Technically yes. That's what you have to have in your mind. Not only is it true, that's what THEY need to know. We keep putting ourselves below them for no reason. That's the problem.
Women are like Cats. Cats keep options. You ARE just Another option. Cats have 5 different houses as options and you think your cat loves you. It does. Until you stop giving it what it wants. Meanwhile Dogs love you, because you Exist.
Exactly! You don't have to actually tell them they are in the friend zone. You just encourage them to make that decision on their own. Let them think they friend zoned you. Breaking up with a woman works the same way. Be too affectionate, too needy, too romantic and sweet, tell them you love them too soon, and POOF!!! They will disappear like a rabbit in a magic hat. Or, set boundaries and don't do anything for them for free. If they need some work done on a car, or plumbing, or yard, or house, quote them a price or give them a referral, and always go dutch. If they aren't willing to invest or pay you for your time and labor, they are just using you. It's different if you are married or in a long term relationship where there is reciprocation through trade offs, but without some kind of return on your investment they are just using you.
act like you like a girl and be her friend. Do a couple of nice things with her and make her feel comfortable around you. However, don't make her a priority. It's imperative that you have better things to do in her eyes. I don't care if you have to lie about going out with another girl and you're just staying home to play xbox with the boys, She can not feel like she has you because you're always available. Never ever mention your feelings literally ever, and always refer to her as a friend. This is my friend so & so to whoever you introduce her to. Watch what happens when you make a girl who likes to hang out with you "just a friend".
All these games makes love in yourself, to be able to ignores a girl, and her actitudes make you stronger than if you walk away fron them, when you can stay in balance with her without her, nothing can you move again, only your love in you, they only want a man that loves himself more than her, easy brother, firstly you get pain, but your scars will be healted with your own mind and love
@@frankato7244 only in the "west" and with these ugly types like in the video. In other countries women are not afraid to smile and look at the person.
Could be true, OR she could just be trying to create content for her socials/YT. When you feel pressured to come up with content every day or 2, you become less & less selective about what u post
Middle-aged dude here with some experience travelling around the block. Whether it's just sex you're looking for or a meaningful relationship, the only thing you'll ever truly need in attracting women is good and solid self-confidence. And no, I don't mean arrogance or conceit or any kind of showboating or tough-talking, swaggering posturing BS,... but confidence: a sincere belief in yourself, your capabilities and value as a person that comes from within, and is not defined by anything external to you. You develop that, then you have a far greater chance in attracting the woman who is truly right for you, without needing to resort to any of these mind games. I won't say that self-confidence will protect you from a broken heart...but it most certainly will ensure that you'll always be able to pick yourself up off the canvass, heal-up, and get back in the game of life, like any true Warrior.
Women just want to feel safe so that they can be in a ventral vagal state where true love and compassion can take place. Any type of negative belief about yourself or about women will throw you into a fight/flight mode that shuts off this connection. It takes a lot of work on self to replace all the negative programming with positive
@puppylove3781 perhaps, but the concepts can applied to anyone, simply be more confident in yourself, regardless if Chad or incel. Put out positive energy , get positive back, provided it's properly placed.
This is completely true. I've known many 3s and 4s who end up with decent women just because they are too dumb to realize that they are 3s and 4s. Women can't actually see reality. They believe what you believe. A women would rather be with a skinny fat 4 with a dead end job who has confidence then a 7 with a decent job and who is in shape who is internally self-critical.
I agree Women want a man who is handsome, and then better in every aspect Taller stronger more intelligent makes more money etc Hence men always marry down Women always marry up. They get the better deal But somehow think they are the prize 😂😂 [ Update ] If a nice looking young woman with a good job married an older poor guy Yeah we could say he won a prize
@@joebloe4374 Not necessarily. I'm always being told I'm good looking, and I lead an interesting life, have a higher salary than most, and am fairly confident in how I approach women. Yet only 5s and 6s ever respond to my Instagram messages.
@@poetsrear fr, people forget we men literally allowed this to happen by letting social norms erode. Women used to be 3x better quality because the norm in society was that a women took care of the house, while men went out and provided for the family. it provided structure but now we've lost a lot of that in the west.
That explains why social media is flooded with videos of brokenhearted girls crying their heart out how guys break their hearts. If you are only attracted to who doesn't want you, what do you think is going to happen?
When they complain about a guy breaking their heart or cheating on them they're secretly gloating that their man is desired by other women. It's a badge of honor.
If the woman is particularly attractive and/or she is used to easy male attention, likely had more then a few experiences with extra creepy desperate dudes at some point, the guy that doesn't seem all that into her but she's attracted enough to becomes intriguing and appealing. He's unusual. It heightens his status in her eyes, as he seems like a guy that's used to having pretty girls and can handle them. It can become an ego-trip to get him to like her or at the very least, becomes much easier for the guy to get a date with her. So yeah that's probably what happened to you.
This reality objectifies them. Not men. The fact that they are illogical self-indulged creatures that love to trick and be tricked, makes them look less like an aware & cognizant subject who is capable of choice & individuality and more like a dumb object that one has to play childish cat&mouse games with. Ain't got time to play childrens games. Unless it was with actual children, born from an actual woman.
May I ask, What are the actual health benefits of being an Adonis level Chad? According to science, Shorter men actually have longer life span (I'm 6 2). Also, low body fat levels can lead to more everyday sickness and less energy. Maybe less impulse control too.
Just go to Google and search : "low body fat high muscle mass increase health risks" and it will give you positives and negatives. This is just like everything else, with the exception of obesity.
It’s not that hard to become good looking. I used to be below below average and two years later now I look better than ever and in 3-4 months I will be shredded and look really good. Just looksmax
This only "works" if she's already attracted to you. I don't make moves on women and no one ever shows interest in me. Any woman I've been with, I had to make the first move.
Red Flag to me is when a woman goes straight to Social Media and tell the whole world your personal business, instead of keeping it to herself. Young people these day are way too open on Social Media and they don't care about their own privacy.
Its better to expose all your flaws in public rather than have them hidden your whole life like people used to do. At least with that you have a better chance of seeing your own flaws and fixing them.
No, men purse and women choose. If her friend that likes her was Chad, they would be together. She’s just not attracted to this friend. The logic of, if you want a girl to like you, pay her no mind is baloney. If she’s not attracted to you, she won’t care that you pay her no mind bc she does the same to you.
True to an extent. A woman loses nothing by ending a conversation with a man she does not like. _Your type is what likes YOU_ Other types like someone else, and that's ok. Just don't waste your time and resources on the other type.
you're fantastically wrong. even justin bieber's wife recently asked him to separate their houses because he was getting clingy. and he's the chaddest of the chads. there's rules to this shit and if you go against the game you'll get penalized no matter how much SMV you have.
