 100%.
One additional thing I'll add is that when I went out with an "uglier" (according to him... and I guess others...) friend, the women were ruder to both of us. In one case, the girl straight up pretended to not hear me when I was with the "ugly" friend. I wasn't even mad, I was straight up confused... like is this chick deaf or something?
Any woman who mistreats an ugly shouldn't be given a chance by the hot guy. SOLIDARITY
No such thing as solidarity between men. Only mog or get mogged.
Innerlightmaxxed
You definitely ascended, but there is so much more you can do to improve your looks further. I hope you don't stop at your current form and you consider surgeries, and other things
I noticed that when i was bulking instead of that i got fat with a belly, and women really started hating on me.
Yeah you are right thats just reality. Great video!
I improved my looks drastically and now women/people in general treat me better.. But, I still not good looking enough for sex/dating.
I can feel the rope getting tighter around my neck every passing day..
Whoah whoah whoah Bro, what do you mean by that?
Still you gotta work on game and charisma,dressing style,masculine frame
@@Sharan-y9p LMAO
@@Satancel just hold frame bro
@@pingeee Maybe I need to take more showers and lift heavy weights to improoooveee
Fire video bro, great breakdown 💯
04:46 Edvasian has it so fucking wrong. People improving their looks don't hate average looking people, people improving their looks were hated by the outside world for being average or below average looking.
Gays and other lefties in general barely ever understand our struggles why we do the things we do to impress women
@@inthisone4yaThey live in denial, and have been brainwashed.
great improvement bro
I didn't go through this looksmaxing per say, I wouldn't called that way. But I definitely transformed my looks going from 110kg guy to a 80kg muscular one in almost 2 years.
I can 100% agree what he says. I've gone through exact same transformation when it comes to woman and their behaviour towards.
I already had same thoughts he's describing in video, I just randomly came across this video and confirmed what I already believe. I knew it wouldn't be only be seeing these patterns
imagine if a girl went from being a plank w a flat ass or fat. To being curvy with small waist and natural DD's. Would you treat her better? probably...
That's the difference women see when males improve looks from dougy/fat to being lean and muscular with a nice styling
Double Ds are overrated.
Settling when phat and ugh lee will cause self-loathing. These guys tolerate girls they barely like and drive themselves crazy
Sometimes this eye contact happens with me and start to talk with no reason, even though im not even in 10% body fat, im like 30% trying to improve it, bur like, i dont look like a nerd or something like that, some people that doesnt know me, saied to me that they thought i was "agressive and angry, and they didnt even talked to me
Really good discussion. Absolutely ghastly boxing technique
They only care about looks
The hair is wild
yea bro i'm gonna say it this thing made me hate women , even i get attantion from time to time , i went from obese to average and sometimes fit and even i saw the difference in the way people treat me and specially women and i'm not attractive at all still a lot of improvement to make specially in my face and hair because i can have a decent body when i pay attention ( i don't do it always because it's a lot of work ) , and the difference is huge , makes me think about the quotes of schopenhauer on women and he was spot on.
no matter how I look, they treat me bad. Oh, cus I am short asian in EU
they always associate me with watermelon seller...
LUL
@@322-Dota2 feel sincerely sorry for you bro really......
@@322-Dota2Get some shoe lifts, nice haircut, dress well, be fit and lean, skincaremaxx and so on
Why does this make you hate women?
@@MarioMario-vy4bi shows how superficial and evil they actually are , while being like this they virtue signal others , peak evil on top of being undeserving of the stuff they have.
So a neck training video, you've clearly grown your neck a lot
Bro finally found his inner light
Based Sunbro, Praise the Sun!
So you put in all that energy to looksmax plus maintaining it just to attract a bunch of fake people; ultimately blackpilling yourself even harder. Well if you think it was worth it.
The realest channel out there! I appreciate the honest content.
There is a point, once you cross it, you go from little to no women interested in you to almost all women interested in you. However, I have to say although I have been fit but skinny my whole life, that A LOT more women were into me when I had a bloated face, no haircut and a neckbeard, because I had an indisturbable quiet stoic confidence and an unhinged, carefree charisma. When my mental health suffered for a few years because of exes stalking me, I really noticed a downturn in attention despite me mogging my younger self in every aspect.
You still get more girls if you can looksmaxx to chad than being overweight
@@Halo4beatsB02he said bloated face not fat
LMAO
I noticed the same thing when I lost a bunch of weight. Unfortunately I'm short and bald so I went from a 2/10 to a 4/10 😂
How did you thicken your neck. W transformation! 💎
Shrugs,neck curl & extension,Lateral neck flexion
Did you have to quit wow in order to make this transformation? If you started back playing wow would you backslide into your previous look?
i dont think he'll revert even if he does play again its not that hard to maintain, look at old vids of thelazypeon he was also a classic fat gamer but ascended, and still makes mmorpg vids
dye your hair dark brown bro itll suit your brows and eye colour a lot better
On another view to look better is to offer pleasure, the dislike of undesirableness is sensual, alas, so no harm no foul.
they have broken my soul and take my hope.i thought people could be better than their base desires. Nature is born in blood, and I am obselete.
so men have to make money AND look good, while women only have to look good. complete BS
Rarely talk about money with women you’re dating bro, at best just say we can’t always be going out and buying shit… or being up saving money if u notice she spends abit.
Gotta be upfront overtime, first 3 weeks can be rough. We’re always doing the fxkkng work, while they sit there and think there doing a lot. But I assure you good women exist
Bro pleaee talk about mewing. We want to know your opinion on it and if you have done it
Even at 300 lbs I was still generally considered attractive by most girls (at least with a shirt on). I was built more like a tight end than a discord mod and I’m pretty tall and despite being 300 lbs I had relatively small waist. I looked pretty good: Full thick head of hair, strong cheek bones, full and forward cheeks, strong chin and jaw despite the fat, thick eyebrows, strong eye area, very nice skin.