@@kaanyldz4814 She probably just got bored with him or maybe he didn’t have a good personality. You need the full package to keep a women. Looks just get you in the door. There’s been many woman that I payed no mind to and none showed interest in me. Even women that I pursued then left alone never showed interest in me after I left them alone. Bc there was no attraction in the first place. I hear women talk about how they try to get guys to show more interest in them. Only because they’re attracted to him. If they weren’t, they wouldn’t be talking to him in the first place.
Today with hypergamy and dating apps, if you look average you are invisible to women (women consider 80% of all men ugly). The more attractive you can become, the less effort you have to put in. Just try to maximize your looks in every way possible. You'd be surprised how different your face looks with a lower bodyfat %. It makes wearing stylish/fitting clothes more fun too.
This is a very common recommendation to men. It's not necessarily bad but it leaves out a very valuable part of a man's life. It "advertises" well but it's also inauthentic and puts the desires of women over men. You may end up "winning over a woman" while losing your self-identity in the process. More men need to stop being what women want and becoming what makes themselves happy for the rest of their lives.
You pretty much nailed it... once I got into really good shape I don't have to do shit..they come to me and offer to take me out on dates and even pay 😅
Remember that a lot of this is warped by the unusual feminist society we live in. For most of human history, the relationship dynamics were totally different with men holding all the power. Feminist societies never last and we are seeing our civilization crumble in real time because of it
The reason most all societies were patriarchies is because 1) only patriarchies reproduce. If men are not above women, women are not attracted to men. Women become disinterested in mating and men become dejected and stop participating (see mouse utopia) and 2) patriarchies physically conquer any other form of society. Therefore, patriarchy necessary and inevitable
Remember guys, women are emotional creatures. The most important thing is how you make them feel. This means that they need more time than us, visual creatures. That's why you do need to give them space away from you to develop feelings, and as time goes on, she will start pursuing (that is, initiating contact).
Fook all that noise! Yeah, life is too short for all that bullish, and women today don’t have the juice worth all the squeezing anymore. Most have double digit body counts by the time they leave college, and can no longer pair bond anyway. That’s on top of all kinds of other issues like mental illness, and obesity. Don’t waste your time fellas. I know this is a hard pill to swallow, but if you do t lock one down before they enter college, or find one who isn’t interested in college, you’re kind of screwed as far as having a long term successor marriage with the kids and picket fence.
All women are crazy. Just some are crazier than others. When I was younger I went to a local pool hall to hang out and have some fun. Learned quick that all you have to do is make yourself available and act like you don't give a crap about them, they will want to hang with you. Go figure that one!
You can most definitely like women, but they need to be a part of the liking process. You can NOT rob the process from her by liking her before they're way ahead in the process. The nice guy likes her from the get-go thus robbing her of the entire experience, and THAT is why they don't like the nice guys
This "process" you're talking about means both man and woman need to grow to like each other together, right? If that's the case, how is that process suppose to happen in our current hook up culture? Seems impossible since the process needs time and effort.
No they don't like them because they just don't like em. It's not that complicated. She either likes you or she doesn't. Most women are not gonna find you attractive for many reasons. Each woman has her own perception of what that is. If you don't fit the narrative it doesn't matter what you look like, have or command she doesn't give a shit. Yeah you can pump and dump and let her have buyers remorse if you fabricate the situation but that's about it.
This has also been my experience. If I’m interested in a girl, she doesn’t like me back. If a girl is interested in me, but I don’t or can’t reciprocate her feelings, she falls for me really hard.
I'm incredibly lucky to still be with my gf I met in high school 6 years ago. Social media has truly destroyed us. Stay strong fellas, and try your best to find a nice girl out in public.
I agree. Modern society has conned men into believing that having a lot of gfs or sleeping with a lot of women makes them "better" than other men. It's the same daily lie taught to men that money, power, status are needed by men to be happy.
Your conceptual understanding of Love is completely immature and subpar. You don't know what you are talking about. What you mean is "affection" or "attachment". Completely material emotions. Love is not an emotion to begin with. If you knew even a slight whiff of True Love, you would be stricktly incapable of spouting out nonsense like that. Just saying. Thrown your own smallness out of the window, not universal truths.
From my experience as a handsome man, you need to find a woman who adores you and can’t wait to spend time with you. She’ll even text you. You can get to this stage sometimes by going on a first date and not acting overly interested at the end. If she likes you, she’ll compliment you during the date or ask if you’ll see each other again. ‘Yeah sure’.
The only way you’re ever going to get a woman to like you first is if you show that you have wealth and power because those are the only two things a woman is going to want a “mate” for
Actually they just want to feel safe with you, after that you can make an emotional connection that leads to a relationship. Most men are so creepy and know nothing about women so they instantly make women want to flee in danger. Having manipulation tactics or flashy material things can trick a woman into a relationship but it won't be a pretty one
What a clown backwards world we live in now. Every generation is going to get worse and worse. In the 90s and before, if a girl saw that you liked her, she would feel happy knowing that she can attract a man. Comparability might not have been always there. but that feeling that someone like me was the ultimate prize. Now its like Pffft whatever. And I totally agree with the woman choosing the man. You can try pulling out all the stops, if she does not like you for who you are. Nothing in the world will change that. Even if you are a totally awesome, kind, happy, successful human being
You have to pursue them a little in the beginning but it’s an extremely fine line. Overpursuing is poison. Start to taper off pretty quickly and let her do 70-100% of the reaching out
If all these youtube gurus gave men the solution to find love, their business would be over. Just think of what the pharmaceutical indistry does.... It's pretty much the same. Also it's pretty sure most of these youtubers have no clue whatsoever.
Yeah, my personal life experience has taught me to never listen to anything coming out of a woman's mouth. Doesn't matter here anyway because I don't know WTF she was talking about anyhow. He did, so maybe he speaks Woman. But I'm not that attractive and I crush women! I mean I slay the female species! It's ALL about; COMPLETELY about being THAT guy! You have to walk through life going after EVERYTHING you desire as if it's a matter of life or death! Once you start living on a day to day moment to moment lifestyle where the only thing that matters is what is absolutely necessary for your desire to be met, you will develop into a man that chooses whomever he want to choose!
This is why I gave up on women. Too much bs games and reverse psychology. Hard to believe in something real founded on something fake. I've also experienced their sick sense of what really makes them attracted to a man. I was going through them (not bragging but telling) when they knew I was married and other women sought after me. Once I got divorced they didn't bother looking my way. They need the drama. So as a man if you want a peaceful life it's hard to see that with a women because they get bored of peaceful
Well that's great because I've been acting like I'm not interested in women my entire life. Mainly because I'm too scared to talk to them. It does give you the advantage (to a point, then they start to actually think you don't like them)
Yea they’ll be attracted to you if you leave them alone, but only if you’re the hot guy with money and muscles etc. normal guys who don’t put in effort, they get ignored.
Really, the common denominator is they have to be attracted to you in the first place. The denial puts them in a place of deficit and status inferiority which is another layer of attraction
@@Letstalklittyif the man has built up real attraction first. But you should be more empathic to men as mostly only Tyrones get choose me signals on the street. The rest of men are ignored. Do you get their struggle now?
CaptainJosue is right. As a 44 year old man who never got married, no kids and being single for more than 16 years I totally agree with. It amazes me how women put so much energy on fear and insecurity within themselves unnecessarily. Because of this, it makes me mind my own business and enjoy my hobbies on my terms. Gotta love life because of it and of course I am grateful for it.
Most of my male friends who are in relationships or are married live either good lives or miserable lives. No one is living an AMAZING wonderful life. And they aren't traveling but are in debt, have kids that are driving them to financial ruin, some friends got divorced raped and took YEARS to recover. I love women but sometimes I wonder if it's worth it with them. I love sex, I love women but is it worth it
Most women say they want certain things, but once they get exactly what they want they find excuses to throw it away. Work on yourself, level up and cut the shit with women who play games. You don't need that drama and drain of your energy. Go forth and make the world a better place.
That’s why you should only go after people like you. I’m a women and also hate games, if I like someone I say it, if it’s not reciprocated ok, move on… but there’s also no coming back. A guy I had something more and thought would go somewhere wanted to became friends so I said “ok, but there’s no coming back” he was confused and asking why, still tried to go back to how it was months after that… it’s been more than a year and he still trying even though I said multiple times that it’s not gonna happen. Some people need to seek therapy asap. Stop chasing people for validation and playing with them. It’s pointless.
@@DevilsAdvocate619 HE was the one wanting to be just friends and as an adult that appreciates his company I was ok with it LOL his mistake was thinking I would go back to having more, I’m not a toy honey, I gave him a change and he didn’t wanted anything serious which is fine, but I don’t like casual. I’m always very clear. Not every women plays with men for entertainment, attention or money… if you have only found women like that your looking into the wrong places (clubs/bars…)
Never chase, when you are at the right time, everything come together. You never run behind, they will make it clear to you. You also have to be in the best form possible, physically, financially in a good standing in the society.
Most woman tell me I'm cute or look good behind with other women. Majority of the time, I find out indirectly. The only time I found this out directly was with one of my ex, she said I look good but just gotta lose some weight. (I got a dad bod) I noticed the moment I start focusing on losing weight and eating more clean. Women start eye balling me or they start random conversations to get to know me better. If they don't love JESUS, you ain't getting past the talking stage with me. JESUS IS COMING
It's just easier if you make your intention and interest known up front. Some might be put off but who cares? You can have women as friends platonically, this is not a problem if you keep things neat. Just don't use "friendship" as a relationship strategy. I think that's counter productive.
In my time, certain women who were the most attracted to me were the ones I not only actively ignored, but it flat-out p!ssed them off that I kept on avoiding them (particularly the ones with boyfriends, but that didn’t stop their pursuit of me). It got to the point where their need to be around me became obvious, annoying and unattractive. And I hardly considering myself any kind of Lothario or expert in this kind of thing, but it was a keen insight into female behavior.
Men & Women are physically mentally spiritually and emotionally not meant to be “friends”! This entire concept is ridiculous. Any girl I was ever friends with I typically had an attraction too. Whether it is merely physical or more emotional doesn’t matter. Men and women are meant to be Lovers & Companions for LIFE!! Why is this so hard for people to comprehend.
This video could be a new drinking game. One team drinks everytime she says "Like" and one team drinks when she says "bro" and see who gets drunk first.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with telling a woman, not a girl like this one, that you like her and you have feelings for her when you feel the conditions are right to do so. Is a very mature thing to do, but only if she deserves it and is not playing stupid games. It should always be reciprocal.
I don't think we can stress the point that you have to be attractive in the first place to play it aloof. If you're not excelling in at least a couple of areas, the best you can do is simp. I think we need a new way to keep the human species going.
“ToO NiCe” equals, “I don’t like you but I’m going to make it YOUR fault.” All this “suspense” and “mystery” is bullshit. If they like you, they’ll fawn over you. If they don’t, you’re invisible. Move on.
None of these videos are good advice for doing anything but hooking up. Real lasting relationships do not work well when people need to have a "power dynamic" back and forth. That does not make for a good long term relationship and makes for an even worse marriage. Men, if you want to spend the rest of your lives proving your "value" to women, you are wasting your time. You need to value YOURSELF first and foremost and if women can't deal with it, it's not your problem. Don't treat life like it's some stupid game to be won or lost. John Lennon had it right when he sung "I just had to let it go."
if ur in the friend zone ur already gone. if u married her ur already going to hell. if u chose to not participate and replace..... u won the keys to the kingdom.
Guys, don't complicate shit, don't lie to yourself. If you find her pretty go ask her out, tell her the truth. Be blunt. That's what a man does. Don't play games. All these value shit only to feed the urge of fucking someone is inmature and pathetic. When you have the right mindset of trying to find a partner, a good person etc you will have the guts.
I've been married for 20 years, and I've noticed that most happily married couples I know have open communication about their emotions. Additionally, 60% to 80% of these marriages started with the woman choosing a suitor she had feelings for. The gaming strategy you mentioned don't seem to exist when observed from the result end - the outcome of a happy marriage.
The gaming strategy this guy is talking about is directed at short-term conquest, not lasting relationships. If men and women have to play those "power dynamic games" for very long they don't stay together.
It's a lose - lose game for average men because we don't stand out to begin with. When we do try to stand out, it's unattractive like you said. But if we take your advice and try to not stand out, then we don't even get noticed. Lose lose if you're trying to date as an average man.
Men are the prize, because THEY have the money. And whoever has the money is in control. Remember that girls are not attracted to a guy, they are attracted to his money. And a boyfriend that has a lot of money raises a woman's status among her friends.
Like I hate the way these people like use the word ‘like’. It’s like constant, and it’s like irritating. That said: yeah, life is soooo much easier when the gal digs you and lets you know it. I’m no charmer, and of mere average looks. And while I keep myself in decent condition, I’m no fanatic about exercise. Yet women, many of them very hot, have always come my way. Which is a blessing because I’m not one of those guys who could just pick up women. I think many guys get too fixated. They set their sights on girl A, and will do anything to get her… all the while ignoring girls B C D and E, who all have been trying to get his attention.
How to be desirable by women: Just be above average. That’s it. Work on your body, have a slim waist, broad shoulders, strong arms, and slightly visible abs. If you’re short, wear lifts/insoles. Dress nice, it’s winter so wear peacoats or long coats, and have a fitting hairstyle. Be charismatic, and playful when you interact with people. Dont be a bum and have a job and your shit together. Youre welcome.
that girl danyella is at her late 20s, on a relationship but make some silly vid some are satire vid like this. she's a familiar face in the manosphere. shes not young, she knows what shes doing
It's true. When I was in college I had a hard time getting over insecurity bullshit and getting with the girl I had feelings for. In my pursuit I had 3 other women express interesting in dating. I lied to them and said I wasn't interested in dealing with a relationship. Truth was I just didn't want to hurt their feelings or confess that I had a crush on a different girl (who 2 of them knew). I ended up dating all 3 of them at the same time (but separately) they all knew and had no problem with it. It's actually one of the only true regrets I have in life. I dated 3 great women and ruined it just because I couldn't get over being sad about not getting get the one I wanted.