Now being much much less heavy I feel I’m even more attractive and healthier. Like a bonus on a bonus. So I kinda get what you’re saying.
So basically just get buccal fat removal and slim down and bleach my hair and paint my eyebrows 😮
Yes if you have decent bones structure and good hair length. Otherwise you would need other surgeries like hair transplant or jaw implants.
Hey I have a question but right now I’m 15 years old and I have a diamond face shape but I do some soft features. Almost looking like a roundest face shape but not fully.
Will my face shape grow more shaper and more developed as I order or will I need to get plastic surgery in order to change my to face and jawline to get a more chiseled look
you never have to get plastic surgery as long as u are not disfigured. just continue breathing through your nose 24/7 (extremely important) and the babyfat in your fat will go away as you mature and later on cut your bodyfat lower. but for now focus on growing.
Certain foods and vitamins will also contribute.
ur only 15 ur face is still changing so dont worry about ur chizzeled look. try to copy those tiktok eboys
It's over bro
Yes your face will still develop, but one thing that is more important than anything is sleeping on your back. trust me learn from my mistakes and you will have a symetrical face
ok fine, rude girls now want to talk to you, fine. Bro trust me, not sure i'd like to talk with a neglected girl myself... So can we hate them for rejecting a bad look, bad hygiene dude? Anyway, explain me now, will it help you to find the woman of your life, or just childish women to hit?
I 100% agree with you on this im suffering this atm about my looks im quite skinny now but tbh no girls have changed have not changed how they treat me yet.... but my face is pretty chubby even though i've lost weight but i'm hoping i can change my face even more the more weight i lose. but im like 13stone 8 atm and i'd say get 17-18% bodyfat. honestly considering get fillers in my face to see how my face would look with a chin augmentation. i'd say im 4.5/.10 and i'd love to go to 6/10
I had this problem too so I’m gonna tell you what the culprit is . Its sodium and high fructose corn syrup. your body doest react well with either.
Can you share the details about your diet? Did you restrict your calorie? If you do, how much?
Do you have loose skin after weithloss?
Im a nosepicker its my own fault, women stopped fucking their noses up by stopping nose picking in the 90s, thats why you rarely get a woman with stretched out nostrils
Hey man how did you get that great jawline?
Post the money maxing guide bro. I need it to surgery max
Lose the blonde. Go with your natural hair color and you'll instantly move up a point or 2
Women approach YOU first at times??!! Alright, I'm sold on the power of looksmaxxing. I will never bother trying to pursue anyone again. If I ever achieve a great look, I'll just let them come to me 😊
I can confirm, I get approached by women a lot. 😅
'Players get chosen' - this is nothing new. Listen to more Texas / Houston rap for a better understanding.
Yup ! Looksmaxxing is key
the blonde hair is too much bro
How old are you? I need some motivation
How tall are you?
Red pill does not say you just need money and status bro...
The first 3 recommendation from red pill is lift lift lift...
So real
vaulty is that you?
That hair color is very draining for your skin tone - it washes you out. It also needs more shape, Book yourself in with a proper hairstylist. That bright red is too much of a contrast when you don’t have a tan. A tan and an analysis of Colours that suit you- that red is a no-no. Small changes would bring you up so much (even higher than already)! . Cool video. 👍
I'll have double jaw surgery in two days. I expect it too lol, I'll have so much movements
look is important but not as mutch for guys if you are at least 5,9 or 175 cm and fit without acne with charisma then you are good to go women find good looking guys who can bring them emotion and make then laught (im a 6ft guy with 6pack but broke as fuc*)
all you are saying is true
his hair💀
Have you gotten jaw fillers or anything?
Even when you were overweight you had a nice forward chin. Good jaw genetics, you probably didn't even need chewing if you tried it.
What would you say your bf% is at currently?
Oil up blonde boy
it's the woman that chooses the man, ultimately. Of course chad can always pass on the offer. :)
Doesn't matter..you're tall
I'd like to improvemy looks significantly but it feels like so much work, and it may not be enough if you are not very tall anyway and you are already in your 30s. I guess porn is the way until I fall dead in my apartment or something.
Bro... No. Try it. Force yourself doing it. I lost 40 kg. Everything is better now.
@@hellucination9905 treadmill for ever
I cut to low BF % too but it had no effect because my face is ugly and I have no jawline 😆
Yes!!!! It’s facial attractiveness above everything else. The black was right all along
3 to 6
he's 9 in Thailand, LMAO
@@VargVikernes1488 True. He's 6'0, white and 6/10
Watching this after seeing the substance lmao
2:22 but even as a fat dude, your face was pretty chiseled, we even could see your chin definition clearly, and there were a lil bit of shadows below your cheekbones beside your lips/nose tip area. And you pretty much didn't have a double chin, so you prolly already have a really nice base under those fats, you had it way better above the avg man. You were just fat. You weren't fat and ugly. Almost all your glow up could be credited to losing weight alone
Not a chad? You definitely are one now dude.
No máximo chadlight no Brasil
Above average for sure but facially not chad , look like he hiding some bad hairline too
@@agony308 no Brasil ele tá a anos luz da média.
@@JoaoSilva22222 De altura e BF% sim mas o rosto impede de ser Chad
@@agony308he's got the chad jaw though.
Can u please make a Video how to get a better skin?
it's strange your body is not that lean, but your face is very lean. Im the other way, lean body, moon face. I have to get 8% bodyfat to even get sunk in cheeks
you look like danidev
Tutorial