The more attention I give this girl at work, the less interested she is. If I completely ignore her, she is constantly coming over to ask me things. Go figure. 🤷🏻♂
Don't girls need time to know if they like someone? Like I've heard a lot of times OMG I had a huge crush on guy X but then he opened his mouth or something. I think women look more on the inside(social skills and personality) and surrounding (like money or status) of a guy to know they like him not mostly looks and guys kind of all ready know if they like a girl just by thinking she's pretty. Ofc she also has to have a brain but just not as much. I think that's a reason why women should be approached by guys. Also it depends if you just want to hookup or a serious relationship.
Ignoring a woman only works if you are a chad in the first place. If you are not attractive enough then she doesn't care and you just wasted your own time bro
do sports enough to be fit - take care of you, if you go bald, fix that... and make enough money so that you can do what you want within reason, like maybe you can not buy a plane, but you can buy a mercedes and have your own place, etc. Be sure of yourself, lead by example. Then just go out and watch them invite themselves to your place even if you do not give them attention and clearly do not want, because you will be a top man.... above most. Goes without saying be a decent human, romantic, etc - the usual relationship stuff. With experience, you will also get good in bed. Then you do not need to play anything, you can say you are direct and that the past women who played games just got to play them alone, you have enough chasing you to be selective - and watch her give up games and be submissive and so on. Again, because many will try to be like that to get you but are not that type of person, in some cases it will not last as they can not pretend forever, but you will also find enough women who are real and tired of bullshit.
I am not sure any of this advice is good. Women have rules that they change as fast as the feelings they have. I think if you want a girl like this, you probably need to go push pull and game her, but you need the confidence to control the dynamic. If you let her control the dynamics, you have lost the game.
Id rather just die alone than participating in this circus.
Me too, it has become a circus.
Agreed. This shit is harder than rocket science
A.K.A. "I can't lose if I don't play".
Why can't we just mate like other animals, seems easier for them.
@@LiberatedMind1Good luck trying to mount someone at the grocery store, ill see you on the news
If women are like this than I'm actually higher value than all of them because my brain isn't broken.
Since you higher value than them, you shouldn't chase them
The cure is to value sunlight, clean air, healthy food, exercise, hobbies, and most of all: silence.
Technically yes. That's what you have to have in your mind. Not only is it true, that's what THEY need to know. We keep putting ourselves below them for no reason. That's the problem.
Based
Actually 300 IQ.
I have women coworkers who complain about how good their boyfriends treat them. You read it right. They complain.
In other words, soon-to-be ex-boyfriends.
@ precisely.
Yeah they prefer you to treat em like trash. Its like a badge of honor.
Saw this on divorce court. NEVER EVER HAPPY!
Women are like Cats.
Cats keep options.
You ARE just Another option.
Cats have 5 different houses as options and you think your cat loves you.
It does. Until you stop giving it what it wants.
Meanwhile Dogs love you, because you Exist.
If I want to friend zone a woman, I just act really kind and sweet to her
Works everytime. And if I want some girl to dislike me i always go for I think I'm falling for you. Works 10/10 times.
It's always worked for me. Admittedly, there was a drought on poontang but on the plus side it enabled me to pay off my first house.
Exactly! You don't have to actually tell them they are in the friend zone. You just encourage them to make that decision on their own. Let them think they friend zoned you.
Breaking up with a woman works the same way. Be too affectionate, too needy, too romantic and sweet, tell them you love them too soon, and POOF!!! They will disappear like a rabbit in a magic hat. Or, set boundaries and don't do anything for them for free. If they need some work done on a car, or plumbing, or yard, or house, quote them a price or give them a referral, and always go dutch. If they aren't willing to invest or pay you for your time and labor, they are just using you. It's different if you are married or in a long term relationship where there is reciprocation through trade offs, but without some kind of return on your investment they are just using you.
Let the girl like me first? Well I'm doomed then, no one made a move on me for the last 20 years.
I know what you mean, l've been doomed for most of my life.
act like you like a girl and be her friend. Do a couple of nice things with her and make her feel comfortable around you. However, don't make her a priority. It's imperative that you have better things to do in her eyes. I don't care if you have to lie about going out with another girl and you're just staying home to play xbox with the boys, She can not feel like she has you because you're always available.
Never ever mention your feelings literally ever, and always refer to her as a friend. This is my friend so & so to whoever you introduce her to. Watch what happens when you make a girl who likes to hang out with you "just a friend".
wasn’t in the cards for you
@@offbeat173 yes
Wasted time. @@offbeat173
All these stupid games just to get a girlfriend/wife, no thanks.😊
All these games makes love in yourself, to be able to ignores a girl, and her actitudes make you stronger than if you walk away fron them, when you can stay in balance with her without her, nothing can you move again, only your love in you, they only want a man that loves himself more than her, easy brother, firstly you get pain, but your scars will be healted with your own mind and love
@@frankato7244 its a game & we're not playing it.
@@frankato7244 only in the "west" and with these ugly types like in the video. In other countries women are not afraid to smile and look at the person.
This isn't a game bro this is women's biology hypergamy is so real
@@toptiercrip Correct, you either acknowledge reality and use it to your benefit, or it will automatically work against you.
Not only does she want attention from those two guys, she went to social media to get more attention about it.
Could be true, OR she could just be trying to create content for her socials/YT. When you feel pressured to come up with content every day or 2, you become less & less selective about what u post
@@mrredisa.d.d.8566 How does that prove what he said wrong??
@@logan_wolfbecause creating content ≠ wanting attention
@@nyeguono False.
@@logan_wolf okay stay in your limiting beliefs then, suit yourself
Middle-aged dude here with some experience travelling around the block. Whether it's just sex you're looking for or a meaningful relationship, the only thing you'll ever truly need in attracting women is good and solid self-confidence. And no, I don't mean arrogance or conceit or any kind of showboating or tough-talking, swaggering posturing BS,... but confidence: a sincere belief in yourself, your capabilities and value as a person that comes from within, and is not defined by anything external to you. You develop that, then you have a far greater chance in attracting the woman who is truly right for you, without needing to resort to any of these mind games. I won't say that self-confidence will protect you from a broken heart...but it most certainly will ensure that you'll always be able to pick yourself up off the canvass, heal-up, and get back in the game of life, like any true Warrior.
wise words. thank you very much for sharing.
Women just want to feel safe so that they can be in a ventral vagal state where true love and compassion can take place. Any type of negative belief about yourself or about women will throw you into a fight/flight mode that shuts off this connection. It takes a lot of work on self to replace all the negative programming with positive
Says Chad.
@puppylove3781 perhaps, but the concepts can applied to anyone, simply be more confident in yourself, regardless if Chad or incel. Put out positive energy , get positive back, provided it's properly placed.
This is completely true. I've known many 3s and 4s who end up with decent women just because they are too dumb to realize that they are 3s and 4s. Women can't actually see reality. They believe what you believe. A women would rather be with a skinny fat 4 with a dead end job who has confidence then a 7 with a decent job and who is in shape who is internally self-critical.
If you meet a woman who doesn't play these sorts of games, marry her.
if you meet a woman who doesn't play these sorts of games, she's not a woman 😂
🫣🙄 quite a low bar there, boss. Lol
The bar is set in hell.
And when you meet your Unicorn, capture it
accept female nature for what it is bro. Stop complainin g !
I agree
Women want a man who is handsome, and then better in every aspect
Taller stronger more intelligent makes more money etc
Hence men always marry down
Women always marry up.
They get the better deal
But somehow think they are the prize
😂😂
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If a nice looking young woman with a good job married an older poor guy
Yeah we could say he won a prize
@@joebloe4374 Not necessarily. I'm always being told I'm good looking, and I lead an interesting life, have a higher salary than most, and am fairly confident in how I approach women. Yet only 5s and 6s ever respond to my Instagram messages.
Female logic
@@dasfx2895Also male logic, overvaluing walking talking dish-washing machines who are becoming increasingly useless.
@@poetsrear fr, people forget we men literally allowed this to happen by letting social norms erode. Women used to be 3x better quality because the norm in society was that a women took care of the house, while men went out and provided for the family. it provided structure but now we've lost a lot of that in the west.
Maybe 2nd prize amongst couples 🤡
That explains why social media is flooded with videos of brokenhearted girls crying their heart out how guys break their hearts. If you are only attracted to who doesn't want you, what do you think is going to happen?
good point
When they complain about a guy breaking their heart or cheating on them they're secretly gloating that their man is desired by other women. It's a badge of honor.
This has been my experience. Woman told me she likes me because I don't like her. They're backwards and frustrating.
Corrupt and primitive
If the woman is particularly attractive and/or she is used to easy male attention, likely had more then a few experiences with extra creepy desperate dudes at some point, the guy that doesn't seem all that into her but she's attracted enough to becomes intriguing and appealing. He's unusual. It heightens his status in her eyes, as he seems like a guy that's used to having pretty girls and can handle them. It can become an ego-trip to get him to like her or at the very least, becomes much easier for the guy to get a date with her. So yeah that's probably what happened to you.
This reality objectifies them. Not men.
The fact that they are illogical self-indulged creatures that love to trick and be tricked, makes them look less like an aware & cognizant subject who is capable of choice & individuality and more like a dumb object that one has to play childish cat&mouse games with.
Ain't got time to play childrens games.
Unless it was with actual children, born from an actual woman.
Man women are basically insane. The moment a man realizes this everything starts to make sense and they stop caring what women think.
They always want the "challenge" of attracting a guy. It's the FEMALE EGO.
Have my own place. Just bought a car CASH and have zero drama and all because I’m single. I choose happiness
Good for you my brother !!
Don't gave these bitches a chance they are extremely narcissistic they would ruin your peaceful life into chaos.
You have it right. There is no woman in the world who should have the power to rule your self-respect.
& porn obviously
Indifference only works for Chad. If you're not Adonis level attractive, she would prefer you act indifferent and leave her alone.
May I ask, What are the actual health benefits of being an Adonis level Chad? According to science, Shorter men actually have longer life span (I'm 6 2). Also, low body fat levels can lead to more everyday sickness and less energy. Maybe less impulse control too.
Just go to Google and search :
"low body fat high muscle mass increase health risks" and it will give you positives and negatives. This is just like everything else, with the exception of obesity.
Huh, who deleted my comment about the Google search for "low body fat high muscle mass health risks"?
It’s not that hard to become good looking. I used to be below below average and two years later now I look better than ever and in 3-4 months I will be shredded and look really good. Just looksmax
@@Blinkers2007GameDev Who's your plastic surgion ? Trainers name please ?
Asking a woman what attracts them is like asking a fish how to catch them.
The difference is that fish don’t want to be caught
@@shogunsteez2469 How do you know?
@@Mike-xq7ib So are you saying that fish actually want to be caught and removed from their natural habitat?
Overused NPC analogy
@@shogunsteez2469 Well until you've asked them you just don't know.
Best pick up line "oh boy look at this divorce waiting to happen"
I like this one: When a woman eyes you up and down ask if she is trying to find where to insert her debit card.
This only "works" if she's already attracted to you.
I don't make moves on women and no one ever shows interest in me. Any woman I've been with, I had to make the first move.
Yes, but they give you signals to make your move. Not all of them, but many of them.
Red Flag to me is when a woman goes straight to Social Media and tell the whole world your personal business, instead of keeping it to herself. Young people these day are way too open on Social Media and they don't care about their own privacy.
Its better to expose all your flaws in public rather than have them hidden your whole life like people used to do. At least with that you have a better chance of seeing your own flaws and fixing them.
@@apnwu369 That's absolutely insane.
No, men purse and women choose. If her friend that likes her was Chad, they would be together. She’s just not attracted to this friend.
The logic of, if you want a girl to like you, pay her no mind is baloney.
If she’s not attracted to you, she won’t care that you pay her no mind bc she does the same to you.
True to an extent. A woman loses nothing by ending a conversation with a man she does not like.
_Your type is what likes YOU_ Other types like someone else, and that's ok. Just don't waste your time and resources on the other type.
Why is this supposed to be unfair, are you demanding she like someone she doesn't or what. They aren't all dating "chad" obviously.
you're fantastically wrong. even justin bieber's wife recently asked him to separate their houses because he was getting clingy. and he's the chaddest of the chads. there's rules to this shit and if you go against the game you'll get penalized no matter how much SMV you have.
@@rotm4447 never said it was unfair and no I’m not demanding that she like someone that she doesn’t 😂😂
@@kaanyldz4814 She probably just got bored with him or maybe he didn’t have a good personality. You need the full package to keep a women. Looks just get you in the door.
There’s been many woman that I payed no mind to and none showed interest in me. Even women that I pursued then left alone never showed interest in me after I left them alone. Bc there was no attraction in the first place.
I hear women talk about how they try to get guys to show more interest in them. Only because they’re attracted to him. If they weren’t, they wouldn’t be talking to him in the first place.
Today with hypergamy and dating apps, if you look average you are invisible to women (women consider 80% of all men ugly). The more attractive you can become, the less effort you have to put in. Just try to maximize your looks in every way possible. You'd be surprised how different your face looks with a lower bodyfat %. It makes wearing stylish/fitting clothes more fun too.
facts
That 80% number was made up by the media! You know that, right? Women are full of shit with that 80%!! The real number is around 50%-60%!!
This is a very common recommendation to men. It's not necessarily bad but it leaves out a very valuable part of a man's life. It "advertises" well but it's also inauthentic and puts the desires of women over men. You may end up "winning over a woman" while losing your self-identity in the process. More men need to stop being what women want and becoming what makes themselves happy for the rest of their lives.
@@davestang5454 That, and it doesn't work for every men, but they treat it like it does. Some of us out here actually are butt-ugly.
You pretty much nailed it... once I got into really good shape I don't have to do shit..they come to me and offer to take me out on dates and even pay 😅
She was on my body heavy... until i started to really give her my all. Then i became an afterthought. Treat them right, but never put them first. Ever
she was on your body heavy?? how much did she weigh? 120kg ?? 😵
Remember that a lot of this is warped by the unusual feminist society we live in. For most of human history, the relationship dynamics were totally different with men holding all the power. Feminist societies never last and we are seeing our civilization crumble in real time because of it
No shit. Kamala is running for President
Women have always held all the power. They say yes or no. We don't.
The reason most all societies were patriarchies is because 1) only patriarchies reproduce. If men are not above women, women are not attracted to men. Women become disinterested in mating and men become dejected and stop participating (see mouse utopia) and 2) patriarchies physically conquer any other form of society. Therefore, patriarchy necessary and inevitable
The west is lost
*jewish society
Fixed that for you
Remember guys, women are emotional creatures. The most important thing is how you make them feel. This means that they need more time than us, visual creatures. That's why you do need to give them space away from you to develop feelings, and as time goes on, she will start pursuing (that is, initiating contact).
Fook all that noise! Yeah, life is too short for all that bullish, and women today don’t have the juice worth all the squeezing anymore. Most have double digit body counts by the time they leave college, and can no longer pair bond anyway. That’s on top of all kinds of other issues like mental illness, and obesity. Don’t waste your time fellas. I know this is a hard pill to swallow, but if you do t lock one down before they enter college, or find one who isn’t interested in college, you’re kind of screwed as far as having a long term successor marriage with the kids and picket fence.
It's a lie made by "pickup gurus", as when there is a divorce how good are at math.
@@honkhonk1555 just pump and dump then ?
@@satyam168 ewww. That’s awful man. You’re better than that fren.
@@honkhonk1555 not really
I don't care to be honest
Waste of time something I can’t afford, CAUSE I RATHER RESPECTING MY SELF, than chasing a CHAD CHASER 🤔😢
You got it right. Don't try to "win women over" in some stupid endless game .
All women are crazy. Just some are crazier than others.
When I was younger I went to a local pool hall to hang out and have some fun. Learned quick that all you have to do is make yourself available and act like you don't give a crap about them, they will want to hang with you. Go figure that one!
You can most definitely like women, but they need to be a part of the liking process.
You can NOT rob the process from her by liking her before they're way ahead in the process.
The nice guy likes her from the get-go thus robbing her of the entire experience, and THAT is why they don't like the nice guys
Well said.
This "process" you're talking about means both man and woman need to grow to like each other together, right?
If that's the case, how is that process suppose to happen in our current hook up culture? Seems impossible since the process needs time and effort.
No they don't like them because they just don't like em. It's not that complicated. She either likes you or she doesn't. Most women are not gonna find you attractive for many reasons. Each woman has her own perception of what that is. If you don't fit the narrative it doesn't matter what you look like, have or command she doesn't give a shit. Yeah you can pump and dump and let her have buyers remorse if you fabricate the situation but that's about it.
this.
@@ut07u can make a girl who wasn't attracted to u BECOME attracted to u buddy show the right traits
This has also been my experience.
If I’m interested in a girl, she doesn’t like me back.
If a girl is interested in me, but I don’t or can’t reciprocate her feelings, she falls for me really hard.
I learned that at age 17 and lived by it.
I'm incredibly lucky to still be with my gf I met in high school 6 years ago. Social media has truly destroyed us. Stay strong fellas, and try your best to find a nice girl out in public.
I agree. Modern society has conned men into believing that having a lot of gfs or sleeping with a lot of women makes them "better" than other men. It's the same daily lie taught to men that money, power, status are needed by men to be happy.
*lowkey brag* i find this to be an odd comment lol
What her @ ... loyalty test
Good for you I hope she's serving you
Deny attraction, reject love, embrace life, profit.
Your conceptual understanding of Love is completely immature and subpar.
You don't know what you are talking about.
What you mean is "affection" or "attachment". Completely material emotions. Love is not an emotion to begin with. If you knew even a slight whiff of True Love, you would be stricktly incapable of spouting out nonsense like that.
Just saying. Thrown your own smallness out of the window, not universal truths.
I'm embracing my stock portfolio at this point in my life.
Modern women are completely out of their minds man. I keep playing my PlayStation 5.
Women live life on easy mode
In a men,'s built world
this is the problem
From my experience as a handsome man, you need to find a woman who adores you and can’t wait to spend time with you. She’ll even text you. You can get to this stage sometimes by going on a first date and not acting overly interested at the end. If she likes you, she’ll compliment you during the date or ask if you’ll see each other again. ‘Yeah sure’.
The sooner that guys can learn indifference, the happier they’ll be and the happier women will be.
She’s not wife material, she’s divorce material
Woman like being told with confidence.
It’s fairly simple to attract the ladies in my opinion
Are you freakin kidding me. These women don't even know what they want, and it changes with her cycle.
Just treat them like shit , they love it .. if you’re not making them cry . Your not doing it right
It‘s totally true! I never did that on purpose, but when they cry for you, it‘s really your turn!
The truth.
This is wrong ideology, don't let the right woman suffer for the sins of others
The only way you’re ever going to get a woman to like you first is if you show that you have wealth and power because those are the only two things a woman is going to want a “mate” for
Not true. Awakened eyes work too.
Also doesn't hurt to be tall
Actually they just want to feel safe with you, after that you can make an emotional connection that leads to a relationship. Most men are so creepy and know nothing about women so they instantly make women want to flee in danger. Having manipulation tactics or flashy material things can trick a woman into a relationship but it won't be a pretty one
What a clown backwards world we live in now. Every generation is going to get worse and worse. In the 90s and before, if a girl saw that you liked her, she would feel happy knowing that she can attract a man. Comparability might not have been always there. but that feeling that someone like me was the ultimate prize. Now its like Pffft whatever.
And I totally agree with the woman choosing the man. You can try pulling out all the stops, if she does not like you for who you are. Nothing in the world will change that. Even if you are a totally awesome, kind, happy, successful human being
You have to pursue them a little in the beginning but it’s an extremely fine line. Overpursuing is poison. Start to taper off pretty quickly and let her do 70-100% of the reaching out
1:10 "unmedicated and thriving", yes guys, that is our pool of western women to choose from, let that sink in...
What does that mean btw 😳
@@satyam168 Antidepressants more than likely. Or opiates if she's an addict
you guys always tell what not to do, but never what to do instead:D
If all these youtube gurus gave men the solution to find love, their business would be over. Just think of what the pharmaceutical indistry does.... It's pretty much the same.
Also it's pretty sure most of these youtubers have no clue whatsoever.
Yeah, my personal life experience has taught me to never listen to anything coming out of a woman's mouth. Doesn't matter here anyway because I don't know WTF she was talking about anyhow. He did, so maybe he speaks Woman.
But I'm not that attractive and I crush women! I mean I slay the female species!
It's ALL about; COMPLETELY about being THAT guy!
You have to walk through life going after EVERYTHING you desire as if it's a matter of life or death! Once you start living on a day to day moment to moment lifestyle where the only thing that matters is what is absolutely necessary for your desire to be met, you will develop into a man that chooses whomever he want to choose!
This is why I gave up on women. Too much bs games and reverse psychology. Hard to believe in something real founded on something fake.
I've also experienced their sick sense of what really makes them attracted to a man. I was going through them (not bragging but telling) when they knew I was married and other women sought after me. Once I got divorced they didn't bother looking my way. They need the drama. So as a man if you want a peaceful life it's hard to see that with a women because they get bored of peaceful
Well that's great because I've been acting like I'm not interested in women my entire life. Mainly because I'm too scared to talk to them.
It does give you the advantage (to a point, then they start to actually think you don't like them)
Basically, I talk to most women like I am talking to another guy these days. Try that and it will take most of the fear aspect away.
Yea they’ll be attracted to you if you leave them alone, but only if you’re the hot guy with money and muscles etc. normal guys who don’t put in effort, they get ignored.
Really, the common denominator is they have to be attracted to you in the first place. The denial puts them in a place of deficit and status inferiority which is another layer of attraction
Women don't like it when they know you like them.
I don't agree
@@Letstalklittyif the man has built up real attraction first. But you should be more empathic to men as mostly only Tyrones get choose me signals on the street. The rest of men are ignored. Do you get their struggle now?
CaptainJosue is right. As a 44 year old man who never got married, no kids and being single for more than 16 years I totally agree with. It amazes me how women put so much energy on fear and insecurity within themselves unnecessarily. Because of this, it makes me mind my own business and enjoy my hobbies on my terms. Gotta love life because of it and of course I am grateful for it.
Most of my male friends who are in relationships or are married live either good lives or miserable lives. No one is living an AMAZING wonderful life. And they aren't traveling but are in debt, have kids that are driving them to financial ruin, some friends got divorced raped and took YEARS to recover. I love women but sometimes I wonder if it's worth it with them. I love sex, I love women but is it worth it
@Letstalklitty basically one percent of men make 90% of babies
Never be friends with a woman you're interested in when YOU KNOW she's not into you.
Honestly it would save you a lot of time & heartache.
Id much rather have my dog who loves me for me and doesnt gaslight me into insanity everyday
Bro i hope you succeed on youtube🙏
Most women say they want certain things, but once they get exactly what they want they find excuses to throw it away.
Work on yourself, level up and cut the shit with women who play games. You don't need that drama and drain of your energy.
Go forth and make the world a better place.
Play games,waste time, mind games . Exhausting. Pointless. They chase Chad's. Very motivated .burning desire for chad
That’s why you should only go after people like you. I’m a women and also hate games, if I like someone I say it, if it’s not reciprocated ok, move on… but there’s also no coming back. A guy I had something more and thought would go somewhere wanted to became friends so I said “ok, but there’s no coming back” he was confused and asking why, still tried to go back to how it was months after that… it’s been more than a year and he still trying even though I said multiple times that it’s not gonna happen.
Some people need to seek therapy asap. Stop chasing people for validation and playing with them. It’s pointless.
@MA-xd9zl you love that attention don't you. Why else would you have him around 🤔
@@DevilsAdvocate619 HE was the one wanting to be just friends and as an adult that appreciates his company I was ok with it LOL his mistake was thinking I would go back to having more, I’m not a toy honey, I gave him a change and he didn’t wanted anything serious which is fine, but I don’t like casual. I’m always very clear. Not every women plays with men for entertainment, attention or money… if you have only found women like that your looking into the wrong places (clubs/bars…)
@@MA-xd9zl I meet women everywhere. I would never waste my time being a friend to a woman. What value is it being a friend to a woman?
@@DevilsAdvocate619 🤣🤣🤣 it just show you’re trash and belongs to the street, explains it all
I promise you not every girl is like this but I personally recommend being cautious around these kinda of toxic woman when you encounter then
Like I always say, play stupid games, win stupid prizes. If you cant be straight up and honest, then I'm not interested.
You're asking someone who wears makeup that lies to themselves everyday (for years), to be honest?they're not honest with themselves.
Never chase, when you are at the right time, everything come together. You never run behind, they will make it clear to you. You also have to be in the best form possible, physically, financially in a good standing in the society.
Most woman tell me I'm cute or look good behind with other women. Majority of the time, I find out indirectly. The only time I found this out directly was with one of my ex, she said I look good but just gotta lose some weight. (I got a dad bod)
I noticed the moment I start focusing on losing weight and eating more clean. Women start eye balling me or they start random conversations to get to know me better.
If they don't love JESUS, you ain't getting past the talking stage with me.
JESUS IS COMING
Like, like, literally, like, yaaaaghh! Like literally.
Totally
It's just easier if you make your intention and interest known up front. Some might be put off but who cares? You can have women as friends platonically, this is not a problem if you keep things neat. Just don't use "friendship" as a relationship strategy. I think that's counter productive.
Find a recept from a bank teller with a very large amount on it and write your number on the back, and give it to a woman.
We know who she's chasing/sharing!
In my time, certain women who were the most attracted to me were the ones I not only actively ignored, but it flat-out p!ssed them off that I kept on avoiding them (particularly the ones with boyfriends, but that didn’t stop their pursuit of me). It got to the point where their need to be around me became obvious, annoying and unattractive. And I hardly considering myself any kind of Lothario or expert in this kind of thing, but it was a keen insight into female behavior.
Men & Women are physically mentally spiritually and emotionally not meant to be “friends”! This entire concept is ridiculous. Any girl I was ever friends with I typically had an attraction too. Whether it is merely physical or more emotional doesn’t matter. Men and women are meant to be Lovers & Companions for LIFE!! Why is this so hard for people to comprehend.
This video could be a new drinking game. One team drinks everytime she says "Like" and one team drinks when she says "bro" and see who gets drunk first.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with telling a woman, not a girl like this one, that you like her and you have feelings for her when you feel the conditions are right to do so. Is a very mature thing to do, but only if she deserves it and is not playing stupid games. It should always be reciprocal.
Yeah man, all these stupid games. Treat people with respect, if they don’t respond they most likely aren’t worth any effort.
Jon Zherka said it best on how to act around women ‘the loadout is indifference’
I don't think we can stress the point that you have to be attractive in the first place to play it aloof. If you're not excelling in at least a couple of areas, the best you can do is simp. I think we need a new way to keep the human species going.
“ToO NiCe” equals, “I don’t like you but I’m going to make it YOUR fault.”
All this “suspense” and “mystery” is bullshit. If they like you, they’ll fawn over you. If they don’t, you’re invisible. Move on.
Guys, we are cooked
chat clip it
Not forever. Society and norms never remain static forever. Women won't always keep the leverage they currently have over men.
We really are cooked see you on the other side boys
Not for long. Once 99% of men will have left dating apps, things will change. Suddenly they will want us again.
Get your passport
So if a 5’2 balding Indian Janitor acts indifferent around women he’s more desirable?
None of these videos are good advice for doing anything but hooking up. Real lasting relationships do not work well when people need to have a "power dynamic" back and forth. That does not make for a good long term relationship and makes for an even worse marriage. Men, if you want to spend the rest of your lives proving your "value" to women, you are wasting your time. You need to value YOURSELF first and foremost and if women can't deal with it, it's not your problem. Don't treat life like it's some stupid game to be won or lost. John Lennon had it right when he sung "I just had to let it go."
if ur in the friend zone ur already gone. if u married her ur already going to hell. if u chose to not participate and replace..... u won the keys to the kingdom.
Guys, don't complicate shit, don't lie to yourself. If you find her pretty go ask her out, tell her the truth. Be blunt. That's what a man does. Don't play games. All these value shit only to feed the urge of fucking someone is inmature and pathetic. When you have the right mindset of trying to find a partner, a good person etc you will have the guts.
I've been married for 20 years, and I've noticed that most happily married couples I know have open communication about their emotions. Additionally, 60% to 80% of these marriages started with the woman choosing a suitor she had feelings for. The gaming strategy you mentioned don't seem to exist when observed from the result end - the outcome of a happy marriage.
The gaming strategy this guy is talking about is directed at short-term conquest, not lasting relationships. If men and women have to play those "power dynamic games" for very long they don't stay together.
but after they get bored, they'll feel like they were tricked into choosing wrong, and now its all your fault again
They only get bored when you become predictable
To think like this, she is definitely broken. Unfortunately, that's most of them. Afghanistan has the right idea
"Islam is right about women". Remember?
@@willylumpnj Well, aren't they?
I've had experiences with women that directly contradict what is said her, so it's not the truth....relationships aren't like math equations
And women wonder why their romantic relationships fail.
It's a lose - lose game for average men because we don't stand out to begin with. When we do try to stand out, it's unattractive like you said. But if we take your advice and try to not stand out, then we don't even get noticed. Lose lose if you're trying to date as an average man.
Men are the prize, because THEY have the money. And whoever has the money is in control. Remember that girls are not attracted to a guy, they are attracted to his money. And a boyfriend that has a lot of money raises a woman's status among her friends.
This is only 10% true. You have to be attractive. You don't need money. Separate yourself from other men.
Like I hate the way these people like use the word ‘like’. It’s like constant, and it’s like irritating.
That said: yeah, life is soooo much easier when the gal digs you and lets you know it. I’m no charmer, and of mere average looks. And while I keep myself in decent condition, I’m no fanatic about exercise. Yet women, many of them very hot, have always come my way. Which is a blessing because I’m not one of those guys who could just pick up women.
I think many guys get too fixated. They set their sights on girl A, and will do anything to get her… all the while ignoring girls B C D and E, who all have been trying to get his attention.
Have no patience or interest in modern women and their antics…
How to be desirable by women:
Just be above average. That’s it.
Work on your body, have a slim waist, broad shoulders, strong arms, and slightly visible abs. If you’re short, wear lifts/insoles. Dress nice, it’s winter so wear peacoats or long coats, and have a fitting hairstyle. Be charismatic, and playful when you interact with people. Dont be a bum and have a job and your shit together. Youre welcome.
Guys... I'm going to get my passport.
Well said, man, you're 100% correct
that girl danyella is at her late 20s, on a relationship but make some silly vid some are satire vid like this. she's a familiar face in the manosphere. shes not young, she knows what shes doing
Yeah she pops up on my feeds 😂
It's true. When I was in college I had a hard time getting over insecurity bullshit and getting with the girl I had feelings for. In my pursuit I had 3 other women express interesting in dating. I lied to them and said I wasn't interested in dealing with a relationship. Truth was I just didn't want to hurt their feelings or confess that I had a crush on a different girl (who 2 of them knew). I ended up dating all 3 of them at the same time (but separately) they all knew and had no problem with it. It's actually one of the only true regrets I have in life. I dated 3 great women and ruined it just because I couldn't get over being sad about not getting get the one I wanted.
She needs to say “like” a LOT more before we find her attractive 🙄
*It's not often that we hear such straightforward advice about attraction.*
This is not true. This is just low interest women. Women who.really like you wont have a problem with this
No truky happy woman has ever said this. All happy, long term couples are into each other.
It's something like reverse psychology. Unless it love at first sight then all bets are off.
The more attention I give this girl at work, the less interested she is. If I completely ignore her, she is constantly coming over to ask me things.
Go figure. 🤷🏻♂
She just likes your attention and is not that interested in you, you can just use her as a fwb if you play the game well enough.
Don't girls need time to know if they like someone? Like I've heard a lot of times OMG I had a huge crush on guy X but then he opened his mouth or something. I think women look more on the inside(social skills and personality) and surrounding (like money or status) of a guy to know they like him not mostly looks and guys kind of all ready know if they like a girl just by thinking she's pretty. Ofc she also has to have a brain but just not as much. I think that's a reason why women should be approached by guys. Also it depends if you just want to hookup or a serious relationship.
Ignoring a woman only works if you are a chad in the first place. If you are not attractive enough then she doesn't care and you just wasted your own time bro
"It's only after we have lost everything we are free to do anything".... Tyler Durden
“I was tellin my GUY FRIEND about my GUY FRIEND”… any clues here?
All broke people talking with each other
Hilarious! Any guy who puts up with this nonsense is completely wasting his valuable time. Life it way too short.
Yes! Be the guy she talks to her weak male friends about.
do sports enough to be fit - take care of you, if you go bald, fix that... and make enough money so that you can do what you want within reason, like maybe you can not buy a plane, but you can buy a mercedes and have your own place, etc. Be sure of yourself, lead by example. Then just go out and watch them invite themselves to your place even if you do not give them attention and clearly do not want, because you will be a top man.... above most. Goes without saying be a decent human, romantic, etc - the usual relationship stuff. With experience, you will also get good in bed. Then you do not need to play anything, you can say you are direct and that the past women who played games just got to play them alone, you have enough chasing you to be selective - and watch her give up games and be submissive and so on. Again, because many will try to be like that to get you but are not that type of person, in some cases it will not last as they can not pretend forever, but you will also find enough women who are real and tired of bullshit.
I am not sure any of this advice is good. Women have rules that they change as fast as the feelings they have. I think if you want a girl like this, you probably need to go push pull and game her, but you need the confidence to control the dynamic. If you let her control the dynamics, you have lost the game.
There's literally only reason any man would listen to this girl talk for longer than 5 minutes. And its not for her rapier wit.
Tried out Imperial King Pheromone cologne and now I’m basically a magnet for attention. No cap.